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| 2 | Feminists won't fight for female conscription, or: "I want my civil rights but I don't want my civil duties"NOW (and some other women's groups) did at least make a token effort back in the 80s by filing a brief supporting the registration of both men and women with Selective Service when the issue was before the SCOTUS. They had no involvement prior to that stage in the case. http://www.nytimes.com/1981/03/22/us/women-join-battle-on-all-male-draft.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/16 06:25 AM |
| 2 | question to both pills: what are your favorite self help books?How Adam Smith Can Change Your Life by Russ Roberts is kinda like a self help book, and I'm liking it so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingCollege dating markets favor men, as most colleges have overwhelmingly more men than women. This is BS. From Forbes, citing Dept of Education statistics from 2010 (based on 2008 enrollment numbers): On a national scale, public universities had the most even division between male and female students, with a male-female ratio of 43.6–56.4. While that difference is substantial, it still is smaller than private not-for-profit institutions (42.5-57.5) or all private schools (40.7-59.3). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/15 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Travesty at Vassar: Judge Finds Against Student Accused of Sexual AssaultYu sued Vassar. The case was recently decided in favor of Vassar. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/15 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Tested gets negative comments and mass dislikes on Rebecca Watson's video, blames MRA'sThey were around for a couple years as part of Whiskey Media (Giant Bomb, etc) before they were acquired, which started the tie-in with Jamie and Adam from Mythbusters. A lot of the audience at that time wasn't big on the new direction they were taking (or the site redesign), largely ditching tech for the more science and "maker" content they have now. Many of us stopped using the forums and visiting the site regularly. I've pretty much only kept listening to their podcast and occasionally watch… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/14 12:21 AM |
| 5 | I am a Life-Long Liberal & University Instructor Who Has Finally Had It with Feminism in Higher EducationOver the past two decades, the topic of censorship on campus has often been treated as a "conservative issue," because the fact is that socially conservative opinions are the ones most likely to be stifled at colleges and universities today. While many attempts at censorship are apolitical, you are far more likely to get in trouble on campus for opposing, for example, affirmative action, gay marriage, and abortion rights than you are for supporting them. Political correctness has become part of … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/14 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Should the Equal Rights Amendment be the number 1 issue for the MHRM?A simpler, more attainable first goal could be a lawsuit regarding Selective Service... IIRC, however, women are no longer excluded from combat divisions in the military. Would it not seem appropriate to press this issue again? I am not a lawyer, so if I am missing something, please let me know. But that would make a very good (and very headline-worthy) first victory, I think, to render selective service in its current form unconsitutional. There's a case in the works already. It's being appeale… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/14 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel judged for being around young children?I've had someone send a staff member to ask if I was related to my mom's cousin's grandsons while we were at an amusement park. I was watching her two older grandsons while she took the youngest to the bathroom to change his diaper. It didn't end up being a big deal, their grandma got back with the other kid and we went in our way, but I don't know how it may have gone had she taken longer to come back. It does suck having people be suspicious just because you're standing around watching a coupl… | /r/MensRights | 04/07/14 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Birth control under the ACAWhose religious views? I'd argue that a company cannot have views... I hate this ruling. The larger problem is that Congress passed (and Bill Clinton signed) a crappy law (with only 3 votes against it) two decades ago. My understanding is that Congress could fairly easily have exempted the ACA from RFRA. Congress didn't define "person" as only actual individuals for the purposes of RFRA in the definitions section of the law, so the court has to turn to the Dictionary Act to determine the meaning… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/14 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Man writes article critical of college campus rape tribunals, so the wife of the White House media director tried to get him firedI think that historically the right has a worse record in this area, but modern feminism does seem to be playing catch up. It seems like in the last 20-30 years it's kind of flipped to some extent, especially in academia. Over the past two decades, the topic of censorship on campus has often been treated as a "conservative issue," because the fact is that socially conservative opinions are the ones most likely to be stifled at colleges and universities today. While many attempts at censorship ar… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/14 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Man commits suicide, blames ex-wife in suicide note; ex-wife takes control of copyright, tries to get note (and man’s other writings) removed from Internet - The Washington PostI've seen it posted here a few times. I think it was maybe about a month ago, there were at least a few posts on it or linking it. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/14 04:39 PM |
| 16 | Man commits suicide, blames ex-wife in suicide note; ex-wife takes control of copyright, tries to get note (and man’s other writings) removed from Internet - The Washington PostI know this story has been posted here before, but it was interesting to see it on one of the most widely read law blogs in the US. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/14 09:25 PM |
| 1 | No Trial? No Jury? No Witnesses? No Attorney? Student Expelled AnywayHow the fuck was this allowed? It's been pretty much standard procedure since at least the 90s. FIRE has been dealing with cases like this since 1998. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/14 02:27 PM |
