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probably like 30% of guys and 70% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:24 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:17 PM
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if its a one time thing or very rare for like her friend’s birthday or something idc at all honestly. i trust her. if its repeated and its her ideal way to spend her weekends then yeah its a dealbreaker mainly because thats not my thing at all. me and my current girlfriend are both more into dive bars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:04 PM
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yeah its the lunch break room at the hospital. work with mainly women, love em all great hardworking and smart friends. but some of the shit they say would make the black pill look blue in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:55 PM
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I agree. id be fine being with the perfect partner if she was simply asexual. if she’s straight and has had previous partners but just finds me completely unattractive then no chance lol. we can be friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:30 PM
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wife material = attractive but also loyal/caring. qualities that would make a good mother. also tends to overlap with traditional values like cooking/cleaning. its no different from a woman’s idea of hookup material vs husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:52 PM
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abundance of options. it feels nice to be courted im sure, and if someone won’t do it they know someone else probably will. I dont blame anyone for doing it, why settle if there are most likely better options and all you have to do is wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:34 AM
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I cant say now really. itd have to be a case by case thing. Based on the success rates, evidence, current research in that moment, my partner’s genetic history, etc. Really dependent on the technology in that moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:30 PM
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watch Gattaca (1997) as for my answer? yes but within reason and limited
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:44 PM
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im speaking strictly of physical immutable traits. otherwise id agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:32 PM
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there’s a wider variety of attractive phenotypes (for lack of a better word) for women than there are for men in other words there are more ways for women to be considered attractive whereas men are more limited. most attractive men look extremely alike
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:59 PM
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CMV: men mainly care about N count because of their insecurities. the more men a woman has slept with, statistically the less chance that you will have been her best or biggest sex partner and thats what they mainly care about. people will argue with me but i want them to imagine a hyperbolic scenario and truthfully choose between who they’d rather date. both women are attractive and check all other boxes you’d want in a partner woman A: she has slept with a dozen different men. however, it is g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:12 PM
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looks most important thing by far for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:35 PM
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fuck the aldmeri dominion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:22 AM
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men only care about high N counts because it risks them not being a girl’s best/biggest encounter. disagree? here’s a thought experiment Girl A has had 7 previous sexual partners. All of them were significantly worse than you in bed and less endowed. This is guaranteed. You are the best partner this girl’s ever had and stand out by far. Girl B has had 1 previous partner in her entire life. It was the best she’s ever had and he was much better in bed compared to you. Who do you date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:27 PM
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make out contest is crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:54 PM
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no i think its gross. my wife will die wondering if its even possible for me to fart. idrc if she does but i guess id prefer not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:01 AM
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why do you have to be the most satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:56 PM
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what makes you blue pill then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:40 PM
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this is definitely a real account from a real blue pill woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:21 PM
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what N count is too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:25 PM
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both before and after depending on the situation. and to answer your second question i think is just blissful ignorance mixed with a lack of self-reflection. driving back to my original point where yeah guys on average are probably less emotionally mature or at least mature later. the wake-up call isnt women’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:17 PM
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negging and dread preys on insecurity and may work in the short term but only on specific women, but will also only build resentment in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:06 PM
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Most women I know have admitted to hooking up with pretty shitty people. We all go out a lot and tell stories. Im not necessarily interested in them romantically. but they are my coworkers and friends. And i don’t blame them for being attracted to physically attractive people. nor do i think they are some evil beings for hooking up with awful men. but it is revealing of a lot. the more i interact with women the more I realize how important it is to be hot. thats why the advice i give any men is …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:02 PM
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and where my opinion differs from traditional red pilled stuff is that I dont think women are attracted to bad guys because theyre bad. i dont believe in any of the dark triad bullshit nor do I believe being an asshole gets you women. Being hot gets you women, and women are more inclined to ignore asshole qualities the hotter you are. and I dont even think this is just a woman thing. Id argue men would portray the exact same phenomena if they had as many options as women did. its a human thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:58 PM
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the wakeup call isnt finding out women want good men only for ltr. its finding out how far a woman is willing to drop her “good man” qualifications for a really hot guy. im not even red pilled but I work alongside mainly women and have heard some diabolical stories of them dating and hooking up with legitimately and clearly awful people. can also attribute a lot of this to just being youthful and immature. but that leads into another controversial take where women seem keen on establishing the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:45 PM
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No woman in a US big city is gonna be tempted by a 40k salary lol. That’s living with 3 roommates kinda money. That’s no vacation kinda money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:37 PM
