newlifeRP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure? That would be demostrating it has an effect on you.	/r/askTRP	01/10/19 12:59 PM
7	Little bro is a lazy depressed shit - what gives? Then the goals are not good enough.	/r/askTRP	24/06/19 01:49 PM
2	How To Get Your Shit Together: A Guide For 15-to-25-Year-Old Pieces of Shit Didn't know about the cold shower thing. Although not in the age range you describe, that's still one weak point of mine (sleep apnea on top). Will try cold showering, thank you so much!	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/19 09:21 AM
46	UPDATE on [28F] who opened her relationship and fiance found a monogamous woman. Yes, she realizes it's too late and if she could ruin his new relationship somehow. **Don't comment on her post or you will be banned. I love the bashing she's taking in the comments. Karma was due.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/04/19 02:22 AM
6	What's "the thing you do" to help you get out of the funk? Yep. Lack of sleep. u/Rav_the_slav your description of your day looks like total apathy which is one sinptom of depression. I'm not saying you are depressed, but good sleeping and eating habits are the first thing you look for on those cases. So, fix that first if it needs to be fixed.	/r/askTRP	01/04/19 10:03 PM
3	Catched onenitis while depressed. I am fucked This too shall pass. Always remember that.	/r/askTRP	01/04/19 07:14 AM
6	Even with abundance I still catch oneitis I just read another question from a dude that had long hair his whole life and had just shaved his head. His impression was that he projected a much more aggresive and dominant image, so no need to fear. If anything, shave and find out. I'm considering this myself (and I'm not even losing my hair). Muscle + beard + shaved head = pussy magnet	/r/askTRP	31/03/19 11:20 PM
12	Is it just me or do bitches seem to contact you in bunches? I just had 3 girls who have been MIA the last few months just blow up my phone Seasonality. Source: I'm a data analyst and I know how to bullshit about patterns that may not exist.	/r/askTRP	31/03/19 11:15 PM
3	good natured girl failing other girls shit tests. So, essentially, she naturally IDGAF. Not bothered, not resentful, just plain stoic and unaffected, while still courteous? Cool, I guess. Learn from her.	/r/askTRP	29/03/19 08:39 PM
3	What do i do at times like this? Almost certain if you keep talking to yourself like that.	/r/askTRP	26/03/19 12:41 PM
1	Should I spin this plate? Don't. You don't like her. Fucking girls you don't like just because you don't have any other option is desperate, it lacks abundance AND IT SHOWS (the rest of your world will know). Take it from my experience: if you do it, it will come back to haunt you in the future. Keep working. Keep working until can fuck a girl that you want to fuck because she makes you horny (despite you having only that girl as an option or many). That's abundance. It's not the number of girls you have at your beck and…	/r/askTRP	16/03/19 11:56 AM
1	Is there nothing we can do? Man, this is Atlas Shrugged becoming reality.	/r/askTRP	12/03/19 10:00 PM
2	Italian women seem like a nightmare to date/meet. Is this common or I'm in the wrong place? He's referring to the ongoing strife for independence in Catalonia. While Catalonia is a region in Spain and you could use the phrase "Catalonia in Spain", his remark is that Catalonia is so NOT getting independence that you don't get to give it a name as part of the whole anymore.	/r/askTRP	04/02/19 05:53 PM
2	I go to an exclusive private school, and I have low status because I'm poor Define respect first. You don't want respect, you want social validation, "to be popular". Social validation depending on the standards of whom? Kids that judge value based on your buying power? Seriously though... The problem is in your head, not out there (there's a different problem out there, but it's not yours to solve, so don't). Do you truly want respect? Respect is earned. It is created when you demonstrate solid values and act on them, when you are honest with yourself. So respect yours…	/r/askTRP	13/10/18 05:29 PM
2	Seriously, How The Fuck Do You Make Friends? On point. To OP, before looking for them, define "friend". Your reality is a reflection of yourself. Are you a friend yourself?	/r/askTRP	13/10/18 05:09 PM
22	Super hot HB9 says shell teach me how to fuck good if i pay her? Would it be a blue pill move to go through with this? She knows it. You are being used. Eject immediately.	/r/askTRP	04/10/18 12:56 AM
5	Wanting more than sex Nope. She wanted ANY dick, his was just the one available at that time. There's a difference.	/r/askTRP	17/09/18 04:16 PM
2	Chick who LJBF'd me 5 months ago (which I respectfully declined) blew past me and pretended not to see me on a tiny sidewalk. Is it because I wouldn't orbit her? Yes.	/r/askTRP	25/03/18 08:44 PM
14	I (35m) recently swallowed a long overdue RP and my fiancé (28f) is lost. She can't accept nor understand this and it's gonna ruin our relationship. The advice is read the whole thing. You are just trying to make shortcuts out of RP to fix a bluepill relationship. You will see there's no relationship fixing to be done once you understand RP. There's no changing others behavior, only changing yours, which is what influences other's behavior around you. There's only fixing your shit and working on yourself, understanding that this is your life, your journey, your responsibility and nodoby's else. And you will see that you have to find people t…	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/18 01:28 PM
