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Depends on the mutual compatibility and preferences of the couple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:35 PM
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Thought it went without saying really, but: You’re wrong. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:17 AM
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"wah! wimmin bad!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:38 PM
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Women aren't the only ones who cheat. And the risk that someone might, maybe, one day cheat on you isn't an excuse to not be respectful. That's just letting bitterness and paranoia make you into a worse person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:32 PM
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Trust a man on PPD to take a perfectly normal sentiment about love and commitment, and twist it into something bitter and poisonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:54 PM
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I don't think someone "letting themselves go" necessarily always means that attraction and love have faded, though. My bf gained weight over the lockdowns and spent entire days doing absolutely nothing but laying on the sofa reading. We both drank way more heavily as well. I lost no attraction for him whatsoever. In fact I loved him more that we went though all the stress and madness of that together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:20 AM
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The issue is how you view women's worth as people, not that you just enjoy having casual sex with women. as long as I keep it quite Exactly. You have to hide your views on women because you know they would significantly reduce your sexual desirability. Is this why you seem so obsessed with your own vanity? You know what's underneath it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:02 AM
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You really don't need to summon Brad Pitt as your superior when your views on women are in the sewer. The average overweight man in the nearest pub will perfectly suffice as the preferable option to a man who sees women as withering, disposable sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:46 AM
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Does that mean a woman will leave me when I get sick or disabled, probably but they can leave me when I am healthy too. LMFAO. So much for "in sickness and in health". If my man has to constantly "be on his best behavior" around me, that sounds more like acting than being his genuine self who I fell in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:15 AM
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How many women who are engaging in 4b even know of the people OP is talking about? And then, how many women are engaging in 4b without even knowing what 4b even is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:20 AM
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It's not like electing a person or condoning a specific individual. The women who commit to 4b just want to abstain from sex, relationships, marriage and getting pregnant. Do you actually think that because a member did bad things or whatever, those women will suddenly decide they want to have sex and get pregnant, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:01 AM
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Yeah I think quite a bit of plausible deniability goes on in that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:06 AM
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Yes..? And people debate those policies. Not really sure what the rebuttal is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:59 PM
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This isn't just about agree / disagree, though. It's voting in government policy that has the power to destroy lives. And I've heard their reasons straight from the horses mouth. Yes, they do tend to be misogynistic as fuck. They can follow strikingly similar lines to misogynistic men who also spout anti-abortion rhetoric. It's all basically: - Don't have sex, (so you have no risk of unwanted pregnancy), just like me. - Be a puritanical God-fearing Christian, just like me. - Actually want to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:07 AM
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I prefer to call it exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:00 AM
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Internalized misogyny is definitely a part of it. Women can be absolute pieces of shit when it comes to other women and things like reproductive rights and even victim blaming victims of rape and sexual assault. I've had this with my own mother who, unsurprisingly, is a Trump supporter. I was raped by my own cousin and when I told my mother what had happened, all she did was threaten to EMIGRATE to the other side of the planet if I reported him. Also told me "he has a wife and children now, so y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:21 AM
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Lead guitar. Especially - learning his favourite song on guitar and serenading him. Honourable mention for - Dancing in sync with his body movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:28 PM
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Truth is children and family are assumed to me the part of "it all". So women will be out of commission for sometime. That will have an effect on their careers. Their bodies will suffer because of pregnancy and breastfeeding and other stuff. Yeah, this is why so many of us are opting out of that one and concentrating on our careers, lol. So essentially women are betting on a relative abundance of men who are in their league, career wise, finance wise, and social status wise. They are also bettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:13 PM
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...The Blue Steel turnaround look? My first thought, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:33 PM
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What's to debate? Sex life changes and wavers as you age and life throws obstacles at you... That's just a fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:27 AM
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Look. Date whoever you want, if they'll take you. I'm not arguing with you about who you should date. I know you want to imagine me as some kind of bitter little woman, but I'm a literal ex-sex worker who has also happily settled down in her 30s with a man who knows my past and fully accepts it, and had absolutely no problem with finding him. Best of both worlds. Made a shit load of money in my younger years, now in a fantastic relationship of almost a decade. Kind of can't be bothered with your…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:40 PM
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Children are by far the most exploited people on the internet. Things like this: Northern Irish man jailed for life after abusing at least 70 children online Investigation into ‘horrific’ case of Alexander McCartney, who drove one girl to suicide, was one of the biggest into catfishing in the world A man from Northern Ireland who abused at least 70 children online and drove one to suicide has been sentenced to life in jail with a minimum term of 20 years in a “horrific” case that a judge said ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:23 PM
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It's a nothing of a rebuttal because you state the obvious without a shred of conscious elaboration on what's actually behind it. "literally just turned off .... we just don't want them" is the transience of your rebuttal in a nutshell. Yes, they turn you off, but why? Unless you really lack that much insight as to your own preferences, which is always a possibility. If I had to compare which two aspiring bodybuilders were gonna have a brighter future: one who has literally never seen any advice…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:31 AM
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What an absolute nothing of a rebuttal. Seriously? "This argument is tired, that argument is tired... we just don't want them..." K bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:29 AM
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Are you trying to argue that the oppression of women in religion doesn't exist? Male sexual insecurity is very much baked into many religions and their rules for "modest" female dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:03 AM
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If you want to learn about the exploitation of women by religious men, you should read religious texts. More men that want this tend generally to be just insecure than religious. But religion and insecurity also go hand-in-hand anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:32 AM
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It might appeal to the kinds of men who see woman as not really human in the first place, because then the leap from human woman to AI woman isn't that far. Other than that? There's no chance this would work for the majority of lonely men who crave love and intimacy. It'd just trigger the uncanny valley response, because unless it's 100% absolutely indistinguishable from a human being, certain things would tweak you tf out about it. Like what about if it glitches..? Imagine what a boner killer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:14 AM
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How so? Feel free to go ahead and actually provide a rebuttal to anything incorrect I said :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:07 AM
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You’re talking about sexualisation though… I agree that things are way more sexualised now than they were. It’s weird. It’s like they’re more sexualised but also having less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:50 PM
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Lol I remember being EXCITED to start shaving when I was like 14 years old. That shit wears off real fast as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:01 PM
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It’s still a fact that young people are having less sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:16 PM
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Fascinating. The 17 upvotes I got on the comment and the fact it's currently the top comment on the thread begs to differ 🤷‍♀️ Seethe I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:06 PM
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your down votes don't bother me Only just seen your comments lol. And you sound bothered af to go back and comment twice with this lil rant an hour after your first comment. Chill out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:58 PM
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are you really saying that people in the 80s were more open than people now. Idk how it's even debatable. Even with the goddamn AIDS fear-mongering I think they were more open than young people are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:54 PM
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Your argument starts off with a flawed premise. She wont sleep with you. She wont be good at bed. she wont be able to please you. Those things aren't issues to the men who want them in the first place. These men would rather have a young pure virgin woman who was crap in bed and all the rest... that's never the issue. As long as she's never had a good dicking down in her entire life previously to him it doesn't matter to him. The most important thing is that her boundaries will be lax, more like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:31 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:26 PM
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You forgot the obligatory: "aT LeAsT wE'rE hOnEsT!!!" when confronting such people, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:16 PM
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The irony is that they always just make miserable depression-coded excuses as to why being more of a fun, exciting, cool, interesting person with sexually appealing hobbies and skills is a waste of time and how they don't want to be a dancing monkey. And then make more posts complaining about being single and the male loneliness epidemic. You need qualities to attract people. They hate this. They want to exist in the same bubble of pristine in-built perfection they think that women exist in, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:07 PM
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You're just describing a specific type of person, not women. There are many men like this. There are many women who aren't like this. AWALT posts like this are so redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:02 AM
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Oh no, it looks like I've already parked my big fat ass up for the rest of the evening. Got my hot chocolate, a book, a big fluffy comforter, and my cat. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:23 AM
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You've already repeated all this crap enough times that I recognized who you were by the comments alone. Also, while I'm here I think I will have a nice fat old gloat, actually.,, My boyfriend cooked us a roast dinner today and it was fucking incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:02 AM
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Wait, you're the guy who is constantly posting about fat women. Why do us fat chicks live rent-free inside your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:25 AM
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This was hilarious for me to read. I'm an obese woman and get compliments, affection and love every single day of my life. I've survived through Anorexia Nervosa, abject poverty, and malnutrition. Now I love expensive wine and enjoy foods I never dreamed I'd be able to have. I'm not healthy at this point in my life, no, but I'm very loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:06 PM
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You feel sorry for women who think they’re beautiful? That’s fun. I’ve never had an issue with men who like seeing me confident and saying positive things about myself. Only insecure assholes. Why else would a reasonable man have an issue with a woman with a healthy self-image?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:06 PM
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Strawman. There’s a huge difference between someone seeing themselves as “beautiful”, and seeing themselves as “perfect”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:40 PM
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Insecure men hate confident, secure women who call themselves "beautiful", because then they can't so easily neg them. A secure woman is not malleable, and that's repulsive to those kind of men. A woman who is down on herself, who sees herself as a lesser human being, and who has body image and / or insecurity issues, is much more likely to present in terms of her outward behavior, as being passive, shy, and submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:25 AM
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so you expect something from him he was not comfirtable with Being sat next to on public transport?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:34 PM
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That's an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:18 PM
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He didn't need to do anything but just sit there. she could have talked to the busdriver aswell to rally more people... Why is it only action movie scenarios men here can think in??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:17 PM
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A man was staring at a woman on public transport, she was scared, and she sat down next to OP. Why are we escalating the situation to OP suddenly killing the man? It's kind of hilarious how women here will get made fun of being intimidated by men staring at them. But a woman sitting next to a PPD Redditor while a man stares at her - murder is suddenly possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:08 PM
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Being suddenly put in harms way would make most people scared, though. He literally took off and fled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:54 AM
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Same. I'd have stayed with her and I've also had other women stay and sit with me when I have been in this position, a time when a man was stalking me home on trains.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:47 AM
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Why can't you just answer the question? Were you scared of him or not? Because this situation could have meant you either were putting yourself at risk if the man was acting aggressively, making it much more understandable if you fled. Or it could mean that you were literally in the exact same position of safety than before she sat next to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:36 AM
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The way you type makes it hard to follow exactly what happened here. Were you frightened of this man as well? That is why you immediately got up and left?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:05 AM
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Women don’t go for bad boys. We just don’t want someone who’s boring. A guy who’s adventurous and knows how to keep things interesting is attractive—that doesn’t mean we want a jerk, though. "Okay now that is quite the contrary to what that other woman said." How? First off, it isn't contrary to what the other woman said at all. But secondly, why are you seeking to generalize the tastes of all of women into one package? Because yes, you are still expecting women to be a monolith. If some woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:05 AM
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It's even worse when you see them making fun of and insulting male victims of sexual assault from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:39 PM
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We had a guy here literally a day ago saying that men would happily fuck a grapefruit, lol. So tell this to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:12 PM
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Yes, I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:42 AM
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I think that you kind of need to differentiate between someone having been the victim of something, and victimhood status. I do think there is middle ground. I think someone can acknowledge that they have been a victim of any crime, and they always will be, because it's still a thing that happened to them, but they can also reject a victimhood status for themselves when they feel they have moved on from the trauma of it. At what point is a criminal no longer a criminal? Once they have served the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:14 AM
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Do you not realise what shitheap sub you’re on? People say heartless things exactly like that here constantly, without a hint of sarcasm. I’m sorry I didn’t pick up on your joke, but I’m glad it at least was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:59 AM
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No disrespect, but you sound like someone who shouldn't be anywhere near the healthcare sector.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:02 PM
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therapist. Lol, I read it as "unhinged the rapist".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:01 PM
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You don't sound mature enough for a relationship tbh. You compare women to cartoon characters and speak about them like they're trading cards. That's reasonable if you're about 11. You're getting your needs met fine because there's nothing deeper there to meet in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:02 AM
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Many men who struggle to date will claim they they are not highly neurotic people who hate women, and then you go to their profile and it's littered with reams of evidence that they absolutely are neurotic and passionately hate women. In some cases you'll go to their profile and see they've been diagnosed with some personality disorder where "this person is a cunt" is practically written into the diagnostic criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:07 PM
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Think about Christian teachings and you're half-way to knowing why some people consider it cheating in some cases. Even if someone doesn't call themselves a Christian, they can still have that residual moral transference either through being religious in their past, or it's in their culture, or they have a religious family history whereby certain teachings have been passed down... For other people, I think it's just that masturbating and climaxing over someone else very much is cheating to them …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:12 AM
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Anyone giving you shit over a 5 yr age gap when she's 27 is absolutely insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:17 PM
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If she is into selling herself, the she should be legally allowed to do so. Cool. Yes. That's not the debate here though. Now let's look at a man who goes online and admits he was abused, rejected and mocked over having a small dick. Nobody would side with that man, he would be ridiculed and then every finger would be pointing towards him how he must have provoked it to happen, how he needs therapy, and anyone who dares side with him is also in the same category as him. (Hi. Yes. Been done to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:29 AM
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Nobody is asking you. You asked me what I could do. What else could a random woman possibly do to "help" incels get laid other than offer to personally have sex with them? We all know how much they love being told to improve themselves, work on themselves, etc. It better than how they are treated. All an incel has gotta do is feel down and vent online because he is lonely and people especially women jump on him like flys on shit over it and then get shocked pikachu face when he lashes out and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:36 AM
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Got any other ways for them to be? Or are you one of these who just say "let them rot"? I don't wish for lonely men to "rot", but I also have absolutely no obligation whatsoever to ensure that anyone but my own romantic partner gets laid. They do, but they won't be, there's no way out for them, they've lost the game, you know it, they know it, but sure, let's rip away even the fantasy aspect of it just for the experience. Should we treat incels like mentally compromised adults who are "playing p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:14 AM
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All of these absolutely ridiculous miraculous dreamworld fantasies you think will happen, won't. It's legal in my country and my country is still full of lonely people, depression, people being used for sex, sexual assaults, rape, etc, etc. Also why are you forgetting that prostitution is dangerous as fuck for the women doing it? It's like you think it'll cure every evil in the world, as though sex workers aren't exposed to some fucked up, evil people. Women in sex work have higher rates of PTSD…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:15 AM
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Oh.. you’ve been saying “you” and “your boyfriend” I kind of thought you were, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:44 PM
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Just sounds like some “I think women are bad, and you’re a woman, so I’m going to subtly accuse you of behaving like some bad women I’ve known “ junk tbh… I don’t throw out shitty insults to my bf during arguments like this. You’re barking up the wrong tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:38 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:09 PM
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I think most people would feel the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:56 PM
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Still not the same thing. A mindless insult made during an argument in the heat of emotion doesn't make it a true statement of fact. Trying to hurt his feelings in an argument like that is terrible by itself though, and having a partner who handles arguments in this way is a reasonable breakup-worthy offence alone for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:29 AM
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Sometimes the ex is a piece of shit who sends revenge porn to the current bf. The thing is, in a situation like that, it'd be crazy to be mad at the girlfriend and not the crazy ex. If my boyfriend was sent revenge porn of me and he actually got angry or mad at ME, rather than the piece of shit who sent it meaning to cause malice, I'd dump him before he could dump me. That isn't "finding out the ex was better", it's falling hook, line and sinker for rage bait. There's still no way of ascertainin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:53 AM
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I can't think of a reason he would "find out" those things in the first place. That kind of scenario is so unrealistic to me I'm struggling to comprehend how it even would happen on a practical level. He finds video documentation of the sex? He went through my stuff and found an old diary wherein I was talking about my relationships? Still none of these would convey that he isn't the best - I didn't even know him when those were made, and then I'd be pissed he went through my things. I don't "ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:28 AM
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SEXPOTS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:47 PM
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Idk how the hell this clip hasn't gone viral. It's so hilarious. Preacher talking about women "dressing immodestly"... https://youtu.be/8W1s7u0YiAU?si=rUp6AyGMbOhKdF6W&t=943
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:36 PM
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Idk how anyone could disagree w/this. EVERYONE should have all they need to be able to escape an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:14 AM
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Hence why its useless to use this to talk about the general population No is isn't. Lesser known talented people still get attention. It isn't like being famous and rich is the only way you can impress people. You are people that like music and found each other! Wow, can't you see that you found each other through similar interests, not by being a people pleaser? You do actually need to be skilled or talented at the thing though, don't you? Come on now.. You can ~have a passion~ for singing, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:03 PM
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The naive part is that they would be getting any remotely close to the success they have, by not having money and status attached to it I did say it was an extreme example. That doesn't mean that less successful or famous men doing similar things aren't also getting a lot of interest. And thats a bad mindset, because they are led to believe that they will find true love by pleasing others My SO did. I did. Lol, we found each other through music and know plenty of others who did the same too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:55 PM
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The rockstars and cool performers do it for passion/money, not to get pussy LMFAO oh god this is so terribly naive and misguided. Gene Simmons, David Lee Roth, Mick Jaggar and Steven Tyler at least have all admitted that attracting women was part of their motivation for getting into music. It's an extreme example (as obviously many of these men will have slept with hundreds to thousands of women), but having a desirable talent absolutely attracts women and it's no secret. I've worked in guitar s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:31 PM
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I think many desirable people who are attractive for more than their looks enjoy learning things that enhance their desirability. For their own enjoyment as well as to be impressive. Do you think that rock stars and cool performers and people like that are just clowns? The women throwing themselves at them appear to disagree with you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:13 PM
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If you don't have attractive physical qualities, then yes, you do have to make up for that by possessing other desirable qualities to attract women. Otherwise what? You're just plain unattractive in multiple ways instead, and expecting women to be attracted to you, which is incredibly stupid, lol. Being all bent out of shape because some very handsome man got away with harassing women is stupid as well. Are you sad you can't get away with being a dick? If you're not very handsome and you don't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:05 AM
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Oh right okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:01 PM
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No matter what, women are always doing more for their looks than men because it is what we are the most valued for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:35 PM
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Well that's good, because a no one even said anything about anyone wanting to be with men who work out... Just a question of which gender, generally, takes longer to get ready. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:48 PM
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And they still do it, so it’s still more than men are doing to impress them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:20 PM
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If they go to the gym in the first place.. Plenty of young women are busting their ass now to get a bubble butt also. As well as fashion, hair, makeup, nails, lip filler, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:56 PM
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Right, so if a gorgeous supermodel bottled you over the head, you'd just smile and be thankful she touched you, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:54 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:29 PM
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I don't care much about how well he treated his ex as long as he didn't treat her badly. It's so weird, but it's like to some men here, finding out that women had a happy, joyful, bouncy sex and love life where they had a great time is the worst thing they could hear. For some it's like this is an offence worthy of dumping. She's "impure", or whatever.. For me as a woman? If he treated his exes with respect and enjoyed his sex and love life before me - great, cool, all good. If he was physically…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:24 PM
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It reads like the male equivalent of what I used to daydream of when I was 16 year old girl... "I'm gonna marry prince charming of my dreams and he - my first love, and my last love - will treat me like a Queen and we will definitely 100% be together forever and ever in neverending blissful joy"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:19 PM
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Well good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:17 PM
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If you as a woman was taken on all expenses trip, taken to a luxurious villa and hell, he even proposes to you with a ring. And then later on, you found out he did the exact same thing, the exact same way for women before you; but simply way earlier in those previous relationships. His reply is; I didnt actually care about those relationships, that was all meaningless, its in the past, it happened but I am with you now - I choose you. It was money I threw around because I was young and dumb, I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:03 PM
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That isn't my experience. It isn't something that's really advisable, either really, because it can be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:39 PM
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Plenty of average or below average looking men suck as partners. Plenty of attractive men are wonderful partners. Idk where this weird idea comes from.. People vary, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:32 PM
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The subtext to this is: Go for average or below average looking men. But being a shallow jerk, a user, or an abuser, are not behaviors limited to highly attractive men. eta - And also? Because it's something all the downvoters of this comment desperately need to read and understand, so while you're here... Just because a fact might sit uncomfortably with you, does not make it a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:31 PM
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What's your definition of "a good woman"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:15 AM
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No, it’s more just no guy wants to walk into a room where his wife has fucked 10 of the dudes in there. No one wants to be in a room full of their partners exes. It's like you need to conjure bizarre, unrealistic hypothetical situations like this in order to make it seem more terrible than it really is. I do get the point about 100s of guys though. I do think there's a sort of point where it's like "cool, what are my chances of being the last guy she's going to fuck?" I get that with both gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:54 AM
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"realising we're the last generation to have innocent mums" with some sad music in the background. This is also so hilarious because it was probably posted by some teen or 20-something kid who has not a single clue about their mummy's sex life lmfao. Women were sluzzing it up in "free love" era in the 60s and 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:50 AM
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Well that's a very personal, subjective and emotionally driven response. Two or three sexual partners is incredibly, unusually low unless she's like 18 - 20. Even with a woman who has been in some short-term but serious relationships that's low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:45 AM
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Insecurity, retroactive jealousy, and emasculation. Retroactive jealousy applies to the men who endlessly obsess over their gf's past sex life and if they were better / bigger than him. Emasculation and insecurity because they feel like "lesser men" if they're with a woman with a higher body count than them. It's repulsive and undesirable to them, so they act like pious monks when in reality, if they were up to their balls in pussy they'd have racked up that body count and STD risk without a sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:29 AM
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Well you do have to deal with it though, don’t you? What’s the alternative? Wallowing in it and becoming all bitter and poisonous about it isn’t healthy. Yes, you do have to deal with it, but you’re offended by this and taking it like some kind of insult. It isn’t. You’re actually exhibiting what happens if you don’t deal with it here, with these big dramatic appeals of self-victimhood. I simply have to see how poor and mistreated you are, how big and bad it all is, how much worse men have it, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:23 PM
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I didn't say that. It's not a competition. Everyone does have to deal with rejection at some point. I didn't lie. I'm sorry if that's an emotional fact for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:49 PM
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Doesn't that prove my point, though? You can't just read a book on this kind of thing and expect what you've read to magically "work" irl. Improving personal interaction and dating skills isn't like revising for a test, and is far too complex and nuanced to expect that you'll "level up" like you're in a video game. You should never expect to be rejection-proof no matter what, though. Rejection and ridicule are unfortunate parts of life that we all have to cope with deal with with at some point. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:05 PM
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Reading a book on how to date, under the impression that it'll improve your dating skills, is like reading a book on breakdancing, under the impression it'll make you a good breakdancer. Like that Aussie woman, lol... Getting better at some things depends on pro-activity and acting doing the thing. Tbf, even with the examples you gave, certainly therapy and psychiatric care, book learning can only do so much. You can read all the books in the world on therapy and still suck as an actual therapis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:42 PM
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How do you know he'd automatically be an alpha?? A woman keeping stuff from her ex doesn't mean he's an alpha, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:27 PM
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Fucking hell I only asked what a stringer was. Why are you even coming for me?? But I pictured the dude in that outfit ranting all that to me and it fits so perfectly, lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:59 PM
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Men who really don't want to feel like women have sexual power over them are bothered by this... They're bothered by it because seductive / "immodest" dress personally affects them, in the sense that they experience a sexual response to seeing it, and then resent it like they've been power played and don't like feeling the woman has a grip on them. Source: I've experienced this myself, so it's like "alcoholic spotting another alcoholic" kind of thing. They maybe feel like shit about themselves, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:47 PM
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She just told you they're not their dads, so why are you doubling down?! Why are you acting like it's just practically impossible for some perverted men to want to film schoolgirls playing soccer for their sexual enjoyment? "Paedos don't exist lolol" is the hill you're dying on, seriously? You're just proving her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:30 PM
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Tf is a stringer?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:25 PM
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Vain attention seekers filming their butt cheeks in gyms for social media clout or their OF subs are fucking annoying to most people. Because their intention is to make it look sexy and arousing to watch, rather than benefiting their health and fitness. their form can sometimes be so awful I wonder how many of them have sustained injuries while filming those videos, lol. At this point they should just bite the bullet set up a kind of "pretend gym" for these people. Kind of like those soft play c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:23 PM
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Any adult who needs to be told that approaching people isn't like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward should be assessed for ASD. I think a lot of men here are autistic. "Nuance" may as well be a slur, and everything needs to be put into statistics, and "guides" based on numbers, graphs, and other shit autistic guys love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:03 PM
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Being a nice person doesn't mean that everyone will find you attractive, desirable, or a good match romantically/sexually. Even people who like you. Having a bad personality doesn't mean you will never have a single friend. Plenty of jackasses hang out with other jackasses, and everyone doesn't even know their friends bad sides. You don't have to be some kind of special person to attract damaged or toxic people, gold-diggers, single mothers, or people with x need who wants to use you for somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:36 PM
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The thing with the man or bear thing, is it was just about who we'd rather encounter if we were alone in the woods. Not "I don't want to encounter or meet any men, ever in my life." The context is important because a lot of men report that they would rape a woman if there were no consequences for them. And obviously, in the woods, no one else around, no witnesses... Inb4: "most rapists are known to the woman" - Yes, but what needs to be factored into this is the exhaustive list of endless precau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:27 AM
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If a woman is disgusted by a man she finds unattractive, so what? So let her be disgusted. No one is going to die because she found some guy gross. Plenty of men find some women disgusting and gross. It's not a death sentence that some people aren't attracted to a person. Even if someone is saying attraction and dates are disgusting forms of objectification, point blank, you know what? You can ignore it. People say all kinds of mad shit and we don't live our lives according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:28 AM
