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| 2 | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?Who a woman sleeps with in the past matters greatly for marriage. It does not matter for casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItThat's actually a good point. You can't just hand women over to men because then they wouldn't work either. It's obviously a delicate balance then. Old system worked better for everyone then we thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItHow does less women wanting marriage benefit men? Doesn't that men less wives to go around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItYeah this is the issue. Provide protection be taller and stronger but expect jack shit in return. Of course men are dropping out. If women were more ok with feminine men that did domestic work this wouldn't really be an issue. Instead the girl boss types want a masculine guy, just like the feminine women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | TRP was Never Going to Work for Most Men. An Ideology based on Potential Most Men Never hadFair enough, at least you have a sense of humor about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:10 PM |
| – | TRP was Never Going to Work for Most Men. An Ideology based on Potential Most Men Never hadFuck you bitch, I'm not a boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:04 PM |
| 3 | TRP was Never Going to Work for Most Men. An Ideology based on Potential Most Men Never hadNagging is not Red pill, that's PUA aka old school pick up art. You're confusing them. Red pill is just a framework to understand women's true nature. It's not about picking up chicks at bars or cold approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:00 PM |
| 0 | TRP was Never Going to Work for Most Men. An Ideology based on Potential Most Men Never hadYou can pay a prostitute and rack up as high a body count as you want. An escort will not reject you if you pay and even if she does you can easily find another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 2 | If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like youDon't be a fucking simp. Abundance mentality is key. Even if you don't have options act like you do. Fake it til you make it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itSure, from low quality men you don't want. But if Chad ignores you thats bad. That's why women dress the way they do at the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itWomen say this but I doubt they mean it. They always get jealous of the new girl who gets attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:48 PM |
| – | There's nothing morally wrong with the af/bb strategy.10 or above means you have a high body count according to science. Lifetime worldwide average partners is like 7-9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Mem are not that desperate irlI kind of figured, that's why I went out of my way to say I agree. Not all blue pillers are wrong 100% of the time. Its cowardly not to flair up IMO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Men have standards just as high as women do. And thinking otherwise is even misandristBecause they are having sex with men? Gay men do great on internet dating as well. The issue isn't women it's that men are easy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Mem are not that desperate irlI agree with you. However, most men can't get sex outside of an ltr without resorting to prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Mem are not that desperate irlFlair up. I also agree with you btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 08:19 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men enjoy the chase is completely made up.Tbh I always enjoyed the chase. Getting sex sometimes feels like the dog catching the car. The fun is in the journey and the buildup not the reward. Its only fun with the right woman though. Otherwise it's miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Men who get their life together for the sake of becoming attractive but then decide to be single should not be blamed for their choiceYeah this is true. Even older female coworkers can be like this. Nothing to do at the job except gossip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves.I mean my mom stayed at home. Same with my wife. No woman my age stays at home and no man my age provides like that because it's no longer possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves.I'm not blue pill but I agree with you here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsThat's not true. Young men want kids more then women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't careBut men don't owe you anything. If you don't like your options stay single. I would say the same thing to a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life.I think 80/20 is for hookups on tinder, not irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsShe's incredibly plain looking, borderline ugly black girl. She's popular because she can rap well and dresses with very little clothes. Most men would likely find her too tall, too heavy, and too plain if she wasn't famous. Meg is no Sydney Sweeney or that chick from the boys who got all that plastic surgery. She's mmid at best and was NEVER famous for her looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 08:44 PM |
| -3 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.An extremely tiny segment of the population makes 160k+ tho. I doubt you would even get the chance to date one since they can use their incomes as leverage to date prettier and younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.The main reason women date men in 2026 is for money. Looks MONEY and status are the trinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.It's more financially advantageous to not date men? What? That makes no sense men pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:00 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?I don't care if you date attractive men. Go for it? Who would object to that. You're creating a strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 06:23 PM |
| 5 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Most guys on r/theredpill back in the day didn't even lift and that's step 1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 04:10 PM |
