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Same as male birth control not getting to market past clinical trials because of the negative side effects...which included weight gain, mood swings, and fatigue...but remember about 10 years ago when women were dying from Yaz?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:30 PM
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HA! ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:23 PM
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Y’all are so kind. I cannot understand people calling FDS toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:22 PM
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I’ve heard people say this kinda shit on plantation tours 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:21 PM
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God, I wish I’d spent my 20’s doing real important work, I hate to disappoint you but this was almost a decade ago when I was a lonely small town radfem teenager. I shortly thereafter fell in with a psychopath and threw my dignity away with both hands. Finally coming out of it hopefully to at least save my daughter from a similar fate. Save your praise for someone who deserves it ;) I’m just a recovering pick me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:51 AM
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Sorry I realize that sounded misleading. This was back in school, instead of going to uni I got knocked up by an abuser🍻cheers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:07 AM
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1995 Dennis Lee Hellar “wanted to get his wife ‘permanently committed’ by making it look as if ‘she was taking antifreeze intentionally.’ Prosecutors aren’t specifying a motive, but [sic] said Hellar had a girlfriend during the marriage.″
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:04 PM
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FGM was the main focus of my senior thesis. The judges hadn’t even heard about it before and were shocked and appalled, one had to be excused. I can’t imagine how disgustingly privileged and so far removed from reality you’d have to be to even utter such nonsense. It’s a slap in the face to survivors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:14 PM
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Singing my song...honestly it’s embarrassing 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:08 PM
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Everyone remember the guy that killed his wife by putting increasing amounts of antifreeze in her Gatorade for years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:57 PM
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How long have you been hunting me?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:10 PM
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FDS be like 🎵🎶he's just a wildly unlikeable guy! You're fine, you're fine, you're fiiiiiinnee🎶🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:07 PM
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When men start having their feet broken and bound into clubbed shapes, when they start dying in droves after botched plastic surgeries to adhere to beauty standards, when so many men start starving themselves that is becomes a public health crisis, when male circumcision includes cutting off the head of the penis therefore removing their only means of receiving sexual pleasure such as is the case in FGM, when it becomes common place for them to willing cause irreparable damage to their bodies ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:48 PM
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Wwoooahhhh! Omg don’t pull punches on our account 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:34 PM
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Probably also his idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:26 AM
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SWU is rough. A friend of mine from work recommended it after we started relating the politics of racism to sexism which I think inspired a lot of eye opening on both sides as we’re both radically minded in our own respective subjugations. One of the only HVM friends I’ve had. Off topic, but I remember one conversation we had when a customer started prattling on about how he only dates white women because “black women run their mouths too much” or some such nonsense and asked me if I was feeling…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:52 AM
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He's spittling constantly. I feel like my fucking face is wet. Lmao first time he’s ever made a woman feel wet...probably why he’s so worked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:34 AM
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Man all the other ridiculous planning and dressing up and jumping through hoops that she’s already doing just to entertain this guy like she’s your fucking wife not your personal circus clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:24 AM
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Uuugghh god I can actually see myself why y’all gotta work up my ptsd??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:32 AM
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Why because his behavior is so bizarre it could only be part a case study? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:18 AM
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Marx was staunchly anti-prostitution he saw it as a case study of the evils of capitalism and that it would not exist without class oppression. Ya boi’s not only a wanker and a liar but also completely unaware of the political stance he claims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:10 AM
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Lol “news” oh BBC you sure are cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:03 AM
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Anyone who thinks a majority of women are "happy to be doing this" is an idiot and out of touch with being a fucking decent human. No one has to even think maybe prostituted women are happy because we’ve asked them and they’ve told us! This study (which validates every single thing Dines says) found that 89% of the 854 women interviewed wanted to escape prostitution, but did not have other options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:31 AM
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What did he get bored with serial killing and is ready to settle down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:51 AM
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Not everything about female culture was created by men but it has all been diluted by men into performativity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:06 AM
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Came here for this ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:02 AM
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Ruthless bitchiness is HAWT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:02 AM
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:02 PM
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Might have been Pornography: Men Possessing Women or Letters from a War Zone, her autobiography, cuz she talks a lot about the future. I’ll try to find a concise quote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:38 PM
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Dworkin literally warned us this was going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:59 AM
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Prostitution, sexual labor, and reproductive labor are the capitalist manifesto. The quote “privileged” sex workers are just scabs to female liberation. But there’s really no such thing as even if a woman agrees to have sex for money by “free choice” when she does not desire that person then her body and brain are still experiencing rape. She’s just tricking the trauma into another compartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:21 AM
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I’ve just finished it and thought it was pretty accurate as a case study of narcissistic manipulation. The scenes with his mother in Paris were very good where she talks about him mimicking love. I also just finished Bitter Daisies which was a bit silly at times but I think is a pretty stark portrayal of the reality of modern prostitution. And Broadchurch also expresses some radfem positions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:14 PM
