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Resourcesnick89011/r/seduction01/09/20 10:24 AM
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Conversationnick89011/r/seduction30/08/20 05:13 PM
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Lifestylenick89011/r/seduction02/09/20 09:11 PM
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Conversationnick89011/r/seduction13/09/20 12:17 PM
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nick89011/r/seduction04/04/21 10:32 PM
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Inner Game nick89011/r/seduction02/10/20 09:42 PM
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nick89011/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:13 PM
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Outer Game nick89011/r/seduction07/10/20 01:03 PM
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Inner Game nick89011/r/seduction13/10/20 04:02 PM
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nick89011/r/seduction02/11/20 12:02 AM
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nick89011/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:03 AM
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Inner Game nick89011/r/seduction14/09/20 09:29 PM
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Inner Game nick89011/r/seduction24/09/20 04:00 AM
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Lifestylenick89011/r/seduction24/09/20 04:20 AM
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Outer Game nick89011/r/seduction09/10/20 03:12 PM
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nick89011/r/MGTOW214/09/20 09:29 PM
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nick89011/r/MGTOW202/09/20 09:12 PM
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nick89011/r/MGTOW202/11/20 11:02 AM
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nick89011/r/MGTOW224/09/20 04:20 AM
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nick89011/r/MGTOW231/08/20 08:58 PM
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Conversationnick89011/r/seduction31/08/20 08:38 PM
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Conversationnick89011/r/seduction02/11/20 12:00 AM
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nick89011/r/seduction02/11/20 11:00 AM
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nick89011/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:01 PM
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Resourcesnick89011/r/seduction01/09/20 09:24 AM
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and its like im trying to prove to my self that i can hold a convo for 2 hours
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:01 PM
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but i want to be funny and talk about interesting things how else will I have friends if i dont say anything?? open tease close? what does that even mean how do you tease?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:59 PM
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i have had friends in the past now im here trying to improve so i just disproved your little theory. i run out of stuff to talk about, i don't stalk ppl or be mean for no reason or unable to talk bc shyness.. dumbass
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:36 AM
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fuck off man
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:33 AM
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autist? lol what i may have lost common sense yea, and thats what it feels like when i try to be friends with these girls online "impossible" 1-they are countries away 2-in 30 minutes we talk and then they leave me in reply and never reply again 3-common interests? we don't get to that point lol i just want to make friends thats all, maybe im overthinking
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:31 PM
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I understand that, thanks bro.
/r/seduction05/04/21 01:15 AM
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I cant always do that, sometimes i deprive from sleep all of sudden im funny and cool in school. but another day im back to normal
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:32 AM
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Yes man, but its whatever i think some girls have even liked me but never met them then forgot each other
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:28 AM
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Cant, my religion doesnt allow that, its a sin. and also families are strict about it. but maybe you are right asking her unpredictable open ended questions but do i ask her before even know her name?
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:16 AM
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but i try to compliment other people
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:10 AM
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Dude if online sucks for you then for me its impossible since guys and girls making contact or talking to each other is a sin in my country thats why i use online its my only option
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:09 AM
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Yeah its whatever man
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:05 AM
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give my self over? what does that even mean
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:05 AM
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How the heck do you do that? my actions and vibe? you mean irl or online? how do i be open ended like you? i guess im close ended but maybe its because of years avoiding people lol
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:54 PM
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Then what does work man? i can't talk to girls outside because my religion says its a sin
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:50 PM
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i dont want a relationship i just want friends and i gotta stop my self from looking for sympathy, i know it doesn't get me anywhere, should say that "i just wanna be friends" ?
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:36 PM
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you had this conversation online or was it irl??
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:34 PM
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man i can't do that at all. my problem is its like an interview at the start with people i don't even know.
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:30 PM
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It just made me realise that im at rock bottom. i live in a town there isnt much to do.
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:27 PM
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What does honcho mean? and how do i not make it one sided? its like the hardest thing to do ever. online one liner conversations? how do i avoid this??
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:21 PM
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Well yasterday at school we were playing soccer and one guy got angry and he said he wouldnt go outside even tho they lost. to calm him down i told him "what is it that you want?" he wouldnt answer. then they came back in and i became their goal keeper, that same guy kicked me out of GK and replaced me with someone else. he said "you didnt let me play" should i take this personaly or what? i tried to do a nice thing, it bite me in the back, they said "dont get mad" i was like "its no problem" bu…
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 09:05 PM
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Well i like exercising guess in the future i will
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 08:56 PM
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I dont spend that much time in it so im good:) and what did you mean by "not getting sucked in?" sometimes im jealous of what others have
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 08:51 PM
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Yeah but i guess me posting here is a sign im not giving up. patting my self in the back lol..
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 08:46 PM
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Bro im not fucking exciting like that. sometimes i wish i just put a bullet in my brain.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 08:41 PM
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I would go to gym but my parents think its a waste of money since im kinda built up and not fat
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 08:07 PM
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Are you an introvert ? why do you think it is? and i think i would be an extrovert if in my town there were more things to do. i like outside and if there are things to do outside i never want to come back home
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:54 PM
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Okay i already do those above and sometimes i might make enemies but am trying to get better. and what is parasocial? when i see the twitch chats all of them complimenting each other or having banter or talking with each other like friends i get mad at my self for not having that. "dont let twitch suck me in" what do you mean?
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 07:52 PM
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assuming good things about people is bad too? a camera would be cool, i have the money just my parents would never let me buy that.. we are arent rich or poor, im 19 and they are very strict. i dont control most of my lifes big decisions
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 07:45 PM
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you dont live here, you were probably born in a rich family and could get his hands on anything he wanted. the most i can get out of this town is "soccer" i play with others. this is the only activity i have. i asked a guy to go bike riding with me i played soccer with him but he didnt come. i dont have friends so i cant just ask randos "come play this activity with me i found on the interent"
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 06:16 PM
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sometimes i feel like its my personality and something is wrong with me.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:13 PM
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i do all of those. sometimes i hold back what i have to say bc i feel like it wont be good enough for others to reply to. and when i say something i still get ignored.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 06:06 PM
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i already deleted them once, not much of a lose
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:04 PM
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did all of those.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:04 PM
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but i dont have any riddles.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 06:03 PM
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i dont draw. or have fb or instagram. and my ps4 broke. and i live in a boring town. its basically sucking the life out of me.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 06:00 PM
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i live in a boring fucking town. i guess i dont have many interests.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 05:59 PM
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well ps4 broke and i dont go outside much, no reason too, no friends and no places i can go to except a soccer stadium
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 05:54 PM
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what about after this?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:50 PM
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Thats all you say?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:50 PM
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and people once you see in a blue moon? what does mean?
