nicarras Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Starting the Processes	Getting Started	nicarras	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 01:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I wasn't expecting how few people cared about me. I was equally surprised when it all started going down how she manipulated the social circle, 1/ by heavily curating it in the first place (theres a conversation to be had about this) and 2/ then lying about who shes told about our situation, turns out shes told everyone. Then I have to play this delicate game of risking triangulating since nobody is reaching out to see how I'm doing or to get my side. The few people I have talked to, I realize are the real ones. The others are not.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/26 01:46 AM
2	So... About Mother's Day? Only separated and hiring lawyers at this point, but took the kiddo out shopping for mom today. She's still a great mom, and he loves her, so it's worth fostering that.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/26 02:30 AM
2	Can’t Stop Falling Into Traps Working on grey rock mastery too. I have someone who likes to be a reactive abuser, so working my hardest on no reacting since the work they do to trigger it in the first place never gets address or any accountability there. Only thing to do is to work on how I react to situations and bring the rest to personal and couples therapy.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 11:55 PM
8	I spent 7k on ex wife’s tits New neck about a year before our separation started. Fun times.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/26 12:34 PM
1	Had our 2nd therapy session What does your personal therapist say? Not the couples therapist.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/26 01:13 AM
5	Difference in Women vs Men After Divorce Mine is that I've been trying and working on myself but the goal posts keep getting moved constantly. To the point where the couples therapist has to check her mid session.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/04/26 07:15 PM
3	Couples therapy has been enlightening Key is to fight the cycle you get in together not the person. Good luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/26 03:32 AM
1	Need perspective, should I still have hope. You can have hope, but get lawyered up to protect yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/26 09:03 PM
4	Let’s be honest with each other….did alcohol contribute to the divorce? Alcohol may have enhanced our fights but it didn't make me walk on eggshells.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/26 02:02 AM
1	Starting the Processes Thank you will check that out.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/26 03:09 PM
1	Starting the Processes Thank you! I find myself checking on it less and less, its good for my nervous system but I'm still learning to be ok with it in general.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/26 06:21 PM
1	Starting the Processes Thank you!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/26 01:23 PM
2	Made myself small for her Struggling with the same thing, enacting change on myself over the years just to be constantly met with goalposts that moved and situations where doing or not doing something would end up in the same fight. I'm right there with you.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 07:18 PM
1	Starting the Processes Thank you, appreciate that very much!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 07:00 PM