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I totally hate this kind of mentality in the legal system, but it can make sense in some cases. The thought is "when we were together we lived a very rich lifestyle. Now that we are divorced, the financial shock of me leaving this lifestyle and going back to practically nothing is going to leave me in financial ruins. Additionally, my support of you and our household helped propel you to earn your fortunes, including the sacrifice of my own career".
/r/MensRights22/07/21 09:15 PM
1

Don't sweat it. Use that moment as a positive stepping stone for the next time you approach a woman.
/r/seduction19/07/21 11:53 PM
2

I don't think you've waited too long, but if you don't text her soon that would be bad. Just start simple "Hey this is u/borderline_autistic, it was really cool meeting you on Saturday. I just wanted to say hello."
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:07 PM
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The term has been run through the political mud. It has lost all or most of its original meaning and now holds no weight in any meaningful way. It has now become a catchphrase used to make fun of the people that used to use it. You can throw it in the pot with the following words or phrases: Defund the police Socialism Safe space Cultural sensitivity Cancel culture Climate change
/r/MensRights16/05/21 03:42 AM
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If you got a random sampling of teenage boys at a skate park, I'm willing to bet my left testicle that less than 0.3% have attempted to bully someone half their age, let alone a girl. I have no idea how this mom acquired her worldview of teenage boys, but it needs some recalibration
/r/MensRights18/02/20 11:53 PM
2

In US science and engineering, only 5% of workers are black source, even though they make up 12% of the workforce. Women only make up 20% of the engineering degrees earned while only 12% end up working in the field source, despite being 51% of the countrys population. Pretty large discrepancy there In the US non-hispanic white people make up 61% of the population, they represent 66% of engineering jobs. Pretty fair representation. In fact the only group that is overrepresented in relation to the…
/r/MensRights29/11/18 12:23 PM
7

It's literally giving out free money, nothing about it is illegal. If you wanted to give a scholarship you can rightly choose any discriminating factors on who to give it to
/r/MensRights29/11/18 07:45 AM
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It's easy to get upset at something that the vast majority of people in this thread will never deal with. They can visit this thread, spew their quick opinion, get immediate validation, then go about their day. But the people who are trudging through this on a daily basis may appreciate this scholarship is beneficial to many people. If you've ever sat in any engineering class, you'll quickly see that minority groups are vastly underrepresented.
/r/MensRights29/11/18 07:43 AM
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I dont see what unions and diversity have to do with one another
/r/MensRights29/11/18 07:33 AM
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Or, the vast majority of their employees are low to mid level workers. With LMTs training and pedigree they can output competent engineers from these minority groups with little to no setback in quality. The high level brains that make strong impactful decisions will be hired no matter what their race or ethnicity is.
/r/MensRights29/11/18 07:29 AM
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I cant be the only one that cringes at the comments of all these Instagram "models". You hit it right on the head though, beta boys will validate the shit out of them, but dont you think it'll be easier to swoop in as a guy who doesn't accept her pedestal and just treats her like a normal person?
/r/seduction14/11/18 11:27 AM
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Thanks, man. I guess I needed to hear that. I've been through this cycle so many times that I can recognize when I'm getting in my own head. I have faked it and made it many times, I just wish it didn't happen as often as it does. Cheers to you
/r/seduction14/07/18 05:04 PM
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Currently struggling with this at the moment. My confidence comes and goes more often than I care to admit
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:26 PM
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You're doing good, man. If you only knew how many dudes desire to be in your place right now. You're really close to crushing it and will be pulling girls in soon. Give it a few more weeks
/r/seduction01/07/18 11:28 AM
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Why did it take them so long to get another hearing???
/r/MensRights10/05/18 02:46 AM
2

Yes, this statistic often touted by MRA are jail sentences in relation to the same crime. However it does not take into account repeat offenses.
/r/MensRights12/03/18 08:31 AM
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To anyone calling this littering, GTFO. This is a message. It is sent. This is a powerful picture and these women have left their mark. Jesus Christ I had that impulse for a moment, but the march was also super pro-union, and based on my interactions with metro workers and construction workers (diff than street cleaners I know) that day, I feel like the messages and expressed unity will be positive. And a hell of a lot better than normal trash/vomit/etc; nothing like cleanup after Halloween or S…
/r/MensRights23/01/18 08:21 AM
0

Yeah somewhere along the way it seems feminist rhetoric got blurred with male hate speech. Calling men scum is not a feminist notion, any true feminist will tell you that
/r/MensRights05/12/17 01:52 AM
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Wingman helps take on the other women of the group while you go in for the 1on1. A good wingman will have game enough to easily distract 1 to 3 women. A great wingman will take the L for you and chat up her friends even if they are 4s or 5s.
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:35 PM
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Great analogy, op. this is why it's advantageous to date often and frequently. The more you do it, the easier and more natural you appear. If you go on a date once a month or once every other month you're going to be dancing like that cowboy.
/r/seduction04/10/17 02:31 PM
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Also, look at your good carbs vs bad carbs. Complex carbs will leave you feeling fuller longer, whereas simple carbs are almost immediately absorbed into the body. Simply cutting carbs is not always a good solution. Eating whole wheat and grain is better than abstaining from carbs in general
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 02:43 AM
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/r/hmmm
/r/seduction22/09/17 11:21 AM
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I mean, did you really forget something you wrote down and typed put 2 years ago? I'm sure you remembered most details about the letter
/r/seduction30/08/17 07:57 PM
1

The handle is not, but the blades themself definitely are
/r/MensRights08/08/17 04:10 AM
1