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 05:48 PM
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So what online convos are pointless?
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 05:48 PM
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How do i teach my self how to lead a convo? lol and most of those people have high egos they wouldnt reply.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 05:47 PM
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which are "those decisions?"
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:46 PM
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This is pretty overwhelming, so the the point of this whole post is being able to give something? i remember when i couldnt give something i was just "Nice" to others and when they would reject me i would get mad and feel like they owe me. i know i have to be more than this but how do i do it? do i aquire skills? or what?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:45 PM
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i live in a boring town and but i agree with you. but how do i find out what interests others have?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:38 PM
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What are you saying now
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 05:37 PM
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Yeah thats what i also think:/ but maybe you are right. do i just delete all social medias and focus on bettering my self?
/r/seduction02/11/20 05:36 PM
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Yeah i guess online talking is maybe useless? :/ and i live in a boring town there isnt much to do and datings not allowed.
/r/MGTOW202/11/20 11:16 AM
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so do i have to lie about where am from? and i try to ask open ended questions like "why" and stuff but most get annoyed by this question then i leave them. its just that its always me chasing people, not other way around. no one cares about me to chase me, i dont want to be chased just a normal friendships where both sides put effort in
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:39 AM
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i have already thought about it.
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:24 AM
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Then why do they talk to all these dudes? could it be they are fun and flirty?? and funny? and how do i ask about their troubles if i havent even met them
/r/seduction02/11/20 12:08 AM
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Yeah, i wish i could just stop thinking about girls or other people and focus on my self
/r/seduction24/10/20 07:49 PM
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Not the same but i still would prefer U.S. sometimes i dream of Women contact, porn used to be the band aid solution but it was only making things worse for me
/r/seduction24/10/20 01:53 PM
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1-2-3 arent impossible but not worth it m the 4th guy to be honest. im planning to leave this country also last question is being with a girl that hard? never been with a girl so i see them as some magical creatures
/r/seduction24/10/20 01:41 PM
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What if you live in iraq and you get killed for dating?
/r/seduction23/10/20 08:06 PM
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Man that might be it! i please others because i dont want to be lonely! and this people pleasing has gotten me nowhere and now.im frustrated and trust me i ask my self questions everyday. seriously?? i havent figured who i am? so all this awareness doesnt mean shit?? reflected as an individual? what does that even mean? and i ask my self that every freaking time before an action or before saying anything. you make this all sound so complicated. i know its not easy but just tell what is wrong wit…
/r/seduction16/10/20 09:12 PM
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Can you give me a summary of what we talked about?? i can read all your messages again but still not understsnd the point. What are you saying? "Stop spending your life on people pleasing" and for once "start pleasing my self?" i wish i was a selfish cunt.
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:51 AM
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Bro you are telling me to just get a gun and point it towards my mouth and pull the fucking trigger. you are asking me a lot of questions i dont think about much and i dont know the answer too. honestly it kind of scares me too. i just want to smash my head against the wall. why do i want others to like me? i got no fucking idea. and idk, to be liked? to feel better about my self?? to feel like im not an invisible being? my friends to do with me? i dont even have fucking friends. and i dont know…
/r/seduction16/10/20 07:43 AM
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Well biggssf question i ask my self is how can i make others like me? so you are saying to improve and try new and different stuff. try to learn new skills? then other people could benefit from the skills i know? that is "offering" ? and i dont know how i can benefit from free online classes, like do i need to buy material? cause im not a oil prince and move to another country? thats my biggest goal. in next 5 years? hard to answer but probably about to finish college and go to a big city and be…
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:37 PM
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then what the fuck are personality traits??? an this shit is fucking confusing. first you tell me "what do i have to offer" then you say, stop thinking of it as "something to give to others" and i do play only one sport. its the only one available in my village. i would do more if i could. and hell no im just 19 man and i dont give a shit about relationships. i struggle to make friends. discussion? i rarely do those lol. what passions????? i dont have much. there isnt much to do. and i do put my…
/r/seduction15/10/20 09:11 PM
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How the hell do i know what i have to offer ? you mean like this? sometimes im funny and i listen to others problems and try to give advice if i can or sometimes smart and im sensitive and cheer up other people. i dont know what else and what do i want? well first is respect and akhnowledging that i exist or just their friendship. i dont want them to show me love %100 of the time or be my butler. things i find interesting? there is plently but i live in a small village with nothing to do. i love…
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:20 PM
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I tell my parents, my mom agrees but my dad says if i found a job in a bigger city he would allow me but thats it
/r/seduction15/10/20 07:17 PM
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where i live datings not allowd and i have never touched a girl in my life and i dont know how am i suppose to know if i like a girl or not? i used to be fucking needy and obsessed with anyone who ignored me. i hated this version of me and i still do i want to do nothing with it ever again i kind of vented didnt i.
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:52 PM
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What the fuck am i suppose to say? what if i dont have something to offer? what am i supposed to talk about? like all this are not meaningless scenarios... or after a week they get bored of me. i no longer have something to say. maybe this is why im not interested in people? or maybe after a week i lose interest in this??? or do i chase others approval so much and im needy and desperate??? im trying to stop being a predictable/boring nice guy. and actually build a personality for my self cause n…
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:49 PM
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What if i dont know how to do something brave? can someone give me an example?
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:38 PM
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Video games are not.my thing anymore they didnt get me anywhere, i just want to stop chasing people or.mostly girls and focus on my self and improve my self. if i cant love my self how the fuck anyone would any advice on how to love yourself more?
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:22 AM
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Sounds pretty easy to do. any advice on how the fuck to get started?
/r/seduction13/10/20 05:41 PM
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Iraq
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:56 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:36 PM
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Im in the process of getting better so to get better i have to say those things. i dont put my self down in front of others like ever, or unless its like a little joke once a while and im trying to like my self. trust me..and i have asked my self that. maybe its me who doesnt have anything to offer maybe somethings wrong with my personality and i need to fix it. i know no one is perfect, they all make mistakes i just dont believe it i dont know why im not pathetic. maybe i sounded like it. but i…
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:34 PM
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Well i have gotten better in some aspects to be honest i just hate when i dont improve or its an online conversation and people dont put effort in or dont chase me its frustrating when i fail at it.
