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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Female-only spaces shouldn’t exist (except bathrooms and locker rooms) I hope she’ll be able to get the diagnosis and help she needs soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 08:18 AM
1	Female-only spaces shouldn’t exist (except bathrooms and locker rooms) Is that a good or bad thing? I can’t tell just from the comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 07:19 AM
8	Female-only spaces shouldn’t exist (except bathrooms and locker rooms) So why do you think to bring it up as a topic if you are unable to even perform a google search on it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 09:52 AM
12	Female-only spaces shouldn’t exist (except bathrooms and locker rooms) Not to mention, a lot of illnesses do not display the same way across genders, such as insult/heart attack. So realistically it aint even possible to compare notes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 09:51 AM
6	Female-only spaces shouldn’t exist (except bathrooms and locker rooms) You know, there is a saying, there isnt healthy people, there are just a lot of people undiagnosed. Yes, there is a community of a lot of people why like to claim they have whatever, and that can be annoying, but lets be honest, even people with actual diagnosis don’t really know if or what issues the LARPers have. They can take an educated quess whether what they claim sounds realistic, but they at the end of the day still don’t know, they are not qualified to diagnose. Kinda similar to your bi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 09:48 AM
8	Female-only spaces shouldn’t exist (except bathrooms and locker rooms) That aint how that works. You don’t need to have a diagnosis to still suffer from the illness, same as not having a bipolar diagnosis officially does not mean people around you cant suddenly see you are a bit locco in the head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 09:42 AM
12	Female-only spaces shouldn’t exist (except bathrooms and locker rooms) Or maybe they just don’t tell you? A lot of them may not even be diagnosed officially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 09:38 AM
–	Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average men Men similarly have different rules for different women, it’s the same for both genders. Also, nobody owes anyone they plan to date the same behaviour as with previous partner, ideally it would always be different for betterment of dating experience. Imagine it like this: if a man paid for everything for the previous 3 women he dated, would he have to do the same for 4th? Or would it be acceptable for him to say, that he’d like for them to pay equally?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 08:23 AM
–	Sabrina Carpenter’s new song “Manchild” is misandrist and hateful Good for you then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 08:09 AM
–	Sabrina Carpenter’s new song “Manchild” is misandrist and hateful So women cheating men into raising other mens kids isnt a trope? Sure hope guys here remember this next time there is a paternity testing post here. I simply see that u like to cherry pick and honestly if thats so, you should have just posted this on redpill in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 07:59 AM
–	Sabrina Carpenter’s new song “Manchild” is misandrist and hateful So its okay for michael to talk about a woman whonis trying to claim he is a kids dad which he isnt, trying to take him to bedroom, about a woman who is scheming, but sabrina cant say men are lazy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 07:25 AM
–	Sabrina Carpenter’s new song “Manchild” is misandrist and hateful My dude… Billie Jean is not my lover She's just a girl who claims that I am the one (oh, baby) But the kid is not my son (hoo) She says I am the one (oh, baby) But the kid is not my son (hee-hee-hee, no-no, hee-hee-hee, hoo) For forty days and for forty nights, law was on her side But who can stand when she's in demand? Her schemes and plans 'Cause we danced on the floor in the round (hee) So take my strong advice Just remember to always think twice (Do think twice) do think twice (ah-hoo) She t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 06:45 AM
0	When mothers murder their own children, they are charged less seriously than other forms of homicide. This is because women are babied by society. I read the source, although there are a few questions that could have skewed results as per their own comments, it seems very solid paper. Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 10:32 AM
1	When mothers murder their own children, they are charged less seriously than other forms of homicide. This is because women are babied by society. Thank you for a source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 09:56 AM
6	When mothers murder their own children, they are charged less seriously than other forms of homicide. This is because women are babied by society. Im sorry, but this did not answer my question at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 09:48 AM
7	When mothers murder their own children, they are charged less seriously than other forms of homicide. This is because women are babied by society. Hey, can you please share your statistics? Id be interested to read, but unfortunately i don’t have time at the moment to search for different statistics and there wasn’t anything i could find in this short amount of time. Im just interested about the research.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 08:08 AM
3	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Speaking of tinder, i think a lot of people also don’t realize how little the amount of likes really mean and tend to take it personally. For example, if i am not getting many likes, it has less to do with me personally being undesirable and more to do with me being bad at marketing myself. From what i have seen, half of the men i would not give a like on tinder i would definitely talk to in real life, but in tinder they basically become content. Also one thing i noticed in my country specifical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/25 10:24 AM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women They do suck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 11:13 AM
–	Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to women You can actually, taxes are a forced obligation for example, fines as well. Doubt you signed a consent form for those, you just pay them and you don’t get any say in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 10:58 AM