Sanitary? Every barbershop I've ever gone to has single-use blades.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 02:56 AM
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It absolutely becomes a problem. The longer you wait to have sex, the more unprepared you'll be emotionally and physically when it actually does happen. I knew a girl who waited until she was 28 to have sex, and afterwards she became so emotionally attached to the guy. It was beyond excessive. It was weird because she was a very reasonable person throughout all aspects of her life, but when it came to this she lost it. The encounter clearly meant more to her than the guy. Now she's dealing with …
/r/seduction01/08/17 04:31 AM
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Bro
/r/seduction27/07/17 10:18 AM
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If she wants to go dance she can, no biggie. I'll just socialize with other people or dance with someone else.
/r/seduction27/05/17 08:29 PM
4

Bro trust me if you've seen how many times I've crashed and burned or hooked up with mediocre chicks you'd laugh. Those awesome confident guys that get the girls they want go through a lot of rejection to get where they are at.
/r/seduction20/05/17 02:21 PM
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Dude if you're doing all of that and still not getting laid its because you're not actively trying to pull girls, your fashion is terrible, standards are too high, or your personality stinks. Probably a combination of all the ablve Even average Joes can passively pull a girl.
/r/seduction05/05/17 02:59 PM
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It's a tough situation but you basically have to flirt with both girls at the same time. Make sure her friend is comfortable with you being alone with her. There are loads of videos on how to do this. You should look into a wingman though
/r/seduction23/03/17 03:10 AM
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With lots of bad decision muscle memory she operates on. together for 16 years Any dumb "relationship muscle memory" thing she does is exclusively based on her experience with you. I think this whole situation falls on you, and like others said you need to take a stronger role in the relationship. Make her go to the doctor, you're her husband ffs. It's one of your primary duties to make sure she is in good health. She's clearly trying to be a decision maker and failing miserably. You're too pass…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 12:22 PM
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To be fair though, abs are made in the kitchen not the gym
/r/seduction22/02/17 06:45 AM
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That's a good point. I avoid talking about work if possible but I've had girls ask on the first date about my occupation. If you dodge around it they may get suspicious. Don't bring it up unless it's brought up.
/r/seduction14/02/17 08:20 AM
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When you hear of the "troubled girl with daddy issues" trope, this is exactly how it happens and these are the results of it all. There are no winners here, everyone is a loser
/r/MensRights12/02/17 01:18 PM
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Own your mistakes and be open about them. Don't be ashamed of them. One thing about seduction/life that is not emphasized enough is owning your mistakes, and to not beat yourself up over them. There's nothing you can do now about dropping out a few years ago. You can only control the present and the future. As long as yourself on the right path, then you're doing great.
/r/seduction28/11/16 11:04 AM
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Kino is essential and projects confidence and intent. You really can't appreciate it until you've had someone try to approach you with pure verbal game, it's absolutely terrible.
/r/seduction27/11/16 02:18 PM
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I think people here mostly focus on the "science" of seduction. Things that are proven to lead to more success, these are topics like posture, tone of voice, persistence, etc. The creativity is huge and is the "art" form of seduction. Literally every situation and approach is different and unique; you have to take the current environment combine it with your personality and the techniques you learn here to give off truly great game. We can't account for every variable here in this sub, so we onl…
/r/seduction18/11/16 01:02 PM
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Anyone who is actively trying to put down someone else purely for social status, like the women you mentioned, are going to be a huge waste of time. If you try to get involved or manipulate the situation in your favor, you'll just become one of those petty spiteful women. Ignore them, find the few people you actually click with and stick with them. You may have to be in a situation where you have no young female friends in this town. Make friends with the older ladies.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:59 PM
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At the same time, a bit of persistence is admired by some girls, so don't quit at the very first sign of rejection.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:39 AM
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This is the answer here. Op has improved himself, thats great. Half the problem is solved, now solve the other half. Self improvement without guiding your spouse along the way can create a bigger rift between the two. Just like with kids, you tell them when they're doing right and wrong, you encourage them, treat them to things every now and then, but also you hold them to their (clearly defined) expectations. They (the kids and wife) must do their job in the family, as you must do yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 09:45 AM
2

You kind of talk like Nicolas Cage, it's kind funny picturing him trying to talk to women
/r/seduction18/10/16 03:26 AM
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Seduction is a crazy thing. It requires the perfect combination of theoretical knowledge, self-courage, wit, and timing. I'll tell you what the problem was in this situation, and we all know it, you got in your own head. Any time this happens, chalk it up as an immediate L. What you need to focus on in these situations is to be confident and, most importantly, centered. You immediately looked at the field around you and felt intimidated and cowered. I'm sure had you been in a situation where the…
/r/seduction16/10/16 12:15 PM
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If you go in to a party with the sole mindset of "I'm coming here to fuck bitches" then you're almost always going to fail. You start becoming goal oriented on sex, and then you start to do creepy things. Girls can detect these sex driven kind of guys within seconds, and believe me they're on high alert at parties. So be cool and laid back. Obviously, we all go to these things to meet hot girls and bang them, but your intentions should be: A) To have fun B) Talk to as many girls as possible C) D…
/r/seduction28/09/16 08:13 PM
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It doesn't matter what he's saying, he's just be himself and that's the most important part. How many times on here have you seen people that "psych themselves out" or get so nervous and uptight that they don't get a chance to flex their personality?
/r/seduction21/09/16 08:08 AM
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Sounds like your plan is pretty good. Stick with it
/r/seduction15/09/16 12:58 PM
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How op went through the trouble of reading through his post history, made a huge assumption based on a few comments, criticized him, and was completely wrong. The ":|" was icing on the cake
/r/seduction11/09/16 06:36 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction10/09/16 02:14 PM
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Don't try to out-alpha them because that's just going to lead to a miserable failure. Feed off of it and have it boost your alpha just a bit more than usual and proceed as normal.
/r/seduction08/09/16 05:02 PM
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In seduction, fortune favors the bold. Sounds like you should've been more aggressive since many outsiders felt like you had a solid chance. Sucks you didn't get the message till the next day. Oh well, learn from it and move on. Maybe you need to recalibrate what you consider "light flirting" to be.
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:46 AM
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I start looking at other parts of their face like the other eye, or the nose, forehead, whatever. They still think you're making eye contact and it lowers the uncomfortableness
/r/seduction29/08/16 08:50 AM
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Making significant lifestyle changes will almost always bring about stress, especially if you're making several drastic changes at once. It's normal. That's why it's best to change things one at a time, it doesn't feel as much as a shock to your body. Keep up what you're doing and within a couple months it'll be completely normal to you. Congrats on taking the initiative though, that's half the battle right there.
/r/seduction28/08/16 10:19 AM
2

