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| 0 | There is something deeply, and wholly transactional about relationships between men and women, can anyone relate to this?My concern is is sounds more like he is doing it in a beta bucks strategy, get a "house" get a girl, versus alpha strategy. Just saw this. I meant it as being, I'm only looking for sex, whereas the every girl is looking for sex and proficiency/high status/achievement/success. This is consistent with what I've read in evolutionary psychology of women tending to date across and up dominance hierarchies, whereas men do across and down dominance hierarchies. I absolutely do believe that on some leve… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | There is something deeply, and wholly transactional about relationships between men and women, can anyone relate to this?Since I'm in a definite bulking phase, bf% is in high teens. I haven't taken an official measurement because at my height I would need to get outrageously heavy to look fat. Definitely understand the skepticism, no worries. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | There is something deeply, and wholly transactional about relationships between men and women, can anyone relate to this?Since I'm in a definite bulking phase, bf% is in high teens. I haven't taken an official measurement because at my height I would need to get outrageously heavy to look fat. Definitely understand the skepticism, no worries. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | There is something deeply, and wholly transactional about relationships between men and women, can anyone relate to this?I don't feel I have elite facial aesthetics, but physically I think I'm in a pretty good place. I'm 6'5 and have been lifting for 5+ years. Can put up well over 2 plates on bench when healthy, and well over 4 plates on DL. Would be a lot higher but injuries have slowed progress. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Is this a soft next situation?I agree, she was bottom priority to me, but wouldn't you agree that if you call/text a girl a few times to setup a meet, that shows you're adequately interested? And I actually think she's a cool girl too, it isn't some RP alpha boner syndrome where I just don't give AF about anything | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Is this a soft next situation?I wish I was better at this part of the game | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Is this a soft next situation?Why two weeks? I had a ton of shit to catch up on in terms of my responsibilities. Wasn't going to just drop everything to see a girl. So is this a soft next? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Is this a soft next situation?How? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Everyone said to move on. What's next now?Holy cow, ten other women that is a lot. I'd imagine if they're even somewhat attractive that would crush this needy, clinginess that I have to the ex. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | She Said "Listen nigga u can't just text me whenever i feel like it I'm not fw it." 💀💀💀All this post shows is that TRP is chock full of white boys that have no idea how to deal with black girls, which is fine because we're all inclusive. That's how black women speak, like literally 95% of them. It doesn't mean she's actually angry, it just means she's into you and wanting to grab your attention. That's how she's heard her mom/auntie/grandma/older sister talk growing up and she's adopted it. Continue along as normal. If you're interested, act like nothing is wrong (because it isnt)… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm acting like a complete bitchHere’s what I would do if I were you. I’d get rid of anything that reminds you of her. Photos, messages, ect. Cut all contact with her. If she is on your social media delete her. Done. It’s good that you are lifting and putting your energy in other things but take it a step farther. You should go out and be with other women. This will help you get over her quicker. Honestly, I haven't done this properly before outside of a few cold approaches + a few friends of friends that thought I was attract… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 8 | How do you truly stay happy?I've come to the realization that happiness is fleeting. It comes and goes, its not like you reach a point of success in life where you're like "I'm at a 9 all day, and when I'm with my plates, I'm at 10! Yay!". That isn't real. The truth is that when life's storms come, happiness disappears. When your best friend, your mother, father, girlfriend die, you will be shook to the core and happiness will be gone. Thus it's much more powerful to pursue what is meaningful, rather than what makes you ha… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 04:53 AM |
| 67 | Coming to terms with being attractiveAlmost this same thing happened to me. I would make the case that almost every single guy that applies TRP principles will see this profound effect in their lives to varying levels. For me, I was a very tall ugly MF. Lifting/haircut/clothes upgrade flipped things upside down. It was super bad for me. One of my boys and I had coffee spontaneously with one of his female friends. She was super flustered around me, and I was so confused why she was acting so weird. After I left, she confessed to my … | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 11:03 PM |
| 11 | My ex (oneitis I had for 4 months) texts me today.You probably won't listen, but on the off chance you will, ex oneitis's are never worth it because of that huge emotional investment you had in her. Stay on your purpose and there will be no woman who can look you eye to eye. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | I lied, and now I might get caught by the girl. How should I proceed?Haha nah I gotchu man I was just making fun of beta mooks in my community who know my username, that think using the internet to advance your own ideas isn't a legitimate way of making a career for yourself (Crabs in a bucket, who woulda thought?). Yeah that's absolutely foolish. As long as you have the backup plan, (degree, trade school, whatever) it should be a goal for us to use this remarkable opportunity with the internet to make extra money/be your own boss. It's not really that big of a l… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | I lied, and now I might get caught by the girl. How should I proceed?So shitposting DOES work! I was getting the point across that I lied about my education on the resume and adding that going from $12 to $20+ is a huge deal, cuz it is when you're in community college. Either keep up the lie until you transfer there and try avoiding her on campus as much as possible, or just come clean ("I had already been accepted but didn't yet start classes when we began hanging out" would even suffice). It's not that big of an issue if you're actually heading there. Keeping u… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 01:58 AM |
| 32 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.I disagree totally. Girls that are really hot, and nice have things incredibly easy. Everyone caters to them, over time you think that doesnt feel natural to them? Then when these orbiters that they think are "friends" with admit their feelings, the relationship ends and the girls literally cry their eyes out about it because they truly thought they had an amazing friend and lost them. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Recieving gifts from hot girl. How to handle thisYeah, but by making it overtly sexual, that's going to be like a make or break moment, correct? Then it's like a tipping point. We'll either never speak again or be together in some capacity | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Recieving gifts from hot girl. How to handle thisDone and done | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Recieving gifts from hot girl. How to handle thisWhat's dumb about it? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Is TheRedPill Gone?What's the point of quarantining TRP on mobile only if it'll still be accessible on Desktop on Reddit? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | TRP I need help for my 18 year old brotherI'm dead serious I have literally had him in full mount many times with wrist control slapping him up, sitting on him and he laughs a bit and struggles, when he can't get out he cries and complains for someone to come help. He's super sheltered. Our parents made sure to keep him a complete bookworm and he's totally soft. I just dont know what the fuck else I can do. I've never actually seen someone say they want to get better, be willing to show up, but just be ignorant as fuck and think they kn… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:17 AM |
| 1 | I think it’s too late for me to start trying to date girls. Should I just give upSMV= Lift, dress better, get nicer cologne, get a better haircut, get a proper skin care routine, etc. Frame= Do what YOU actually want to do and be totally comfortable with that. Start saying no to things that you don't want. Do difficult things, start your own business on the side, start doing BJJ, start whatever difficult thing you've been wanting to do but haven't because of whatever bullshit reason you've given yourself. That's how you develop character | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | I think it’s too late for me to start trying to date girls. Should I just give upMate winners focus on winning. Losers focus on winners. Be consumed with your mission. If you don't have a mission, decide one. You don't have time/energy to pay mind to what anybody else is doing. If women aren't reacting positively, your SMV/frame sucks. You work on both things through your mission. Guys can only grow properly and become men through doing difficult things. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | I think it’s too late for me to start trying to date girls. Should I just give upEveryone is at a different point in their personal development journey. The best advice I can give is to forget what everyone else is doing, and own your shit. If you can't hold eye contact or talk to women, you need deliberate practice. I once had this problem and I solved it by literally looking every single person that crossed my path until we made eye contact and they looked away first. I didn't always succeed, but eventually I learned and got there. I figured out that it's not weird to look… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Are any of you guys religious?Jesus is God in the flesh. He's not just a Middle-Man. God put on flesh and bones and walked among us. As Christian's, we believe in a Triune Godhead. Father, Son, Holy Spirit. The Son is Jesus. Jesus came to earth so that mankind could KNOW who God is and be saved through the shedding of his blood. The Law was given (the example I gave about animal sacrifice) so that people could see that they could not be saved on their own. People would sacrifice the animals, be temporarily be made clean and … | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Are any of you guys religious?I totally disagree with your assessment because Jesus gave a number of examples where he "fulfilled" the law with his coming and instituted the New Covenant, which is himself. Jesus stated nobody comes to God except through him. For example, when the adultress woman was brought to him. According to the Old Testament, she should have been stoned to death. Jesus said "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" and the her accusers disappeared. Jesus forgave the woman and told her to leave her… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 07:41 AM |
| 4 | How to garner respect from coworkers?How can you live like that? At least be cordial, pretty soon you'll be dreading showing up to see a bunch of people you hate | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 08:01 AM |
