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I'm dating a girl who's a lot like you - I'm having a lot of issues with her past. I think you both have a fairly healthy attitude toward sex but it's hurting me in a way I didn't predict and I'm having trouble overcoming. She doesn't want to talk about it openly with me - I think I could handle it if we did but she's very closed about that part of her world, and it makes it a lot harder for me. What do I do? I think it's my own insecurities, but there are a lot of things I have trouble acceptin…
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:34 AM
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I'm pale and fry in the sun :( I guess I'm out of the club...
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:11 AM
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Soooo.. what's the opener? For science.. and my account..
/r/seduction20/01/12 03:00 AM
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WTF is "a sugar"?! Where I come from sugar is a granular powder..
/r/seduction09/01/12 01:58 AM
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How do you know?
/r/seduction20/12/11 03:47 PM
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I've had a few girlfriends and I don't think I would have had the courage to just walk up to a cute girl outside a bakery. Sounds like you've been doing a few approaches too, what the fuck are you talking about, no progress?! Yeah, you haven't lost your v plates and you're nervous about it, everyone is and would be. It's fine. You've already taken a huge step with the weight loss, so you've come a long way already but it's a long journey. Losing the fat didn't happen overnight and this won't eit…
/r/seduction11/12/11 09:15 AM
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Good advice. Always been bad at breaking the rules like that, will try some of this shit..
/r/seduction05/12/11 08:49 AM
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I will as soon as I'm not on my damn phone.. Unfortunately the only thing I have that can Internet right now. Fwiw I love the salt shaker trick.. Could totally be used as a joke irl. Also the silence drawing details out of people. The one question girl banzai clips in that are also priceless, the one of her getting owned is definitely solid schooling in being a complete boss. Wish I could give more detail but later.
/r/seduction05/12/11 08:38 AM
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I always try chatting to some guys at the bar first. I do a warm up set with some guys and if you can build rapport it feels good - maybe you should just try striking up a low-commitment conversation with a guy at a bar? He probably won't think you're hitting on him, just talking about the price of beer. It also enables the frame of someone who just naturally chats to people, which is good. Once you've started a few conversations, hopefully you'll have the confidence to do that with some girls -…
/r/seduction10/10/11 01:08 PM
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I know exactly what you're talking about. I always searched for the right thing to say to kick things off. Turns out that communication just can't be verbal. It's hard for guys like us but just think of it as a form of communication and use it. It doesn't matter if you're talking about how soft sheep ears are as long as you put your hand on her arm, leg, back etc to emphasis the points. Eventually, you'll be in a position where you both feel comfortable to kiss. Body language and touch - learn i…
/r/seduction07/10/11 01:03 AM
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I like that - "Hey, you know what's more fun than sitting on a bench alone? Coffee, heading to get one now, you should come. Your bench will be waiting for you.." Lets her give a clear indication of interest and it's just a casual invite. Doesn't mean you have to find a different way into the building ;-)
/r/seduction07/10/11 12:57 AM
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Got caught checking out a girl's ass a little while ago. I gave her a cheeky grin because I knew I'd been caught out. Later, when we were naked and I was playing with it, she said "I knew you were an ass man when I caught you looking at it". It wasn't our introduction mind you, but it did not hurt my chances. Mind you I'm more a boob man, I just thought I could get away with checking her ass out. I was wrong.
/r/seduction05/10/11 05:38 AM
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College girl's asses are truly amazing. Check them all out. Such bounty does not exist in the bleak corporate world you will be ejected into upon graduation.
/r/seduction05/10/11 05:32 AM
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Thanks for sharing this - I for one appreciate the female perspective on something like this working.
/r/seduction05/10/11 05:20 AM
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Oh and start exercising! Does wonderful things for every single part of your life.
/r/seduction29/09/11 03:54 AM
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I don't think you should write off going to the doctor or a therapist. I have suffered from depression and I still get some really bad moments, but I just recognise what it is and work with and around it. I have seen a therapist in the past but largely dealt with it myself. Much like pickup it was very useful to discuss how I was dealing with it and get tips on how to improve my handling of it. I have also had friends try various medications and it's helped them a great deal - I have always stay…
/r/seduction29/09/11 03:51 AM
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10?
/r/seduction29/09/11 02:33 AM
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I literally say to myself either before approaching a girl or before going down a hill on my longboard, "grow a pair". For me it means essentially the same thing, stop worrying about it and do it already. You've stood there thinking about it too long already. Get some balls or go home.
/r/seduction28/09/11 07:35 AM
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I really like this answer. I'm not sure it's 100% right but I really like the way this puts the ball in her court and makes her consider her actions. Not sure how this will make her feel/react but I'm a noob anyway.
/r/seduction28/09/11 03:37 AM
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So why is your username two to the power of sixteen? PS well spotted absurdconcept and hello to a fellow code monkey ;-)
/r/seduction28/09/11 12:23 AM
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Funnily enough I was chatting about this with a friend of mine recently - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hiv#Transmission is a good resource. Odds are actually lower than I thought they would be. Still, be careful out there guys, and there are a fuckton of other STIs you could be catching.