Tony Solo is very much my style. Chilled, well dressed, and an overall nice demeanor.
/r/seduction28/08/16 10:15 AM
1

Honestly, this is the best answer. You have to dance like you dance when you're alone, in the car, or jamming to your favorite song.
/r/seduction28/08/16 06:49 AM
1

If you are climbing up stairs, climb behind her and casually say "I'm definitely staring at your butt" A move I like to do is comment (not compliment) on their top. Something about the fabric or color or whatever. As you do it, grab their sleeve and just kinda pinch it and lift it up. It's great quick kino Eye contact is key. Stare at her eyes and lips
/r/seduction11/08/16 01:26 AM
1

It's not so bad, man. It's just having a conversation with a girl. I find it easier if you warm up on a few strangers, both male and female.
/r/seduction10/08/16 07:17 PM
5

I was just going to say the same sentiment. Lesbians are the best wingmen. You can scope out girls together and they can definitely give you good insider info on what it's like being a girl in a bar
/r/seduction08/08/16 01:15 PM
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It's really hard for me to pinpoint some advice or tips for you because some info is missing, but I don't think your friends success with women is all tied to his looks. Unless he's insanely good looking and this happens regularly. I think he came in with the right of state of mind. He just showed up to have fun, and he did Sounds like you were so caught up in gaming girls that you lost sight of just having a great time. Your friend's carefree attitude is what made him a champ. If you're having …
/r/seduction07/08/16 05:02 PM
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It does sound like a rough night, I think I can feel the frustration as I was reading your post. We've all been there, yo. Don't beat yourself over it. What was learned from last night?
/r/seduction07/08/16 03:28 PM
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Yeah the "hi, how are you" can be a bit awkward. I usually go with the "hey, comment on her outfit, or the situation". It's usually met with a chuckle and an "uhh, okay". Then I go for introductions and some humor and it's pretty smooth from there.
/r/seduction04/08/16 03:41 PM
2

It's definitely on easy mode. And the thing is, he's a really awesome guy on top of it. Pharm student, volunteers for the homeless, funny as fuck, hard worker, etc. You literally can't hate the guy. He did, however, get annoyed by girls gawking him all the time. Sometimes he just wanted to be left alone. A lot of the times it was girls who were like 4s or 5s that would want to flirt with him. Even our boss who was 55 years old would get weak around him. He hated how people couldn't keep their co…
/r/seduction26/07/16 01:41 AM
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I worked with a guy that had all the girls swooning every time they glanced at him. It was crazy. Just like how guys will ogle a girl who is sexy, women do the exact same thing. We are all human in the end. It was an odd realisation, but one that, I feel, everyone needs to understand. Most of us can't rely on our looks, we have to grind and fail multiple times before scoring. Accept it and put in the work.
/r/seduction25/07/16 07:25 PM
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Dude, I don't know. Every time I watch one of your videos I'm left unimpressed or feeling that I could do better myself. Like some of these texts you showed us are really corny. That McDonalds text for example... Cmon, man. If it's getting you laid then sure keep using it but I don't think many people here will be clamoring to use it. Saying "Brad number"? Yeesh. Something like "hey this is Brad, save my number" is much smoother and more human
/r/seduction23/07/16 12:48 PM
5

I'm 5'7, it's never really been an issue with me. Even if you get a girl who is, say, 3" taller than you it's not really that big of a difference.
/r/seduction13/07/16 08:08 AM
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Don't say too much to the girls. Silence is a powerful tool, use it. Firm eye contact and kino are a must.
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:20 PM
1

I'd hit her with a ping text today. "Hey just making sure you're not murdered or anything". If she doesn't respond then I'd consider it over.
/r/seduction22/06/16 01:19 PM
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It's great to experience definitely. Sometimes I don't even notice that I've improved until I start to look back at how I was 1 month ago and 3 months ago and 6 months ago.
/r/seduction22/06/16 01:17 PM
9

The girls aren't just now noticing you, it's the change in confidence and demeanor that they're noticing
/r/seduction11/06/16 08:04 AM
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Definitely not, but this was college. I'm not sure if that approach would work on girls 26+. I'm sure he's adapted his game throughout the years
/r/seduction08/06/16 02:23 AM
12

You can write a book with all the ridiculous shit he has said. He is a really intelligent person. So he was talking to this girl about law and the intricacies of law and then he busts out "Yo baby ever had your face licked by a dirty Trini man?" (He's from Trinidad). She laughs and then he proceeds to kiss her neck and she just rolls her eyes into the back of her head. Granted he's had a lot of miserable failures too, but fortune favors the bold
/r/seduction07/06/16 05:17 PM
11