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:21 PM
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I would but datings not allowed at all how do i be friends?
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:18 PM
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Thats what i tell my self too, that one day a girl will like me. and sometimes i wish i could just stop thinking so much about girls
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:05 PM
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What the hell is this language
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:03 PM
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Maybe thats what i was doing tbh. because i didnt know how to get to know them and i dont think i have any friends, many that i talk to are just platonic friendships lol
/r/seduction12/10/20 02:02 PM
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I tell that to my father a lot, but he says no so w/o having a job at a bigger city i cant really move to it im 19 and still in school.. maybe in near future
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:44 PM
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Its a plan im working on
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:37 PM
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I hate one sided relationships. could it be that me putting so much effort in but others dont do it?
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:37 PM
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So its basically that everyone hides it very well? i tell my self that what i see online is not reality or what other people say or how they seem is not reality and i shouldnt believe it, but it still affects me why is that? i see.other couples i immediately tell my self that im not smart or cool or funny like that guy and something is wrong with my personality. but tbh i have never dated irl or talked to a girl irl so i dont know how it would be i have only talked to girls online its like i wan…
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:31 PM
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My normal personality? i got rejected by like 5000 women lol.. but maybe it had something to do with me being a horny guy and girls can see that and it turns them off? i literally have no idea how to be interested in others, ask them about their hobbies? goals? family? school? compliment them from time to time?
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:22 PM
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Its a small village so gossiping is the biggest thing there is. the family cant handle so much shame and they decide to kill the girl or the boy or if they are lucky they get a marriage arranged for them.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:03 PM
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Why does it feel like that other people dont have ups and downs? i see any guy i wish i had their character or personality and i immediately imagine they are having a conversation with girls when i see phones on their hand maybe i care way too much about girls but i wish i didnt and im glad this book told me those things.
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:28 PM
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I have saved this book for 4 days. maybe its time to read it. but this book hit me like a fucking bulldozer. i cried bc how true it was and it was painful to read. couldnt continue it all maybe its time to start again
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:16 PM
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whats your advice for a "recovering nice guy?"
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:13 PM
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How do i stop my self from doing this?
/r/seduction10/10/20 08:00 PM
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So this big post is just dont chase approval?
/r/seduction10/10/20 07:59 PM
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I live in iraq, people have gotten killed over a text. and datings not allowed only option is having sex or a date secretly and risk being caught or online i wish i could stop thinking about girls. and get them out of my mind and focus on my self instead of wasting my life away worrying about how to not bore a girl online. 2 years of doing this i got no where.
/r/seduction10/10/20 07:42 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/seduction10/10/20 07:40 PM
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I feel like i have to change my whole personality, just so people will like me.
/r/seduction10/10/20 06:53 PM
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Yeah that went well. got rejected by 5000 women in snapchat, but tbh i was a horny guy back then.. but what guy isnt??
/r/seduction10/10/20 06:53 PM
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also first impressions are ton of pressure, if i use a pick up line, it goes well after wards i have no idea what to do lol, like being "on the spotlight" is kind of hard
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:44 PM
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Honestly it feels so relieving when i say what i want in front of others, sometimes i can be a little too intimidating or kind of an asshole but im working on it to be more assertive i just want to have friends, people who care about me and i care about them and about the opinions sometimes i dont have any opinions, why is that? and i used to be way hard on my self "im boring" now not as much, from so much people pleasing my true personality has been repressed, its just getting up to the surface
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:42 PM
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Lifes way easier in U.S or europe lol, but im in the same road, my life all used to be about pleasing others especially women online who were countries away from me.. but i never pleased my self but good for you
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:04 PM
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Whats your trick? do you just be yourself?
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:57 PM
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Yeah agreed, i rather have my own personality than another person doing the work for me, little help out is great but i want to have my own personality. which i dont have what if i dont have a personality? sometimes i wish i could be someone else, for exampe you, or any guy i see that has success with women
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:56 PM
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What if no one likes me? the problem is with me? and why sometimes even i ask my self what i think of her i literally have nothing, i dont know what to think about her.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:47 PM
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How the hell do i not overthink? thats like saying "Just be confident" or just "be yourself" while i have no ides how to do any of those.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:45 PM
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So do i save those? i really cant. why cant i come up with something original like those??
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:43 PM
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Thats what i plan to do, do women chase you?
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:41 PM
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You are lucky, datings not allowed where i live, ppl killed over texting, but for some fucked up reason i still read these posts about women and texting.. hoping i will learn something
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:38 PM
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Girls are a waste of energy lol.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:31 PM
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So basically what he means is if you have nothing to offer you will not do well. "having no product as a salesman" well how the hell do i achieve this product?
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:13 PM
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got it from you 😂😂
/r/seduction10/10/20 01:06 AM
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okay if you could summurise those posts. what are my biggest problems? just self love? i hear people say this all the time, its not easy but i guess its better than self hate. sometimes i dont even know how to love my self who are the professionals? they were probably like us once, many great people have gone some really tough shit but thanks, now i go out more and got a few hobbies (soccer, biking) only 2 available in my village i get to meet more people and talk with them i just dont know how …
/r/seduction10/10/20 12:38 AM
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you guys are perfect for each other. both incredibly dumb and gay you should marry each other.
/r/seduction09/10/20 11:39 PM
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I live in iraq, only option to talk to girls is online, and those girls are from U.S i dont even want a relationship, im 19 sometimes i get urges to talk to them bc i have never touched a girl in my life. im a recovering "nice guy" who pleases others to like me.. should i keep talking to them? i wish i could just stop thinking about girls completely and focus on my self.
/r/seduction09/10/20 11:18 PM
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How is my mind completely fucked ? i hope you try to explain it. you just say that because you have nothing useful to say at all. i admited my mistakes and its part of growing as a human, i spilled everything here trying to get better, i dont need some useless fucked up cunt telling me how racist i am. get a fucking life.