| 5 | Made some controversial comments on a date .This is a good word | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Are any of you guys religious?I would argue that although the number of wives is not explicitly stated, that its implied in chapter 11 about the number of wives as well as the exact quote of "taking wives from many foreign nations". In addition, this is happening under the Old Covenant. Christian's are not bound by Old Covenant laws. The New Testament is clear about this. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 05:47 PM |
| 52 | Women out of your league sending you "IOIs" = Beta Orbiter recruitment?Define IOI. If you're talking about some random pretty girls smiling at you, it literally means nothing on it's own mate. This sounds like male hamstering to me though. If you grow a pair and approach, you'll quickly find out if your hamstering is justified, or not. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Are any of you guys religious?You're 100% a fool, mate. You said "Solomon had 1000 wives and concubines and God was 100% okay with it". Read 1 Kings 11:11. God was not okay with it. He laid out his will for Solomon to obey, gave Solomon knowledge, and like all humans had given him free will to obey or disobey. Solomon chose to disobey God, and was punished accordingly by his Kingdom being divided. Then God uses Solomom to author one more book, Ecclesiastes, where Solomon says that "Everything is meaningless, a chasing after … | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 08:40 AM |
| 8 | Are any of you guys religious?You've created a caricature of Christian beliefs and have totally misrepresented the faith for the purpose of a joke. If you would like to have a discussion about Christian theology, say the word and we'll have that. You said we "play by Paul's rules" provide tangible evidence please. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 08:16 AM |
| 25 | Why is so much of the TRP contradictory?There is so much fucking whining on this thread. Yes there are a huge number of 40-50 year old posers that author fantasies about fucking 20 year olds. That is absolutely NOT something legit. I don't think I've ever seen or heard of a 50 year old fucking with 20 year old unless he was paying cash for it. However, I firmly believe that the core principles of TRP are the truth and the optimal way to live. Developing a strong physique, frame, working on your mission, etc should be what everyone is … | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Got my ribs broken in jiu jitsu. How can i sray in shape and still game becauae I can't stand up straight or walk confidently?I tore multiple knee and ankle ligaments with reconstructive surgery and was out for over 2 years unable to exercise. 3 months is an absolute blessing. Heal up fully and get strong again. In the meantime Watch BJJ Scout on YouTube. Watch Damian Maia, Brian Ortega, Fabricio Werdum, Tony Ferguson, Khabib Nurmagomedov, etc. Watch all the best BJJ players in the game and study | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 06:41 AM |
| 9 | Favorite plate broke down crying after sexI'm working 50 hours a week Web Developing and between lifting and BJJ and my other hobbies, I don't have the ability or energy to contact her and make shit fit with both of our schedules. So when she wants to come, she can hit me up and if I'm free and at home that day, then it's a go. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Favorite plate broke down crying after sexIf you were married wouldn't there be some level of comfort game you would be running? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Favorite plate broke down crying after sexLOL are you saying she's lying or saying that she better not be working for free? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 12:42 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over being ugly AF?Max Holloway has zero problem fucking bitches. He's the UFC Featherweight World Champion. I get your point though. WIN | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over being ugly AF?That's literally my only insecurity. I've worked hard as fuck on everything else to turn my old weaknesses into strengths. Was tall and skinny? Lifted. Had giant awful facial hair? Groomed. Couldn't speak to women? Worked in sales. Did an assortment of shit like that for all my issues. Generally speaking I have a lot of confidence, just not in this area. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Do we really only want to be top 20% men?This is stupid as fuck. You don't have to be a top 10% man to get an HB7. That's a complete lie, not sure where you got that from. My HB8 ex just got herself a balding chubby 5'10 future doctor with pubes for facial hair. No lie. He's ugly, but he has a skillset, career, and good personality, so he can Beta Bux his way in just like many others have | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Girls who give IOI just to get attention?Some girls are just nice and smile at everyone. It's good to assume attraction to filter out the ones that are truly interested. You did nothing wrong. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How is this possible? Someone help explain pleaseI was with you until you said a missionary is the equivalent of a famous musician. Missionaries are everywhere, Ed Sheeran is not. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I am trying my hardest to not beat the shit out of my ex/oneitisWe fucked 4+ times a week bud. Played? Idk i guess that's up for discussion. All good looking girls are gonna have other potential guys on the side just in case at the least | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I am trying my hardest to not beat the shit out of my ex/oneitisI did it to ease my conscience, but I also, absolutely did it because I loved her. The breakup was the right thing to do, because we live on opposite sides of the country, and I couldn't see a future here mostly because of that. We had 2 days before we went out seperate ways, and when I tried to meet up with her and tell her, she thought I was just being casual and said to call her because she was busy with her family/friends who she had blown off for 3 weeks to spend every day with me. So I tri… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | I am trying my hardest to not beat the shit out of my ex/oneitisThat's backwards. I did it because her friend told me that she had been crying about it for 3 days that I broke up with her. That's in stark contrast to how I thought she was acting, which was like she didn't care. So knowing she was hurting, (which in turn hurt me too) I hit her up once to see if she wanted to talk about it, and when she didn't respond I texted her once more time and said I was really sorry. Me "fucking up" was not handling things better. The breaking up still needed to happen,… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I am trying my hardest to not beat the shit out of my ex/oneitisI hate her because I tried to make things right, and she didn't give me the time of day to do that. I asked a few close confidants what I should have done in that moment. Everyone unanimously agreed that if I DID fuck up, I should man up, call her and be honest about it. Even if I wasn't wanting to pursue this further (which I couldn't because of long distance among other things). That's why I'm mad. Cuz she was the last person in the world I would expect to not give me a chance to properly expl… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I am trying my hardest to not beat the shit out of my ex/oneitisI see what you're saying. But it's not accurate in this respect. She didn't dump me, it was the other way around. I played my hand badly when things ended, and I went over the top while apologizing later, all because her friend told me that she was crying for 3 days straight and I felt bad about that because I knew it was partly my fault. She wasn't hearing/responding to my apologies, and then eventually snapped at me saying that I was starting to annoy her that I kept hitting her up saying sorr… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I am trying my hardest to not beat the shit out of my ex/oneitisBecause I had no motivation, and no goals. And so my goal became to beat her by any means on pain of death | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:48 AM |
| 7 | Christian girlI'm Christian as well. For girls that are legitimately good girl virgins that spend all day/night in their bibles, I'd say you're spot on. The Bible is extremely RP. HOWEVER, most "Christian girls" IMO are great actresses. Getting slutty on the side, and then trying to justify it all with "Jesus loves me and died for my sins". Born again virgins etc. If you find a girl that's legit, she will be looking for serious marriage type courtship. You will know she's serious because she will not give you… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Hot gril is all smiles, eye contact, gives number, stays to talk, texts back, and THEN says she has a boyfriend.You idiot. Don't perform for her like a circus monkey. She probably thought you were cool until you started texting like an obsessed orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 05:33 AM |
| 2 | How do I kill the white-knight inside?This should be the response to every post where someone is worried about their "feels". | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Reputation in High School is shattered. Comeback?Keep lifting, keep reading. Join a sport/club. Easy way to meet new friends. Be cool, and be good at the activity and you'll inevitably make new friends. You should be thinking long term play here. Highschool only lasts a few years and is quickly forgotten. I graduated 4 years ago, and literally interact with 2 of my friends from there. There's a whole world out there. Don't forget that. Build your whole toolbox of skills up. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:30 PM |
| 12 | Cut contact off to almost not existent, she asks me to be her prom date. I need some insight.This goes in several parts. You broke frame, went nuclear the way that a woman does with your ultimatum, this was super amateurish. Never do it again. Next her, she's using you as her trusty backup because she doesn't have a prom date anymore with the boyfriend out of the picture. She's scrambling, and thinks you are a decent enough candidate with little time remaining. Do not ever settle for being a second option. Keep your dignity | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | "You don't seem like that kind of guy"Forgot to mention, we make tons of sexual jokes around each other all the time. She definitely thinks I was going to go fuck a girl based on the conversation up to that point. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Men of TRP, what prompted you to finally stop giving a fuck?Could you expand on that story? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 06:17 AM |
| 7 | Did I do something wrong?From the info provided, she already had you in the friend/orbiter box. You tried to escalate out of it, and she told you in the nicest way possible that she wasn't into it. You did nothing wrong except for getting into that situation in the first place. After you recognized you were in the friend zone you shot your shot and she wasn't into it. Now you can move on knowing you two weren't compatible. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 03:30 AM |
| 7 | How to deal with an actual stalker?Block her everywhere that you haven't already. If you see her again, say hi and keep it moving. DON'T give her rides anywhere, you're busy. Not that hard. If you see her actually stalking you, call the police and deal with it accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 09:03 PM |
| 31 | [Advice] Physicality/Escaping the FriendzoneEscaping the friend zone. Wonderful topic. Everyone (99%) of RP guys have this all wrong saying it's impossible. If you approach this like a BP bitch then yes there is no escaping. How to get out of the friend zone? I'll give you three ways I'll get out of the friend zone. I'll establish to her that I'm attractive to other women. I do all my dates at the same coffee shop so they will inevitably see each other. When I see her (target), I might very casually mention about other girls I'm "hanging … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:36 AM |