| 0 | For people who have "given up" for longer than a year, how is your life now? Was it the correct choice?You could too if you paid a sex worker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseConservatives down vote and flame but won't ban you. Libs perma ban anybody who disagrees with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 09:22 PM |
| 1 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.Nobody says that. The 50 year old gets money so he can pay the 20 year old prostitute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 05:39 PM |
| 2 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.Yep. Could I spin plates when I met my wife? Sure. But they were the same level of hotness and a ton of effort for the same reward i was already getting. At some point you realize your just being a dancing monkey on tinder anyway so yeah why not settle down. The only way you fuck 3 girls at the same time is by paying to sleep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.If anything that proves schools teach work based on merit? If it were based on volume or what's popular there would be more female authors taught. The logical explanation is male authors are rarer but the ones that do write produce more school worthy texts than female authors (who still ma,ke up a sizeable percent and are not banned) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Wow, so 100 percent of authors are not female? Well that certainly has to be changed! /s Is that really how you think? There is no bias against female authors in school. You want to what, blame Geroge Orwell for being a man? You study 1984 because its an important novel. Same thing with Adolus Huxley and Brave New World. It makes no difference the gender of the author. To Kill A Mockingbird isn't any better because a woman wrote it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Both reading and writing are a primarily female activity, by a large margin. Plenty of female authors are taught in school. Off the top of my head Mary Shelly's Frankenstein and Pride and Prejudice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.There are more female authors then male authors lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Most women who are prostitutes sell themselves for less then 300 bucks bro. Pushy is VERY cheap lol. Go to r/strippers and search "cubans" and "extras" if you want to learn more. Say I'm a whore that charges 1000 dollars to sleep w me. If the girl next to me charges only 300 then I have to lower my prices. Supply and demand. There are FAR more whores then John's. Way way way way way more. Most men want it for "free" lol and a lot of men won't break the law | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:51 PM |
| 5 | Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that.It's Lillith she makes like half the threads here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menNot if you have money it isnt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyYou forgot start select. It's up up down down left right left right a b start + select | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 10:19 PM |
| 2 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsHe still my qb man but you picked a bad example, that's all I'm sayin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:31 PM |
| 2 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsCaleb Willams paints his nails. He's feminine af. I say this as a Bears fan btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:16 PM |
| – | Sexless men don't exist, only poor men do.What is the hardest part about roller blading? Telling ur parents you are gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Men need to drink to get casual sex, but it’s for the woman’s comfort, not theirsI mean I'm married so fine? I never struggled to find partners who didn't drink before I met my wife either. I'll totally give you the caveat you probably aren't having sex night 1 without alcohol. But the idea you need it to get laid is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Men need to drink to get casual sex, but it’s for the woman’s comfort, not theirsThat's fair I guess. Back before I was married I was hooking up as a low inhibition theater kid so that probably colors things a bit. It really wasn't that hard to have sex by date 2 or 3. And yeah, nobody had sex on date one but I was messaging multiple girls so I didn't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Men need to drink to get casual sex, but it’s for the woman’s comfort, not theirsNot really? If you look at drinking statistics for say 20-45 yr old women who live in the us I'm sure there are plenty who don't drink. Asking chatgpt, it looks like roughly 1 in 3 women who live in the US age 20-45 don't drink. So that's literally 1 in every 3 girls. Not the majority but far from rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?But if I do, they still won't want me I promise you men only want one thing and if you don't give it to them they will go looking for someone else who will. I don't understand this line of thinking. You have no value to most men beyond access to sex, sorry. Nothing else you can provide has that same level of value. So if you don't provide sex why would they stay or try to court you? Courting a woman is just attempting to get sex. You either put out or have 0 value, that's the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableMen can be the other guy. Just pay someone to sleep w you. They can't be the other guy "for free" but all men pay anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Yeah but who cares about a 60 year olds sex life? I'll be dead or have ed by then that's not an advantage lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?If you don't put out no man will want you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Yes this is why men are more in demand for marriage and women are more in demand for sex. Men bear all the cost/burden of marriage so less men want to do it then women (giving men more leverage if they are willing to marry). More men want casual sex then women AND women bear the majority risk (pregnancy) so thus women have more leverage in casual sex market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Honestly this is probably it. If she's hot looking different can help you stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Red | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Men need to drink to get casual sex, but it’s for the woman’s comfort, not theirsI'm male and don't drink and never had a drunken hook up. I refuse to sleep w women if they drink even 1 drop and never have. Getting accused of sa the next day isn't worth it. Not to mention you don't want to sleep w women who drink anyway. Those are the girls that cheat on you and blame alcohol. It's easier to get laid if u drink. I'll give you that but not necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Men need to drink to get casual sex, but it’s for the woman’s comfort, not theirsYou can get around this by dating women who don't drink though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Most dating advice to men is disingenuousLilith is a massive troll and I respect her hustle. 