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| 20 | Is it concerning to anyone else that, sometimes, when trying to back up your argument with facts people ridicule you? | nignag | /r/MensRights | 01/02/12 12:26 AM |
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| 2 | RESULTS FROM THE R/MENSRIGHTS SURVEYYou said it :( | /r/MensRights | 20/06/13 06:39 PM |
| 0 | RESULTS FROM THE R/MENSRIGHTS SURVEYIm going for my phd and got my bachelor's last august, and I just turned 22. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/13 08:52 AM |
| 3 | What I want as an equalist (X-post with TwoXChromosomes)Which part did you expect? The part about the assault statistic or the straw man rubbish part? I saw the original post as some nice wishful thinking, maybe not strawmaning. However I think it is correct to point out that males are much more likely to be assaulted. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/12 06:39 PM |
| 5 | My College surprised me today.They are having the student orientation here at Texas Tech in Lubbock, one thing I was happy to see was that they were giving equal enforcement to keeping the girls out of the boys' temporary dorms as they do for the reversed situation. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/12 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Parents, stop destroying the American male. Magnificent Maternal Micromanagers and Milquetoast dads have ruined a generation.I never knew it wasn't spelled 'milk-toast'. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/12 07:47 PM |
| 8 | When someone tells you, "We don't have a men's or white history month, because every other month is already white male's history month", how do you reply?What I say to them is this; the entire reason that black history month, black entertainment channel and the such are around doesn't bother me in the slightest. In fact I am glad they exist, and don't see how people would think otherwise. However, since some people claim "all the other months are white history month" then I want to name them as such. Either take away the name for black history month, so we can all just know that it is black history month, or name the other months accordingly. Thi… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/12 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Question: Would the Men of Men's Rights Submit to a Proctologist's Examination...As long as the doctor/legislature isn't doing it to be spiteful, I see no problem. The taboo of getting one's private areas examined by medical professionals baffles me. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Question: Would the Men of Men's Rights Submit to a Proctologist's Examination...Most definitely, despite what people seem to say, these exams are there for a reason. I went in and had it done, and discovered I had a bacterial mass since birth. A regiment of antibiotics and I was completely healthy, not only would I encourage people to have their bodies examined by doctors, I wish it were more commonplace. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/12 02:49 AM |
| 2 | My response to "My Strenght"If everything that came from SRS was bread I would be so happy. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/12 10:12 PM |
| 0 | GirlWritesWhat: I know you are okay with your circumcision, but...Thank you for saying 'creationism' instead of 'christianity'. Not all of us think the Bible is a textbook. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/12 03:09 AM |
| 15 | GirlWritesWhat: I know you are okay with your circumcision, but...I disagree, and here is something I posted to a similar discusion "I am completely against the whole thing, and am circumsized. As I've said before, i'm not angry or upset that I am cut, I am upset that I was cut. What I mean is, the results of the action don't really make me angry. The fact that the action was done and no one thought I had rights is what makes me angry. Honestly I don't see how any male could think otherwise unless they were holding religious rights over the rights of a child." | /r/MensRights | 07/03/12 03:04 AM |
| 16 | Really disgusting "funny" circumcision storyI am completely against the whole thing, and am circumsized. As I've said before, i'm not angry or upset that I am cut, I am upset that I was cut. What I mean is, the results of the action don't really make me angry. The fact that the action was done and no one thought I had rights is what makes me angry. Honestly I don't see how any male could think otherwise unless they were holding religious rights over the rights of a child. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/12 10:01 PM |
| 3 | This subreddit needs to shake off its anti-women reputation for the sake of these issues being taken seriously.The rest of the post was a glaring peek into the hypocrisy that many men face on a daily basis. I'm not disagreeing with you that s/he (I don't assume gender here, and I don't claim mine so that people think I am trying to use it as an argument winner) looks like a total asshole. But for someone who is forced to live with this hypocrisy day in and day out, and speaking against it making them misogynist; seeing someone else do it is indeed empowering. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/12 04:08 AM |