| 5 | How is it that confidence is so effected by clothing/grooming?I have literally never seen a guy walk out of the club with a 9 wearing a wife beater. Partly because you can't even get into a club with that kind of gear on. Agree with everything else. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | One of my friends.That British dude in the 2nd video had me dying when he was explaining how to get out of the friendzone. Actually makes alot of sense though, all noobies should watch that section. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Is the road to redemption a pipe dream?Yeah or if you're really a Machiavellian slimeball you just do all your dates at the same coffee shop so when the girls are there by themselves they'll just see their competition there with you. Speaking from experience btw. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:42 AM |
| 4 | Is the road to redemption a pipe dream?The short answer is yes, you CAN get back girls who you acted beta with before. Where it gets interesting is the process in which that can happen. You demonstrate abundance to her, by dating girls hotter than her. BUT, once you date girls hotter than her and she sees that, you realize how less special she is, you won't even want her anymore. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 02:21 AM |
| 12 | Caught feelings for my best friendDude relax. Nobody is without flaws. If you wish to pursue this, you'll need several new girls before you even see her again just to get your mind right. When the time comes, hard escalate and shoot your shot. You'll find out hard and fast if she's into you. I'm not sure you're emotionally ready for that.. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 06:36 AM |
| 43 | Oneitis haunting meReading this was funny AF. Ex: No tits Dream Girl: Big tits | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming Social Anxiety Challenge Day 1 of 4Lol I know. I adjusted the challenges opening statement to "Excuse me, could you tell me what the time is, my phone just ran out of battery". | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming Social Anxiety Challenge Day 1 of 4I'll link it tonight in my Day 2 update post. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming Social Anxiety Challenge Day 1 of 4Saw someone on AskTRP post a link to a Manosphere Blog, where the challenge was outlined fully. I'll link it in my day 2 update post tonight. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 11:03 PM |
| 6 | dark-triad malesWhy are Dark Triad males successful? Easy. They're ambitious, highly disagreeable, and unfathomably confident in themselves. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Help brothersDo you want to win? Or do you want to win if it's convenient? | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Justifiable Oneitis?If it makes you feel any better, I've done the exact same thing, except mine was worse. She was a "nice girl" though, and didn't block me. The embarrassment from that frame break has meant I will never allow myself to communicate with her again. Her being smart and funny doesn't make it justifiable oneitis. It just means she was a high quality girl that you weren't equipped to deal with at this point in your development. You weren't ready socially, physically, emotionally to the point where she … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Justifiable Oneitis?Once you break frame and apologize, AND get blocked, there's really not much you can do to salvage the girl. That looks like a hard next from her. I'm curious what exactly happened that made you feel like you needed to apologize? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Guy Telling me to Back off From a Girl I'm Trying to PlateOkay rookie moves everywhere, my goodness. First of all, any guy that types like that and goes out of his way to text you that, on some beta male, fake macho tough guy shit to mate guard some girl (who he probably is friendzoned by) is not worth responding to. If you need to respond, figure out exactly who he is. If you need to handle things physically, don't self snitch by texting him any potentially aggressive shit that can be shown to others. Just handle it, and don't speak on it. He doesn't … | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 05:55 AM |
| 7 | "So people think we are dating now"Okay, This isn't rocket science. You don't respond. You have a date set, the only thing can fuck your frame up now is your own mouth at this point. You don't respond, her hamster starts spinning, perceiving your value to be higher than her because you don't bother explaining yourself over stupid shit, and you set the stage and frame for the date properly. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Cutting weightLet me save some lives here. Look up Mike Israetel and Renaissance Periodization and his articles on the concept of cycling Massing Phases and Mini-Cuts. So much better than the long drawn out painful cuts and equally long bulks where you get fat as fuck | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Childhood friend rejecting RP truth, needs helpI never talk about fight club. I just say stuff like "don't overinvest in her, y'all just started dating" while he's getting exited because he "totally outdid her" on their Valentine's day gifts. (She wrote him a card). I've also said stuff like 3/2 rule. "For every 3 texts she sends, you should be sending 2." But it just doesn't work because "she's perfect". | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I make friends, I like to be a lone wolf but..Your social skills just suck. You need deliberate practice. Try to strike up conversations with everyone you see. The usual "hi, hello, how are you". You do that with the baristas in your favorite coffee shop, you do that with people in class, with people you see in the mall, etc. You're basically trying to "flex" your social muscles. The small talk will soon become second nature, and then you can point out specific things about people's outfits, tattoos, piercings, etc. You can ask for opinions… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Improved alot, but starting to think being naturally ugly AF is screwing me. Could use some adviceNot sure what to say here. If you're ugly AF, and that's legitimate then outside plastic surgery you might have to just make peace with the universe. Reality is you're still way better off than most of the beta male types, and it looks like you've actually made good progress so you've got the drive to change your situation. Turn that 2 plate bench into 3 plates. That's a big difference and it'll be noticeable. I refuse to believe that a 6'6 jacked as fuck, well dressed guy cannot get a decent gi… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 07:28 AM |
| 6 | Is it normal that girls act more confident while on makeup than not on makeup?Even guys do shit like that to a lesser extent. Girls is just worse because they attach all self worth to being pretty. Like if I get a haircut, and take a shower, throw on some nice clothes, I feel like there's no bitch that can look me eye to eye. Insane confidence basically. But if I haven't shaved in 3 days, gotten proper sleep and am dressed in my PJs I'm sure my confidence would be effected to an extent. (I've never actually gone out in PJs but js). | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 07:23 AM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Followed TRP advice, rejected friendship with girl.You go radio silent. If you see her in person, or she initiates with you to hangout, set a location that you can escalate within. Depending on your age, that could be a dorm lounge, a bar, even a coffee shop could work if you can isolate her. You set the tone to be flirty, and to escalate. It will be clear very quickly what she's down for. Do not settle back into orbit. Please. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 08:11 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE: Followed TRP advice, rejected friendship with girl.First and foremost, I admire that you finally broke it to her how you felt. It's unhealthy to maintain a friendship with a girl that you clearly want more from. You said what was needed. Do not initiate contact with her again. If she wants to hangout, do not settle back into her orbit. Escalate, if she's not interested, she's not interested. Move forward with the clear knowledge that she's not into you and that's fine. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Ex-Oneitis giving me anxietyQuestion for you sir: I'm still struggling with this as well, would like your insight. If oneitis girl walks by, every emotion flies through my brain in an instant. Lust of wanting to fuck her, embarrassment of how I acted around her, totally losing frame, anger because of how I perceive she handled it badly, etc. What would you do to remedy this? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 07:18 AM |
| 12 | What's with the hate for videogames?Because most totally introverted guys on here that fall into the trap of videogames get addicted if they aren't already. Playing videogames all day saps your energy and motivation. If you can handle it, handle it. I personally try to get a couple hours of Xbox per week usually on the weekend. Doesn't affect me at all either. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 07:13 AM |
| 2 | She gave me her number and then said she has a boyfriend afterwards. Thoughts?Seeking advice. In the back of my mind I had this feeling that she might be just wanting to use me for attention and flirting back because her boyfriend is neglecting her and she wants to feel desired | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Never participated in an explicit cucking before, could use adviceBecause you're overthinking this way too much. Overthinking is often associated with a lack of abundance. A lack of abundance leads to oneitis very quickly. In any case, "hey" should suffice. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 03:04 AM |
| 8 | I asked a girl out and she said "but why?"The first line is golden | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 03:17 AM |
| 1 | So i have oneitis. It's a mess. How do you handle the cut off?Went through this a while ago. No easy way to do this, because you're emotionally invested in this girl. Others gave good advice already, but my 2 cents are as follows. Do a quick Stoicism exercise. I call this, "Earths Eye View". Take a mental snapshot of your house and freeze. Now imagine that you are now on the ceiling of your room, looking down at yourself. You see all your lifes problems, the oneitis girl, your school/work, your food you have to prepare, etc. Look across the room from that … | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 09:32 AM |
| 1 | My Story, or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love RejectionLove this post OP thank you for sharing. I have a similar story. Where that "one girl" you fall in "love" with, then you fail to escalate, break frame horribly (I'm glad yours wasn't as embarrassing as mine with the text). And then you mess everything up. Very relateable. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 06:36 AM |
| 7 | Need help with comebacks/shit testsIt wasn't a shit test, dummy. She just didn't want your nasty pink gloves. Learn to laugh at yourself and be in the moment. That canned line was complete cringe, awfully timed, I don't know how you managed that. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Why do I attract alot of average (and below average) girls?Easy answer if you've been on TRP for long enough. Girls always want what's above them. So if you're a 7, you bet your ass that a bunch of 5's and 6's are gonna be checking you out and trying to get your attention. I know this because I literally experienced the EXACT same thing as my SMV rose. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 08:54 AM |
| 6 | Why tf do I get teary-eyed when confronted.My parents were super authoritative and strict. Got screamed at tons when I was a kid so I developed a similar issue to what you have. Honestly, after a while you just mature emotionally to the point where that stuff can't reach you any longer. The best thing you can do is focus on your mission, focus on your frame, and continue to challenge yourself every day. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 08:49 AM |