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This absolute fucking narcissist goes on to say he didn’t pick up subtle clues of non-consent because of lacking sex education, after saying that she’d said no and pushed his hand away?? Nah, they’re just scared about being called out post “Me Too” so they’re trying to do damage control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:09 PM
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I’ve heard similar justifications for porn and stripping from the same “feminist” men who call women who only date men with careers, “gold-diggers.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:36 AM
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Far worse, it’s Pavlovian. It doesn’t just desensitize men to female suffering, it trains them in sexual objectification, creates a trauma/arousal response which decreases the capacity for intimacy, but it then reinforces these brain connections by rewarding them with a rush of dopamine at climax. It’s a propaganda drug designed to addict men to woman-hating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:58 AM
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Consensualist? Sensie for short. Emphasis on informed consent, sex being enjoyable for women, and bringing back sensuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:17 PM
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Them Ron Swanson types are the real mvp’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:53 PM
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These are the same trolls calling FDS homophobic while they stereotype and fetishize lesbian and bi women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:08 PM
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And then someone cuts you down with a chainsaw lolol 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:38 PM
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Even if it wasn’t already rape without the victim being intoxicated, the fact that she was under the influence would then make it rape because she was unable to give consent. It’s a double negative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:24 PM
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Well all his posts are about wanting anonymous sex and doing psychedelic drugs...so either he’s typing with one hand while jerking off or he’s hiiiiigggghhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:46 PM
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Aaaahahahaaa!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:36 PM
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DM me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:51 PM
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Dines has such a visceral bluntness in her deconstruction it’s too real, I feel a little retraumatized after watching that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:59 PM
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Lol no worries boo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:42 PM
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Ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:26 AM
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Cattle don’t owe the farmer shit for giving them a field to graze in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:24 AM
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I call this the NVX checklist 😬✍️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:49 AM
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Look up the Mosuo people of China. Matriarchal communal ethnic tribe that have no prisons, no concept of paternity, speak their own language that does not even have words for rape, war, or murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:25 PM
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I don’t usually think about anyone or a body. Usually it’s just me thinking about the pleasure itself and connection to my own body. Unless I’m into someone and then I’ll sometimes think about them but it’s things like their voice, the way they carry themselves, their smell, or how they feel, not just how they look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:18 PM
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Lmaooo we got some true wordsmiths in this sub 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:12 PM
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Props on coining the term “PC Predator” which y’all need to get on trending
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:46 PM
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Libfems: “Men should stop telling us to smile” “Yes” Libfems: “Porn is empowering, some women enjoy it. Look she’s smiling.” “...wait” Dworkin’s ghost busts in “In addition, pornography is invisible in its harm to women because women are poorer than men and many of the women exploited in pornography are very poor, many of them are illiterate, and also because there is a great deal of female compliance with brutality, and the compliance is based on fear, its based on powerlessness and it is based…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:36 PM
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Same thing here. The girl my ex cheated on me with was at a house partying of mine once and was gonna ride home with a guy who’d been accused of rape. Offered to drive her an hour home, told her it didn’t matter if they were friends that her safety was more important than his reputation, she refused and left with the guy. When I found out she’d had sex with my ex before this even happened I told her I didn’t hold her responsible and to be careful because he was dangerous, was having full on drug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:26 PM
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Had an ex constantly pick at me about my nipples. I breastfed for 2 years because I wanted to give my kid the best start in health and brain development. Sorry no one did the same for him....🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:26 PM
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There’s no such thing as female sexual empowerment until the words “letting him” are no longer used
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:02 PM
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Yeah I watched them back when they did reaction videos and called out Elsa-Gate and that was all fun and watchable but ever since they blew up and he started the podcast his narcissism really came out full force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:12 PM
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DAMN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:28 AM
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☝️Although lesbians are able to have purely platonic respectful friendships with other women because they see them as people unlike men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:20 PM
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Or they understand consent they just think that we don’t, because they know just how much we’ve been groomed for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:08 PM
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Women’s sexuality and sexual expression has been so high jacked and perverted by men that they’ve convinced whole governments that it’d somehow be normal or likely that a 13 year old girl would give informed and enthusiastic consent to having casual sex with multiple grown men? What is this Red Light Disney?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:02 PM
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And honestly it’s such a shame that it’s like that for the women that do want children or those who had no choice. It should be challenging but rewarding, with a real partner by your side it would be beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:48 PM
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It’s been shown in psychological studies that when anger is taken out on an inanimate object that it doesn’t quell frustration but rather heightens it and increases the likelihood of committing real violence. And they think taking it out on living human beings is a viable solution to a problem that these men have themselves fabricated?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:40 PM
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Misogynistic men are extremely dangerous. END
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:32 PM
