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I am working on this, nearly there.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 09:09 AM
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How was you able to mentally separate the madness and focus on the end game? As opposed to getting wrapped up into a depressive stupor.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:37 PM
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I am trying, I pretty much lost everything in the last 8 months. Gaining back some normality in the madness is difficult but their is a future, just doing my best to pull myself from the mental mud. Thank you
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:26 PM
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Yeah, I am currently in a very unfulfilling life at the moment. I probably seek the joy these girls give me away from the bullshit. Guess my answer is to change my life so I’m happy. Enjoy your drink bro.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:19 PM
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You're right. It's just kind of an odd thing to me that this specific girl is the only one who has been like this yet still displays all the signs of being interested (sex is great, great banter, etc). It's something i've not seen before, feels like i'm dating a a girl with a male mind.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 03:35 PM
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I think part of my overthinking and anxiety stems from my last failed relationship, how can I not get caught up in that desperation/anxiety feeling of messing up over a girl other than talking and dating other girls? The anxiety can sometimes make me quite depressed.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:23 AM
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I try to stick to my word with everything in life though, not doing so suggests I’m indecisive, unreliable and weak surely? I know I can change my mind on things but if I say I want to do something or need to do it the right thing would be to see something through, whether that is women, projects, work etc. Yeah I just meant I phrased it in that way to not come across like I was unsure whether she would want to meet again and feel unworthy, kind of a silly micro thing to think about but it wasn’…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:01 AM
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Yeah I just think even if I was completely busy I’d not want to meet up again literally two days later though right? But yes you are correct, I need to fill my time more and I am working on that. Thanks. Chatting to other potential plates to stay in check so that helps.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:45 AM
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Yeah we did. When we were chatting in her bed the next day I did bring up going somewhere in the week, so I guess sticking to my word would be mentioning it to her first in a couple days right? If she messages before that time then great but either way she was down to meet a second time. I didn’t even ask her I just suggested it like I knew she would want to and she was up for it suggesting that things like “surprise her” etc.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:43 AM
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Well, the next day was in her bed, so today would be the “next day” I guess. Yeah she did say “surprise me” when I suggested we drive somewhere. Good to keep that mystery. I think the only time to message would be to set the dates? Not for conversation on text? Thanks, yeah I’m just being lazy here by asking the question for quick answers. Appreciate the links. Cheers
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:27 AM
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And this would include no texting until then at all ideally? Unless she messages me?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:18 AM
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Update: turns out she thought she replied and apologised for the late reply, not sure I buy it but interesting that she did message after that.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 03:25 PM
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Cool, I planned another date for the same evening just in case she flakes so I have the choice. I'll definitely just wait until the morning of the date. Cheers.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 06:10 PM
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Yeah I should add I did not purposefully text her that late, I was extremely busy and didn't want to start a conversation
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:42 PM
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What room? She lives in her parents home 90 miles away
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:44 AM
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I couldn’t physically go back I had to go home. Couldn’t stay out for any longer time
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:43 AM
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Indeed and that would usually be my answer however the circumstances seem a bit different this time with lack of logistics and she basically offered me to fuck her on the first date. Just a bit stubbed atm
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:37 AM
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Okay, so next date has to be centered around getting sex primarily though? I don't know if I can be bothered anymore. But yeah, i will continue to try and date more girls. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 12:40 AM
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Seems the reason. Or purposefully doing it to wonder if ive forgotten about her. Silly really
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:00 AM
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We ended on good mutual respectful terms. I simply told her to please leave me alone for a few months is all
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:58 AM
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Good point
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:42 AM
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damn, you're right. wtf am i doing typing this shit on here
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:13 AM
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Kind of like Jordan Peterson. I like it.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:53 PM
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Really appreciate this thought out reply. These sought of comments are what I signed up for. I will try and do all of these things. The hard part is just doing it but.. we’ll see. Thank you my friend.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:53 PM
