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Calisthenics. Invest in some resistance bands. Look up some exercises. Find a playground. Workout.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:20 PM
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You are right. I need to learn how to be more playful with women. I need to develop that frame of mind. Im so use to the whole damn concept of treating women just like how I treat other people. so I perhaps give off that friendly vibe?
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:30 AM
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Maybe you are right. I dont know exactly whats happening here. I just find myself losing that playful teasing vibe, so its hard for me to stay consistent and keep frame. Like all that behaviour of being an alpha feels well unnatural for me. I always feel like I am putting on an "act". To be honest. I don't know.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 12:29 AM
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Thanks for all your help. Your advice gave me hope. I'll definitely look into this. Cheers!
/r/askTRP07/11/16 08:51 PM
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You are right. Im not seductive at all. Im horrible at it. Infact I am very clueless. I've never been able to develop this skill successfully. When you are referring to The Star. How do I become this "Star"? Im still puzzled on how to go about it. What sort of things should I do to help me develop this skillset? Any books you would recommend to me on the subject?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:06 AM
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I dont know man. I try to be interesting but its difficult with women because there isn't a lot I can relate and the conversations remain futile. Im not a charmer, nor a natural, I couldn't describe myself as either of those. I do however do my best to listen and take an interest in what a woman is saying and revolve the conversation around her and her interest. So I always dig deeper into what they say. I am not good at telling stories. Its like most girls I meet have nothing interesting to say…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 12:08 AM
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Because I already lift. I don't plan on stopping. But I doubt thats the issue.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:11 AM
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I get you. I understand what you are trying to say. I've never gotten to know a girl after having sex with them. I am not expecting a disney fantasy love story. You are right. I do want all that cliche romance bullshit but I wouldn't draw it that deep. (Poetry, candles, romantic dinners etc aren't my thing) I just want a girl who is attracted for my personality. Not just because I have a big cock and good looks. Just having someone to regularly spend time and cuddle with. Would be nice. Like a b…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:31 PM
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Well I guess I'm fucked then. I don't know how to lead. So what advice would you give to someone who wants to learn how to lead?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:23 PM
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Thats pretty obvious. Everyone already knew that.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:22 PM
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Wtf are you on about? Where In my post did I shame other men like a woman? Enlighten me.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:19 PM
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Yes. I understood the difference. Red Pill = Truth and Reality Blue Pill = Blindness to the Truth and Fantasy I just see a lot of empahsis on "fucking" heaps of women. Spinning plates, pickup etc. Being an Alpha male who sleeps with heaps of women. Not to get married and settling down. Theres a lot of that advice running about. Having abundance etc. But I just can't force myself to "desire" or want "casual" sex with plenty of women. I do want sex. Just with one person who I care for.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:06 AM
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I guess its the whole idea of being comfortable with silence. Something ive been working on, so I don't put pressure on myself and end up trying to hard. I've just had this impression that everyone comes across as social butterflies. Ive seen how some people interact and well they never run out of anything to say. Theres always laughter, rapid flowing conversation etc. The conversations never run to a stand still. I see it all the time. Some girls do ask questions, do make an effort back when we…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:58 AM
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Wtf has that got to do with keeping a conversation flowing? I already lift.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:10 AM
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I don't but I guess I grew up in an environment where family members tend to have expectations of you.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 12:05 AM
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How do you get better at telling stories? Im very bad at going into depth on subjects because either I have a very poor memory or I struggle to remember every aspect or detail.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:34 PM
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Metal or Hardcore my friend. Listen to some The Ghost Inside, Despised Icon, Parkway Drive or Obey The Brave
/r/askTRP02/11/16 09:24 PM
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Yeah thats true. I find keeping my mind occupied helps. I rarely encounter sexual thoughts when im at the gym, work or occupied with some other productive activity. I should give meditation a serious try though. You should give your K9 password to a friend that you can trust to help you keep yourself accountable. Another thing is I find helps is just limiting how much I spend time at home. The longer im at home the stronger to watch porn, fap or play video games is. The more stressed out I am th…
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:27 PM
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Wow, and here I thought it was me who wrote this. Im in the same boat as you. Whens the last time you relapsed? Developing self discipline is one of the foundation stones of mastering self improvement. Do you get out of the house much? I find the only time I dont relapse is if i get out of my house.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:08 AM
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Im not good at reading into subtle information and I have difficulty reading between the lines. So I cant gather what you are trying to say. Can you please elaborate what you meant behind your post?