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If this actually happened to OP, you'd have a point. I'd be curious as to what experiences actually did lead OP to his current state though. But it's still something he'd need to address with a professional because it's not healthy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:07 AM
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I'm not denying there are good and bad men or women. Just that OPs point here: the stereotype of young men crassly expressing their sexuality is completely inaccurate was a steaming crock of shit. Many absolutely do and it's delusional to think there aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:05 AM
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And yet somehow, shockingly, since then, men have continued to date women and form relationships with them. It's hard to believe, I know, but the world actually didn't stop turning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:02 AM
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I was more making a point about how young men aren't all saints that OP thinks they are. OP believes that young men "crassly expressing their sexuality" is completely inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:54 AM
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I think OP is full of horseshit. He is asking women if we are aware that "the stereotype of young men crassly expressing their sexuality is completely inaccurate?" Which is such a stupid lie. What we're "aware of" is that many of us start being sexualized as children, many of us will experience sexual assault and / or rape, and that many of women also experience things like being choked during sex because these young men think porn is reality and don't care about consent or boundaries. If he wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:51 AM
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Is it the ones who are choking their girlfriends during sex without consent? Is it the ones making deepfake porn of their female peers? Because I hope they're deeply ashamed of their sexuality. They could do with a hefty dose of shame and self-disgust. thinking a girl is cute and wanting to take her on a date, is touted by women as a disgusting form of objectification. No one one is saying that attraction and wanting to take a woman on a date is a "disgusting form of objectification". What a stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:39 AM
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I only had one or two hookups in my life. but I've always been much more attracted to my serious partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:04 AM
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being in a relationship shouldn't me giving up your basic identity like your favorite color... How is this even relevant to what you're talking about? Like how is sharing a bedroom in any way like someone trying to take away your basic identity and colour preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:48 PM
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You don't trust your own friends? Jesus..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:52 PM
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It's just your typical tipsy Hobbit-coded bartalk encouragement... "Ahh, you think she's cute?? Go on, go on talk to her!" Young people egging other young person on to do a thing. I can't speak on why they were upset so much though. Maybe they think you're really lonely or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:51 PM
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Idk if you're deliberately trying to twist what I'm saying, or what, but I didn't say people in Africa should be stopped from reproducing. I said people in some countries do not have access to contraception, sex education, or reproductive healthcare, which is not the same thing. And you're still deflecting from the point. Just because some man in the US could give a child a better life than if they were starving to death in Africa still doesn't mean it's a good idea to have a child when you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:26 AM
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*Woman, thanks. And omfg, yes, there are children being born in poverty who cannot eat twice a day, and tell me, what do you think the quality of reproductive healthcare, sex education, etc is like in those countries? Do you think they have access to the pill, contraception, family planning centers, safe abortions? Fucking hell man.. People always toss out the "what about the children in Africa?" to deflect from valid arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:35 AM
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Why is him "still getting in" the only thing that matters here though? This is where the selfishness comes into it.. Like I've not seen you mention a single thing about the actual quality of life of the children being raised by old, aging parents once in this thread yet. Do they not matter to you so long as egg is fertilized?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:28 AM
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Women are is many cases naturally sterlized The average age for women to enter menopause is around 51, but signs of perimenopause (the transition to menopause) can begin in mid-40s. For men, sperm quality (including count, motility, and DNA integrity) starts to decline around the age of 40. Men could still father kids into old age, but yeah.. opinion differs as to if that's a good idea or not considering the risks and also other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:23 AM
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It can be absolutely brutal to a child to see his or her parents get age-related illnesses and die while the kid is still so young. The OP says there's "nothing wrong" with having a kid in their 50s, I'd wonder what they think of this... They seem to be coming at this from a selfish perspective of "if I want them and can have them, that's that", without thinking it all through.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:10 AM
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Now you can say birth defects increase with age, but men have a trick up their sleeve, the "fittest" sperm impregnate the woman so even if sperm quality is lower in general, you are always getting the best sperm, natural selection is a wonderful thing. Lol what even is this logic? His best sperm can still product a baby with birth defects. The fact is that birth defects still increase with age, so the egg getting "the fittest sperm" of an older man means absolutely nothing if it's still producin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:55 AM
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The hell many women are living today while dating is self made. What is this "hell" are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:00 PM
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What's the alternative? Do you want to rewind the clocks back to when we had no financial independence and had no freedom just so you can get laid/dates/relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:07 AM
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Not sure why I should have shame, you're the one with the stupid "20 miles to fuck VS model" hypothetical with no relevance...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:19 PM
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You're getting way off-topic with this. This is about porn consumption and definitions of cheating. Not who would travel 20 miles to fuck a model. My point specifically, was pertaining to the fact that despite experiencing a very high level of visual stimulation, I'd still put my gf's feelings over my need to cum over pics and videos of other women. And I see men who refuse to part with it despite it hurting their partner as immature and having ridiculous priorities. Maybe their stubbornness poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:22 PM
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Ah, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:13 AM
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Women aren't a monolith. We don't all think and feel the same things. Shouldn't need to be said. I kind of think that paternity testing should form a basic, routine part of the overall package of medical assessments involved during the pregnancy, so as to completely subvert any unnecessary painful emotions - of either mistrust or personal offence - on both sides. Considering that DNA paternity testing can be done as early as 8 weeks into pregnancy, it would be quite easy to perform a Non-Invasiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:37 AM
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Lets assume the guy has a healthy sleep schedule, makes decent money, physically fit, and alots time to spend together with you. At least a bit of time each day, plus most of weekends. But he also likes to play a ~2 hours of games each day, and a bit more on weekends. Sometimes offers to play together, and in return offers to do something you like as well. Would this be a reasonable amount of time he spends in his hobby, or is gaming itself going to be a reason for discontent versus fixing his c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:10 AM
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I mean.. okay? You don't have an issue with your gf using sex toys etc, that's fine? I'm not making a case that these things are of the devil or something, lol. Just that people feel comfortable with different things and compromises can be reached. You need to discuss boundaries with your partner to see if you're compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:16 PM
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Which is insecurity, and he should work on that. Why though? I just don't get this mindset where if something makes someone uncomfortable, in every case they just need to shut up and their feelings don't matter. And when it comes to porn / dildos etc, I see this stuff as being possibly the absolute easiest shit to compromise on in a relationship so long as each persons' sexual needs are met. Plenty of women read erotica in their relationship, because they're bored asf in their relationship and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:38 PM
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In my sexual prime I could easily cum 20 times over pictures / videos of nice tits in the space of a couple of hours. Is the average man even physically capable of that? And yep, I am very cute, lol. If porn is like meth to stave off cheating, just stay single and fuck around. A guy like that doesn't seem right to be in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:33 PM
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Do you think asking a woman to threw away all their sex toys because you found it disgusting it makes you insecure is okay? Yeah tbh. Maybe not throw them away, but genuinely I understand how a guy could feel intimidated or just get the ick about her using them in a relationship. Do you think asking a women to newer read any smut or erotic fan-fiction is okay? Not unless it's interfering with her life / their sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:08 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:38 PM
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Anyone can argue anything when it comes to definitions of cheating, though, because it's subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:16 PM
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Holy shit sorry this is just not related to the bulk of your post AT ALL, but I just looked up Andrea Corr and now I'm in a huge nostalgia trip relistening to The Corrs. I loved them so much back in the day!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:04 AM
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Oh daaamn! Her projection there is insane. How did she react when you found it?! Did you confront her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:42 AM
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I see way more women express just huge discomfort with it rather than make the claim that it's specifically "cheating". Considering how many men get addicted to it and it seeps into everyday life (like he's constantly scrolling TikTok thots and adding them on IG, liking their pics, etc) it's not really that surprising. I think if a woman isn't comfortable with her bf watching porn and getting off to models, she needs to make it known and then it goes from there. On the flipside of the "it's cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:35 AM
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You're talking about definitions of rape and sexual assault, and how these things are legally classified, imo, making it unsuitable for this sub. "It's not illegal, so it's okay" is the gist of the responses you've already made... Thought that'd be the reason for posting. This is just morally bankrupt bullshit, in which you're simply looking for ways to excuse bad behavior. A lot of bad things are legal, but still morally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:47 PM
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Lol, you are joking, right? How the fuck do you even need a source for this? Anyway.. "The Body Keeps the Score" by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk (amazing book - basically a bible for stuff related to trauma) details a bit about unwanted sexual experiences - including those not labeled as "forced" - can have a profound impact on mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:35 PM
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What do we get out of trying to make this experience NOT a criminal act here, though? What's the purpose of this discussion in the context of it being suitable for this sub rather than a sub pertaining to law? If someone relents to sexual acts being performed on them, long-term this can have serious consequences for that persons' mental health. Should we just ignore that just because "it wasn't rape"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:26 PM
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Even if you're attractive and cool etc enough, you still won't be everyones cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:23 AM
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No hate, but could you maybe seriously be aromantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:40 PM
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"Men use women for sex too." So what? I don't want to try to separate sex from emotion. Sex without emotion sounds boring as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:39 PM
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Which is why we don't like it. I don't want to "spin a plate" as you put it, to get free shit and then that's done. It feels empty, meaningless, and like the guy is just a dispenser. Compare that to feeling a real connection with someone, feeling the amazing chemistry build, and having sex with that person as you feel like you're both falling in love? It's one of the best feelings on earth. I prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:35 PM
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Going out with dates with a man who have a provider mindset and caring personality and enjoying a time and date sometimes sex with them is considered "gold-digging"? This was such a bad attempt at trying to make your first comment not sound like you were advocating using men for free food, gifts and sex. Stop acting like we couldn't read what you said the first time around, omg!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:25 PM
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Why just don't spin a plate and get a free food, free gift and free sex from several guys? The woman who promotes using men to get free shit out of them, doesn't understand people who can't separate sex from emotion. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:03 PM
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I like peace. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:02 PM
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Are people still seriously listening to this pile of dust? He's an irrelevant trainwreck of a person himself, who constantly looks to be either on the edge of breaking into floods of tears, some kind of self-combusting rage, or both. My opinion is that he's projecting his own inner voice about himself, back out onto young men. He thinks this is what he should do with his life. He wonders why he can't just get on with it, and he likes his soapbox and shouting about what young men should do. He's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:33 PM
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No evidence No witnesses No conviction No police report That doesn't mean it didn't happen though, and it'd concern me if he thought any of that carried any actual weight. Victims of rape or assault don't always report to the police, and how tf are there meant to be witnesses!? It isn't like rapists just attack their victims in full public view of others, it it? The conviction rate is extremely low because there's a very small window of evidence that can be obtained through the use of rape kits,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:08 AM
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it's true that women often complain about dating from the perspective that they should get things from men that they don't really posses themselves Is it? I'm not really sure what you mean by this. If someone is not loyal or trustworthy then of course they don't deserve a man who is, so she can cheat him or whatever.. Tbh I'm not seeing how this is much different than someone simply assuming the worst of all women who initiate divorce, in order to justify all women being dumped for younger women…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:06 PM
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Well it depends on the reason for the divorce I guess, doesn't it? I think anyone regardless of their gender deserves the right to leave if there's no hope for improving an unhappy marriage. I think in OPs example, it seems like he must be drawing the conclusion that women's reasons for leaving a marriage must always be petty and superficial, in order to justify a man simply leaving a marriage because he wants to trade her up for a younger model.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:52 PM
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Why do you want it to be harder or impossible for anyone, male or female, to leave a marriage they're no longer happy in? If the only way you'll have any empathy for any woman who gets dumped for a young woman, is if women don't have the option to leave a marriage they're no longer happy in, this logic is incredibly bitter and weird. You can't gatekeep peoples own personal feelings and emotions, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:12 PM
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If she walks away, deep down, she wasn't interested. Even if she seemed outwardly like she was. I’ve noticed that women have no issue with dropping a guy, even if they’ve had great experiences together. Why is this? I've faked looking like I was having a great time on dates even though I thought the guy was a fucking lunatic. Why? Safety, mainly. But even if he doesn't seem scary, I'll still feign vague interest because what would even be the point in outwardly expressing my disinterest, disgust…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:38 PM
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Are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:23 PM
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How does this have anything to do with dating dynamics or relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:12 PM
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How would those who don't want children make good parents to children though? It's like you only care about this on principle without thinking through how terrible that situation could actually be in practice for the people in that situation, including the welfare of the children themselves. Like is all that matters that people reproduce, without any further consideration as to the quality of their lives? Seems fairly obvious looking around that there are plenty of people who had children who ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:40 PM
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Oh, well how interesting. Then why don't we just do away with all of the psychology literature written over the years, and just listen to you, seeing as you're a genius on the matter? What a load of absolute misogynistic, self-satisfied guff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:23 AM
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Responding with “Ah yes, the classic x argument” is not the winner you want it to be. You want to deny psychology and decades of study dedicated to these topics just because …🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:55 PM
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Ah, the classic “let’s blame it on their upbringing” argument. Sure, childhood issues might play a role in attraction patterns, no one's denying that. But the idea that most women who are drawn to toxic guys are victims of some deep parental trauma? That’s a bit of a stretch, isn’t it? How about we give women a bit more credit? Some actually enjoy the thrill, the unpredictability, the edge that comes with bad boys. It's not always about "fixing" them or unresolved daddy issues. Tell me you've ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:19 PM
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People (because this doesn't just go for women) often don't understand the nature of their own preferences and attractions themselves, let alone go about saying "I am attracted to toxic people" or whatever, lmao. It isn't dishonesty. (That said, enough of them do actually know this about themselves, to the point where you get the "I can fix him" memes). People who are drawn to toxic people often do so because basically, something in their own upbringing went very wrong. But largely, women who en…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:35 PM
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I'm not saying either are right or wrong. I'm just stating that both of these things can be known factors for putting off potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:51 AM
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I mean it can be retroactive jealousy sometimes, and that's okay. If it results in you feeling the occasional, brief little pang of jealousy that doesn't affect you or her, and doesn't change your behavior / treatment of her in any way, then yeah it'll probably be okay. However if you're obsessing over her past, searching up her exes on social media, going through her phone to seek out old texts and messages, questioning her with insecure and paranoid questions, then nah it won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:48 AM
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Yes, it's real. Yes, I have sources. (And holy shit, articles about this condition have blown tf up over the past year or so)... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rebecca_syndrome https://www.mentesabiertaspsicologia.com/blog-psicologia/rebecca-syndrome-symptoms-causes-and-treatment#:\~:text=Treatment%20of%20Rebecca%20Syndrome&text=Cognitive%2Dbehavioral%20therapy%20is%20a,that%20contribute%20to%20Rebecca%20syndrome. https://www.iflscience.com/what-is-rebecca-syndrome-and-what-do-i-do-if-i-have-it-7…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:42 AM
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Well yeah.. and a person being so passive, shy and socially awkward that they've remained a virgin until 30, can be a red flag to some. As much as someone with a very high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:25 AM
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What's wrong with retroactive jealousy? Oh boy... Well for starters, it's also known as 'Rebecca Syndrome'. (Anything worthy of being branded a "syndrome" you know already that it's not going to be good, lol). It's a pathological response, so it can: cause the sufferer mental anguish by their own constant obsessing and fixating on their partners exes and past sex life. result in them being abusive to their partner to various degrees - constantly questioning partner for details, wanting proof or …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:23 AM
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I think if someone is a virgin at 30 (why haven't they found anyone yet?) or someone has bedded upwards of 50 people by the time they're 20 (so what are the chances they'll stop with me?), some kind of extreme, then alright, this debate has a point. But otherwise, it's just retroactive jealousy with cute wrapping paper on it. Most men don't care about how much experience you have, as most men are happy dealing with a woman with little experience because it means you can learn together what you b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:49 AM
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Well, there are women who absolutely do go for bad boys in real life, so yeah, it follows that you'd imagine that they could also gravitate to them in fiction too. I do think it's a mistake though to assume that every trope a woman enjoys in fiction will also be the type of man she'd like to be with irl. As some other women have pointed out, it's like men who watch certain type of porn but wouldn't go for it irl either. Some will, some won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:44 PM
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Romantic and erotic fiction is way more varied these days. There's anything from 'cinnamon roll' main male characters, to were-octopus men with tentacle penises, men who are literal ghosts, alien hybrid lovers, all kinds of mad shit... Look at the romance books sub. There are a lot of women who absolutely can't stand the bad boy trope, so yeah, tastes are varied on this. But would you use any of the other tropes to assume a woman might want to bang a ghost?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:22 PM
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This coming from a man who tells men to become sociopaths to get laid is comedy gold. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:42 PM
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A man saying “wah wah” and another man defending him like it’s some kind of serious response is hilarious though, I’ll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:34 PM
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If a man is leading a woman on, and then one day he just switches his personality completely, do tell me in detail how the fuck the woman he manipulated was supposed to be able to tell he would do that? Also, while you’re here, take this “🤪 pick better 🤪” and go right ahead and apply this to cases of paternity fraud. I fucking dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:24 PM
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See, “rebuttals” such as this are what you’d expect from the average 9 year old child, not what you’d expect from a mature, adult man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:19 PM
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The men with such hyper-simplistic, childish views on complex interpersonal subjects such as intimate relationships are naive because they themselves lack experience. It’s the equivalent of someone who sees a helicopter crash and suddenly they’re an expert on the matter. You see that kind of blind, stupid arrogance a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:00 PM
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A woman can want to look hot or cute, and it still doesn't mean she's "asking for it". You may fool men. But you aren’t fooling other women. By your own admission, women are always telling you that you're wrong about this. You're really not the beacon of truth that you're suddenly now pretending to be. But you’re never going to convince me Fuck off, then. I didn't respond to this thread for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:45 PM
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This is just more “I’ve decided that I’m right even though others are telling me that I am wrong” gibberish lol. Go pound sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:04 PM
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You’ve “heard so many women insist that wearing this does not mean they want attention” but you’re still spouting shit. Believe them, then. What’s your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:38 PM
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You're presuming that you have a level of power and authority here that you simply don't have. I made a statement in response to OP which I still fully and completely stand by. You can chatter your own made-up fairytales about women and this, until you're blue in the face, but it changes absolutely nothing about what I said. If you go back and read my first reply again, perhaps with less emotions, you will get to my reasoning. Actually I'll not be reading any of your replies, much less re-readin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:16 PM
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There's plenty of stuff you can blame women and men for alike, with their own issues, but picking on women looking attractive in public, and so using that as a reason to blame them for getting unwanted attention, is a crazy hill to die on. That is why I mentioned what I did. It's like you're trying to argue that you or men somehow do have a right to infringe upon a strangers personal boundaries because of something you assumed (she's dressed a certain way so that you give her attention). It's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:04 PM
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Serious question: Do you have a problem with women and boundaries in general? Is this a part of some personality disorder you have? Because the way you speak about women and boundaries with this highlights quite a big problem worth working through with a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:16 AM
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This isn't up for debate. How do you decide when a woman looks cute enough that it is somehow "deliberately attention seeking" decision on her part from random asshole men on the street? What's the checklist that qualifies the decision that she is seeking your attention, specifically? Many women look cute in simple clothing, or a normal, cool summer dress for example, and get floods of unwanted attention and harassment we do NOT ask for by mere fact that we look attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:56 AM
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Wearing cute or sexy clothing does not mean we're "asking for" anything. Our fashion choices are not a signifier that we want street harassment from random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:44 AM
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This isn’t my experience at all. I’ve received much more attention generally if I’ve been dressed in a feminine or sexy way and always have. I also got way more sexual harassment as a girl aged 14 - 21 than any other time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:59 PM
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It'd be the same the other way around though.. If a man hated his own gender, he would have internalized misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:55 PM
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The reason you live in a “feminist hellscape” is because the biggest risk to pregnant women is being murdered by their partners. The reason you live in a “feminist hellscape” is because women (without asking for this to be performed on them) get “the husband stitch”, an unnecessary and barbaric medical practice devised for the sole interest of male sexual pleasure to the health and detriment of the women it’s performed on. This shit about “feminists want men to bow down” is utter nonsense, and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:52 PM
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Did you reply to the wrong person? Because.. what the fuck are you even on about? Why is it insecure to not play stupid, idiotic games?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:22 AM
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Did you read the original thread OP was referring to? The context of this matters to what my response was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah, but this wasn't a metaphorical Tinder profile though so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:11 PM
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Yep. And something tells me she would blow tf up if he actually got matched with even like one attractive woman expressing interest in him. Shit would be hitting fans, suddenly the "game" would be all over and he's in the dog house.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:02 PM
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Yeah this is kind of giving "relationship shit test" vibes. Maybe she wanted to test how loyal he'd be with his lovely wholesome new Tinder profile she set up for him "for kicks".. Even if at a sub-conscious level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:42 AM
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It's much stranger than a worm hypothetical. No one actually changes into a worm, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:40 AM
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You guys need to find better ways of passing time. No woman here can speak for your girlfriend. There's no way in hell I'd play such a silly game as this in the first place. Easily she didn't actually want you to get matches and this was all just a weird experiment for a very bored person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:30 AM
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So talk with your therapist about your confusing personal issues pertaining to rape, maybe journal about your feelings, I couldn't give a flying fuck🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:33 AM
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Eh. If you want to make it just obvious to everyone that women fearing rape triggers the hell out of you for some reason, you sure succeeded, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:21 AM
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Respect my personal boundaries. Don't try to push past them. If I were the only woman alive, this would be my absolute main concern above anything else, even the preservation of my own life, health, access to food, etc. It would all come second to the imminent fear that I'd be made into a plaything to be gang-raped. I'd rather die than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:54 AM
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Time passes.. and he continues to respect me rather than harm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:44 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:01 AM
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Pretty much my opinion on this in a nutshell, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:53 AM
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I've had male partners confess that they "wouldn't mind being fetishized", or say in some way that they simply wouldn't have an issue with women sexualizing them. I think part of it is that the power play just isn't there when it's the other way around. Men still very much have the upper hand when it comes to power and the self-assurance that in their daily lives are still very much viewed as human beings before they are seen as sex objects for fun and entertainment. I've had the impression such…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:47 AM
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Women get fetishized before we've even become women. The power play of the sexual harassment we get in the streets, combined with massive power imbalance, tends to for within us a disgust and palpable aversion to being fetishized. In what ought to be a safe space for us (a loving relationship) away from that exhausting treatment, being fetishized by our own partner will for many of us be anything from a red flag, to a reason to break up. We desire to be seen as human beings, rather than glorifie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:20 AM
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Eh, I think it's more the fact that young people are suffering with so much depression and mental health issues that is one of the key points. Yeah, you could bring up phones, social media? video games? idk.. Doesn't seem that hedonistic when you consider those factors really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:41 PM
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This all very quickly falls to pieces when you look at the following examples of men knowing precisely what women mean: It's the same reason our fathers are skeptical when we speak about a new boyfriend. It's the same reason our brothers / male relatives want to protect us. It's the same reason our boyfriends want to escort us to our door, rather than let us walk home at night after our date. They know "not all men are evil" too, but that doesn't stop them from knowing "some men, and you can't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:02 PM
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Yes, but it's highly likely he didn't want kids in the first place. Idk anyone who had to choose between those two things, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:21 PM
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Young people today are possibly the least hedonistic group of young people in history. Young people today are drinking less alcohol, having less sex, they're lonelier, more isolated than the generations before them, and they are much more likely to follow rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:15 PM
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I'm not too sure that our interests will be that different in 30, 40, 50 years time tbh. There feels much less of a generational gap between Gen Z, Millennials and Gen X than there was even Boomers and Gen X... I'm a Millennial but feel very much on the same page as those a gen above and below me. I don't want children, but I have voted in their interests instead of the (largely racist, ableist) Boomers in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:06 PM
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Why does he have to want children, though? Everyone simply isn't cut out to be a parent. We've learned this from some of the boomers who raised us - who were just shitting out consciousness without a second thought as to if they would actually be good parents or not. Just that they should have kids because it was expected of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:02 PM
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No, you're right, it doesn't. I just really have issues with that stat, lol.. It'll be interesting to see how that could change in the next decade or so with all of the later diagnosed people. It is certainly a "spectrum" in the sense of how it affects folks differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:55 PM
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I think that stat is very outdated and based on those whose presentation of autism was pronounced and stereotypical (also more stereotypically "male") enough for them to have been diagnosed in early childhood. Certainly the aspergirls sub seems to be absolutely full of autistic career women making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:53 PM
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I wished a guy the best and what are you doing? Trying to turn a harmless comment into an epic drama interrogation. Go and join a fucking circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:01 PM
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...And? I only wished him well. Is that so bad? You'd have thought I insulted the man the responses I'm getting to this, lol. Express some kindness to a man on this sub and you get this shite..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:38 PM
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You are a stranger to me, yes, but that doesn't mean I didn't feel empathy for you when I read all that you'd been through. I'm genuinely sorry. You've been through so much. You seriously need to catch a break in your life and I really hope that you get it soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:57 PM
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That.. is horrific. I know I can't offer any kind of rebuttal to this and I won't try. I'm just so, so deeply sorry that you experienced this. You didn't deserve it and I hope so much that you heal, and find loving people who treat you with respect and care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:35 PM
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Love, affection, intimacy, laughing together / sharing in-jokes together, being a shoulder to cry on, helping each other through life, helping each other with problems, enjoying and sharing movies / music / media / nature / walks / holidays / raising kids / family life... I feel bad for people to whom this stuff is just not even on the radar in any way when it comes to looking at what men and women provide for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:49 PM
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You're just describing a man who is an asshole though. Like all this is is just a laundry list of very specific, standard asshole traits. Every man isn't an asshole. Most of the men I know aren't anything remotely like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:26 PM