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Had a similar problem with a plate, said she doesn't like a dick in her mouth. Also took my hand off her throat when I started wandering in that area. Not sure whether they just aren't into you enough to do everything with you or they just genuinely hate that shit. Let me know when you find out
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:04 PM
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Just ask her to come to your place to cook some food with you to create the opportunity for sex to happen. Still not going along with your escalation? Next her after that and call it a day until she wants to meet up again. Don’t ever ask her again though. Let her come to you.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:32 PM
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You don’t have to talk to your girlfriend everyday
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:25 PM
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Yeah, I screenshot pretty much anything I’m wary of that could affect me in the future that could be held against me
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:00 PM
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Lol bullshit or trolling
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:49 PM
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Surely if you are making plans with girls and seeing them that is a plate? Or are you solely talking about girls you haven’t met up with yet?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:50 PM
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I don’t understand how that is possible. A one night stand sure
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:43 PM
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Yeah i get that. But you would save numbers that you do plan on meeting? Which is what I was referring to
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:34 PM
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Just seems odd to do that to someone you have made logistical plans with. Seems like it might make them think you’re being butt hurt or autistic
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:12 PM
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Ok but why would you say who is this if you have been in active conversation and have their named saved? I physically have removed their contact and conversation history
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:04 PM
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I play in a band and am around a big music scene in my city. Having huge muscles would actually diminish my results with girls. The muscle look doesn’t is really work for us music guys.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:25 PM
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You said it best
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:04 AM
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You are not over the emotional aspect of the break up. I know exactly what you are going through. The only thing sadly you can do is wait it out. There are things you can do such as exercise, dating other people, focusing on your mission, studying, reading to alleviate the pain however these are short-term fixes that will help you get through the period of time it will take for you to get over her. Your body is reacting in a similar way to grief. Your mind will work overtime and you will cry, an…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:47 PM
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Someone with an abundance mentality would not think like yourself my friend. OP has no reason for that to be a valid reason since he has two other plates on the go. Sex is not really a reason, people enjoy the power that they have in these situations such as OP that they lacked which there oneitis had over them which brought them to this sub when they were a useless beta. Remove the ego. TRP teaches more than just 'fucking'. I am aware it is a sexual strategy sub however I don't see TRP's end go…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:35 PM
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What meaningful gain would I get out of fucking someone i know for a fact i am stringing along emotionally to the point where there feelings on an LTR won't change. I don't know about you, but i'm not a psycho. And you completely twisted what i said to suit your own agenda and beliefs.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:17 PM
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emotional game playing is not the issue, we need to play our emotions to excite ourselves, have desires, needs and what not. That was not my point, my point is to know when to put a dog down and be merciful when its run its cause. What would i physically gain from keeping a girl who has foolishly let herself become involved in myself by her own silly merit? I gain nothing from it, situations like this and spinning plates run their course, thats why they are plates and not LTRS.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:02 PM
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"Whiteknight" - So that term is used even when its not appropriate now then? News to me. I am not shaming OP's responses, they are the best response towards someone who has already been told countless times that exclusivity is off the cards. I'm only against manipulation and emotional game playing. Whether it be a man or a woman. Girls have nothing to do with my response.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:37 PM
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Yes I agree but not to someone who doesn't deserve it if so, my morals are too high for my own self, i'm not a nihilist like some guys here, i have my own moral system to do with my own conscience, no one else. But it seems that OP made his intentions clear so there is no issue.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:14 PM
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You need to get to a state of mind where you are no longer trying to replicate falsely said state of mind and actually encompass that mindset. Which will take years if not decades in my opinion of TRP conditioning. It's a constant battle if you were raised blue pill.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:33 PM
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As long as you have been honest from the start and made your intentions to never want to be involved in anything more than having sex, you are completely in the right. However, its not really fun or appreciated to play with peoples emotions if you are lieing to her suggesting you will LTR her. However, you haven't said you have done that, so I can't blame you for anything you have shown.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:28 PM