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He better be ready to step up as an advocate and go to bat for you in dealing with all the health professionals and obstetricians. Neglect and malpractice are rampant when it comes to pregnant women. He needs to make certain your needs are being met in every way especially since you’ve already been traumatized before. Good luck to you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:26 PM
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No the clit. The clit the clit theclittheclitclitclit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:05 PM
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Came here to say this ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:49 PM
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Okay then! Walks in with 6 guys on her arms, lady-pimp style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:38 PM
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No man has ever made me cum of his own skill. I’ve hit that shit 12x in a row solo 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:33 AM
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🤲🤲🤲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:30 AM
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My heart aches for what you’ve been through. I can’t imagine how terrifying and harrowing that must have been to handle alone. I’m so glad someone is making you feel safe and loved now. And know that you’re also safe and loved here with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:42 AM
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Even in the case of these supposedly privileged women choosing to “experiment,” when you’re constantly fed sexist propaganda about your worth being defined by how fuckable you are from childhood how is conceding really an informed choice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:29 AM
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Where the fuck were you 10 years ago? *laughs *cries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:22 AM
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https://www.lelo.com/sona-2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:25 PM
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Athleticism! Endurance! Strength! Health! Longevity! Power! Self-discipline! Yes! 🍑? That’s a fruit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:49 PM
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Eh, you know what I meant lol “body sculpting”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:38 PM
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The thing is I don’t really think that they actually find these women ugly. In conversation I’ve gathered that most men find most women attractive so long as they’re relatively healthy, they just don’t want to admit it to other men unless the woman is conforming to beauty standards. It’s not the style itself that’s appealing so much as the submission. If all of us stopped shaving and working out and using beauty products they’d still take us as is 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:21 PM
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I’m so sorry for the loss of your loved one and for the loss of someone who clearly loved you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:42 PM
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Exactly, the core of the issue is that women have to “earn” the bare minimum while men “deserve” the absolute premium by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:39 PM
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And may they stay that way 🤲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:45 AM
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Fixed it- “[Women are prostituted] to absorb male violence and sexual entitlement” “Incels... don’t view [prostituted women] as people” My god. The cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:46 AM
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Excellent. In addition to being used for our bodies we’re also punished for the body’s natural response to abuse. The brain is even altered as a response to this trauma which in intense fight/flight situations is recorded in the brain stem. Skips the logical frontal lobe and goes straight to the part which keeps your lungs breathing, the heart beating, the center of survival. The fact that we’re subjected to both personal and societal exploitation repeatedly throughout our lives and are still mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:40 AM
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Coincidentally rates of sexual assault have risen during Covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:34 AM
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What about an FDS intro sub where the Handbook is posted and just some good cross posts? The members can feel free to post in this space unapologetically and the other shows what we’re about. Sounds like a lot of work for mods though... I’m just spit balling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:08 AM
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Men don’t care about whoever is left to clean it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:53 PM
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Thoughts on the linked article? I wanted to spark a discussion about how female pain is contextualized as anything other than a first hand experience. Whereas masculinity is associated with productive pain, femininity seems defined by destructive pain. A father’s pain might be the burden of responsibility, the exhaustion of earning, whereas a mother’s pain is best represented by reproduction. One is mental, one is physical, yet which is seen as powerful? Which one pays? The pain of childbirth is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:59 PM
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Maybe from the misogyny of men not from the internalized misogyny of women. But when a man deals with a woman he doesn’t want to fuck he uses active aggression, with a woman he wants to possess he uses passive aggression. Either way, aggression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:33 AM
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There’s also a correlation of middle aged/older men fathering children with autism Edit- This is by no means my expressing the viewpoint that people with autism are lesser or undesirables. Just that women are historically burdened with reproductive faults and quote unquote “defects” eg. Henry VIII’s infertility and stillborn male heirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:09 PM
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Sometimes it seems like men don’t really enjoy sex aside from getting off. But the reality of it, the natural biological rawness and the intense chemical experience of it they’re tapped out of. It’s bizarre. They’re so removed from reality it’s like everything is on the other side of a screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:45 AM
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Imagine getting turned on because you genuinely like someone and they’re good to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:11 PM
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Don’t know why you’re being downvoted for this. Just because he’s teaching her to demand respect from romantic partners for the internet to give him asspats doesn’t mean he’s such a great guy. Also yeah she’s very young so maybe don’t train her to think romance is all that important to begin with..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:54 PM
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She’s apologizing for assuming cuddling is normal after sex... Sooo female separatism anyone????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:50 PM
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Also something referencing that they’re all “Libertarians”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:14 AM
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Okrrrt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:36 AM
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Oh man I just woke up to this whole damn sub being on their GAME today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:44 PM
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Coincidentally one of my biggest fears is being falsely accused of being someone who deserves to be raped...oh wait...already there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:29 PM
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Same whenever guys moan and bitch about “false rape allegations” and how it could “ruin a guys life” they don’t like when I say, “stop having casual sex then so there’ll be fewer chances you could be accused” 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:18 AM