2	How to proceed with the “not so fast” girls? Yes I got it reversed, thank you! I understood you pushed or pulled HER, but it's actually all about pushing or pulling yourself... How interesting, to change the frame of reference...	/r/askTRP	12/03/18 01:26 PM
2	How to proceed with the “not so fast” girls? No. Look up the push/pull concept in the PUA scene. Don't take it to heart, PUA is full of BS, but understand the concept of making her feel you are ready to eject at any moment and that she must win you. The way you talk about yourself, you seem to place a lot of weight into your outward appearance (money, looks) and why people should obviously like you just for that. That you can't reconcile that with reality tells a lot about your frame. Once you understand the push concept, if you are smart …	/r/askTRP	12/03/18 12:10 PM
2	How to proceed with the “not so fast” girls? Impatient. You pull too much and don't push enough.	/r/askTRP	12/03/18 11:49 AM
1	Can you guys help me understand why EXACTLY a "soft next" doesn't work unless you're fucking a woman regularly? What do you mean by this? Interesting comment. There's a saying: the arousal of the man is for the woman. The arousal of the woman is for the arousal of the man. Simply put, they want to be desired by a valuable male. Before you ask, the definition of valuable is all over this subreddit. The male sex-drive is stronger, but the act itself seems to be more pleasurable for the woman (orgasm-strength/orgasm-frequency, and much beyond). Can't tell. Not a woman. Also, does a man "need" it? Can't you j…	/r/askTRP	08/03/18 07:51 AM
3	Can you guys help me understand why EXACTLY a "soft next" doesn't work unless you're fucking a woman regularly? Not in the balance of power. She enjoys sex (the more so if she arouses you like an animal), but you NEED it (because testosterone). She needs attention (because estrogen?), hopefully you just enjoy it without craving for it (this is the BP, you see?).	/r/askTRP	07/03/18 09:37 PM
8	Can you guys help me understand why EXACTLY a "soft next" doesn't work unless you're fucking a woman regularly? And not just something, but her most valuable asset to keep you. If even that can't keep you around, she has nothing more to offer. Edit: btw, this also explains LMR. She's about to play her ultimate card and must KNOW that it's the right move.	/r/askTRP	07/03/18 09:29 PM
1	Need some feedback on where a date went wrong. Don't listen to this. This says: "just keep trying/waiting, she's worth the time, you may eventually get the prize". See who holds the power there? Don't. Also, believing it was just a circumstancial thing relieves you of responsibility for change. "You are ok, you did nothing wrong". Bullshit. You did something wrong, otherwise circumstances wouldn't have mattered. Just accept it, learn from it -that you don't know exactly what you did wrong doesn't mean you aren't learning... at the very least…	/r/askTRP	01/03/18 09:27 AM
1	Comfort Game in the #MeToo era Since writing this I have begun reading Models by Mark Manson and now I'm disgusted by my own comment. How curious.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/18 02:37 PM
14	Comfort Game in the #MeToo era Is this really a new unknown technique? It's been my modus operandi for years. The sequence goes something like: The Charmer: in groups you are charismatic and a leader and you enthrall her through social proof Dominate With Fire: ... but deep down you are some horny beast and you want to fuck her like there's no tomorrow Rough Fuck: no explanation needed Beta-Smokescreen: technique hereby being discussed Morning Love Fuck: like number 3 but looking into eyes, the beta-smokescreen lingers and ma…	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/18 01:17 AM
3	Ghosting girl from hometown We have all been there. No point regretting what you can't change. Use it as learning fodder.	/r/askTRP	02/02/18 08:31 AM
6	Fed up of being treated like a bitch by friends TL;DR: Fuck you then, there's no TL;DR here. This started as a response, but it ended being an entry to my own journal, for my personal mental structure. So read it all or none of it, I can only say it was good enough for myself to write it all down. Frame. I'm of the belief that everybody shit tests you, not only girls. Shit tests are a way to triangulate your/their position in the social hierarchy. Just like wolf pups play, trying to submit each other. And then wolf adults use this experience …	/r/askTRP	06/10/17 11:01 AM
1	I am semi-hot, a (6/10 - 7/10), but I'm awkward as fuck Why do you sound awkward?	/r/askTRP	23/09/17 03:15 PM
3	Went to a party alone, went horribly wrong Agree. That voice in your head that says you are shit is not you. Your true self is the one listening to it. You do not have to control it —that is like saying "don't think about a pink cow", you are thinking about it now, aren't you?— but to accept it and give no fucks about it. Meditate, it teaches you this.	/r/askTRP	23/09/17 01:16 PM
1	Joined the gym, no idea what i'm doing. Programs? I've been doing stronglift 5x5 for 3.5 months now, quite happy with the results... Could you explain what's this T-Rex figure? Also, when/why did you end your SL cycle?	/r/askTRP	21/09/17 12:36 AM
10	Honest Observations after 8 years in the game Respect should never be unconditional. You should treat people with respect IF they are up to your standards. If your standards are not doing any of those, fine, but don't let others do it to you and still put up with them.	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/17 12:13 PM