| 2 | If instead of 'feminists' shutting down the talk at U of O, it was a variety of students with no particular political agenda, then would they be right to do so?No, I don't think shutting it down would ever be the right thing to do. Indeed, the correct answer to speech you abhor is bearing witness to what you believe -Prof. Alan Charles Kors, FIRE/University of Pennsylvania Some ideas are dangerous because they are true; others, because they are false. But the proper response to false ideas is refutation, not censorship -Robert Chatelle, National Writer's Union (1996) If there be time to expose through discussion the falsehood and fallacies, to avert th… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/14 11:21 PM |
| 2 | A very anti-Islam feminist, born in Somalia who suffered FGM, denied honorary degree over anti-Islam comments. Every article labels the Islamic students, that felt her comments were discrimination, as "Liberal Misogynists"Greg Lukianoff, FIRE President: Three points you must not overlook in discussing the Brandeis/Hirsi Ali controversy | /r/MensRights | 19/04/14 04:39 AM |
| 6 | University of Ottawa Hockey team suspended and players shunned by university due to sexaul assault accusation, even the team members police have cleared (Duke University witch hunt anyone?)Didn't anyone learn from what happened to the players at Duke University? Unfortunately, it doesn't seem like it. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | HuffPost Live- Suey Park #CancelColbert ["White men... feel they are some how exempt and still logical compared to women who they paint as emotional" -- The White male host bravely stands up for himself]Scratch a defender of political correctness and you’ll find some variety of bigot. -Robert Chatelle, National Writers Union (1996) | /r/MensRights | 30/03/14 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Feminists pulled the fire alarm AGAIN to disrupt CAFE presentationSome colleges provide both the useless security and the hecklers who shut down controversial gatherings | /r/MensRights | 29/03/14 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Feminists pulled the fire alarm AGAIN to disrupt CAFE presentationAll censorship is predicated on the assumption that some ideas are so dangerous that they must be suppressed. Some ideas are dangerous because they are true; others, because they are false. But the proper response to false ideas is refutation, not censorship. -Robert Chatelle, NWU (1996) [A] function of free speech under our system of government is to invite dispute. It may indeed best serve its high purpose when it induces a condition of unrest, creates dissatisfaction with conditions as they a… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/14 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Feminists pulled the fire alarm AGAIN to disrupt CAFE presentationOver the past two decades, the topic of censorship on campus has often been treated as a "conservative issue," because the fact is that socially conservative opinions are the ones most likely to be stifled at colleges and universities today. While many attempts at censorship are apolitical, you are far more likely to get in trouble on campus for opposing, for example, affirmative action, gay marriage, and abortion rights than you are for supporting them. Political correctness has become part of … | /r/MensRights | 29/03/14 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Young males are reluctant to argue for pro-male positions because they have learned they will be dismissed as malignant, simply because they are pro-male.If people believe there is any risk of punishment for stating an opinion, most will not bother opening their mouths; and in time, the rules that create this silence become molded into the culture. -Greg Lukianoff, FIRE | /r/MensRights | 27/03/14 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Xavier University in the USA is facing trial for branding innocent student 'rapist'Posted the other day about this | /r/MensRights | 17/03/14 04:30 PM |
| 4 | What to expect if your son is falsely accused of Sexual MisconductFIRE has some useful resources in this area (and others), particularly their guide to due process and fair procedure on campus. It's available in a variety of formats on their website in the publications section and for sale on Amazon (iirc). I'd also recommend people read The Shadow University by Alan Charles Kors and Harvey Silverglate and Unlearning Liberty by Greg Lukianoff | /r/MensRights | 07/03/14 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Join me in sending a calm, civil letter to Ryerson U administrators. They have fined CAFE a $1600 "security fee" for presenting men's human rights speaker Karen Straughan (aka GirlWritesWhat) on campus. I suggest they either abandon the fee or consider an additional approach. CONTACT INFO INSIDE.I know here in California, campus police, at least at state schools, have the same powers as regular police officers. At my school, campus police is a division of the city police force. They have a Lt., 4 police officers, and 16 security officers. I'm pretty sure campus "police" at private schools have less power. I think they're basically glorified security guards, but I know they work closely with local police as well. I know there are other states in the US that campus police have less powers… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/14 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Join me in sending a calm, civil letter to Ryerson U administrators. They have fined CAFE a $1600 "security fee" for presenting men's human rights speaker Karen Straughan (aka GirlWritesWhat) on campus. I suggest they either abandon the fee or consider an additional approach. CONTACT INFO INSIDE.campus police, iirc Still, campus police in many states are basically regular police. They should operate as such. I'm not sure if that's the case in Washington, but I know it is down here in California. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/14 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Join me in sending a calm, civil letter to Ryerson U administrators. They have fined CAFE a $1600 "security fee" for presenting men's human rights speaker Karen Straughan (aka GirlWritesWhat) on campus. I suggest they either abandon the fee or consider an additional approach. CONTACT INFO INSIDE.Or they'd act like Washington State Campus Police did in 2005 when the University bankrolled a mob that shut down a student's play. The mob threatened the performers, and campus police declined to intervene. Months later, the University eventually stopped defending the mob's actions. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/14 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Join me in sending a calm, civil letter to Ryerson U administrators. They have fined CAFE a $1600 "security fee" for presenting men's human rights speaker Karen Straughan (aka GirlWritesWhat) on campus. I suggest they either abandon the fee or consider an additional approach. CONTACT INFO INSIDE.I'm not sure of a case of this happening to an MRA group in the US. If you know of one, by all means, contact FIRE. They tend to take a content neutral stance on these things. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 09:15 PM |