/r/seduction09/10/20 11:04 PM
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No you must be. coming into comments trying to find one little mistake. i say they are even better not they are actual shit. i know they are equal like me, i just dont believe it. i see them as literal gods. i never called them shit but there must be a reason "shit" came to your mind no? not actual shit you fucking cunt. i wish i could punch you to coma. save your harsh words and get the fuck outta here you useless asshole.
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:59 PM
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You arent so fucking perfect yourself, you giving me advice or trying to roast me ? and you have the balls to talk about "helping others" you arent such a role model to get advice from but i will say i agree on a few things. No im not a fucking nice guy, i used to be nice just so i could get into girls pants and get others attention. now i realized how pathetic i was im trying to change. im racist for saying that black guys are better? i know they arent, no group is better. i put it out here so …
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:57 PM
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Also i help other people out. you dont know me
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:47 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:46 PM
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I know man, i know, its just inside my head that why am i always the one that says hello first ? what if they did they? and im not saying people should say hello to me or they owe me or something i just think it would be nice. even if it doesnt happen life is too short to stress over such things, but as i say say i cant control my feelings all the time. i just want a few friends, why is that so hard to do.. truth is i dont know what the hell is going on.
/r/seduction09/10/20 07:16 PM
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I do all of those already, even lost a few kilos. i just went outside 20 mins ago to see whats going on and might talk with other people. i didnt say hello to anyone, but literally nobody even noticed me. no one said hello to me, i got thinking why do i always have to say hello to those guys i even played soccer with them, and a few conversations. rn i feel like people are my enemy and i got angry tbh.. instead of being friends with people i become enemies and they dislike me. i might sound chil…
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:30 PM
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i wish i lived in a bigger city, so much more oppurtunities and endless hobbies, i live in a village so its not even easy to find goals and try to achieve them. Yeah i wish i could stop thinking about women completely. i can feel that it doesnt impact me as much, sometimes i would call my self worthless and pointless for not having a GF or friends. now it does bother me only a little or i see a couple in media i say be happy for them and i shouldnt take that personally. and i have gotten nudes b…
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:59 PM
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I know. i just dont believe it. i dont know why not i tell my self that there are black guys who are nerds or socially awkward or dont have girls chasing them. but maybe the porn has made me jealous and this jealously is giving me a narrow vision i even tell my self "dont believe everything you see on the fucking media"
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:53 PM
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media
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:43 PM
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Porn, movies, tv shows.
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:43 PM
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I have a plan about that and im sure it will work if it doesnt i will just move into a big city, i even told my family about it Yeah online is pretty tough especially with snap girls that have an ego of Thor and Iron man put together and yeah genius. i know determining my self worth by how others react to me is not healthy.. i just dont know how to stop it completely i used to want others to laugh at my jokes, or a girl didnt reply online i would get sad, or i asked a girl if she wanted to be fr…
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:41 PM
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i tell my self it cant be true but i still dont believe it. i think that they are cooler than me. when i think this i just want to hit my head with a shovel and end it all.
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:20 PM
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i just explained it.
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:19 PM
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Yeah on a note. well i have started this journy for about 2 months now. when i talk to girls online i dont see them chasing me it makes me feel like im not worth it.
/r/seduction07/10/20 04:37 PM
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i do all of these..
/r/seduction07/10/20 04:27 PM
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how the fuck do i find out my strenghts ? i hate this question bc idk the answerr to it. how the fuck do i accpet my self?
/r/seduction07/10/20 04:09 PM
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fuck off then.
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:28 PM
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I know they arent gods sometimes i just feel like that somewhere in my brain i think like they are gods or alien beings.. how do i not force my self to be cool or funny? i dont know how to stop it.
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:27 PM
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im not scared of outcome. i have about 1000 girl-friends on anapchat i can say whatever to them.. its just me who judges my self horribly
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:23 PM
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seriously?
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:19 PM
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dont you want peoples validation too? i know i dont need it. nor do i want it from everyone
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:19 PM
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how do i stop wanting it?
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:18 PM
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i tell my self that its useless too but its like i want to be friends with a girl. since only option is online its like i want to prove my self to them.
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:16 PM
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im like this with guys too sometimes.
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:08 PM
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How do i make my self believe they arent gods??? and yeah only online is worse. there are thousands of ways to send one sentence. thousands of different questions only i dont know what im supposed to say or what i should say or how i should say it. it gets so overly complex i just pull my hair out over it. im like what will she like? how will she respond? what if she didnt like it? what about my ego? how to.make her interested? how to be mysterious? how to be fun? how to be cool? how to ask inte…
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:07 PM
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i have no idea.
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:48 PM
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as i said online is the only option. but i will try to write another post and say what i truly want. i try to be friends with girls online in snapchat, they dont know me and i dont know them either they are girls in U.S and im from iraq i probably dont have much in common with them how do i start the convos online with girls? what am i supposed to say?? when i dont get a response it makes me feel liek my effort wasnt good enough. and its frustrating as hell when i try to find a question to ask.
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:35 PM
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How do i know they have things in common? how do i find out if i dont even know them? i dont even want a relationship.. just a friendship.
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:23 PM
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I just dont know what to talk about. or when i talk with her its like an interview.
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:07 PM
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Totally! my father losr his father at age of 7 so he only his mom to raise him no sisters and no brothers, only son i recognised how all my family are way too nice which isnt bad but sometimes they hurt themselfs for other people, "people.pleasing" or "Niceguy behivour" doing everything just so others like them. i promised my self last year i will never ever be like any of them and this is the only thing that motivates me and keeps me from suicide. whats the solution to all this?
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:12 PM
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Well i know but its too risky to even try, maybe i woulr be even good at it
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:05 PM
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gotta read it then
/r/seduction04/10/20 05:12 PM
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What exercises? are they in the end of the damn book? it told me how my whole personality is just pleasing others and trying to get people like me it told me my whole personality is wrong and i agree with it competely i got bitter and closed it. 8 months later of self beating and gaining weight im ready to start again, nd look at my faults and accepting them
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:33 PM
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How do i practise if i have nothing to say? nd if i made a mistake how do i know what should i have said??
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:42 PM
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i read this book and it hurt like hell. i even cried. i quit at 80s page bc it told me all my faults but didnt tell me how to fix any. fuck this book
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:41 PM
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whats the solution??