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“You haven’t made any real plans to see me in a week. I feel like I’m not important to you.” “dO yOU hAve ANy iDEa hoW inSigNIfiCanT tHat MAkeS mE feeL??”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:54 PM
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Had this moment when I was watching Hamilton and thinking about Eliza, he goes off and has a career away from her, she takes care of the house and the kids, he cheats on her, she forgives him, and then after he dies she carries on his legacy like WOOOW it must be so nice to be a man. Imagine trusting your wife to completely raise your children without you while you go off and follow your ambition and do whatever the fuck you wanna do and she sticks by your side and then you can even trust her to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:35 PM
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How the fuck are men being dehumanized by using US as objects???? INSERT DWORKIN QUOTE: Men often react to women’s words—speaking and writing—as if they were acts of violence; sometimes men react to women’s words with violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:37 AM
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I wonder if it’s like a coping strategy. Like desperately clinging to some semblance of control or power so that she (women like this in general) doesn’t have to acknowledge how deep the well is. Guess it’s a lot easier to be a scab and grasp whatever tokens of validation are available than to dedicate the mental labor of sitting in the reality of how insidious and prevalent sexism is in every aspect of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:16 PM
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Well even outside of reaching climax if the guy doesn’t excite you, doesn’t make you feel safe, comfortable, beautiful, ever makes you feel weird or insecure or treats sex as a means to an end rather than a way to explore physical connection and intimacy and vulnerability — dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:35 PM
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“It didn’t mean anything” means that you don’t mean anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:58 PM
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It’s violating to realize after that they didn’t even see you as human
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:59 PM
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No.1 reason for my intentional celibacy- I’m to the point that I don’t wanna give them anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:17 AM
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Man I don’t wanna see this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:42 PM
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This is also a tricky area because of the 2nd wave feminist movement’s history of support of gay rights. Until very recently anything non-heteronormative was deemed perverse or seen as a mental illness to the point of excusing abuse as treatment (corrective rape). It makes sense that the feminist movement embraced gay rights because patriarchy is reenforced through homophobia. But now the conflation of sexual orientation to feminism (biological sex based politics) is being misappropriated to aff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:13 PM
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I hate that she feels the need to put in the generic “not kink-shaming” pandering at the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:18 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s blatant brutal sexual assault. They think women like being raped because they’re addicted to videos of women being raped and pretending to like it for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:57 PM
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Jeez did we date the same dude??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:19 PM
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A while back a man was expressing to me that he loved his girlfriend by saying he would “give her a child” I had to stop myself from spitting at him. A man does not give a woman a child. A woman gives a man a child. A woman gives a man himself. A woman gave everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:26 AM
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Aside from the obvious horror at this... dude’s only 28????? He looks fuggin rough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:04 AM
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Someone call Dennis Feinstein
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:57 AM
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So let’s use an example here of women who are ‘good’ in bed- women in porn. The women I’ve seen in porn for the vast majority are not active participants outside of giving head and even that is most of the time controlled by the male actor. The women pose in different positions and make sounds as things are done to them. ‘Good in bed’ mean ‘let a man do whatever and pretend to orgasm’ lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:54 PM
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If by “it” you mean a very creative list of ways to murder....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:19 AM
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Really needed this after finding out my ex might have drugged a girl at a bar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:46 PM
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It’s because I haven’t fully made up my mind to quit lol. When I found out I was pregnant it was easy, immediate cold turkey, because I had to. It wasn’t until years later when things fell apart that I started back. I think I use it as a form of self harm so I’m trying to get help and level up out of this shitty chapter in my life ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:26 PM
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The irony here. “I’m a woman and I love porn” I’m a woman and I love cigarettes but they’re a waste of money, have ruined upholstery and clothing, and are slowly killing me, and I wish I’d never tried them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:03 AM
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Yup yup ☝️2-5x more likely to be murdered when pregnant. It’s funny I’m on FDS but I’m honestly leaning more towards female separatism by the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:15 AM
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Also people who idolize Walter White 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:37 PM
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Also it’s an uninspired choice for a favorite film. So many shots and themes taken from Ghost in the Shell, and still not nearly as good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:36 PM
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Also the aforementioned group’s social vulnerability make men think they’re easy targets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:53 PM
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I can’t even see a clip of him without blubbering like an idiot lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:26 PM
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I wholeheartedly second Mr. Rogers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:45 AM
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Off topic- Odyshape is a great feminist album by the art rock band The Raincoats. I highly recommend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:01 AM
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NEVER AGAIN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:16 AM
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I’ve come so close to telling guys that they’ve got a track record of maybe 3% of me reaching orgasm during sex. And most of the time that was me getting on top and doing it myself without their help. I just don’t have the heart lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:01 PM
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Lol I had an ex of mine recently try to get back together and I somehow convinced him to buy me a very expensive vibrator and then told him no after it arrived 🥸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:02 AM
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Sad thing is if you look at mass shootings and the police reports on their internet search history leading up to the shooting- porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:00 AM
3