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I should probably of added that i am an absolute beginner. Terms like index funds mean nothing to me. Is there any beginner books you recommend?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:52 AM
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Ok ill be in touch thanks for the book reference
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:32 AM
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Will do. Thank you very much. So you have been successful then?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:27 AM
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Absolutely
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:18 AM
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No problem. You need to solve the root issue mainly and look at the reasons of why you become depressed to tackle the problem.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 10:04 PM
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I wouldn’t think showing some emotional vulnerability is bad. It can be a turn on for some women if you are naturally alpha and show that side but NOT OFTEN AT ALL. Literally barely. Just do not do it often at all. Don’t cry over pointless shit. I only ever saw my father cry once to my mother. And that was when his father died. You need to stay solid and grounded for yourself and for your other half in my opinion. Don’t be afraid to show some weakness but it has to be backed up by you picking yo…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:21 PM
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Oh I absolutely understand that I am making bitch excuses, however when the mindset is not involved, it is hard, however I am self-aware of what I am saying here, don't get me wrong. I just will act eventually, I suppose.. I would rather meet people through a hobby or something, but I find it hard to edge off the friend vibe that hobbies provide into a more sexual advancement. I find that transition hard. Any tips on that?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:42 PM
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Yeah you're right. I need to look inside myself and go deeper as to why I'm relying on an app such as tinder to gain my validation from girls. Something is wrong there.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:22 PM
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This seems the right way.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:21 PM
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I have tried to do that, however, I still end up using it endlessly. Don't get me wrong, i'm not matching with anyone I do not find attractive, the tinder algorithm works in a selective way, which I use to my advantage (not to swipe on everyone). I have considered cold approaching but i'm just not in the right mindset to do it at the moment. I don't have the energy to go out there and bullshit girls yet.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:21 PM
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Yeah that small percentage is what keeps me hooked If i'm honest. And partly, I absolutely hate going out to clubs and trying to talk to girls in clubs that I hate. It just is no fun to me. I'm a huge introvert and prefer one on one meetings, so tinder does work for me in that sense, but my issue lies in relying solely on the app to game girls and not expanding my game to the outside world.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:20 PM
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I find it hard to try and approach girls in my social circle due to being alienated by the circle or labelled a creep if I fuck up?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:18 PM
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Just pay for what you have. I went on a date with a girl and we were both at the bar and I simply bought one drink for myself and then she bought hers. Same with the bill. As soon as it arrives to my table I ask the waiter to split it for us. Don’t ponder or drivel over the idea or ask her. Just pay for what YOU paid for. She has no reason to be shocked or appalled. If she is then next her. Only pay for the odd drink or meal if YOU want to and don’t do it to expect a return from her. Thats the w…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:45 AM
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Exactly my thoughts, which is why I take what I read on this sub with a grain of salt each time.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:45 AM
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In this situation, all you need to do, is leave her alone and let her come to you. Tell her that you understand the break (in this time you will see other women and not worry if she ever contacts you ever again, this will also give YOU breathing space to decide if you even want this girl in a LTR actually) Go no contact and keep doing what you are doing. She will be begging for you to come back in a month if not less than that. Then you can decide what you want to do.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:56 PM
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The grass is not always greener my friend. Tread carefully about this decision.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:55 AM
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Apply major dread game. But for myself, this leads to a soft next. There is no way I would accept this, and thats not coming from a place of insecurity or jealousy, it's just unacceptable.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:51 AM
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I’m not from America i come from an old traditional part of the world (in europe) where most people still hold 60s values in terms of relationships
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:32 PM
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Haha, they are very over-protective. But they still have that caveman like mentality in regards to relationships, which can be good or bad in some cases.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:04 PM
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I've met with several european women, yes they do hide it but they have a more brainwashed traditional view of relationships that stems from their religious upbringings from post-war parents I have found
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:01 PM
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In my experience I have seen that not to be rare at all. I simply do not know where most of you guys are from or what reality you are experiencing. Plenty of older married couples still fuck a great deal and earn equal pay and contribute fairly. I'm not refusing that it may be hard in this day and age, which is why i asked why it was common decades ago for it to not be hard to achieve that reality.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:00 PM
