nezahualcoyotl90 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	Leave the relationship building to the women	Fundamentals	nezahualcoyotl90	/r/seduction	10/03/26 12:50 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Am I cuckmaxxing? last night she sent me a message asking if she could tell me today whether she can come or not. I said okay That's all. You said ok. She said she would hit you up. If she doesnt, you got your answer. Waiting sucks, but go live your life and sit with that feeling. The ball is in her court. There's not much else to it. Following up doesnt make sense. She will see it as desperate.	/r/seduction	25/04/26 09:10 PM
176	My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left. Hard way to learn. Don’t do dinner on a first date. You don’t know them. You don’t owe them that. Drinks at best.	/r/seduction	29/03/26 12:57 AM
60	My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left. First date?	/r/seduction	29/03/26 12:52 AM
10	What is the best dating app for meeting quality girls? Hinge. Bumble.	/r/seduction	21/03/26 02:50 PM
6	What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date? Oweee woweee	/r/seduction	11/03/26 01:17 AM
4	What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date? Facts schmacts	/r/seduction	11/03/26 12:44 AM
10	What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date? Generalizations are ok sometimes	/r/seduction	11/03/26 12:19 AM
18	What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date? You’re literally speaking for me	/r/seduction	10/03/26 11:50 PM
4	Dating apps are confusing: how do I clearly communicate dating goals? In person. But ghost them later.	/r/seduction	10/03/26 09:49 PM
-4	What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date? You seem desperate if you try to hit it on the first date. Not saying you can’t but first date hookups are tough.	/r/seduction	10/03/26 09:10 PM
2	Leave the relationship building to the women Thank you	/r/seduction	10/03/26 05:20 PM
-2	Leave the relationship building to the women Silly	/r/seduction	10/03/26 12:52 PM
0	Leave the relationship building to the women You’re talking about fixing dating problems. I’m talking about what should organize a man’s life. Those are two different levels.	/r/seduction	10/03/26 05:47 AM
-4	Leave the relationship building to the women Your argument assumes I’m presenting “purpose” as a tactic to avoid neediness with women. I’m not. I’m talking about life orientation. You’re treating non-neediness as something that comes from being good with women. But that still centers your psychology around women. In that model, your confidence depends on continued success with them. You make women the axis of your emotional state. Purpose isn’t a substitute for social skill. It just means your center of gravity isn’t romantic validation.	/r/seduction	10/03/26 04:58 AM
-3	Leave the relationship building to the women Putting your purpose first it’s important whether you’re good with women and game or not. The fact that you associate it with that, somehow dependent on game and women, shows you are disconnected from your purpose. If you were connected you wouldn’t have tied it to being good with game and women. Watch the way you talk to yourself. You’re losing frame to yourself.	/r/seduction	10/03/26 03:32 AM
11	Great first date, kissing, positive texts… then she ghosted after I asked for a second date. Now she texted again. How should I respond? Calling her was a bad move. Let girls worry about building the relationship	/r/seduction	10/03/26 12:48 AM
5	What’s a high body count? Respectable? Sybau if you’re not getting laid	/r/seduction	03/03/26 06:08 PM
2	What miss ratio would you guys say is normal to expect even if you’re attractive and charismatic? Think in terms of baseball batting averages. For every ten at bats you’re probably getting 3 hits and that’s considered good. If you’re batting above .300 you’re doing solid.	/r/seduction	01/03/26 09:10 AM
12	Sex with older man He’s not lying. As a human lie detector I can tell when people are telling the truth.	/r/seduction	18/07/25 04:54 PM
1	Tinder hookup fail That’s because I only mentioned one. I got a dozen more examples.	/r/seduction	01/04/25 02:54 PM
1	Tinder hookup fail Yes. Literally had a girl have me over only to defend her rep after to me saying “I’m not a hoe.” Like ok nobody said you were one, it’s all in your head. So yes women sometimes be acting crazy about it. OP’s story sounds more like she regretted it after a short while. Shame is a powerful feeling.	/r/seduction	01/04/25 12:24 PM
10	Tinder hookup fail Oh eww that’s gross. OP, take a shower, bro. What wrong with you? We’re rooting for you. Get it together.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 04:14 PM
10	Tinder hookup fail Yeah, I was gonna say this she doesn’t wanna be seen as a hoe. It may seem crazy that she invited you over and whatever, but she still doesn’t want to be perceived like a hoe.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 04:01 PM
3	Got to hit and then got served the worst flake out in the history of flake outs? Young girls are the worst. No accountability. Flippant, unreliable. Honestly, just focus on yourself and let whatever comes your way come. Truly, don't get attached. At that age, dating was unpredictable and girls were way too irrational.	/r/seduction	20/01/25 04:06 PM
2	Got to hit and then got served the worst flake out in the history of flake outs? This. I'd slept with some girl a few times and never once cuddled her after. Just hit it and left usually. One night she asked me to cuddle her and I kept telling her no. She was mad obsessed with me after. It was actually annoying. I distinctly her telling me "I'm not a hoe" and I was like "I never said you were..." uhhhh? Girls are really messed up in the head. They want to play but when push comes to shove they usually can't handle it. Don't believe their words. Believe their actions.	/r/seduction	20/01/25 04:03 PM
2	How do yall open at a bookstore? Good luck. It’s never a problem not knowing what a book is about. Just be sincere and go from there.	/r/seduction	12/01/25 02:15 AM
1	How do yall open at a bookstore? Just take a quick note of whatever they’re reading and leave a comment. It’s totally cool to comment on the book if it catches your eye, even if you don’t know what it’s about. For instance, I saw a girl today pick up a book called ‘Five Love Languages’ (no joke!). I know about it but haven’t read it myself, so that’s how I started chatting. Basically, I said, ‘Have you read that one? I’ve been wanting to read it.’ It was like a friendly introduction to the book. This gave her the chance to expl…	/r/seduction	12/01/25 01:55 AM