1	Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft.. Not really, trust me they know they don’t want to be under russia, as russia is known to not treat u very nice after invasion	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 02:34 PM
1	Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft.. It’s not a question of that. For ukraine and many other countries, they have been under russia before and it ain’t sunshine and lollypops under russia’s rule. Most countries who became independent after USSR collapse don’t want to end up back under russia again	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 02:22 PM
1	Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs. Which i agree with, if they are properly screened to avoid human trafficking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 07:06 PM
1	Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs. And who said I wasn’t? Your assumption that it’s free everywhere is plain wrong. It is also not the point i was arguing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 02:42 PM
0	Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs. I’d say in actuality sex is a need, just not a need like food or shelter. There are different levels of needs, like having meaningful relationships is a need, just not as important in the list of needs as food. That however doesn’t mean that your needs trump someone else’s right to their bodily autonomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 11:13 AM
2	If a girl dresses slutty shes not doing it for herself. Okay, I misunderstood slightly, it just seemed to me that discussion was about overall representality. But if i had to guess, normally people dress sexily in relationships because that is one way to spice up things. Of course there is no point to wearing sexy clothes everyday at home, because sexy clothes are often not all that comfortable to wear or to do chores in. However, when you go out, it can be a status thing, like “oh look, my bf has me”, confidence thing or just to spice things up in a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/20 05:06 PM
4	If a girl dresses slutty shes not doing it for herself. Because it is usually conditioned by society. Women tell their daughters to look presentable, you also have other women around you who look their best and as such you compare yourself to them. Personally, often the reason i dress up is because other women dress up, because i know i need to compare to them. Thing is, humans value beauty and make judgements about other people simply because of how they look. And humans psychology has evolved to almost always behave in a way that makes society acce…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/20 12:32 PM
7	CMV: Physical attraction is more problematic that most people make it out to be I think attractiveness is not so cut and dry. While it’s true attractive people have it easier in the beginning as they can get to conversation part faster, that’s not where all ends. I have found people often don’t crush on the most attractive people, but those they have something in common. It isn’t so always, but personally i have found people that i normally would not think are that attractive much more attractive after i get to know them, and I would prefer them to people who are more attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/20 05:23 PM
2	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. I think men in that situation can relate easier than women, as they have been through that stage. Women (and younger men) often have this ideal relationship idea that they cling to at that age, no matter how unrealistic it is. They won’t understand for example you working overtime for an important project or something because their jobs are usually less impactful and in their mind yours is too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 04:11 PM
2	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. You are free to do as you please. It’s just that i often see points brought out by redpill that i disagree with. As for the prime age being 20-24, this might be true from the perspective of them being beautiful, but not from the mental perspective. A lot of them are very childish and have unrealistic expectations for relationships. They often expect everything to be perfect, especially if you are the older one in the relationship. Honestly, it’s not worth going through basically raising yourself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 04:01 PM
1	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. Maybe, I personally have not looked into it that much, i have only researched human societal studies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 03:49 PM
1	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. It is an interesting to theorize about, but personally i feel humans have more of a hierarchy similar to horses as they also don’t have alphas or betas, it is all built on helping the herd like humans. Interesting thing is that women don’t all want the classic chad, the preferences depend largely on their cycle, hormonal state and sexual preferences, sometimes even societal notions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 03:28 PM
1	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. I agree that some women are abysmal in relationships, but i think this is more of an issue with men not having the support system that women have in case of domestic abuse. After all, female to male abuse is less likely to be taken seriously than the opposite. But if you are her “alpha” then logically she couldn’t do better? So why don’t you want her later when she can’t do better? The premise is the same in both cases. From what i have seen, nobody is 100% happy with someone, even when in a con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 03:23 PM
3	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. Not to mention, if there were alpha men, there would also be alpha women associated with them, which turns the whole alpha/beta thing upside down and that would mean that you are either born as an alpha or you are socially accepted as one, therefore no other man in that group can be alpha. Also, how would the female hierarchy work then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 03:13 PM
5	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. I don’t think that’s true. A lot of things play into what makes someone attractive. Often times that goes along with how well you learn to know the other person. Also, you thinking she wouldn’t have date you back then is an assumption, not a fact. It’s like saying all men are assholes, that is also an assumption, not a fact. Also, what is so bad at settling? Men most of the time settle for a woman because of the emotional support, even though there are better women around, why are women not allo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 02:46 PM
