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A tip: its not what you say but how you say it
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:03 AM
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If you want change you need to change. Learn how to workout and start going 6 times a week.
/r/seduction23/09/24 05:34 PM
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Ok. These above conversations are boring. Guess who's fault that is? Its entirely theirs in these two cases. They're giving you nothing to work with. So there are two scenarios here. Either they are awkward or they are not interested. Maybe both. You have to figure out what their deal is. Sometimes it takes some conversations for people to open up. I have done at great job at my local gym of making a TON of friends amongst the dudes and the girls who go there. Girls need time to open up sometime…
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:33 PM
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Theres a push pull dynamic that you need to get good at. Practice makes perfect. Sometimes pull her into you with affection (figuratively), sometimes push her away from you (teasing). There was a study done on dogs where the researchers were split into three groups. One group was always super affectionate to the dogs, one group was alternately affectionate and other times col towards the dogs, and then there was a third group that was always cold towards the dogs. The dogs that became the most l…
/r/seduction19/09/24 03:19 AM
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Ask women how they feel about stuff.
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:36 AM
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At 30 its night and day. And my shit is even that together. Im working on it.
/r/seduction08/09/24 05:09 PM
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Yea its easy to get swept up in those. I promise you that if you take care of yourself and work on your goals the women youll get in the next few years will blow the ones youre seeing now out of the water.
/r/seduction08/09/24 05:08 PM
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Its cool man it happens. Onwards and upwards. How old are you?
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:52 PM
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This comment above is the right answer everyone. Op youre overthinking this.
/r/seduction03/09/24 02:05 PM
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I think she likes you but is trying to feel out where you are about making the relationship official.
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:51 PM
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Good on you for improving yourself. As you get older addressing your own insecurities and getting jacked and cut are the best ways to build confidence and then attract women.
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:26 PM
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His advice holds weight. Thats why so many people upvote it. Youre making excuses to not work on yourself and get out of the house. This sub is filled with whiney dudes who don’t want to put in any work.
/r/seduction11/08/24 12:13 PM
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Bro your friends know shes crazy. You know shes crazy deep down. Have some standards. Why do you care? Shes gone. This ended as good as it ever will with a crazy person. Count your blessings and move on.
/r/seduction19/07/24 06:08 AM
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Yea thats what I said lol
/r/seduction08/07/24 02:24 PM
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Bro your input was so unhelpful its unreal. Not only that but this clearly isnt common knowledge. Guys will throw their lives away on the most low tier baggage weighted woman for the occasional half hearted blowjob.
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:47 PM
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And i think another good piece of advice is practice on everyone. Talk to cashiers, people on the elevator, people at the gym (this is a gold mine but its high investment), mailmen, whoever. See if you can make people laugh. Girls are people and its no different than chatting anyone else up.
/r/seduction12/06/24 11:21 PM
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You will fuck up more times than you can count. Ive fumbled the bag soooo many times on women. See a girl you want to talk to? Countdown from 3 and let it rip.
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:58 PM
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If im being more helpful id say you want to be smiley and laughey. Make jokes for your own amusement and laugh at them. If a joke falls flat noone remembers that shit as long as you do so its not as serious as it seems. There is something as too much but you need to find the line with it. I always fell more on the “too serious” side of the line so overdoing it was never a problem for me. I needed to ramp up my own living in the moment and energy. Could kind of be in my own world. Once i found ou…
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:49 PM
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I mean dont cum in your pants but have a good time with it lol.
/r/seduction12/06/24 06:50 PM
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Dude. If you want women to like you you need to get over your shyness.
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:22 PM
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Also I dont understand why people are acting like SMV isnt a thing because it def is. Age, social status, money, looks, charisma all play a part. The good news for you is that as long as men play their cards right they peak later in life for SMV 30s and 40s. You have time but use it wisely. Edit: women SMV peaks earlier because their formula works differently. Just how it is. Dont let women shame you for dating younger. Its the downside of the game for them.
/r/seduction11/06/24 02:33 AM
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Build a social network. And max out your looks. For me that was cutting out alcohol, weed, tobacco, and switching to only whole foods. I feel and look amazing. Looking amazing is only half of it. Feeling amazing makes your personality amazing lol. Work out. Putting on muscle takes time but its all good you still have it. Build a social network in the gym. Briefly say hi to dudes working out there, ask for spots, ask the guys how their days went. In a matter of six months if you go at the same ti…
/r/seduction11/06/24 02:31 AM
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You dont want to be an asshole no. However, when youre still trying to figure out where the line is youre better off stepping over it than being scared of it. ‘No means no’ as long as you remember that you havent become an irredeemable pos. Your interactions with women need to be fun for both of you. Conversations arent fun unless you bring some kind of unexpected energy to it.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:44 AM
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Good thread. If you approach women interactions as “i hope I have fun here” you will never go wrong.
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:16 PM
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I can tell you haven’t done the work for yourself. And dont mistake it, Improving yourself is HARD work. Once you start improving yourself and your confidence goes up you start realizing that your motivation to improve yourself starts coming from your own self satisfaction from being a better man rather than the pussy you hope to get.
/r/seduction05/06/24 11:45 PM
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This sub sucks now. It used to be about self improvement and “here are the rules to the game. Heres how to play and maximize your results at the game”. Now its all incel losers who complain when they realize the key to winning isnt easy.
/r/seduction05/06/24 10:12 PM
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OP this guy gets it. Extroversion is a muscle that needs to be worked. Practice at talking to people will only make you better at it. I have a similar problem. Im somewhere between extroverted and introverted. My job requires me to talk to many people daily. By the end of the day I was burned out on people and wanted to retreat inward. I go to the gym at the end of the day but i was in my world by this point in the afternoon and never took the time to converse with people. I wanted to change thi…
/r/seduction01/06/24 11:45 AM
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I did take adhd meds. They were awful. Made me productive af but gave me incredible anxiety talking to people. And girls I was into? I was too jittery and all over the place to do well with women on them. Women like calm men. So I flipped my life on its head. Everything that gave me anxiety I cut out of my life. Weed I cut out. Then I cut out video games because I only liked playing them when i was high. I got rid of instagram and streaming services. Started listening to audiobooks. This fixed m…
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:39 PM
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Dude i have adhd and get the feeling. Taking charge of my own life led to positive changes. I started taking charge socially with friends and from there started taking charge of my interactions with women.
/r/seduction29/05/24 02:20 AM
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Ditch this attitude if you want to get laid
/r/seduction03/04/24 05:51 AM
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Do it or dont do it idc.
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:59 PM
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That means approaching women in public who interest you.
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:56 PM
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I get this mindset because I was there. “Oh she just loves the attention”. But ive come to accept that to put yourself out there means you might end up being some girls dancing monkey but who cares? If you stick to not only being the chaser theres a good chance she could be really into you. And im telling you only dating women through dating apps takes out the top 30% quality of woman that you could be attracting.
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:53 PM
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Why men are having trouble dating: obesity rates going up (without women’s standards changing and more men falling into undateable category); rise of indoor hobbies that revolve around computers/tvs/gaming; online dating/instagram creating endless men pool for women to choose from; narrative that approaching a woman in public is “creepy”. Its not only women’s fault that this is happening. I do pretty well in online dating. Online dating is skewed and won’t give you your best options.I’ve always …
/r/seduction12/12/23 04:45 PM
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Its just a girl. You can talk about whatever you want. Having any kind of script/path for the conversation will be immediately recognizable to a woman. I’m all over the place conversationally with women. Pretty ADD.
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:41 PM
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What are the different attractive categories and three personalities?
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:10 PM
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