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Yes that’s called being an adult, you don’t need a Gen Z term for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:46 PM
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emotional hygeine? lmao wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:42 AM
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As someone similar, this is all truth. Calling men assholes is just projection from inferior men who need something to feel good about themselves (well he might be rich but I am a nicer person and therefore better!) or jaded women. ​ Pro tip that you're aware of. Women call men douchebags all the time. If a woman calls you a douchebag she 100% wants to or is willing to sleep with you. The insult douche bag comes from someone who views themselves as beneath or inferior than and is again , project…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:12 PM
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Someone standing up for themselves and caring confidently about their interests will be perceived as an asshole by losers. Get called asshole all the time on Reddit, it's because the average person on this site is a big loser
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:05 PM
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It's because the benefit of letting out emotions (having someone hear you out, you getting to vent, to cry, get comforted, etc.) is drastically outweighed by the cost of doing so (someone you are pursuing or romantically seeing losing respect and sexual interest in you). The best decision unless the man is dealing with serious trauma that needs professional help (war veteran for example) is to just bury it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:01 PM
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lol women do not want to date a guy in therapy. They like telling a guy to go to therapy because in their mind it's them doing something positive but ultimately he fails the shit test and she views him as lesser for it. ​ You see stuff like this online from women who (ironically) lack emotional intelligence enough to understand the root of their own desires. But a man admitting he needs to go to therapy is admitting he is broken to some level, which is a weakness, which is repulsive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:58 PM
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Women who think they are emotionally intelligent so say stuff like the OP, but really just are therapy addicted head cases themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:51 PM
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Because personality didn’t change but the response to it did ya dingus
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:09 PM
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As someone who is tall, used to be overweight, and got shredded - personality is almost entirely the halo effect. ​ Dont get me wrong - weve all met guys who are confident and charismatic that you respect much more after meeting them than from a picture. But your status in the group makes things you do come across better. I can make the same comment a dork could, and it would be perceived as funnier. If it's awkward then cuter. ​ Just how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:42 AM
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evidence on short women? Dont disagree. From my experience short girls are really into it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:40 AM
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lmao no . Tall just straight up means tall. It does not mean white, height is a ubiquitious advantage. ​ Now 'cool' might be a non-asian dog whistle. But tall sure isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:39 AM
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Literally no one used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:52 PM
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It literally has not been in common vernacular until the last 2-3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:34 AM
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Lol I’m a bit of an ass but used to go to Bumble sub for entertainment when they had rate my profile posts A clear loser asking if his profile is good and women saying “I’d swipe right on you” Just lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:33 AM
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lmao PTs and financial advisors are 100% wastes of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:13 PM
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I love bitter truths like this. Problem is sites like Reddit are full of coddling soft enablers who see a guy saying "Im a bit overweight, and balding, and not very tall..." with women responding "I love teddy bear guys!". ​ It's all complete bullshit and while you think you are being nice you are doing more harm than good. As OP said, if you arent getting approached or having some success when going out to bars/ckubs or you cant get any matches on your profile then you likely have work to do on…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:12 PM
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it was mentioned briefly like 100 years ago, only recently has it gained traction and has been overused to layer on why you are never in the wrong during any relationship issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:05 PM
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If you use it unironically then you likely have some screws loose yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:04 PM
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Overused word: gas lighting. Anyone who uses this term seriously has some sort of main character complex where they can do no wrong and think the world is out to manipulate them. Run.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:35 PM
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That's something I learned with time growing up. When you are raised off of media (movies, shows, other blue pill stuff, etc.) you assume that everyone is like an RPG character. If they are strong in one area (football) they must be bad in others (kindness, intellect, etc). IMO this is a coping mechanism to make ourselves feel good ​ ​ In reality people from UMC families are often a jack of all trades. Social, have good jobs/education, well traveled, interesting hobbies, more healthy, and yes ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:34 PM
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Yea it’s amazing how COVID could’ve been a referendum on our nations obesity issue but no one wanted to touch that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:43 PM
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Difference being our numbers are pumped up and we are a nation of fat fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:30 PM
