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If the world was so simple as in you get a result when you put in the appropriate effort it would be a fair place to live in.But unfortunately life's unfair. Dating as a guy is playing it in hard mode for many and that's what sucks. That being said you won't get it unless you go searching for it,if you are a guy.The dynamics are different for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:55 PM
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Naive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:27 PM
2

Is a woman trying to date casually or looking for a hook up ,the only one getting out of the situation ship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:12 PM
2

I don't know.But I hope some sort of high grade contraceptive gets invented which can take desires as well.Also something to reduce loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:11 PM
5

I was told I am worthless by my own father but that was when I didn't have a job and my sister as far as I know never heard anything like that.She is kind of valued more than me.So may it's just our anecdotes that differ 🤷.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:26 AM
13

Nah I've never been appreciated or congratulated just for having a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:58 AM
1

Idk ,because I would have to be the initiator and would mostly have to pay for the dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:33 AM
1

I don't get dates that much.And it would be a surprise if someone agreed to go to one with me.So dating multiple people at once is kinda impossible not because I am a gentleman but because I can't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:17 AM
-3

Apart from occasional jokes it's alright not considering dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:09 AM
2

Yes my mom did
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:55 PM
2

26M No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:36 AM
11

If you don't feel like marrying or cohabitating then don't do it,as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:51 AM
1

for most men.It works for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:25 AM
9

Idk maybe they are just venting online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:39 AM
11

Yeah and also most of these debates are pointless as people aren't gonna change their preferences anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:31 AM
2

As someone 5'2 ,it's kinda REAL hard.Ive never had any experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:21 AM
1

I mean not exactly uncomfortable but they kind of have a disappointed face whenever I bring those topics.As for the second point ,some of my mates have given me the number of escorts as that may be my only way to intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:01 AM
1

The first and second is kinda correct.While the third is not.Ive been told to earn more money and get rich to get a gf so....I guess I am a 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:54 AM
1

I think 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:14 PM
1

Man 5'2.below avg face,avg salary,ok social skills and a healthy body though not fit or muscular.What would my rating be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:46 PM
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That's a bad take.I mean is a few moments of pleasure enough to justify being responsible for another 18 years.Abortion is an option.No one should be forced to become a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:28 PM
1

Ah good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:40 PM
9

Anyone can be burdened by their loneliness regardless of their own gender.May be men are more lonely due the said gender roles as well as the difficulty in finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:14 PM
27

We are moving away from the traditional gender roles ,right?So why put the burden of approaching solely on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:49 PM
1

I'm about 5'2 so most won't.I guess maybe one will show some attraction but it won't be anything substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:38 PM
35

A plane girl has way more chances than an avg guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:01 AM
2

I'd turn gay and I am straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:26 PM
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I am a very much below avg guy and I struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:31 AM
4

Maybe but I do believe social dynamics for men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:01 PM
6

It's easy to say arguments like this rather than think about he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:48 PM
4

Well it's at least better to love the cage.It can help cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:46 PM
1

Ah well it's not going to change anyway. Honestly every time I feel lonely ,I know it's my fault.I am the one who is failing and letting society decide it may be due to my social ineptitude.Ive accepted that I don't have much to offer. Having said so I don't find gay men having this problem.Infact I've been asked out on a date by two of them in the past.Having been born in the wrong sexuality in my case unfortunately means being straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:16 PM
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Sex is a strong urge but not a need.It varies from person to person.From my personal experience I've had a huge libido until 24 and sex felt like a need and it would've been great to experience it but I couldn't no matter how much I tried. Honestly life is so short and the experience of intimacy and sex might be a wonderful experience may be I should pay and experience it if I can't get it the normal way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:52 PM
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Let's assume what you are saying is true.Even then most guys can't get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:28 AM
1

How about an overweight broke man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:28 PM
2

If they won't find anyone in real life ,then it may happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:28 PM
3

That's why I am thinking of giving upon dating.Its kind of hard to me.I would rather put that effort somewhere else and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:12 AM
2

I've tried man.Ive asked some out, gave clues to some etc there were no positive responses.Also as you age your chances of meeting women decrease so does your probability of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:17 PM
2

That may be true.But how do I even develop those skills if none those women are interested in talking to me like that.Also I am very short (5ft2) so developing such an atitude may appear offputting to many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:04 PM
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You can call me an involuntary celibate.I have no problem talking to women but none of them are interested in me and I don't hate them for that.It is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:34 AM
1

Honestly I wish I was gay not because I hate women but because I can't get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:51 PM
1

But the reason you said was the disgust towards the industry.I just pointed out there are women who hate porn solely because it's porn not because of morality but rather just disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:42 PM
1

Not really some women are outright disgusted by it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:34 PM
1

Never had it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:54 AM
1

Nice study
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:17 PM
2

I read some article that women crave variety more may be that's the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:55 PM
5

How short r u?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:43 PM
2

Dating is mostly about luck and opportunity....so worry not your time may come
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:41 AM
1

Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:10 PM
2

0
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:56 PM
1

I don't think anyone would pay if they can get it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:57 AM
5

I am serious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:16 PM
6

Sperms banks have a height requirement...the 5'7 won't be able to donate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:09 PM
5

Ah then i stand corrected...straight men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:48 PM
12

Or may be 30 percentage of them aren't in relationships or dead bedrooms are far common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:38 PM
12

It was a study based on straight couples...I think(though i may be wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:29 PM
3

Nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:48 AM
1

What does the suicide rate say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:35 PM
5

It won't... honestly it will reduce as you get older in most cases.Sex is a want not a need and your drive changes depending upon your circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:53 PM
3

Good...don't reduce your standards.But it makes me glad that I've given upon dating....I can be myself for just myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:47 PM
3

Who knows..🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:21 PM
7

Take a visit to the adultery sub and your opinion changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:18 PM
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Its not because I like or agree with it...but because I believe it won't change atleast radically in my life time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:47 PM
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It won't change no matter what....it is how it is.So realise it and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:09 PM
1

Cause i don't know where to find them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:06 AM
21

I don't know but I am taking that path and so far I've been alright
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:09 AM
3

And men don't need to justify paying for it too🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:43 PM
4

I don't like virtue signalling so I am gonna put it straight...we short guys have it hard in dating.The best thing you can do is to recognise it,lower your expectations and make changes.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:30 PM
1

So...I am a woman 😂😂
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:44 PM
1

True
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:44 PM
0

Very difficult....atleast for me
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:48 PM
6

I think it's luck
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:32 AM
8

Wrestling
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:00 PM
5

May be but I can't take that decision for him,can I??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:55 AM
15

Do you wanna fake ur character or change it or want a women who is ok with you being you??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:52 AM
1

No I am still not dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:00 AM
1

Alright✌️✌️..so i don't have chance there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:33 PM
1

Don't care about her man.She doesn't know what it is like to be repeatedly rejected or being invisible atleast at some point in their lives.They don't know what it feels like to feel undesirable or how it can shape their lives.You can't spawn confidence or forgo insecurities in magical enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:49 AM
1

I think he said some options are better than no options.And I don't seem to understand what is it that makes that comment so triggering or what is it that about men who want casual sex instead of a romantic relationship that irks you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:34 AM
1

""Their only priority is casual sex".Why can't it be a priority for them??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:17 AM
1

Hmm then why is that there are more and more women into open relationships than men.I think women have more of an opportunity into casual sex than men and they can get it easily.There is no need to criticize anyone looking for anything casual. Although I agree there are many guys who feel entitled to it.And visiting an escort is more of a stigma and you chances of getting STDs is very high and it's costly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:11 AM
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