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I think your definition of introvert is completely flawed. I'm very, very introverted. This doesn't mean I stay home playing video games all day. It means I prefer spending time in lounges or art galleries rather than loud bars and clubs. It also means I don't do well approaching large sets in loud venues, but I do really well approaching a girl who is alone. My game is really bad in a big group, and it's quite good one on one on a date. I spent a long time trying to shoehorn myself into extrove…
/r/seduction06/10/13 05:00 AM
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Beta blockers. Try them, it will change everything. You have become conditioned to associate feelings of anxiety with specific stress responses by your sympathetic nervous system. Beta blockers block the stress response, which for many people stops the anxiety completely. They're completely safe, ask your doc for a prescription.
/r/seduction18/09/13 04:35 PM
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Depends where you started. For me, a year ago the idea of going up to a random woman in a bar, flirting with her, and getting her number was just unfathomable. It seemed just so far out of the realm of possibility for me, like becoming a pro basketball player or an astronaut, just the stuff of dreams and fiction. Even thinking about that made me uncomfortable. Now, approaching random strangers feels normal. I still get some AA, but now, I feel uncomfortable when I'm in a public place and I don't…
/r/seduction17/09/13 04:04 AM
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I think it actually has a lot more to do with your father. Many of us with strict, controlling, or overprotective mothers also have a weak, supplicating father who lets the mother wear the pants in the family. Growing up, we model many behaviors and social interactions from our father. I know for me personally, I picked up a lot of beta behaviors from my father when I was growing up, and it took a lot of conscious effort to realize that passive, beta personality was not representative of my true…
/r/seduction03/09/13 07:32 PM
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I meant any kind of success, not just success with women. Confidence doesn't just appear from a magical reserve we all have inside, confidence is built on accomplishment and validation.
/r/seduction27/07/13 10:24 PM
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You can't just turn on confidence or fake it. Confidence is built from reference experiences of success. So put yourself in situations and environments where you can be successful to train your confidence.
/r/seduction22/07/13 04:33 AM
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Plenty of Fish isn't really an accurate name for that site. More like Plenty of Whales.
/r/seduction22/07/13 04:31 AM
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I thought this too when I was a newbie, until multiple very intellectual/thoughtful women told me they were mostly attracted to me because of how confident my behavior was, not because of the philosophical conversations we had.
/r/seduction22/07/13 04:30 AM
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What happened to DGAF and being secure in your frame and interests? My attitude is this: I'm going to talk about whatever obscure topic I'm interested in or passionate about at the moment, and if that turns the girl off, then she is obviously not a good fit. I remember Tyler from RSD telling a story of picking up a girl talking about taxes.
/r/seduction20/07/13 09:22 PM
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I know where you're coming from, but I think referring to yourself as a hardcase/awkward/foreveralone is not helpful and will hinder your progress, because you're just reinforcing your own (false) self-limiting beliefs. You are not your behavior. Your behavior is not static, it changes depending on context. In some situations you might be anxious or shy, in some situations, like with your friends, you are alpha and dominant. Trust me on this. I'm a huge geek, I went for 25 years of my life think…
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:43 PM
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They might play a (minor) part, but if you're getting numbers and going on dates, they are not the reason you are failing.
/r/seduction01/07/13 08:07 PM
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This doesn't matter.
/r/seduction01/07/13 02:22 PM
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Routines are useless for DHV, even if you use the best routine you will be inauthentic and not congruent when you deliver it. The way to DHV is to actually be a high value/cool guy and talk about your own experiences in an authentic way.
/r/seduction28/06/13 08:49 PM
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As a fellow introvert, I have to say there's no easy shortcut here. You just have to do it over and over again until it feels natural. Look into progressive desensitization and CBT techniques. Start by just practicing making eye contact and holding it. Once you can do that, smile at the girl. Once you can do that comfortably, practice walking towards her. Don't worry about opening, just make eye contact, smile, and walk towards her. Once you can do that, practice simple, non sexual openers like …
/r/seduction26/06/13 03:52 AM
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Come On!
/r/seduction25/06/13 12:29 PM
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I think that video is as practical as any infield video you might see. Who cares if it's acting or not, it's a perfect example of being alpha, nonreactive, and dominant. I think most people on this sub could benefit from internalizing this type of behavior and attitude. Watch it and study his mannerisms, body language, eye contact. Either this is naturally his alpha personality or he's the best damn actor in the world.
/r/seduction19/06/13 09:35 AM
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It's really going to hurt when you finally end up meeting The One and she friendzones you to sleep with the guy who is more experienced and knows how to build attraction.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:13 AM
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Your opener really doesn't matter. You could say anything. I'm sure you'll find a million guys here who have had success opening with the dumbest lines ever.
/r/seduction15/06/13 04:53 PM
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Do you have any advice on making your profile stand out? I think for many of us on seddit, the date is not the problem. I know what to do on dates, I've gotten laid via dates, etc. The date is probably the easiest part of seduction- she's already on a date with you, how hard can it be? The hard part is approaching/building initial attraction. In the case of online dating, if I'm only going after the HB8+ girls on dating sites who are getting 50-100 messages a day from AFCs spamming every profile…
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:07 AM
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I don't think the odds are against us at all. There are just different approaches that work best for different people. Think about it. You must have had situations in your life when you were the "life of the party" and totally in sync with everyone around you, we all have. Those were probably in more chill venues, around close friends, in smaller groups and so on. Being the really loud, high energy party guy is one type of game that a lot of people use, it's not the only type of game that works.…
/r/seduction08/06/13 09:14 PM
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When is the best time to ask a girl for her number at a party? Right after opening, in the middle of the conversation, or right before you leave or approach another set?
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:24 AM
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