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Haha, they definitely do not both "suffer". Why are guys like you on this sub so fucking nihilistic? Jesus christ who hurt you dude? Pathetic
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:57 PM
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I understand its worse in the US than it is here in Europe, i do agree with you though.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:52 PM
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I also gathered that, thanks.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:51 PM
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Okay, this makes sense. Fantastic reply. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:35 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you brother. All these plates are meaningless to me also, I had two dates lined up in one single night, I was planned to meet this other girl right after the first one but I felt hungry and ended up going home to get food, that's how much I give a shit. I am very unfulfilled with plates and girls I know will end after a few months to only not see them again, I want meaningful relationships with people. If RedPill is simply about spinning plates, then the only real meaning…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:29 AM
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You’re a piece of shit if you do this to a friend. RedPill or not I don’t care.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 10:06 PM
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How the fuck can you expect to bang attractive women when you can’t even be bothered to work on yourself?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:58 PM
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Stop victimising yourself. You will look better once you lean out and pack on muscle. You haven’t even taken that step yet so why are you predicting the future?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:41 PM
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You’ve taken no steps to change this so how can you even complain? Get your diet in check and your fat ass to the gym. That’s the first thing you should be doing. Quit porn and jacking off assuming you probably do that a lot given your circumstance. Nothing will arrive at your door, its a harsh game we live in, so just man up and get on with it and start improving yourself and you will see changes. I promise you that.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:29 PM
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Also another point, girls can improve sexually over time. Teach them. They will be more acceptable for feedback and advice if you fuck them good yourself and want to be better FOR YOU.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:30 AM
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Brother there are billions of women out there, quite literally. I guarantee you by logic alone you will find someone to have sex with EVEN BETTER than her... just keep your eyes and your penis on the look out. And besides, she knows where to go if things fuck up with her ex again... you can always be her rebound and get to fuck her brains out if that time comes again.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:26 AM
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Going against the grain from this sub here but from what i have found and understand is that there are some girls who genuinely want to build some kind of rapport on text just so they know they aren't meeting up with a psychopath, especially in this day and age where technology is a huge part of everyday life, more so with younger girls who crave attention, older girls not so much. (via online dating apps or whatever) I used to even do this myself, i'd always background check on facebook, what k…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:15 AM
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I definitely will up my exercise routine I think. It's hard to motivate yourself when you are depressed also. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:12 PM
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Thanks, i liked that way of looking at it. Will try to keep thinking of that in the future.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:11 PM
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Any date you do should have some form of opportunity for sex to happen. So either get drinks in the evening again or ask her to hang out at your place to cook some food. Both would work and as she has already been to your place from the get go, she will have gained comfort to do so again. Just let them think it “just happened”.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:02 PM
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Oh okay! I wondered surely they can’t be that savage haha
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:26 PM
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Around 10 months (early 20s) - Looking back there were so many things I did wrong
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:59 PM
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Oh no of-course, I have been very open with myself about my feelings about this. The term burying was merely used as a metaphor to describe the grieving process of literally burying a dead person you loved. I don't think I will seek professional help, I'll just keep working on myself and see how that goes.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:36 PM
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Its an indescribable feeling, its mental effect has physical effects on me. Tight chest, headaches, sleep routine is out of wack. It truly is an odd and painful process that is similar to grief I have found, except you have to bury them knowing they are still alive. Which is sort of worse.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:17 PM
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I can understand that, I like the thought of treasuring every experience I had, especially since we left on a good note, but another part of me wishes they cheated on me or something so I have a reason to be angry and hate them to heal quicker if that makes sense? - I think i'm just ranting because the last 3 girls i've encountered have been half of what my ex was. I always COMPARE which is becoming an issue because it flowed so effortlessly with my ex when we first met that when I meet girls no…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:14 PM
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I hope so, time will tell!