9/10 a topic gets 500+ replies on this sub I look at the user who posted and it's Lillith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.Why tf is your flair blue pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Women don’t give good advice on dating and it’s obvious why.Height is unfortunately more important than both, but kudos for honesty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | What's the reason behind women constantly calling men "Porn Brained" merely for being interested in hookups and casual sex?Mods here are pretty decent actually. This is one of the only subs on reddit you can argue in and not immediately get banned by reddit mods. There is still an extreme "women are wonderful" bias though. If a man posts something, he's always an incel loser who needs to work on himself, always the guys fault if it's a woman though no change needed. Annoying, but at least you can argue here without getting banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.if you aren't black or don't go anywhere where black people are, the gas station association probably wouldn't make sense to you. This is way too much truth for reddit lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:36 PM |
| 3 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.That's what you get for asking someone out irl lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:29 PM |
| – | Why do men think there are so many good menWomen cheat more then men until age 50. I'll wait while you google it. See? I'm right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | A dating quietly rewards men for behaviors that would be labeled predatory or toxic if those same men openly wanted to do themLouie CK had a great bit about this before he got cancelled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:07 PM |
| 5 | How can we reconcile "Don't go out just to meet women." and "Get outside your comfort zone [if you want to meet women]." as dating advice for men?Welcome to reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.That's a hard question to answer, maybe? By this sub standards I'm maybe a "Chad lite". I wouldn't rate myself above a 7 but who knows how accurate that is. I've never been rich or had money. I make a decent living at around 70k a year now, but my wife actually earns more than me so I doubt that's the reason (I also didn't start making that until I was 32). I do consider myself "red pill" for what that's worth, and yeah, I don't think women are attracted to a majority of men, absolutely. Does th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.So you don't value sex, you value female validation. You want to be "chosen" more than you want to get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.Are you a virgin bro? Sex is sex. There is no "bad" as a male getting it in unless you have ed or something. Who gives a shit if she's attracted to you? You have the power to make her sleep with you anyway. That's its own kind of turn on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.I met her back in 2012 and it's a long story, but the short version is she's based and I'm not a simp. There are social advantages to being married I can leverage at my job, plus I'm religious so I like being able to participate in church as a married person. I wouldn't recommend marriage to most people. I only wound up married because at a certain point if you are with someone long enough you won't have much of a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.You don't need to pay 800 dollars. You can get the same service for only a half hour and visit once a month if you are really that price sensitive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.Most sw sell themselves for like 150-300 dollars. If you don't believe me go to the r/stripper subreddit and search "cubans" for more discussion on this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.Why are you mad? You're stupid if you believe women at face value bro. Watch what they do not what they say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:20 PM |
| 0 | I think women should refuse to pay for anything on a dateBut men can date whoever they can pull, we are the bees and you are the flower to use that stupid analogy. If I'm trying to smash Stacy of course I can take her to a fancy place and pay if I think that will work Men date women who are below their attractiveness level because they value sex so much and that an easy way to get it. Sounds like you understand you aren't attractive and men just want you for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:07 PM |
| 0 | I think women should refuse to pay for anything on a dateYou won't get treated like Stacy if you don't look like her. Just like I won't get treated like Chad if I'm short. You can't demand "Stacy" treatment lol. Ur like that bitch who refused to go on a date with a guy to the cheesecake factory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I think women should refuse to pay for anything on a dateI have no idea what you look like but you sound hideous. No attractive woman talks like this. They are too busy dating and getting attention from Chad lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionCheck the flair, I'm not an incel lol. I get what you are saying though, I concede men have more dark triad personality types and commit more crime. Its not exclusive to men though. That was my only point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:55 AM |
| 2 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateUntil they hit the wall. Then men cheat more at 50 iirc because they pay 2 play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 10:11 PM |