He would say things like "I'd love to eat crackers off your pussy" and do this eyebrow up/down thing, and the girl just eats it up. It's insane
/r/seduction07/06/16 02:08 PM
7

Yeah that's why I think a lot PUAs tell you to warm up before approaching because you tend to lose your inhibitions after a few failures.
/r/seduction07/06/16 12:20 PM
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One of my frat bros in college was insanely good at getting girls. He was a good looking guy, tall, dark, really extroverted. Girls just swooned over him. One trait he possessed that I kind of took from him was that he had no shame and said whatever it was on his mind. It blew me away some of the shit he got away with. Just outright sleezeball stuff and the girls would eat it up. He was also very active in student life and managed to be on the dean's list every year. He's one of the coolest most…
/r/seduction07/06/16 10:48 AM
6

Eharmony, Match.com
/r/seduction05/06/16 04:00 PM
3

The only thing I could say is that you're 20. Not many girls at that age are deep on an emotional level. Peoole are still finding themselves and growing up. Finding a girl you truly connect with is no easy feat, if it were easy we'd all have awesome marriages and LTRs. Just keep at it and eventually fortune will be in your side
/r/seduction03/06/16 10:13 AM
2

I mostly agree with your post. It was very well written and articulated. I do think, however, that there are elements of TRP that men should incorporate into their game/seduction. TRP lifestyle is a bit extreme for my personal taste, but I still subscribe and read up on it. There are great tips and guidelines to be had from it. Not everyone is an extreme TRPer. There are plenty of guys who are well calibrated and use the methods brilliantly.
/r/seduction03/06/16 05:14 AM
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It's just way too long an convoluted to use. I would just bumble my way through it
/r/seduction31/05/16 12:31 PM
2

Well, I'm curious because of that post a few days that mentioned making out with girls you have just met kills all the sexual tension between you two.
/r/seduction30/05/16 02:23 AM
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Good job out there. You have some bold moves. I wonder if she'll follow through and if you guys will meet up.
/r/seduction29/05/16 03:11 PM
3

I've also had generally positive experiences from Tinder. There's a lot of bullshit you have to go through in order to meet up with someone but once you do, it's been fun for me. It also depends on your age range, you seem like a young guy so you're bound to run into more crazy parties and stuff than me who's in his late 20s and bound to meet more professionally/family oriented people
/r/seduction27/05/16 12:19 PM
2

My main tip is to stay mobile. I usually enter a bar, scope it out, order a drink, sip it a couple times, and make my moves. Once I've approached 1 or 2 girls I'm on to the next bar
/r/seduction22/05/16 12:36 PM
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In a nightclub setting, women derive their value strictly from their appearance. Good looking girls will display a strong/bitchy frame. You as the male have to look through this facade of toughness/bitchiness and be a bit persistent. When you approach a hot girl at a bar, don't take her cold shoulder as an instant rejection. It's just a way for her to filter the softer/weaker guys. The only way to win with a girl with a strong frame is to have a stronger one yourself. Body language of course is …
/r/seduction21/05/16 09:56 PM
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There's only one way to find out. Op should cross post it
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 05:55 PM
9

This is a brilliant idea and I'd wish I'd done this when I was in my dead bedroom situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 05:07 PM
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Can someone post this in a way that's easier to follow?
/r/seduction15/05/16 08:06 PM
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Same here, but once you do it weekend after weekend and realize you don't really have much to show for it, you begin to buckle down on the spending and really start focusing on the game itself. If you're good at seduction, you don't need money to win girls over. One thing I've noticed is that if women see you're willing to spend money, they won't be afraid to use that to their advantage. Granted this is only in one month of dating/being single so my sample size is really limited.
/r/seduction15/05/16 03:33 AM
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Given that you did drop a significant amount of cash that night, I think you should at least hit these girls up. I mean what's the worst that can happen?
/r/seduction14/05/16 10:23 PM
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Yeah, like op, I'm fresh out of a really LTR and one thing I've learned quickly is that you need to watch your wallet. If money is good, you feel that you are willing to sacrifice a bit of cash just to get out there. Don't do this.
/r/seduction14/05/16 10:22 PM
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This is very well written and these are great tips. I have a question, though. What if doing some of these things is not inherently in your nature? For example, the leaning back at restaurants bit. I'm not the type of person to lean back in a chair like Tony Montana, especially when I'm in the presence of meeting someone new. I am also always an attentive listener and I'd rather be leaning forward and engaging the conversation (while also closing the personal space between us).
/r/seduction13/05/16 04:53 AM
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Thank you so much. Cheers.
/r/seduction08/05/16 12:49 AM
2

I'm 27. I have posted my profile on reddit and received some good criticisms. I switched it up as recommended and I regularly get 3 to 5 matches a week on Tinder. For me it's just so laborious and fake. Like, who I am on Tinder is not really a reflection of me in real life. Online I can be more clever and witty since I have loads of time to think of responses and flirts, but in person I'm very grounded and mellow, and a bit more boring. I mean I've had great dates and connections with people onl…
/r/seduction07/05/16 07:32 PM
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The online dating is certainly easier. I have been on a few online dates but nothing really comes from them. Online dating is weird too, the pics don't always look like the person, it's generally awkward (at least the first date is). All of my dates have wanted second and third dates but I still generally feel unfulfilled from them.
/r/seduction07/05/16 06:41 PM
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"You look like you could use two"
/r/seduction07/05/16 01:41 AM
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You're right, asking questions is just a buffer period until you can come back with more interesting conversation. She'll most likely say something that you can work off of and continue flirting. Now if you just end up asking questions to each other all night, then it's bore fest and a failure of a date.
/r/seduction01/05/16 02:49 PM
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No, she sarcastically responds "what, enough to break the ice?" I say, "no, actually polar bears weight about one ton, which is not nearly enough to break antarctic ice"
/r/seduction01/05/16 04:00 AM
1