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:12 PM
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Go monk mode on NoFap.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:07 PM
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Call your grandparents and hitchhike or get transport to their house. At least you will have a bed and a meal.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:14 PM
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Don’t listen to this. Go home kid
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:05 PM
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Don’t you have other family members you can call? Grandparents or uncles and shit?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:04 PM
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this
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:00 PM
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If you can for the sake of your own well-being, try to make amends just so you have somewhere to sleep for the time being. Once you are at home try to think about your next move if you still want to leave. But its rough on the street, if you really can't go back home, I suggest you try to sleep at airport check-ins or chill at 24/7 fast food places until they kick you out, then move on somewhere else. You have a broken hand, so maybe go get that checked out? But i assume you are in America so th…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:44 PM
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Why did your parents kick you out?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:36 PM
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Him spinning plates will always ensure that women of this nature will crop up in your life. Either accept it or find someone who isn't RedPilled in this manner. He is happy not being loyal to you and has been honest about that, so why don't you do the same? What do you gain from being loyal to someone who has 5 of you on the side? Your loyalty means nothing in this situation.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:11 PM
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We have done all that, played sold out local venues and released albums and gotten on radio but the inter band dynamics is making it hard for me to stick with these guys but I’m scared that i will lose success if i bail on this band that has potential
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:34 AM
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but the smv makes my life easier and better, the band (my mission, my purpose) is what attracts women to me, the only thing that i find hard is dealing with the other band members right now. I'm just trying to weigh it all up
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:26 PM
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I'm a lead guitarist but singers are so few and far between here. I'd have to become a vocalist next time round i think. Which i don't want to do. And our band has been on the radio and achieved many things so i'm unsure whether i want to throw the potential away just because i'm currently unhappy. Its a difficult one man
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:37 PM
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Yeah, I fancy replying with someone more that shows I really don't give a fuck about her shit test
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:40 PM
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I quite like this approach but i don't think my SMV is high enough to pull it off
/r/askTRP24/07/18 11:40 PM
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I have a bench
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:47 PM
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I think i prefer the home route, gyms distract me more personally. thanks, any other exercises to skip the need of a rack?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:16 PM
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Cool thanks, is there anything i can do to skip the squat rack workout? I have someone who will workout with me and spot me if this helps Any other alternate exercises that will skip the need of the rack? thanks
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:15 PM
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Cool thanks, is there anything i can do to skip the squat rack workout? I have someone who will workout with me and spot me if this helps
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:15 PM
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We plan on getting drinks but i won't get drunk
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:27 AM
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Okay, so the same approach to even someone who is 18 years old? She seems way more mature than those younger girls who are easily influenced and self-entitled
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:27 AM
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Yeah, a lot of girls tell me that they hate that gym body, is that based on their own insecurities and self worth? Deep down would they love to be with someone like that? I suppose the self absorbed thing and being vein is a turn off though
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:07 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:49 PM
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He got married to someone who hadn’t fucked him properly in 4-6 months?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:16 PM
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If you are 5'10 put 6ft. Girls are awful with measurements and are so stupid that even just putting 1 or 2 inches more will make them change their mind about swiping you.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 04:58 PM
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Get rid of that first profile pic, it just looks creepy staring into the camera smiling. Try and get your first profile pic to be you doing and enjoying an activity. Make a story out of your photos. Shirtless photo is good, but even then, i would have that with you on a beach where you have a reason to take it off. Don't take selfies. Candid photos are the best where you have good angles. Get friends or hire a photographer to go out with you and take photos. It seems silly but it will increase y…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 04:42 PM
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Work actively to increase your social circle and go from there. Keep lifting and seek appropriate acne treatment, save money if you have to to pay for medical surgery to fix it. How can you expect to bang any 6 when by your own judgement you are a pathetic 3? Know your standards for now and work upwards. Importantly, work on getting a decent build.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:53 PM
1

So you're saying its wise to believe an invisible man in the sky exists as opposed to the huge discoveries science has so far unfolded? What would be the logical, sensible option do you think?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:47 PM
1

Read as much as you can, lift weights, structure your life and practise day game before you go to university so you have some experience beforehand.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:13 PM