Spoiler warning: he didn’t learn to satisfy women through watching porn... they’re all faking it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:58 AM
6

Quick search of the profile history shows consistent evidence to the contrary. She’s promoting body positivity. Chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:37 AM
10

Get a big cuddly puppy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:35 PM
17

“Excuse me WHAT” made me choke on my spit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:31 AM
6

Fuckin GET IIIIIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:48 AM
7

Loooove her! My 7 year old is obsessed with her and plays ‘Li Ziqi’ outside chopping up wild onions and flowers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:39 AM
9

The sad truth about women ‘embracing/expressing their sexuality’ is that women have no true sexuality that isn’t free of brainwashing by male objectification. We’ve been living in a state of societal Stockholm syndrome for so long we don’t even know ourselves outside of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:04 AM
8

I love the bottle of crisco on the side like it’s part of the meal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:05 PM
15

Made the mistake of telling an ex about my mental illness and ptsd. Once a panic attack that was so bad I was having auditory hallucinations and he called it abusive of me and that I was making excuses for my behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:59 PM
11

Gender motivated murder, rape, mutilation. Yet no one dares call it a ‘hate crime’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:54 PM
150

Don’t get caught up in talking about it or trying to make him understand that you’re hurt. He doesn’t care he’s not going to care. It’s just going to push you to the point that it makes you feel crazy. Get away from him and block him as you’re going through divorce proceedings. Cut it off cold turkey so you don’t get caught in a cycle of trying to leave and going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:21 PM
1

Jesus I can’t like this is heart breaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:41 AM
405

Put him in a pan and launch him off the balcony
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:48 PM
4

Lol “you’re against certain aspects of society yet... you’re a member of society” Neck meet beard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:20 PM
13

Bahahaha and the quiet socially inept guy with a thing for Dee in this episode ended up being a serial killer and cannibal 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:04 PM
57

“Sex is a need” but god forbid you give a woman who genuinely wants you and cares for you real orgasms or romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:09 AM
9

“I get a lot of confidence from sex... I’m so used to people looking at me like a woman... I have these gigantic boobs, no ones appreciating them!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:42 PM
18

Every person enjoys good sex. Like who doesn’t like an orgasm. It’s just that you’re not serving them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:21 PM
7

Had a GP in her mid thirties withhold my birth control prescription when I was 18 because I wouldn’t have a Pap smear. Had a baby at 19....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:41 PM
3

I had an orthodontist in high school that would work on my braces without wearing a mask. I’d ask him to wear a mask as I was having to stare up his nose with my mouth wide open and he’d go into this big spiel about how dentists wear masks because they’re dealing with blood and performing surgery and stuff. Got to the point where I was like fucking 15 going, I’m sitting in this chair until you wear a mask. He’d get all huffy but finally started wearing one making sure to be extra dramatic when h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:31 PM
35

Grover Cleveland 22nd/24th President 1885 “Cleveland began courting a widow, Maria Halpin. She later accused him of raping her. He accused her of being an alcoholic and consorting with men. In an attempt to discredit her, he had her institutionalized, and their child taken away and raised by his friends. The institution quickly realized that she did not belong there, and released her. The illegitimate child became a campaign issue for the GOP in his first presidential campaign.” One of the oppos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:50 AM
2

It’s not sad. Never apologize. It’s sad to wait for someone to give you the things you deserve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:54 PM
30

I think it’s a Jewish myth if my memory serves. In some versions she was turned into a snake by god and was the one that tempted Eve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:42 PM
3

bUt I wAnT tO maKe sUrE sHe EnJoYs iT tOo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:57 PM
22

They use this same argument when justifying rape🤔 Humans evolved in such a way that the chance of a baby surviving into maturity is much higher with a present, attentive father. We don’t have litters where some are likely to survive even when they are raised solely by the mother. Always talking about nature and forget turtle doves, penguins, gibbons, swans, gray wolves, and other animals mate for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:05 PM
17

YES. When being thicc finally became popular for white women I had many friends start to put down thin girls with their newfound status of top-bootlicker and it irked me to no end. All bodies are beautiful in their own way, all bodies are valid, at the end of the day the body is just the medium through which your soul interacts with the physical world. Leave these 2D men and women in the dust 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:59 PM
7

Lionsong—Björk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:09 PM
119

I don’t think having a man’s delicate member between your teeth, between your jaw with it’s 126lbs of bite force per square inch, is being submissive lol that’s a position of power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:24 PM
20

Lol I thought so too when I first heard it but idk we’re so over saturated with sex it was nice to hear it so sacredly put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:28 PM
2

I would much rather not have what I want, than keep that which I am sure I do not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:36 AM
3

Favorite bit about this is “how feminist is it to crave inferiority to your man?” Women have earned less men since the beginning of time in every field except pornography... because we are inferior... how lucky for us now that we can choose to date the unemployed and finally smash that glass ceiling... what a feminist 👏👏👏 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:46 PM
1

Brutal OPINIONS, brutal PREJUDICES, brutal ENTITLEMENT, brutal SELFISHNESS. Fuck outta here. Don’t know what honesty is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:41 PM
10

:C
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:31 AM
7

YES. Had a friend whose boyfriend tried to say he was raped and didn’t just straight up fucking cheat because he was drunk and said no...then received head to completion by a girl at a party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:13 AM
60

That’s what happens when someone is supportive and loving and willing to pick up the slack for a couple days. This was very sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:59 PM
17