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:38 PM
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i have a father and a mother but im exactly like this i think its bc my father never gave me advice
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:38 PM
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Yeah i have gotten better tho i tell my self to have hope and that i will have fun in those moments and the words come to me sometiems
/r/seduction04/10/20 10:32 AM
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How do i do that exactly?
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:24 AM
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wouldnt that make me sound a bit desperate?
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:23 AM
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this makes me download all the social medias again bc online talking with girls is my only option bc dating isnt allowed in my village..
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:23 AM
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Well i sturggle with that also.. lol i mean with guys
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:21 AM
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sure why not
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:21 AM
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how do you do sexual stuff if you guys have a distance problem? also it seems like this girl is interested in you, most girls i talk to online dont past 5 mintutes in conversations..
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:20 AM
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Well how the hell do i be interesting? i feel like no one is ever interested not even girls online.
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:16 AM
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Well online i can pick up on it lol, when girls reply with one words and dont say much or just boring texts all along.. and i take this personaly thinking im the most boring man alive lol
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:12 AM
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Maybe me wanting to get better with girls is a bit of complex bc datings not allowed where i live, maybe i just have to learn how to make friends first before but i do go out way more often now and i interact with others a ton, i remember a guy in middle school was my best friend few years passed i met him again, guess what? he just said hello to me and how i was doing he called me his brother but then left lol
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:11 AM
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Maybe im always so literal and forget to have fun, thanks man
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:06 AM
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I know lol, almost got me fooled
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:05 AM
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Cant do
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:04 AM
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in big cities you can date but in villages like mine people have gotten killed over it. its like a guy likes a girl he asks his parents that he wants a marriage and if the girls family and the guys family like each other and understand each other they get them married.
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:04 AM
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So you think i have to read that book like 5 times? and i got your point when you just mentioned Ronaldo lol i have to work for it, no effort means no gain but how do i start getting in conversations if i dont know how to start it? online i dont make good enough impression on girls sometimes i do i dont know how to keep it up its like i get the spotlight once and i dont know how to react... i go outside morr and sometimes i have good energy i ask people questions and in work too but in work i ru…
/r/askTRP03/10/20 07:11 PM
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i have considered that.. but i might know some people but not so.close with them bc i dont know how to get cloee to them
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:03 PM
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how do you start convos?
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:58 PM
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those things dont exist in my village..
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:58 PM
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no pressure for me lol i have never touched a women in my life and datings not allowed in where i live that maybe be why women seem like mystical creatures to me...
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:52 PM
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what if no one is ever interested? how do i make people interested without me people.pleasing them? i know conversations would be easier if both people wanted it just like this one but how do i know what others are interested in without me knowinh them?
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:30 PM
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i do have self awareness and when i see other sad having a lower back or a bit grumpy face i ask them why do they feel that way..
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:13 PM
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I just have to be more skeptical i guess, does reading other people only come out of body langauge or what they say also?
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:11 PM
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Wish i had that problem, you already know the questions just have to ask them a number of times until you no longer fear it
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:10 PM
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how do i recognise my good qualities? i know the bad ones and im trying to improve (social skills, people pleasing, boring, lazy sometimes) im working on my self but i dont know how to make my self believe im good enough
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:04 PM
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Body langauge? i guess i could do that but when others talk i dont know how they are like quickly
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:02 PM
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it doeant bother me its fine, and my social anxiety only exists because i dont know what to say or how to start a conversation and im a muslim not allowed to have alcohol lol last question, how do you get girls to like you?
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:00 PM
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Haha dont know and doesnt bother me lol
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:58 PM
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Fake sinserity? get a better one
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:37 PM
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Well where i live dating isnt allowed.. iraq and im 19. im just like you trying to be happier with my self and stop chasing others how do i not care so much? i dont even know what to ask to get a convo started.. i think so much about this it becomes like a puzzle trying to think about what would work and what wouldnt lol
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:27 PM
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Yeah i guess you are right.. its all about being a good mood right? sometimes i feel like my sense of humour only exists in a place where im comfortable.. like with my family, im super sarcastic but with girls online its like talking to a wall.. could it because i dont have a good sense of humour? how do i create one if i dont have it? i know this aint an easy question.
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:13 PM
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Good one!
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:08 PM
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What if i dont have any jokes?
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:48 PM
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Being confident that easy? "be confident" i have no fear of rejection at all i can say whatever to girls. my problem is just in my mind i think i have nothing to offer and im not worthy of girls..i think this bc idk what to say or what i should i say or what im supposed to say...
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:47 PM
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How do i be sarcastic? sometimes later in a day i wish i said something different which would have been actually funny instead of them walking over me but in interacting moments i forget to have fun
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:44 PM
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How the hell do you guys read people? what does it mean? i get into these comments to learn something it just creates more and more questions that i dont know the answer to
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:43 PM
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What if i dont know how to do jokes?
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:42 PM
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really? why do you think that is?
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:40 PM
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how do you get girls to like you?
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:37 PM
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I live in iraq, no dating allowed
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:37 PM
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Just kidding lol, only seen s1e1. does it get better?
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:36 PM
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But what if i dont know what to say? or i have nothing to say? or i might bore others? or the convo isnt intelligent enough??
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:36 PM
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not literally, it waa a metaphor
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:35 PM
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oh okay, i still dont understand
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:32 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:28 PM
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how do i get better in interacting with others??
/r/askTRP03/10/20 07:14 AM
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i do have hobbies but with covid its kinda hard.. i do have the will to go through i just dont know how to stop it. and i have deleted every social media so i dont chase attention
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:05 AM
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boring ass show
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:55 AM
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what i mean is, how do act like i have 10 girls lined up? maybe you cant teach me bit by bit but just point me in a direction if you arent like me lol
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:07 AM
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of course i do that. any girl that disrespects me i go back at her too. maybe i used to be a simp, it was a pain. never getting anything by bending down to people. from so much people pleasing maybe i have repressed my true personality so the people pleasing personality is the only one i have.. do i change my whole personality?
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:04 AM
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why
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 05:02 AM
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i wish i could just stop thinking about then all together
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 04:39 AM
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i told that to a girl "all the effort just so i can eat you out?" she said that im a lazy shit
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 04:38 AM
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but my post is also about MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 04:32 AM
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i did. no comments
/r/MGTOW224/09/20 04:31 AM
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when "im worthless" bc girls dont chase me comes to my head i tell my self god put me here for a fucking reason and thats not be beaten down if a girl didnt like me. there are billions more out there.