I'm a big believer in progression. Baby steps, man. Just kind of stand at the bar next to a girl and ask her if she's having a good time or not. Thats it. She says yes or no, and you say "Cheers, have a good night!"
/r/seduction30/04/16 08:56 PM
2

That's a great icebreaker. I have been using the "Do you know how much a polar bear weighs" anti pickup line and it's been working great too.
/r/seduction30/04/16 08:53 PM
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It's hard to be the predatorial male that you feel you are on the inside. It puts off a lot of people and is not welcomed in many situations. So, at work where I spend 1/3 of my time I can't be like that because it's not professional. When I was growing up with my parents, for 16 years I couldn't be like that. Throughout that time, I'm conditioned to be nice and polite to women etc. So here comes 18 year old me into the world without a fucking clue how to comport myself. I feel the sexual desire…
/r/seduction30/04/16 02:59 PM
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I agree that you did give up too easily, dating is hard because everyone is so different... but eventually you would've found someone who appreciated you for who you are. You did the right thing in not being fake in order to be with a man though. I had faked myself just to stay with my gf long term and it was eating away at me. I stayed with her 9 years before I summoned the courage to say something about it and break off on my own. Now I'm just beginning to be on my own and go into self discove…
/r/seduction30/04/16 02:52 PM
2

I have met some extremely boring people but I always find something that they're passionate about. Are you sure you're extracting as much from her as you can? I mean her text game is not mind blowing but it's not that bad either. It's very basic and generic. Rely more on the face to face time as a means of communication and use text as a supplement In the end, if you still find her boring I would just tell her straight up. "Hey, I'm not really interested in meeting up anymore. If you want to kee…
/r/seduction27/04/16 07:39 PM
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Nice guys are boring. Nice guys are predictable and safe, in life we want the fullest, and nice guys just don't seem to satisfy that need. I don't think you're as far off as you think you are. You just have to flex a bit of personality and charm and the girls will fall for you. You already have the basis of being a great guy, just refine yourself a bit. Stop being their friend first.
/r/seduction27/04/16 05:47 PM
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You don't. Just don't even mention it. Keep it in your head as a possible plan and execute if the opportunity presents itself
/r/seduction25/04/16 05:32 AM
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I'm like 60% night game, 25% tinder, and 15% day game. When I night game I go to this part of town that has 4 or 5 bars around. Very popular, very packed. I usually start at one bar, get some drinks in me and kinda stare around and kick it with my friends. Once I start to feel the buzz I head to another bar and start drinking there. This time I feel a little more confident. I'll start my gaming there. Once I feel like I've exhausted all my chances or I'm just not feeling the vibe, I move to anot…
/r/seduction25/04/16 05:25 AM
1

I'm a big believer in achieving a life balance, if a lot of your happiness Is dependent on getting women then you might be obsessing a bit too much. Scale back and focus on yourself. You have to have hobbies and goals outside of girls. Getting women should only be a fraction of your total happiness. Other things that help boost confidence: A good job/money Achieving other goals Participating in hobbies Material things Good friends and family Developing skills. Mental health/stress management For…
/r/seduction24/04/16 09:04 PM
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It's always great being in a new town. I truly believe it gives you that extra bit of confidence because you're like an explorer in a new area. You look alert and you're constantly looking like you are having a good time. I think women can detect this subconsciously and are instantly attracted to it
/r/seduction24/04/16 06:16 PM
1

I'd go with very short convo first then hit her with "Dance with me" and pull her hand to the dancefloor. Don't ask her to dance
/r/seduction23/04/16 08:02 PM
4

Aw man that's terrible. Good luck on everything. If anyone is interested, I might pick up this series and do it myself.
/r/seduction23/04/16 04:06 PM
20

First thing, shut the fuck up and study for that exam! Your personality can wait 5 days. Second, you make it sound as if you can either be one guy or the other, mr. Nice guy or mr. Alpha. The truth always lies in between. You have to find a middle ground of the two, and you'll be more comfortable there.
/r/seduction23/04/16 06:59 AM
2

There is absolutely hope for you. You need a mental rebuild. It's like recovering from a major injury. You improve little by little over a 6 month period of time, and before you know it you look back and see how far you've come. You're only a loser because you believe to be one. That's what you've typecast yourself as and until you're ready to break through you won't have any success. Like op said, incremental victories. Does going to a bar or club by yourself make you uncomfortable? Then stop b…
/r/seduction20/04/16 01:56 PM
1

You'll find that your conversation skills will have better results if you enjoy what you're talking about. If you are trying to force topics or end up spitfiring questions it makes the other person uneasy. The best thing I can say is be as casual as possible. Don't try to score numbers on one convo, it's just an unrealistic expectation. Think of it like planting a seed. You're going to see this girl at the gym again, and you want to make it easy to start up another convo. I find it more importan…
/r/seduction20/04/16 01:20 PM
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This is my first time in this sub so I don't really know what the sidebar says but I'll give you my two bits. Touch is key. I like to start off with a hug and get the physical barrier out the way quickly. I might also sneak in a quick kiss on the cheek. A compliment on her wardrobe or hair is also a good move. Nothing major, just a quick mention of something unique about her look. You don't want to come out guns blazing in the first 5 minutes. As the date goes on and you're walking around don't …
/r/seduction16/04/16 06:55 AM
2

Wow . . . This is very progressive . . . Good for Sweden!!!
/r/MensRights23/03/16 12:06 AM
2