Something my sister started doing with my daughter from an early age was referring to things/people as “she” as the base assumption
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:40 PM
3

Omg this happened to me! I’m on BFF mode and some dude messaged me cuz I had a lazy bout of just swiping right (I know, I know) and he’s like, “wow you’re gorgeous!” And I go “oh yeah, is that what you look for in a BFF?” And reported him🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:17 PM
8

😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:13 PM
-9

Orrrr let the conversation absolutely steer this way but don’t flirt back and let him cross the line then report him to hr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:51 PM
1

Lmaoooooo Edit: you’re a gem lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:15 PM
3

Being selected isn’t a compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:50 AM
2

Or at least check the phone and text back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:23 PM
25

“I’m super busy lately but I spent 1.5 hours watching money shot compilation videos on pornhub last night”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:09 AM
25

He sure likes messaging girls on tinder tho 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:06 AM
102

For me it was “I’d rather see you in person than text” and then when we made plans he canceled on me last minute through text lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:28 AM
19

Ugggggh. Like I generally don’t even like hardly anyone and I think most of what they say to me is bullshit but when I start enjoying myself around them or flash a green flag suddenly I find it so easy to like so many little things about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:55 PM
27

HOWWWWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:33 PM
9

?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:22 PM
23

☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:22 PM
14

Damn biology picking and choosing a male pattern of behavior over the brain’s trauma response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:47 PM
35

Love that they never stop and wonder WHY women have rape fantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:40 AM
7

They do. They know exactly what’s happening. They just get off on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:11 AM
3

This amount of stress and panic could cause a fucking miscarriage. What a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:44 AM
10

This came out right after I found out my baby daddy had cheated on me. Couldn’t get through it the first watch- panic attack inducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:16 AM
4

I mean... back in America she was a member of a whole manipulative supremacist cult lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:16 AM
5

I would never date a cop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:00 PM
33

HELLLLLL YESSSSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:58 PM
4

Lol get dressed up and go out without him... and never come back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:11 PM
21

Have HIM pay for it. Then dump and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:10 PM
43

Same people restricting abortion are the same ones who keep women with children under their thumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:17 PM
2

Yeah, never in my life have I ever woken up and looked at a man who was asleep, drooling smelly morning breath, with his messy hair, and scrunched up face and been overwhelmed with affection. Never felt visceral rage at anyone who caused him to feel small in his life, wanting him to feel safe, healthy, secure, fulfilled, and loved every second of everyday. I deserved to be cheated on and used since I just wanted him to GIVE me stuff. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:32 PM
12

🎵🎶you can go your own waaaaay🎶🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:28 PM
37

Side note: if there are nudes out there of Obama please send me a link....asking for a friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:06 PM
15

OP if I were you I would delete this account and make a new one. If he read your previous post then he knows your username and could dox you online to mgtows and incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:39 PM
54

I blame western ‘morality’ and capitalist brain washing. The rhetoric around oppression is always ‘equality’ rather than equity. Always about the individual rather than the community. I had a supposedly feminist friend who looked down on me for not having an abortion. She’d prattle on about how women should be included in the draft because she’s ‘tired of people seeing women as weak and delicate’ #girlboss amiright? Because nothing says empowerment like getting raped by your comrades while fight…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:31 PM
5

Ooh let me try People who are against share cropping and Jim Crow laws are only worried about what happened in the past. It comes from a place of trauma and a multitude of race equality propaganda. It’s 1870, slavery is over and black men have the right to vote so it’s totes cOnsEntUaL! /s Why criminalize consensual adult activity like not wearing a mask in public during Covid-19? /s People who want equal pay and taxation just want ownership over the rich. That’s some toxic humanitarian shit rig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:27 PM
9

Also if “sex work” was regulated like real work everyone would be in a hazmat suit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:13 PM
2

Thanks Queen! Btw I’m only 26 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:41 PM
12

Girl I feel you. 9 years. 3 years together before I got pregnant, 1 year living together before he got addicted to opioid pain pills, 1 year desperately dragging him to AA and begging him to go to rehab, 1 year apart, I moved cities even, then I came back during a time he was sober, he relapsed and I spent 3 years keeping him alive, I literally talked him out of suicide, sent him to rehab. A year ago I found out he had cheated on me after I came back. I’d done all of that for him under false pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:19 PM
6

3 bros - chillin on a podcast, being fake anthropologists cuz they wanna rape Anybody else ever notice this? Men always phrase this kind of thing as ‘women are to be’ as the object in question, the use of which is determined by the subject, men. Ethan implies that the use of the object has changed. To what? Enabling his obviously unhealthy eating habits maybe? Weird they don’t use their collective anthropological intellect to analyze the behavior (rape) of the subject, theorizing about “Why less…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:53 PM
37

I feel this way about the user/enabler dynamic. My ex was an addict. I went to Al-Alon, therapy, separated from him, everyone said the same thing, “You’re making it worse by enabling him.” As in not letting him be homeless, giving him food, letting him have $5 when he said his power was off. As if it was somehow my fault for loving and caring about him. Of course you want to help when someone is struggling. Of course you want to keep those you love from the consequences of their condition. Espec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:09 AM
20