| 2 | What do you do if you see your ex again?Issue is, I still have strong feelings for her, and I have learned over time that when it comes to her, I can't control them. Yeah she's got some cute friends, lol. I'll move on that. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 04:55 AM |
| 3 | What do you do if you see your ex again?Appreciate it. What should I do if she does her whole jump into my arms on sight thing? If she initiates hanging out, etc. You are right that I still have feelings for her. I am smart enough now to know what when it comes to this girl, I cannot control myself. What's the best way I can decline without disturbing the social group? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 04:53 AM |
| 3 | What do you do if you see your ex again?Could you elaborate on build boundaries part? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 04:41 AM |
| 1 | I am gonna ask the ultimate depressing question about looks.You're worrying about shit that doesn't even matter. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I dress better?Really depends on what you're into. If your fashion taste is just underdeveloped, check out that male fashion subreddit, maybe look for celebrities that you sort of resemble and take inspiration and ideas from them. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to being called a creepYeah you're overthinking. She's flirting with you. Flirt back | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 07:51 AM |
| 3 | This girl wants me to fuck her while being engagedBe above that shit. It's nothing but drama and asking for trouble. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 07:49 AM |
| 3 | How to approach a girl I met through a work conferenceI had a very similar situation happen months ago almost to a tee. If she's as attractive as you say, she will be getting hit on daily. Tons of guys will be shooting their shots. You had an opportunity, and unfortunately didn't seize it. Do yourself a tremendous favor and soft next. If she initiates some kind of meeting at some point, go for it by all means. You are at a point though where you cannot win through sheer effort, nor wit. I didn't take that advice and made a fool of myself, I will sp… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 07:44 AM |
| 5 | This girl and I are the only ones in a class I’m taking?Decide what you want. Do you want her friendship, or an intimate relationship? If you want an intimate relationship, set the frame now for that. Don't pussyfoot around pretending like you're friends, that never ends well. Tease her mercilessly, and shoot your shot. That's all you can do. Put your best foot forward. Too many never take that jump | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | She turned me soft and then lost all respect for me. Next stepsNot what I mean though, that's just one example. I can clearly see her respect for me fading. It's plain as day. If you want other examples I can provide. I went fully cringy possessive I can't stress that enough. The time is here to move on, she's figured out that I'm not who I appeared to be. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | First real oneitis, my abundance failing me for the first timeLol bro you're telling me stuff I already know though. I'm mentally invested in her alot. Oneitis I get that, which is my reason for the post. But where is the solution? I have several other girls I'm seeing, and have plenty of access to game others on a fairly frequent basis and I can't shake the feeling. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 06:25 PM |
| 1 | First real oneitis, my abundance failing me for the first timeI'm 100% positive she is able to orgasm. Just based on my experience level, I doubt that the penetration would suck. Sex is highly emotional, and while her body is excellent, the main separation between her and the others is the emotional connection. Everything else we've done was pretty awesome TBH for both parties. So she left like around 2.5 weeks ago. In the first few days afterwards, we Snapchatted each other a few times. FaceTimed a few times, and talked there for like 30 mins each time wh… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | First real oneitis, my abundance failing me for the first timeWe did everything except penetration. That doesn't count to me, but idk how you view it. There's more details on this in my last post if it interests you. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | First real oneitis, my abundance failing me for the first timeLmao this is why I was referencing my last asktrp post, to avoid getting cooked like this. With oneitis girl, we did everything except penetration. With the other girls, I did/do everything under the sun. I'd rather not type out another essay on all the details, but feel free to check that earlier post from a couple weeks ago if it interests you. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Caught incredibly strong oneitis for the first timeLol I understand the irony. The smoking/drinking gave me some pause, but I've also been told through our mutual friends that even in those days she was too scared to even grind on guys. That was back around age 15-17. She's said that she's done most stuff sexually at now age 20 except actually get penetrated. I'm not so naive as to think it's totally outside the realm of possibility that that's happened. But based on what I've seen, I believe it. To be clear when I say virgin, I'm talking about … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Caught incredibly strong oneitis for the first timeI totally understand the logic behind what you're saying. It took me a couple of times reading your comment before I realized that you're using unbiased logical reasoning behind what you're saying. But I still felt bad when you said the harsh reality which is that nobodies perfect and that eventually she'd do something. That's the truth and there's no way around it. It's still a bitter pill to swallow | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 03:50 AM |
| – | Displaying confidence but speaking too muchI agree I do probably need to ask better questions. She was fairly funny, but I think I set a bad tone trying to be all funny at first. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 04:28 AM |
| 240 | That feeling you get as soon as you nut"As soon as I cum, I come to my senses" -Lil Wayne | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Can someone take a look at my picture and tell me how to fix my face?Just make sure you know who you're sending shit to. There's a lot of Blue Pilled SJW types that are on the prowl in this sub who'd love to have your picture to use on their blog. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 02:22 AM |
| 11 | Social media and SMVI'm gonna take a different stance on this. When you quit all social media, it will hurt your SMV. Right now, while I've been away from social media for the last few months, I haven't had random potential prospects who would send me DM's and like my pictures out of nowhere like I used to. More important than actual SMV is the presentation of that SMV. Social media sites like Instagram and Snapchat put you in front of more potential girls than you could ever approach IRL. It definitely can make th… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/17 02:17 AM |
| 4 | How do you start a business with 0 dollars in the bank?By not making shitposts every single day on ASKTRP. Business is not "the 4 hour workweek" when starting off. It takes excruciatingly long hours being invested without paying yourself a dime beyond pennies for food and water in many cases. Before you focus on that, get a job and get off of government welfare and being a fucking leech. Welfare was meant for single mothers and their kids, not grown fucking men in their 20's. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/17 11:45 AM |
| 18 | First Round Pick, Gareon Conley, is being accused of rape right now. Despite multiple witnesses and video evidence, he will be dropping from the first round and maybe not getting drafted at all. Losing tens of millions of dollars.Hey hopefully he drops to 27th so my Seahawks can get him. This charge is total bullshit, Watch the video that surfaced. The accuser is getting "friendly" with Conley in some kind of bar establishment, which directly contradicts her police statement of "we originally met in the elevator" Checkmate bitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/17 05:28 AM |
| – | Women Logic 101 - You're not worth her time in her eyes unless you're the "Best".My comments are strictly revolving around the kinds of interactions that occur when men approach women in a flirting manner as this sub is focused on sexual strategy. In that scenario, I've seen probably hundreds of these situations unfold in real time the past 5-6 years. This is based on when I personally approach women, when my brother and friends and teammates approach women, along with the pages of field reports that make their way onto the manosphere that I occasionally read. To answer your… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 11:29 AM |
| – | Women Logic 101 - You're not worth her time in her eyes unless you're the "Best".I don't mean amongst themselves. I mean when guys are talking to them. Nice strawman. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 09:23 AM |
| – | Women Logic 101 - You're not worth her time in her eyes unless you're the "Best".You have a presumption that the "treat women like children" theory means that you need to treat them as if they are lesser than you.This is false and I'll explain why. (There are varying levels that people take this topic, as it's one that's constantly in debate in TRP philosophy) When you speak to a 50 year old man who's worked in a cubicle doing tech for 25 years, will you speak differently than you would a 18 year old woman that's going into college? Absolutely. Specifically, this means that … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 09:13 AM |
| – | Women Logic 101 - You're not worth her time in her eyes unless you're the "Best".You have it backwards. The ideology isn't founded on the "idea that men are better than women". It's founded on the idea of becoming the best man you can possibly be, while breaking down social dynamics, and strategy on how to "game" women efficiently. The "men being better than women" is not a core tenet of TRP. Women are self serving. So are many men. The purpose behind this thinking is to "take the pussy off the pedestal". When guys grow up hearing that they have to "treat all girls like prin… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 05:51 AM |
| – | Women Logic 101 - You're not worth her time in her eyes unless you're the "Best".Define fucked up ideological hate for women? TRP highlights various aspects of female behavior with relevant examples, so that members can benefit for the purposes of self-improvement and sexual strategy. It's not hate, It's acceptance. There will be zealots in every line of thinking, but they don't represent the manosphere as a whole. Just like how there have been a handful of Muslims who have committed terrorist acts on US soil, that doesn't mean that the 1 billion Muslims on earth are all ter… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 05:24 AM |
| – | Jordan B PetersonThe way that he speaks is difficult for some people to understand. You have to pay close attention or the stuff he says will fly over your head. I first heard him on the Joe Rogan experience where he absolutely shredded the idea of modern feminism to pieces with pure logic. YouTube that, it's fucking amazing. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 09:04 AM |
| 3 | You induce suicide.This sub is about sexual strategy, but I think most guys realize after a while that girls aren't everything. In the process of becoming the best version of yourself, somewhere along the line you realize that women are just one aspect of a great life. OP please find yourself some help. Women aren't worth dying over. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 08:14 AM |