This is such a great write up, especially because it hits close to home. It's tough because it goes against every being of my introverted nature but I definitely try. I feel there is a balance between MRP extrovert and my normal introversion, but I have yet to find it. I'm good socially, like, I can engage and carry conversations. I just don't do a good job of maintaining and building friends. It's hard to keep in contact with everyone and when I do our conversations are meaningless and don't ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 12:45 AM
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Additionally, whether you're a sweet beta or a captivating alpha, both sides have their benefits to a relationship. Being a MRP strongly moves you to the captivating alpha side, and can leave her yearning for the beta side some times. I think I'm striving to find a balance between the two, going full alpha or full MRP leaves the nicer side of me neglected.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 03:04 AM
3

I really am curious to see what the bodies of the men in this sub look like.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 09:53 PM
5

If you claim that there are many of THING A and very few of THING B, and when someone asks you to specify examples of THING A and you refuse to answer, it invalidates your claim.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 07:37 PM
1

Man this thread is such a pity party. If men are lonely they need to put themselves out there and join club or take on new hobbies. Here is a list of hobbies that predominantly male or gender neutral: Motorcycle/car club Freemasons A boxing gym RC airplane flying Pick up an instrument/join a band Coach little league sports Model building This is all off the top of my head, I'm sure there is more
/r/MensRights16/11/15 06:46 PM
8

Dude just answer the question directly and quit the politician speak
/r/MensRights16/11/15 06:41 PM
2

There sure is a lot of faulty logic here. How about that people simply don't care about how hot a kickstarter is. It's not news. Have you heard of coverage about any feminist based kickstarters? I don't think so
/r/MensRights05/11/15 06:26 PM
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I'm glad she was able to experience what she did, I admire her commitment to this experiment. At the same time I felt she had only scratched the surface. Male to male friendships are much deeper than that. To truly gain a perspective on male relationships she would have to commit to this experiment for 5+ years. My best friend and I are very open with our emotions and feelings, but we've also known each other for about 8 years. Men can bond emotionally, just perhaps not as quickly as women. I wo…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 07:02 PM
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I think the examples you gave are not really that feminine. The obsession with boy bands has more to do with celebrity, I think. Celebrities have been praised for thousands of years, and most often they are eccentric. The guys in twilight are actually very masculine with great physiques and strong jawlines. Yeah they have a bit of makeup on their face but the desire for these actors goes beyond the cinema screen. I think there is a deep rooted hard wiring for masculine men and it's not that easy…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 06:52 PM
15

As it turned out, the case would be the first under Amherst’s new, guilt-presuming policies. While the accuser waited 21 months to file her charges, Doe received ten days before he met with the investigator; thirty-eight days after Doe was notified of the charges, the disciplinary board decided to expel him. 21 months are you fucking kidding me.
/r/MensRights22/07/15 02:44 AM
1

You handled yourself better than I would have. Great post, keep spreading the knowledge. Even though you didn't affect the person you were arguing with, you could've changed the mind of another onlooker
/r/MensRights09/07/15 03:45 AM
1

Ironic since the OP is probably one of the most cherry picked posts I've seen on this sub.
/r/MensRights25/05/15 05:40 PM
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This is not feminism. Anyone who has a gun to their head and is forcibly told to do something is a victim. It has nothing to do with whether you're a male or a female.
/r/MensRights08/05/15 09:17 PM
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He certainly could and she would face significant prison time since perjury is a felony
/r/MensRights30/11/14 07:37 PM
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Whether he works for nasa or the esa is irrelevant. The point remains the same
/r/MensRights17/11/14 10:19 PM
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How could you possibly compare a tv interview wih someone's personal pics? This isn't even apples and oranges, this is apples and lions. If the NASA guy was wearing his shirt at the beach and posted it on the web, no one would care. The reason why the girl's shirt is not causing any backlash is because she is not leading humanity to a new frontier. Then you guys keep bringing his issue up and keeping the story alive. Just let it go, let the feminists have their panties in a bunch.
/r/MensRights17/11/14 08:18 PM
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#1, #24, and #25 are mildly attractive
/r/MensRights22/09/14 09:45 PM
0

For some reason, its not loading on mobile. Is there an alternate link?
/r/MensRights17/09/14 01:46 PM
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I had never heard the hospital ER statistic. I work at a top hospital in the US with high volume of patients. If someone were to tell me that stat I would've laughed in their face. I can name at least a dozen more common things that people go to the ER for off the top of my head. The sad part is that if you say something loud enough and frequent enough, people will begin to believe it.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 07:51 PM
0

You know, if we didn't entertain these idiotic thoughts it wouldn't legitimize their claims. Just ignore and let us focus on more important issues.
/r/MensRights21/08/14 06:34 PM
4

Yay, neutrality.
/r/MensRights19/07/14 09:30 AM
3

Any time someone says "kill yourself", you know you're dealing with a feeble-minded prick
/r/MensRights29/04/14 03:29 PM
2

Why? I enjoy this sub like everyone else. I contribute, upvote and downvote accordingly, and read many of the articles. Just because I have a differing opinion doesn't mean I'm a shit user.
/r/MensRights08/04/14 01:00 AM
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I don't see the disparity. In the first statement, I say women were treated like shit. In the second, I say everyone was treated like shit except the elite. Those two statements can coexist.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 08:09 PM
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I couldn't have said it better myself. Everyone was in a shitty situation except for the elite.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 04:10 PM
0