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He does. That is entirely his decision, and he absolutely insists on it, bless his heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:58 AM
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Well that's a very different argument. I want my own job and finances so that I'm secure, but my boyfriend paying for date for us doesn't affect that whatsoever. Sometimes he just wants to treat me, especially if I've had a tough day / week, whatever, and sometimes I'll treat him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:07 AM
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I also don't see why society pushes the idea that men should step in to these situations I've never seen society pushing such an idea in my life. I've seen society celebrate heroes who do choose to risk their life to save others, especially women and children (individuals at a physical disadvantage to a male attacker who could be armed with a weapon) sure. a night and shining armour Knight in shining armour* for someome who likely isn't going to even appreciate him for it. What does a man really…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:57 AM
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Lol oh come on... the decision for who picks up the bill for a date has no such extreme and long-term, life-changing power lmao. Women don't magically stop having an income, job, career, etc, just because a man picks up the bill for a date. Absolutely absurd argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:46 AM
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I don't know you personally, though. So how on earth am I supposed to help you get laid or whatever it is you want? This thread isn't even about you anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:28 AM
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Because I can't seem to recall where I signed up to be your personal guidance counsellor?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:21 AM
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Yes, but compared to what? Compared to most other conditions in the DSM, sociopaths do amazing, in fact. Compared to people without the condition. That's kind of the entire point of labelling conditions and setting diagnostic criteria, lol. So, like any feminist woman? Big deal. LMFAO where did that come from?? 😂😂😂 Only a big deal if caught. The overwhelming majority of criminals are not sociopaths. How is it only a big deal if they get caught? Do their victims and the people they hurt simply no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:16 AM
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Why is the single only metric that you are personally deeming worthy of mattering in the picture of prognosis, career / financial success? Every available source on this will tell you the prognosis for these individuals is poor, that they face significant challenges in many areas of life and functioning, and that they stand little chance of improvement in their condition. That they face - Interpersonal relationship issues; Frequent conflicts; Criminal behavior; Job instability due to impulsivene…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:02 AM
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But the "prognosis" of poor is factually wrong. The vast majority of sociopaths do not end up poor at all. I am assuming here that English is not your first language, because "poor" in this context is not referring to material wealth. "Poor" in the context of prognosis means that the person has a low chance of improvement or recovery from their condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:52 AM
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"Antisocial personality disorder is a particularly challenging type of personality disorder characterised by impulsive, irresponsible and often criminal behaviour." Source. Oh, it's not violent crime you say? Whoopee.. Changes nothing. Who gives a fuck if someone with ASPD is also a CEO or a doctor? I think we've all met a doctor or CEO who is an absolute piece of shit. Who cares? I still don't want to date them, lol. You really have no idea what sociopaths are, lol. Somebody hasn't learned what…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:24 AM
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Yes, there are some particular asshole traits that WILL make you more attractive to women. Confidence is top of that list. How the fuck do you figure that confidence is an "asshole trait"? What total brainrot. Being a narc only really works if you look like a supermodel with it, because then at least you still have looks, even if your personality sucks ass. If you're ugly and a narcissist with it, then you just have the worst of both worlds and people will simply find you doubly repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:19 AM
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I'm sorry you were told that. But becoming a nasty asshole isn't going to improve your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:44 AM
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I don't want to be with a sociopath. My partner isn't a sociopath. An undesirable man isn't going to improve his chances by becoming a worse potential candidate. This is nothing more than deluded incel ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:15 AM
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Symptoms: Pervasive deviance, deception, impulsivity, irritability, aggression, recklessness, manipulation, callous and unemotional traits and feelings of contempt Prognosis: Poor Yeah, no thank you. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:53 AM
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Yes but if the environment is abusive, the children aren't going to benefit from those parents staying together and be seriously harmed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:25 PM
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Significant weight gain is normally the sign of a health issue (physical and / or mental), or something going very wrong in that persons' life. This has happened to me and I know I'm way less pretty now but my boyfriend still loves me and compliments me, etc. If he wasn't attracted to me anymore, he's entirely free to leave me. But he knows why I became obese. I got severely unwell with a health condition, and the medication I was put on had the unfortunate side-effect of weight gain - as did th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:51 PM
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The absolute worst thing is knowing that if shit hits the fan and your relationship falls apart, You. Are. Screwed. Also this set-up truly encourages branch-swinging immediately to another relationship, if not outright emotionally cheating before the first relationship properly ends, to ensure she has any semblance of security. Alimony isn't always a thing, and even if it is it doesn't ensure her long-term security, and it doesn't make up for the fact that if she wants a job or start a career, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:37 PM
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What.. in the actual hell did I just read? I wanna say "touch grass" but sir you need an entire meadow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:36 AM
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I could just as easily say the same for you. Who are you to say women should be virgins for such men in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:08 AM
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I don't think they're equally unfair at all actually. And I gave you an example of what I deemed a fair, balance of mutual expectations: If he's providing, protecting, working hard, I think it's fine to expect her to cook and clean and keep house. My argument isn't "traditional expectations are unfair" point blank, lol. But that there is no equivalent expectation on the man in your scenario, (that of being a virgin), which is what makes it unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:04 AM
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Sure, but once a hymen is broken there's no going back after that, so she'd have to get extremely lucky with her first choice.. Also, the hymen can still be broken during regular activities such as swimming, horse-riding, and some other non-sexual things. It doesn't seem like a fair deal at all, especially if you factor in that part of your deal doesn't involve him being a virgin - so technically he could have fucked around as much as he wished? Lol.. What seems much more fair is the expectation…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:58 AM
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What I mean is, a man could have had a promiscuous past, be a weed smoker, enjoy alcohol and partying, and still have those qualities. Sure they're still based on tradition, but this kind of man likely isn't going to care about the state of his future wifes' hymen... Meaning, it's going to be extremely hard for that guy to find his dream woman who is also waiting until marriage for sex because your male and female equivalents are so imbalanced in terms of how plentiful they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:48 AM
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There are way more men "traditional" enough to want to protect, provide, and spend $$$$ on a ring, than there are women staying virgins until marriage. But yeah, that said, a man simply wanting to protect and provide for his family, and spend money on a ring.. many, many extremely non-trad men fit this bill. I'd say that's just most men who want to get married some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:41 AM
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"Buh buh buh... abortion!" is nothing more than a desperate cop-out to avoid the reality of which gender commits the overwhelming majority of violent crime. Even the imaginary scenario you invented to try to escape reality still involves men carrying out the attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:47 PM
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Holy shit. It's kind of shocking to see a man arguing against this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:48 PM
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I repeat with volume increased Shouting doesn't change facts, I'm afraid. I know you really want to prattle on about weed and whatnot, but if someone shot you, stabbed you, mugged you and left you to bleed out in the street, stole your property, or set fire to your house, (all of these things, overwhelmingly committed by men) - would you be sitting there and saying with your dying breaths, "cRiMe iS a SoCiAl CoNsTrUct"? Of course you fucking wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:33 PM
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I approached my current boyfriend, my ex before him, and my first ever boyfriend way back when I was just 15 (it was online, lol, but hey, I still did it). We absolutely approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:23 PM
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If abortion was universally recognized as women committing murder "If my grandmother had wheels, she would have been a bicycle." I somehow knew you'd try to imagine your way out of acknowledging the fact men commit significantly more crime than women. How predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:18 AM
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Oh, nothing at all to do with men committing significantly more crime than women, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:17 AM
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Who tf would argue against this?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:06 PM
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So what happens to the tax money that women pay, then? Does none of that go to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:01 PM
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Ooh this is a very, very good point. My partner and I are into the retro console games, and those were what got us chatting, but definitely if he were into some of the more recent games well-known for misogyny it would absolutely have been a different feeling altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:14 PM
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I have seen that making the rounds and am highly skeptical of its legitimacy. I know just as many women who game as men, and no woman I know would consider gaming to be such a turn off, certainly not over gambling or some of the other options on that poll. Ftr, I'm a gamer, and my partner is too. Shared interest in the same games was part of how we got together in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:14 AM
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You said it was "fanfic", I proved to you that it isn't. You're just kicking your goalposts across fields at this point. This was never an argument wherein I have to prove that I'm helping them personally. I'm showing you that people do indeed help them. As for the individuals in the article coming under your vitriolic accusation of narcissism - they're not showing their faces at all and their full names aren't given. So that falls completely flat as well. It's just a shame you're so filled with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:59 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/mar/24/the-welcome-party-how-a-secret-group-of-kent-residents-is-helping-small-boat-refugees
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:43 PM
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You cite like three sources of migrants doing bad things, but rapists and murderers aren't just "from overseas", lmao. Plenty of white, British, American, Canadian, Aussie murderers, child molestors, rapists, etc, etc. I remember when many Ukrainian women were turning up at a lot of Western countries and how many men were rubbing their hands together plotting the ways in which they will exploit them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:20 PM
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Holy fuckin' yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:16 PM
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"Women are bitches with no heart! wah wah wah!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:04 PM
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Well that's certainly the first time I've seen someone accuse other people of being selfish and narcissistic simply for wanting fellow human beings to be safe, lol. I live in a coastal area of the UK where adults and children often wash up in small boats each year, over an area of sea in which many of them will not make it and instead will drown. Local residents here help them and donate clothing and food to them. Men, women and children here help out, it isn't just women. Do you only do good th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:03 PM
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You are confusing a “fetish” with having basic empathy for human beings fleeing wartorn countries and risking their lives just to live in a safe place. Even if you do not believe this is what they are going through, the motive is not sexual, it is empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:35 PM
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Of course. But it’s still entirely possible to have a career without it or your finances dictating your whole sense of self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:55 PM
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Date a drug dealer or sex worker then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:24 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:25 PM
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A high quality man wants me to able to survive and thrive on my own, whether I'm with him or not. Imagine not wanting someone you love not to achieve "too much". Like it's basically saying "I want you to limit your potential for me". Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:21 PM
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To me it's a massive red flag if the guy makes a point of not caring about it. They can also be the "I'll look after you" type where really, they're just making you fully co-dependent on them so you're completely fucked if you ever want to leave them. You'll have no income of your own, no career to go to, and a bare CV to make it harder for you to get a job. Not just that, but having a career says something about who you are and what you want to do with your life. It's worth at least being inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:20 PM
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PPD isn't the general population, though. We're clearly Autism Central here lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:44 AM
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The attraction hybristophiles feel for murderers and serial killers doesn't really have to do with the "personality" of the man one way or the other. It's much more about the woman and her set of characteristics, rather than his, especially being as many of them only learned of the man since he was thrown behind bars and an organic relationship (in which she would have actually got to know his personality) never even happened in the first place. They're not sitting about lusting after murderers …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:38 AM
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Why do you want unenthusiastic sex? Literally I don't know how you could possibly enjoy having sex with a person you know isn't actually turned on. Unless you just simply don't give a crap about her as a human being with feelings. And how tf is sex comparable to a man going shopping?? Absolutely bizarre comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:57 AM
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Because we're in 2024, where marital rape is now widely illegal. Yours is the logic that saw women being raped by their husbands as entirely justifiable on account of it being her "wifely duty" to be fucked even if she doesn't always feel like it, and she signed away her rights to bodily autonomy when she got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:43 AM
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Nope. But that was not your first question. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:13 PM
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Most of human history. Ancient and medieval cultures were largely patriarchal - women had fewer rights and limited roles compared to men. This pattern continued for thousands of years. It's only started to change significantly in more recent times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:26 PM
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Yeah, but there's way more to it than that, lol. Women's only real career options were low-paying, pink-collar jobs that were looked upon as just a natural extension of women's "natural proclivities". Which is another way of saying "as a female, you both like and were put on the planet to do this shit anyway, so paying you pittance is wholly justified."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:22 PM
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I was spiked is easier to explain to spouses/parents/colleagues than I got hammered in two hours and cheated/threw up/slapped Melissa from accounts. Lmfao "slapped Melissa from accounts" I lost it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:38 PM
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I'm not traditional anymore, but I was raised in a traditional Christian environment with the more "old-fashioned" gender roles until late teens. I didn't see any guys like this. It was all family trips and Church-related socializing. Thirst traps, gym, and all this? No chance. Many women in my trad circle would have considered it sinful at most (vanity, lust-motivated, ego-driven), or just plain incompatible / undesirable at least. Many women in trad circles are looking for men who seem like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:00 AM
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It isn't like drink spiking is a myth though. It still happens. And if I'm getting drunk in a nightclub environment, what good is it going to serve me to keep my beverage uncovered and unguarded? Potential predators will clock that vulnerability and could absolutely act on it. And so just a little bit of paranoia - just enough so that I guard my drink - could save my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:38 PM
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Most women just simply aren't going to be receptive to men cold approaching them in the street. We need to improve the accessibility of third space for people to meet others, but this is so hard now with the cost of everything being so damn high. It is really money / wages preventing these interactions from happening.. In basically all of time previously this is how men and women would meet each other. Parties, clubs, concerts, gigs, hanging out at the mall, each others places, etc, .. young peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:39 PM
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I wasn’t denying that women have rape fantasies. I was speaking on how men choose to weaponise their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:22 PM
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To “allow”, permit, or let isn’t the same thing as enjoy. That’s the point. Relationship subs are full of “how do I encourage my wife to let me do x sex act?” Even when she may have declined many times before and clearly is not into it. But to remove her own personal enjoyment from the equation is to objectify her. Her feelings about it aren’t as important as the fact that she is “allowing” it to happen. She has things done to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:37 PM
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Of course it fucking is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:31 PM
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Do you think sex positive women with voracious sexual appetites are somehow immune to being preyed on or manipulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:27 PM
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We don't like being products, we approach men we find attractive, and we absolutely initiate sex with men we find desirable. "Women's number one fantasy is rape" (and all this, really), is incredibly commonly misused by disingenuous actors who use it solely to seek to justify any personal predilection they wish. When it's politely approaching women in cafes or whatever, fine, no issue. But the issue is that men will also use this same logic to justify why they repeatedly harass stranger for her …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:25 PM
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"Allow" is an interesting word to choose for in this context, no? It implies that the desire to do "unholy stuff" does not really come from the woman herself, but the man who is wanting to do those things to her, and she allows him to perform them upon her. He is acting upon, whereas the woman is the passive receptacle. No, they're acting nice to get into your pants too. Eh, another interesting word choice.. "Too" implying nice shy guy and Chad are both just the same this way, lol. Nothing wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:48 AM
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Aww, too bad. You'll just have to seethe until you're blue in the face I guess. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:56 AM
2

Kick some rocks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:48 AM
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Idk why you and so many other men here are cutting off desire from romantic love in this way. Or getting confused with what I'm saying here. Every man I've been in love with I've also massively physically desired. Which I think is the overwhelmingly common experience when falling in love with a guy. if you're trying to say you can truly love your partner but not have any sexual desire for them that's ludicrous. I'm not saying that at all. That would be extremely weird. As you said, that experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:26 AM
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I just.. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:22 AM
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This was a really well articulated and considered response. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:42 AM
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See this is kind of what I'm referring to. This binary thinking where 'hot men get x, safe men get y'. There's no nuance. And "get more submission", really? Are you from the 1950s?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:28 AM
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Many women only really want casual sex with men who are the most desirable and attractive, so if a man isn't highly desirable, he will resort to deception or underhand methods in order to try to get his dick wet that way instead. A lot of guys here will literally put the importance of their general physical desirability over everything else, including being loved in a long-term relationship. If they're not in the top 20% looks-wise, nothing else means anything and even love is basically worthles…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:43 PM
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I went through a severe medical trauma involving my reproductive organs last year. I had to have all kinds of medical devices inserted into me, went through level 10 agony, and now the only way I can fuck is when I get high and drunk. I work and pay 50/50 of rent and bills. So am I worthless just because I can't fuck now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:34 PM
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I'm pretty sure even straight men find lean, muscular men attractive, even if not in a sexual way, but in a "I can appreciate their beauty" way. Movies for men are full of those types of men for a reason. And just because we can find those people hot doesn't mean we don't also find other body types attractive, certainly when it comes to someone you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:50 PM
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It's quite clearly not an "entirely male fantasy" though, is it? Come off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:24 AM
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I didn’t say there was an issue Well that's great because rn I'm sobbing at the goddamn Toby Maguire Spiderman love speech on YouTube like when I was 16 years old lmfao. I was conducting research! Give me a normal dude-next-door in romance any day of the week, ugh.. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:43 AM
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What's the issue with the underdog getting the girl though? Idk.. as a woman, I like that narrative a lot more than the boring "tall, strong, rich man gets the girl" trope. Romance novels written by women have a whole trope for 'Cinnamon Roll heroes' (aka 'beta heroes' for this subs terms, lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:34 AM
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Well in the OPs case it was a woman - Colleen Hoover wrote It Ends With Us.. Then you have movies like Pride and Prejudice, ofc written by Jane Austen. Rebecca by Daphne Du Maurier and so on.. I'm not sure what your point here is? Men and women alike write romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:20 AM
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Yes. Very easy answer. I don’t really understand the options part though.. being as many “normal” women start getting unwanted sexual attention still while they’re a minor. Unwanted sexual attention fucked with my psyche more than any loneliness or isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:45 PM
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That predators are difficult to spot and are not always obvious. Many are actually extremely talented manipulators who have everyone - men included - around them fooled, not just their partners or other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:47 PM
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Nobody said your friends are predators. This hyper-emotional junk always spews out of men any time predators being hard to spot gets mentioned. And then we have to pacify you with “not all men!” “I’m not saying all men are like this I pwomise!!” Learn some proper emotion regulation skills before you see fit to take part in mature discussions that can trigger you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:44 PM
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Sometimes there are no red flags until after marriage or pregnancy - when the predator has her “locked down”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:37 PM
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Classic defensive reflex.. Nobody said your friends were abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:35 PM
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The only reason men wind up with your kind of mindset is because they completely lack complex, intimate experiences with their male peers. Men will hang out with a male friend in a bar, play pool, maybe go fishing together, talk about the movies they’ve watched lately.. and this guy will have absolutely zero clue his bro is going home to abuse his gf. Again, it is just nowhere near as obvious as you think who is and who isn’t a threat. Men don’t behave around their friends the same ways they mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:29 PM
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You don’t think male domestic abusers, rapists, child molesters etc don’t have any male friends? They absolutely do. Men are also utterly oblivious to it because evil, cruel men aren’t out there exposing their crimes or going about looking like bogeymen. Some of them are incredibly externally charming to women and also men too. It’s not easy to spot predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:20 PM
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I think you possibly have misjudged. I wasn't claiming that all men are like this. Many are, sure, but certainly not all. I'm friends with many men in my life who I know wouldn't look twice at a teenager, more like be irritated at their presence than anything resembling attraction, lol. My point with what I was saying is that yes it's madly common for young girls and women to be harassed, catcalled etc. And no, it wasn't a rare experience for me as a girl and young woman - it was an everyday occ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:41 PM
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Oh so you're one of the ones who justifies being attracted to minors, then. Gotcha. No one claimed here that it's "natural" to be into underage kids. Just that a fuck lot of men are into underage kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:34 PM
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There's a difference between the men who act on the attraction, and men who do not. I must say though even in men who didn't act, you certainly feel it. It's hard to describe, but around the age puberty shows more of an effect - around 14 - 16 - when breasts start to appear more noticable, it's seriously as though you're surrounded by a magnetic currant of energy that just pulls hard at the chemistry and of men of all ages, even other male family members, married or single, with kids or not... I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:18 PM
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Sometimes it would take seconds from leaving my front door as a girl aged 14 - 19. Yes, seconds. I grew up in a fairly middle-class area in a nice home. And yes, it was absolutely incessant. I hated leaving the house because I felt like I was being constantly watched. Going through rougher areas and busy cities was scary af - some men from those areas would literally try to follow me. I've also been physically grabbed and groped as well.. It'd mostly be men catcalling or shouting obscene things …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:41 PM
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Well I think there's a big difference between a parent not feeling comfortable with something their adult child is doing, and actually going ahead and trying to control them. Like, if I had an 19 year old daughter and she brought around a 55 year old man, I don't have like it, nor do I have to try to control her. You can still talk and express concern, and still be well within the realms of being a reasonable, healthy parent to an adult child with free will. I just think there's some middle grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:08 AM
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Lol and even if you're absolutely beautiful they'll still call you ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:03 AM
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Oh dear god another thread on this? Are you trying to break some kind of world record for most duplicate threads ever made? If you think people who say this are ugly, you're more than welcome to think that. The only issue is, you've got no way of knowing what people saying this actually look like. Whenever I've seen you post this thread before, your reference is always an internet meme the blue-haired fat women drawn in paint, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:01 AM
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Yes, the sentences for women tend to be more lenient, this also goes for much violent crimes committed by women too. Even women being put away for murder tend to get more moderate sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:25 AM
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One of the biggest issues is that rape of men by women is still not illegal. It isn't taken seriously. We still get people joke about the sexual assault of men, and sadly, much of those "jokes" and brush-offs is perpetrated by other men, only helping keep the crimes against them minimized. I think things are changing, but all too slowly.. We are seeing more female teachers being arrested and imprisoned now for raping the boys they teach, and I hope that this is truly a matter of it being taken m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:10 AM
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That made me feel physically sick. I will never see this woman in the same way again. She is just.. so shameless with it too?? like you can tell she just thinks she's the hottest shit on the planet. And people really treated her like she was, so she believed it and thought she could do anything she wished. This is really how exploitation functions. It is extreme disparity in power playing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:05 AM
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Oh my god that's fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:00 AM
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"Women don't do that sort of thing" / "only men rape" / "all abusers are men" / "men are the problem" That's what women say about female-on-male abuse. And what do men say of female-on-male abuse? "He's so lucky!" / "I wish my teacher were that hot!" / "I wouldn't have turned her down!" Even when this is about male children being abused by their female school teachers SO MANY grown men say this trash. Of course women have shitty justifications for abuse, which is fucking shameful and disgusting,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:58 PM
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Yup, it's the self-righteous indignation that does it for me. It's like someone going to a swimming pool and being shocked that there are people who are swimming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:29 PM
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I apologise 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:27 PM
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You go to a rap concert and have a shocked pikachu face about standard rap concert shit… why? This just sounds like some kind of bitter, puritanical rant. Sex, drugs and rock n roll has been a thing since the 60s, just replace rock n roll with rap. 🤷‍♀️ Why were you at a rap concert in the first place if you were just looking down your nose at everyone there anyway? If you wanted to play cards and talk about global politics yourself you should have just stayed home and sat your ass on Reddit all…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:50 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:08 PM
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The women don't suffer fools and you seem to want them to. I was reading a thread on an Irish sub just yesterday about Irish men being really successful with women in other countries.. One of the conclusions was that Irish women can see straight through Irish men's bullshit and they don't fall for it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:55 PM
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It can be boring for some though, can't it? Which is entirely why some people don't want to marry, don't want to commit, don't want to settle down, and would prefer to "sow their wild oats" and have a phase like that. Not really sure why you're making this about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:52 AM
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Having frequent sex partners is adventurous, though. Are you going to try to actually make an argument that it isn't? Lol. And also, the fact that it is, doesn't automatically mean that settling down is necessarily boring. But can people feel like they missed out, though? Also, yes they can. You're having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that multiple different things can co-exist in reality at once, making it personal (about how I personally feel), getting insecure about it like you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:39 AM
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What are you on about? You seem mad for reasons that elude your own self, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:17 AM
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Variation in sexual partners and fucking around is very different than having a sexually exciting and fulfilling relationship with one person though. And it's usually the variation part that men (and women can too) feel like they missed out on in their youth if they never explored that themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:14 AM
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Goddamn, that's wild. Good on you for leaving her to it, and not sticking around for afterwards!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:56 AM
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The same way I can take him seriously despite his past. Being young, dumb, and full of cum doesn't mean that person is incapable of growing, maturing, and having different priorities as they age. I'd much rather he have a past in which he had a sexually adventurous youth and then settle down, than age into an old man, dreaming about an exciting sexual past he 'could have had', but missed the boat of opportunity and feels like he lost out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:26 AM
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Going abroad to a country that you fit in better, have better success in, and can find love it, isn't being a passport bro imo. Passport bros seem more about fetishizing women by race, engaging in sex tourism in impoverished countries rife with prostitution and exploitation, and taking advantage of women in extremely low socio-economic circumstances. Oh, and also - having just enough cognitive dissonance to enable him to hamster his way out of admitting to all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:46 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:14 AM
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You are hoping with all your puny little might that her marriage is a sham so that you feel better about your own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:13 AM
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He needs them to be as miserable and sad and desperate as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:20 AM
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LMFAO. The woman you're desperately trying to neg is married, while you're desperately waiting for sexbots to become advanced enough that you can have semi-realistic relations with them. You've not only lost, you have pie all over your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:19 AM
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It's obvious to any adult what you're trying to do here. It's like watching someone squeeze a pimple trying to get all the puss out. You have no authority to advise her of anything sex-related, and it's amusing to see you so desperately try to imagine that you actually have that power. You need this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:05 AM
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He's definitely not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:36 AM
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I've never been with a man who wanted children, but I never wanted children either so it worked out really. I don't really know many men who have children and actually seem very happy. A lot of them seem miserable, tired and burned out. I get the sense that they regret having children and feel like they've missed out on a more fun, carefree life. Tbh I never had the idea that most men really wanted kids. Like it was just this weird, ingrained knowledge I always had that most men just don't. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:11 AM
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lol get over it 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:13 PM