| 18 | Feminists, cultural marxists and manginas upset that young and thin women dominate Victoria's Secret #WhatIsSexy campaignIt's funny how people from the Blue Pill claim to not care about this sub, but they spend day after day coming here and trying to bully new members from behind their keyboards. Fighting the good fight and crying every day amirite? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/17 11:25 PM |
| – | Maximizing recovery period post surgeryHow long will you be out with the surgery? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 11:37 AM |
| 5 | Any legit tips on growing beard?My beard has been full since I was 16 so I can't relate to the problem of not having a good one. But it seems like it's mostly genetic. My friend tried using Rogaine foam (minodoxil)on his beard to fill a patchy spot for months and it did nothing but fuck his skin up and age his face and he regrets it. Don't be that guy. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 11:03 AM |
| 2 | What's the meaning of the "ohhhh poor guy!!!" shit test? Is it even a shit test?Sounds like a good way to have her white knights and lady hens jump on your ass for "attacking her". I would love to see this in action | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 10:59 AM |
| 10 | Rant: Steroids - No bullshit anecdotal truth of effects on performance and lifestyleDownvoted because you made no mention of bloodwork, PCT, aromatize inhibitors. The post comes off very "bro" like. There isn't any real benefit to the people reading. If an already physically fit athlete is looking for an extra edge, running a cycle every once in a while could definitely be beneficial. Just do your due diligence. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 08:47 PM |
| 6 | I am going through traditional marriage path, but no girl likes me because I am bald. What to do?Tell that to Vin Diesel, the Rock, Jason Statham. Those guys look great and they have zero hair. Even if they weren't talented as actors, they'd still be swimming in pussy. Not to the same extent, but being swole as fuck and having rock solid frame is a gigantic advantage over the majority of the beta male types. If your SMV sucks across the board and you're bald then that's a different situation than having high SMV across the board and being bald. It's a world of difference. From what I've see… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't say "thank you" after our dates. Is it wrong that this pisses me off?To teach yourself true game, next time you hangout with a girl, escalate without spending a dollar. You're using your money as a crutch because you think it'll impress her. No. She's going to use you for free food/drinks and then go home and get dicked down by Chad. Respect yourself man. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 11:28 AM |
| – | askTRP Megathread April 12How do you deal with academic courses that force you to agree with leftist/feminist/trans agenda? I had a section in a Sociology course where the entire module was centered around the societal oppression of women. One question was (paraphrase) how can we assist women as a society to end the outdated and oppressive patriarchy? The questions are framed in a way that you cannot openly disagree without opening up to further scrutiny. It seems that this leftist push has been spread across universitie… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 12:13 AM |
| 2 | FR: My first day out daygaming after a year and a half of lethargyI try to avoid general awkwardness. In a cold approach situation, if I'm speaking and they offer up their hand up to shake, I'll comply. Perhaps that's a mistake on my part, but I've found that early on in interactions, girls are often very low energy. They haven't invested anything in the conversation. You have to offer value with your confidence, wit, charisma, etc, and then they will reciprocate. But until that happens, All it takes is one "fuckup" for her to automatically assume you're a wei… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Why the hell do we have to work so hard for this?You gained 40 pounds in 4 months. The maximal amount of muscle that you can gain is 1-2 pounds per month as a natural. You went with a conventional "dirty bulk" which means you've probably gained some muscle, but a ton of fat. The proper way to go about bulking is to track calories, find what your maintainence is, then eat 300-400 calories above that per day. You'll gain all the positives of bulking and gain minimal fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 06:15 AM |
| 7 | FR: My first day out daygaming after a year and a half of lethargyI always thought this, but in alot of cases I've found that girls will initiate the handshakes. It totally fucked up my premeditated lines the first few times lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Hypothetical: ugly guy cold approaches hot girl. No previous IOIs. Approaches her from out of the blue. She's taller than he is. He will not take no for an answer, but he also doesn't want to be a creep.Totally over thinking | /r/askTRP | 11/04/17 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem."Not all of us dress impeccably due to either not having the money or the body" These factors are 100% in your control. There are plenty of places to find nice clothes for cheap if you know where to look. Asos.com for example. There's no excuse for not working on your body and watching what you eat. If you're not willing to put the time in the weight room, and track your calories, you're not willing to work hard enough to change. That has nothing to do with your race. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 10:40 PM |
| 10 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.That user if you cannot tell, has had this issue for a long time. He is in incredible physical condition from the pictures I've seen, definitely in the top 1% of all male physiques. But ever since I started lurking this sub last summer, I've seen him stuck on his baldness as the reason why he's unable to succeed. It's a crutch that he's created for himself because he won't truly put himself out there and embrace who he is. Until he confronts that insecurity head on, things will never change, reg… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 10:24 PM |
| – | Girl I fucked got my friend fired. DilemmaBoring for sure. It's not so much worried about losing her. It's two fold because yes I would like to keep a potential plate but she has proven to be an office backstabber and I don't want to have the rest of the staff turned on me because I've worked fairly hard to keep a strong reputation. I want to have it both ways but I know shit doesn't work like that. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Can you go from being pegged a beta to an alpha?Dude that's pretty bad. I'd never deadlifted at all before and the first time I tried I pulled 315 lbs and could have probably hit 330. You got a lot of work ahead of you man. Start eating in a surplus and start a real strength training program. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling ashamed of myself and start to live life with confidence & frame?You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Your honesty is brutal and the way you've completely accepted your issues means you are ready to start making progress. How do you stop feeling ashamed of yourself? The harsh truth of our reality is that at any time, we can die. That mortality is what should drive every single action. You don't have time to be worrying about feeling sorry for yourself. Circumstances could change in an instant. So right now you have to go get it. Everything you want i… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:00 AM |
| 1 | I genuinely want to know, what makes a race/ethnicity high SMV versus low SMV? Who determines all of this? Is this actually a thing among hot girls in real life?It's just a preference. Tall is better than short. Muscular is better than skinny. Well dressed is better than poorly dressed. White straight teeth are better than crooked yellow teeth. If as an Indian guy you hit all of those boxes among the others on the SMV scale you'll run circles around guys who haven't. It's that simple. The reality is that some girls just won't be into you. Some will. Don't get hung up on it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Is building a privately owned gym a viable business ventureYou have to target niches. I've been apart of athletes gyms where there's 4-5 trainers who rent out a space. It's all speciality equipment you don't find in regular gyms. The only guys that workout there are NFL, NBA, MLB, UFC athletes, Boxers, college athletes, and high school prospects. Basically the most serious athletes. The gym continues to run after 8 years because the costs of training there are super high for pros. They do group training also so that it's more affordable for college and … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 08:41 PM |
| 7 | A life with TRPThe issue is that you made a short post, where you spent a few sentences explaining how bad your life was, and then you did a 180° turn, without any explanation whatsoever apart from "fast forward to now I make 6 figures a year, real estate" blah blah. And the conclusion you make, and the lesson you choose to impart the community with is....."man the fuck up" There's no value offered for anyone reading. That's why you're getting shit on in here. Congrats on the business though, not many get it a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 11:12 AM |
| – | Girl gave me her ig at gym.. Turns out I've been following her unknowingly for a few months. What do now?That's wishful thinking bro. These girls live on the validation that comes from guys sending them DM's, liking pictures, writing comments. The next time you see her at the gym, I'd definitely escalate, flirt, and see how she responds. You don't want to end up being a social media orbiter. This should go without saying, but whatever you do, don't send her another DM. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 11:44 PM |
| – | Girl gave me her ig at gym.. Turns out I've been following her unknowingly for a few months. What do now?Yes it does. Hold down on the message, and you can erase it. If it doesn't say "seen" then that only means she didn't choose to "accept the message" Trust me, unless she has millions of followers, she read it. She just chose to not accept it. I've been using Instagram to pick up girls for a few years. The "seen" indicator only comes on when the receiver chooses to accept the message. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Toxic friendsHe's an anchor. Cut him loose, or he'll drag you down. Cost/benefit analysis. Is his friendship really benefiting you in any conceivable way? It doesn't sound like he brings you anything apart from more headache. You don't need that in this journey of self-improvement. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Did a stupid yolobulk, gained a bunch of fat and hid any muscle. Want to cut that excess fat then continue with a healthy bulk. Best course of action?It means consuming enormous amounts of calories, way more than needed for muscle gain, because they're too lazy to properly count macros. The result is usually turning into a fat slob with double D's and heavily spiked estrogen levels, along with some solid muscle and strength gain. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Did a stupid yolobulk, gained a bunch of fat and hid any muscle. Want to cut that excess fat then continue with a healthy bulk. Best course of action?Look up Reniassance Periodization and Dr. Mike Israetels work on the concept of bulking/cutting. I've found it's the most effective way of bulking with minimal fat gain and cutting while maintaining the vast majority of the muscle gain and actually doing a bit of recomp even as an advanced lifter. He sells Ebooks on the topic, but there's YouTube videos and blog posts that outline all the info for free if you're willing to look. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 09:11 PM |