| 2 | This subreddit needs to shake off its anti-women reputation for the sake of these issues being taken seriously.Honestly, I don't think it will matter much. Take a similar situation in which a feminist rally had a speech which opened with a joke demeaning of men. Even if the message was blatantly offensive, anyone who complained would just be told that "the rest of the message was empowering and positive" and to promptly stop bitching. This sub will always be targeted for selected quotes that are made by hateful jerks, the best we can do is just not give them our attention, upvote the good ones, and anyon… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/12 03:58 AM |
| 1 | A couple of change proposals - Need community input - MR Title and Violent CommentsI'd like to see something along the lines of 'society's unequal treatment of ...' I don't want it to seem like we are dancing around saying that it is unfair for men because of people, not just because of nature. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/12 08:06 PM |
| 4 | This subreddit needs to shake off its anti-women reputation for the sake of these issues being taken seriously.This is why I think the comment was upvoted so much, you may not like the answer and frankly neither do I. The extreme hyperbole in the first line was probably uncalled for (I honestly have no idea who Ayatolla Khomeini is in any detail) and makes his (?) comment look foolish. However, those that were already in a like-minded state looked past it and saw the rest of the comment was very satisfying and upvoted. Do I hate it when this happens? Absolutely, anyone who spews hatred over an entire gro… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/12 07:54 PM |
| 85 | [x-post] Our Facebook hero.There are times when you are calling someone out on stuff like this to just be a jerk, either because you are a troll or are bitter inside. But when people post this kind of blatantly false stuff, and others flock to it like flies to honey, it needs to be called out on. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/12 02:14 AM |
| 1 | X-posting to /r/feminism Zero-Sum Game?I see many comments on here and everyone has their own answer, but here is mine and it's short. While, without a doubt, both movements have members that harm the other gender with either hate, a lack of empathy, or whatever; feminism has these people in places of power that actively harm people through lobbying and legislation, the MRM doesn't. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/12 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Remember Mark Byron, the guy forced to apologize to his wife for venting on facebook? Here is a statement from his wife.Almost all posts on this forum are being downvoted the last few hours. Seems a brigade of some sort has been formed. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/12 04:26 PM |
| 4 | If Jezebel.com was a personThe fact that someone made this comment and it seems so well recieved gives me hope for the subreddit. In my experience, most people who actually take the time to read links on here have a positive opinion of r/MR | /r/MensRights | 28/02/12 10:08 PM |
| 1 | No Female Privilege? 3 Lesbians beat gay man, use "homophobic slurs", break his nose. Bail: $100-500 eachActually no, what I mean is this; their view is that when there is a female victim, reddit will blame her for what she wears, how she acts, etc.... But when a male victim comes along, misogynyst reddit gets all up in a huff. You can see why this is absurd, because the mere idea of a male victim getting as much empathy as a female one is enough to make you scratch your head. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/12 05:42 PM |
| 4 | this is how anti-MRM people are trying to portray us. it disgusted me to see that this was a bigthink piece at the end...When I feel like getting angry about something I will never have enough power to influence, I will watch this again.... | /r/MensRights | 27/02/12 02:43 AM |
| 15 | Students, how much sexism have you suffered at your school?The sad thing is; they can actually post this in papers and people will be proud of it. This kind of stuff is eaten up by the people who grant money to the universities. "Oh this university decided to fund a women's team over a men's? They are enlightened and gender-friendly!" shutupandtakemymoney.jpg | /r/MensRights | 26/02/12 06:42 AM |
| 11 | No Female Privilege? 3 Lesbians beat gay man, use "homophobic slurs", break his nose. Bail: $100-500 eachThey will just make a "SO BRAVE" comment about how "MISOGYNYST" reddit only cares when there is a male victim. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/12 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Comments for a rage comic post, and my current pregnant status, have lead me to ask you for opinions and experiences about circumcision : AskRedditI don't know what is more appalling to me; blatant ignorance and the fact that a baby boy's human rights are so trivial that they don't even show up on the radar. Or, the fact that people who are informed of the hypocrisy on the issue/pain it causes the child and do it anyway | /r/MensRights | 26/02/12 02:02 AM |