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5ft 6
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:48 PM
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Luke. Easy choice. Michael is an asshole, and Nathan likes a lot of stuff I can't stand, and I don't trust gym bros. Chose Luke as I'm an introvert who likes dogs and video games too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:29 AM
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I did! My first boyfriend wasn't physically attractive at all. I was drawn to him because he looked shy and sensitive, like a quiet nerd, so for some reason I thought he'd be sweet and loving. He had repulsive, scabby lips and even a scabby tongue (I didn't even know that was possible) that he used to bite and chew when he was anxious - an absolutely disgusting habit that I overlooked out of sheer desperation. Well he turned out to be an abusive asshole who threw tantrums where he'd hurl himself…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:07 AM
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How tf is that "love"? You're describing superficial lust. Shallow, animalistic horniness. Not "love", lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:45 PM
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Housing and money are absolutely necessary though. If you don't have a home, you could freeze to death on the street or get your head kicked in by awful people. If you don't have a job, you could stave to death because you can't afford food or basic necessities to live. If you don't have sex... you'll be sad about it? You won't die. Also the working class should stop being entitled to higher wages. They can get by just fine on lower wages. They should be grateful their employer created a job for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:41 PM
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we all know why some women get addicted to it. Why do they get addicted to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:17 PM
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Emil - "Dark past", what does that mean? Need to be more specific there lol. He's good otherwise. Theo - I don't want to be with a lawyer.. Hmm. And most of the traits listed are just superficial. Nah to him. Julian - He is number 1 on this list. James - Ehh.. never been into guys who always have crackpot ideas. Are his inventions actually any good or is he just crazy? Very turned off by the religious upbringing. JULIAN WINS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:53 PM
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A Vogue columnist said it so it must be true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:50 PM
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Is it an autism thing that some guys just miss all of that? Just look at the way things like love and nuance are sucked out of all discussion here. Attraction and desire is approached like it's a science experiment. I'm autistic and I come here when I want to feel normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:19 AM
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Asian culture doesn’t have an obesity epidemic No it has a suicide epidemic instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:05 AM
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So… Do you agree that the vast majority of people in power are men, or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:25 PM
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The vast and overwhelming majority of people in power - in charge of the laws that affect you, me, children, and everybody - are old men. So no, the patriarchy very much is not “dead”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:38 PM
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The overwhelming majority of men are on average much stronger than women. It’s just a fact of biology. Are we meant to seek out men who are weaker than the average man just so they’re more similar to a woman in that sense?! Bizarre point tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:33 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:42 PM
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Exactly what I said. Selling sex isn't the same as buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:42 PM
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I'm... not encouraging that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:30 PM
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Selling sex isn't the same thing as buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:27 PM
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This is the cringiest thing I've read here in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:07 AM
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I very highly doubt that men who partake in this are "super attractive" men, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:50 AM
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Okay, but how are we supposed to know which of those men are into that kind of thing (or worse), or not? There's no way of knowing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:24 PM
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Nobody made that assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:18 PM
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Every woman also "throws herself into the fire" with a guy who could turn out to be a rapist, murderer, abuser, or assault her. Or she might meet the love of her life who treats her wonderfully and with whom she spends the rest of her life with. We all take chances and risks with this. This post is pure "don't take a risk because you might get hurt, so don't bother". It's a victim mentality. If you don't want to take a chance because you might get burned, and you have absolutely no support syste…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:59 PM
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Sexual attraction from men can be fucking vile, though. And I mean in the sense that the act of fucking a woman can be an act of malice and hostility toward her. It's something no woman on the planet would willingly consent to if she knew the cruelty behind it. Type "pigging" into the search bar and you'll see what I mean. A lot of men who will fuck a woman "for a laugh" in order to joke about it with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:45 PM
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I’ve never been to America in my life 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:35 PM
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I did. I saw a lot of deleted comments, lol. I'm assuming the misandrist ones that are still up, just haven't been deleted yet. I've definitely seen misandrist threads get deleted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:50 PM
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I think it’s different though because she acknowledges it as a problem and is actively trying to change to fix it? It isn’t like it’s just blind hatred with the post detailing “men are terrible and should die!” or whatever. I imagine if it were something more along those lines, it would be removed. Regarding the opposite, you see men actively saying how women are good for nothing other than pussy and women should lose all their rights. But they’ll deny they hate women, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:13 PM
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A fuck lot more than a man who can't get pussy apparently, lmao. According to OP men simply cannot work without the promise of Vagina; they crumble and break apart and become useless, completely unable to function in the world as a productive member of society. Talented women don't need penis to propel them to do great things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:30 PM
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I suspect that stuff is overexaggerated when it comes to the women that foreign tourists are dealing with. Whenever this gets brought up here, men always downplay it. It's always, "it's exaggerated", or they're not paying those ones for sex. The fact remains it is a huge issue and men are funding it with their sex tourism exploits. They just hamster away so they can retain their own sense of respect. After all no one who pays for sex in those countries wants to face up to the part they play in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:14 PM
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Men want to go overseas and pay hookers Many women in the countries those men go to to pay hookers aren't "sexually liberated" though, they're oppressed, enslaved, trafficked, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:57 AM
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If a man needs pussy to incentivize him to lift a finger to work or do anything of any use, and he can't get it because no woman wants him, that's a personal problem of his. It is up to YOU to find a wife to make kids with if that's what you want. Expecting women to appear to you on a silver platter is the epitome of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:44 AM
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I can't read it. :( Can anyone copy and paste the article as a comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:33 AM
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Thank you too for posting this btw. You're not OP but this was a really strong source along the same lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:41 PM
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Holy shit that's disgusting and infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:40 PM
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Wow thank you for actually posting these! I think it has to do with a kind of need for it about one gender, their gender, and this can go for both sides really (feminists and MRAs). Also like a kind of "Well you don't care about me, so I don't care about you" type thing. That's how it reads to me at least. Thank you again for posting the threads! It helped me get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:40 PM
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Their argument is that men should solve their own issues. But when men do that in a way feminists dont like, they protest them. Can you give concrete examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:15 PM
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Lol can’t say anything on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:37 AM
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All of the happily married men I know are kind, lovely people who do not fit the asshole trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:34 PM
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This is a kind of a self-defeatist attitude to have, because you don't actually know how big of an impact your efforts at self-improving will have. Attraction on all the things listed are already subjective. Positive men who have an upbeat attitude about themselves, their short-comings, can be successful with women even if they're short and not stereotypically attractive. The irony of the "Well it's mostly genetic so I'd better just give up anyway" is that the mindset itself is unattractive. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:32 PM
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People do tell women those things, but why is it a problem if someone gives up on dating if they want to? If someone genuinely just wants to nope out of it for a while, or for ever, why is it your job to make them want to again? The most weak-minded people honestly are the MGTOWs who opt out of dating, and then make it their Entire Personality and their lives revolve around complaining about women and feminism all damn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:06 AM
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Lol, I'm still not seeing how we actually disagree. People working as prostitutes or in the military can sustain serious trauma and PTSD, and you're acknowledging that. You're just putting "it's fine.. they're fine.. they're legit professions so no problem". 🤷‍♀️ FTR if I had a son there's no chance on gods green earth I'd feel comfortable with sending him off to fight in a war. The same as if I have a daughter, I would hate for her to become a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:13 PM
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In your 1st sentence you phrase it like prostitution is not traumatizing. And in your 3rd sentence, you acknowledge it as being a high risk job... Which obviously means it can be traumatizing, because it's high risk. It's like you agree with me, but you don't want to, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:33 AM
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That’s a long-winded way of saying you don’t give a shit about victims of sex trafficking and slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:16 AM
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How curious that he's specifically picked out a country absolutely rife with sex trafficking, tourism and slavery, then. 🤔 I wonder what the draw was for him. It's a mystery..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:59 AM
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Lol, your rebuttals are so weak, I might as well be tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:51 AM
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Prostitution is an extremely dangerous job for women. They have to live with an extremely high risk of the threat of violence, rape, assault, and murder. On top of that, the risk of contracting STDs including HIV and AIDS. The stress of this job also leads to high rates of substance abuse because they also have higher rates of PTSD, depression, and anxiety. It's a job absolutely fraught with the potential to absolutely destroy a woman, body, mind and soul. Even women willingly choosing this can …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:22 AM
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Many guys here seem to think that being a Passport Bro is some sort of easy cheat code rather than an option that materializes only after many years of preparation and experience. multiple wives and baby mamas He's moving to the Philippines. Sounds like a regular fucked up ex-Marine who got bored being a massive failure with women in his own country, and so wants fresh meat in a country rife with sex slavery, sex tourism, sex trafficking, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:15 AM
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Prostitution is rife with exploitation and desperation. You're still only considering the man as having feelings worthy of consideration here, while overlooking the woman. Imagine having sex with some incel that no woman feels desire for, including yourself, for payment. Most men want to feel loved and sexually desired by a willing partner. A prostitute will give him none of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:06 AM
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Weird seeing a woman passionately proclaim this. What makes it even weirder is that you see the biggest issue as being men having sex with "undesirable women". So do you care that prostitutes have sex with men so undesirable that they cannot even find a willing sexual female partner? So men having sex with undesirable women is this horrible problem in your view, but if an undesirable man pays a women to have sex with him, it's okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:01 AM
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Except it didn’t find that, at all. Lmfao. Many of these lists cater to the common person and just shove up the latest celeb, regardless of age. Emma Watson still gets credited as being one of the “Sexiest Women In The World” despite being in her 30s and she just looks normal af to other Brits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:19 PM
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“Older” does not mean 5 years - an entire decade older typically. Men generally hate women valuing them only for their cash, status and resources over who they are anyway. Shit sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:12 PM
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Also women finding men 1-4 years older isn’t the same as up to a decade older.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:01 PM
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And what exactly are the age demographics of the female buyers of this magazine and who also lust after those men? Idk why, but I’m getting a strong sense that it sure as fuck isn’t young, beautiful women in their late teens and twenties. All of those men appeal to middle-aged women around the same age as them. I’m betting many young hot women don’t even know who half them guys on that list are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:54 PM
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Why are you putting so much trust in a pop media source that claims to know who the "Sexiest Men Alive" are? How is this possibly actually verifiable in any way, shape, or form? Just because they have declared any of these men "The Sexiest Men Alive" does not automatically translate to women 5-10+ years younger than them finding them desirable. Which is what this thread is about. How does it dictate that any of these men are specifically "in their prime"? I'm pretty certain David Beckham aged 40…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:19 PM
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Fantastic news! Now find me average old fucks leering over beautiful 20-something waitresses who look, sound, act, or have the talent and charisma any of those men on that list have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:54 PM
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I don't like men who have those traits precisely because of the negative reasons you listed. Very muscular men who make fitness their personality tend to also be vain, narcissistic, and horrible to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:55 AM
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How could it possibly be jealousy when they literally found it creepy when they were young too though? What's to envy about being hit on by some disgusting, ugly old men? Gorgeous young men also find gorgeous young women attractive, and they're generally going to be considered infinitely more desirable than older men. And if the older man successfully appeals to a beautiful young woman and they have a consensual relationship, then what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:21 AM
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No man on earth is "in his prime" pushing 40 and to think so is delusional thinking. And also, gorgeous young women also find those kinds of youth-obsessed men creepy as hell - she has to find HIM hot and attractive and desirable too, remember. Men get old and age out of their beauty too, and nobody looks better at 35 - 40 than they did in their twenties unless they were fat in their youth or something. He will just join vast collective of thirsty old guys of every generation above him who is al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:43 AM
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He’s just another man pretending that he can speak for women. And he can’t. Your comment changes nothing about that fact. Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:21 PM
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You can’t just bung a cat into a man’s arms in a photoshoot situation and expect it to act as a reasonable control! It brings up so many questions: Is it his cat? Why is he in a professional photoshoot with the cat?! Is this normal behaviour for him? Even normal cat owners don’t typically have these absolutely bizarre clinical photoshoots with their pets. It makes the guy look fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:24 AM
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<image> The photos are so god-awful they’re actually meme-worthy!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:12 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:10 AM
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No actually. I thought it was crap. The photos used in the study were terrible. Also “man posing cheesily while clutching random cat” has absolutely fuck all to do with my thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:58 AM
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Even the study itself admits that it has limitations, but by all means act like you are somehow a genius for posting it, as you clearly need to feel good for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:54 AM
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Lmao well it's 63% upvoted, so at least take solace in the fact you're not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:28 PM
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I'm probably one of those women. I'm not necessarily extremely left wing feminist.. a bit of both perhaps, but probably mentally unstable. BUT I don't want kids anyway, so perhaps that's my saving grace there, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:59 PM
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Oh, I don't give a flying shit. I've done that here a million times to know it's a massive waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:50 PM
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Thank you for a female perspective on this. I don't get many of those here for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:49 PM
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No that's a very fair point and I do concede on this. Essentially it's a luxury if you have the time to dedicate to extra causes like this. So yes, I accept defeat here lol. I wish I had more time to dedicate to it, but the most I can manage mostly is dedicating some of my income to charities. I adopt older cats who have a hard time getting adopted, but I do wish I could do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:47 PM
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Cat men are the best and I absolutely swear by this. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:45 PM
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Well yes, it only really works if the man is genuinely caring about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:29 PM
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100%. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:28 PM
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At least they'd be doing something decent with their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:55 PM
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I already said in the thread it should be something he properly dedicates himself to. Obviously he shouldn't half-arse it. You're making wild assumptions and imagining that the hypothetical man being given this advice will fuck it up, and then getting mad at me for shit you imagined in your own head. It's moronic advice and should be removed immediately You're entitled to your opinion, but it doesn't give you the right to police what other people say in any way. Remove yourself if you're mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:39 PM
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Yeah, just follow this ^ guys example and whinge on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:29 PM
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Jesus fucking christ, first of all, calm yourself down. Second. Let's say a man saved a cat to try to get laid - and he didn't get laid. He still saved a cat. It's not like anyone is going to get hurt because a man saved some cats. This is better advice than some I've seen here, and it has prompted some great discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:28 PM
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Please, please don't apologise for anything regarding this reply. It's made me glad I made this thread at all. Your story is absolutely incredible and I thank you so much for sharing it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:54 PM
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As OP of this thread, I second this!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:47 PM
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I'm sorry.. It's amazing that you did help those sick children and their families though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:44 PM
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Oh, I think there has been a miscommunication here! I was providing you sources about the history of the link between cats and women being the subject of cruelty (the witch trials, etc) which is why I chose the sources I did. The sources weren't meant as any attempt to prove why men might dislike cats. Sorry about that! I'm also sorry for your negative experience with cats - that must have been horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:42 PM
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The association between witches and cats is why cats would end up being killed. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cat\_burning#:\~:text=People%20would%20gather%20cats%20and,as%20symbols%20of%20the%20devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:28 PM
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Fair enough! 🩵
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:11 PM
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Hahaha I appreciate the invite, but no. I absolutely love dogs too!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:05 PM
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🩵 Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:05 PM
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Lmao fair enough about your cat. Some cats just absolutely hate other cats. Fair point. And yes, I do agree with you that it needs to come from a genuine place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:04 PM
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How... do you even need sources for this? You were never taught about witches and their cats? Taught about the witch trials at School? Medieval Europe?? https://www.historybombs.com/2023/10/why-do-witches-have-cats-a-history-of-the-witchs-familiar/ https://www.pbs.org/wnet/nature/blog/guilt-by-association-how-cats-became-steeped-in-superstition/#:\~:text=Black%20cats%20were%20frequently%20chased,had%20taken%20a%20cat's%20form.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:02 PM
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Of course we had to have at least one “man bad” comment lol With regards to this, look into the history of how men have treated cats and women. Men have treated women and cats with extreme brutality throughout history and some of it does persist to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:51 PM
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This is a fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:50 PM
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I'm not playing that game here, lmfao.. Fools errand to engage with that. "Oh well that says it all if you won't tell mee!" And if I'd have told you, you'll have found a way to say it means fuck all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:47 PM
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More effective advice would be to expand your hobbies and interests, ideally to causes greater than yourself that will also allow you to socialize with others, and to learn to connect with strangers (not just women) in a meaningful and honest way. Which... cat rescue would fall under every single one of those things. Like, not even a little bit, but to a T. So how is it "terrible idea" if it actually perfectly and exactly aligns with your own "more effective" advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:44 PM
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You made a blunt assertion: "women absolutely like the same type of men". I said you were wrong. We don't all like the same type of men. And now you're insulting me and backtracking by talking about "oh I meant in general". So you're still wrong. We're done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:39 PM
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lol, women absolutely like the same type of men. Nope. We don't. And I'm not reading the rest, when the first sentence started off so terribly badly. If we all liked the same men, why don't I fancy my sisters boyfriends? Or my female friends boyfriends? You're just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:22 PM
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Men are all over this sub claiming to know what women like, so I thought it could do with a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:21 PM
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How would you know who I do and don't date? I'm bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:19 PM
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You win this thread sir. 🩵
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:04 PM
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Incorrect on every count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:01 PM
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Oh dear. No one made any assertions or claims about what "most men" are doing... :( I hope you make a speedy recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:59 PM
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Genuinely it's mystifying why you appear so pleased with yourself when all you're actually doing is flaunting brick-level density to the fact that there are men who run cat charities, sanctuaries, rescues, and who foster and adopt, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:53 PM
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"Women are extremely shallow just like men" You're projecting. Women don't all like the same type of man. You just refuse to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:37 PM
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That'd be a good thing. Who could possibly even argue otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:35 PM
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Can you link to the actual study itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:34 PM
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Invalidating the significance of a person saving animals from miserable lives of pain, has the opposite effect of making a person desirable and attractive. Well done for exemplifying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:33 PM
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I'm not saying they should take on animals they don't want, but properly get into it and learn and embody all the skills needed to do it. They'll become better people, learn a lot of skills, and also become more desirable... and also save cats and kittens from lives of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:31 PM
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You're not meant to do it just to simp, but a serious thing you do and properly get into.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:29 PM
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Was this meant to be an actual rebuttal I'm meant to address? It reads like nothing more than a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:28 PM
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You're not a woman though. I am. This gives me a very significant advantage over you in making assertions about what women find desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:24 PM
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A one-off thing won't really work because the amount of people seeing you do it is minimal unless your cat has a social media account or something. You need to do it as a dedicated thing about yourself - like a proper volunteering position or something you do regularly. A properly dedicated hobby or even side-job working for another cat charity. Something you do on a regular basis. You have social media showing all the cats and kittens you've saved and there's you talking about all the work you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:22 PM
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I am correct. No assuming about it. This is just getting weirder and weirder, lmao. You want me to go on Pro Male Masturbation parades holding up signs encouraging men to jerk themselves off?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:55 PM
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I don't disagree that it wouldn't be nice if all humans could feel happy and whole. I disagree that it's possible that you can touch yourself so much that it will cure your loneliness or touch deprivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:48 PM
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What on earth has led you to believe that chronically single men aren't touching themselves or masturbating? This is rapidly looking more just like an incel rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:39 PM
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Esther Perel fan?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:07 AM
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Touching your own body is not the same thing as loving touch from another person. I grew up in the 90s, I don't remember this idea of "touch" being an essential for mainstream. Oh god, come on... I know you aren't, but this is such a painfully boomer thing to say. "Back in my day, x didn't exist!" It has always been a thing. Research is just catching up to it and putting it into mainstream knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:46 AM
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That is scary and I hope you're home safe now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:42 AM
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I couldn't give less of a shit even if you paid me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:40 AM
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This is the sub men ask questions like, "What is the point of a relationship with a woman?" Love does not exist here. It's just about status and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:32 PM
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Is the girl you're dating aware of the numerical value you've assigned for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:29 PM
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you'll see that shy, nerdy, loser men desperately want to date a shy, nerdy, loser "girl next door" so they can relate; yet shy, nerdy, loser women want to date a popular, charismatic, extroverted guy who can boost her social status and "fix her". Just go and attend any Dungeons and Dragons or Warhammer group and see how misguided you are about this. You can find weddings themed after shared nerdy interests where the couple met over a specific game or niche interest. Wedding cake toppers themed …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:48 PM
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I live in the UK and I don't think I've ever met a woman who gave a shit about the amount men earn in my entire life. Are you in the US? Over there it seems like women are way different in this respect, but it also seems fucking expensive as hell to live over there. I feel so lucky that we have the NHS over here. It must be scary if you get ill or have an accident and need to see a doctor. Could that be a factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:52 AM
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lol men complaining about how hard they have it is like 90% of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:50 AM
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“She might get date raped…. but anyway it’s sooooooooo hard for me!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:41 AM
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I didn't say anything about being offended? or my own opinion even. Painting any gender being inherently bad like this is sexist whether you like it or not. It's like that chick here who is making all the "men are into underage girls/would rape them if given the chance, etc" threads. That's sexist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:01 PM
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The mods removed her last post. Wouldn't surprise me if they did the same with this one tbh. It's basically "Men are paedos / male sexuality is inherently evil" type stuff at this point..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:44 AM
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Not all men are even into women, period, let alone specific ages, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:42 AM
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I don't think women should fetishize height, either. I think that's incredibly weird too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:49 AM
0

Fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:38 AM
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It’s absolutely insane for me that anyone would need to ask how men benefit from relationship with women in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:05 AM
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Thank you chatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:59 AM
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It isn't so much about "shaming", but about painting a picture of women as being the spawn of Satan. And yes, it's about hatred of women. According to TRP, women are are manipulative children who never fully mentally mature, are utterly incapable of real love, are attracted to psychopaths, and deceive men by using makeup and hair dye. There are good reason that sub was quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:37 AM
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Money. Daddy issues. She was neglected by her dad as she was growing up, so as a woman she has a need of care from a man who resembles a father figure. They both genuinely just like each other, find each other attractive, and he just happens to be older than her. It's creepy when the guy fetishizes age in a way that makes him seem like he could actually be incapable of mentally processing the same woman as she ages. I've dated older men and younger men than myself, but sometimes the ones who go …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:27 AM
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Men fall in love and want monogamy. Your ideal life would work for a polyamorous man, which not all men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:50 PM
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The 6/6/6 theory is spoonfed to men via RP grifters spouting bullshit for views. According to them, if you're not with a man who adheres to that, you don't actually love him or feel true desire for him at all. He is just your "beta bux". They won't accept anything to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:42 PM
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What do you mean "what's in it for the men"? You have to be joking. A lifetime of sex with a woman whose body and libido are not destroyed by pregnancy and childbirth and the stress of raising a family. Holiday and travel together without the stress of needing to prioritize children or getting a babysitter. You can literally craft your entire life around enjoying as much of it together as a couple without the responsibilities of parenthood as you can. You have a much larger disposable income to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:13 PM
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How do you know he was rejected because he was nice? Women who sincerely reject men because they are nice tend to have grown up in abusive or neglectful households and so their perception of love is warped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:34 PM
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Is there a man who has never had a celebrity crush? I think it's really common for people generally. And just because you fancy a celebrity doesn't mean you need to broadcast it and act creepy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:02 AM
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Because it was a rebuttal to the guy who said "it's mostly a woman thing to have a celebrity crush". Call 'em what you like, but men definitely do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:04 AM
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Is there any sense of "culture shock" between you in terms of understanding references between you both? I only ask because I'm 10 years younger than my bf and some of the references I make (that are pretty widely understood by people of my generation) just go right over his head lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:43 AM
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Whenever you get a thread by a woman talking about how her bf or husband stares at women's asses or tits in public and she hates it, there will always be at least 1 woman in the comments saying how much she loves pointing out hot women in public with her bf. Same with men who drool over Henry Cavil watching The Witcher with their gf. "Pickme" suspicions aside, these are real dynamics for some couples and honestly they don't seem all that rare. But then there's also situations where you have proj…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:17 AM
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You missed the point. Plenty of men fantasize over female celebrities, models, OF, porn stars, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:11 AM
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have you ever called one of your fat friends fat with the intent of making her be less fat? Have you done this to make her realize that it's her responsibility to be less fat and that she's royally screwing up? Lmao that's so stupid. Fat women already know they're fat. Having a female friend tell them "you're fat, you should really stop being fat" will probably just get you ghosted. Oh and your italicizing her username is so fucking weird and childish lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:07 AM
