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| 3 | Just Discovered "Gymcel." Seriously considering giving up.I think meditation and reading about the notion of ego is a good first step. Noticing the thought spirals, or cognitive feedback loops is also an important step. Basically once you notice them for what they are their power slightly diminishes already. Rather than an absolute truth with seemingly rigorous predictive validity, you begin realising it’s just a feedback loop that generates a hypothesis that never gets tested, and always gets confirmed. Even (like in ops case) after repeated instances… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/22 04:59 AM |
| 6 | Just Discovered "Gymcel." Seriously considering giving up.Gymcel is a meme popularised on the /fit/ 4chan board. It’s popularly used to denote an incel who decides to start lifting weights, gets jacked but still has autism levels of social game with girls. It’s funny because I think everyone who got into fitness and resistance training from fit or as a way to pave over a bedrock of self esteem issues in early childhood and adolescence has a little part of that archetype they relate with. Like me. You don’t fit that description obviously, but there is a… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/22 12:49 AM |
| 9 | I am clearly doing something wrong.Go in with the genuine intention of having a positive interaction with a stranger. Not even a pretty girl. Anyone. That can involve as much interaction as you feel comfortable, and right now that might not be much. If you want, next time you go to the mall make that your intention. Not sex, not a relationship, nothing needy. Your dependent outcome is that you have a positive interaction with a stranger of any gender and age. Get used to the mere idea of having a short and sweet interaction with … | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | What's the most autist thing you've done when discovering the red pill?This was long before I discovered the red pill but still hyper autistic, and still redpilled in a religious/political/autistic sort of way Be me Be a religious teenager in early high school (middle school age for Americans) Be openly anti hookup culture and anti-drinking and drugs Hang out with cutie in my class a lot She starts getting extra clingy and hangs around me a lot I start to notice something is off but go along with it Her birthday party comes up Oh god oh shit oh fuck she's going to … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some critique on my hinge/text game?There's this cool thing in management theory about the medium of communication. I forget the actual terms but the basic gist is this: Written mail ------------------------------------------------------------ in person. There's your spectrum of communication mediums. On the left you get good clarity, it can be concise, but it's not very rich and can't really convey anything beyond the words and how someone interprets. Use things on the left for messages which require low amounts of information to… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againBasically a bad experience of having a massive panic attack on weed on Nye 2020 may have given me a little panic disorder. A very stressful year, graduating in a pandemic, me dealing terribly with it and making the conscious decision to just plug it all with powerlifting ended in a series of panic attacks towards the end of last year. Left me with heaps of anxiety, depression and unable to sleep for about two - two and a half weeks and other sleep trouble beyond that. ONTO HOW I FOUND SLEEP Long… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Which skills should every man have? Also how to raise testosterone levels naturally.Pick up a sport, pick up a passion or service one, organise your life to an extent where the unnecessary stress that you can most easily get rid of is alleviated. When it's sunny go outside, preferably in the AM and expose as much skin as is comfortable. If it's not sunny still try to get outside in the morning. Try to sleep and rise at the same time, failing that, try rise at the same time every day. You can combine these very easily. There's no cure. This may not work. But it definitely won't … | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againHad about two and a half weeks of basically full blown insomnia. I realised what this poster said at some point. Every night I went to sleep with the mindset of if I sleep great, if I don't, I'll get up and read a book, or journal for a bit. That's what I did, then I went back into bed, if I got worked up and restless because my mind started thinking about not sleeping I'd repeat the above steps. You DO NOT EVER want to associate your bed with anxiety and stress. Get out of that bed and do somet… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being so docile/meek?I don't know man, but you can start with those 'I'm a - ' statements. Or the 'I never x' statements. They're terrible for you and they become a self imposed prison. So an easy start is reflecting on, or mentally catching yourself thinking in those terms about yourself. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Life is in the shitter quitting weed is the start what else should I work on to get back at it?Had the same experience in weed. If you're prone to anxiety/panic attacks, or you're in a somewhat bad way before smoking it it's 'introspective' effect can turn into paranoia and the very real fear of dying that is a panic attack. I wasn't even a regular smoker either, probably the 6th time I'd ever done it. Anyways yeah quit the weed, you wont miss out on much. Weed can literally only fuck you at this point in your life imo | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 6 | I swear to fucking God if one more girl tries to play fight me again I'm going to lose itThai clinch, then make it rain knees. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 08:57 AM |
| – | Guys who actually improved themselves, how did it affect your social life outside of dating? (no high school and college kids allowed in this thread)Outside of dating... Wow. A little background: Lost about 12kgs since around late may/early June this year, I look trim, clothes fit way better, my jawline has come out (all things that people have complimented me on). Along with that of course came me learning how to cook, cutting out almost all added sugar, exercising regularly and getting back into muay thai with the goal of doing competition. I've also significantly cut down on porn use in the past year or so with the aim of going completely… | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 05:53 AM |
| 1 | What if you'll never be naturally funny?I've had many compliments on my humor, from friends, girls who I know were attracted to me, a girl I recently went on my first 2 dates with etc (It didn't work out btw). I'm a decent looking guy, and recently I've really worked on it for my own personal development and have gotten compliments on that also. These are the 2 important ingredients you espouse. Yet... my history with girls is very short. humor is not as important as you think. It helps, and I've only recently realized how muc… | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 08:50 AM |
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