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This is why most guys shouldn’t focus on just $$$ to score chicks. Personality, interests, and looks matter once a threshold has been met A girl typically doesn’t care as long as you have a solid career. If you focus solely on money at the sacrifice of all else then you won’t end up with the hot girls you thought. Hot rich girls date hot rich guys, hot poor girls date hot poor guys, and so on. Ideally it’s better to have both, but I’ve seen men slave away in careers they hate and not get the res…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:07 PM
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Yes absolutely leagues exist, but personal preferences exist too, which can help or hurt someone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:04 PM
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Because regardless of who told you otherwise, men and women are different and value different things in a partner Women seek ambition in men, confidence, ability to handle a crisis, stoicism, and emotional stability. If someone is low self esteem they lack those things Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:02 PM
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With the debates he just had to let Biden talk, and throw numbers out there to look like the senile man he is. Instead trump, less senile more deranged, came across as a bully (because he is) Tbh don’t even have an issue with trumps Covid response and think history will reflect positively on that. An over arching fed response would’ve been a disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:29 PM
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Be more direct as in ask out It can be embarrassing when a girl is coming into you with hints, but you aren’t interested, however she just thinks you’re obtuse and keeps it going And you can’t say “I’m not interested” because they have plausible deniability. So it just becomes weird. Intentionally stopped going to work happy hours because of this Same feminist chicks complaining about harassment at work will grab you all over after 2 drinks go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:18 PM
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Were they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:56 PM
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Yes that is the case about literally any issue. Scott harps about things like global warming, and decaying of middle America, yet is beating the drum against wfh which would help both - as well as a slew of other areas Human resource department has made relationships at work , and not just dating but actual friendships, basically impossible. You can’t form true friendships without digging deep on areas in life and you can’t dig deep without breaking HR policy. I agree that there is a need for fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:52 PM
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Lmao Godspeed brother
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:50 PM
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Usually have to wait until the real world to see that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:48 PM
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Just know this wasn’t always the case buddy. I was in college around 2012 and this wasn’t even a thing, but it exploded 2015 on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:47 PM
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His economic policies were directly responsible for lower black unemployment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:42 PM
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Didn’t really learn in 2020 imo. If trump was able to debate above a 5th grade level, or if George Floyd doesn’t get murdered, or if COVID doesn’t happen - trump wins. Think all 3 were just too much and country wanted change
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:37 PM
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This has been the case for awhile. Charles Krauthammer said it best. The right thinks the left is misguided. The left thinks the right is evil. Spend 2 seconds on Reddit and you’ll see that the marketing the DNC pushes is being drunk like kool aid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:35 PM
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Not just men, but white people too. It’s one thing to not pander to whites, it’s another to demonize them completely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:33 PM
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I think that’s what women don’t understand. Almost all men choose their career at some level conscious or otherwise for mate selection. Women are the nesters Men are perfectly happy, and now doing so, living in a one bedroom apartment on a futon playing video games all day eating nachos for dinner (sad but true). Men have been hardwired to sacrifice themselves for women or society in general. Men earn jobs to support their family. Women often do so because they want to increase their standard of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:55 PM
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You also don’t take TVs with you. A computer addict used to be ostracized in society. Spending 4-5+ hours a day on your computer made you a loser who never left the house Now everyone spends that much time on their phone and they aren’t free anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:33 PM
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That’s why, as a man, I don’t recommend you go to women for help, emotional support, availability, etc. because even if you receive it the outcome from that (you being perceived as week) more than offsets any benefit from expressing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:31 PM
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Forget the fat spinsters at twoX. In the clip alone the lemming audience applauds when bill says women with degrees don’t marry men without. Completely missing the point he’s about to make. “Women empowerment” has been beaten in so hard people are basically brainwashed As you said the outcome of this won’t be good. Declining birth rates, lack of labor for real jobs (no, not your corporate power point making but actual hard physical labor jobs), rise of violence, rise of mass shooting, rise of ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:30 PM
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In men’s defense those structures have been attacked and demonized Fraternities “Locker room culture” Boy Scouts Country clubs Make no mistake if there’s a male only space it will be demonized and dismantled. Hell other 30+ year olds can remember when if you liked comic books or Star Wars you were a basement virgin nerd. Now those groups completely kicked you out as well - women is where growth is As for Scott he is guilty as this as anyone. His writings have a ton of demoralization in them and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:25 PM