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:54 AM
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how do i stop thinking about them?
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 06:16 PM
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Bro i just cant think about them... i want to be happy on my own i just dont know how.. i deleted all my social medias and where i live dating inst allowed.. from so much people pleasing i probably forgot my own happiness.
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 06:16 PM
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honestly last night i got so sick of this i just went outside. riding my bike to.places i never been and talking with a group of guys just because i thought why not how do i stop being a beta? trying to make others happy? i know this aint healthy but i dont know how to stop it. i do things, still dont know how to make my self happy fully.. how do i have confidence in my self??
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 06:09 PM
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how do i stop thinking about girls?
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 06:02 PM
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i know i know. i used to rely on others to make me happy now i know.i have to rely on my self to make my self happy bc no one else can nofap will make me stop thinking about women? i will do it then. i feel like im bad at talking, and it makes me lose confidence.. how do i believe im good enough??
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 05:59 PM
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Yeah well that will start once i land a job, rn just working with my father
/r/seduction16/09/20 04:24 PM
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i used to believe that as well, but now i know girls are also capable evil and not just magical creatures.. i keep telling my self that women are not superior than me and are equal, also just humans that make mistakes like me.. How do i make the other person interested in me? talk about what they are interested in ? how do i find out what are they interested in? okay so my self worth shouldnt have any outside influence?? like it should only be interal? how do i change my internal voice? rn i bas…
/r/seduction16/09/20 04:23 PM
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well i have imagined that dream girl in my life and i know it wont make me happy. i want to be lose weight, learn other languages and be smart, im doing all of those but i dont know what is being smart is tbh.. and i live in a boring village, instruments kr study volanoes dont really exist. a dude i would be impressed with? i want to have social skills and be friends with other people and learn from them. what do you mean by different things??
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 06:03 PM
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socially? well its mostly online and when i fail at those convos or the other person doesnt put in much effort it makes me feel like im the problem.. even outside..i want to improve in conversations but its like i expect my self to be really good at it in like 2 months i have started. when i fail at the convo i think about (my personalitys the problem, im not worth even a hello?, when others dont give me any attention at all, or when they do me not knowing how to react to it makes me feel a bit …
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:00 PM
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im friendly or decent, at least i like to think tho, but those dont matter if im not interesting.. and i will move out its just my parents control about everything in my life. what do i have to do to get girls interested in me?
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:57 PM
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Yeah tbh same, socializing can alse derain me of energy, not sure if i used the right word. how did you get over not wanting a relantionship? i think for.me was asking my self why do i want a GF? i kept asking myself until i realized having a relationship rn would be nothing but a headache. i honestly just want friends, with guys or girls dont matter well maybe i used to.make them feel that way, but with lots of.girls online i talked to, i could carry the convo no problem bc we talked bout self …
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:45 PM
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am from a small town, finances or scuba driving things like that dont even exist. not much things to do here.. rn i wish i could just let go of thinking about girls. like why the fuck i feel like they are so important to have. i have gotten nudes before even girls chased me but its like i want every girl to chase me. i know its not healthy... and i will read that book.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 04:29 PM
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Well how do i stop believing that voice in my head? how do i believe im good enough? i wish i could just stop thinking about girls as something so important.. dream about what? girls ? when i dont fap yeah everyday
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 04:24 PM
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how do i love my self?
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:20 PM
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I get why you saying assume they dont like me. like have no expectations right? it would make me care less. the other things you said. what do you mean by them?
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 10:29 PM
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Lol thats not bullying, i appreciate the honesty. 2 months ago i hated my guts but video games made me forget. finally my family had enough they broke my PS4. i got so mad i ended up crying and letting it all out. it kinds changed me.. now i work and do well in school and trying to learn a new langauge, even go on trips and have other hobbies. i dont hate my self as much. i sometimes even love my self. but what is bothering me rn is being able to have a conversation with others, i dont want to l…
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 09:48 PM
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What do you mean? and i know seeking validation is the worst thing.
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 09:34 PM
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Easy to say for rich europeans or americans..
/r/seduction14/09/20 01:43 PM
1

Maybe you are right.. but i dont know what to say to dig deep down.. i dont know the question and i never know the other person...
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:06 AM
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I kinda get what you saying but honestly i dont know why are you saying this... what do i do now? digging deep enough and find a common thread? whT does that even mean?
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:05 AM
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agreed. a month ago i was in a pretty bad place. now im a work in progress , i have improved in lot of areas but still feel pretty frustrated when i cant keep up a convo or how to start one.. what makes convos easier? common interest? being interested in other? having fun? discussions? Maybe my problem is seeing everyone higher than me, more intelligent and funny and cool.. i want to have friends and stop looking for others approval..
/r/seduction13/09/20 09:17 PM
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once you get over here you will know what "being bored is".. somehow i still love it but soon i will leave
/r/seduction13/09/20 08:54 PM
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I dont even know how to make friends or keep a conversation going. you think trying to improve with women would be a good idea? i live in a fucking country where dating isnt allowed and you guys get to bang free pussy all day. and i dont think online with girls is such a good idea. bc it would lead nowhere. i know girls just want to have fun with a guy. why are these posts so complex? if you were in my place what would you do?
/r/seduction13/09/20 08:39 PM
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i like to think i respect others, sometimes i take things way to seriously bc i dont want to be butt of the joke everytime, or get angry when others treat me shitty. on purpose or not. i can be funny or confident but when i fail at convos it gets pretty frustrating
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:48 PM
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any advice for starting conversations?
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:46 PM
1

Very true. these posts are very complicated while the only thing it should be "improve yourself first" before wanting others to like you. i like to think am an interesting person but i just dont know how to be interested in others. i used to get in a lot of fights just for saying the wrong thing or taking it too seriously.
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:44 PM
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Crazy the amount of effort you guys pull into just how to girls like you. is it worth it? im 19 and i really want a GF but still want to improve my self esteem and personality. i wish i didnt care about girls but hormones and urges too strong... and the fact i see so many guys her trying to get girls it makes me feel am missing out on something.
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:41 PM
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How come in reading "extending conversations" i felt bitter? cause sometimes i take the convo too seriously and make an enemy instead of a friend.. am i supposed to have fun with women and thats how will i succeed?
