She sounds like a teenager. It’s funny because in her bio, she says that living the life of a teenager makes her look in her 20s even though she’s 38. Just based on her picture, I would have said mid 40s.
Why even mention Jason Momoa, if it's to say one post later that even random men at a local pub won't touch her? Guys like Jason Momoa are out of the picture, stop fantasizing about them! If you're in your late 30s, overweight, and don't even offer sex to your partner, then you should be lucky to find ANY man to help you raise your kids.
Without a picture, I don’t see how she can expect any quality answer. Men choose women to contact on dating apps based on a picture. Nobody cares about how awesome she thinks she is.
What's even the point of telling people not to waste your time? It serves no purpose. Nobody tries to waste your time lady, it's just that men talk to you and bounce.
What is she talking about? Men shave too, and we don't make a huge deal about it. Why is she so dramatic about making basic efforts to look decent? If she's obsessing over clothing or frying her hair, that's on her.
Doing nails on the side doesn’t qualify as a “business owner”. Just like you wouldn’t want to go on a date with a guy who says he’s a business owner and have him tell you he delivers Uber Eats.
Sure, you're single at 39 because it's your decision not to settle. Just like the decision the rest of the world made not to settle with you, crazy eyes.
There is a woman like that at work. She’s in her 50s. She does these little activities alone. When she received the promotion she had been working for 5 years, she told me she celebrated by buying an individual piece of cake that she ate alone. She had to go work a year on the other side of the country, she didn’t even take her dog with her. She left it to a sitter and the dog died. But sure, you’re completely fine and life is wonderful.
I’ve [had] more than one guy say that if I didn’t respond to them quickly on a message, they’re like, ‘Oh, wow, you didn’t respond.’ And I’m like, ‘It’s only been five days. I don’t even have time.’ … Someone that can’t show decency is not worth [my]time and that’s not what [I] want anyway.” Lies. Had she cared about any of these guys she would not need 5 days and a reminder to respond. Why is she not saying like it is, and why does she care?
It's a competitive environment, and they're here to learn. It's ok to fall, you just gotta get back up. I don't see how feeding the delusion would help.
Students talk. Never give something to one and wish they don't brag to the others. I know how to spend a good Christmas break: Don't give in to anyone.
It's both, really, but with different arguments. Women tend to believe I will feel guilty if they're sad. Men argue I'm hurting their chances of getting a job.
You'd think they'd come prepared with solid arguments, but they never do. They always try to guilt me for giving them a low grade. Like, I don't feel guilty at all, so that's not going to work.
They do get angry when they realize they're not A-level students. I can sympathize with someone being upset, but only at themselves for fucking up. I have nothing to do with any of that. I get most of them back on track, but some still hate me to this day.
She's a single mother of 3 kids. She has bigger issues to deal with than her weight. I would bet that 20 years from now, she's still going to be "working on it".
Being a single pregnant woman sounds dreadful. Just imagine having the baby at the hospital and coming home on your own as well. Nobody's there to help you, or fix you dinner, anything. Every issue the baby has, it's on you and you only. Oh, and you also have to think about your own issues and how you're going to pay all the bills. She can say all she wants she doesn't need a man, but I think anyone in this situation would be glad to have a life partner.
However, I've always been someone who hasn't been able to settle for less than what I think I have to offer. She's not looking for a guy that THINKS he can give her butterflies, she's looking for a guy that gives her butterflies. Same applies to her! Nobody cares what she THINKS she brings to the table. What matters is whether men share the same perception or not. By the looks of it, it's not the case. Women who are the whole package don't stay alone until 35 and freeze their eggs in a panic.
What a great choice for her profile picture. You'd think she'd wear a cute dress and have a friend take her picture outside near a tree or something. You know, to create a nice impression, like a normal human being. Nope, she's going the practical route! Formless sweater, flat shoes, stroller in the background. Ridiculous duckface like we're still in 2010. What you see is what you get, guys.
Could also be because women who are difficult don't get married by guys (i.e. more partners over time) and end up unhappy in their marriage as well. Not saying your explanation is wrong, but it's all correlational so it's very difficult to know what's going on. There could be TONS of alternative explanations.
So basically, she has already experienced marriage (supposedly), 5 births, tons of birthdays, schools, kids walking, learning, all that stuff. Supposedly lived in a house with one or more men. And now supposedly divorced. What is there left to do with her that she hasn't already experienced a long time ago? What's new?
Can you imagine living such an empty and meaningless life that you "run" a tinder account for a friend. What a useless existence. Probably obese and living by proxy.