| 24 | No Female Privilege? 3 Lesbians beat gay man, use "homophobic slurs", break his nose. Bail: $100-500 eachI'd make a joke about how he was probably oppressing them by having a penis, which they rejected.. but I think this guy is a victim of a crime that we shouldn't really joke about. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/12 01:12 AM |
| 17 | Why are many Feminists against Financial Abortion (legal paternal surrender)?The simple answer? If LPS were legalized, it would make more of the responsibility of child rearing lay on the single mother. Feminism is hellbound on expanding the choices for women, but they aren't always wanting to bear the responsibility for those choices. They have this mentality that single-motherhood is empowering and difficult. And that is.... well because it is supposed to be difficult, there is a reason it only works when the government subsidizes it. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/12 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Okay, I have to ask thisI'd edit for the redundancy in two two cents, but I'd rather not have the asterisk of ambiguity D: | /r/MensRights | 25/02/12 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Okay, I have to ask thisThis is just my take on the situation, but here it goes. A large number of men who aren't don't mind that they are cut also don't mind that they were cut. And it usually turns out that the ones who have nothing against being cut will argue against the rights of a baby boy. I too am cut, and I don't mind that I am cut now. Do I wish I was uncut? I don't know, I don't have any idea how it would feel and stating that I do would be kind of foolish. Do I wish that I wasn't circumcised? You bet your a… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/12 10:34 PM |
| 2 | A friend of mine just got 4 years for a drunk driving crash. Would a woman have received the same punishment?I think the reason you are being downvoted is because you are thinking in the sense of "no harm no foul". Sure no one died, but was the risk of killing someone exponentially higher driving intoxicated than driving sober? you bet. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/12 01:29 AM |
| 1 | MRAs, help me. We're having a discussion in my Contemporary Moral Issues class about pornography and prostitution.Wow they work fast. I wish I had that kind of response time. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/12 01:07 AM |
| 1 | This made me more angry than it should have. Why? Because people actually believe this.You can't fight feelings with facts, you have to get a woman on your side arguing your case before your opponent will take you seriously, if even then. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/12 09:50 PM |
| 1 | It's not uncommon for daughters to be warned about the dangers of boys and the world. What have we done to prepare for the sons? Parents, what have you made your sons become aware of or warn against?Hopefully by the time this generation is mature enough to be parents (not the same as being old enough to spawn offspring), there will be better options for male-birth control. At that point you can simply drill it into your sons' heads that they shouldn't trust anyone but themselves with their own future; Take your medicine! | /r/MensRights | 23/02/12 09:46 PM |
| 4 | It's not uncommon for daughters to be warned about the dangers of boys and the world. What have we done to prepare for the sons? Parents, what have you made your sons become aware of or warn against?You know those fish that follow sharks around to nomnom on the leftovers? For some reason that comes to mind. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/12 09:39 PM |
| 1 | MRAs, help me. We're having a discussion in my Contemporary Moral Issues class about pornography and prostitution.There are people who will follow well-known accounts and just downvote everything they say. I'm pretty sure jmra is well-known enough to have attracted a few leeches. Although I'm pretty sure you already knew this and was just trying to point out the stupidity. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/12 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Harassment training at my workplaceYou can stand up to feminism and its policies like we try to do, it's really all anyone can do. Seems hopeless at times, but doing nothing will get us... nothing. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Obamacare will provide contraceptives for women, but not for men.I didn't say anything about force, and I apologize if it came off that way. My viewpoint is that people are praised and seen as "enlightened" if they have lots of sex and call themselves sexually liberated, and I am fine with that. But it just seems like it paints people who don't partake in liberated sex are shut-ins, neckbeards, virgins, etc... | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Girl in my Writing class writing an essay on why men should have their penis cut off if they rape someone.I never said they would make a sound argument, I only said they would argue. It was going to show that a nonsensical punishment would be justified by a nonsensical argument. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 01:29 AM |