/r/seduction28/09/11 12:16 AM
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If I buy a girl a drink I'll usually say "it's no big deal - you can get the next round." Then when you finish your drink, she should go and get you another one - I've never had a girl not do this but I'm not exactly great at this. Another approach is to see if you can get the girl to buy you one. I have no idea how to do this but I've seen it suggested in guides ;-)
/r/seduction26/09/11 03:56 AM
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Lost my virginity to my first gf when I was 22. Been with a number of girls since, and I'm heading out on a date tonight. I'm kind of thankful, I think every stage of the process has been so much sweeter because I've had to work for it, and ultimately I'm accomplished almost everything I thought was impossible when I was 20. You'll be fine, just keep walking in the right direction and you'll get there in the end. There are some amazing girls out there who hopefully will inspire you and guide you…
/r/seduction26/09/11 03:33 AM
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It's probably more appropriate for /r/askSeddit - this is where I've been asking my boneheaded questions though, only noticed askseddit even existed today :-)
/r/seduction23/09/11 05:40 AM
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Fucking high-five. Good for you.
/r/seduction23/09/11 03:39 AM
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Sounds like something I'd do. Good luck for the next attempt.
/r/seduction20/09/11 05:53 AM
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Wouldn't it be asking her to qualify herself and framing the next question?
/r/seduction19/09/11 08:59 AM
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No step is too small. Have a look at some new clothes online, find something you think would suit you. Go out and buy a new jacket, feel good about looking a bit smarter than usual. Start with a few affirmations, try feeling good about yourself. Exercise, it makes EVERYTHING easier. Just because someone over on /r/fa hasn't had a girlfriend yet says very little about your odds of getting one. If you want to look at odds have a look at the human race - nearly all of us find mates. It's unlikely y…
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:47 AM
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Could we sidebar this?
/r/seduction18/09/11 12:35 AM
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Congratulations and good on you :)
/r/seduction18/09/11 12:27 AM
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Also if you start hooking up with her then find out she's also hooking up with someone else. Jealousy can can really kick in there. Same goes for you seeing other people. Actually I remember a friend who did this with his ex for long enough for his ex to go really crazy. She ended up doing loads of awful things.
/r/seduction18/09/11 12:10 AM
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If there's a plausible way someone else (housemate, other friend) could have left it there you can ask, going from the most recent back. Otherwise just hang it up in the wardrobe and see if they ask.
/r/seduction16/09/11 03:31 AM
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Just a quick question, she finally messaged back and said she realised at 3am that she hadn't replied.. Would "So you were thinking of me at 3am? ;)" Be too cheesy? EDIT: Went for it. She messaged back straight away with another joke and a time to meet next week. Wow, so being a bit flirtatious works.
/r/seduction16/09/11 03:24 AM
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Used to take E - I think it was one thing that got me past a lot of anxiety. I learned that I could behave like an idiot and people would just think it was awesome and have fun with me - plus when everyone is happy to give you a hug you lose a lot of the inhibition surrounding touching people. Not for everyone and I never really kept it up, but I was too shy to go out once upon a time. Then I realised I could be a total retard and the worst that would happen is I'd end up with people laughing an…
/r/seduction16/09/11 02:16 AM
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Yup. Dance hard and the kids love it. I can't even figure out how many girls I've passed up because I just keep fucking dancing and never even stopped to think any of them might like me. Loads come up when you stop and ask you to keep going or show them moves.. I always assumed I was just a novelty but I've had so many people come up to me and complement me or even recognise me outside of night clubs.. damn the low self esteem at the time. Then I got a little drunk one day and just started makin…
/r/seduction16/09/11 01:49 AM
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Damn good advice.
/r/seduction15/09/11 10:56 PM
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Thanks for all the clarification, I genuinely appreciate every insight/comment. Now if she'd just reply to my damn message.. Did include a bit of a tease, it ended up being too long. I was typing on my PC so I didn't notice until I saw it on my phone. Oh well. I think the conversation was a hook too, we get on well. At least we've kissed, however briefly, so it's not friendzone.
/r/seduction15/09/11 10:56 PM
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Just keep reaching out!!! Yup, yup, yup.
/r/seduction15/09/11 06:03 AM
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Hey man. You have depression and extreme social anxiety - you also probably have low self esteem. Which is ok, because all of these things can be solved over time. Look, it's not an easy road but I've come (over the course of years) from a similar situation and I've solved a lot of my problems. It takes work man but as long as you can take the small steps the longer journey just takes care of itself. Flirting would help, but maybe you aren't ready for that. Look at the reasons you suffer such ba…
/r/seduction15/09/11 06:01 AM
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When I lost it girl didn't clue on - told her a month later she'd been my first. She was pretty stoked but annoyed I didn't tell her first.. she said I was a little clumsy but very enthusiastic :-) I was 22 btw
/r/seduction14/09/11 05:54 AM
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Ahaha nope probably would have tried it. Thank-you for the guidance. Feeling pretty clueless but that's ok - this is practice dating. I'll see what happens..
/r/seduction12/09/11 09:58 PM
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Ok that sounds good. I saw some advice mentioning asking about previous relationships to set a sexual frame, this seems like really bad advice for this situation at least. She's originally from a small town so maybe I can make a few jokes about the night life and meeting people who aren't your cousin so at least we're talking about relationships and sex. Then.. surprise buttsecks. Wait, no, the judge said none of that..
/r/seduction12/09/11 01:53 PM
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Ah I do love a good "that's what she said" - I'll try to work one in. :) Perhaps a bar overlooking a street, making fun of/making stories around people walking past always lightens the mood.
/r/seduction12/09/11 01:47 PM
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Do you have any practical tips on adding sexual undertone? Jokes about manscaping somehow seem clumsy.. Seriously, this is my biggest sticking point. I feel like a cock even suggesting that something might happen, but of course I want it to. I know this is an inner game thing and I'm working on that too, but if there were any "x joke is good and not as invasive as asking if she shaved her poodle" tips that I could try.. Edit: Did you just add some tips? Those are exactly the sort of things I'm l…
/r/seduction12/09/11 01:42 PM
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