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False. Mental health. It’s the new gold mine and being pushed everywhere you look Of course none of it is about the “why” you are feeling bad. It’s that “everyone” feels bad and for $X a month you can feel better too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:22 PM
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Scott Galloway is a hack dude. Been reading his shit for years. Issue with men is work from home - are you fucking serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:21 PM
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Lmao sure thing buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:24 AM
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Eth trader lol enjoy being poor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:54 PM
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So you lack any meaningful young adult dating experience got it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:29 PM
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Lol just admit you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:02 AM
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Not talking about you. But men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:01 AM
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Men are absolutely intimidated by hot women Men absolutely are not intimidated by a 32 year old Ivy League lawyer who likes to be bossy and thinks she is entitled to a 5 star guy For men to be intimidated they either have to want something (to be with a very attractive feminine girl) or are physically scared aka intimidated by other bigger men. If a woman thinks she can’t get guys because they are intimidated by her then 9 out of 10 times it’s because her personality is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:46 PM
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Spot on. It’s why you see women flat out lie (I like short fat guys it’s all personality!) on Reddit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:40 PM
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Lol no. Never over 28 Keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:23 PM
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Lol no. Only date fit, educated , middle to upper middle class women. Swipe right on maybe 10% of all women if that Try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:56 PM
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Wrong. Women still want the aloof asshole Source: 1k+ Matches 100+ dates Hookups whenever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:16 AM
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It really has become the matrix. It’s so bad people are unplugging themselves
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 04:11 AM
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Lmao dude travel abroad to non western countries (central and Eastern Europe are fair) and good god it’s so refreshing. None of the shit that is pushed here is there at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 04:09 AM
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You don’t truly internalize this stuff until you stop idealizing other men (grifters, politicians, athletes) and instead make yourself the hero I haven’t watched a second of a tate video and couldn’t pick him out of a lineup. But if there’s someone getting the message out then all for it
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 04:06 AM
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Wait for when millennial woman hit mid 30s and 40s. Gen X had some semblance of traditional values. Those women left behind truly will raise hell and no one will give a damn
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 04:05 AM
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Despite being quarantined, red pill knowledge is coming out in full force. Go figure. Men are waking up. What’s being taught is clearly a disconnect from our biology (both men and women). It’s leaving us confused, depressed, sad, and purposeless. This is the pendulum swinging back. Big tech and media will try to get in the way, but real life results will always speak for themselves
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 04:03 AM
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Yep. The problem with Incel types is that it isn’t that their lives are too hard, it’s that their lives have been too easy. Never shown the importance of working for anything, of discipline, of building something, etc Women’s natural state with kids is to seek protection. That is fine and all, but a father is to prepare them for adulthood. You have one without the other and good chance your kid is fucked up, poorly socialized, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:16 PM
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More kids than ever before are raised either by a single mother or a divorced household where mother has majority custody I firmly believe that this has led to many of societies problems facing males. That, combined with the demonization of men, is really setting them up for failure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:43 PM
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It’s ironic. Parents this generation are embracing video games because it keeps the kids in the house where they can be monitored and known to be safe. Boomers and older hated them for opposite reason. Because it kept the kids home all day The goal of parenting isn’t to create a safe life for your kid, it should be to give them strength to handle life’s challenges
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:41 PM
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That’s how it should be for everyone Learn from people, even those you disagree with. But end of day you have to be your own fucking man Followers of anyone, this guy, politicians, etc. are sad excuses of individuals themselves
/r/TheRedPill29/08/22 04:52 PM
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IMO gay men on average are more attractive than straight More likely to be fit, dress well, groom well, etc At least the ones I know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:46 PM
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Close. Gay men care much more about their appearance than straight men Gay men on average are more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:45 PM
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Wrong. Women get red pilled when they reach 30 and realize they were lied to all their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:43 PM