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:39 PM
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Yeah pretty much same bc i forget they struggle too
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:48 PM
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Those things dont exist over here, in my town there are no such things as clubs, or volunteering.
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:41 PM
1

how do you deal with it?
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:40 PM
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How do i not look at them as gods? and i know that. how can i make a Girl happy if im not happy my self
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:40 PM
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Certainly.. maybe in 3 years or 2 but how do i get girls to like me? bc they dont i overthink so many things. like not worthy enough or bad personality or rethinking everything about me..
/r/seduction13/09/20 01:44 PM
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Thats true. but i do live in a small town, just turned 19 and changing citities thats a big decision that my parents control..not me
/r/seduction13/09/20 12:51 PM
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most times i might say who gives a shit but i feel like this ismt right to say either. i just say "its not important right now or its not really a big deal and women wont make me happy if i cant do it my self" how do i not make a big deal out of it? how to make my self believe it? keep saying it? and i try to do that. just being in the moment in those interactions. sometimes i dont know much about the person like what they like what are their hobbies so its just a awkward silence and i dont mind…
/r/MGTOW205/09/20 07:18 PM
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Well maybe the reason women are big mystery to me, they dont allow dating in where i live and schools are only boys. i know once i more i talk the better i will get but what i struggle with is not having something to say to start these interactions. what might be some good interactions? i tell my self that though. "women are just humans like us, they dont deserve to be put on pedestal or anyone else" what do i base my self worth on? my achievements?
/r/MGTOW205/09/20 09:42 AM
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i do fine with conversation in a group. it usually leads to 1v1s with another person but in an actual 1v1 i just sit in awkward silences
/r/MGTOW205/09/20 09:29 AM
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damn, nothing i can do but hope the best for you in whatever you trying to succeed
/r/seduction05/09/20 09:25 AM
1

and thanks for the video, we are the future
/r/seduction05/09/20 09:15 AM
1

But do what exactly????
/r/seduction05/09/20 08:57 AM
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Recently i care less about dating to be honest. from where i live dating isnt allowed and i have never talked to a women face to face..when i go to college that might change, and i think i need to improve my self first. how can a women like me if i dont like me? what has the books taught you? what different perspective you have gotten? dont tell me the whole book so thats my job last month i was 95 kgs. too much for a 19 year old 175 cms. now im around 85kgs and i actually hate sitting home and …
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 02:18 PM
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Im on the road to success.
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 01:35 PM
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Thats exactly what im doing now. questioning my self. or what i did wrong questioning my beliefs. i used to be a "nice guy" and apologising even if i didnt do anything wrong. i would roll out the carpet for women, put them on pedestal. once i knew how wrong this was i didnt know how else to act still dont. i faced many fears and im ready to do more. i will give those books a try, so thanks, there are just so many books i get lost in them. i used to use snapchat. and everyday i would say the same…
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 11:49 AM
1

No joke my older brother does the same..but what if no one is ever interested in who i really am? i always try to make friends with others but no one tries to be friends with me
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 10:47 AM
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well im glad you got better, What are some good books i can read?? but alot of guys go through the same things. problems with girls, low social skills and more things. some were saying self improvment was supposed to be fun.. but it aint the only time its good is when i succeed at something. im trying to find productive things to do. but i live in a shitty town where nothing ever happens
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 10:44 AM
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How do i be kinder to my self? and i live in a town where nothing ever happens so therapy is not available. bro fuck girls. honestly. i rather focus on my self than chase girls. to what end?? i just sometimes want them and i think its a hormones problem. how do i not be bitter?
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:35 AM
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Good advice. america is a country of dreams idc what others say. there are so many oppurtunities in america that arent in my shit ass town its crazy the difference
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 10:33 AM
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Yeah. sometimes the frustration hits hard and i tell my self that. yasterday i got so mad i almost punched the wall. but i didnt, told my self to stay calm who is that person you talking about "he is cool, he is worthy, he is good enough" how do i not force someone to love me?
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 10:23 AM
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I already do that. finding problems in my own self. thats why posted here frequency match? how do i know if our frequencies match? im not a walking radio:/ and i already do that. about 4 people i talk to online they all messaged me and some part of me told me to not talk to them they might not be interested.. but i still talked to them. i remember i would point out everyones mistakes and tell it to them.. not anymore though how do i start a conversation with someone i dont know? and i hate putti…
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 09:56 AM
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Thanks but i already know or do most of those. i do tell my self no girlfriend is going to make me happy but me. i deleted social medias so i stop worrying about likes or rts. or always comparing to my self when i see others happy but i know most i see is fake or they not really happy or if its true i should be happy for them i do have a job and im trying my best in it. this year i got good grades. extra activities? shit i dont live in Dubai. i live in a shitty small village where nothing ever h…
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 09:41 AM
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They might care but not as much as some others. what does self assess mean? doesnt everyone say that everyone is unique? how come me and you arent different? or you meant this in this way (no one is better than me and im.better than no one?) how do i not judge people? sometimes i cant stop it.
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 09:32 AM
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Sure bro.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:24 PM
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how do i know whats important? i agree and i realized i think too much about others i forget i even exist. today after i got so angry i looked at my own hands and legs and head i felt like i was in a simulation, i said this.is me! this is my life! i But how do i clear my head?? and yeah i feel like everyone hides their true emotions super well.
/r/MGTOW202/09/20 10:00 PM
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i just want to get to a point where im happy enough so i can add a girl to my life.. but i focus so much on others i forget my own happiness
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:47 PM
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Thank you and have fun lol
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:41 PM
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what do you mean im not the guy who makes the first move? Yeah well i wish i had that kind of thinking. and i know nobody comes to.me bc no one ever has.
/r/MGTOW202/09/20 09:40 PM
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i live in a shit town there isnt much i can do. nothing ever happens here. what do i act on?? and one bothered me most was in online i "put in work to make friends" when i didnt see what i expected i would take it personalty. rn my goals are small.. lose weight, learn another langauge, and get a bike to just go around the city and spend more time outside than inside masturbating. and im really not big fan of books they take way too much energy but i do like philosophy.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:39 PM
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i know, not giving a fuck what others think because most people dont know or forget when i make a mistake. they dont really care not caring about what others think when i say something or do something and dont let their thoughts stop me from doing what i want. im sorry but what else could this book tell me?