You're 100% right on that, but that is a completely separate issue. Everything at that time was sketchy, from medicine to business to construction. You name the industry and it was unsafe, unregulated, and unethical. This has nothing to do with women or how they were treated
/r/MensRights07/04/14 04:08 PM
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I never said that, and honestly I'm not informed enough to create such an opinion. But what the girl said in the image that OP posted is 100% true. Being a woman in the 1910s was really tough. They couldn't vote, working for them was a societal taboo, and they held very few, if any, government-elected positions. And let's not forget that saving women and children first was a male-created and male enforced idea, at least on the Titanic it was.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 03:51 PM
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I support MRA to the fullest and I love this sub very much, it is one of the most unique subs on reddit. But, if you are dense enough to believe that women were not treated like shit in the 1910s, then your opinion means absolutely nothing to me
/r/MensRights07/04/14 02:48 PM
1

Men's Pride sounds like a gay activists group
/r/MensRights31/03/14 05:01 PM
6

This is fake. Please don't post this shit here.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 06:37 AM
9

Well, wouldn't people who failed a year skew the results?
/r/MensRights13/03/14 06:57 PM
11

Clearly he's joking. Then again, this is the internet
/r/MensRights24/11/13 06:38 AM
1

I either must be seriously confused or from another planet because HR does not do any hiring in my field. It's the responsibility of the department manager to find his/her employees. HR is present in the job interview but they have little say in the hiring process
/r/MensRights14/11/13 11:18 AM
2

Yeah there are about half a dozen crimes that I can think off of the top of my head that are worse than rape
/r/MensRights24/10/13 01:01 PM
3

Op must be under 18 or sharing a plan with his parents. I have no issues
/r/MensRights03/10/13 01:54 PM
4

I wouldn't say this is unethical research. The parents will decide to circumcise the child regardless of whether or not they are in the study. If they're going to do it, why not try to learn from it?
/r/MensRights02/10/13 01:14 PM
6

Combat deaths and industrial are severely skewed. Maybe if you used percentage of men killed in combat/factories vs percentage of women killed in combat/factories instead of throwing everyone into the same data set.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 02:10 PM
1

I actually don't mind paying for dinner on first or second dates, in fact I insist. But I don't do it to compensate you for being womanly. This rant is crap and follows no logical spending habits. The only legitimate point she makes is no. 7. Being pregnant does result in a significant loss of income due to reduced hours and maternity leave
/r/MensRights18/08/13 01:49 PM
1

I don't know how you stayed calm in that situation. I would've had no reservations in punching her in her stomach
/r/MensRights10/08/13 11:26 PM
1

The initial shock is like getting the wind knocked out of you. It sort of stuns you and makes you want to instantaneously enter the fetal position.. The cramping feeling is similar to the soreness felt about 30 mins after getting punched in the stomach.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 04:51 PM
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Sorry guys, I can't back yall up on this. This is just silly. Call the cops?? You've got to be mental. You think the cops are going to care about two teenagers involved in a groin kick? lol Alert the principal? Really? That is like complaining to the owner of McDonalds because your food came out cold. I'm all for equal treatment, but yall take it too far sometimes. First of all, op, calm down. Dont enter the situation with a hot head. Second, go up the chain of command. First alert the teacher, …
/r/MensRights12/06/13 01:18 PM
1

I've always equated it to punching them in the boobs, which hurts like hell for them.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 01:04 PM
1

Can we not judge a book by its cover?
/r/MensRights08/06/13 05:41 PM
3

Hear hear. Good on you.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 02:37 PM
2

No, you can use the friend as long as he/she doesn't use the money for their marriage, which they shouldn't because they wouldn't have access to the account. Now if he/she were to use it for their marriage, and they got a divorce, and the friend's spouse knew of this secret account, then she might be able to claim it in the divorce. There is a risk involved. That's why its best to go the familial route and have that relative list you as the beneficiary in case of death. Usually mom or dad is the…
/r/MensRights18/02/13 02:08 PM
3

Well there are a couple ways to avoid your assets being touched in a divorce: Put your money in an account owned by someone else. This is by far the easiest way if there is someone you trust. Most people do this through family, usually parents or siblings. Of course you can do it through friends but we all know friends aren't always forever. Just have them open it up and forfeit all the information and access info to you. Another way is to create a trustfund or any other account that has a benef…
/r/MensRights17/02/13 10:25 PM
-2

Goddamnit SRS makes my blood boil
/r/MensRights17/02/13 08:14 PM
2

Alright. How often are they voided? If you keep a sound financial record there should be no reason why the pre-nup should be voided
/r/MensRights17/02/13 07:18 PM
1

So, basically they are the North Korea of reddit?
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:48 PM
6

What proof do you have of this? How often does this occur? Why would it be voided? Edit: why the downvotes? These are legitimate questions
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:46 PM
4

There is money you can set up for yourself that is untouchable in court.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 06:33 PM
3

Holy fuck. You have found one of the craziest women I've ever heard of. I know couch surfing is tough, but think of it like this, the worst is over. You can now focus on improving yourself without the stress of living with a mentally unstable woman. It sounds like you have steady income coming in, which is great. If I can help you apartment search, just pm me your area code and budget and I'll do my best. It can be one less thing off your mind.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 07:03 AM
11

Most of these are not true. I've suddenly kissed girls and it was romantic, most women are okay if you glance at their breasts, but if you stare at them, they'll probably be offended. I don't know if you go to a gym, but I've seen plenty of women that are in shape and can lift. I've accidentally walked into the women's bathroom. It was no big deal. Need I go on?
/r/MensRights29/11/12 10:27 PM
1

Yes, a lot of what we do is about image. We are a very unique place, so we need to conduct ourselves in a professional and welcoming manner
/r/MensRights25/10/12 06:49 PM
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But instead of examining our own flaws, you are just saying 'we are not as bad as them' and we're okay with that. This should not be the mindset here. We all know we are not as bad as SRS, but that doesn't mean we should settle there. I was hoping this sub would be a forum for polite and intelligent analysis and discussion of men's rights, sort of like a branch of truereddit. And it is that way for the top post or two of the day, but there is a lot of hate brewing in this sub, and a huge lack of…
/r/MensRights25/10/12 06:47 PM
1