| 13 | Join me in sending a calm, civil letter to Ryerson U administrators. They have fined CAFE a $1600 "security fee" for presenting men's human rights speaker Karen Straughan (aka GirlWritesWhat) on campus. I suggest they either abandon the fee or consider an additional approach. CONTACT INFO INSIDE.There's a few FIRE cases regarding this happening in the US. It's pretty common in the case of controversial speakers. http://thefire.org/case/766.html http://thefire.org/case/861.html | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 08:42 PM |
| 38 | A Mother, Feminist turns in to MRA when her son is held to standards she fought for.You can check out FIRE's list of cases that show all kinds of stupid shit that happens at colleges. Their guides are also interesting, and their guide to Due Process and Fair Procedure (PDF) is particularly relevant to this discussion. Under the veneer of an "educational process" lies, on most campuses, a relentless adversarial relationship between the student and the disciplinary authorities. This is a well kept secret, because most hearings are closed. To make matters worse, disciplinary tribu… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/14 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Feminist cenorship at it's finest.They're like the Borg of Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/13 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Two college students (male and female) have sex. The next day the woman writes to the man: "I had a wonderful time, but I'm sorry I led you on, I'm not ready for a relationship". One year later: She files a charge of "non-consensual sexual contact" through the college disciplinary system.FIRE post about Vassar's response to Yu's Title IX complaint | /r/MensRights | 17/12/13 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Two college students (male and female) have sex. The next day the woman writes to the man: "I had a wonderful time, but I'm sorry I led you on, I'm not ready for a relationship". One year later: She files a charge of "non-consensual sexual contact" through the college disciplinary system.This is really nothing new. From The Shadow University, written in 1998 by FIRE co-founders Alan Charles Kors and Harvey Silverglate: Under the veneer of an "educational process" lies, on most campuses, a relentless adversarial relationship between the student and the disciplinary authorities. This is a well kept secret, because most hearings are closed. To make matters worse, disciplinary tribunals frequently take up allegations of student misconduct that, if true, not only would violate campus… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/13 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Feminists create employment blacklist in response to satireThere are some really great quotes out there about freedom of speech. Few developments of the past decades have saddened us as much as the erosion of freedom of expression and academic and intellectual freedom at our institutions of higher learning. As campuses diversified, new tensions arose. Rather than meet these tensions head on and in a responsible manner, college administrators instead took the easy way out and relied upon that old tired tactic, censorship... All censorship is predicated o… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Feminists create employment blacklist in response to satireThe video is here | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Feminists create employment blacklist in response to satireFIRE defines a "speech code" as any university regulation or policy that prohibits expression that would be protected by the First Amendment in society at large. Any policy—such as a harassment policy, a student conduct code, or a posting policy—can be a speech code if it prohibits protected speech or expression. Examples of speech codes include: Davidson College's ban on "innuendoes," "teasing," "jokes," and "comments or inquiries about dating." Lake Superior State University's ban on "Postings… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 01:11 AM |
| 14 | Feminists create employment blacklist in response to satireThe problem of free speech and in both society in general and on campus in particular is everyone will say "I believe in free speech, but..." The problem is everyone has a different "but" exemption that they would put on free speech. So the issue really becomes who has the power to enforce their exemptions to free speech while keeping absolute free speech for themselves. There is no exemption for hate speech. There are rightfully protections against harassment, but if a student followed me aroun… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/13 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Feminist blogger: 'I'm not entirely sure how you think calling someone a sad loser doesn't count as libellous'Lara Wolfson, when she was president of the Graduate Student Organization, was criticized on the student government newsgroup by a fellow graduate student, Erik Altmann, for trying to create “graduate student ghettos.” He called her a “megalomaniac.” She accused Altmann of “harassment,” and Dean of Students Michael Murphy accepted the charges, initiating a formal hearing. Wolfson argued that calling a woman a megalomaniac constituted sexual harassment, citing a large body of feminist “victim the… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 04:13 AM |
| 4 | College FreshmanCollege professors push their agendas on their students all over the place. I really wish more professors were like those described by FIRE co-founder Alan Charles Kors when he was talking about his time in college in the 1960s: The people who taught me at Princeton 1960-1964 were probably disproportionately individuals of the left, but none of that was obvious from their curriculum, from their syllabi, or from their teaching. They did not see their task as producing disciples and clones in a cl… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 04:06 AM |