Right?! Looks down and sighs at stretch marks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:08 AM
10

Belly full as a spare tire. Balls empty of courage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:39 PM
16

And then turn around and put little to no effort in keeping her or making her happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:15 PM
20

This is funny because I actually tried to joke about pulling up porn when we were in bed early on and his response was like, “I don’t want to do that. Like this is enough for me, I would hope it’s enough for you.” And then turned out to have a porn habit behind my back. So like STAY vetting would be my retroactive advice to myself lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:27 PM
11

Needless to say I felt like a CHUMP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:24 PM
6

Not at all! I would absolutely allow a man to do this for me. In fact I would let him throw in a few more cards lol 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:35 PM
52

Have an ex that I initially trusted when we met because he never hit on me or tried to neg or flatter me. He treated me with respect like a friend and only ever complemented me on something I did or if it was physical he would complement my outfit. Towards the end of the relationship he was talking about his friend trying to pick up girls and he said, “I told him act like you’re not looking for sex. Tell a girl you like her outfit and walk away and see if she initiates further conversation with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:08 PM
50

Conclusion: Matriarchy is better for everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:02 AM
25

Gracious heavens I damn near fuckin choked on my Aquafina!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:22 PM
25

Lol “Maybe 1 was attractive” because you’re not attracted to women, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:14 PM
4

Good point. There’s a big difference between power and control. “Neither can exist while the other survives” ⚯͛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:56 PM
8

Yeah that’s what supremacy is homie...like “all lives matter” but Scrote edition lol Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:45 PM
32

So.... basically equity of labor settlement within the relationship because society doesn’t financially reward reproductive labor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:50 PM
5

I feel like I’m the opposite like I’m very naive and trusting and want to see the good in people but actively force myself to push people away or start calling bullshit. Then they get their feelings hurt or whatever and I feel guilty. So I give them the benefit of the doubt. Then it’s like BLAM you were right BWAHAHAHA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:50 AM
34

Slow clap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:45 AM
146

Many women, I think, resist feminism because it is an agony to be fully conscious of the brutal misogyny which permeates culture, society, and all personal relationships.” —Andrea Dworkin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:17 PM
11

The concept of “consent” being a factor at all in promoting sexual material online is mind blowing. If you consent to a sexual act with one person then post a video of that encounter for anyone to see that negates the sense of consent. You can’t consent to someone you don’t know, you can’t see, you’re entirely unaware of, who is partaking in the sexual act by watching it online. Yet libfems claim to be so concerned about consent. It’s a fallacy. The average age a male is introduced to pornograph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:45 PM
19

Not just thrown in jail: sexually assaulted by police, tortured and force fed, some even killed, suffragettes even hired women to teach them martial arts and act as bodyguards to defend themselves from the cops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:55 PM
85

You’re torturing them by leading them on! I mean as we all know teenage boys have unlimited access to female bodies whenever and wherever they want! But you’re awful! They see you as an object but how DARE you not allow them to use you as one! microwave beeps pizza roll time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:42 PM
2

Pay for my college education DAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:34 AM
5

I’d have just stopped there cuz that’s a damn lie. Just say “Bullshit” and nope the fuck out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:29 AM
6

Just justifying his own disloyalty here. If there’s a woman out there willing to love you and spend her life with you and you feel there’s something missing you need to check-the-fuck-out of here and give her one less problem. Buh bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:19 AM
55

Them “I’m a freak” kinky boys talk a lot of big game until it’s time to get pegged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:41 PM
3

Yes, and on top of that, male children do commit rape against adult females. I guess what I’m talking about is the damage done to oneself in the act of violence against another but that’s a whole different conversation. More theoretical than real world application. I would argue that females are susceptible to porn addiction but we all know that obviously it comes from a different place entirely. But nah it’s evil and inexcusable. I’d just like to believe that humans are innately better than the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:00 AM
3

I think the risk-assessment test is a good point lol but I disagree about porn bringing out what is already there. In the same sense that there is inter-generational trauma passed down from victims of abuse (look up dna changes passed down genetically by holocaust survivors) I believe that when you commit transgressions against humanity or are exposed to atrocity by proxy you’re also being hurt, if not by your own hand. What if this is also passed down? We should at least attempt to prevent it. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:59 PM
7

But MISANDRYYY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:33 PM
28

The areas of the brain stimulated when viewing porn are the same areas stimulated when dealing with objects. (Also side note it’s proven that prolonged exposure to explicit imagery depletes gray matter in the frontal lobe.) When you reward your brain with a rush of oxytocin and dopamine for seeing females as objects you’re gonna lose the potency of genuine subjective attraction you have for the whole human being that you actually love and care for. It’s a simple pavilion response. Rewarding your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:07 PM
22

Got eeeemm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:37 PM
42

Oh shit 🤭🤭🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:19 PM
4

👆You’ll lose so much more in the long run if you stay. Better to start over with a little less than you had before than to start over with zero or worse, a negative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:43 PM
5