| 2 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionWomen are just as evil. You are using the "All Women Are Wonderful" fallacy. Evil isn't exclusive to the male sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipThat's great ma'am but taking life advice from someone in your profession is idiocy of the highest order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.I never said it was? I don't think men "worth" is based in it either. People feel rightly upset they can't access something for free that other people can? At least I think that's the sour grapes. I'm not an incel myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Calling men paranoid for not wanting to approach women, ironically downplaying the same fears women claim to have about men.Women say they don't need men because they can find a 1 night stand in seconds if they want dick, so "being single" doesn't mean involuntary celibacy like it does for men. It's easy to be "single" when you can have sex on demand just like in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Whats a red light challenge? Sorry for being a boomer but Google search isn't turning up anything and I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?For me I think it depends what I want from the woman. I would never enter a serious relationship with somebody that had a high bc, but for casual sex who cares? Virginity is almost a bad thing for casual sex lol. Either way I'm out of the game now anyway so it doesn't matter, but that's how I see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 07:29 PM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Right who is going to drive several hours for sex, especially as a woman. I did date a girl who was about 40 min drive 1 way when I was younger. It was annoying and didn't last long | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 06:11 PM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Anything above 10 is according to the hard data, high. For men and women. Iirc average lifetime partners for men and women are 7 and 6 respectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 06:02 PM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?You would give it up for Chad if he let you. It would just take the right kind of guy, unless you are asexual or gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 06:00 PM |
| – | Despite what the internet says, money doesn’t help a man much in datingSo spend money on expensive clothes and a fancy car then? If u got it flaunt it imo. You can easily hire a sex worker too with that kind of money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?I'm happily married. I lurk here for the gender wars drama and because i love to argue and express my opinions. While I definitely lean red pill over blue, purple, or black I find the online red pill community an echo chamber. I like this sub because it allows debate and dissenting opinions. I value the differing opinions of others even if I don't agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?I have actually heard before that "women dress up/do makeup/hair/fashion for other women not men" but I don't believe it. Women dress up because beautiful women gain a status advantage in society. Women are in fierce competition for the best male sexual partners. Thus, women need to appeal to the male sexual gaze to gain status and win high value male partners from competing women. You just tell yourself "I do this for myself" as a comforting lie rather than admit you are trying to win an intras… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?I don't know a single attractive woman that doesn't put in effort. What are they doing exactly when they spend an hour on makeup hair nails etc every day? Oh yeah "they wish they were less attractive" ok. You might also be 20. In that case it's just your age. Nobody will chase after you the same way at 44. You just haven't gotten there yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?SNAP benefits exist for the benefit of the economy. They are essentially targeted gov stimulus that increases the heath of the economy. Iirc farmers, grocery stores, Pepsi stock and KDP stock owners, all get 20% profit cut if you get rid of SNAP. Cut SNAP and SPY will go down. THAT is what the rich care about so SNAP exists. The fact it helps the poor is incidental. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Women who say this usually don't mean it. If you are lesbian I understand, but beyond that this seems performative. Who wouldn't want to be more attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionNo, you are putting words in my mouth. I'm just pointing out that egalitarianism doesn't raise birth rates. I would describe my relationship with my wife as egalitarian. Equality of the sexes is something I believe in. It just doesn't raise birth rates. That's all. I clapped back slightly because I don't think the problem is lazy men not stepping up. The problem is more complicated then that. Again, the USA has a higher TFR then Sweden. Until you can explain that away, you can't claim that "men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionFirst off, how do you know Swedish men only do 20% and not half? Show sources. Second, my point was that if egalitarianism raised birthrates, we would see evidence of this in countries like Sweden, but we don't. Instead we see the opposite, countries like USA have a higher TFR despite (or perhaps because) of less egalitarian conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factThere is one other measurement women care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionStudies from sweeden show egalitarian parenting where the father takes equal time off suppresses birthrates. In the US where the TFR is 1.6. In Sweeden the most egalitarian country in the world it is 1.1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionJust pay a prostitute money. Ez clap virginity problem solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks.Men can pay for it though? Any guy with 300 bucks and lose morals can get laid just as easy as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships?You're talking about casual sex though. For relationships and especially marriage it's much more equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withPay a sex worker legally In a state like Nsvada. Do not break the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Women are allowed to accept they're not attractive.You can always pay a desperate poor woman to sleep with you. The only reason no woman would ever want you is because your poor or stingy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them.I suppose I felt compelled to post for some reason. I was just pointing out the reason they ask you out is your age. Until that changes you will probably field a lot of proposals from men, it is what it is. To a certain degree its hard for me to empathize because while I've done ok for myself dating wise at the end of the day I had to go out and earn it, so its not the same it was something I chose. Had some woman just pestered me until I dated her I probably would have felt differently I guess?