| 1 | College FreshmanThere are core beliefs of thought reform. An individual is not an autonomous moral being, but a member of a racial and historical group that possesses moral debt or credit. There is only one appropriate set of views about race, gender, sexual preference, and culture, and holding an inappropriate belief, once truth has been offered, is not an intellectual disagreement, but an act of oppression or denial. All behavior and thought are "political," including opposition to politicized "awareness" wor… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 03:44 AM |
| 2 | My wife is pregnant. She wants an abortion. I want the baby. What can I do?There really isn't anything you can do, short of convincing her not to have an abortion. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/13 03:11 AM |
| 2 | I'm a victim of false (and statutory!) rape allegation from a girl and the case went the distance and ended in no bill. I am a woman. I need help..Those who exercise power, in any domain, tend to compare their actual power to their ultimate goals, usually concluding from this that they barely have any power at all, and certainly, that they are not abusing what little they have. Further, most of us sadly develop the capacity to treat the suffering, oppression, or legal inequality of individuals or groups whom we see as obstacles to our own goals or visions - or even with whom we merely feel little affinity- as abstractions or exaggerations … | /r/MensRights | 07/10/13 04:59 AM |
| 1 | “Women get to decide, you have to convince them,” perspective. This reinforces the perception that men must somehow prove themselves to women and women must somehow be “won over” by a man to have sex with him. This isn’t consent, it’s mutually reinforced manipulation. (Crosspost from r/sex)This reminded me of a quote from The Shadow University, by Alan Charles Kors and Harvey Silverglate, about the sexual assault policy at Bowdoin College in the 1990s. Bowdoin's rules against "sexual assault" forbid sexual relations under "circumstances in which a person is compelled or induced to engage in a sexual act". Since one is normally "induced" (as opposed to coerced) to have sex by means of a mating ritual that is at least partially verbal, this guideline would appear to make the whole p… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/13 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Canadian feminists are attempting to change the national anthem because they find it offensive.I think "Canada's Really Big" would be pretty hilarious as a national anthem. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/13 05:09 AM |
| 3 | My sister hates the white maleProgramatic differentiation by race is now typical in higher education. Half a century after the defeat of Nazism, our universities distinguish by blood and equate blood with culture. Sixty years after the Nuremburg Race Laws, we ask our students to check off their bloodlines and to act accordingly. The justification for this submergence of the individual into the tribe is the same as it was under Fascism: The individual is a function - politically, morally, and historically - of genetic and cul… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/13 04:55 AM |
| 4 | When feminists say "Misandry doesn't exist"I was going to say, the "facts" of that case seemed suspiciously similar to County of San Luis Obispo v. Nathaniel J. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 04:37 AM |
| 5 | When feminists say "Misandry doesn't exist"53.5% of voters in the 2012 US Presidential election were women. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 04:23 AM |
| 13 | When feminists say "Misandry doesn't exist"Orwell seemed to be a lot more interested in the propensity...to try to manipulate, redefine, and control language - their attempt to redefine concepts out of existence... If you can't communicate, you can't communicate dissent. The same exists with redefining things into existence. Case in point: the "water buffalo" incident at Penn in 1993. Chapter 1 of Alan Charles Kors and Harvey Silverglate's The Shadow University goes even more in depth. What is perhaps most disturbing about this matter is… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 04:15 AM |
| 3 | When feminists say "Misandry doesn't exist"There are core beliefs of thought reform. An individual is not an autonomous moral being, but a member of a racial and historical group that possesses moral debt or credit. There is only one appropriate set of views about race, gender, sexual preference, and culture, and holding an inappropriate belief, once truth has been offered, is not an intellectual disagreement, but an act of oppression or denial. All behavior and thought are "political," including opposition to politicized "awareness" wor… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 04:05 AM |
| 9 | When feminists say "Misandry doesn't exist"Those who exercise power, in any domain, tend to compare their actual power to their ultimate goals, usually concluding from this that they barely have any power at all, and certainly, that they are not abusing what little they have. Further, most of us sadly develop the capacity to treat the suffering, oppression, or legal inequality of individuals or groups whom we see as obstacles to our own goals or visions - or even with whom we merely feel little affinity- as abstractions or exaggerations … | /r/MensRights | 02/10/13 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I'm in a masculinities course, taught with a heavy feminist slant. How can I make it work?You might as well be "that guy". In doing so, you might be able to prompt meaningful discussion which is unfortunately something lacking on many of America's campuses. Too many of us have been conditioned to apologize for words that offend, when open debate is bound to create some offense. Indeed, it should happen. Being offended is what happens when you have your deepest beliefs challenged, and if you make it through four years of college without having your deepest beliefs challenged, you shou… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/13 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Bulletin Board in my Universitynewspeak is more about manipulation and censorship and stifling dissent, and less about, you know, encouraging inclusivity, no matter how petty you think it is. Since at least the mid-1980s, manipulation, censorship, and stifling dissent have been precisely the way college administrators have "encouraged inclusivity" on American campuses through various unconstitutional speech codes which have been challenged and almost universally been overturned all the way to the Supreme Court. A popular misc… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/13 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Discussion on preponderance of the evidence in domestic violence and child custody matters.While the following quote was about the changes in standards for disciplinary cases against college students for sexual harassment, I think it's points are relevant here as well. The preponderance of the evidence standard (roughly 50.01% certainty) is our judiciary’s lowest standard of proof, and does not sufficiently protect an accused person’s right to due process. While this standard is acceptable for lawsuits over money, allegations of sexual violence or sexual harassment are far more seriou… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/13 04:00 AM |