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Good. Ignore that instagram comment she did and keep going no contact. Guarantee she will come crawling back at some point but by that time you will have moved on and most likely not even feel an attachment.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:42 PM
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If she wants to directly reach out to you, she 100% will. Just keep improving yourself and posting your successes on instagram, fuck other girls and do NOT look back. Don’t react to stupid little instagram comments.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:36 PM
1

What is your body fat percentage? This will play a big part as opposed to exercises which I'm not sure are very useful. Some other tips would be if you can grow a beard, shape and shave it so it accentuates a sharper jawline, do not cut the beard too high though otherwise you will look like your beard has been shrunk in the wash, take the neckline about an inch above the adams apple. Another side tip, just chew gum to strengthen muscles, not sure it will make much noticeable difference, but can'…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 03:30 PM
1

How long before this had you masturbated?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:49 PM
1

Let me know how it works out
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:31 AM
1

Let her follow you up, if she is that interested she will initiate contact again. Simply tell her her if she is interested in getting drinks to drop you a text, until then, never expect to hear from her ever again.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:20 PM
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You don’t need a bio, Ive found i gathered more matches with just a bio stating my location or a one liner. Anything more gives girls a chance to make their mind imagine you in a certain way and gives more room for error much like texting too much. If you are going to put anything, put your height because that works to your advantage and you can put some one liner related to your life that some girls will reference if they are going to message you first which happens sometimes
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:00 AM
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You owe this woman nothing, if you are curious and have no feelings anymore for her, it can't hurt, but the fact you ask this question suggests you care
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:01 AM
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I've found that when girls "accidentally" do things like this, they were going to do it somehow regardless, they had already been lowering attraction to you beforehand. It doesn't just happen, the distance speaks volumes more than her just coming out with it
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:00 AM
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Why would you want to work on this skill given the type of woman she is? You did nothing wrong, you were just with an insecure person who felt threatened by you based on her own insecurities, nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:07 AM
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Damn, you're completely right. edit: I just wish these weak men would stop all there validating and be able to see these girls be so confused by this, maybe that would get them to change.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:23 PM
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Good point, but i'm talking about long term relationships where i potentially live with these girls.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:23 PM
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This was my downfall with my LTR, my abundance mentality was through the roof for at least 10 months, I literally got away with murder and she was always there for me, in the end it went too extreme and i ended up pushing her away, however, i realized this and we got back together but i found it hard to balance both sides and in the end i think she just lost respect for me and it ended. Its very tricky to balance and i think thats why a lot of relationships do not last. It can be like balancing …
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:14 PM
1

Thanks for posting this, my ex keeps messaging me over the past month, i have never initiated any contact. We met the other day and we kissed a lot again. However, this wishy-washy behaviour is driving me insane. And i think i will most likely shut her out to avoid opening wounds.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 01:00 PM
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I had the exact problem in your first paragraph about two weeks ago, however we broke up around 3 weeks ago. We are both on dating apps and have not contacted each-other in around 10 days from our last conversation (which didn't end great), however i sent a final word on a good farewell note that she chose to ignore, so it's wise to say that chapter is closed now most probably as i will not be initiating any form of contact. She had image issues and previous boyfriend issues that resulted in her…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 05:46 PM
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I have managed to find my mission in life and be able to disregard any trouble with females, however, i feel like i find it hard to find that balance where i give enough attention to a girl who seeks a LTR and be able to maintain the relationship. In the end, they seem to just find someone who will give them the most attention, which seems to go against the idea that they are in it for the chase? I suppose the ''chase'' loses it affect if they are still chasing you a year later though... hmm.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:27 PM
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So are you saying that a lot of woman have LTR's as part of the "finding herself" phase? And that they truly settle down on average by the 4th or 5th boyfriend if they do at all?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:24 PM
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What if they are at that early to mid 20's stage of being done with college and are looking to settle down into a career and find a suitable boyfriend/husband for their later 20's?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:24 AM
1

By concurrence do you mean i have to have higher value than the partner i am with in the LTR?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:22 AM
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How do you maintain a committed serious LTR whilst still being red-pill to the average young woman in 2018?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:06 PM
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Thanks, i think it could of been even worse, but i know that my redpill knowledge helped me even get this girl in the first place. I had read red-pill for about 6 months before i met this girl, however, ironically, my whole ''just fuck chicks and disregard emotions/ltr'' mentality, came back to bite me on the arse. Is there a happy medium to apply to people you genuinely want a relationship with when you realise it?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:00 PM
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