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This is starting to sound like delusional paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:02 AM
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Jesus christ dude calm down. You're way too mad over not knowing what this random man's height is. Maybe she didn't know. Maybe she doesn't want to bother talking to someone whose tone is so confrontational for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:50 AM
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5ft 4 for a man is way, way below average height. Most men are around 5ft 9 in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:32 AM
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Why do people have to try to convince you to do something you don't want to do? Just don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:20 AM
1

You got really lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:24 PM
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What are you doing to find love apart from praying to suck on the sweet government tit and hoping a girlfriend falls out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:09 PM
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Okay. Yes I have always been concerned about how data is used. It’s already fucking weird getting ads for things I haven’t searched for but spoken about. Not a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:53 PM
1

Well you would have to hope it’s a nice surprise and not a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:48 PM
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I don’t even think it will even actually work for that intended purpose tbh. What is it and why would you trust this? Because it’s promising you a girlfriend you just defend it blindly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:47 PM
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Lol yep that’s exactly what they want you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:22 PM
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Tbh it just looks like a great way for the government to collect an absolute shit ton of extremely personal information about the citizens of their country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:52 PM
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It scares them off... But I think it's justified. When you marry, you place a giant, potentially life-ruining obstacle in the form of divorce in the way of you breaking up if either of you ever want to. You want to know you're making the right choice, as much as you can. You can't do that with someone you're just dating and never even lived with. It's a bit like those people who meet someone online and have a "LDR" and plan marriage when they've only even been in each others company irl a handfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:02 PM
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I don't think there's anything bad about people not wanting to get married, but I think generally living together for at least a year or so is reasonable to understand each other fully before committing to marriage if they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:00 PM
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People show the best sides of themselves when dating, but living together, the masks have to come off. You don't really properly know someone until you start living together and sharing responsibilities. If you marry before you live together, you are taking a risk marrying someone you don't properly know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:51 PM
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Oh my god. You are so lost. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:39 PM
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Omg you're not getting this, lol.. Every poorer person isn't stupid about this though. There literally ARE people who are choosing not to have kids because it's too expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:33 PM
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Stupid people choose to have children they can't afford, just like stupid people buy pets they can't afford, or other stuff they can't afford, and just sink into masses of debt and end up in a massive crisis. It's an objectively bad idea, but if you're sufficiently dumb, you will do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:28 PM
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People who want children have children, whether they can afford it or not. That isn't true. People who want children are saying this themselves - that they can't afford it. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/apr/02/the-britons-who-want-children-but-feel-they-cant https://www.womenshealthmag.com/uk/health/a45116836/cant-afford-children/ Besides, how sensible is it to choose to have children you know you won't be able to properly care for? The cost of childcare has risen exponentially in rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:19 PM
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Most recently I came across a post by another user that created a fake female dating profile The irony of that post was that the guy was trying to prove something about women being picky or bad or whatever, and in the process of trying to prove it, did something far more heinous and terrible than the very thing he was trying to prove. Apparently it's absolutely fine to dox and deceive men, lead them on, post their faces and (what they thought were) private conversations online, if it's a man try…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:24 AM
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No and no. Tbh this sounds like a breeding kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:15 AM
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Not in employment, education, or training.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:59 AM
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Cats are so freaking beautiful. I got my sweet girl last year and she's so precious and affectionate I literally sometimes cry with love for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:58 AM
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Not exactly a mystery.. Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW /ˈmɪɡtaʊ/) is an anti-feminist, misogynistic, mostly online community advocating for men to separate themselves from women and society, which they believe has been corrupted by feminism.[2] The community is a part of the manosphere, a collection of anti-feminist websites and online communities that also includes the men's rights movement, incels, and pickup artists.[3] Like other manosphere communities, MGTOW overlaps with the neoreactionary…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:55 AM
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One thing I would expand, which you touched on, is men are actively shamed for having preferences. If I say I don't want to date fat women, I am shamed for body shaming her. If I say I don't want to date a trans woman, I am shamed for that. If I say I like a girl with "nice curves", I am labelled a misogynistic POS who supports the Patriarchy and needs to be cancelled and ejected from Modern Enlightened Society. This is exaggeration on an utterly theatrical level. You are not ejected from societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:49 AM
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Okay, but what is the issue with variations in arousal levels? Do we have to be horny throughout the entirety of our cycles? Why? How are they defining who is attractive and who isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:57 AM
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We get the ick about sex, men, ourselves, the world, and everything when we've got blood pouring from our vaginas. You could probably find studies about women feel differently about their own children during certain stages in menstrual cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:16 AM
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No problem! ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:46 PM
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Okie doke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:34 PM
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It's clearly relationship / pill / psychological thriller
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:10 AM
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Nm just read your batshit insane post history. Your account will probably get deleted soon. ~ Goodbye kisses from an obese feminist <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:04 AM
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over a pure young virgin Are you muslim by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:00 AM
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Apart from boomers who hate young people, who is even defending the idea of young people - men or women - being drafted into fighting wars anymore? From what I see, women don't want men being drafted either. And of course it makes sense - why would women want to birth sons to send off to war? And what does women enjoying their youth and settling down when they get older and all this, have to do with upholding the patriarchy? Choose to join the military if you want. Choose a big tall strong man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:30 AM
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Oh it's pretty obvious who is coping here. And it isn't the woman you're insulting, lol. You wouldn't feel the need to sink so low if you weren't. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:46 AM
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When a woman tells you something that doesn't align with your revenge fantasy about older women, you personally attack her and insult her... Riiiiiiiiight. Yeah it looks like you lost, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:40 AM
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You don’t need a ridiculous hat when you write like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:08 PM
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There we go. Man thinking he knows better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:48 PM
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Plenty of ugly people with shit personalities exist. There are literally disfigured men who have wives, but I'm sure you'll find some way of badmouthing them or invalidating their love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:56 AM
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Yeah women feeling differently during hormonal cycles isn't news. There is no demonstrable evidence that these cycles actually changes the relationship in any meaningful way. No real different to men getting horny and fantasizing about 19 year old cheerleaders who look hotter than his wife every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:07 AM
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There was absolutely no point to posting your question, then. :) This sub is crammed full of men who will scream their own "answer" to this "Question For Women" and appease and circle-jerk each other like they think they're right. eta - Lmao it's already well under way under Automod. The automod comment will probably be the top comment where all the men have felt the desperate need to answer this themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:48 AM
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Men get the "women only find a small number of men physically attractive" thing really confused. Attraction builds through personality and interactions with men. We're generally turned on by what we hear, as much as or more than, exclusively what we see. It doesn't mean we're settling. It just means the way attraction forms is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:40 AM
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Plus a man highly suspected of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:29 AM
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Lmfao oh my god being a male celebrity doesn't mean your love life is going to be perfect. Did your mother tell you fairytale stories about those too? Being a famous man doesn't mean any romantic issues are automatically the woman's fault, either. The fact that you included a well-known womanizer and highly suspected rapist is really telling. Do you blame women for being raped as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:27 AM
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Throughout the history of western civilization, women were never truly oppressed. Stopped reading here. Only as recent as the 90s it was legal for a man to rape his wife. You clearly don't know what you're talking about. Delete thread. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:52 AM
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Virgin men are made fun of when they have poor social skills and weird character traits alongside it. Slutty women are made fun of when they have trashy lifestyles with high risk of STDs and unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:49 AM
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Replace chastity with sex. Never known of a man irl who gave a flying shit about body count apart from older insecure virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:46 AM
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So did you eventually tell all these men the truth? Did you ask them if it’s okay to post their photos here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:29 PM
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How is it a fake objection?! You strung real people along for an absolutely stupid experiment no one really gives a fuck about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:20 PM
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Oh dear. You have no rebuttal because I caught you the hell out, so now you're talking absolute nonsense, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:24 PM
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Holy fuck. The fact that you believe that someone has to be attracted to someone in order to have empathy for them as a person, says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:11 PM
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This happens to women who are taken and / or, who are trying to avoid men. The type of man I'm describing doesn't care if the woman is single or not, or is interested in him or not. It has nothing to do with who the woman is "going for". A woman could be a voluntarily celibate asexual aromantic and still experience this type of behavior and treatment from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:52 AM
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People of either gender can be manipulative and selfish. Surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:26 AM
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Nice flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:03 AM
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It's because the way we've experienced men trying to extract sex from us makes us see that many men barely regard us human, much less have empathy for us. One example of this is trp men seeing women as "plates", not human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:59 AM
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Well how many of us need to admit it before they stop hating us? This is just the male equivalent of misandrist feminists who scream "men should admit their privilege!" when plenty of men do all the time. Each side will look for excuses for their hatred. This thread is one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:56 AM
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"I don't want to improve myself" Okay then, don't? No one is forcing you to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:18 AM
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You are entitled and delusional for assuming that you should be able to pick and choose whoever you like even if they're not attracted to you. Stop assigning a meaningless numerical value to yourself and getting pissed when a woman of the lower numerical value you assigned to her isn't into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:07 AM
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while men tend to be accepting of flaws to the point of enduring a decades long sexless marriage. There are plenty of women like this too, though. Estrogen can play a part in women tolerating bad behavior on account of stronger ability to empathize with their partners. Men and women alike are also susceptible to the sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:03 AM
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It reads like total brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:59 AM
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You want women to do x because it's "bad for American life and culture". I'm calling bullshit on your "it's not good for women!" Nah. It's not good for the men who want to screw them. Obvious vested interest is obvious. If women aren't happy being single, they'll do something to rectify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:40 AM
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It doesn't necessarily mean that their expectations are "unrealistic". They could just be not very interested in many men. Some people don't have that high of a libido that makes them really crave it, either. Asexual exist after all, to go the far end of the spectrum. Are those people narcissistic for not letting anyone near them either? I think a lot of older women would rather be alone than with someone that isn't right for them, even if it means they do spend the rest of their lives alone. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:38 AM
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You may well just say "open your legs - FOR AMERICA!" Lmao. You can't make women want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:10 AM
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Why? You can't force a woman to desire you or want to date you because her standards exclude you. Now that seems narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:04 AM
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Why is it narcissistic to be picky about who you choose to be with? What if someone would rather be alone than be with someone who isn't right for them? Why do they have to choose anyone at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:00 AM
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Tons of research shows women only see a small number if men as attractive and only swipe them. Which - on account of the biological risk and cost of pregnancy for women - is nothing new at all. Is there research to show that women have objectively become more selective in recent years across all age groups? Issues that I didn’t have when I was that age. Were you expecting dating to be the same as when you were a young man? Obviously dating is harder as you get older - more people are married or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:51 AM
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You've been of dating age for at least 15 years. So how can you be sure it isn't just the age demographic where older women are more picky and discerning about who they choose to date than the women you were trying to date 15 years ago? And then, if you were still trying to date women considerably younger than yourself, shouldn't they be picky and discerning when considering dating a man significantly older than themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:41 AM
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Ahh I love Rotten Mango! Her deep dives are amazing. I hadn't heard of Bailey Saran though, I will check her out. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:28 AM
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You're talking absolute shit. Every woman does not put makeup on every day. Even less of us are into it enough to consider it a dedicated hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:57 AM
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Just because you don't like them doesn't mean they're not hobbies. Many men are into beer and watching sports - which I hate myself - doesn't mean they're not hobbies. They're just more male-centric, which is fine. You're just shaming female-centric hobbies out of pure misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:54 AM
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Oh so you have a keen interest in cosmetics too then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:51 AM
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My theory is that these men themselves are only interested in women as far as porn and thirst traps. So their entire algorithm caters to this, and then feeds them more and more thirst traps. And from that, they draw the conclusion that all women are narcissistic and self-obsessed and have no interests other than posting selfies. My hobbies: Reading, drawing, playing guitar, gaming, true crime, and cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:49 AM
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Yes. Taking selfies and feeding off of male validation on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:46 AM
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An absolute shit ton of men here, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:46 AM
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Unbelievable!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:25 PM
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Just out of curiosity, would you describe yourself as aromantic and / or asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:21 AM
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It's entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:12 AM
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Men have been able to freely fart, burp to their greatest capacity, and be lax with their personal care all while being married to women who cook, clean and tend to their sexual needs. Strap yourselves in boyos. We're just getting started... Enjoying stretching our legs now. If men want to fuck off to another country because they're unable to tolerate women having more freedom to be individual people, we're not complaining? Not our problem every western man doesn't want to fuck us. We could do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:06 AM
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I'm assuming many single men in their 30s have been through relationship shit (relationshit, lol), in their past that has put them off the idea of marriage. Maybe they're divorced, or if not, probably relieved they didn't, and feeling like they dodged some bullets by not marrying in the first place - to women it didn't work out with or that broke their trust, cheated on them, abused them or something. I don't blame them really. After all the shit I went through in my past relationships, I'm so g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:20 AM
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Read this: https://np.reddit.com/r/OutOfTheLoop/s/tmpUVQKKV4
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:06 PM
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No. It’s bad to generalise all women that way. Just because it’s important to many women doesn’t really mean that it’s fair to say it’s the highlight of her life. Many things can also feature as important, if not more important, to women than marriage. Many of us prioritise our careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:14 PM
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Why do men who don’t want children fuck women when there’s a chance he could get her pregnant? Why do anything that carries any risk, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:22 PM
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How tf is getting divorced in any way comparable to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:09 PM
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As legitimate as wikipedia Oh my god that's the funniest shit I've heard all week!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:47 PM
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Men realise sooner or later that going to war sucks, because it is about murdering people and risking yourself being murdered. Marriage remains a positive thing to women because it's a celebration of love and being with someone who makes you the happiest you've ever been for the rest of your lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:46 PM
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"So my husband and I-" "Oh! I didn't know you were married! When was the wedding?!" "We're not married and didn't have a wedding. I just call him my husband.." "Oh..." Makes you look a bit sad and mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:44 PM
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Say that you've never fallen in love without saying that you've never fallen in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:42 PM
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You must be American. Brits know better than to post The Daily Mail like it’s a legitimate source. Can’t believe you made me click onto that festering shithole of a website.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:10 AM
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There's an entire Wiki dedicated to incel-related violence. But there is no feminist-related violence? There's also Misogynist Terrorism, but where is feminist terrorism? Does feminist terrorism exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:17 AM
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I agree with you about some women having that phase, but I'm not entirely sure what you mean with your first sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:09 PM
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Yep, but also another thought on this - we have an entire subsection of women who have been socialized from an extremely young age to put marriage and childbearing on a pedestal via toys and media directed at girls. The reason I say "subsection" is because ALL of us had Disney shit directed at us, but only some of us wound up properly internalizing it and dreaming of our Prince Charming, dream wedding, becoming a mother one day, etc. Boys media has absolutely no equivalent of this at all, on any…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:05 PM
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Irl just via my own life experience, but also men I've been with and women they've known and been with as well. If a man is widely considered sexy and attractive enough, then usually, they will have a period in their life where their life is about enjoying casual sex before they want to settle down. Whereas a young woman can be beautiful and attractive, but her personality just isn't geared toward casual sex like the guy above, and she's already thinking about having kids and getting married. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:47 PM
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There are some women whose maturity level is on part with someone older though. Same goes for men. People mature at different rates on an individual level, but I don't think it has much to do with gender - as you say yourself - past a certain age. Generally, I think there are possibly more women in their early twenties who experience the itch to settle down and have families than men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:19 PM
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Plenty of incels who are also psychopaths. It isn't exactly like they present as sad, innocent angels all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:42 AM
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That is absolutely fucking heinous. I've seen men tell other men to self-delete, rope-max, etc here, even linking men (or boys - because how tf do they know their age when it's anon?) to websites detailing suicide methods - with not a fucking care in the world. Just absolute human scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:01 AM
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Thanks. I am preparing myself for inevitably extremely depressing internet rabbit hole with this one.. Already seeing he killed himself in his bio here. I instantly thought that when I read the first article, it's inevitable.. The whole thing is suicide fuel to those poor guys. edit - Holy fuck it somehow got even worse.. So much worse. Idk how that Money guy wasn't thrown into prison to rot for the rest of his days after what he put those kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:01 AM
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The mental trauma of all of that is just beyond unimaginable. The mental and physical torture of it all. Imagine going through puberty like that as well.. oh fucking god.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:52 PM
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From the 1960s until the late 1970s, it was common for sex reassignment and surgery to be recommended. This was especially likely if evidence suggested that response to additional testosterone and pubertal testosterone would be poor. With parental acceptance, the boy would be reassigned and renamed as a girl, and surgery performed to remove the testes and construct an artificial vagina. It does say citation need but wow I was NOT prepared for this if it is real, holy fucking shit that is just me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:22 PM
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Women are more likely to be assaulted by people we know, and I was sexually assaulted by my male cousin so eh… really both options are equal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:24 PM
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You didn't respond to what she said about the Hooters waitresses though... Why? I think you know why, lol. Men falling for someone based on their appearance is downright innocent compared to women needing to analyze ten years of a man’s tax returns before they can decide if they love him or not. Lol how is it innocent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:12 PM
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Omg that was so beautiful to see. Not often I can genuinely say that on this sub, but wow, that was so sweet. He seems like a lovely guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:46 AM
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I can’t believe you’re the same guy constantly prattling on about how you fuck teenagers and unashamedly stating that you view women as sex objects lmao. Why do you care if there exists a woman whose desire is triggered by a man being rich? Surely you should be able to handle their existence if you’re like the male equivalent lol. And yet you’re butthurt over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:24 AM
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What I meant is that the idea that all there is to life is work, Netflix, two vacations per year seems pretty grim to me. You're projecting your own total lack of imagination about how to enjoy life onto other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:08 AM
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Why is that weird? There's a world of difference between babysitting and enjoying taking care of your niece and nephews, and actually having children of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:07 AM
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I'd think the exact same as if it were a woman. Vain af. And yes I'd get the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:30 AM
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"It's not my fault nobody is attracted to me. It's their fault" - the logic of that mentality is exactly what one would expect from someone who is really undesirable. Like it makes 100% perfect sense that an undesirable person would blame everybody but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:00 PM
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Why do you need to write this again? This isn't a "part 2", it's just the same exact thread written a bit differently. Why? Will there be a part 3?? I actually think you know you're wrong about this deep down, but you keep having to write up these essays in attempt to convince yourself that shared hobbies and interests don't matter. The less you share in common together, the less of life you're able to enjoy together. I would argue that building a relationship on the hobbies you share is often a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:18 PM
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Funny, i’ve stated many times that I don’t prefer overweight women or women who spend a lot of time in nightlife and i haven’t gotten shit on for it. It's likely because you're respectful about it and not insulting those kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:10 PM
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See this is the problem.. If you're a man struggling to find a gf at all, imagining that you can become Chad is pretty ridiculous. Self-improvement =/= Trying to become a supermodel. It's black and white thinking. It's better to try to work with what you've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:54 PM
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Fair enough. So then, is your counter-argument that it's impossible for a man to change himself for the better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:06 PM
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The assertion that anyone can self-improve to any arbitrary standard is unrealistic. No one made that assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:19 AM
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People who have issues finding people who desire them, and then also blame the people who don't find them desirable, instead of taking steps at self-improvement, are essentially in a "dog chasing own tail" situation. The resulting stance of blame, negativity, and resistance to change make them even less desirable, perpetuating the cycle...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:42 AM
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The vast majority of people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:57 AM
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They’re not Chads though. I don’t blame them for being depressed. I blame them for asking “How do I look?” and not faking a semi-positive facial expression. Looking miserable as shit is always going to make an average or below average looking person even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:43 AM
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And it still makes them look unappealing af
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:49 AM
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They're so pre-occupied with shit like "mewing", and the development of their maxilla, that they miss that their facial expression makes them look like they wish that they were never born into this world. Can't see the forest for the trees type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:08 AM
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Why is this one female co-worker of yours able to speak for all of womenkind?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:15 AM
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(Seriously we need to inculcate values of selfishness and ruthless competition in kids in middle school to begin with. We need to break the concept of love, and the possibility of idealized love in them) Well there's zero morality or kindness in this. So you should be drowning in pussy, right? What a stupid post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:30 AM
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I see this a lot. Both are true. But those kinds of guys normally refuse to admit that their hateful state still isn’t going to change anything for them for the better. So they just carry on wallowing. It’s sad. “I became hateful BECAUSE women did x bad thing or ignored me!” Yep, and hating women because of that isn’t going to change shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:45 PM
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Not every experience with autistic men is going to be the same. Plus people are less likely to make posts like "I met an autistic man and had a normal experience" because there's literally nothing to talk about there. If a teacher says she's seeing a high frequency of incel behaviors in her class of autistic boys, then that's what she's seeing. If there are women on those subreddits saying they've had terrible experiences with autistic men, then that's what they've experienced. To be fair, there…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:29 PM
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What an interesting story!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:29 PM
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I said "ime", which means "in my experience". Also, you're on Reddit, not a courtroom. I don't need evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:26 PM
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Jesus.. If this is how you respond to someone literally just hoping good things for people, then it isn't your autism holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:32 AM
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The autistic women don't want the autistic men thing isn't an excuse, just look up any of the autism in female subreddits and type "autistic men" into the search bar and you'll see just how much they desire their counterparts. I did a search for "autistic men" on the r/aspergirls sub, and the top result was this thread called "GOOD experiences with autistic men?" and the responses are full of women singing the praises of their counterparts. The second one from the top was about intense attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:52 AM
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Ime, too many autistic men - when seeking relationships - seem to forget that autistic women exist, and drastically overshoot way out of their league for near model-tier neurotypical women they stand 0 chance with. You tell them to go for autistic women and it's "there aren't many of them" (yes there are), or deflection "they only want neurotypical men" (not true in every case anyway), or just any excuse not to bother with women in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:51 AM
2

I think you’re not a day over roughly 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:55 PM
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That’s so messed up, holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:22 PM
2

Tbh I'm just fascinated that my saying "I wouldn't really know what to say to a man complaining about being single" triggered so many men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:34 PM
1

Lmfao, now call me a man-hating feminist misandrist to complete my "angry man PPD" bingo set! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:11 PM
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Ah, there it is! Was wondering when the "women are bad people" point would come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:20 AM
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Idk? Do we always say that? Well, I didn't get that memo. Oops.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:05 AM
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Yeah.. it is wildly abusive to deny someone access to their own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:44 AM
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Well you very clearly care enough to respond to me and insult me for no good reason at all. So I think you're projecting when you accuse me of lacking in self-awareness. :) You care a lot otherwise you'd gtfo of my notifications, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:40 AM
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100% you would not expect all of this from this hypothetical single man's male friends. But somehow women have to magically transform into therapists whose job it is to provide trained support to suffering single men and if we're not, we're crass and cruel. Hysterical. And if I were here telling you how "cruelty is ingrained in men", you'd be crying "misandry!" Hypocritical horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:25 AM
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Not really knowing exactly what to say to someone complaining that they can't find a date makes me a pretty normal person. That you've overreacted to that on such an absurdly colossal scale as to accuse me of cruelty, says way more about me than it does about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:14 AM
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Really? Wow, that seems really strange to me.. Surely those women are also masturbating as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:08 AM
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I meant that I wouldn't care as in - it wouldn't bother me - it wouldn't negatively affect me in any way. And yes I'd be relieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:02 AM
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Wouldn't care. Tbh actually I'd be relieved that he was relieved and not feeling frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:49 AM
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Okay. Nobody said anything about not being bothered to care, or half-assing a response either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:12 AM
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If someone need a therapy-educated response or they’ll get mad, they need a therapist. They literally need a higher level of support than what the average, untrained person is capable of providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:52 PM
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How were those responses invalidating? What else is there to say to someone in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:23 PM