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them.Yeah I don't care lady. I'm pointing out the reason they ask you out is your age that's all. It will stop happening as often as you get closer to 40. No matter how bad your attitude women 18-29 run the dating economy and have a lot of value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them.So you're 28? Wait until you are 44 and report back how many men ask you out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.My mother =/= women I'm trying to fuck I'm not Oedipus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thingYou could break up with your man and have 100 simps in your dms within 24 hours. That's the difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.Unironically women like that bro. No offense but you sound like a simp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.Lol I'm 5 11 and weigh 150 I cant imagine what dating a 400 lbs 6 foot 9 chick would be like lol. Cue that one Futurama joke about death by snu snu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyThen you are probably hot. Not all women keep their looks until 37. Its a general guideline more than a hard rule. By 45 you will basically be infertile so I would be surprised if the attention was the same. You can still reasonably have a kid at 37 if you have good health and genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyAsains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyManosphere does not say that. Wall is 35, sometimes 30. 18-29 women are peak attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.When they say "passport bro" that code words for sex tourism in Thailand, not western Europe which has women exactly like the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 08:43 PM |
| 2 | It's probably a good idea to implement programs specifically to lift up boys and men.You're dumb if you think you can get men to quit caring about video games. That will never work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.Why do you keep bringing up men sleeping w gay men? Nobody is telling you to sleep w women. If a guy is undesirable he needs to pay for it, not go on grindr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Ok I'm sorry but you certainly get tinder matches. Just sleep with one and, poof, no longer a virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.I actually agree with you OP, but I want to add that people can date at any age. My grandma met a guy at age 66 after my grandpa passed away, and they casually dated without marrying until she passed at age 85. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveI think what they are saying is bezos is rich but not a natural alpha. Money does not change that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveTrump is 100 times uglier than Bezos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by FeminismCan you link the nyt article? I'd like to read it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough.Is this satire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 03:24 PM |
| 4 | CMV: men push this narrative that older women are less attractive but they have it backwardsListen lady I'm male but when I was younger I was a Chad. Pushing 40 now and I get waaaay less attention lol. Younger people of BOTH sexes are more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 03:15 PM |
| 3 | The “everyone gets a wife” experiment lasted about 50 years and failed. Now it’s back to normalcyI don't really have a problem if people want to be polygamous. I never met anyone I respect that practices that lifestyle, nor do I practice it myself, but I was more commenting on OP acting like its something new that was just invented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameLosing weight is simple. Doesn't mean everyone can do it easily tho. Simple =/= easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Assuming you'll never enter a romantic relationship should be the default rather than a "worst case" outcome.Most men are not nysongonists tho. That's a straw man argument you are creating and then attacking like it's some true statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 08:21 PM |
| 7 | The “everyone gets a wife” experiment lasted about 50 years and failed. Now it’s back to normalcyPolygamy has been around since biblical times. It's nothing new. There is a reason nobody liked the Mormons and ran them out of Illinois and Missouri into Utah. Nobody likes men who take multiple wives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Divorce is harder on womenI don't think divorce is good for either gender. Men get hurt worse financially tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexuality: The Power Nobody Wants to Admit Exists (Until It Stops Working)Jude law is a weird example bc he's a 10 with hair and like a 4 without it. Some men look better bald. Imagine Shaq with hair for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:49 PM |
| -1 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsWomen are the gatekeepers of sex though. People laugh at men when they say they want a wife and family. "What do you bring to the table? Better be rich". Men are not the ones that need to be persuaded here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years?Because I have money and 40 bucks at a burger spot for 2 ppl is affordable? Like bro going out to a pub for food is not that expensive..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | "men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women?? Maybe for elementary school. Middle schools and high schools are full of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 07:18 PM |