How does she support herself? Where is/are the baby daddy/daddies? Why does she have a nose piercing? Why does she want to settle down already? Shouldn't she be working on her education?
What's with these women being obsessed with "banter" ? She literally has neck tattoos, face piercing, and she can't even stop smoking long enough to snap a selfie. Gross.
She’s incapable to provide for herself so she’s looking for someone to provide for two plus the upcoming kids. He will have to provide her with standards “she dreams about”. How much do you need to make for that? 200k a year minimum for a wife with expensive tastes and kids. Let’s say 1% of single men make that. Why would they go for? What does she have to offer that puts her in the top 1% of all single women?
Helps that I don't look 37! I hate when people say shit like that. I don't need you to tell ME what my own eyes can see. I'll be the judge of my own fucking opinions, thanks.
Shitty picture of a shitty photograph who pretends to organize a pHoToShOOt for a shitty model dressed with shitty clothes, having a shitty posture in front of a shitty car.
Yeah. When I first looked at the picture, I thought that the guy was an asshole to make her think he would stick around by taking pictures like that. Now, I'm thinking she organized the whole thing and the guy just went along with it.
Yeah and also she doesn’t get that her sister works. Taking care of kids, staying attractive, keeping a good interior, organizing the family’s social life, being pleasant and a good advisor to your husband... that’s work.
I wouldn’t marry someone so deeply unhappy about living a middle class lifestyle. Money is great when you have it, but it shouldn’t be a condition to your happiness. I have a friend who makes a third of what I make and he is an awesome father, great kids, always shows me pictures of their outings. He’s happy, his wife is happy, the kids are happy. What’s wrong with this woman?
I wouldn’t marry someone who would be so unhappy living a middle class lifestyle. You have a home, a boyfriend, a dog and a cat. What more do you need to be happy, really? I’m lucky, I make a good living and my spouse doesn’t work. We could make half of what I make now and I wouldn’t be less happy. Who gives a shit about looking rich on instagram? It’s so stupid to make yourself miserable over an app.
It's funny how she sees her sister as a grifter and herself as a hard worker. For all we know, the sister could be a good mother who gave beautiful kids to her husband, stays in shape, takes care of her house, and she posts the whole thing on IG. The husband might not care about the IG thing, but the deal seems ok. The only one who seems to want easy money is OP. Maybe if she was not so unpleasant, she would have found someone. Edit: typo
Such an immature woman. She's 39, has 3 kids, and she has a laundry list of superficial requirements. Who cares if a guy plays video games if he is a good father figure to the kids and a good husband to her. Who cares if the guy lives far away in the first months of the relationship. I'm a 37 year old man in a long-term relationship, and the first 2 years were long distance. It involved international flights lol, yet we thought it was worth it. If it ended tomorrow and I was looking to play the …
From a business perspective, it doesn't make sense either. The only "equine chiropractors" who make a living out of it have to be connected to rich families or horse races. She looks more like a pony club kinda gal.
I had to google "equine chiropractor." This is the first result: https://www.doctorramey.com/wouldnt-bother-equine-chiropractic/ Basically, fancy name for someone with a shady certificate.
Is she a TA for like 50 classes a semester? I'm a college prof and my TA is a grad student who gets paid a couple thousand dollars a semester. It's not a career.
If people aren't attracted to you then that's what it is. What is she hoping for? Some sort of magic words to put in her profile for people to finally respond?
I have students like her. They don't show up to a single class the whole semester, but still expect to ace the final exam. How deluded do you have to be to think that you can show up at the last minute and still blow out of the water the people who took the class seriously? Nobody is that good. Nobody.
Here is the flaw in OP's logic: What are women with "kind men" bringing to the table that she is not? All she talks about is how men were bad to her and made her feel worthless. Is she some sort of Cinderella, or Cosette (Les Miserables), an innocent child doomed to be abused by everyone around her? Why is she not even mentioning what impact she had on them? What was her contribution to the household?
Are you kidding? Dude, she's 50 years old and looks amazing. I agree that women age like bananas (compared to men), but Gwen Stefani is not part of that category.
If she were really drama free, it wouldn't be how she would open her bio. "Knowing a little about a lot" screams uneducated. "Curvy" means fat and "I love it" means you can't even mention it. Basically, a fat bitch with not much to offer and a long list of requirements.
I find it fascinating that you regularly comment on this sub on how other people can't respond to a proper argument. Look at you being all angry and insulting someone who disagrees with you. Frustrated much? You're just a ball of anger.
