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Anime cons are exceptional! My advice is: 1) Talk with lots of girls (use any excuse for conversation, e.g. taking pictures, admiring costume, making an observation etc.) 2) Find girls that are receptive to you. 3) Begin heavy escalation, if they're not into heavy escalation, find new girl who is. There are TONS of girls around. 4) Pull back to hotel/Find Private Area/Go back to her hotel 5) Close 6) Repeat. It's pretty easy to have multiple lays during a weekend of con going. If you've spent mo…
/r/seduction31/07/12 10:02 PM
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You didn't say a thing that's wrong. You said it exactly as it is. But ultimately it's the same as saying the sky is blue, or that the birds flap their wings. All I wrote on were inner-thoughts and emotional maturity required to get over the problems reality presents.
/r/seduction13/07/12 02:39 PM
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Depends on how she responded back really. An apology can mean a whole lot of things, so without the full context of everything it's hard to give an exact response back. If anything, I'd try to read her emotional state based on the message and consider a contrasting emotion that she would rather be in, and then pull the conservation deeper into meeting up for a screw.
/r/seduction13/07/12 02:32 PM
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And we can pee standing up, and people without legs have more trouble getting around than people with legs. Everyone's got their own problems in life, there's no such thing as "fair", there is only IS. That is the reality we all deal with. Rather than getting upset that someone else doesn't have to deal with the problems we do doesn't solve a goddamn thing, and just works to make a miserable person.
/r/seduction13/07/12 02:28 PM
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Information contained in this video is relevant
/r/seduction13/07/12 02:24 PM
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3) NONE OF THE ABOVE DON'T FUCKING RESPOND/TEXT BACK AT ALL. If she isn't responding, she has a reason. Who the fuck knows what that reason is, but if she has any intention of responding back she will. Chill the fuck out and find something or someone else to do. Make time only for those who make time for you.
/r/seduction12/07/12 08:50 PM
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It becomes easier once you realize, people tend to be messed up in the same ways. The things that screw up a person sexually often come down to a few reoccurring issues. Much of this comes down to an idea of love that views the other person as property to be owned. Other parts are religious/family programming and shame. Then of course there's sexual abuse. This takes less time if you've gone through yourself first and worked on your own sexual hypocrisies. As you do that, you can use the same lo…
/r/seduction12/07/12 08:46 PM
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Then show them through example how to be okay with it. Teach them that they are permitted to their own sexuality that they are the sole authority of. There is a reason that they are not being who they truly are. Cut through the bullshit and help them bring out who they are.
/r/seduction12/07/12 06:25 PM
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Getting over it means that you realize your ego is full of bullshit. The problem is, you're thinking about the problem the wrong way entirely. See: I thought that getting over social anxiety meant no longer having intense reactions/emotions to simple interactions with ppl in public No. It's realizing intense reactions/emotions ARE the reason for having interactions with people in public. That they've moved you so emotionally from their existence that you are compelled to interact with them. If y…
/r/seduction12/07/12 03:55 PM
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I think it's best to say nothing when you're "done". You shouldn't be ending your text conversations with anything other than meeting up with the other person. Everything else is mid-conversation. They should be filled with open loops of conversation that other person wants to complete. ALWAYS leave them wanting more.
/r/seduction12/07/12 02:49 PM
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To be honest, most men in this society tend to have a passive-aggressive sexuality as well. The only way I've found around this that's worked consistently is presenting a attitude/frame/environment of non-judgmental acceptance. Be okay with your own sexuality, and the sexuality of others. By doing this you'll make it so the passive-aggressive person feel more comfortable dropping their bullshit, and being more of themselves without the apprehension.