5	It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years. I don’t get it. How can you be mad that a woman didn’t give you her best years when you didn’t even know her then or she you? I am legitimately confused about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/20 02:03 PM
2	Most men stop the emotional effort they put in from the beginning once they get the girl. Why are men surprised when sex dies down too ? This sub has a way of wording things in all sorts of ways. Of course i cannot say that some relationships really aren’t like that, but from what i have seen, this type of reasoning only comes to play when people don’t want to take responsibility in relationships. That’s when relationships turns transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/20 09:08 PM
7	Most men stop the emotional effort they put in from the beginning once they get the girl. Why are men surprised when sex dies down too ? I feel sex isn’t so much transactional than actually situational. That means that if the situation isn’t fulfilling both partners requirements at the same time, you get intimacy issues. For example not many men want to be disturbed by offers of sex when they have to get something done that is important. Same applies to women, not many want to have sex after handling the kids after a full work day. You have dead bedroom issues when partners don’t adjust to each others schedule and try to initiate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/20 08:16 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? Yes, some states. Others barely manage. Average doesn’t help here, all schools should be up to code.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/19 03:51 AM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? Precicely. If abortion is banned, like some politicians are trying, there will still be a lot of single mothers regardless. Or they’ll be dead or crippled so the state would still have to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/19 03:44 AM
0	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? That is provided they get the right kind of education, that America is not doing right now, so no, they would still have kids. Not to mention that pro-life crap that’s going on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 04:46 PM
0	Men are their own worst enemies. Is it rape though? I mean, you sign legal documents, you literally know what will be the outcome and you agree with it. It’s like going to casino hoping to win, most of the time you don’t, but you knew what you were getting into and what the outcomes will be. Comparing it to rape that happens to you out of your control is tacky in my opinion. Also you don’t have to marry. What i find the funniest though is that same group of people are not actively doing something to change the laws, you literal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/19 07:11 AM
3	Do Men and Women Really Have Equal Mean IQs? I think women don’t go often into STEM subjects simply because they most often are not steered that way by their parents. Since they are more often directed towards art forms and not sent to build, they don’t develop that kind of understanding of things as men do. Of course there are some differences in the way men and women think, but what i have seen is that often women that could understand those things don’t try to even understand the concept, whereas men think along when you explain somethi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/19 06:00 PM
2	No, it's not morally justified for Mackenzie Bezos to receive half the wealth in the divorce. That’s because child support overrides pre-nup. Child support isn’t spousal support, it is not something that the parent can legally give up because it is technically the child’s right, not their parents. What parents don’t often realize is that your kids are not under your dictatorship, they do have all the rights you have, they just are not able to comprehend this and thus their parents gain custody, which basically means that you govern for them until they are able to make those choices thems…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/19 06:24 AM
5	“I’d rather be the woman he wants when he has it all than be the woman he needs to help him because he has nothing” female beta bux Nope, they do. I know many couples like this where women either support men or at the very least pay for half of everything, and men still complain. Honestly it makes me lose respect for such men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/19 09:31 AM
1	Should little to no reciprocity in physical touch (but not rejection) be taken as consent? I am from Eastern Europe, as far as i know, most countries have this rule. Anyway, it generally goes like this: man initiates conversation, whilst woman initiates touching. Of course it depends on the situation, but this is the most generic rule. This also applies to business etiquette. I find it a good rule, since you won’t be invading anyone’s personal space and also won’t make women uncomfortable, since it is up to them to make that move. Anyway, i do agree on one thing though, that women sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/18 07:36 AM
3	Should little to no reciprocity in physical touch (but not rejection) be taken as consent? And if that doesn’t work? Let me tell you something. Women are taught to be more sensitive about this, they know how uncomfortable it feels to be turned down so they try to do it gently, been there, done that. Speaking of danger, I know that even at my best a man that does not work out too much can overpower me easily and this is scary. The thing is, no one introduces themselves as a dangerous person, and women get shit anyway. Go read incel posts, women get shat on for just being polite and con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/18 06:20 PM
6	Should little to no reciprocity in physical touch (but not rejection) be taken as consent? I don’t even understand where is this even okay. Personally in my culture you never touch anyone unless you know them very well. So you blaming women for your incapability to understand boundaries and rudeness is shocking. Why would you ever touch someone without their permission? What are you, a savage? Would you play with your male friends hair and touch them and put an arm around them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/18 05:48 PM