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Omg this has to be the most hilarious version of the classic trp “revenge fantasy” I’ve actually ever seen. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:51 PM
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Oh of course. Absolutely. But even with all of the empathy in the world for a guy in that situation, I’m just not sure what anyone could say in that situation that wouldn’t just come across like ultimately unhelpful platitudes. “You’ll find someone someday” “You’re a great catch” “She’s out there somewhere” “You just have to keep looking” 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:02 PM
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A door in your fucking face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:48 PM
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Feelings are diminished to “feefees” and “tingles” in pill spaces, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:28 PM
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What could a woman say that would actually help? I don’t think I’d know what to even say to a man who complained to me about his lack of success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:49 PM
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Older women get accused of being bitter and insecure for literally just existing here, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:04 AM
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Well I think that depends on his own age and maturity levels. If a man is mature, it should surely be about finding the right person for him, not just worrying about what his mates think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:13 PM
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I disagree. It's just different types of baggage. And it depends on the person. Going by stereotypes though... Teenage girls have endlessly complex and annoying social circle drama - and to go with it, seemingly endless energy to constantly chatter about it to anyone who will listen. They're insecure about their small tits or how their butt isn't round enough and feel like shit in everything they own. Or not. Older women can have many babies with many different fathers, betrayal trauma coming ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:04 PM
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We hear about it a lot here just because it's used as a way of putting older women down. Irl, the men I know who are actually having sex and forming relationships with women a lot younger than themselves are really respectful, decent and actually pretty private about it. But you'll notice here, they like to scream about it and really try to weaponize it against women they're debating: "we don't want ugly old bitch hags", etc. They're also likely young teenage-early twenties guys themselves, mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:54 PM
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Having endured relationship breakups is a different type of baggage that really doesn't generally make someone difficult to be around unless the guy is pre-occupied over a body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:45 PM
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Inb4 inevitable: We like fucking young women more because they're hotter - yup, this is literally just it, lol. With age comes baggage. 18 - 21 year old women are much more likely to be insecure, have issues with emotion regulation, and have a shit ton of personal drama surrounding their personal lives. Older women are generally much more secure, have a handle on their emotions, and not be surrounded by idiotic teenage drama. The whole "young women don't have baggage" thing is bs. No one has mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:40 PM
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No. It just triggered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:50 AM
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Reread my last response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:46 AM
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This isn’t about black people. And this isn’t a debate either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:38 AM
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This sub is the worst place to ask this question. But no, you’re not bigoted. You’re experiencing the same exact thing so so many women and girls do. I wish it wasn’t like this. You are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:25 AM
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My guess is less.. They're statistically having less sex than the gens before them, and they're also consuming way less alcohol, which leads me to think - less impulsive behavior, less likely to engage in promiscuous behavior..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:32 AM
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It was absolutely terrifying. Sometimes I was frightened I’d get kidnapped because they physically grabbed me and held me. Imagine being so tragically, pathetically bitter that you insult women who went through this by calling this shit a fantasy. It’s really quite sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:13 PM
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Actually, I think your fucked up reasoning stems from envy. You probably read about girls being given attention from adult men, and you envy the child, because you get no sexual attention. There’s simply no other reason someone would conjure the absolute brainrot you’re talking. Why else would you try to call it a “fantasy” that children get sexual attention from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:08 PM
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Why the fuck are you calling it a “fantasy”? It’s a reality. How old do you think someone needs to be to recognise they’re being catcalled, whistled at, and being given sexualised comments? Children walk home from school and visit their friends. Why are you making excuses for paedophiles? Fucking vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:53 PM
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So a child complaining about being sexualised is like a rich person complaining they got robbed? Fucking listen yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:24 PM
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Have you forgotten the point of the discussion? It’s not like being “rich”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:07 PM
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Doesn’t really seem to do jack shit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:00 PM
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Many women first start getting sexual attention from adult men when we’re like 12 years old. Children. Is that an “advantage”? To be seen as a sex object as a minor? It’s terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:53 PM
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If it were the 60s, you’d be complaining about the mini skirts. Weird post tbh. The scrunch butt thing is just the latest trend. Tits n ass you’ve seen walking outside are living rent-free in your head. What’s there to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:41 PM
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Overweight and obese women on social media are also going to get hateful comments from men too though. You’re acting like every woman online is always getting her ego massaged. Women will also get horrible insults on their looks, hell even if they’re pretty people can be mean and pick them apart. People can be absolutely horrible to others online - is that what you want? Would you prefer fat women be insulted and made to feel terrible about themselves? What does that say about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:30 PM
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Lol what do you mean “even in Antman”? 😂 Anyway, sexual incompatibility is a valid reason for breaking up. However, libido fluctuates during a lifetime with things like sickness, traumas, hormonal fluctuations, menopause, etc. So it’s also a question of - how long do you give it before it possibly rebalances? It’s going to be a personal thing obviously. It’d be a bit mad to break up over just one time your partner turned you down for sex. I’d say it’s a matter that needs clear, honest and upfron…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:11 AM
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You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:34 PM
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Yes but disclosing makes you vulnerable, could be retraumatizing to you, and there is the risk they might not be supportive. You also "risk" having them be supportive, helping you heal, helping build up your trust, etc. But you should absolutely not feel pressured to disclose if you don't want to. Especially not at the start of a brand new relationship. You get to assess for yourself if someone you're seeing is privy to that information about you when it suits you. How you feel is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:45 AM
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Why do you even want people to debate you on this? You don't have to tell anyone this if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:38 AM
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Nope. He's been at this for years under multiple different usernames. Usually his accounts get suspended it seems, but he just comes right back with a different account, lmao. It's kind of impressive tbh. Mad dedication to the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:39 PM
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It's the same guy who always posts about this exact same thing.. He's so obsessive about this subject he makes multiple accounts to talk about it. I think mods should have a "Don't beat the dead horse" rule at this stage. This horse is beyond dead lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:01 PM
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Zero issues with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:57 PM
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Apart from sex you literally listed two hobbies and interests you share in common 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:14 PM
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It’s like MOST important thing. Tf are you even doing together if you’ve got no hobbies or interests in common? I think a lot of couples make raising kids their “thing” but then once the kids have grown up what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:47 PM
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Fucking hell this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:42 AM
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It’s exhausting being non confrontational, agreeable, feminine etc all the time. It can also be bad for us to be submissive in all circumstances. We’ve been socialised to be subservient and agreeable. It’s pretty harmful if you need to actually stick up for yourself. Relationship subs are absolutely full of young women who can’t deal with confrontation and are putting all of the onus on themselves to seek for ways to tolerate anything from inconsiderate behaviour, to outright abuse. I think this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:01 PM
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Absolutely ridiculous. I’m quite sure you would not be trying to downplay this link if women were the ones most likely to go on murder rampages killing men specifically. Murder is hatred in its most extreme form.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:36 PM
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Hatred and murder are obviously linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:22 PM
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There's no "male serial killers" list likely because there are so many. The female-only list probably exists in the first because they are a miniscule minority compared to male serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:34 PM
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The vast, vast, overwhelming majority of murderers and serial killers are men. That's just a fact. You can literally love and adore men and still know that to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:31 PM
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I'm shocked that 80% of men said they wanted kids, compared to just 34% of women. I find it so strange that is so high for men to say yes they want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:33 AM
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Didn’t you make a thread about this yesterday and it was removed? The answer is still no. Let them fuck about with tech or sex toys or whatever. They’re harming nobody and frankly it’s no one’s business anyway, is it? You can control what people do in the privacy of their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:45 PM
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Oddly specific. Women want to drain men's cash on bags and makeup, don't have children with him, jump ship to another man, and doesn't have children - you are talking about golddiggers. All women aren't golddiggers. Would you rather be in Sephora with a woman or a bear? (or something like that lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:38 PM
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Don't Russians have more traditional gender roles generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:49 PM
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Did I say otherwise? Go on then - what do you think of it? I don't necessarily have to accept the definitions you provided. LOL. And why not? Why don't you want to accept them? Because they don't match with how you want to downplay the actual definitions? Well that's convenient for you then, isn't it? "I don't want this to mean x. So I'll simply pull a new one out of my ass" Ultimately you're focusing on semantics of this term No shit. That's because your entire post is about semantics. Because …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:03 AM
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Because pressuring someone into having sex is still vile, deplorable behavior, even if doesn't meet a legal definition of "rape" in any given place. Sexual coercion involves being pressured, tricked, threatened, or forced in a non-physical way. By definition, sexual coercion is “the act of using pressure, alcohol or drugs, or force to have sexual contact with someone against his or her will” and includes “persistent attempts to have sexual contact with someone who has already refused.” So firstl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:09 AM
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As many, many people have pointed out to you already, it makes you look suspicious as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:51 AM
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You're not a judge or a lawyer at a rape trial though, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:41 AM
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I'd say 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:24 PM
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"women not rational" Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:21 PM
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I disagree, I’m not sure why it screams of religious puritanism to you, virginity for both partners is not reserved for only the religious. I grew up in a Christian environment where it was looked upon as a sin to have sex before marriage. It can definitely have religious roots, of course not all the time though. I do think retroactive jealousy can be a reason some desire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:26 PM
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Oh no problem! I'm sorry I came across rude. I think I'll actually amend my post to be less bitchy lol. It was uncalled for. Hey we turned this right around. A first for this sub, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:53 AM
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I'm just not sure why it's a matter of: You're either a virgin until marriage, or you're promiscuous. There's so much middle ground between those two extremes. It's extremely black and white. You're the one who responded to me, so I responded back. I do think marriage before sex is a bad idea. That's my personal opinion, which OP asked for. But regardless of that, I do hope it works out great for you both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:39 AM
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Why are you so defensive and snappy? It does sound strange to say you literally want someone who doesn't know what they want. It sounds like you want to snap up someone who doesn't know any better than being with only you, because they have no basis for comparison, and trap them in marriage to make it harder for them to leave, if things don't work out with the first sex partner they ever had. It actually sounds unhinged. Also, thinking that sex before marriage is an objectively bad idea is not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:10 AM
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The divorce rate is around 5% for virgins that are women. So it doesn’t seem to be a “huge” puzzle piece. ... Your argument isn’t supported by statistics. Yet, you’re casting aspersions on people who chose to wait. And you’re saying they’re devoid of “realistic intelligence”… Extremely likely that some or many of these are religious people who "don't believe in divorce" and simply stay in miserable marriages. Not getting a divorce =/= Happy, healthy marriage. I don’t believe my fiancé is incredi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:14 AM
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Imo couples waiting until they've made a lifelong commitment to each other, before even knowing if they're sexually compatible with each other are taking a big risk. Choosing to miss out on huge puzzle pieces of a person, and of the integrity and workability of your relationship and intimate life after getting married is a gamble. Maybe you'll get lucky with them, (inb4 I did it and my marriage and sex life is great!), but you easily might not. It screams of religious and sexual puritanism witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:40 AM
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At least you found out on the first date that they're crazy. Sounds absolutely horrible. None of my female friends say shit like this, but there are crazies out there certainly. It sounds like you just got extremely unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:03 AM
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The fear is irrational and disproportionate. Most fear is. No it's fucking not "irrational". Now you're being offensive by choosing to invalidate a lifetime of repeated traumatic experiences. I would sit here and type out all of the traumatic experiences with strange men I've had dating from age 8 - 37, but I don't have the time. I'd be here all damn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:21 PM
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How is what you're saying any different than a woman saying she views all men as potential predators? You're not even saying all women potentially view empathy as weakness, you're saying they just do. Which is bs. You're being hypocritical and doing the same shit you don't like women doing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:06 PM
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There are plenty of animals who do a way better job than us of relationships and child-rearing though, lol. You have male animals who will cover hundreds of miles to find food to bring back to their families, physically defend their families from predators, etc. For instance, women are horrified when men abandon their kids No shit. Do you want to just say "Well it's your fault, you fucked an animal. Maybe he thought his kids weren't his or something, idk.. Maybe he saw a shiny object. Oh well" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:32 AM
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Lmao “Are you enjoying this app?” “Nope leave me alone” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:22 AM
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Idk, ask a psychologist? I’m just a victim. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:10 AM
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Wait, you can mute subs?? Damn I didn't know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:36 AM
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Therapy/“help” is not a cure-all for this in the slightest. If you’ve been assaulted, harassed, stalked, followed, etc, enough, it’s simply just logical to be wary. It isn't disproportionate. To suggest that someone needs therapy to overcome this fear would imply that the fear is disproportionate. Which, tbh, is pretty insulting when some of us have countless, numerous experiences littered throughout our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:38 AM
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I think men are offended, and this goes along with the comment I made about them being angry or upset. I'm not entirely sure if men - before this went viral - really knew how much of a common issue it was that women feel unsafe around strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:21 AM
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Well many women feel this way because they have experiences with strange men that have frightened them very much and made them feel unsafe. It seems odd to respond to that with anger at the person with that kind of history. Surely it'd make more sense to be angry that so many people feel so unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:56 AM
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Well if it were the other way around, I'd be horrified that the other gender felt that way about mine. I can't imagine I'd be happy to watch them be ripped apart by a bear just because they feared me. Seems a bit much.. But yes, at the same time, if I were a man, I still wouldn't stand my chances against a bear, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:47 AM
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Both extremes have issues. Look at the way the MRA sub views the whole "man or bear" thing. It's a lot of "let women be killed by the bear then, it's natural selection", "women aren't raped as much as the stats say - they're exaggerating". Both extremes are generally hateful and neurotic. I think a lot of what men are saying in response to it is actually shock and sadness masquerading as anger, but to admit it that it simply upsets them makes them too vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:28 AM
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You asked why some women expect it. Don't get mad at me for explaining exactly what you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:00 PM
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It’s rooted in traditionalism for the man to pay. You can call it outdated, or an antiquated gender expectation left over from an era in which women were expected to be mothers over having careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:56 PM
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The existence of other attractive people doesn’t end when you fall in love and enter into a relationship. Hormones don’t care you got married, and you can still experience crushes and chemistry with others. What matters is how you respond to it. You don’t have to act on the feelings, and imo that is what makes a relationship stronger. I remember reading once someone put it like this - yes there are many beautiful people, but I continue to choose my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:09 PM
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Don't you know all men come biologically equipped with water location sensors? And in-built GPS that prevents them from ever getting lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:48 PM
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Plenty of feminists do care about men as well. Because we're not an identical collective. It's possible to be an activist for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:31 PM
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This is also pretty ironic considering you see women actually encouraging men to use makeup. These days it's not really taboo for men to wear makeup. It is becoming more and more accepted, especially by gen z. Kpop has really fueled the male cosmetics uptake too I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:43 PM
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Dude... you're getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:36 PM
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I think one of the best things men can do for their sanity is to delete TikTok so they stop getting all their shitty ideas from the app. Many women actually believe that men should pay for dates because they spent money on makeup No. We fucking don't. You're just letting yourself be brainwashed by internet rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:05 AM
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How do you know that no women or feminists complained about it in the first place? "Y'all" is a stupid term for this. Might as well say "Y'all stoopid and suck" and pretend like you've said something clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:35 AM
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Let me repeat this for you: There is no feminist collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:29 AM
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Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of equality of the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:26 AM
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Why did no feminists ever protest it? Because feminists advocate and protest for women's rights. Where were the protests like there would have been if the genders had been flipped? Men didn't bother. That's what steals the credibility from your movement right there. No it doesn't. Do you also expect MRA's to protest for women's issues? Of course you don't. You say you thought it was terrible but... you "thought it was terrible", maybe, and that was it. Yep. Same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:35 AM
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Because there is no "feminist collective".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:48 AM
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Bullshit. Plenty of feminists, myself included, think that was terrible. There was no "universal response" from feminists that that was in any way acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:47 AM
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There are more options to do that now than ever. We have VR porn video games, crazy hentai sex video games, fantasy sex sims, and pretty much anyone can learn game dev themselves if they want to make their own games. Protesting that some female characters aren't sexy enough, is the epitome of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:42 PM
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See this is just strange to me.. I'm into women, also a gamer, and I don't have this issue at all. There are literally hot women all over the internet to freely look at and still plenty of games with hot women in them - literally more than ever, with all the VR sex / porn games. Some men are just so outraged that some games are featuring more natural looking women. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:00 PM
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Isn’t it up to the game developers what game they want to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:23 AM
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Have you seen how some guys respond when female video game characters aren’t sexy? It’s some insanity right there. They have formed protests, signed petitions and become activists over this..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:45 AM
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I live in the UK and the experiences I've had like this have happened all over it. Street randos, woodland randos, park randos, club randos, train station randos.. but the thing is I'd never really even think to tell my male friends because wtf can they do? It's not like I knew the guys so could tell them where they are or anything, and I'd never really put that kind of expectation on them anyway to put themselves in danger for me. It's just become "one of those things" that happens as part of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:28 PM
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You're out here arguing about rape and assault in incredibly bad faith, so whether you personally had 1 experience or 1000, it's wholly irrelevant when you plain don't give a shit what women go through with this. Edit - It’s also hilarious how you’re arguing with women over “define rape” when it comes to to rape statistics, and the “gotcha” anecdote you’re using actually involves MALE violence against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:04 AM
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The thing is, that's one experience. A one-off freak accident. Many women have been harrassed, assaulted, etc many times throughout our lives, starting from like age 12. This shit is very deeply embedded in our experiences of being female.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:49 AM
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I've had terrible, abusive experiences with women too, but it's simply not the same thing as the scale of the threat men pose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:24 PM
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Great news! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:45 PM
1

What are you talking about? The thread isn’t about bears. Are you sure YOU’RE not the one who has been reading too many internet memes? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:42 PM
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base their decision on internet memes over actual logic and reality Many of us are basing this on actual lived experiences of being assaulted. Also, why are you assuming you and this random man are lost in the forest and trying to escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:36 PM
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I've been groped, kerb-crawled, and had strange random men try to follow me home - all in broad daylight, in busy streets, with many other people around. So please, tell me how "illogical" I am for my mind to go to what a man might do to me when there's no one around and I'm in the middle of nowhere in some forest by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:30 PM
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It's fun how men only care about being targets for violence, when discussing how women try to avoid being raped and murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:06 PM
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Women are constantly being told how to avoid being raped and murdered. We shape our lives around these rules. One of those is, "Don't walk in woods / forests alone. Take someone with you".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:02 PM
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He is very obviously asking me my name and number, complimenting my clothing, asking "what are you doing out here all by yourself?" and if I want to join him in his tent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:55 PM
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So what? The possession of a beer belly doesn't automatically render a man incapable of being a potentially dangerous rapist / murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:51 PM
5

Clearly you are 12 years old and think people in their 40s are old age pensioners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:45 PM
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Well looking at the responses from guys on this thread, apparently if a guy is 40 he might as well be 80 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:43 PM
1

I'd categorize them both equally as potential threats. Age isn't relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:34 PM
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This isn’t about suicide. It’s about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:08 PM
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They told me. Very, very directly, openly, and without shame, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:22 PM
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OP has posted basically the same rant for years now. Nothing will change for his situation unless he changes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:54 PM
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100% men yearn for it too. I think it's harder for them to verbally express it, though, because men are more seen as the "actors" of giving attention, and women are more typically seen as the "acted upon" receivers of attention. I think the tide is slowly changing, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:22 PM
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Cool. Great. There ain't shit you can do about women's tastes. Nada. Nothing. Zilch. All you can do is either: Whine into the abyss like it's going to change anything. Work to improve your chances with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:52 PM
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I've worked in a guitar shop and seriously.. soooo many men want to learn to play in order to get women. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:47 PM
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Idk, I think both men and women are equally "flamboyant", just in different ways. For example, rock stars spring to mind instantly lol.. men playing guitar, writing songs, dancing, doing all kinds of crazy shit that gets attention. Some men even risking their lives for attention. I think men and women need each other. And men need other men. And women need other women. We thrive the most in communities because it is how we have evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:03 PM
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Because what has your endless thread-making on this subject achieved? If you'd have spent the time on improving yourself instead, you wouldn't be making this thread. A guy can be attractive, well-presented... and completely and utterly neurotic in a way that repels any woman who might have found him initially attractive at face value. RedPill isn't mainstream in the same way that "anti-work" isn't mainstream. If you're struggling to find a date or a job, then complaining online or watching grift…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:51 PM
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The first thing that jumps to mind personally for me is how many women experience sexual harrassment from men at around 12 years old. On every thread asking women what age they were first harassed, it's around 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:51 AM
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I was shocked that that guy had been around bears for so long before that finally happened
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:24 AM
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What have I done? And why are you making this personal? I've rejected plenty of men because I wasn't attracted to them. Is that good enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:22 AM
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The whole subject of this thread is that men find more women immediately visually appealing than do women to men. I'm a woman. I'm not the one with the issue..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:59 AM
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Do you want women to walk about with blindfolds on and just listen to men speak for an allocated duration before we make an assessment whether or not we're attracted to them? I've never heard a good faith argument from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:48 AM
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Apparently so. It's a gripe I can completely sympathize with men on. The height thing seems crazy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:41 AM
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I'm not one of these height women. Never given a shit about a man's height, personally.. I'm not really into tall guys. I prefer a man around the same height as myself, give or take. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:12 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:28 AM
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Well look at all of the women irl who are with perfectly average men... It's most couples. Men here will usually gleefully inform you that these women aren't "really attracted" to their partners though. Which is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:59 AM
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Well this is the issue when it comes to things like online dating, certainly.. because the only thing you're presented with is looks / a photo. Highlights the need for in-person socialization and third spaces for people to meet and get together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:47 AM
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It's more that desire isn't necessarily as physical as it is for men, though. Men can look at random women and feel attracted just going by what she looks like alone. With women, it's different. I know a lot of men here like to say that we're only sexually interested in Chad and that's that, but that really isn't the case. Absolutely, we can look at a guy and feel immediate attraction, but I've fallen madly in love with men who looked pretty average, but it was their charisma, personality, humor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:21 AM
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I know this isn't a popular thing to say on this sub, but you 100% should look into therapy. You are freshly out of an abusive relationship and your mind is going to be rattling off all kinds of corrosive thoughts, conclusions, etc. I say this as someone who has been in an abusive relationship. The situation you've been in could cause serious issues in your life and psyche down the line even though you're no longer in the relationship. You can end up rotting from the inside out with thoughts abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:10 PM
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Sex trafficking and the exploitation of women by shitty western sex tourists is a really fucked up thing though. I know you just want to talk about "western woman angry that western man found love abroad", but women aren't angry at those situations. There's not enough fuel for a real rant there, just some anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:31 AM
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Why do men seem to have such a hard time imagining that women care about the general well being of other women? I think it's because they don't give a shit about vulnerable, exploited men. So why should women care about vulnerable, exploited women? It has to be bitterness, right? Nah, they're projecting. They live in a constant state of perpetual bitterness as is evidenced in the vitriol they like spewing here. On this thread we have men saying "Well white women do that to men in my country" lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 AM
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There's a difference between being in another country and falling in love with a woman, and a guy being a sex tourist preying on vulnerable women from impoverished countries. What's the problem with these kinds of women? How did they turn out so hateful? You should see how men speak about western women on the passport bro sub, lol. That's some hate and fits of rage for you right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:11 AM
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When I was about 11 I went to the zoo. As well as a huge bunch of animals of course, there were colourful boards up, dotted about the park, telling you various interesting facts about the animals. Then there was this kind of interactive section, which was a bit like a quiz to test your knowledge about wildlife. One of the questions was: "What is the most dangerous animal in the world?", and you had to open up a pair of doors to see the answer. It was a mirror. Of course, the answer is human bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:47 PM
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Well, I'm a lot like OP, (except I do not look like Mena Suvari!) I've been assaulted more times than I can count. Also other things like being followed and grabbed. I spend most of my time at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:34 PM
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Women have been killed while walking alone "out in the wilderness" by men..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:25 PM
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Holy shit that is terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:22 PM
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The men who scream the loudest about "Men INVENTED everything and we BUILT the world for you piece of shit ungrateful wimmen!", tend to be in tech or jobless. They're not chopping down trees or building structures. Can you imagine these guys working in a team of roughened tradesmen and scaffolders, working away in the roaring sun??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:39 PM
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That actress is literally like perfection though, idk what her race has to do with it. Like I'm saying, if Sydney Sweeney were black, instead of white, would her reaction have changed? Because she's still rare af in terms of how genetically blessed she is. The vast majority of white women with blue eyes and blonde hair look nothing like her. It's not like a guy could just fuck off and look for Sydney Sweeney double, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:30 PM