| -2 | Obamacare will provide contraceptives for women, but not for men.Not completely, but it seems like "not having" sex is frowned upon to me. I think either route is a legit choice, depends on the person. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 01:27 AM |
| 3 | girlwriteswhat | How feminism conned society, and other not-so-tall tales... - YouTubeSuppose I should have put /s to show my intent of sarcasm, but I don't think I elicited a hostile response like that. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 01:26 AM |
| -6 | Obamacare will provide contraceptives for women, but not for men.Is holding ones sexual drive in check to the point that they just abstain for a bit such a bad things these days? Not being sarcastic, I just feel like it is frowned upon by the "sexually liberated" society and such. Maybe it doesn't work as well for both genders, or all people, but I better stop before I sound like a rational thinker. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 01:20 AM |
| 5 | (F)I want to thank everyone that helped me with my presentationHope the reception was warmer than I have experienced, congrats on the whole thing though. I once did a study on how quick students would 1) become suspicious of "misogyny" and 2) become actively offended by giving a 5 min speech that went from praising feminist movements to criticizing it. Turns out the time needed for a sample size to become hostile is quite short! | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Girl in my Writing class writing an essay on why men should have their penis cut off if they rape someone.See, where I am on the whole thing is this: Instead of sticking to the idea of "what penetrates", redefine rape to what it should actually be "The non-consensual engagement in a sexual activity that is forced on the victim by one or more parties." Some people say that is sexual assault, and should be "less" repulsive than rape. To them I say fuck you, a child (or adult, whatever) who is assaulted this way suffers even after your parsing of words makes light of it. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Feminist Propaganda at Cracked.com, of all places. Scroll down to reasons #6 and #4I'm not surprised about this being on cracked, but I have never had a high opinion of the site... whatever. I try to have what I tend to criticize others about not having, skin thick enough that a sneeze won't kill me; and that being said I find the article annoying at best and not enough to offend me. That being said; there is harm to be done by this because I guarantee you a group of people sitting around a computer somewhere (notice how I didn't say women or feminists in particular) are going… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Sexual privilege checklist - for the next time they squawk about male privilegeIs this a discussion about spelling or inflammatory language... the karma rests in the balance! | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Girl in my Writing class writing an essay on why men should have their penis cut off if they rape someone.I think the argument they will make is that women do not "rape" as far as penetration goes, therefore they had no part of their body going into the victim, therefore there is nothing to cut off. Stupid I know, but I think that actual perpetrators of rape should be punished extremely harshly, probably more than most people would find acceptable, but amputation isn't they way to do it. A bit confusing, but I say this not because it isn't harsh enough, I just feel that this line of retribution is b… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 12:12 AM |
| -3 | girlwriteswhat | How feminism conned society, and other not-so-tall tales... - YouTubeNot complaining, just genuously curious: does she not post her own videos so that she gets credit for it? I mean come on.... internet points.... | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 12:06 AM |
| 4 | (F)I want to thank everyone that helped me with my presentationIseewhatyoudidthere.jpg I am curious about the grade, my experience with graded assignments and anything critical of feminism is.... not pleasant. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/12 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Indian high court rules that the right to abort a pregnancy in aa marriage rest with the wife, not the husband X-Post from r/worldnewsI find the argument that the child's rights trump the rights of others to be very.... strange. I say this because the only rights the child has are the ones the mother decides it has, will it have a right to live? Only if the mother chooses to bear it (as it should be). The issue I have with the argument is that people are all in support of making the child's rights secondary to the mother's, but the father's are so far out of consideration that even bringing it up is met with ridicule. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/12 07:30 PM |