| 2 | The Campus False Accuser Support Act: "it reduces the standard of evidence, and allows for double jeopardy" (SaVE Act)The preponderance of the evidence standard (roughly 50.01% certainty) is our judiciary’s lowest standard of proof, and does not sufficiently protect an accused person’s right to due process. While this standard is acceptable for lawsuits over money, allegations of sexual violence or sexual harassment are far more serious than disputes that can be resolved by transferring money from one individual to another. It is difficult to overstate the harm caused to a student who is falsely convicted of se… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 05:50 AM |
| 3 | The Campus False Accuser Support Act: "it reduces the standard of evidence, and allows for double jeopardy" (SaVE Act)I found this particularly amusing: Who knew that American college students are required to surrender the Bill of Rights at the campus gates? Perhaps she should have been paying attention. Alan Charles Kors and Harvey Silverglate, co-founders of FIRE, wrote a book about that in 1998: The Shadow University: The Betrayal of Liberty on America's Campuses. FIRE was founded in 1999, and has been fighting and winning cases about campus rights violations since then. It's not like this is something new. … | /r/MensRights | 28/09/13 05:42 AM |
| 5 | A recent email: "Hi, As the workplace gender equality agency, can you tell me why there are no men on your management team?"Programatic differentiation by race is now typical in higher education. Half a century after the defeat of Nazism, our universities distinguish by blood and equate blood with culture. Sixty years after the Nuremburg Race Laws, we ask our students to check off their bloodlines and to act accordingly. The justification for this submergence of the individual into the tribe is the same as it was under Fascism: The individual is a function - politically, morally, and historically - of genetic and cul… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Do men take men's rights seriously?Those who exercise power, in any domain, tend to compare their actual power to their ultimate goals, usually concluding from this that they barely have any power at all, and certainly, that they are not abusing what little they have. Further, most of us sadly develop the capacity to treat the suffering, oppression, or legal inequality of individuals or groups whom we see as obstacles to our own goals or visions - or even with whom we merely feel little affinity- as abstractions or exaggerations … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 10:27 PM |
| 4 | My friend (male) is being accused of sexual abuse of his ex. He's been kicked off campus until further notice..What are his right?FIRE's guide to due process on campus | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Christopher Hitchens on censorship, since apparently I'm not gifted enough linguistically to explain why reporting hate speech on facebook is damaging to our cause.Indeed, the correct answer to speech you abhor is bearing witness to what you believe. People often ask me, why should one defend speech that one disagrees with let alone speech that one finds personally abhorrent?... Defending freedom of speech is defending the freedom to speak out in a way that defends the free speech of all. Perhaps someone else's today, but yours tomorrow. We are either all equally free or we are not free. Prof. Alan Charles Kors, FIRE co-founder [A] function of free speech … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Not sure how I feel about this. These t-shirts, when worn by men, objectify women sexually: but when worn by queer women subvert the objectification in a 'brave and assertive way'. I'm so glad to have a student paper telling me this sort of thing.Those who exercise power, in any domain, tend to compare their actual power to their ultimate goals, usually concluding from this that they barely have any power at all, and certainly, that they are not abusing what little they have. Further, most of us sadly develop the capacity to treat the suffering, oppression, or legal inequality of individuals or groups whom we see as obstacles to our own goals or visions - or even with whom we merely feel little affinity- as abstractions or exaggerations … | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 05:25 AM |
| 14 | UK Police Officer: "Now I look back I recall an incident where a man was fatally stabbed by his girlfriend - and I had not recognised this as a domestic crime. I hate to think how we probably arrested some men who were actually the victim because we didn't believe them..."As students avoid being confronted with new ideas in the one place where it's most crucial that they do so, they develop an even greater unreflective certainty that they must be right. The work of Cass Sunstein explores this problem, highlighting decades of research indicating that isolation from diverse points of view can lead to a runaway process of group polarization, extremism, and groupthink. -Greg Lukianoff, Unlearning Liberty: Campus Censorship and the End of American Debate | /r/MensRights | 27/09/13 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I know that advertising is probably never going to be the most egalitarian of industries, but should adverts where "short male = unattractive" be allowed?If we try to legitimately ban anything that can hurt someone's feelings, everyone is reduced to silence. -Greg Lukianoff | /r/MensRights | 15/09/13 08:14 PM |