/r/askTRP01/11/16 08:44 PM
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I have high testosterone. My hormone levels are fine. Ive had blood tests done. All showed I was a physically healthy male. Anyhow It costs an arm and a leg to get a blood test done without a gp referral where I live. Everything has to be done through the public healthcare system.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 07:25 PM
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Shes enjoying the attention, shes acting like a cock tease. NEXT HER! Ive been in your shoes many times. The best approach is to just move on. Shes not interested plain and simple.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:49 PM
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Dude I dont do any of that. I dont whinge or bitch for things like going to the gym. I already lift with proper form and hit the gym on regular basis. Its more like when I get flustered or frustrated with something that I start to lose my patience and all I want to do is vent. I'll check the link out. Thanks
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:43 PM
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Yeah. I found that with my own mother. Shes very red pill. She was very understanding and empathetic with my situation as a young man. Recommended that I find myself a cougar for sexual company while I worked on myself. Its just more so the younger female relatives that dont understand my situation very well.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 09:48 AM
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Ive had average girls hit on me. Ive managed to hook up and get lays with these types before. Im actually decently good looking , but I wouldnt consider myself a chad or brad pitt (not trying to brag). Its just I struggle to land a date when I meet a girl in person. For example nearly every girl Ive asked out during my approaches says ""I have a boyfriend sorry" line so I try to break the shit test by saying something like "well, I don't care. I want to take you out for coffee so how about you g…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:52 AM
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True. I have the problem of being too logical. I really need to start learning how to be witty.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:11 AM
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Im not very well built but Im getting there.. I started off being very skinny so yes I was intimidated by bigger guys. But im still working on it by hitting the gym and following a calorie surplus diet for the last few months. Ive managed to put on over 20 pounds so far, and would like another 30 pounds to reach my ideal body weight. I was a incredible hardgainer. After I bulk up to my ideal physique, I will look into doing a combative sport. But its going to take me at least 2 more years of har…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:50 AM
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Thanks man. Seems like solid advice. Appreciate it alot!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:41 AM
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I didn't ask for your opinion. I came here to ask for constructive advice on how to deal with the situation im dealing with. You come across as a tool or just an obvious troll.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:38 AM
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Because I dont want to date someone who said she was single and then I find out she had a boyfriend without telling me. Ive had bad experiences with women like that. Too much drama and I dont like it when the boyfriend finds out and he ends up wanting to beat me to a pulp. Ive been threatened before. Last time I confronted a girl about it. She got really mad at me so I told her to go fuck herself. I know it shouldnt be an issue for me but its a big deal breaker for me. I dont know why.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:50 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I wouldn't even know how to come up with that. The thing is I'll be lying if I didn't say this. My appearance isnt the issue. Im quite lean so Ive bulked up recently to fix that, but im still far from my goal which is something im working on and women do compliment me on my looks. Im always called handsome or cute. Im above average looking. My sisters friends even tell her why is that im still single yet im good looking. But yes my game is off. Yes. Ive gone out and approa…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:41 PM
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I have went on dates with 5s and 6s. Either I find out they were cheating behind their boyfriends back and I cut them off or they have very high standards and expect a guy whos a 9 or a 10. Alot of women Ive found to have high expectations. Even average women... Even getting a date with a 5 or a 6 is incredibly hard
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:05 PM
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True. :/
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:34 PM
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I already lift. I already have natural high testosterone. It hasnt fixed my brain either. I struggled to learn and pay attention as a child. Even in high school I struggled. I have a nice lean body. Im not worried about my physical looks. That I can fix. I always use to be quite athletic, even did boxing for a while. But I cant force my brain into submission, ive tried and tried. But I always hit a wall. Its mentally and emotionally exhausting. I feel like I have constant brain fog, bad memory p…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:24 AM
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Fair enough. I dont blame you then. Im not understanding the part where you say " Like all the other guys will tell you too, it's just your turn with her." What are you trying to say?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:03 AM
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Why would only post wall women want intelligent men? I thought most women desired dating intelligent men. Why wouldn't they? Im not talking about someone whos a nerd.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:46 AM
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Then what are my other options? Ive tried everything. Physically I feel fine. Im healthy physically. But my brain feels fried, feels screwed up to the point I struggle with most things on a daily basis. Why wouldn't you recommend taking adderall?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:44 AM
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Not sure what the intention was behind your post? Sorry im not following. Are you suggesting that I should pursue treatment for ADHD and see if I can get medication? At the moment Im not sure if I have it, but I do have an appointment booked with a psychologist who specializes in ADHD. Have to go for an assessment.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:13 AM
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Im not very witty at all. I feel like I have very low social and emotional intelligence. How do I increase wit? Im very slow to react to conversation as I need time to process the information, I cant think on my feet. Most of my comments come off a bit immature but maybe I try too hard to be funny?. Im not sure if thats just me or if its because of my suspected ADHD which im waiting to get a confirmed diagnosis for. Ive been told I cant make "smart" jokes.. but then again with some other people …
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:12 AM