| 3 | r/mensrights is a whine tasting.I'd be happy to discuss why you think the posts on this reddit are without warrant, but it seems that your mind is already made up. The only time I'd consider arguing with someone who has no intention of having an open mind would be if I were being paid for it, and even then it'd have to be a lot. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 11:40 PM |
| 14 | Reaction to Women Abusing Men in PublicYou should ask for a female officer if that ever happens again, from what I have gathered they are much more open to the fact that the woman isn't a helpless flower and that she can cause real damage. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 09:17 PM |
| 1 | But what about the men?http://goodmenproject.com/gender-sexuality/how-feminism-hates-women-unwanted-sex-vs-rape/ | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 02:13 AM |
| 2 | But what about the men?In my opinion, men who are "feminists" in the sense that they lay claim to the label simply for the namesake respect women less than many people on this forum. Feminism does more coddling and infantilizing of women than egalitarianism does; take a look at GWW's recent blog post on how women have no responsibility after a man hands them a drink, I think it raises a very good point about how feminism takes responsibility away from women, and with it goes respect and power. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 02:04 AM |
| 2 | But what about the men?That is usually good grounds to assume the person who is making the argument is misinformed... at best. Judging the past by today's standards is very touchy, it usually produces sketchy results. Example of what I am talking about: Yes men have had more power throughout history, but with this power came absolute disposability to the point where lives would be cast away in ways modern society would (or should) abhor. I'm not saying it balances out, things like this can't be measured so finely, but… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 01:59 AM |
| 2 | But what about the men?It is very telling to me that you feel that way. The reason I take exception to that line of thinking is this: You just assumed that anyone who disagrees/is against feminism is male. Some of the most prominent MRM people are female. This isn't an attack of your character, just a criticism of the ideas you (apparently?) subscribe to. Feminism teaches that men are the enemy, this is false on so many levels. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 01:55 AM |
| 2 | But what about the men?Reddit's thoughts on r/mr are drastically skewed. Yes you will find some asshats that just behave like trolls, but most of the people here aren't like that. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 01:46 AM |
| 3 | But what about the men?I agree, the fact that you have to shout to be heard doesn't mean you have to drown out the people who have been hurt. It's a shitty situation, but I just believe that feminism (the belief, not necessarily all the people) is impeding progress more than it fosters it. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 01:37 AM |
| 8 | But what about the men?If feminism would not corner the market on gender discussion, this kind of problem would not exist. When anyone brings up the topic of gender, society almost always thinks that Feminism is the only positive view to be had, and anyone other is misogynistic and bigoted. When I can freely speak about men's issues without the stigma that comes with it today, I will not have to speak about it in feminist discussions. As it is now, they have monopolized gender issues to the point that you have to scre… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/12 01:28 AM |
| 5 | Nothing new, but I'm sick to death of being called a man simply because I support Men's RightsI agree, but from what I've seen the consensus is this: If you are born female you are deemed intelligent and therefore a "feminist", if you are born male you are deemed inferior and must be made into a feminist later. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/12 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Nothing new, but I'm sick to death of being called a man simply because I support Men's RightsYour feminist badge you get when born as female? idk | /r/MensRights | 18/02/12 02:21 AM |
| 13 | GirlWritesWhat on Unwanted Sex vs. RapeWhen every person on earth accepts responsibility for their actions we will no longer have these problems. Good luck with that though. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/12 01:37 AM |
| 9 | Nothing new, but I'm sick to death of being called a man simply because I support Men's RightsI have a question for any other identified (as in people know you are a woman when they read your posts) mens' right supporters. Do you feel more secure, or less afraid of backlash, in your statements knowing that people who would say "You are just a man and have no say." can't say this to you? Or is it even more frightful, that they can come at you with gender-betrayal or "special snowflake" attacks? Or perhaps it is relatively equal, I'm just curious about it | /r/MensRights | 17/02/12 11:57 PM |