/r/seduction12/07/12 02:42 PM
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I don't believe most ppl feel fear and anxiety to the extent i do in common situations like eating along in public, speaking in class, looking at an attractive member of the opposite sex, looking a stranger in the eyes and smiling, approaching anyone I think you've got a lot to learn about the majority of people. Most people really do feel those fears and anxieties the same way you do. Not in my case, even during the rare moment when i do one of the aforementioned things (smiling at strangers, m…
/r/seduction12/07/12 02:31 PM
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This comes from my experiences. Though I don't have a wife, so it might be different for you. Present an attitude of sexual openness and non-judgementalness. Those friends who are sexually open to such ideas will chime in on sexual openness as well. These are the ones that will be down for fun. Once identified, set up a scenario of seduction. Simply set up something non-sexual where you, your wife, and the other girl can connect, and then begin the seduction. Make sure to have lots of time for y…
/r/seduction10/07/12 07:42 PM
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Part 1 Large city = lots of opportunities off campus College in large city = lots of opportunities on campus, but dorm life will be less important the more downtown the campus is Honestly, YOU ARE A MUSICIAN! Find a community of like minded musicians. Develop your musical abilities by creating music that you truly love. Expose yourself to new forms of music. Go to shows and events that have the sort of music you enjoy, and be open to new shows. Become a more interesting musician. Part 2 Learn to…
/r/seduction10/07/12 04:00 PM
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You haven't learned how to appreciate the existence of others yet. Understand, you've made yourself into something awesome. You love yourself. You are a gift. You will be happiest when you find something that makes you feel happy to know that it just exists, and that you can give yourself to it as a gift. That is where happiness lies in this. Let yourself feel the emotions and feelings you have for others entirely selfishly. Do it because it makes you happy, not because it makes anyone else in t…
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:17 PM
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I think you have to come to terms with the fact that fear and anxiety are perfectly normal emotions. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THE WAY YOU ARE FEELING! IT IS NORMAL TO FEEL THIS WAY. Your emotions are telling you, "HOLY SHIT THIS IS A NEW SITUATION! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! WHAT IF I FUCK UP! WHAT DO I SAY, OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD" Because you're in a whole new unfamiliar situation you've never conquered before. The thing is, you CAN'T get rid of this emotion. If anything be happy that you have s…
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:09 PM
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I had to learn that I had no clue how to love something. Real love comes from appreciation, not supplication. Most people will never be able to feel this. See I find that whenever I try to compliment a girl or make even the slightest bit of advance I freak out because I feel like I'm sumbitting to them and allowing them to have control over me. It makes me feel weak. This comes from supplicating yourself, your being, so that you can get a response back from the girl. You AREN'T BEING YOU. At a c…
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:54 PM
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There's only one reason I don't seduce women with boyfriends anymore. I don't like having my shit ruined, my life threatened, my money stolen, or dealing with punk ass boyfriends who can't get over the fact their girls like jumping on my dick. It only takes one emotional dude with a gun to coax my address out of his cheating girlfriend to figure out where I live. And I can really only talk so many dudes out of attacking me before one of them decides, "fuck listening to you", and goes for the kil…
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:59 PM
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The important part of reading any seduction material is kind of understanding who it's meant for. The above comment is meant for a newbie. Higher level "game" is actually somewhere on the level of enlightenment. See As you improve, you experience a fluidity to interactions and an assertive dominance over outcome. That's about appropriate once you've been through the grind once or twice. See schnerdo loser dudes with relationships And about 98% of the time, they're not really IN anything meaningf…
/r/seduction01/06/12 04:27 PM
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Game. There is no free. Either pay. Or learn how to turn women on so they'll want to fuck you by learning how to be an attractive man.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 07:16 PM
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How long are you going to let the lies that they told you in your childhood define the person you are today?