| 0 | "men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by womenTeaching is one of the easiest professions to get laid in. I think only bartenders have a higher rate of cheating on their spouses then teachers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.Sorry i wasn't trying to be rude. I was more trying to flip the whole "what do you bring to the table" question girls love to ask. Men can probably get whatever else you offer elsewhere like friendship personality money etc... Sex is what they want, so that's what they chase. Seems pretty simple to me. It's like men who get mad women only want them for money. Well yeah those guys don't have anything else to offer (that women want) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality.What else do you have to offer besides sex to a man that he actually wants though? Probably nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids)I can't say that I've ever used an escort, I'm in the Midwest. I don't hang around the same crowd i used to when I was younger, but going to a club etc wasn't uncommon. I had lots of friends that either sold sex or bought it so I knew the prices. Yes they were "lower end girls" these were like trashy strip club chicks. Tbh when I was younger I was into drugs so I always tagged along to get high, not laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids)2k isn't that much though if you are successful. Also 4x a month is a LOT. Escorts are like a once or twice a year thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are Men’s Best Option (Unless You Want Kids)Escorts are like 300-500 dollars max for an overnight lol. Gtfo with this 1k bs. Most men don't have that kind of money. A hooker isn't going to price out her customers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.Sometimes super hot girls can be lonely. Not the 10/10 chicks they will have simps following them a mile long, but the 7s and 8s can be seen as a harder approach then the cute 6 or 5. A lot of top tier guys are totally fine with hooking up w a 5 if it doesn't take too much effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Most men are suffering more from mental blocks than actual problems in the sexual marketplaceThe only work couples at the bank are people who met before they got hired. All the tellers have bfs except the single mom ones I'm in IT, not an analyst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Most men are suffering more from mental blocks than actual problems in the sexual marketplaceI work in banking and you are 100 percent correct. Being a banker is like being a teacher. You are either born a banker and have it in your blood or you flame out. Workaholism is the norm. And no, aside from the tellers there are very few single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Some men will always be unappealing to all women in a romantic sense.Stephen Hawking had Rizz lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?This is actually very much not true. A 33 yr old woman is 60 percent less fertile then her peak fertility at age 20 Source: @morebirths on Twitter. I'm on my phone ATM I will find the exact link later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Fear mongering women over “dying alone”That actually strikes pretty true to my expierence. I didn't end up married until I decided I wanted monogamy. Before that I just wanted to be a player. I do think my wife is the best woman I've been with but that was mostly luck tbh. Lots of my exs were hotter but they lacked character and aged badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Fear mongering women over “dying alone”Cab light theory? I'll bite, what is that? Literally never heard of it? Lit usually means drunk or high but I doubt that is what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | "50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it?I used to work as a teacher. You are surrounded by women all day. It's just a numbers thing. It's so easy to meet women. New young college girls become teachers every year. Most teachers are women. It's a low paid career so there isn't really too much hr like at a high paid corporate job. Workplace flirting is really common. Also, schools are just horny places in general. The environment brings something out in people. I work at a bank now and there are far, far less opportunities to cheat at my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | “Males shouldn’t be jealous that is a female trait.” Jay-Z hit the nail on the head with that statement.I hate cuddling after sex. I like to immediately hop in the shower and wash the slime off my dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Falling fertility rates seem to be a problem of falling marriage rates, which in turn seem to be due to lessening of the gap between male and female privilege. Hence it might be impossible to raise fertility rates unless egalitarianism is challenged.This is reddit. Rule 1 is nobody reads the article before commenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Another reason why some men can't do LTR with women and either go volcel or the spinning platesThis is really funny. Guy complains he can't ever open up to women and has to hold frame or else he is unattractive. Random internet woman calls him unattractive for being emotional. Can't make it up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.Danny devito? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 05:02 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.What's funny is women have sex but then tell men to close their legs if they don't want to be a father lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:23 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.Lmao reddit tankie I bet you live in America and have never spent even one second living under communism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?I live in Chicago. We are all assholes here, even the women. The winters do that to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadI had to Google what salubrious meant lol. I haven't had to do that for a reddit comment In a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoricI'm not sure that is true? Most gay dudes I know smell amd dress a lot nicer than the average straight guy, and they seem to have plenty women around them as friends. I highly doubt every women thinks being gay is unattractive. I think acting feminine is what is actually unattractive to women. For example there are masculine guys. Not every gay dude acts like a girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:38 PM |
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