| 2 | I know that advertising is probably never going to be the most egalitarian of industries, but should adverts where "short male = unattractive" be allowed?Censorship should never be considered the appropriate response to things we disagree with. The problem of free speech in both society in general and on campus in particular is everyone will say "I believe in free speech, 'but' "... The problem is everyone has a different but exemption that they would put on free speech. So the issue really becomes who has the power to enforce their exemptions to free speech while keeping absolute free speech for themselves... Indeed, the correct answer to speech… | /r/MensRights | 15/09/13 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Reddit is waking up to feminist falsehoods by rejecting the myth that men make more money than women for the same work.While this quote was originally referencing unequal application of campus speech and harassment codes (as they're what FIRE deals with on a regular basis), I think it fits well with your feeling that the campaigns you mention seem patronizing. Note very well the signal that sends to women, to blacks, and gays on a campus. Groups which really have struggled to be brought into the circle with the American promise of legal equality. What it says to these groups is we believe that you are too weak t… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/13 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Feminists block doors to Men's Rights lectureToo many of us have been conditioned to apologize for words that offend, when open debate is bound to create some offense. Indeed, it should happen. Being offended is what happens when you have your deepest beliefs challenged . Over the past two decades, the topic of censorship on campus has often been treated as a "conservative issue," because the fact is that socially conservative opinions are the ones most likely to be stifled at colleges and universities today. While many attempts at censors… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/13 05:35 AM |
| 5 | A man is attacked for saying "If you get offended while over at MensRights, you probably either don't understand what they're going through, lack empathy, or can't understand sometimes people say some not so nice things when they're angry."If people believe there is any risk of punishment for stating an opinion, most will not bother opening their mouths; and in time, the rules that create this silence become molded into the culture. -Greg Lukianoff, FIRE President, in his book Unlearning Liberty, talking about "chilling effects" | /r/MensRights | 08/09/13 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Brian Banks doesn't make Atlanta Falcons cutShe was ordered months ago by the LA County Superior Court to pay the school district $2.6 million (2x her settlement amount + $1.1 million in fees) due to her lawsuit the district settled for $750k because the school was allegedly "unsafe". It's not like they'll ever get that money back from her, though. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/13 04:26 AM |
| 17 | An exchange I had with my women's studies professorThis quote is not about men's rights, but I think it's relevant to this issue (if you swapped out some terms, the idea remains the same): Over the past two decades, the topic of censorship on campus has often been treated as a "conservative issue," because the fact is that socially conservative opinions are the ones most likely to be stifled at colleges and universities today. While many attempts at censorship are apolitical, you are far more likely to get in trouble on campus for opposing, for … | /r/MensRights | 31/08/13 02:11 AM |
| 14 | How society and the media view statutory rape depending on the genders involveda point which has been made by many of the judges who handled these cases, who are apparently unaware of what an age of consent means yep County of San Luis Obispo v. Nathaniel J.: Nathaniel J. contends the reserved child support order "is exactly the exploitation which the Legislature intended to prevent" because it inflicts economic loss on a crime victim. He points to the constitutional declaration that "all persons who suffer losses as a result of criminal activity shall have the right to re… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/13 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Who's Too Weak to Live With Freedom? Prof. Alan Charles Kors on His Fight for Free ExpressionCool. FIRE is pretty awesome. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/13 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Who's Too Weak to Live With Freedom? Prof. Alan Charles Kors on His Fight for Free ExpressionIf you're interested, I suggest you check out both FIRE (which Prof. Kors is a cofounder of) and the book Unlearning Liberty: Campus Censorship and the End of American Debate by current FIRE President Greg Lukianoff. Here's a recent comment of mine with some quotes from the book. It's really interesting and a great read. edit: fixed link | /r/MensRights | 16/08/13 04:47 AM |
| 1 | So apparently, women are indeed the primary victims of war and men are combatants and perpetrators of war.I was listening to some music the other day and I think this song is pretty relevant. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/13 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Should single-sex colleges be legal in the United States?Per the decision in US v. Virginia, public colleges which prohibit women from attending are unconstitutional, and creating an "equivalent" female only academy does not constitute equal protection. I personally don't think the government should prohibit private groups from making their own decisions, but I think it would be perfectly reasonable for individuals to decide not to do business with institutions that discriminate. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/13 06:07 AM |
| 2 | 15 year old boy raped. Rapist wins custody of child, and the boy is ordered to pay $25,000 in child support.County of San Luis Obispo v. Nathaniel J. (1996) | /r/MensRights | 14/07/13 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Being a single dad on a road trip with a young son this was a very welcome sight. GGG Mc'DonaldsThe only place I've ever seen a family restroom is at legoland in Carlsbad CA. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/13 08:28 PM |
| 6 | NZ woman rapes 13 year old boy: Cries in court, avoids jail, avoids a fine, can't be charged with rapeI got a ticket from a sheriff's deputy who had no headlights on for having my high beams on at 4AM and failing to dim them fast enough when he turned off a side street. The reason? I failed to dim them when he was <500ft ahead passing in the opposite direction. He was ~50ft away by the time I ever saw him since he had no headlight and there are no street lights in that area. By the time I turned off the high beams, he was directly next to me, and couldn't see them. It's a ~$220 fine | /r/MensRights | 28/06/13 06:31 AM |