| 2 | I believe a girl at my school is trying to hurt herself in front of me and blame it on me, recently I got detention for physically hurting her, what can I do? (x post from /r/askreddit)Fair enough. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/12 11:08 PM |
| 14 | I believe a girl at my school is trying to hurt herself in front of me and blame it on me, recently I got detention for physically hurting her, what can I do? (x post from /r/askreddit)If we turn even one legit victim away due to fear of trolling we aren't doing our job. That being said I screencapped before responding :P | /r/MensRights | 14/02/12 10:59 PM |
| 6 | I believe a girl at my school is trying to hurt herself in front of me and blame it on me, recently I got detention for physically hurting her, what can I do? (x post from /r/askreddit)I faced a similar situation in middle school once, except the two girls that were on the other side just seemed to have it out for me. Without going into detail I'll say I just bit the bullet and took the "prescribed" punishment, and made sure to learn from my experience. My advice: You will always be branded as the aggressor in this type of situation, so just learn from it and try to change the system. (Also don't carry it with you, anger is bad for the soul) | /r/MensRights | 14/02/12 10:41 PM |
| 2 | WTF. TIL that you can go to the courts to force a 12 year old to be Genitally Mutilated.touche | /r/MensRights | 12/02/12 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Should a child really be entitled to child support unconditionally?You are under the assumption that feminism is about equality, even when it doesn't strictly benefit women. I used to believe that. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/12 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Should a child really be entitled to child support unconditionally?Okay, but I don't think feminists will like that idea... it gives the man too much freedom in his choice. Seriously, that isn't a joke. If men had the option to opt out like that, the vaaaast majority would do so, and single motherhood wouldn't be subsidized like it is with child support. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/12 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Should a child really be entitled to child support unconditionally?I don't quite understand what you mean. You say "There should be child support..." For parents who want to have a child, but don't get along well together I agree. But for a man, because if the woman doesn't want it she has plenty of options, who doesn't want the responsibility, rewards, or consequences of parenthood there should be no child support. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/12 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Should a child really be entitled to child support unconditionally?There is an excellent video about this by girlwriteswhat on youtube, I believe it is this one http://www.youtube.com/user/girlwriteswhat?feature=watch#p/u/6/UFYxlmRRnkw To summarize, and this is the point I took from it, we talk about the rights that a child has to parenting/support/etc... but the thing is, those rights are decided by the mother. When the mother is pregnant, she has the choice over what rights her child will have. Will it be aborted? Will she carry it to term and support it on h… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/12 06:50 PM |
| 5 | WTF. TIL that you can go to the courts to force a 12 year old to be Genitally Mutilated.It is harm because it is the irreversible removing of a part of the human body that does not to be removed. All medical arguments in favor of it have been disproven; there is no reason to do it other than religious/aesthetic desire. Even if you throw out all the pain at the time of the procedure, the side-effects which are relatively rare, and the removal of sensitive nerve tissue the issue remains; part of the human body has been irreversibly mutilated. The fact that a man has no choice in this… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/12 06:29 AM |
| 6 | WTF. TIL that you can go to the courts to force a 12 year old to be Genitally Mutilated.If course it is routinely medical; people are trained to do it. But we are talking about causing permanent bodily harm to an individual who has no voice to protest it. The child is being stripped of human rights, and if you think that it is not painful go and watch a video of it being done to an infant. It is also routinely medical for a trained physician to remove a baby girl's clitoris. It is also routinely medical to lobotomize someone. It is also routinely medical to hold someone to a table … | /r/MensRights | 12/02/12 06:16 AM |
| 0 | What I see as the problem with r/Men's RightsI didn't take your comment as hostile, and I responded as such :P (wasn't me who downvoted you btw) | /r/MensRights | 11/02/12 03:48 AM |
| 2 | What I see as the problem with r/Men's RightsI was just referring to the specific occurrence, but yes. In general anyone who went through this should never be laughed at. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/12 03:31 AM |