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It’s why women see all male groups (fraternities, country clubs, sports teams, Boy Scouts, etc) as threats and try to either infiltrate or eliminate those groups Men just need areas in life where they can be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:41 PM
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Wrong. They were held in higher regard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:27 PM
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Yes this is Red Pill 101 shit. Blue pill is media and cultural brainwashing. What’s funny is there used to not be a blue pill for women, as men have always been straight forward about what they are into. But just like the 80s and 90s raised men that the nerd gets the girl in the end, this generation is raising women to be independent, assertive, dominant, abrasive, and a victim all at once. You’re starting to see the same effect , waves of women 30+ unable to settle down because they were sold a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:26 PM
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Lmao most doctors are not shredded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:30 PM
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Data is over 30 years old. Views of women earning more are much more different today than the 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:12 PM
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So you think the work aspect grants respect from your wife even though if you didn’t work it’d be inconsequential to the families bottom line? Not disagreeing. My spouse is a doctor and thus a much higher future income earner. I make a good individual income (130k) but pales in comparison to her potential when she finishes residency. Am not worried about making less than her or about taking a back seat to her career, but am slightly worried eventually she will lose that respect she has now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:08 PM
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It’s not hypocritical if you don’t think men and women are exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:49 PM
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This. Dates reflect matches. Where any woman can get them but only a few men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:09 AM
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This is objectively the case Generally it goes: better to be an above average man than anything else Then better to be an above average woman Then better to be an average women Then average man Then low women Gap Then low man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:02 AM
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Think you underestimate the shit life an average man faces
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:01 AM
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80/20 rule is just a general rule you can apply to almost anything and it’s true. Ex: 80% of coca colas sales come from 20% of their customers Dating is same way. Get 10 random men in a room. Only 1 or 2 will likely be “successful” dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:20 PM
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Normalizing mental illness, demand for therapy, and rising usages of depression and anxiety related medicine all would say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:43 PM
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No. The opposite. Work was never fulfilling nor was it supposed to be. Women thought that mans club was someplace special where men had these awesome and exciting jobs. In reality men did it solely to provide for their families. It’s why now with less marriages and kids men are dropping out of the workforce. No family = no reason to bust your ass in a cubicle Women are just now realizing this. Hence getting that corner office but still being miserable (as evident by their anti depressant rates).…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:43 PM
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Red pill on either sides is just accepting the truth. What you do with it is up to you. Women didn’t even have a red pill until the last 20 years or so with the blue pill of “you can have it all” being created in the media. A blue pill woman ends up in her 30s alone, living in a shoebox apartment in a major city , wanting kids but no chance in sight (or in an unhappy marriage), dedicated to some pointless marketing or law or accounting etc career, no companion but a dog, and on anti anxiety or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:52 PM
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If you don’t expect women (and men, but over different things) to be completely hypocritical over what they say they want vs what they really want then enjoy being single forever Arguing with a woman about feminism is like arguing with a toddler about dinosaurs being real. Why are you even getting into that conversation to begin with? Are you going to ask for permission to kiss her next because that’s what Reddit tells you to do? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:48 PM
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I’m not OP but am 6’3 at 195 and 11-12% bodyfat At your weight you have two really good bulk cycles in you. What got me over the hump was 1,000 calorie protein shakes morning AND night (use almonds, peanut butter, etc caloric dense) that on top of regular meals. When your that tall and work out regularly you will burn 3k+ calories easily so got to make it up. Then cut once you get 16-18% body fat and repeat. Pretty grueling but worth it. Even at 195 you aren’t big at our height. But you have a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:26 AM
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Any chance you were raised by a single mom or lacked a male father figure? My story is similar to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:59 PM
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Lol always laugh seeing posts like this. This shit happens all the time when you’re built and good looking. Sucks to suck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:56 PM
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Oh man night and day. I used to not work out AT ALL and despite being tall would be pushed around by men and ignored by women. Getting fit was best thing to ever happen to me. Men respect you, or automatically yield to you when smaller Women find you attractive. Get approached at work, at bars, etc semi frequently And it allows you to get away with other flaws. Everything you say is funny. You want a job? Interviewing is easier. It’s hard to explain, but once you put the work in you realize it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:55 PM
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For average 5 out of 10 male? Yea it’s brutal For a top tier guy? It’s a blast actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:26 AM