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Wait, just because a guy is attracted to a generic hot white actress doesn't mean he wasn't attracted to his girlfriend?? The woman overreacted on an absolutely colossal scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:19 PM
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What point??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:26 PM
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You seem like you've taken too many of your ideas about women from specific corners of the internet tbh. Plenty of women working jobs and careers. Women on OnlyFans is an absolutely tiny percentage of the female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:39 PM
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This is a man who is completely safe and causes zero harm to women. Correct? Lol, you're the one who is making this hypothetical man up. You tell us. Even being a celibate bachelor he contributes to society in the form of work, while being harmless toward women. Why isn’t this man considered a good ally? A good ally of what? I don't know this non-existent person. Why isn’t this a lifestyle that gets respect? Everyone should get basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:39 AM
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Yeah it was one of the worst of my life. Really bad. I deleted the post because it felt too over-sharey for this thread in the end. It still does get to me, I was too young to deal with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:02 AM
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Lol, what? Women generally aren't standing and chatting in cubicles together - they're doing it in front of the mirrors and wash basins, while sorting hair and makeup. It doesn't obstruct people from actually accessing and using the toilets!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:46 AM
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Yep, definitely closeted.. projecting and overstating the point like that homophobic neighbour in American Beauty lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:05 PM
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Omg the re-edits lmao Anyway, you’re way too mad about fat ladies for it to be normal. I think the lady doth protest too much.. You sure you’re not like a mega closeted chubby-chaser who secretly loves himself some big chunky phat girl tiddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:57 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with fat women? Like every comment I see of yours you're going on and on about fat women. For someone who claims to dislike fat women you sure like talking about them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:45 PM
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Wouldn't care. If it's a busy venue with insufficient toilets, I'd immediately understand why they were there. What are they supposed to do? Shit on the floor?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:01 AM
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Sounds bitter af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:57 AM
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Yeah, I'll die on that hill. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If we have a discussion in which it's fine to blame women for being assaulted, and how men are basic creatures that are inherently unable to leave women alone even when they have one, then this "inherently problematic nature" of men is fine to discuss. It's fine because you're all already discussing it. You're just not calling it "problematic". Because it hurts women, not yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:00 AM
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Lmao we have OP literally blaming women for being sexually assaulted in this thread but nooooo, a woman is bad-mouthing straying men, it is HATE SPEECH GET THE MODS, QUICK!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:17 AM
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Nah, this is a terrible, terrible take.. You can't blame women for being groped mate. Men aren't uncontrollable animals. You can't just decide "her outfit is too sexy, so it's her fault someone grabbed her tits". Nope. Still the man's fault, 100%. I'm bi and see plenty of hot women - never groped a single one in my life. C'mon, men aren't beasts with no self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:00 AM
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Finding other people sexy and enticing isn't some special thing that is limited to men, lol. Women have eyes as well. We're capable of also seeing some sexy stranger and thinking "damn..." but that's normal. It doesn't mean anything if you're not acting on it. But if you desperately want to, then I think exploring the poly lifestyle is probably a better fit than trying to force a monogamous one and possibly hurt someone in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:45 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:08 PM
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How do I know if the man I’m with is “top 20%” or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:05 PM
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Not now, but when I was actually pretty, lol - Guys just grabbing you whenever they liked. You just felt like a commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:11 PM
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Did you read the thread? We've got Billie Eilish's dialogue about masturbation; gender biases regarding sexual crimes; negative male body image regarding penis size; back to Eilish; and then where to speak about male sexuality. OP didn't directly speak about male masturbation during this thread at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:01 AM
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OP is not talking about male masturbation. He's complaining that people don't address men speaking about their masturbation with the same gravity as when women speak about female masturbation. And the person I replied to detailed with eloquence and accuracy precisely why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:39 PM
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Holy shit… You’re way too intelligent for this sub. I read your post like four times it’s just so insanely spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:51 PM
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Men are entitled to a free trauma dumping outlet, whether that's within a romantic relationship or within an opposite-sex platonic friendship. This is the only way traumatized men can establish any sort of emotional intimacy. This is literally what therapy is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:31 PM
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Dude, they have a mental illness... of course they're not going to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:01 PM
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I didn’t say women do no worthwhile work. I said, in general, the vast majority of hard and essential work is done by men. Nursing is not hard work. I really hope you never need the help of a nurse. Of course it's hard work. Imagine having to tell a family that their child will die. Or working in emergency rooms for long shifts. Of giving end-of-life care to a dying person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:57 AM
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Ooh it's one of those "Women not having sex with men of x race means she's Hitler and pro-Eugenics"! Not had one of these in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:21 AM
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See, this whole thing is just amusing to read.. Women's whole aim is to knock men out of power - Act of Revenge! Women can't secure Chad! Women mad a man hit wife in 50s! Boost men up! ..It's pure entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:42 PM
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TRP has a revenge story for literally every kind of woman, no matter what. It gives the (usually single, lonely) men following it a dopamine boost that makes them want more. If a woman has an easy time getting sex, she can't secure a man.. If a woman has an easy time getting married, she's clinically depressed because he's not Chad.. If a woman is beautiful, she'll "hit the wall" and she will start to struggle then. They're revenge fantasies to boost up men who feel lonely, hopeless and desperat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:24 PM
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Plenty of couples split their bills. It's a very normal thing to do these days. Unless a couple do wish for a more traditional relationship, which some do, and are happy to. No one is forcing you to be with a woman who doesn't wish to split bills and expenses. When I get old and sick I’ll be supported by my own taxes. Your taxes that fund the healthcare system which includes much of the work done by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:18 AM
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*reads flair* Ah..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:12 AM
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Approximately 0% of women are happy supporting a man, so how does her having money benefit a man in any way? Your money is our money and her money is her money. And approximately 0% of women are happy with a man who earns less than them. Men know these two facts. Complete bullshit and you know it. Women also tend to make their money doing fairly useless jobs (to society). Women having successful careers tends to benefit nobody but themselves. Not society, not men. Yet they want patting on the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:06 AM
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He isn't turned off because she's "masculine". None of the things mentioned are masculine. Let's be honest, "beautiful, funny, smart and single" definitely aren't the issues here. The issue is that she has the power and agency (money + job) to get the hell away from him if she wishes. Why else would her having money and a job be a turn-off? He'd rather her safely in the confines of the home, whereby if he chooses to, he can bestow upon her pocket money to keep her nicely controlled and malleable…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:23 PM
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Tbh yeah same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:20 PM
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They all sound pretty bleak tbh (not cool with the sex workers thing or the "women belong at home" thing in the others), If I HAD to choose - 3. The thing that puts me off 3 though is he'll date anyone who shows interest? Eh.. How am I supposed to know he really loves me then? edit - I'm also with the woman below me who says if he likes the animes where women sound like squeaky sex toys - BIG TIME.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:20 PM
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Haha. Now imagine that I’m OP, but female, screaming that this hot woman on the internet should be arrested for showing off her body in see-through clothing. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:51 PM
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This reads like severe post-nut clarity from a porn addicted man who resents that his dick cannot get enough of this content, and that tits and ass have such power to practically own him. You would 100% have had to deliberately seek this kind of content out because it isn't readily "discoverable" content you just accidentally find on YouTube. No man is this outraged by sexy women. Admit that she's hot and move on with your day. It won't hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:13 AM
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Lol literally my first thought was when I'd try to unlock female character skins that look like her in video games when I was like 12 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:07 AM
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You're clearly quite the fan of them, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:04 AM
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They're literally just breasts. Wait until you find out that babies suck their mother's nipples! Do you want their mothers on the sex offenders list too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:53 AM
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Who tf thinks like this? I chose my partner because he's compatible with me. We get along amazingly well, and have many interests in common. We're attracted to each other, but he isn't over 6ft or rich. When we met, we were both poor af. By choosing him it isn't like I'm being "unfair" to other men. I don't owe shit to anyone just because I exist as someone wanting a relationship. People aren't picking to be unfair. "I'm going to pick a young hot 20 yr old supermodel because women pick 6ft 6figu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:18 AM
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It is. His history is all the same stuff he used to post constantly about. It’s so specific
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:29 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:06 PM
2

Queen - You Take My Breath Away
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:03 PM
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(He definitely would like an angy song, lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:01 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:50 AM
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You're just not that into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:04 AM
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If it's just him looking at my Facebook profile or IG, idc. I did this exact thing with my current boyfriend lmao. I wouldn't care at all. Pretty normal in this day and age I think. If it's ACTUAL stalking - as in, detective work trying to gather private information about me that isn't just freely on my socials, hiding in cars or bushes to watch me at work, etc - then yeah I'd be horrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:52 PM
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I’m 37 and fat, taken, and still get interest irl from men and women. I couldn’t give less of a fuck that some Reddit troll is offended by women his own age lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:23 PM
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God, your personality is absolute trash. Do you hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:45 PM
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Being one of those "beauty is the biggest thing a woman brings to the table 🤓" crap is fucking ugly to women though... That, on top of not being able to handle an woman over 30 because you're insecure about her sexual history is even worse, lmao. I mean, you're welcome to pick all the beautiful 23 women you like but you'd better keep all this nonsense you're spewing here a secret from her, because I don't know of a single woman who wouldn't be absolutely repulsed by your attitude. This is why ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:23 PM
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Most relationships, there's a small age gap of like 1 - 3 years. If you're a man of 30 years old and you date women in their 20s, that can literally just mean you're well within the normal, typical range, being as any woman 1 - 3 years younger than you is in her twenties...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:08 PM
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It's not "Men do seek help" or "Men don't seek help". Obviously some do. Many men who are struggling but not necessarily suicidal, don't seek help. And I'm not insulting men by saying that. I'm not saying "lolol men don't bother cuz they're lazy!" or something. You can literally read right here men explaining to you why they don't bother with it. And fwiw, I think their reasons are all valid. Therapy can't fix everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:42 PM
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Yes. Both short and long term. Men are thirstier and generally on the look-out more than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:27 PM
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It’s pretty clear that they do No, it isn't clear at all that they do. I constantly see men - you can literally see the responses with them saying this in this thread! - speak about how they don't see the point in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:06 AM
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I stand corrected. Thank you for this source, man. Read and appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:10 PM
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Yeah cool but this isn't about if therapy can help or whatever else. That's beside the point. I'm addressing the (I believe, false) premise that that these men don't have any mental health issues. Having no evidence for something doesn't mean it doesn't exist. As I said, healthy people don't put guns to their head. ETA- That said, I don't want to invalidate the point I think the interviewer/ee was trying to make. They're basically saying: the cause of many men's issues are a consequence of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:43 PM
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They only "have no history or evidence of mental illness" only because they don't go and seek a diagnosis in the first place. Men are much less likely to seek help for their mental health than women. Just because they haven't sat in a psych's chair doesn't mean they aren't struggling with their mental health. It literally just means it hasn't been documented because they've not spoken about it. I think all that really shows is that those kinds of men would rather blow their brains out than make …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:17 PM
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Oh here we go. Now you want a pity party. You're whining about a lack of empathy and all this, but you also compare women to service stations. It doesn't exactly invite people to feel sympathy for your plight, dude.. You want to be all "You're not in control of what other people think about you!" when it comes to you thinking about screwing a woman. That's fine. But you're not entitled to control what women think about you, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:06 PM
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Seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:52 PM
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He doesn't know what he's talking about. He isn't "smarter" just because he's saying shit that you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:34 AM
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Lmfao one of OP's posts: "Cheating is a human right".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:28 AM
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And the responses. Repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:26 AM
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Imagine if we had blue-haired feminists going on mass murder rampages, blowing out innocent men's brains and guts because they didn't want to fuck them. Imagine the difference in the answers here.. I can't help but feel like they'd suddenly have a LOT of ideas on how to "hold them accountable".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:56 AM
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Lol. That is a massive oversimplification. Similar to other racial or ethnic groups that have been "Othered" and dehumanized throughout history to justify discrimination and violence, the Manosphere's language and ideology contribute to the dehumanization of women, portraying them as fundamentally inferior to men. "Plates", "foids", etc. Once you have "Othered" a particular group of people, empathy for them diminishes, as you stop seeing them as being entirely human. This is the creation of divi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:11 AM
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If his own father is citing his sexual frustration / lack of a girlfriend issues as being part of why he went on a murder spree, it is not a "horseshit argument" unless you want to tell his own dad he's full of shit about his own son. It's also not dishonest at all to observe that a subsection of mass murder and violence has taken place fueled by a particular ideology. Look at the category of Incel-Related Violence - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Incel-related_violence You can't expect …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:57 AM
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Cool. Neither of those sentences are relevant to what we were discussing..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:45 AM
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I haven't heard one media source saying anything about him wanting a girlfriend or sexual frustration. Ffs dude don't make me Google this piece of shit guy for you again, lol.. "He Wanted A Girlfriend": Sydney Attacker's Father On Why He Killed Women Everyone is more than happy to jump to conclusions to support a narrative. Why be foolish and wait for evidence when you have an agenda to push!!! At this point, you're actually coming across like you're desperate for him not to be a part of the Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:37 AM
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The manosphere did not create misogyny, they're just continuing a long, long, long tradition of it. The issue you're seeing with a lot of the responses here, (and the downvotes), is - many men who are a part of the Manosphere, don't want to admit that they could be a part of something that could be fuelling mass murders. Maybe they aren't involved in those corners of the Manosphere, and don't want to be lumped in with the ugly sides, and so feel defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:29 AM
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It's not blaming women for male violence. both of them told you exactly what the source of their problem is. You can't have it both ways. It's like you absolutely want to blame women for these incel murder rampages without stating it outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:26 AM
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It is still so recent, and of course, he is now dead, so I'm unsure how much further info (if any) will come out about this. I did wonder myself though... certainly based on what info we do have (seems to have targeted women, mental illness, sexually frustrated and wanted a girlfriend), could certainly point in the direction that he was involved in Manosphere communities. His motive could easily have been some kind of "revenge against women" thing as it stands. Even most of his past is unknown o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:18 AM
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While I have not yet seen any source directly linking the Sydney mass murderer to any Manosphere movement, OP still has a case regarding online radicalization and accountability. There have been quite a lot of studies, sources, articles, etc, on that subject. A notable one with unrestricted access - Exiting the Manosphere. A Gendered Analysis of Radicalization, Diversion and Deradicalization Narratives from r/IncelExit and r/exredpill - https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/1057610X.2023.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:12 AM
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What part of the manosphere ideology teaches men to stab women and infants for wanting to turn them down or not fuck them? Wasn't there a forum Elliot Rodger frequented before his rampage, where he posted all of his hate-fuelled garbage? He wasn't banned from that forum, so presumably his hate-filled rants were at the very least tolerated, if not entertained by other members.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:01 AM
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Blaming women for being victims of male violence, when there are incels worshipping Elliot Rodger like a hero.. We have Minassian and the Plymouth shooter (I forget his bullshit name) citing Elliot Rodger as a hero.. So how were they not radicalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:56 AM
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Well, I think there was also mention of him having schizophrenia, so it could have been a thing where he had psychosis or something.. I didn't know the guy obviously, so I have no idea if he was actually involved in the Manosphere online. I thought it would be interesting if you (or anyone else) had any sources on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:41 AM
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Was the Syndey Mall stabber involved with the Manosphere? I read an article detailing about his mental illness (I think his parents said it?) and apparently he "really wanted a girlfriend" and was "extremely frustrated" or something. I've not seen anything relating him to RP or incel forums or anything though. I was curious about this, as he seemed to target women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:30 AM
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Oh my gosh, is that true?? If so that's extremely scary and depressing. They don't trust men not to defile the corpses.. And then you consider men who take certain professions (teacher, for example) because they have a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:10 PM
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Hi The-Loop 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:31 PM
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Not necessarily. If you need "the spark" explaining to you, idk what to tell you tbh. It's basically feeling strongly attracted to someone and excited by their presence - like a magnet being pulled toward them. Maybe you just don't experience attraction like me, or others who do feel it. That's okay as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:22 AM
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Workplace gossip is just like any other gossip (talking about people behind their backs), just at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:55 AM
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You're in your 30s and never been in love, intimacy scares you, and you don't have much of a sex drive. I'm not sure what your incentive really is in dating or relationships? I think if I felt like you I would not even bother with the hassle of dating and trying to find someone, etc. I'd consider myself lucky and fill my life with other things. Maybe one day someone will make you feel that spark and then you can reconsider. Otherwise, why pressure yourself to be with someone if you're just not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:10 AM
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Does being Red Pill mean you have to care deeply about what everyone thinks about what you're doing with your life? You're not even the person they were talking about. Maybe your female co-worker was jealous because she wanted to be with that guy or something. Who knows? Who cares? This is workplace gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:02 AM
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I'm not going to answer (yet another) question from you about my sexual abuse. Please don't bother. I am going to block you now. x
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:19 AM
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Because I don't owe you an explanation for my being abused as a child. Your "experience" (likely made up) is completely irrelevant to mine. Your constant questioning about my abuse reads more like a poor attempt at extracting masturbation material than anything else. A woman wouldn't act in this bizarre, interrogation-led way upon hearing that a minor was abused. Again, unless she was very, very severely mentally compromised. The vast majority of self-respecting men would not act like this eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:14 AM
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You’re too personally invested in male circumcision to be a woman. And too obviously bitter about my being raped as a minor to be a woman. No woman would act like this. Unless she was very severely demented / brain damaged. I think you are a man role playing as the Men’s Rights Activist woman you wish you saw more of in the world. You fixate on circumcision because you are a man and can relate. You downplay the affects of girls being raped and sexually abused because you are an incel male and ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:53 AM
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Well yes, but this hypothetical isn’t about a work trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:15 PM
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I agree with this. I'd feel so hurt if my bf went to Hawaii on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:59 PM
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As a woman if I had all this cash, I'd happily pay for him to come with me. Why not? Fuck going to Hawaii without my bf! I wouldn't expect him to have Fuck You money to splurge on once-in-a-lifetime holidays like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:58 PM
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I’m not sure why this isn’t discussed here more. It's discussed here plenty. You just use your other account, The-Loop, to post it all. Too, too obvious who you are. No one cares about this shit but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:57 PM
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Children are more badly affected than men OR women by the invention of the internet tbh. The abuse of kids has skyrocketed and there are more ways they're exploited now than ever because of the internet. Men can choose to not wank off over porn everyday. They have agency and the power to choose what they do with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:06 PM
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Lol this is why it makes sense that you are. in fact, a man, and not a woman. You are OBSESSED with circumcision and how terrible, cruel, and wrong it is. Which, I agree it is wrong. But you also wanted to deny there was any issue with a 15 year old girl being in an abusive sexual relationship with an adult man. A woman would not be so personally obsessed with male circumcision whist happily downplaying the abuse of a girl. I'm betting you're a circumcised incel man. It's already out that you ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:19 AM
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OMG lmfao. Wow. Okay now this makes so much sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:27 PM
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Do you think that children can consent to sex with adults? Go on. Out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:24 PM
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Do they also like to invalidate child rape victims? Or is that just a thing you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:22 PM
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Have you been picked yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:32 PM
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If you want to blame a 15 year old child for being abused by an adult man idk what to tell you… Don’t you feel a little ashamed of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:32 PM
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Well, everyone gets a shit ride in some way I guess. I hope things get better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:42 PM
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Well yeah, if you hate women, it shows. The adult man chose to get with a kid. I was just a schoolgirl. I deserved better. And I eventually got it, I’m glad to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:36 PM
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Nah, not that much. So my first relationship, I was 15, he was 7 years older than me, and horribly abusive.. So yeah it’s all not all been great
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:11 PM
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Sorry but I don't think that's a good excuse for being rude. I've always been nothing but kind when rejecting men. I'm unsure how much different it really makes though... Being as I'm still rejecting them, lol. A lot of men here will say how they want blunt honesty when being rejected. I'm not so sure. It could too easily come off as an insult that could rile him up. Women value men for all kinds of selfish and superficial reasons too. Nice car, nice clothes, a job title etc. If you think women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:56 PM
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Sure. I don’t like it when men I'm not attracted to or interested in approach me. Most of all, I don't like being harassed (or even followed) after I've already declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:00 PM
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My first relationship started when I was 15 and I've not been single that long between relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:42 AM
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"Be polite to every man who approaches you :)" is all well and good until you reach like 18 and you become experienced enough to realise they're only approaching you because they like the look of your tits and ass. I've always been polite and kind when rejecting men, (thank you fawn trauma response), but honestly, I wish I'd have been far more blunt and standoffish times. Why? Firstly because I've been taken since I was like 15. But also, because sometimes they won't shut the fuck up or leave yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:23 AM
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Ironic considering you're the one constantly posting about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:25 PM
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Of course not. But as soon as OP started to get all "just let men have fun in other countries" it became very blatant that he was trying to justify sex tourism. Which is NOT the same thing as "I met my wife in x country".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:11 PM
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That's an interesting way of saying "I don't give a flying fuck about exploited and sex trafficking victims in countries popular with shitty Western sex tourists". Yeah just deny that it happens. I thought your OP was sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:09 PM
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Like so what if men are going overseas to have some fun. A lot of sex tourists bugger off to countries in which women have less rights. Exclusively countries in which women have less rights. Those men can't be shocked that it's not exactly a good look to people back home who can see exactly what they're doing. Can't really have their cake and eat it too. They're "having fun" at the expense of impoverished, abuse and trafficking victims. But you're using feminist terms like "slut shaming" and "my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:27 AM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:25 AM
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"Slutwalk" has been out of popular public vernacular since about 2011. You seem deeply confused about these terms and what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:07 AM
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No it isn't. You know the word, but you don't have a clue what it means.. 🙄 "Slutwalk" began as a response to a Toronto police officer suggested that women "should avoid dressing like sluts" in order to avoid being raped. Slutwalk is about ending the slut-shaming of sexual assault victims. Nothing to do with "passport bros", or even men enjoying sex or whatever.. It is about the issue of blaming women for being raped and assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:46 AM
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Lmao they weren’t for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:20 AM
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I'm not sure why you're acting like only women can have terrible personalities. Acting up in public isn't exclusive to women. Plenty of men shouting at each other, getting into fights, road rages, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:55 AM
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Even if you are suppressing these feelings, it is likely still going to colour your behavior and interactions with others to some degree, even if it's in the form of microexpressions or the general feeling you give off. BUT even if you are a delight in person, that still doesn't automatically mean women will all find you attractive. Your expectation that they should find you attractive is an entitlement issue on YOUR part, not theirs. And why would the blind uninformed opinion of an alternative,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:04 AM
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You have this the wrong way around. You constantly post about how you experience rage because someone is wearing some strong perfume, coughs, or accidentally touches your hand during your job. You're an angry, touchy person who blows up at the slightest thing. You have poor emotional regulation skills. Then you fuck on and on about how "attractive" you are and yet think women are delusional because they don't see you as the God's gift to women that YOU think you are. Your attitude is so stand-ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:50 AM
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5/10 men thinking they're 8-9/10 isn't delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:50 PM
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The notion that persistence and ambition always triumph over merit disregards the importance of genuine connection, mutual respect, and compatibility in relationships. I never see you talk about anything deeper than looks, desperation or women being delusional about their value. Relationships and who people choose is more complex than this - shaped by a variety of factors including personal values, compatibility, communication, etc. Do you think those things aren't important because your own rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:48 PM
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Late stage capitalism leads to population collapse. Women can now choose whether or not they want children. Which is an objectively good thing unless you hate women and want them to suffer. But now we're choosing to not reproduce due to everything being so expensive (especially childcare), and the world is a festering shithole they don't want to bring kids into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:34 PM
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If a man is so hung up on me being older, he can rot. This entire premise is built on an unhealthy obsession with youth. How can YOU prove you love a woman when you’re this obsessed with youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:15 AM
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Dr Phil is a piece of shit human being, and his dumbfuck audience are clearly not much better. God, when will someone just cut off his platform?! What if she put her bf in hospital for her abuse? Or murdered him? This made me so angry to watch. I feel for every male victim who had to watch that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:02 AM
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Lol, my bf is 10 years older than me and I don't he has ever blamed feminists for a single thing or spoken like this in his life. He has better shit to do. It always seems to be the single men complaining that "feminists ruined" dating for them. Meanwhile there are men successfully dating younger women, sooooo... idk if it's feminists fault. 🤷‍♀️ Also, some older men are predatory towards younger women. Feminists aren't always automatically wrong about that or bitter just because you don't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:33 PM
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You're always making threads like this, following the theme of reasons women reject you. You will write an essay on women being delusional and entitled before you consider that the issue might be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:14 PM
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LOL. This might be your maddest, most delusional take yet! And your posts are normally so bizarre that I knew it must be you just by reading the title. This take, takes the entire cake. The girl code around this kind of etiquette is extremely strong; you have no idea. We share microexpressions of disgust that you probably couldn't even detect if it were right in front of your face. If you're getting ushered on your way by her friend, the woman you were interested in was not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:59 PM
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Some people will be like "oh you're just insecure!" And the response should be "yes, because your disrespectful behavior in this relationship is making me insecure" I don't think a woman commenting on someone else's dick is appropriate or respectful. The same as I think when a man comments on another woman's breasts is respectful. You get some couples who have a thing about oogling other people together though I've always found them weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:14 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:03 PM
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Chronically lonely, angry, isolated men think they can pick male partners for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:56 PM