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brother. those are hella low balls. anything under $100k is a negative qualifier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:11 PM
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shiiiiit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:08 PM
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they dont need to flirt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:44 PM
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You shouldn’t have to experience personally every mistake to know it was a mistake. No one should feel bad about not making mistakes in their youth lol. Some people have the foresight/critical thinking to avoid the mistakes and risks from the get go. With that said, I don’t think short term relationships are mistakes at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:44 PM
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Most of the advice women give men on fixing their personality/confidence/social skills is purposely incredibly vague because it lets them evade the reality of acknowledging the true reason some men can’t get with women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:22 PM
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Dying to save your loving wife is like the best possible way to go. What’s more meaningful than saving the one’s you love? I know my Dad would. And I would as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:52 PM
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plenty of “leftist” presenting women who will date and make excuses for their conservative boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:13 PM
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I agree. I think an issue though is men can weaponize their own insecurity against women. Much of the high n-count hate stems from it imo. Men will cite things like high divorce rates, cheating, and “pair bonding” to demonize high n count women but in reality it comes from the insecurity of potentially not being that woman’s best/biggest sex partner. The higher the n count, the statistically less chance that a guy will be that girl’s best sexual partner she’s ever had. Men instinctively all want…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:37 AM
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Majority of men are insecure when it comes to sex/dating. Im insecure myself. Men never admit it but its true. Most of them are insecure about being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:00 AM
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u can literally see the button at the top of the screenshot he sent in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:07 PM
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just press the translate button. worked pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:00 PM
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Theyre not lying they just dont understand average level of muscle in a man. I don’t think there’s such a thing as an unconscious lie. They are just misinformed. The average natty lifter of 5 years who most certainly is muscular is perceived as a desirable unmuscular man in contrast to the steroid celebrities you’d see in superhero/action blockbusters. Im pretty much in agreement with you other than the “lying” part. Its not nefarious, just ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:54 PM
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women will say it out loud lol. Its certainly not a fantasy and is the reality in many cases. There’s nothing wrong with it yet many of yall continue to gaslight and deny it on here. I work in a job with 95% women. they are all incredibly kind and some of the hardest working people ive met. They say things that’ll make the average redpill person here look like a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:44 PM
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often he is. nothing wrong with your mindset though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:16 PM
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Having a relationship with a man you find less attractive than your previous hookups is also settling. No one wants to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:58 PM
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This is my personal case. I know other men are different. But I do care how my opinions of women make them feel. All im really saying, is im more than willing to have longterm relationships with high N count women who did a lot of frequent hookups as long as I would have also hypothetically been attractive enough for her to be willing to hookup with me. And I have this fear because 1. im insecure, and 2. often women do settle for men they arent as attractive to after hooking up with many men the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:56 PM
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Thats fair. If every woman had the same mindset where relationship guy and casual sex guy have to be the same level of physical attractiveness then I would not be worried nor do what I originally said. The problem is that many women are willing to drop physical attractiveness standards to date someone they wouldnt hookup with. If a woman doesnt do hookups at all then it doesnt matter. But in my original post I discussed dating hypothetical hookup culture women. I think one of the biggest points …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:46 PM
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So if the only difference is the Relationship Guy also meets relationship standards why wouldnt you be willing to have a casual hookup with him? You didn’t answer my question. Not wanting to date everyone you hook up with makes sense. Not willing to hook up with everyone you’d be willing to date only makes sense with my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:32 PM
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For what reason other than them failing to achieve a level of attractiveness that you’d be willing to drop a requirement of commitment just for an opportunity to fuck, would you ever not fuck casually someone you’d date? Also Im talking HIGH body counts like 40-50. Its more of a red flag honestly to have 50 failed serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:22 PM
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Id date/marry a high N count woman. I dont see # of sexual partners lowering someone’s intrinsic worth. However, any relationship with a high N count woman I will make it explicitly clear that I only want something casual at first. I dont like casual relationships nor do I actually want one with her, but if she’s not willing to do something casual with you like she would with her past partners then she’s just settling for you and sees you as a provider. Once its clear that she is actually attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:51 PM
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a lot of what makes a man attractive is how he looks in comparison to another man. by definition, this is going to create less attractive men. If every single man in the world suddenly physically changed to achieve a certain threshold of physical attractiveness, the bar would simply raise again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:40 PM
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what is gold pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:31 PM
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all that matters is looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:08 PM
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Huhhhh
/r/PussyPassDenied18/10/21 12:17 AM
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Lol do u know what sub this is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:26 PM
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This is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:49 PM
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Normalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:35 PM
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