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Could be that women who previously would marry out of necessity are not marrying now, meaning the ones who marry actually want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:39 AM
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Well, when I was a much younger man I chased a few women who were simply crazy, or just bad people. Not saying I was innocent or "not bad" myself. But, I never forced myself on anyone, and I never hurt anyone. That said, I almost got stabbed when a guy I didn't know confronted me for "fucking his girlfriend". You see, the funny thing is that I thought she was MY girlfriend. And I thought she was being truthful when she said her and him were just friends. She just sobbed quietly as him and I "dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:25 AM
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HEY! YOU JUST ACTED LIKE A REAL MAN AND TRICKED ME INTO FUCKING YOU! Wow. Do you think that's fucking nuts? Yeah. #metoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:14 PM
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Men are SO DUMB. Why, when a man stands up for himself, and they fight, and they argue, and he won't back down, does she start kissing him erotically and drag him upstairs for the "make up sex"? Why? Because her brain stem is screaming: "MAKE A BABY WITH THIS MAN RIGHT NOW." She might not even be aware she was shit testing him, or why. She might not even be aware he passed and why she's suddenly horny. But she tested, he passed, and she wants to have sex. Now. And mother nature just smiles and k…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:00 PM
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To you as well. Disagreeing on the internet is fun. But finding common ground is essential. My friend laughs at me and asks: "Hey when you're done being right on the internet, wanna grab lunch?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:31 PM
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Oh wow. 9/10 for mental gymnastics here. So, the prevalence of divorce means that the ones not yet divorced must be happy because the ones that ended in divorce clearly were not. Look, nobody saying people trapped in unhappy marriages especially with a negligent or abusive partner were "better for society". But today, relationships and even marriage are just way to disposable. "I'm going to suffer through this at all cost" is one extreme. "Nope. Not happy. Too hard. Im out." is another. The real…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:27 PM
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When women say insane shit, sometimes they know it's insane. And the want the man to make a sour face, stand up to her and say: "Honey, that shit is fucking insane." And she will bitch and fuss and even cut him off from sex for a day or two. But in her head, consciously or not, she will think: "Shit test passed."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:23 PM
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Agree with a woman when she know's she's wrong and she'll like you for a while. Stand up to a woman when you know you're right and she'll love you forever. But, fuck up once and your credibility goes to zero. It's like a video game. No matter how high your score is, one fuck up and you're dead. And you get three tries, the game is over and you do NOT get your quarter back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:05 PM
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Weak men posing as strong, high value men are often narcissistic, if they're not suffering from actual narcissistic personality disorder. They are charming, seductive, and "love bomb" new romantic interests. But, she soon finds herself frustrated with a man who advertises one thing and delivers another. Other thing these men do is Be seductively agreeable. They do everything she asks, and even "mirror" her likes and dislikes. This shows a high degree of compatibility. Inside, his anger and resen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:52 PM
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Well, he's annoying, but I'd say he's at least got good taste. There have been times when he's said: "Dude, really? Go home. You're drunk."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:24 PM
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I try to forgive my dad and understand what he went through, but when I remember those terrible rides in the car when he had to take us out of the home to stop a dogfight, and he said: "Why did you upset your mother like that? DO NOT upset your mother like that!" He was angry at us. I was furious with him. And mother was at home crying because someone stood up to the crybully. The victim. The monster. And that was our childhood. Walking around the house on eggshells trying not to upset the monst…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:03 PM
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I'm probably pathological. But, I have one trait missing from the Dark Triad. I do not lack compassion for other people. I talk a lot of mean shit and say a lot of uncomfortable truths often in mean ways. Truthfully, I'm abrasive on here because it's a pressure relief so I can be a reasonably normal member of society and the workforce. Imagine if I went on like this at work or in social environments? Some believe I am cruel and indifferent - I am not. But I've seen the extreme damage enabling ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:50 PM
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People hate me because I'm right and they know it, and what I say makes them uncomfortable. They prefer the convenient lies and ongoing cognitive dissonance, which in my mind is just a willingness to have blind spots that others have shown them to exist. They won't look at the evidence in the mirror in front of them. Too uncomfortable. This is why I spend more and more time with the dog, and less and less time with humans. My own family makes me cringe. They are so awash in cognitive dissonance …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:28 PM
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LOL. Many people believe I'm an AI bot. Human beings tend to (uh oh, sounding like a machine again) lie to themselves and hide stark realities simply because these make them uncomfortable. Today, most adults are children trapped in adult bodies and the direction society is going in is nothing short of frightening. Maybe I am machine-like. And maybe society needs a few machine-like people like me. And most North Americans would survive about 3 days without all of the technology and services that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:13 PM
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Feminists often become feminists because they are innately miserable and need "bogeymen" to explain away their personal failures and blame them on "all men" or "patriarchy". Men do this too. Many Red Pill men would rather blame women as a gender than look in the mirror. As for height, and other genetic success markers... Women are actually doing the human race as a species a big favor by being hypergamous. Actually, if mother nature is doing things right (and she generally does) then women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:58 PM
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They can't. It's a mountain-sized blind spot. Men do this too. When the penis approves, suddenly there is "just something about her". The same traits in a car-sized mall Karen will not be noticed. None of this is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:35 PM
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No. You want them for a partner. They run into a tree, the bear eats THEM and you survive. Then, you just repartner. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:33 PM
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Did you just shame me? Shame on you. My manboobies are beautiful. That's why I am allowed to go topless at the pool. Hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:31 PM
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"Happily Married People" is an oxymoron. People are socially conditioned to understand that successful people have successful careers and successful, happy marriages. So what do people report at social functions among their peers, friends and families? That they are happily married. If you want to hear lies that hide the trial and tribulation of married life, and believe that every married couple is living in complete harmony and sharing in satisfying intimate bliss regularly, you're free to bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:29 PM