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Bro 240 at your height is fat, plain and simple. Most people are fatter than they think ​ Lift diet and cardio in a year you'll be fine but 240 is big as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:00 AM
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every mass shooter lacks a father figure. Every single one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:26 AM
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It happens all the time tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:23 AM
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If you don’t think men fake relationships to get sex then bail then lol dude you’re likely a virgin It’s oldest trick in our book
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:45 PM
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He spoke truths, but he was also red meat to that crowd. Mental masturbation if you will His videos were far from productive. Funny, but not beneficial to the audience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:05 PM
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This is just women in general. Same way with career - they look at income from top men Don’t care about the hours worked gap Don’t care about the death on the job gap or the injured at work gap Don’t care about long term effects on body gap It’s just about the cushy jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:03 PM
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I next girls once I find out they have tattoos. I don’t myself have any, but consider it almost a non starter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:17 PM
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I can’t imagine a worse “normal” profession (aka non strippers) to date than flight attendants
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:16 PM
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You get it. Will is a blue pilled shmuck but with the right woman would’ve had a good life. He just was a mix of a guy who pedestals women while also meeting a broken man eating succubus But he was the definition of cool in the 90s. It was Micheal Jordan first then Will Smith, amazing he ended up in this state
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:22 PM
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Does from outside look like an eventual suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:19 PM
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It’s because end of day she resents him, and doesn’t respect him. Anything he does is framed from that positioning. Like a reverse halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:18 PM
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It’s amazing how true this is. Even if you are top of the world, act beta and they still will see you as less
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:14 PM
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Will smith is proof that if you don’t have respect for yourself and are “too nice” that you will get walked on even if you’re king of the world No one in the late 90s was cooler than will smith outside of MJ. Younger people might not know this, but those 30+ remember when Will was king of the world Yet still got walked all over
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:58 PM
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They complain about lack of sex They frame any conversation as a “me vs them” argument Heavy eye rolling when talking about spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:54 PM
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Liberating only IF you aren’t deluded, and that can be said for any individual If you are bottom rung and still trying to shoot your shot and get that white picket life without improving yourself then you’re fucked But if you realize hey that isn’t in the card then yea to a certain degree you can live a more liberating life being an Uber driver and Playing COD all night than the 40 year old provider wage slave
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:51 PM
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Feminists/liberals ironically are the most unaware of the own double standards they employ. It’s actually both sad and hilarious. Makes you respect trad con types a bit more. Their views can be “appalling” but they are at least honest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:32 AM
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Also it’s impossible to reach without steroids. Even with roids, probably need great lifting genetics Will say the power lifter build sucks for getting chicks tho. A high BF% guy who can bench 4 plates and a high BF% guy who has never stepped foot into a gym might as well be the same in terms of looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:16 PM
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What’s sort of muscular? What’s your lifting numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:14 PM
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Yep, and that men don’t see that top 1% and think “oh man one of us!” They just see it as another guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:09 PM
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Lmao I have this debate all the time. Lying makes sense because of the social equity you get from looking so innocent and kind, but reality is a large portion (ironically, especially well educated and feminists) have a huge disconnect with their own biology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:01 PM
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They also like the social equity received by saying they like it when men open up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:22 PM
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Yep. It’s in a woman’s best interest to say she wants their guys to open up because it makes them look kind and caring (virtue signaling to a degree). But make no mistake women want their guy to be the rock in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:56 PM
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I havent either. But I have seen them move on from guys in a heartbeat once they open up. Women say and act differently. Learn this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:17 AM
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It's Reddit, people are full of coddling here. Most of those guys are flat out below average (3-5). Rankings have them all above average is doing no one any good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:09 AM
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Men if they take care of themselves can attract young women up to around 40. For women physical peak is most likely mid 20s (24-26). Attractive but also mature, and experienced. ​ That said MOST men dont peak at 35-40 in looks but instead much younger. For the average person the breaks fall off into their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:58 AM