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Those men care about themselves being alone. "Women should pick me NOW otherwise they'll end up alone, old, ugly, eggless and surrounded by cats!" It's just another way of talking about male loneliness while insulting women. Meanwhile, in reality, women would rather and PREFER to be single and surrounded by beautiful cats than with a guy they're not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:54 PM
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Isn't asking what someone does for a living just a part of getting to know someone? Like people just ask each other this as a common ice-breaker question. I get what you mean though.. Sometimes you get the feeling the question is asked with an ulterior motive or like they're working out how much respect to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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Fuck was I supposed to know that? The quote accounted for like 70% of your post lol I'm sorry you've had shitty experiences with women. Plenty of women out there who see men as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:17 AM
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You're going to base your entire view of this on what a random 88 year old writer said?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:35 AM
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Most obese people I know are 35+ and already married or partnered up. I don't know that many young obese people but I'm not in the US so maybe it's different there? I wonder which percentage of obese people are 30+. Where I'm from most people 18 - 25 are fit and slim. Gen Z actually seem to have a much higher emphasis on gym culture and fitness than my generation (millennial).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:52 PM
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I don't think it's necessarily unreasonable. But it seems like the concern of someone who hasn't experienced any major relationship issues, and so makes a disproportionate amount of fuss / drama over comparatively very minor transgressions. "My wife is good in bed." - What negative consequence does it actually have in the real world? It's just someone happy with their sex life. Which, presumably, every couple engaged to be married is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:02 AM
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Fair enough. Personally I think there are bigger things to bother worrying about in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:57 AM
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-BPD has entered the chat-
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:48 AM
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I thought this was going to be like disclosing intimate problems, sexual difficulties, or some kind of humiliating "his dick is tiny!" shit. It isn't. This is the complete and total non-issue of a woman saying her fiance is great in bed... The guy is a complete loser for dumping his fiance over this. Absolutely ridiculous overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:44 AM
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We don't care about men who only value women as far as our youth. Plenty of men out there who value us beyond superficial bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:05 PM
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You so don't care that you're downvoting my posts I love how you assume it could only be her, and not literally every person who read your steaming pile of shit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:58 PM
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I don't care if they don't sleep with me. THANK GOODNESS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:41 PM
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The fact that you can't even see it is the icing on the cake. Oh my GOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:40 PM
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I can be great friends with men without wanting to fuck them / be with them romantically. You have to remember the broad spectrum of human experience. It's not limited to male-female attraction and bluepill. There are bisexual women and lesbians too, as well as asexuals, aromantics, people not looking for a relationship at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:58 AM
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It's okay to be in love but not the dizzy and terrifying heights of falling in love. Yeah, there's a good reason that wears off - it'd be bloody exhausting to just consistently maintain living with "New Relationship Energy" for decades!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:57 AM
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Guilty conscience. He's all over this thread trying to justify himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:03 AM
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I'm turned on by men. Not overgrown boys flashing their weewee at people on the internet. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:44 AM
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It’s interesting to see how someone who engages in sexual harassment actually tries to justify their actions. No excuses for flashing. No matter where you’re doing it. It’s nothing to do with “capitalism”. No one is paying to see your dick. You are engaging in sexual harassment. Put your genitals away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:17 AM
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Um… no it’s not normal. Just because the couple aren’t obsessed with each other and the honeymoon period has worn off, doesn’t mean they’re not in love with each other anymore. Plenty of couples who have been together for decades still experience the feeling of being in love with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:07 AM
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Either way it’s a form of sexual harassment. There’s been talk of men who do this getting jail time or being put on the Sex Offenders list in my country. You shouldn’t be flashing your penis to people randomly who did not consent to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:01 AM
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Childfree people can be borderline psychotic on Reddit istg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:32 PM
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It took my deeply, deeply hungover brain like a minute to realize that stuff on his neck was HAIR and not stitches??? Like I was sitting here, horrified at this damn gif, thinking why was he decapitated and his head was sewn back on?? God send help..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:10 AM
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Lip gloss.. Men, do you find it attractive? I'm just sat here thinking about lip gloss, and it makes the least sense, cosmetically, to me.. With foundation, the function is to make skin look clearer and more perfect. Lip stick, colourful lips are more associated with youth and vitality. Eyeliner, draws attention to eyes, can make eyes look larger for a more neotenous or bold look. Lip gloss though..? It looks like there's drool and needs to be wiped away or something. Walking about with a wet mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:02 AM
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She’d have to begin cheating on you in secret in order to branch from you directly onto another man if she doesn’t want any period of destitution. It’s going to be much more difficult for her to get a job, certainly a decent paying one, if her CV is bare because all the experience she had was looking pretty for you. The prospect of living on government handouts and housing systems is a damning and frightening thing for most people. You want a woman who is dependent on you because it’ll make it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:34 AM
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A woman who is dependent on you for her money, is a woman you have more control over than a woman who can make her own money. You want a woman who would find it hard to leave you because she is codependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:07 AM
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Woman bitches about another woman. Resulting in stupidity. What's there to debate? Rudeness is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:30 PM
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It's a chronically online, over-thinking, soulless take that is very out of step with organically meeting people and falling in love that way. It has a transaction-based, paranoid or "thinking the worst" element to it: Like "What can you give me / do for me?" like people are slot machines or something. Idk man I'm just living my life and seeing what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:25 PM
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The kid still has no mother though. Nannies can't replace a real mother. You'd also have to find a way of explaining how the kid was born and why you chose to do what you did to them and hope they don't feel wronged or upset / weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:17 PM
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Is this what "baby rabies" looks like for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:15 PM
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Increased pet ownership instead of having kids. Me and my partner are DINKs and our cat is our cherished little one <3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:53 AM
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I'd rather have hot flushes and menopause shit to deal with than be a bald old man who looks like a big baby
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:14 AM
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It's basically: Women have more options (a good thing), and face more danger (a bad thing). Men have less options (a bad thing), and face less danger (a good thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:25 PM
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Oh my god please for the love of god just type normally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:58 PM
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I'm going to begin to address you like you are 12 years old now, because you cannot get your head past the fact that your peepee has no relevance to the discussion. Simone Biles is a very, very famous person. Many, many people around the world know who she is. Her husband has absolutely nowhere near her fame. Nobody even knew Simone was married in the first place! Let alone who he is! Well, they had an interview on the TV, and the man said he is "The Prize", like he's a big deal, but still, many…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:15 PM
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Oh my god what you think about her attractiveness has NOTHING to do with the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:03 PM
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What has you not personally wanting to shove your dick up Simone Biles got to do with the topic of this thread? Like at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:21 PM
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Doesn't matter what you think about her. The context is what matters to the discussion though. She is objectively superbly talented to the degree she has become a celebrity. He's basically a nobody who said "I'm the prize". People didn't even know she was married. It was a cringe thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:07 PM
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Wow did that comment hit a nerve in you or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:48 AM
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Um… Simone Biles is the most decorated gymnast in history and is widely considered one of the greatest gymnasts of ALL TIME. She is anything but “average”, she’s a massive fucking deal. Even people who don’t give a fuck about gymnastics know her. Who is her husband? Random football player. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:40 AM
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Yep pretty much.. ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:41 AM
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Shit I wonder how low they’ve have gone if under 20s was an option. That’s… a little terrifying to think about 😳 I wonder how many men chose 20 just because they couldn’t select lower. Oh my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:08 AM
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Aren’t you just arbitrarily deciding for yourself that it doesn’t matter just because you don’t want it to? Safety is important and I guarantee if you were a woman, yes it definitely would matter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:11 PM
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I'm not sure you know what the definition of "lynch" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:41 AM
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OP says how actresses like Zendaya and Margot Robbie aren't that attractive and I think that matters a lot when discussing standards and all this. His perception of his own attraction is one thing, but if he's seeing beautiful women as not being much to look at, I'm not sure what kind of standard he's aiming for, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:56 AM
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Not all bullies are men. Some bullies are women and enjoy tormenting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:50 AM
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Well that sounded paedoy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:16 PM
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If an attractive, likable man is struggling to find women who like him, given he's not a recluse, then he is simply not as attractive as he thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:14 AM
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I read the title and knew it'd be you. You've been doing this for years and where has it got you? The answer is the same now as it will be in 2070 and beyond. Women can have all the standards they wish and owe you nothing. If you want a partner, it is on YOU to attract someone, not on them to owe you what you want from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:45 AM
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That just sounds incredibly weird and a bit daft, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:48 AM
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What on earth are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:34 AM
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I agree! And yes, I can't really make out what it has to do with my comment either. I thought he might have replied to me by mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:23 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:07 AM
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A quick glimpse at the relationship advice subs proves this wrong. Plenty of women breadwinners, plenty of women splitting bills equally, even plenty of women playing 100% of everything while their boyfriend is looking for a job or made unemployed or whatever. The sad thing is you also see threads (there were so many around Valentine's day) of women buying their boyfriend or husband gifts, or making him a meal, and he hated it, said he didn't want it, shoved it back in her face or something simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:04 AM
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Women dancing with their friends, having fun, being carefree and enjoying their lives... What could possibly be worse?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:05 AM
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🤣 I think I literally just watched The Red Pill doc and was like.. well okay I guess I'm MRA now. I really have had this habit of on-the-spot conversions because I read or saw a thing. Bloody tiring existence lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:29 AM
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Former SJW and former radfem here! Yeah I really went the whole entire circle lmao Now I'm just ...chill, unbothered, in my lane, etc. No labels. I'm against injustice towards women, against men, girls, boys, everyone. BUT my biggest priority is my own sanity. It kinda has to be, otherwise you'll just go crazy and you can't help anyone then. edit - Omg I forgot that one period of my life where I identified as an MRA too...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:18 AM
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Ngl I think it's full-on projection. The only women they follow on social media are thirst traps, not women blogging their casual interest in photography or whatever with not a selfie in sight. They're not used to seeing women interact with social media in a way that isn't "narcissistic" or sexually provocative, because they themselves lap that shit up like there's no tomorrow. They conflate all women using social media with the kind of content from women they consume. Expand this point to inclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:27 AM
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Eh, I think it just depends on the specific relationship and it's boundaries. I think the couple have to discuss this stuff together and form their own opinion, because every couple is gonna be different on this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:47 AM
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Tbh I don't think even he knows what he meant. If you start conflating sexual attention with literally any attention at all, you're on a slippery slope to being an extremely controlling person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:45 AM
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Both genders hate competition and are prone to insecurity. There are plenty of men threatened by their girlfriends use of huge dildos, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:37 AM
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So you meant any attention, then? Even attention from her own family? A woman upset with her SO's porn use is "hypocritical" because she keeps in touch with people she knows on social media? That's even stupider. How does that even make a lick of sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:17 AM
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Having social media and friends doesn't mean she's seeking sexual attention elsewhere though. There's a lot more to social media than someone seeking sexual attention. Like maintaining contact with family, and watching all the cat videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:10 AM
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I think this repulsion is a lot more common among young women who are newly fallen deeply in love. They fall madly, head over heels in love with a man, and then they find out he's unloading his balls to an endless array of perfect, flawless, surgically tweaked, labiaplastied women she sees as being a billion times hotter than she could ever hope to be, and she feels short-changed. And maybe those women are doing shit she can't or won't do sexually, so she doesn't feel kinky enough. Or she find o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:32 AM
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That's some severe wishful thinking lmao Some women literally cheat on their husbands with their husbands best friends. You don't think they fantasized about them before going for it irl? And then you have to account for how many women fantasize about it but don't cross the threshold into reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:43 AM
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Don't give a shit what anyone gets off to as long as it's not illegal. Don't give a shit what my SO gets off to as long as it's not illegal, profoundly sick in some way, or his porn use is interfering with our own sex life. Oh, and he's not doing that "I like fake tits, will you get fake tits someday?" bullshit. What people do with their own mind is none of my business. What thread are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:12 AM
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Nope. If that confused you, there's very little point engaging with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:02 AM
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Women are raped, killed, murdered and domestically abused by the thousands upon thousands every year by men. Young boys are being radicalized into hating women by the likes of openly misogynistic "influencers", and you're concluding that women don't seem to like men because you're not getting as much pussy as you'd like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:53 AM
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If women aren't wonderful to you, why do you want so many of them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:42 AM
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Well yeah. You could say the same for conventionally attractive people too though. But it shouldn’t be about “I want to be the best” or something. It’s about finding the right person for you. If it IS just a thing of “I want to fuck as many women as possible as an introvert” then yeah you’ll struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:06 PM
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So why does it feel so aweful? Every time my gf watches porn or thinks about someone else while pleasuring herself or tells me about her crush or screams someone else’s name while we’re having sex it feels horrible. Every time she tells me she wants a threesome or to open our relationship I feel miserable. It physically hurts because it makes me so sad. For some reason, I really really want her to be obsessed with me and only me. To act like a dog who loves me with all her heart and only me. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:18 PM
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Introvert =/= Hermit with no social life. Introverts also do leave the house and enjoy social activities. Finding someone in the outside world also means you're not just being judged on your looks alone via a photo on an app. So yeah, unless you're stunningly good-looking, meeting people organically is superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:11 PM
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I think there's a difference between one person remaining single and their high expectations harming nobody, and one person being in a relationship and their high expectations harming their partner because they don't match up to those standards. You can say "Oh but the rejection hurts me!", and sure, but it's ultimately up to everyone to choose who they want to be with. Rejection is absolutely inevitable for everyone at some point in life. But having a partner who willingly chose to be with you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:52 PM
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The men who will like this are men who hate women, but desire the simulacrum of a woman to get off to. Or even prefer it to the real thing, because she cannot have her ego boosted (because she doesn't have an ego) by his advances onto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:15 AM
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Yawn.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 03:55 PM
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🤣 Bit late to the party on this aren’t you?
/r/MensRights12/02/24 03:02 PM
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I don't think OP is older than 18 tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:52 AM
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You very clearly feel superior to women who aren't going super saiyan on their rapist or whatever. Or you want to. You're being really bloody weird about it, either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:25 AM
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You’ve got some psychological issues about this topic, haven’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:18 AM
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If a man is already fighting you, and you start trying to fight him back, I think the violence will likely only escalate and it won't generally be him that'll come out of it worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:30 AM
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Do you think we see it as tramatic because we think there's nothing we can do to stop them in every case? I think we see it as traumatic because being attacked is generally traumatic. Especially if it's by someone you know and maybe trusted. Possibly even by a family member, which a lot of attacks can be. also nope lol... Almost all men are stronger than almost all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:25 AM
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They just back down because they assume the man is automatically stronger. No, it's more like tonic immobility. "Tonic immobility is a physiological response that can occur during traumatic events, including sexual assault or attacks. It is often described as a state of involuntary paralysis or temporary loss of muscle control, where the individual is unable to move or resist the threat." They would be absolutely right in assuming the man is automatically stronger anyway, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:13 AM
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100% yes. It seems way worse in the younger gen than millennial or Gen X. Obviously men have watched porn since it was available, but there's something very, very different about how it's affecting young men now. Rates of erectile dysfunction, rejecting their SO in favor of porn leading to her feeling dissatisfied, I've even seen guys trying to still watch porn in secret while having sex... You even see men getting mad defensive over it. Like porn is that precious and dear to them. It's sad and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:10 AM
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Porn has been named in well over 60% of divorce petitions in the US in recent years, and that figure will continue to climb. Holy shit.. That is eye-opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:02 AM
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Take Jacob Elordi for example. The guy has a very weird looking face, like a 13th century European peasant, or a creepy doll or one of those mirror images of half of someone’s face. But boom 6’5” international heartthrob. Pete Davidson, Post Malone and MGK additional examples, guys look homeless. Yeah you just straight-up don't understand female sexuality. Just because you wouldn't bang Elordi doesn't mean a LOT of women wouldn't want to lmao. You're applying how attractive you - as a (presumabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:36 PM
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You're on a post by a man who cares about women using iPhones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:28 PM
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So are young men and women now trying to outcompete who cares about the pettiest shit? Because all of that sounds stupid to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:09 PM
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All women don’t even have iPhones. I cannot imagine caring about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:10 PM
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OP seems to care quite a lot what phone women have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:53 AM
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Your complains are ridiculous. It’s no wonder you have issues dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:50 AM
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I can see why you have issues dating. Your complaints are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:47 AM
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If you meet a woman, and you look at her phone, chances are it's an iPhone. This is such a bizarre way to start your post. What's your issue with iPhones? You mention the iPhone again further down in your thread as well. What's your big beef with women with iPhones? Lol. IPhones are great. Many men have them too. Would you think differently of a woman if she were using a different brand? Weird post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:39 AM
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Isn't the ultimate entitlement to sex and bodies, rape? Men commit rape far more often than women do. If a woman feels entitled to a man or sexual pleasure, but does not rape him, doesn't commit assault, then what are the damaging consequences of her entitlement and why should anyone care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:22 AM
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He doesn't seem to know WHY women can find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:29 PM
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Confident loser is going out meeting and talking to women. Shy winner stays indoors more and is scared to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:16 AM
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The truth is, women chose to date and fuck worthless troglodytes all the time. There are unemployed, drug dealing, personality disordered, futureless good-for-nothings who have absolutely no problem finding female companionship. Plenty of those guys get women because they can be exciting, confident, hot, funny, outgoing, interesting people. A lot of these guys - drug addicts / alcoholics / drug dealers, etc - are constantly around other people and possess strong social skills. You can be a geniu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:08 AM
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Yes. Idk why people keep baselessly assuming that I'm somehow pro-misandry, like if the tables were turned, then I'd be all "hurr well yeah I guess she should spout anti-male abuse haha". No. If you're verbally abusing people at their job or shouting "kill all men / women / children", you are a cunt and I don't really give a fuck if you get cuffed, arrested and thrown out on your arse.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 04:49 AM
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Well, fortunately, it's not up to you.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 11:11 PM
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Are you American by any chance?
/r/MensRights29/11/23 08:07 PM
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You very clearly want to be angy at a woman for reasons you pulled out of your dick hole. Discussion over. You're every single bit as irrational and unstable as the feminists you hate. It's ironic.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 07:49 PM
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Would you classify misandrist chanting as verbal abuse? Also, read the article. The headline is clickbaity, refs in general face huge amounts of abuse.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 07:43 PM
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Lol no of course the teens weren't workers. They were harassing the ref.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 07:27 PM
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The issue to me is, if someone is at their job, they can't just walk away. This is regardless of the genders involved. If someone is being chanted any kind of abuse at it can also negatively impact their performance. But also in this case can ruin it for others in the crowd as well. Basically these were just yobs who deserved what they got. If those were two teenage girls chanting misandrist abuse at male players I would be saying exactly the same thing.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 07:10 PM
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Then I trust if women were chanting abuse at men in their place of work you would be fine with that.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 07:00 PM
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Those women should absolutely be thrown the fuck out and arrested too.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 06:58 PM
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Anyone chanting abuse at someone at their place of work deserves to be arrested imo. The fact that they were chanting abuse at her from the crowd shows they thought they could get away with it.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 06:33 PM
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Great job! Those little shits should be taught they're not getting away with verbal abuse. Serves them right.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 06:23 PM
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It is silly because fat men should have the same as fat women in terms of acceptance, etc, if that is to be it. And yes, imo, these feminists should also be men's rights activists too.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 03:50 AM
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Fat women spearheaded the body positive movement for women. Fat men need to do the same for fat men. The same for bald men, short men, etc. People in MRA groups should champion these causes.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 03:02 AM
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Why is showing more varied types of men in an attractive light a negative thing? Why do you want only one standard of masculinity to be "in"?
/r/MensRights28/11/23 05:17 PM
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Lmao imagine judging someone’s entire personality based off of one venting post on Reddit. I think it has more to do with how he's actually interacting with other people in the comments than basing it off just his OP / venting post. Judging people on how they treat others is a fairly standard metric when it comes to assessing quality of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:35 PM
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And what do the women do? Tell men to constantly "improve" as inadvertedly implying there really is not eniugh to be an average bloke these days. Give them advice Well what are we supposed to be doing? It's literally not our problem if someone else is having issues finding someone to date. Expecting women to help you I think is where persistently single men go wrong. The mentality is likely why they're single to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:35 PM
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Your point was kind of terrible. "The more freedom people have to complain, the more they will do so" well duh... If there are harsh penalties if you dare complain, of course you won't complain as much as someone in a free country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:06 AM
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North Koreas objectively do not complain about their country anywhere near as much as us in the west do. Lol yes the reason for that is there are severe consequences for them doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:14 AM
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I think what I'm trying to say is, aging out of the big obsession with youth and beauty are welcome things that help weed out the men to whom that is so important. Men can act strangely with women who are young and pretty, and it's something that helps navigate dating and relationships when you know men aren't just looking at you as a conquest / arm-candy / superficial thing. You feel safer knowing they're more likely to want something deeper from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:36 AM
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That's an interesting take but not one I agree with. To me, the desire to look young and pretty aren't necessarily tied to trying to secure a specific man. Universally people agree that youth is attractive. Younger women are also attractive to me too, but I have no desire to be with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:31 AM
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It would expand to men who want a woman more youthful and attractive than I am currently, which wouldn't be a good thing. I wouldn't prefer that. Also I believe it would shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:18 AM
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it’s the realization by the woman herself that she can’t attract the quantity and quality of men that she used to in her younger years. I never really got this point. The pool of young men available to a young woman are full to the brim of immature fuckbois who just want casual sex. Nerdy guys who are asocial who barely leave the house. Guys obsessed with weed and video games. Maybe career guys obsessed with a profession. The older I get as a woman (35+) the more there are more mature, well-adju…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:21 AM
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Aren't you afraid you might lose your account for making that comment wishing someone commits suicide? I just reported you. Enjoy your day. :)
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:32 PM
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I KNOW she's exploiting him because if he didn't have money, a home, and mad clout, she wouldn't be near him. He doesn't have money anymore. Mad clout is surely negligible at this point? It's very "out there" that he's an unhinged failure. We've seen this girl have a breakdown about the health of her morbidly obese bf on the documentary and not much swings in her favor at all in terms of any power at all. She's doing his gardening and passively sitting by while people laugh in her face. I get th…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 11:33 AM
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If boogy was the same age would you see her as a victim still or see it as more equitable? Kind of a hard question tbh just because their power dynamic is so much more involved than just about the age gap. He clearly also uses his health scares to assert power over her in a really fucked up way as well. I think he's disgusting anyway and I do think it's a gross dynamic but even at 20, she knows what she's doing. I do reject the concept that 20 year olds of either gender don't have agency in thei…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 11:23 AM
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I see her as a victim. I don't think she cares about money, clout, or "monkey branching". She's barely an adult, and she's clearly so traumatized I think she's going to have so much to work through in therapy someday.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 11:11 AM
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The DailyMail is a great source. Very much so trusted, reliable, and most importantly unbiased. You are joking, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:26 AM
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Thank fuck for that. 😂
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:28 AM
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I thought it was probably a stretch, lol. I've never been to America, only seen American movies. But I thought for a sec.. hang on do Americans act like they're in a movie irl?? He just swaggers up to a table and chat up a girl eating a meal with her mother. 😂 "Hey hot stuff.. I see you ordered the, uh... Cute Single Girl Sundae with uhh .... (and he looks at her mother)... cherries ;)"
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 03:22 AM
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Is this an American thing? Because I think there are cultural differences going on with this situation.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 03:12 AM
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Do you mean in the same way you choose to group together one incel saying "I hate all women they should die" and another incel saying "I'm extremely depressed and feel i'm too ugly to ever find love" as one in the same? Because you do that a lot here. Hypocrisy is fun isn't it? And now you're resorting to lies. I have never once done that here, or anywhere else for that matter. I really feel for the incels who are decent men but just struggling. It's a shame they get lumped in with all the unhin…
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 03:11 AM
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You're choosing opposing viewpoints held by completely different types of individuals, and choosing to pretend they're one in the same, so you can pound sand about it. It'd be like me saying "Men say they're the strong and unemotional sex, but then they're crying about "muh mental health! / suicide rate! / homelessness!". So hypocritical!" It's stupid.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 02:54 AM
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You're choosing differing viewpoints held by different people, and deciding to see them all as these individual dichotomies. Also, no one on this planet expects you to get a boner over Lizzo. It doesn't exist. It's not a thing. It never has been a thing, and never will be.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 02:33 AM
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His personality is that he brags about having "two separate aprons" of obese stomach flab and jokes about genital mutilation. Honestly I have no idea what she does see in him, but it's really concerning she's with him tbh. She seems so troubled and he seems so incredibly toxic.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 01:12 AM
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Also, it'd be fucking weird really, to just go up to a table while a girl is eating a meal with her mother. Wtf would you say?!
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 12:49 AM
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