| – | Girl gave me her ig at gym.. Turns out I've been following her unknowingly for a few months. What do now?You should have deleted that DM as soon as she went a day or so without responding. Now you'll come off as desperate if you do anything over IG again. Don't DM her, and for gods sake delete that message. Don't send her any validation via likes/comments over IG. Since she gave you her IG, she probably doesn't think you're a complete dweeb, unless she just wants another orbiter. (Why the fuck would you ask for her IG when you've already added her and sent a DM) Rookie shit man. Why not her number?… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How to date as a teen?How do you progress with girls if you don't date? Simple. You must read the Sidebar. There are also numerous guides on the main subreddit on flirting, developing social calibration, and escalation. Since you're in high school, just apply these strategies to girls in your classes and girls in your social circle. You don't need to worry yourself about cold approaching just yet. How to fix oily skin? I personally just use a moisturizer and a basic exfoliator. I spent $10 and they've lasted over a y… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 11:54 PM |
| 2 | How to date as a teen?Don't date. Read the Sidebar if you haven't already. Work on your SMV. Workout, dress nicer, fix your haircut, skin, etc. Develop good hobbies. One to challenge your physical and one to challenge your mental. Physical examples include sports, martial arts, etc. Mental examples include art, programming, etc. Some books you should take a look at: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Mastery by Robert Green. 48 Laws of Power by Robert Green. Work your hardest and try to be the … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | shit-tests are starting to become annoying.If she did like you, then the shit tests were meant to see if you're a man. You failed, and they'll continue whenever you try to get out of the beta box. You have to work on your social skills, period. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 10:21 PM |
| 11 | Your height/looks aren't everything... Comparison of my two sisters' boyfriendsFirst impressions matter. If you can't look a man in the eye, are mumbling over your words, and give a soft handshake, this isn't a good look. Doing a proper, confident handshake isn't a gamechanger, but it's solid, general etiquette. You don't want to slip up that early in the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 07:12 AM |
| 11 | AWALT Confirmed. Thanks Redpill, I owe you one.Proud of you bro. Keep your head up. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 12:56 AM |
| 2 | I'm at a crossroadYou need to hold your frame better. If you formulate points with logic, and believe in yourself and what you're saying you can stand up to anyone including the teacher and they won't be able to say a damn thing about it. The issue is, you wanted to believe what you were saying but lacked conviction. Learn more about these issues and study them in depth. When you have confidence, you can revisit this discussion with your teacher. This time hold frame like a boss. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Looking for RP Youtube/PodcastsLol they're funny as fuck. I remember that story they told about when they were broke, lived in a tiny apartment and they used to run bitches in and out of there calling it the "Hodge Twins Express" The best juiceheads on YouTube no doubt | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Is Oneitis always for the worst? I feel like I'm dying from it.I find in your current situation that you can't think about things with a clear head because you have oneitis. Everything about said girl you will see in the best light possible, because you want to have faith. You need to meditate. When you reach a deep level of meditation, examine her (and other girls) from that level of awareness. You'll see her objectively. You won't pedestalize her. Take a look at her and other girls from this perspective. If you still think that you can salvage this, emplo… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 12:38 AM |
| 5 | My God..I've been reading the Red Pill for years without doing shit but yesterday night I had one giant epiphany.Good for you brother. Very underrated post. Cultivate discipline, not motivation. The motivation will come and go, true discipline and resiliency will build the habits necessary to turn this thing around. There are no excuses. It's on you, always has been. You know what you need to do. Get it done. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else hates being in a physical body and being sexual?That sounds absolutely excruciating. To be able to ensure that level of physical torture I'm assuming you're an absolute masochist. That's not normal. Somewhere along the line your mental health has been compromised. I would seek medical attention ASAP and heed your psychologists advice. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Plate lost weight and returnsThat was fucking funny. I just spit my water out lmao | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Managing the connection and cultivating finesse?Read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It's probably the best self-help book of the generation. You can get it for $6 at half price books. The social calibration aspect will improve over time as you put yourself in more uncomfortable situations. As you game more women, make more friends, learn to bullshit with co-workers, classmates, acquantainces, etc. You'll make plenty of mistakes as we all have. Then you'll improve. It's important to note that the higher your SMV is, … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test?Yeah, I think where I messed up was the tone of my response. I said it in a non-smooth way if that makes sense. Like in my head I knew I was being sarcastic, and joking but I didn't put on a smile, use facial expression to display that outwardly. Appreciate the feedback | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 06:41 AM |
| 2 | I reviewed The Red Pill film for my university magazine and it got buried.I thought your review was very well thought out, and above all else, fair. Unfortunately in today's day and age where the agenda of female rights is pushed so strong, and the pressure that feminist groups apply to media outlets, your review had little chance to be published. They found what they needed to in order to justify their agenda. (The part about some bad parts of the manosphere being protected under a blanket by the review) There are bad parts about feminism as well. Proof of that is we… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 04:57 AM |
| 10 | If you have oneitis for someone...Unfortunately I think oneitis is something that everyone can be susceptible to, even the experienced of us. If you don't have a rotation of girls at any given time, all it takes is some "feelz" to throw you off your game. I'm personally dealing with this right now. I'm stuck in the middle of the fence. I want to escalate, but that fear of failure has come back because of my current lack of abundance. She also has a boyfriend. So I've tried to move on, but she's still in the back of my mind, and … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Caught her SnoopingLol | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Story time: Me and the girl who I had a crush on. She got back together with her asshole abusive Chad boyfriend.I won't rag on you. Enough people here are doing this already. But what you're doing is incredibly unhealthy for your journey to mastery over yourself. This girl is stuck in your head. You're still watching her social media. Blue Pill. Leave social media altogether. At the present time it's doing nothing but hurting you more. Focus on you and your development. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Sensibilities: SMV Bonus PointsI'm gonna be honest, the cringe was so strong with this one | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Deep hatred towards women that are attracted to me, is it normal?Troll | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Retarded idea - How you destroy TinderYou just pulled a bunch of random numbers out of your ass. It wouldn't cost anywhere near 100,000 a month for maintenance..and overall it wouldn't come even close to a million dollars. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/17 10:25 PM |
| – | We know location matters a lot if you're a minority, so why is TRP so strongly against letting guys talk about good locations?Nope I don't look white at all. Far from it. I'm an athletic 6'5 Arab dude with a Tyron Woodley type of beard. People always either think I'm Middle-Eastern or light skinned (black). The more excuses you make, the worse this gets and the deeper the hole you need to climb out of when you eventually realize that it's all on you. Always has been. Everything you do accomplish (and don't accomplish) is entirely your fault. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/17 08:27 AM |
| 8 | How much Dan Bilzerian understands.Important to note he was on large amounts of steroids for many years. He maintained that large amount of muscle mass while also consuming incredible amounts of cocaine, MDMA, and alcohol. Those drugs eat away at muscle. You could argue that his heart attacks at a fairly young age (early 30's?) are in large part to that. These days I hear he has to stick with TRT for life because his receptors and natural hormones are fucked. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 08:12 AM |
| 1 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingOP just curious have you ever run any low-dose test? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 06:00 AM |
| – | We know location matters a lot if you're a minority, so why is TRP so strongly against letting guys talk about good locations?What the fuck are you talking about dude? If you take a drive from Vegas to Tempe, "hot white girls" attitude towards brown men doesn't change with a few hours driving distance. You know how I know that? Because I've been to Tempe (Arizona State U) two times with my boys. One brown guy and a half a dozen black guys mixed with a couple white guys and we all pulled. There aren't special cities where white girls give brown guys the pussy at a 15% clip better than they would another city hours away.… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/17 03:41 AM |
| 1 | How to stop the long nights of thinking?Ethered his ass | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 08:21 PM |
| – | We know location matters a lot if you're a minority, so why is TRP so strongly against letting guys talk about good locations?OP you are full of shit and I'll tell you why. I've lived in Miami, Minneapolis, Chicago, Portland, Vegas, as well as abroad. I'm also Arab. If your SMV is shit across the board, and you also perpetuate your stereotypes, you'll be hopeless. If your SMV is high, you do not perpetuate your stereotypes and adapt to the culture fully, you will do great. It's really that simple. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is NOT wanting to have women have an advantage over man. It ACTUALLY is the pursuit for equality. This misunderstanding leads to feminism being seen as a bad thing which it isn't.Google "77c on the $1" Then read the Washington Posts in depth analysis of this lie. The way feminists present this information is very disingenuous. They want to make it seem like two people are working side by side doing the exact same job, but the man makes $1 and the woman 77 cents. That is simply not the case. Do that Google search and see for yourself. This isn't even about what feminism is supposed to be (equality). It's become manipulation, and deliberately spreading misinformation to fu… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Having only an Islamic marriage in the West?Islam is very complex, I'm not sure what to make of it tbh. But there are some girls within it who are taught from birth on pain of a beating to stay virgins until marriage and can thus be more submissive, better at being "traditional" wives in all aspects. Most commenters here don't have the slightest clue what kind of women I'm referring to. But I think OP does, else he wouldn't be making a post like this. I say put some feelers out and see what's out there. I suspect you will be happy with wh… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I use Minoxidil to grow a beardYou have to be like 15 years old.. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Any recommendations for red pill music?Gangster Rap drops RP knowledge constantly | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Why does a girl insist on hanging out with me but won't go on a date with me?She's making you an orbiter. Don't give her validation and attention unless you're getting what you want in return. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | What does your every day routine consist of?I read this in Tony Ferguson's voice lmao. That sounds like some shit he would do. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 09:53 AM |