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False. Women think women are more attractive than these women are because the woman thinks SHE is more attractive than SHE is! "She's totally an 8". "She's a 6 at best." "No no, she's an 8 - she looks like ME!" "But you're.... nevermind." That's why women over-rate other women. Because they over-rate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:16 AM
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We're going to need a diagram here brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:14 AM
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Dude, you're 6'1" in 4" heels... Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:13 AM
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So she let herself go. And he lost attraction for her. And he's the bad guy. Well, if this was my friend he'd have my full support and I'd never rat him out. But I would get his wife a gym membership for christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:39 AM
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Happy wife, happy life! omg. I totally had this in my post before I cut it down for length. Happy wife, happy life! That sounds like a fucking hostage situation. I like "NO WIFE, Happy Life!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:53 AM
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Here is how I view relationships. BOSS#1 WORK: Pays me quite well to be here and tells me how he wants things done. His requests are usually based on sensible reasoning, such as meeting client expectations. I consider it a fair trade and my boss, even when he's demanding, a fair person. Sometimes he's not happy with my work, but over-all he thinks I'm worth having around. If he wants something improves, I just fix it, with a smile. We get along. BOSS#2 RELATIONHIP: Costs me a LOT of money to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:41 PM
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Maybe we should tell someone...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:41 PM
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Men with weak or absent self esteem feel that rejection is a personal exposure of their inadequacy. These are the same kinds of guys who seem to think they need to control and even possess their girlfriends to prevent them from leaving. It's this whole "anyone who gets to know me will certainly leave, so I need to keep her in a cage." The old "put the princess in the highest room of the castle" thing. Telling her where she can go, what to wear, and which friends she can hang with. Sometimes, iso…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:40 PM
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Agreed. Or a woman he is not attracted to, especially if she goes from a Size 8 to a Size 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:22 PM
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And I think many men (PPD and RP) project this thirst onto women and don't understand why women don't "just settle" and fall for skeevy lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:22 PM
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Yep. They will be waiting there at the finish line for the winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:21 PM
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Agreed. Oh, and nice fedora you have there Walter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:20 PM
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Yep. Agree to all this. And to add to that, a gender flip. Women think: I was an 8 when I was 120 pounds and I'm an 8 at 200. No, no you're not. Yet, men roll these ladies down the isle, act like they're GAGA, then cheat on them. I just don't understand why. Oh wait, I do. Male thirst is just jaw dropping and shameless. People get with people they are not attracted to all the time. It's sad, but it goes on. Men are often forced to "Settle" if they don't "bring enough to the table". Perhaps grump…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:18 PM
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She doesn't strike me as someone who would be too scandalized by infidelity from him, he was a stud when they met. Was she obese when they met? I think when both people are not trying to be the best version of themselves, or at least maintain who they were when they met, then there is going to be trouble like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:56 PM
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I've seen it too. Women with boyfriends at home crawling all over "high value" guys in my peer group. It's absolutely shameless. When asked after the fact "Are you interested in her?" the guy just laughs. But I'm pretty sure he didn't say no to whatever they took a half-hour to do when they disappeared for a half-hour. Where were YOU two? Tee hee hee (barf).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:53 PM
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You're wasting your breath. They say that women are just having fun and enjoying "youth, mystery and intrigue" and "having a number of trysts and situationships". This is all just white-washed greeting card lingo for experimenting with high value men with lots of options who drop these gals like used Kleenex. The difference between men who will sleep with them and men who will commit to them will eventually become a stark reality. Many women who throw up their arms in despair and say "All men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:50 PM
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Yeah this is pretty much true for society in general. If people have some sort of complaint or gripe with ANYTHING they get the usual canned responses. "Society" has quick canned answers for everything. It's sort of a socially acceptable way of saying: "Quit bitching. I don't care, and bitching won't help you anyways. Switch the conversation where we can give each-other some false validation, smile and walk off in step." This is why I have less and less contact with humans (outside of work) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:28 PM
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Virtual sex maybe. It's hard to have sex with a head in a jar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:24 PM
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My sons are in high school and what they report back is that they have a rather "hell naw" attitude towards relationships and believe the game is rigged. Although I lean towards some of the Red Pill ideas (only because I'm a realist) I don't teach this stuff to my kids at all. I let them make up their own minds. Sadly, (or perhaps, "thankfully", my sons don't have this idealized view of relationships and they look at things very objectively. Of course, I am divorced, so their "lived experience" …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:22 PM
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Yes. They are the employer who gripes that "There are no qualified candidates out there" after blasting through 500 resumes...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:18 PM
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You don't get to decide which "features" are important to whom though. An intelligent or fit or successful person is not shallow for wanting an equal partner. "Shallow" is often shaming language used as deflection by someone who got rejected by someone out of their league and isn't handling the reality of it very well. Notice too, that these same people often have very high standards themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:31 AM
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Disagree. Everybody is entitled to their standards and preferences. A guy who is 5-1" and round in shape might be DELUDED for thinking he will only date and sleep with tall models, but is it really "Shallow"? Shallow is just shaming language used for people who are perceived to have standards that exceed their own SMV/RMV. When a high RMV person rejects, people just say "Well... LOOK at her/him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:15 PM
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His biggest idea that he "sells" is that it's self-defeating to play the Oppression Olympics game and a much better idea to live with passion after identifying a true purpose. He is selling the more difficult less popular thing - the thing that the post-modernists and cultural Marxists are NOT selling. "Clean your room" means take care of the mess in your own life before you attempt to fix the world. But, if you're devastated, perhaps cleaning your room - or just your dressed top - is where one …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:20 AM
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