I'm sure men support it, but men won't get their business. Taxis are about convenience ans speed. If they had a 'man taxi', I wouldn't wait an extra 20 mins just to ride in it. These novelty taxis are nice, but useless to their main customer base
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:20 AM
2

I don't know, isolating half of your customer base is pretty damning to business. Being a cab driver in a major city is pretty cutthroat already.
/r/MensRights13/10/12 11:10 PM
-5

I'm okay with this. They'll go out of business in no time.
/r/MensRights13/10/12 09:59 PM
11

What exactly is doxxing?
/r/MensRights11/10/12 07:50 AM
6

Though you won't get bitched out for making an honest mistake here, differing opinions are usually downvoted.
/r/MensRights04/10/12 07:25 PM
-18

You sound kind of pretentious when you say "all mine". Perhaps some background info is in order. Is there no way to work something out with the mother?
/r/MensRights01/10/12 07:22 PM
2

Wow some of these responses are just as looney as the woman who approached you. I say you handled the situation very well. Just make a sly comment towards her, walk away, and leave it alone. Don't call security and don't plan on suing her. Now, if she persists or begins to follow you, then go to security. The main objective here is to teach your sister that there are people who think its wrong for a male to be with a young female, and that its wrong to think that way. You are never going to chan…
/r/MensRights07/09/12 02:12 AM
0

Meh. It's a card. They are supposed to be funny/over-the-top
/r/MensRights01/09/12 06:12 PM
5

Can you elaborate on your distaste for this comment?
/r/MensRights01/09/12 02:46 AM
1

Why does this comment rub you the wrong way? I would like to hear your point of view
/r/MensRights01/09/12 02:46 AM
4

Wow, this is more sad than enraging. I really hope the best for that woman.
/r/MensRights28/08/12 05:42 PM
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Seriously. They are not in it for moral reasons, they are in it to be successful and make money. We need to stop looking into useless crap and advance our movement
/r/MensRights17/08/12 01:21 AM
2

Muggles... In there proper place...
/r/MensRights16/08/12 10:02 PM
4

I really like everyone here, but all these comments are overreaction. This can definitely be worked out. I have seen the effect that stress can have on a family, especially the primary breadwinner. It tears it apart from the top-down. It is your job to bring your wife back to reality. Let her know that she is being too aggressive and she needs to calm herself down. Tell her that slap was out of line and that you will not put up with any more of that. If the kids saw something like that, it could…
/r/MensRights12/08/12 07:18 AM
1

Is it me, or has this event been over-covered? It seems like we know every single detail of every person in the theater.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 06:27 AM
1

I respect this guy for standing up for what he believes in, but I must admit I would have jumped all over that in a heartbeat.
/r/MensRights18/06/12 05:27 AM
1

Can you give us your sources? Just curious.
/r/MensRights11/06/12 02:48 AM
5

I don't care how rich or poor you are, prenups should always be signed in case of situations like this. Think smart, fellas.
/r/MensRights05/04/12 05:03 PM
2

In response to your edit, it is okay to have this feeling about your parents. But there has to be SOMEONE you can trust. I feel you are more in fear of the rejection/embarrassment of opening your feelings up, then fixing your suicidal thoughts. I'm not sure if this fear is unfounded or not because I am not aware of you relationship with your parents or friends. If you feel you truly have no one, then it is time to see a psychologist. Not a psychiatrist, but a psychologist. Specifically, a CBT (c…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 07:37 PM
3

This video was really funny. Thanks for posting
/r/MensRights08/02/12 06:55 AM
1

I don't know about you, but anytime I'm anywhere in public, I am a sex hungry monster. I shamelessly stare down every girl and instantly think of what position I would like to do her, and then I picture her naked. I am the reason why this stereotype was created, and I think its unfortunately true of most men, whether we show it outwardly or not. So I say it does hold some ground, however women are the same, they just don't show it like men do. But when they do we slut shame them. We both know th…
/r/MensRights20/01/12 05:08 AM
2

Its just something women say when they are pissed at men in general. Just like how guys always say "man, women are sneaky conniving bitches". Obviously thats an overgeneralization, but it holds some ground. This, similarly, applies to women, except, they say when are dogs blah blah blah. We do it too.
/r/MensRights20/01/12 04:52 AM
1

That last one... perfect. "...and I want you to cite your sources"
/r/MensRights20/01/12 04:44 AM
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Worked at the local Renaissance Festival one summer and there was this attractive girl working in the same booth with me. We did the usual lil chitchat, but I didn't really try to spit any game at her since every other dude in our booth was trying to get at her. Anyways after a long day of serving food, alcohol, and shit we both stink like hell. I offer to give a ride home with no intentions of banging her. Drop her off and she says "why don't you shower here". The rest you can figure out. Not r…
/r/seduction21/12/11 07:09 AM
1

I would chill out and check in with her after the winter break. Unless, like dj_bizarro said, she hits you up first. Start off with "Don't tell me you forgot my name again" or something of that nature. Ask her how her break was and what she did blah blah blah. Even better so it over dinner, then take her home and bang her.
/r/seduction21/12/11 06:58 AM
0

This is perfect advice. When you stop masturbating it makes you more aggressive and somehow more attractive to women. Its like they can tell. If I stop masturbating I notice that a lot more girls initiate and flirt with me. Its the oddest fucking thing but it works.
/r/seduction21/12/11 06:52 AM
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