| 4 | Are male college students accused of sexual harassment likely to receive fair-minded treatment when 83% of Title IX coordinators are female?From University of Delaware's Residence Life Diversity Facilitation Training information: “A RACIST: A racist is one who is both privileged and socialized on the basis of race by a white supremacist (racist) system. The term applies to all white people (i.e., people of European descent) living in the United States, regardless of class, gender, religion, culture or sexuality. By this definition, people of color cannot be racists, because as peoples within the U.S. system, they do not have the pow… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/13 06:20 AM |
| 9 | I am going to go for a HIV test that obamacare gives women for free. When I am denied the same free service, I will file a federal lawsuit.You spend hours obsessing over feeling resentful and victimized. You've cocooned yourself into a resentful mindset and split the world into good and evil, and now see yourself as a warrior charged with fighting evil. Now you're saying it's time for war and preparing to write a lengthy manifesto. Just be careful. That's a dangerous road you're going down. You make an important point. I think this quote from Greg Lukianoff's Unlearning Liberty: Campus Censorship and the End of American Debate is r… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 03:57 AM |
| 1 | "hot for teacher" journal gets college student expelledFIRE Overview of this case | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Robyn Urback: Student union brands men’s rights groups as ‘hateful’ clubs that ‘justify sexual assault’They can do just about anything discriminatory as long as the intent is to help "disadvantaged groups or individuals" | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Northwestern student gov't nominee's confirmation blocked because he is a ‘heterosexual white male’Here I encounter the most popular fallacy of our times. It is not considered sufficient that the law should be just; it must be philanthropic. Nor is it sufficient that the law should guarantee to every citizen the free and inoffensive use of his faculties for physical, intellectual, and moral self-improvement. Instead, it is demanded that the law should directly extend welfare, education, and morality throughout the nation. -Frédéric Bastiat, "The Law" (1850) | /r/MensRights | 19/05/13 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Girls falsely charge male friend with assault, Judge sets them straightI wonder how beneficial an all volunteer police force would be It already is a volunteer force? Nobody is drafted into law enforcement, at least in the US. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/13 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be an MRA and a liberal at the same time?There are no political parties in the US supporting Men's Rights and feminism and traditionalism have both done considerable damage to Men as a group. I think the Libertarian position on "Personal Relationships" from their platform is about as close as it gets to supporting Men's Rights. It's rather egalitarian Sexual orientation, preference, gender, or gender identity should have no impact on the government's treatment of individuals, such as in current marriage, child custody, adoption, immigr… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/13 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Woman is depressed, refuses to have sex with her boyfriend for a month, he gives her a sad look, she feels guilty and then consents to sex, thinks about it later and believes she may have just been raShit, you could even make a bit of a stretch and have a biblical justification for that. From Matthew 5:27-28 You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery;' but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 04:57 AM |
| 4 | I'm at school and sitting on these benches in a room outside of my class waiting, a girl I know takes a chair puts it in front of me, I put my feet on the chair aand she says she's going to go tell alibel The word you were looking for is liable. liable adjective 1. legally responsible: You are liable for the damage caused by your action. 2. subject or susceptible: to be liable to heart disease. **3. likely or apt**: He's liable to get angry. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 04:49 AM |
| 1 | "We're less on testosterone," Feinstein said. "We don't have that need to always be confrontational. And I think we're problem solvers, and I think that's what this country needs."What a surprise, Diane Feinstein being a horrible person. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/13 05:42 AM |
| 2 | You're an $80k/yr. web designer because we say so!From what I've read in other comments, the savings is from the college fund he didn't use growing over time, not actually working at anything that makes any significant money. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/12 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Mensrights appears to be blocked at my school. Reddit, SRS and the rest are not.The district I went to my final years of high school in is basically killing health class. They took it off the grad requirements just before last year and laid off all but one of the people who taught it at my old high school. It would actually be mathematically impossible for all students to take it over their four year school career at this point. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/12 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Double Standard with workYeah, my friend had fun trying to get his mom to wrap her head around that. She was bitching at him for not going in to apply to places that only let you apply online. She yelled at him because she thought he was playing games when he was filling out applications. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/12 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Romney is a religious nut, and Obama a pro-VAWA misandrist. Who the fuck do I vote for?!Yeah, I'm in pretty much the same boat here in CA. From what I see Johnson is the candidate I agree with most. It's unfortunate that third parties have essentially no chance of winning. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/12 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Double Standard with workMy dad and grandma give me shit about getting a job all the time. My dad has worked at a dead-end job with no benefits for his entire working life (while getting a degree in business management with a minor in accounting, which he doesn't use at all), starting on a part time basis in junior or senior year of high school. He hasn't had a raise in my lifetime (I'm 20), and he makes somewhere around $35k before taxes. My grandma expects that it will be as simple as walking in any store and filling … | /r/MensRights | 11/09/12 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Reddit Example of a Father losing Everything for being a ParentI'm not 100% convinced that those posts aren't some kind of long troll. I've seen some posts by a few people who are apparently veterinarians that don't think the story makes a lot of sense. I'm not saying OP in that post is a liar, but I'm not totally convinced. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/12 05:22 AM |