I can start drinking at 8PM. That's my line in the sand. She never has her face in her pictures. I think she knows she's not pretty. Also she's starting to age and it really shows.
I don't think the pussy pass is denied, though. As a guy, if I throw my beer in someone else's face, I'm not just getting a snarky remark. I'm also getting a fist in my face.
“Like I’m losing subscribers on OnlyFans like — my main source of income — like, I can’t pay my rent anymore,” she said through tears. “And, like, even if I was to go back to work like what am I supposed to do, like, go work in a strip club? Which they’re all closed down as well. “They’re all closed, like all the strip clubs like you can’t even be f*cking close to someone because of social distancing. “And like I have … I have nothing else going for me, “ Ms Beever continued. “I have no other ta…
I didn't know much about this, but googled "amber heard bruises". Just go have a look. This bitch literally tried to destroy him. If she has actually faked her bruises, she deserves to go to jail. I doubt she's getting a lot of love right now, her instagram doesn't accept comments.
She states that she's not sure how much time she would have, not that she doesn't have any time. This is why I left this sub right there. I am all for trashing deluded people and love to see them get roasted. This is not it. All I can see in this thread are motivated speculations. I didn't sub here to read that, it's not even funny. There are enough deluded people around that you guys don't need to make things up. Just seeing how many downvotes I'm getting for politely bringing that up proves to…
Ok, so you have to twist it to make her look bad. She's not working in fast food, she's not a stay at home mom. Really, you're trashing someone who just didn't find anyone.
You didn't change my mind, sorry. You are reading too much into this. She works in HR (i.e. not fast food, not unemployed, not stay at home) and she is not looking for someone to take her out she is looking for someone serious. You have to twist the meaning of these things to make her look bad so that she can fit in this sub. She's not a good example of someone asking "where are the good men". Again, I'm all for trashing deluded people, but I won't trash someone who has a career, didn't find any…
I'm sorry, but you don't know any of that. This is you making interpretations. I'm all for trashing lazy delusional people, but there is nothing in her post pointing to that.
I don't think this post qualifies. She's just a woman who didn't find a guy and decided to have through IVF. She doesn't make any demands. She doesn't wonder where the good men are. I don't like trashing people who don't deserve it.
What I mean is, she sounds more like a dumb chick who's trying to spin her shitty story into a fairy tale. I don't know if she really has the mental skills to use the exact right word that would lead everyone to think something without her committing to it. Know what I mean? I think she's just a dumb chick.
Frankly I don't know. She sounds like an uneducated middle-aged woman who's trying to spin a shitty story into some sort of journey. Consciously lying about it would be Trump level shit.
She's going to have a hard time making anyone believe that the one XXX picture that surfaced was an isolated incident. Maybe it's true, I don't know. It's just hard to convince people when the one independant data point they have of you is supposed to be the only bad thing you ever did. Reminds of the perverts on "To Catch a Predator" who all swear that the time they got caught was the very first time in their life they did anything wrong.
And I'd like to add that although I first thought of commenting "her dried up vag", I changed it to womb, which is the word she used. Even "dried up" comes from her. I didn't use the desert cliché because it's just expected.
I would give my seat to anyone who looks like standing up is hard. That includes older people, disabled people, and pregnant women. Where is the pussy pass that's being denied here?
It really is time for everyone to use the same rules. I was at a bar and this woman randomly grabbed my ass. I turned and confronted her, and she just brushed it off. That's not ok. Had I done the same thing, I would have ended up with the bouncers dragging me out of there and throwing me on the pavement.
Oh, thanks for letting me know. It baffles me that people insult each other on Reddit. We know absolutely nothing about anyone here. We don't know their gender, their age, their ethnicity, their job, the situations they're in. All we can see is what they thought at one point in time. All of the insults I have received on Reddit were based on wild assumptions about me. I've had people call me "retarded", a moron, and so on, completely discounting the fact that maybe it was a slow day for me or ma…
I think you misread what I wrote. I never said I wanted her to apologize. If anything, I would have have preferred if she had not. Her apology was ridiculous and insincere, and as I said in my post, I was not really offended by the picture.
I used to be a big fan of hers. I was not really offended by her Trump picture, but was definitely turned off by her reaction to the debacle. She ugly cried on camera and immediately played the gender card. She tried to launch her youtube channel and would rant on it like a crazy old lady about how the industry was censoring her because of her gender. She organized a "world tour" where she would go on and on about being censored in her country, how the US was preventing her from make a living. S…