My ex used to chastise me for breastfeeding openly in public so I started squirting milk at him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:19 AM
3

I’ve noticed I never feel insecure or jealous of or compare myself to other women when I’m single. And I only ever start once the newness of a relationship has died down, when he stops love-bombing and making me feel wanted and worthwhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:45 PM
10

GIRRRRL...oooh. Maybe I a psycho bitch but I swear to god I would walk out of the bathroom freely bleeding down my legs with blood on my hands tryna touch him and shit like “is this what you want?” Lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:35 PM
5

😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:56 PM
14

If people can choose their pronouns, women should be able to go by Mr. And it’s official I am now going by Mr. You talked me into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:20 PM
19

First ever legit spit take
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:15 PM
4

Absolutely relate. Leftover learned codependency and victim mentality from a previous abusive relationship. It could be red flags you’re picking up subconsciously. My advice- like NO ONE EVER lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:02 PM
21

One time when I was little my dad’s (male) friend called him his best friend and he laughed at it so hard later like, “I’m married what the hell would I need a best friend for”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:38 AM
5

Off topic prenup-wise but this is just awful. My heart goes out your mother. I’m starting to believe men are incapable of love in the same way that we are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:13 PM
54

Might be cheating and forgot who he was pretending to be loyal to atm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:14 AM
66

“Only when manhood is dead - and it will perish when ravaged femininity no longer sustains it - only then will we know what it is to be free” -Andrea Dworkin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:14 PM
75

I feel personally attacked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:10 PM
2

Love-bombing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:47 PM
3

Hive five!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:31 PM
29

Everybody wants someone under them in a world run by ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:22 PM
36

White men cheat just as often as black men... Da fuq?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:22 PM
14

I’m less concerned about whether women are being called out about enforcing misogyny to the same degree or more so than men are, and more concerned about it being spun as “empowering” because they are women. Like that’s the dangerous part, that material is already out there whether women are producing it or not. This is how I felt about “God is a woman” by Ariana Grande whenever everyone was applauding how eMpOweRiNg it was but like aaahhh yes worship the goddess cuz she FUCKS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:28 PM
9

Lmaooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:41 PM
6

I feel like a lot of people are taking this as my condoning cheating as if the guy ‘deserved it’... there is a sentence right there in the middle where I said “Maybe in rare cases or way back when the dude was chasing LVW” in which chase the red flag is that he goes after LVW *edit: I also have no real way of knowing whether he himself was guilty of cheating as well physically or emotionally. Side note, I know plenty of women who used cheating as a sort of means to get out of abusive relationshi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:07 PM
11

Yeah like not saying good men can’t get cheated on but a pattern like that? Something’s off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:17 PM
2

Thanks for the validation like it’s hard when the world is full of scrotes and libfems crying about “double standards” My sister who introduced me to this sub said “HVM know that double standard exists for a reason”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:20 AM
8

This dude I was seeing a while back would joke around and give me hickies and grab my nipples and I’d told him to stop as it hurts sometimes since I’ve breastfeed and they’re sensitive. After telling him to stop one time while we were wrestling, I suddenly slapped him (not hard) out of reflex like really did not mean to and he got all upset saying I was abusive and made me feel awful for it and I started to think like “am I abusive?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:48 PM
8

They are agreeing to being raped for pay if agreeing at all. That’s not the same as consent by any means. Libertarian dudes especially love to turn it around on leftists like “it’s a case of women seizing the means of production” because deep down they know they see the female form as an object, merchandise, and it’s just a matter of who’s selling it to them. *edit- typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:52 PM
46

I know guys that get so upset about the idea of a woman falsely accusing someone of rape but are so dismissive the high probability that the videos they beat off to are not consensual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:20 PM
11

Right like any female behavior that men can jerk off to is considered okay. Even supposed women of power in positions of authority are lauded out of a dominatrix fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:46 PM
26

I wouldn’t say it’s deemed okay with threats of corrective rape launched constantly at lesbians for having the ‘audacity’ to not allow men to fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:37 PM
152

My girl brain is the original form, your Y chromosome is an evolutionary birth defect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:23 PM
7

Oh yeah it definitely wasn’t just the porn but more a blatant disregard for my needs. Actually had the audacity to say I’d embarrassed him when I told him it hurt my feelings. Later the word “insecure” popped up of course as they love to call us anytime we challenge them on disloyal behavior... secure meaning safe and assured... thanks dude you’re exactly right, you didn’t make me feel secure 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:11 PM
11

Right, if you’re worried about your reputation, take better care of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:02 PM
17

He’s assaulting her every moment he is still breathing on this earth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:17 PM
2

I’m also 26 and I feel this sometimes. Hits a little harder when you’ve got a kid and stretch marks from your 20’s-consuming toxic relationship lol. However, my mom was married twice before she found her most compatible husband in her 50’s, absolutely spoiled her and (really could’ve gone without knowing this) gave her the best sex of her life. There’s no expiration date on happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:06 AM
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