1	Girlfriend of one year not satisfying me sexually at all last night - what to do next Don't. You will tell her with your actions. Do what you have been told in other comments: next Saturday is dudes night out. No justifying it, no apologies, no anticipating or giving in to any argument over it (because it's perfectly reasonable behavior): you wanted to hang out with your friends and you did.	/r/askTRP	18/09/17 12:03 AM
2	Lifting / Working out and inner barricade My experience seems similar to yours, so I hope this helps: I'm also 28. Also had been signing up and down from gyms for a long time, paying not to go. My problem was I didn't have a routine, so I went to the gym, did some random exercises and went home. No objective whatsoever, so no way of measuring my progress. Found this sub. Found about stronglift 5x5. Downloaded the app (or some app, there are many). Now I hit the gym 3-4 times a week, and that's because I'm scared of injuring myself if I …	/r/askTRP	13/07/17 03:20 PM
30	Women Need the Approval of other Women- a short example. Time to take financial advantage of that? I mean, you know the dinamic already, you can reel them all in via "group discounts" for the alpha. She then proceeds to demonstrate high status to her friends because she is "VIP" and... You gotta love peer pressure.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/17 09:07 PM
12	Easy old school hack for combating pre-approach awkwardness How about humming a song? I think it is analogous, and it shows you are comfortable with your voice and yourself + comfortable with doing something few people do in public + you are happy, so much so you whistle or sing for no apparent reason.	/r/seduction	11/07/17 09:00 PM
2	Was this a shit test? You sound like my father, stating his intentions before he does anything so he can get the approval of my mother. My take on this: You are not avoiding only shit tests, you are avoiding confrontation. You lack confidence in your decisions and want her to tell you if you are doing the right thing. You are putting her in the captain seat. She doesn't like the captain seat. That is your seat from the moment you were born a man, mind you. You were designed for it. Now take responsibility for it.	/r/askTRP	10/07/17 09:40 PM
2	Was this a shit test? Why are you explaining what you are going to do in the first place? Just do it.	/r/askTRP	10/07/17 08:51 PM
2	How do I deal with bullies and verbal abuse? It's not going to make you seem like a bitch if you say it with an IDGAF attitude. I can't really explain it here, you have to picture both ways of saying it in your head: "Yeah, that's me." –Shy smile, small posture, eyes down, avoiding eye contact with the bully, waiting for the conversation to move on by itself or lead by others– or, "Yeah, that's me." –Confident lopsided smile that doesn't touch your eyes, maintained but not provocative eye contact with the bully, small pat on his back or sh…	/r/askTRP	10/07/17 05:12 AM
4	My ex-girlfriend has stalked me this week and now she will come to a party where she knows I will go... how to proceed? This. I wish I would have done this so many times in the past.	/r/askTRP	08/07/17 04:14 PM
7	how much becoming fit has changed other's people's reaction at you? “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”	/r/askTRP	08/07/17 12:17 PM
5	How do you tell if a girl in club attire is hiding fat? Joke? I use the same method. I thought it was common knowledge? Edit: I also pick them up by the armpits and perform an overhead lift.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 06:42 PM
1	Dreaming of my ex-girlfriend constantly of a year ago Lifting, martial arts and contact sports. Transform that negative energy into something useful: testosterone. Best return of investment ever.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 06:41 PM
1	Dreaming of my ex-girlfriend constantly of a year ago For God sake, where is your inner animal? I'm almost trembling with rage while reading your story. THERE IS NOTHING TO FEEL GUILTY FOR. IT'S IRRATIONAL. REALIZE THAT. KILL THAT SHIT MOTHERFUCKER. BRING FORTH THE FIGHT IN YOU. SCREAM! Fuck soccer. Try rugby. There's no greater feeling of power than smashing another dude to the ground.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 02:33 PM
6	Psychological recovery from isolation Listen. Apathy is a sign of depression. I was there too four months ago. My solution: exercise. I started training martial arts. My mood skyrocketed from there. One day got the feeling I needed more. Started a diet and lifting again, only got better. Stopped smoking and drinking, got better still. I feel great now. Baby steps. Just do something. Don't think, act.	/r/askTRP	24/06/17 12:32 PM
3	How to deal with disobedience at work? Yes, this. There's always two sides to leading: carrot and stick. You reward when a behavior is desirable and punish when is not. Tips on punishment, use the soccer method: yellow card (soft punishment) and red card (hard punishment). A boss once explained to me that he had a secretary which was his right hand, he couldn't go without her for a day. But she had a bad temper and one day she started screaming to someone badly. He said he seated her in her office and calmly explained the situation, …	/r/askTRP	21/06/17 12:03 PM
1	What are the odds that every girl lies to them selves? It has to do with power. "Look at this dog I own. It is so well trained, I can kick it and kick it and it will still come greet me, wiggling it's tail, when I arrive home. It is so cute, I love it."	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 10:45 PM