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There are two types of people who are single into their 30s and beyond. ​ Those that are single by choice (travel and move to different cities, career focused, graduate school, enjoying sleeping around, high status) and those that are single but not by their choice (vast majority of this group. Aka losers). If you dont know which group you are in then hate to break it to you. ​ So this news comes to no surprise. People who make less, have less skills, less intelligent, etc. etc. who cant attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:56 AM
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Not really. Women aren’t held to same standards as being productive. Being attractive is enough to court quite a bit of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:52 AM
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I don’t give a shit what low value men do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:51 AM
1

Depends on a guys ceiling. If you are tall then getting muscular is a looks force multiplier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:56 AM
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Your sample likely isnt very high dating market value tbh, top women are 100% not into guys that game regularly and even if they are it's because they tolerate it. I guy sitting on his ass playing games is as repulsive to a woman as a woman scratching her ass and burping is to a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:54 AM
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Nope. As someone who’s been one of those top guys you find out everyone is into you You’re mistaking desire for reality. Of course every woman doesn’t go after 2-3 guys because they know their value isn’t high enough , so they go for someone else but make no mistake they all want the same guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:44 PM
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sorry buddy but this is about reality and not coddling. the sexual market place is very real and in it there are winners and losers. For there to be high valued people there must be those of lower value, with traits that are identifiable ​ ​ It does nobody any good to put your head in the sand and pretend like everyone is equal. It isn't, and those lies hurt people more than help
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:50 AM
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No it isn't, it's pattern recognition. Usually that shows risk taking, poor long term planning, low self esteem, low ambition, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:48 AM
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This is the most comprehensve answer you will find here. Bullseye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:47 AM
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Bachelor / Bachelorette is a good reference. Majority of the guys there (not all) classify, same for women. These guys would have no issue getting women out at a bar for example
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:46 AM
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The 'women like different types' thing is just BS. Go to an office or school. Every girl, and guy if we are being honest, knows who the hot guys are and they are all going after the same 2-3 guys. When you become conventionally attractive you will get interest from basically all women, not just 'one type', Women saying they like certain types (as with men as well) is 9/10 times a complete coping mechanism because they arent as valuable themselves to attract the hot person. So it's a 'well Im not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:43 AM
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There are a ton of women, I know many, that view guys as a meal ticket. Especially online dating, they will ask to be taken to a fancy restaurant, eat dinner, maybe make out but still say 'Im not like that' when it comes to sex, and then break things off for a new guy in a week or two. Wash and repeat, perpetually, for a decade. You dont want to become this guy. Women do not respect this guy. In fact women dont even enjoy this guy. Fancy dinners, restaurants, etc. are not even good dates - espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:07 PM
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This man knows what he's talking about. You go to anywhere where OLD or hook up culture is big (decent sized cities full of young professionals) and the 20s are just sexcapades going from one short term 'dating long enough to talk about to friends but not make profile picture on facebook' relationship to another. Once you get addicted to this lifestyle it's very difficult to get off it. For guys - it's the validation. For women - it's the access to higher tier guys that you can date short term b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:01 PM
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Nice Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:08 PM
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Yes, as a man we are well aware that these men are snakes. They in general 100% have an ulterior motive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:07 PM
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Especially so for feminists. They want a guy to lead them, boss them around, be physically dominant, etc Women want powerful assertive and even abusive men - as long as it’s done to everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:09 PM
1

Hence the “mysterious” benefit. Let them figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:54 AM
1

Damn, spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:53 AM
1

You’re exactly right. Even if you’re not trying to get laid , your SMV is your most important metric as a man. Not your income Not your bench press Not your height But your smv. Why? Because it incorporates everything as a man. Everything matters to it, and ultimately it decides how other men respect you and women want you.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 04:46 AM
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Historically there wasn’t a red pill for women because men are blunt and honest in what they like (hence the “men are pigs” trope). Women care much more about public perception, so of course cover their desires up unless around other girls (aka I want a guy who is “nice” and “funny”) However, this has recently changed in the last 10-20 years with the media , tech companies, and society spinning out of control to coddle women. Things like the “you can have it all” mentality, that your value in da…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 04:42 AM
1

Based on your responses you think life’s too hard Problem is. Life hasn’t been hard enough. You’re coddled - and because of that you’re soft