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For me it feels like a chore. How do you get to the point where you start enjoying it? So it doesnt feel like a chore? I find myself always feeling frustrated, getting annoyed and bitter.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:11 AM
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All good. I shouldn't have been so offended either. I wouldn't understand why someone would troll this subforum when theres legitimate posters asking for help. But I understand now where you were coming from. I already lift and am still lifting. Im trying to build up my physique so its a work in progress.. but Im good looking as many girls have complimented my facial features in the past. But im not rich, not highly educated and not very intelligent. Neither am I big. Im also just really bad soc…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:08 AM
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You are right. I know I should focus on myself. To become the man I desire to be. But a part of me also desires to have sex with women and pursue them. I wish there was a way I could just switch that desire off, it can be such a distraction.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 11:52 PM
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Whats with the trolling? I said I wasn't gay. I didnt come here to get ridiculed. I'm not attracted to men, I like women and I enjoy female company. Period. Yes I was having a bit of a rant. But in the end I was asking if someone who doesnt want to game, whos tired of the drama is better off going MGTOW or I should say Monk Mode until he sorts his shit out? Im trying to decide if I should opt out or play the game, and after doing many approaches, dates that lead me to no where. I cant decide if …
/r/askTRP24/10/16 11:48 PM
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I have read man. Several times. While I understood what the material is about. I have gone from a complete doormat to a guy whos more assertive and wouldnt let people push him around after reading it. I tend to now speak my mind when I know someone is trying to take advantage of me. When I know someone is using me I walk away and disregard them from my life. People now dont walk over me because I dont plead to their demands. No im not slaying pussy. I never had been. I haven't even had a girlfri…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 11:09 AM
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I read a lot of articles but honestly I should read more.. Its speaking what I find frustrating, I also have a very husky low voice so people don't I dont always understand me. I don't articulate what I want to say well enough. I can write it down without a sweat. How do you become more witty?
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:23 AM
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Yeah and thats bothered me. Is the fact I scored so low. Which didn't make any sense. I have a full time job. I can be independent. I have some form of education and I know I can think, and do things for myself. I could accept the fact that I wouldnt be super smart. But what do I tell people who start treating me like Im a dumbarse? Especially when I know Im not.. I know I shouldn't give a fuck. But its frustrating when people treat you as if you are incomponent to think for yourself. Im not dum…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:18 AM
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Quite bad. Like 76. On other IQ tests I scored well above 100. Its just the MENSA IQ test which I did bad in. No I did read it but I will have to reread it a few times to understand.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:58 PM
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It does seem something I can look at. All the past psychologists I saw did not suspect it at all. And the last one I saw suspected I had Aspergers Syndrome. But after doing some tests. That wasn't the case. I guess I will have to see my GP and ask them about it. The more read about my symptoms and the more I talk about it. The more it seems to be a case of ADHD ot ADD. I do have anxiety and depression. Done cognitive therapy and tried different anti depresssants. None of which worked at all for …
/r/askTRP13/10/16 09:10 PM
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I tell him that all the time. But he claims hes only trying to be truthful and hes not trying to hurt my feelings. That hes giving me the red pill medicine.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:20 PM
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Yes, all my blood tests showed that I was very healthy. Yeah Ive had low vitamin D but I always took supplements for that. I take a multivitamin everyday. I work out also. I don't live in the states however. But I have had a history of depression, which I still experience bouts of it from time to time.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:11 PM
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Yes. I took it with a friend who wanted to prove to me that I had low intelligence, so we both sat the MENSA test together, he scored much higher than me. And yes I did feel the pressure at the time. Ive done other IQ tests before and never scored so low. But the MENSA IQ test really hit the nail on the coffin.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:07 PM
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Yes I did an IQ test and scored really low. I do have poor brain processing speed and power. Can you tell me how you reached the same conclusion? Does higher IQ mean higher brain processing power? I did a MENSA IQ test and scored quite badly.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:56 PM
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Yes. It does. Even though Ive tried to debate with people like this. They all draw the same conclusion that there is something is wrong with me. I thought I was a smart person until they broke me down. Maybe I just meet a lot of assholes I guess?
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:52 PM
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I don't live in America. Some people do think I am smart. Its just when I surround myself around these people who consider themselves having superior intellect than the average person do they start thinking something is wrong with me. But yeah you are right. I should read more books.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:50 PM
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Yes, I use to be a hardcore gamer. I wouldn't say I am some sort of pro. But I do enjoy video games and am better than the average gamer.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:59 PM
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Thanks man, I appreciate your words of encouragment. I only came to this conclusion because the only people who say these things to me are the type of people who believe they are so smart. They see me as having inferior intelligence. Now I can't help if its true or not
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:54 PM
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10 to 15 minutes. Its not that writing is too difficult for me. Its that as soon I open my mouth that some people think Im dumb. I can't always articulate my sentences, I run out of things to say or I'm just a slow talker. I did the MENSA IQ test and scored quite low. Because I ran out of time to answer the questions properly. I did it with a friend and hes convinced I have low intelligence something which he suspected for a long time. (Hes one of those people who considsers himself having super…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:51 PM
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I already have high testosterone. That isn't my problem.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:42 PM
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