/r/MGTOW202/09/20 09:35 PM
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It could be a smart way out, im looking forward to it man. do girls chase you? how do you not think of them much
/r/seduction01/09/20 09:43 PM
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i wish i had that attitude.
/r/seduction01/09/20 08:31 PM
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well im asking for help. that means there is at least a little love for my self in me. and last question, do girls chase you?
/r/seduction01/09/20 07:51 PM
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Well because i always say how are you or what are you up to in the start nothing else haha. the chats dont start well and snap girls dont put in much effort. they have tons of other guys in chat and if they get bored they will leave quickly and dont want to get close to me
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:28 PM
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not them maybe scared of them rejecting me :/ i literally sent 20.messages to girls in a dating app i got no replies
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:21 PM
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well most of times no matter what i say all girls say to me are one words. and it was online so it got tiring haha. i would say my own convo starters but got nothing
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:20 PM
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i know bro, i tell my self everyday they arent gods. but why dont i believe it?
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:19 PM
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sounds you are good with women then unlike me
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:16 PM
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Yes i know dont expect her to love me instantly and dont say she will reject me
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:15 PM
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Just curious you dont have to answer this how did you convince her haha
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:04 PM
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Same here. some guys date them in complete secret lol
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:00 PM
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i agree completely with that advice, btw that profile haha
/r/seduction01/09/20 06:00 PM
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haha true sometimes i completely forget that i cant date girls and i read about how to talk to girls. many say i could learn more if i just talked to girls irl lol
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:55 PM
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In here its a little different i do that and talk to a girl and her father or brother probably gonnna pick up their Ak-47.. and what is your goal in those conversation? to have fun??
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:52 PM
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i mostly talk to girls online but thats not the same is it?
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:38 PM
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Well i can do that too, being confident or aggressive or not caring what anybody thinks but this isnt easy too right? its mostly what i think of my self. i fail at convos and its super frustrating and feel like i will never be as good as black guys lol to give my self hope and not envying black guys cause envy is not healthy no matter where it comes from i tell my self that one day a girl will like me so there is no need to rush or hurry.
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:33 PM
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You mean make up? i wish i could feel like that or at least feel like women arent greater than me. i tell my self this everyday "they are just human nothing greater than me"
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:25 PM
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ahhhh okay, i didnt look at it like that, what about soccer? i play soccer. what are some high energy hobbies that take effort or creative? i want to find some for my self.
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:19 PM
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Thats what i think, i seemed to care so much for online friendships or relationship with girls that are in other countries. i put so much time and effort into this. i would read things about dating. but online is never the real experience right? do i need to focus on my self now?
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:05 PM
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Okay but many times i dont know the setup so i dont even get to know anyone.. sometimes they do the setup by luck. or lead the convo more thats the convos i find easy. because i dont know whats important to talk about and whats not
/r/MGTOW201/09/20 11:39 AM
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Already doing all 3 and currently i would say those are most important to me. i will leave one day
/r/seduction01/09/20 11:15 AM
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so love towards who? my self? and i agree with you apathy is dangerous. i used to be like that. but im aware enough now to know my problems
/r/seduction01/09/20 10:55 AM
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What??
/r/seduction01/09/20 10:36 AM
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using my imagination??
/r/MGTOW201/09/20 10:20 AM
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How the fuck do i do that???
/r/MGTOW201/09/20 10:20 AM
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i fucking envy you man
/r/seduction01/09/20 09:31 AM
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He mostly talks about american guys. i checked his book out..mostly it was him talking to his big famous friends even that made me envious.
/r/MGTOW201/09/20 09:30 AM
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eventually that shit runs out
/r/MGTOW201/09/20 09:28 AM
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what the fuck are your hobbies? going to the moon on the weekends? time travelling occasionaly?
/r/seduction01/09/20 09:16 AM
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do girls chass you? or you good with them?
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 11:34 PM
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i already exercise everyday like 15 minutes, looking to make it more and i agree it feels good. what does handy mean? and funny sounds nice to make people laugh but i would pick smart whatever goes on in america its better than here, and sometimes i would think if i was there maybe girls would like me more lol
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 11:34 PM
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i would. but i live in a shit town literally the only thing that happens is ppl gossiping or just sitting down all day. but will be on a soccer team soon, what do i talk about with those people? or strangers or new teammates?
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 10:34 PM
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that sounds easy to do right? its not. what i want in life? to gtfo of my country and get a job there that i would like to do. and be a confident, calm, assertive in the future. what are the things i cant control?
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 09:41 PM
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Maybe i do give too many fucks about it. bc if i idk how to start a conversation how will make friends, then what after "whats up?" when ppl ask me this i say exactly what im doing in that moment or say nothing
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 09:36 PM
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But how do i not give a fuck? its not that easy man. how did you do it? i would stop caring if i knew how to
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 09:23 PM
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I know that! but even guys. i see them being talkative and having friends i see them as greater than me and im not good enough for them how do i trust my self? its not that easy as you say or loving my self..i dont want to.love my self just to get women maybe thats what i want but not really what i need. i dont care what they think really its how they react to me that makes me.judge my self..for example i think im saying a good sentence and most girls are just like "Ok" "Yeah" or most common lea…
/r/seduction30/08/20 08:13 PM
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well dating isnt allowed from where i am from. my sisters are the only women i have ever talked to and i never have conversations with them idk what to talk about. i read the book about how to.make friends not just women. well i suck in real conversations and also online ones and im not sure if they are both alike. sometimes online ones are a lot harder bc generally girls have 20 guys texting them so they can be picky
/r/seduction30/08/20 06:24 PM
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you are wrong. i got sick and tired of me being a loser i got a job and i exercise everyday and i even read a book or two about talking to others. i go out more and i have more hobbies. but still no friends. its like how many words a girl says to me is how much im worthy. this is how i feel and i know it isnt actually true. im a recovering "nice guy" i just posted this at the peak of hatred towards my self. you are telling me to do these things without explaining what they are. i didnt understan…
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:59 PM
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woooooww why didnt think of those beforr? how the fuck do i choose a random item? who the fuck do i talk about it with ??? when no one is interested in me??? how do i learn the priciples from where those lines come from? i just feel more hatred towards my self from even reading those.
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:42 PM
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