| 2 | How can i be a doctor and a man that women truly want?You don't need to specifically mention your profession. You will make good money, be high status, and it's nobodies business but your own. The Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks dichotomy can be best explained by an attitude and how you choose to carry yourself. If you carry yourself like a man worth a damn, that has options, that is DGAF, that will not be a hindrance to you getting women. As a matter of fact that is the closest thing to ideal for women as can be. An intelligent, ripped, dominant Chad that… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Do I have the potential to be NFL Tight End sized? 6'4", 215 lbs currently (Photo)I'm at a similar height, and all I can tell you is for that long frame to fill out it will take lot more muscle than it would for smaller guys for you to really fill out and reach your goal. The potential is there if you have decent genetics but it'll take a long, consistent growth period (caloric surplus for several years) and a lot of heavy weight training. Could be sooner, but 20+ pounds of lean mass doesn't come overnight. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/17 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Need adviceSidebar | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on girls who are single moms and have a kid?Dude she is trying to rope you in like a fish. Do not give in to the urge to save her. She has red flags everywhere. You will gain abundance by gaming other women and these feelings of scarcity will pass. You can do better, and you will do better. You know what you have to do. Get it done. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | When to go from Starting Strength to hypertrophy routine?GLO aren't you against Starting Strength? I feel like you were just catching heat in the main sub a few weeks ago for saying that it's not ideal for beginners or something like that because most people have no business immediately trying to squat. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 04:49 PM |
| 9 | What I have gained so far from Joining a MMA Gym (Jiu Jitsu and Kick Boxing)When he mentioned cauliflower ear and you mentioned Sambo, the first thing that popped into my mind was Khabib Nurmagomendov. Cannot wait for that title fight on Saturday. If Khabib wins....RIP Conor McGregor, it's a wrap. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Can i still start fresh with this girl?I agree with the other comment. You have to lead her. If you're giving her mixed signals, she'll think you don't like her. Girls are insecure as fuck. Be decisive. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/17 08:27 AM |
| 6 | Can you become too muscular as a natty?Brad Pitt in said movie wasn't natty either. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/17 08:07 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to people when you don't want to talk to people?A nurse drawing blood that's a new one I haven't heard before, care to share the whole story? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/17 08:03 AM |
| 4 | It's easy to depedestalise women and prevent oneitisTaking them off the pedestal takes time. It's not easy. For myself, when I started seeing some of these girls without the protection of makeup that was the start. 8's became 5's. Then I noticed that treating them like children actually works very well because they just want to have fun. Don't treat them like you would a logical man, and you see the weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Smp for average guysI disagree with you. Yes there are short guys with game. But I've never seen bald, short, dark caribbean guys consistently get chick's that are worth a damn. In your guys case status is king, so that makes it plausible for that famous dive instructor dude. I hear stories like this sometimes, but they come off as grossly exaggerated. Generally speaking, women in the West have an inflated sense of their own SMV and 99% of short bald ethnic dudes are going to fall way below what these girls are goi… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/17 10:26 AM |
| 4 | Looking forward to getting olderOlder guys, look into HGH treatment. My dad uses it, and he seems to think it's the fountain of youth. His appearance, overall sense of well being is much higher than when he began treatment. There are numerous benefits to using small dosages. From what I hear it is quite expensive, but certainly could be worth it. A combination of healthy range dose TRP, HGH and good maintenance work with exercise and diet can make men much healthier as they age. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/17 03:36 AM |
| 5 | CONOR FUCKING MCGREGORAs far as MMA goes I personally don't like Conor. He has in many ways started to believe his own hype and has started living out the WWE persona (Ric Flair) that he originally set out to imitate. Other fighters who have known him from the start have pointed out how much he's changed in order to truly live up to the persona. It's fake. That said, he's one of the best, and I respect the fuck out of his skill. If he can take out Khabib I'll be on the Conor hype train. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 10:23 AM |
| 2 | We agree that race affects your SMV but we also agree that location is a big factor in it too. Can we talk about that without everyone on here losing their minds?"No one cares about anything after that" Nope you're just looking for an excuse. I'm not going to give you one. If you're ripped, well dressed, with good hygiene, most girls will not give a fuck what your race is. Race is a just a preference, not the end all be all. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 06:07 AM |
| 2 | We agree that race affects your SMV but we also agree that location is a big factor in it too. Can we talk about that without everyone on here losing their minds?High SMV guys do well. Low SMV guys are invisible. If guys stay away from their races stereotypes, be high SMV, this question will be irrelevant in TRP. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 04:15 AM |
| 1 | How to be a semi-asshole? I can't think of things to say.Upvoted because of the comment on Harvey. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I become a legend?Focus on just one or two things and try to excel at them. One physical, one mental. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 04:03 AM |
| 13 | I think she's playing with me. Am I running good game?She enjoys the attention. At her convenience she uses you for validation. She wants to keep you around, but not fuck you. Don't be her orbiter. You made your move, she declined. It's all good, just next her and move on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 03:33 AM |
| – | Small idea/visualization that boosted my confidence in conversation with women.Lol the Stephen Curry DL stat is 1000% bullshit. 2016 was the NBA Stephen Curry hype train. He's one of the weakest players in the entire league. And that article tried to say he was the second strongest player on the Warriors roster behind Ezeli. You can smell that lie out from a mile away with simple deductive reasoning. In case you're not keeping score that would put him over the likes of Bogut, Igouadala, Draymond, Klay, Speights, etc just off the top of my head. It's quite literally a lie. … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 07:32 AM |
| – | Small idea/visualization that boosted my confidence in conversation with women.Okay, SL is a beginner bodybuilding program. Your numbers no offense are well below the vast majority of college basketball players, and those are guys who prioritize endurance. I didn't see you specify this diet plan was for bodybuilders. What I said was relevant to people who do some kind of actual competition and have higher carb needs on a day to day basis. I said that because oftentimes on here martial arts/ a sport of some kind is recommended for guys. I also didn't see you mention the ref… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 02:51 AM |
| – | Small idea/visualization that boosted my confidence in conversation with women.If you've legitimately been on 25g carbs a day for 4 straight months, you have not been able to train hard. I do not believe you. It has nothing to do with limiting beliefs. I've played D1 basketball and trained with some of the best athletes and coaches in the world, many of whom are on PED's. Nobody can train hard on carbs that low. Let me clarify I have no idea what style of training you do. Perhaps it's different when you don't do any incorporation of real cardio activity. What I know for ce… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Fat Girls in Class Hitting on MeNo he's saying that scooters are fun to ride around on, but you don't want to show them to your friends. Good work on dropping the weight. I've been in the exact same situation with fat chick's hitting on me in person. I learned that over time that as your value raises, the quality of women you attract inevitably raises. For myself it started with the fat chick's, then I noticed hotter girls at the gym and school looking at me. Then one day an HB7 sent me a DM on Instagram, and things have stead… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 06:55 PM |
| – | Small idea/visualization that boosted my confidence in conversation with women.25g of carbs sounds like death. Very few people understand this, because they've never cared enough about their bodies to actually track macros and calories. You do understand that this is basically equivalent of eating a single Banana right? In an entire day. Not to mention workouts and day to day energy will be absolute shit. Also ecto, meso, endo is not actually a thing and has been proven wrong by numerous studies. And nobody, without PED's or best of the best genetics can stay at 7% year ro… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 07:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being the butt of the joke every time?Smile and say "come see me after class" If you can't handle that, then you need to work on your frame and social skills. That will take time and experience. Also important to note that SMV is directly correlated with how other men will respect you. If it's shit across the board, then you're an easy target. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 07:49 PM |
| 6 | Slacking in one area of your life will snowball into the others. Start your day off strong and it will affect everything else.This is absolutely true. Getting a good night's sleep, working out first thing in the morning and getting a nice breakfast builds tons of positive momentum to crush the rest of the day. To make this even better, keep your phone off, don't check any texts or emails or social media until after breakfast. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Severe Oneitis- Need HelpPost this to AskTRP again. Explain it better. Violation of the rules can lead to a direct ban. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Guys in their 20s, you don't have that much time!I used to live in Sarasota, I hated it when I was living there. That's the hood. Now Tampa on the other hand is awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Natural alpha are a "lie"Natural alphas don't go up to random people at the gym and talk shit to them to discourage them. Most of the time they are minding their own business. They couldn't care less what some random guy they've never met is doing. If you are friends, or acquaintances then shit testing is inevitable, and you should up your own game so you can stop those shit tests before they have a chance to get started. People only get away with what you let them get away with. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 08:38 PM |