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:33 PM
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Sounds good buddy keep on crying about the world despite: access to education never been easier access to develop skills never been easier tightest labor market in decades meaning you have more leverage than an employer ability to start a company has never been easier Etc etc etc. but sure cry about what, 5% YoY inflation? Oh my heavens! You fit in well on Reddit. There it’s always someone else’s fault and never your own. Not even trying to be a dick but you’re young - fix your mentality ASAP or…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:18 PM
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Yep. Also OP clearly failed RP 101 Watch what they do, not what they say Kid still has so much to learn. Yes women “say” they use it for fun and validation just like they “want” a sweet guy whose just nice
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:15 PM
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Guys that hate apps are usually middle to low value and they blame apps for it Look if you’re an average dude then either improve or work on day game but apps 100% are the way to go for top guys
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:14 PM
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Never buy a meal for a girl you’re not sleeping with Don’t be a loser and actually plan a date that isn’t getting to know each other over plates of pasta
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:12 PM
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Women only say that for plausible deniability so they don’t lose social equity for relying on an app to get dates. For top guys they absolutely will go out and hook up You still have a lot to learn about how women work if you’re still taking their words for gospel buddy
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:11 PM
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Picked up some black pill vibes as well
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:09 PM
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Like a GameStop bro trying to talk about the stock market. Until you achieve something stop pretending like you know it all and go out and do Sadly too much of Gen Z just reads shit online and nods along with it instead of going out and learning firsthand
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:08 PM
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And like with anything you control yourself and your outcomes Macro yes there can be an economic depression, a housing crisis, less marriage, etc. that applies to the average sheep loser mouth breathing through life. Own your outcomes and it’s not a concern to you
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:07 PM
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Mate threats have been around forever. And the ones you’re facing pale in comparison to the ones in the past Global wars Nuclear Holocaust True inflation (80s) Recessions Depressions You have it easy, you just don’t know it yet
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:05 PM
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Women still sleep with local guys bro, and a lot of them aren’t “top tier”
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:02 PM
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Not only that but Millennials and Gen Z have no social skills compared to older generations. If you are strongly skilled in person it’s an even bigger advantage than it used to be
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:02 PM
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Some good in this comment, a lot of trash. But appreciate the effort - seriously. Wanted to discredit it immediately when you stated your age, and thus inexperience, and going against some of the older wisdom that’s been shared. But you’re right to call out things are changing. It’s just not as dire as you’re making it out to be. Beta buxxing has been a viable strategies for decades, but as women make more than men (as you pointed out, already happening) there will be no desire to settle for dad…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:00 PM
2

Lol keep telling yourself that bud
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 09:00 PM
2

Fuck & go aka … alpha fucks
/r/TheRedPill07/10/21 07:52 PM
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Guessing Op is some 20% body fat bloat lord (maybe not) Being lean >>> being stumpy. Low body fat and vascularity with definition is key. The swimmers build is most attractive to women for a reason. You should at the least be able to bench your body weight. If you can do that and run a 6 min mile then you have a good foundation
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 02:43 AM
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Anyone who is a competing cross fitter 100% is elite and likely juicing. Nba and nfl are equally elite, just in a sport that pays more. You can have elite volleyball genetics and not be able to get to 220 lean for example “Very easy” to attain and top tier athletes just undermine their work. Anyone who gets to 200+ lean busted their ass to get there.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 08:34 PM
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200 and 6'1 lean is still pretty big, borderline unobtainable with shit genetics. Probably about peak, but fair enough. ​ You can lower your range a bit. But at 6'1 you arent seeing many dudes 215+ with abs unless they have great lifting genetics and ability to put on muscle. That being said OP at his height could still get to 190-200 with a couple bulk/cuts and be looking much better. Sure he looks good in the pics but mid pump/lift and shirtless will do that for you. 99% of the time that's not…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 06:34 PM
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Don’t disagree with your premise but you aren’t getting near 235 pounds at that height with abs natty. Not getting close to it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 04:07 PM
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Other men shitting on you isnt a bad thing, can mean jealousy. But if they view you as a nice guy then that's definitely something you are projecting
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:28 PM
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1M aint a relationship. That's a test drive, and dont be shocked if/when her feelings change. ​ 3 males are better than 1 male, and it's possible there is nothing there, best move is to play it cool (anything else looks controlling and weak) and get your parachute ready for the next girl
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:24 PM
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