/r/MensRights07/05/12 08:20 PM
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That's kind of the problem though. You don't think you're awesome, but have you ever taken a second to look at how you've defined being awesome? I think if you reflect on it, you'll find your opinion on awesome has more to do with what you've told awesome is rather than what you find awesome to be. Only you get to decide on what awesome really is for you. This is why I am for Men's Rights. This is why I am for Women's Rights. This is why I am for Individual Rights. Because I refuse to live in a …
/r/MensRights07/05/12 07:49 PM
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I don't have girlfriends either. Not because I'm not a 'traditional man', but because I refuse to use traditional labels like 'girlfriend'. Live by your own creed, your own standard, and only accept those who accept you for who you truly are, not what they wish you could be. As a MGTOW, I understand that EVERYONE in society has an opinion on how I "should" be living, but ultimately they're not the ones living with that decision, I AM. No one, not even if they have a vagina, has the authority to …
/r/MensRights07/05/12 05:55 PM
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Oh man! Looks like men have to "MAN-UP" to this standard, or else men suck. It's so great being a man, and being told you're worthless because you're not living up to someone else's standard.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 02:29 PM
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I'm very much an advocate of MGTOW. Men Going Their Own Way. What this means is you find your own path in life, and you refuse society dictate to you what your way is. Self-determination.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 02:21 PM
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In the defense of the couple I'm speaking of, 20 years ago, they would've been around 2-3 years old.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 09:08 PM
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Not all of them. But I'll take atonement on an individual basis.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:53 PM
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Indeed. Hypoagency essentially works as using the agency of others by using passive-aggressive manipulation to have their will done. The obvious example of this is when feminists claim that women have no agency over their own lives. Feminists can then shame men into being white knights for their causes by claiming that as victims, they need to be helped. Feminists NEED for women to be perceived as being the weakest most vulnerable being possible so that they can continue getting their way and pr…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 04:09 PM
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I think this is a good way of dealing with it. REMEMBER WE ARE PROMOTING OUR IDEAS, AND WE ARE WINNING MINDS. I know we suffer a whole lot of abuse, and have a whole lot of rage about our circumstances. It comes out in all sorts of ways. A lot of which are legitimate when it comes to acknowledging just how bad we have it. A lot of it venting so that we can fix our own emotional health. But all of which do not further our cause. Because when you're dealing with someone who calls themselves a "fem…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 04:02 PM
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rightsbot really should win reddit though. rightsbot is fighting for all of us. rightsbot will always do it's duty to protect the rights of men.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 03:51 PM
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Indeed. And the reason WHY they can't acknowledge that men have any legitimate issues on par with their own is because of hypoagency. Those feminists who cannot acknowledge that men can be victims as well, do so because they would lose their victim status or that it would be lowered and their ability to have society do as they wished would be lessened. Those who take the partisan feminist stance are those who are hungry for power. Not for equality.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 03:47 PM
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I can understand how you feel that way. I felt the same way myself. Until I saw a couple I thought were a complete feminists essentially challenging the idea of men having to "MAN-UP" for women, and exposing how it was hypocritical and wrong to define manhood and being a good man as "giving benefit to women". They essentially said, "Fuck feminism that holds a double standard. We are egalitarians" I know it's rough when you're stuck in the manosphere and most of the people you end up talking with…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 03:42 PM
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I think this shame makes perfect sense though. Think about it. These women believe all men contribute to a rape culture. For them to say that, and to say that "all men are like that", they would have to say, yes to. Shame them:- "Do you think you fathers, brothers, grandfathers think like that? Do you think Mr. [teachers name] thinks that?" and "Have you told your boyfriends what you think of them?" And seriously... it's kind of a really shitty belief to have, and something you should really be …
/r/MensRights01/05/12 03:29 PM
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I think us MRAs can kind of learn a lot from this. I mean, look. If you want to "BEAT" feminism, you're not going to do it with MRA partisan logic. You're going to have to deal with it from an egalitarian viewpoint. If you want to know why Mensrights is actually becoming palatable to the mainstream, it's because there's a force working in the mainstream partisan feminist movement, and that force is egalitarianism. In main part because feminism was able to get people who were egalitarian to go al…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 03:22 PM
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It's probably because it's what ALL of us awkward dudes got told growing up in regards to deal with bullying. There wasn't a special council, or some advocacy group, there were just people there to tell you what a useless and horrible person you were for not being emotionally tough enough to take the abuse that you were being given on a daily basis. JUST MAN UP!!! (I guess all that privilege is supposed to protect a poor kid's heart and soul from being crushed for not "fitting in" every day.)
/r/MensRights25/04/12 02:47 PM
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Jeez, I almost wonder if next we'll be told to "MAN-UP!!!" Hey guys, I'm being bullied! Good thing I can just summon my "MAN-UP!!!!" powerz and transform into a man, which means that abuse will no longer effect me! Because as a man, I'm not supposed to FEEL anything. I'M AN EMOTIONLESS ROBOT! BEEP-BOOP! Right? (Guess what I got told my whole life being bullied in school. JUST GOTTA MAN-UP TO ESCAPE THIS SUICIDAL DEPRESSION!!!)
/r/MensRights24/04/12 04:07 PM
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I am kind of happy right now. Serious props. I'm happy people can actually understand what we're talking about. As an MRA, it's kind of been rough. I've been pretty involved for a long time. Yes, just shouting back on message boards and posting comments... But our points are finally getting across, and it kind of brings a huge tear to my eyes
/r/MensRights24/04/12 04:02 PM
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