| 6 | Sex and Escort: The Story of My First.I'm sorry bro you have to take this L for going down on an escort. Don't even say nothing just gimme your ring. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Trophy ProtectorsPost this to AskTRP. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my case of Oneitis.Repost this to AskTRP. Members here get 7 day bans (speaking from experience) for telling you anything other than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Are my lifting stats worryingly low?There's tons of young guys at my gym I see with the same type of worry. I'll tell you like I tell them. Don't worry about everyone else. We're all at a different point in our fitness journey. If you're consistent, and stick to your training plan, you'll run circles around everyone else that tries to lift more weight too soon, and burns out while you continue adding weight every week. This is a long term play, and it's impossible to see it now, but in a year you'll be stronger than majority of th… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Fat cells: How tough would it be for a guy who was skinnyfat/fat throughout his teens to get a nice body if he started in his 20s?Not top tier in a year. Not without PED's. But OP, if you stay with it, in one year you can make a ton of progress. You'll look far different. Rome wasn't built in a day. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas on how to up my SMV?Pretty simple actually. Gain muscle, lose fat. Get your teeth whitened. Get trendy clothing appropriate for your age range. See what I mean? Like attributes in a video game there are numerous factors you can improve. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Suicide is PainlessI understand things may seem bleak. You've gone through tremendous struggle. I empathize with your situation. Look at it this way: You've identified your biggest issue. It nags at you every single day. You've reached your breaking point. My question to you is this. How far are you willing to go to get out of this? Only you can answer that. If this is truly rock bottom then you can only rise from here. First things first go to IIFYM.com and use the calculator there to get yourself a starting poin… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 09:39 AM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend"Any chance you had, was lost when you gave in to the desperation and sent her that message giving her more validation. After the initial exchange you should have left it at that and said hi the next time you saw her in the gym. Don't put yourself in the situation where you make yourself appear low-value. You made a mistake. Now understand what went wrong and you will be better next time. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 07:19 AM |
| – | My socials skills have depreciated significantly. Could use some help.I've been lifting for 6 years. I also do go out now with my friends as well as couple times a week. I have pretty much all my shit back together at this point. I made a post on the main sub not long ago that shares more detail on everything if you want to take a look. In identifying issues, it appears escalating and practicing with women I find attractive is my biggest thing. Someone else suggested doing an approach a day just to get the practice reps | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever noticed there is never a male 'fat acceptance' movement, because women and society do not care about you.Very interesting. Now that you mentioned it, I don't think I've ever seen anything about men and "fat acceptance". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/17 04:50 AM |
| 14 | Men and women are fundamentally different. Learn what this difference is and how it applies to you.Modern feminists will have us believe that the sole reason why women aren't as interested in STEM fields is because of "social oppression" to keep women out of high paying careers. No its because we can't force people to go into areas of study that they aren't interested in. Women dominate many high paying fields in human care. Doctors, psychologists, etc. Are men "oppressed" from these areas? Not at all, there's just less of them interested in that particular discipline. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 08:14 AM |
| 1 | blindsided by 8+/10 girl that I hooked up with, thought it was just a fluke, she is still into me and I am a little confusedIf you're making 100k, are very fit and dress very well, how could you possibly only be an objective 6/10 on the SMV scale? I understand that "very fit" and "dress very well" are relative, but still unless you're like 5'3 I think you're at least a 7 maybe 8. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm going to be a beta male forever. There is no hope, is there?"I'm 19" You will be just fine bro. Keep reading the sidebar, internalize the material. Lift, go to school, apply yourself in all things you're passionate about and you are well on your way to leaving the beta behind. Plenty of us have done it. Apply yourself and you will inevitably get to where you need to be. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys pursue your dreams?1000%. I've come too far and gone through too much to settle for anything less. It sounds extreme to some but I'd rather die than not reach my goal. The very real mortality is what drives the daily work | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 06:32 AM |
| 2 | If I never get into parties, how am I supposed to meet girls?My biggest tip is to stop looking for tips. No more theory, no more studying RP theory. There's too much information and it's giving you paralysis by analysis. Get out and test your mettle. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 03:29 AM |
| 2 | If I never get into parties, how am I supposed to meet girls?You just said you're confident in your ability to flirt. And then in the comments you said you have severe approach anxiety when dealing with both men and women. Which is it? In any case....grow a pair and put your balls on the line, or you'll be stuck with your feet in the sand permanently. Fear isn't real. Talk to people in class, the cafeteria, around the dorms, etc. Go to the school rec and meet people there. If your social skills are decent you'll make some friends. If they are shit, then y… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Losing Virginity Today- How to fuck the shit outta her?Well good news and bad news. Good news is you're losing it. Bad news is you're going to suck. So now that you've understood and accepted this, try to have fun, and remember don't take shit too serious. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls brag about their slutty adventures?If her desire is to hook up with you this is a very common thing for her to express. A girl I met who was in a large sorority had a great conversation with me where we she openly bragged about having slept with 54 different guys thus far at 21 years old. She also mentioned that she kept a log with their first names and the name of the frat the guy was from. That was the first time I'd ever heard of something like that. I must say it was a very fun conversation. We hooked up twice. She was a cool… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/17 11:38 AM |
| 8 | Get a pocket pussyEvery time I hear pocket pussy I think of Thad from Blue Mountain State hahahaha. How do those things compare to actual pussy? Does it feel as good as some real walls? It can't be all the way there. I kinda want to try one just so I can work on stamina. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 11:00 AM |
| 12 | Don’t get hung up over missing out on the “college experience”.What steps have you taken to address the issues you've faced? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Who is a 10?Amber Heard in Never Back Down was the hottest girl I have ever seen. 11 | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 07:26 PM |
| – | If you don't sleep, you might as well stop lifting and pursuing your goals.Holy shit bro I'm doing everything except sleeping, getting 5-6 hours a day. And still making alot of gains. I'm gonna see how things shape up when I get 8+ hours. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/17 03:32 AM |
| 11 | Interesting Article, why she flakes on TinderJesus Christ that cannot actually be real. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Interesting Article, why she flakes on TinderI agreed until you said fake boobs and fake ass aren't sexy. I couldn't even tell the difference until a girl told me. I'd bet most guys don't have the slightest idea if they're fake. And that's in real life. All these Instagram hoes bodies are fake as fuck and I don't think that discourages any thirst | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 10:29 PM |
| – | Need advice on next steps after injuryYou're right about the injuries. I played college ball until last year. Right now I was doing Powerlifting with a few bodybuilding accessories thrown in. It's not a recipe for perfect health. I'm curious when running gear does it make you more or less injury prone? I hear conflicting theories. Some people saying your muscles get strong really fast and tendons can't catch up, others saying more strength is better because you can absorb more force etc. Also do you know any compounds that can accel… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 06:01 AM |
| – | Need advice on next steps after injuryAfter a Deadlift set I went onto the basketball court and dunked a couple of times. On the second one as I came off the rim this dumbass ran up under me and I landed on his foot. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How to combat fear of confrontation?I'm curious, with BJJ is there no stand up at all? Do you start from a stand up in training? I'm curious because I've done some boxing and muay thai myself, I wanted to try BJJ but there doesn't seem to be as much practical application. Like how often in a street fight are you going to end up rolling and fighting for position on your back? Most start and end really quickly in stand up. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 04:35 AM |
| 39 | Guy on OKCupid sub (probably newbie/lurker here) conducts an "experiment" with the intent to expose gender bias. Gets what would probably be expected results. Sub's hamster wheels in high gear spinning at 50rpm.I wonder how the "Blue Pill" sub will take this post when one of their post wall whales does her daily TRP stalking. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/17 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Have you found any difference in Tinder given everyone's on break?I've noticed this as well. Its typical for college break type stuff. This time last year I went on Tinder, and slept with three different women from there in a two week stretch and that was seperate from my ex girlfriend who I fucked multiple times in the same time frame. You do nothing differently. Step 1 Be attractive Step 2 Don't be unattractive Escalate quickly and go for the meet up. If you're attractive she'll go for it. Its Tinder and a buyers market so you'll have to settle for a bit les… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 08:10 PM |
| 5 | I just thought of something, and I realized my SMV will drop significantly within the next 2 years despite the fact that i'm only 26...Say you're a recently converted Muslim. Keep the beard. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 08:00 PM |
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