| 1 | One thing that bothers me most.Commenting to find later. Looks interesting. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/12 06:43 PM |
| 1 | The Case of the Vanishing Black Male Teachers. Only 2% of the nation’s 4.8m teachers are black men. ~80% of public school teachers are female.You might enjoy the book schooled, by redditor deradius. It's a $3 kindle book | /r/MensRights | 28/04/12 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Rejected wife makes false rape claim against her husband. His mobile phone video footage proves it was consensual.It does depend on the state, but afaik more states than not require both parties to consent. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/12 03:42 AM |
| 6 | Rejected wife makes false rape claim against her husband. His mobile phone video footage proves it was consensual.Yeah, he certainly helped himself big time. It's sad that it had to come to that. The wife is clearly an asshole. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/12 10:56 PM |
| 23 | Rejected wife makes false rape claim against her husband. His mobile phone video footage proves it was consensual.In the US he could probably be charged for illegally recording it under wiretapping laws, assuming she wasn't aware he recorded it. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/12 10:43 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend just tried to steal a used condom to impregnate herself and is now threatening to call the police on me. PLEASE Help!unfortunately, that doesn't come across well on the internet in text format. lol, whoops | /r/MensRights | 02/04/12 04:24 AM |
| 4 | My girlfriend just tried to steal a used condom to impregnate herself and is now threatening to call the police on me. PLEASE Help!no, but the internet is, and there are other places with comment threads | /r/MensRights | 02/04/12 04:20 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend just tried to steal a used condom to impregnate herself and is now threatening to call the police on me. PLEASE Help!Google Voice* is great for situations where you would need a voicemail, as you can access it on a computer, and you can download an MP3 of the voicemail that doesn't help at this point, since it's already happened, but is a good idea in the future IMO *Google Voice is not available outside the US. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/12 03:27 AM |
| 8 | No two boys together....Not terribly relevant, but far more girls took AP Physics my senior year of high school than boys. I'm not saying that's the case overall, but that's what it was like. It was probably skewed by the fact that it was required for one smaller program of students. That group was kind of like a "high achieving students" program. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/12 12:03 AM |
| 2 | 10 years ago I made a mistake.Please learn to use punctuation and proper spelling. Also, you're an ass. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/12 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Where can I direct a friend going through a difficult times, with it about to get worse.I don't know if this is relevant: My uncle got a divorce when his wife cheated on him and decided to move out to live with her new boyfriend. She'd fraudulently charged several thousand dollars on my grandma's credit card that my uncle was also on and refinanced his house (which he owned prior to meeting her) without his knowledge. She's mentally unstable (possibly bipolar). He ended up having to pay to fly his daughter up from LA to San Jose to spend time with his ex-wife once or twice a month.… | /r/MensRights | 16/03/12 02:52 AM |
| 5 | A feminist definition of abuse backfiresI know a lot of (white) people whose issue that they'd be looked down on for saying it is just because they feel it's unfair that they would be looked down on for saying, almost solely because they are white. I probably didn't word that well. Basically, they feel that no one should use it (I agree). | /r/MensRights | 14/03/12 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Any good books about this topic?I'm not really sure, I'm not as familiar with this as I'd like, so I'm not really sure. I'm sure it'd be relatively easy to talk about some of the issues listed in the sidebar like false accusations, lacking social support, custody discrimination, and education discrimination. I've pretty much just been lurking here for a month or two. Even if I don't end up doing my essay on this, I'd like to get a better grasp on the issues than I currently have. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/12 06:52 AM |
| 15 | The respected non-partisan Christian Science Monitor writes an article with legitimate criticisms of the Southern Policy Law Center. Saying they use cries of racism and hate to stifle debate and threaten legitimate political movements.If someone raises legitimate concerns, does it matter whether they are affiliated with any specific religion? I'm inclined to think it does not. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Your Rights as a FatherFrom other comments, it seems like a bad place. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/12 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Sexual harassment "expert" talked at my daughter's school today. The kids concluded they were all (both boys and girls) sexual harassers and thought it was hilarious.this is where I got the idea to change the original quote. I got this email from my godmother about 18 months ago. lol dumb people and chain emails | /r/MensRights | 15/01/12 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Sexual harassment "expert" talked at my daughter's school today. The kids concluded they were all (both boys and girls) sexual harassers and thought it was hilarious.Dihydrogen monoxide is the ultimate gateway drug. 100% of people who go on to take any other drugs take dihydrogen monoxide first, which is commonly used as an industrial solvent. We need to ban dihydrogen monoxide to save the children. Won't anybody think of the children? FTFY I made it sound more science-y | /r/MensRights | 14/01/12 02:09 PM |
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