| 1 | x-post r pics: More Male PrivilegeI'll admit I didn't read all the comments, so maybe I missed someone saying "teh patriarchy caused teh warrz!". So assuming someone didn't I will hesitate to bring the burdens placed on men simply for being born male into that thread; I don't want to seem like a dick. That being said, if someone does start to trivialize the suffering of the men who died in the civil war I may change my position. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/12 03:29 AM |
| 6 | What I see as the problem with r/Men's Rights"I laughed as she was crying." A man's life was destroyed and you laughed? Piss off. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/12 03:24 AM |
| 5 | I wandered in here today and I'm a little hurt.Replying so I can have a link to this post for future reference, very well put. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/12 07:54 PM |
| 5 | I wandered in here today and I'm a little hurt.The common misconception about gender roles is that they were forced on women by all men. This is definitely not the case, as gender roles were pressed on women and men by society for the good of the species. Anyone who doesn't see that this was necessary for early-history mankind is wrong at best. That being said, the fact that it carried on for so long wasn't the fault of men either; it was the fault of the wealthy and powerful. Women were possessions, men were disposable. Both choices sucked. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/12 07:52 PM |
| 2 | I wandered in here today and I'm a little hurt.I didn't see what was actually posted, but I don't understand why it was removed. If the message of the post was good enough without cross linking, I don't see the reason to remove. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/12 07:49 PM |
| 7 | I wandered in here today and I'm a little hurt.I am going to forego any subjective arguments and only state factual ones. There are feminists in power who create/lobby for laws that unjustifiably hurt men. Many of these feminists, who are in power remember, are bad people. An argument 'good' feminists like to use is NAFALT, instead of standing up against those bad people. People, mainly men, have grievances against these feminists and their policies, and have a mask of anonymity. If the worst of their comments are, admittedly, biased and mil… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/12 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Why don't we nominate girlwriteswhat to be a speaker on TED?Pretty much my feelings on the matter. I could easily message her on youtube (or comment, whatever) on how awesome she is and send her every little thing I'd love to hear her speak on. But she has a life, and I would be very upset if the pestering of drooling fans made her stop doing the wonderful videos she does. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/12 06:08 PM |
| 2 | I know I'm flying face first into a fiery shit storm here, but I'd like to have my opinion heard.I miss paragraphs. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/12 02:52 AM |
| 1 | The real problem with affirmative action for women is that it is demeaning to WOMEN??Sometimes you have to get shit on your hands if you want to get out of a shitstorm. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/12 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Uninformed Pro-Feminist PeopleTIL I'm really bad at distinguishing voices (female at least) from each other on youtube. I thought this was girlwriteswhat, but she doesn't have the same accent. I guess I'm sexist. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/12 02:01 AM |
| 3 | custodyMother of god, I thought they were kidding when they said 9gag was like facebook only worse. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Anyone think we're about to get an influx of new MRAs?First I would have to marry you and then divorce you. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 06:43 PM |
| 11 | Anyone think we're about to get an influx of new MRAs?Why make it underground? We should be working to overthrow the stigma that comes with raising legitimate issues about men's human rights. We shouldn't have to fear such backlash simply for not swallowing all the "man up" brainwashing our society is permeated with. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Affirmative action for women in math contestsIf you think I never experience peer pressure you are completely wrong. The only reason people say such things is that the things I overcame aren't elevated because I am "privileged". My parents were probably the sole reason I didn't kill myself in middle school, so yes I do speak from experience when I say: You are the most important voice in your childrens' lives | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Apparently when a man is proven "not guilty" of a false rape accusation, it's proof of "rape culture".Having read through the article, and I do cede that it has some definite feminist bias to it, I will say that if you leave out that one example it is not bad. I believe the author's mistake was blaming a victim of a serious false accusation, who will forever be scorned as if he were a rapist. If this idea of "the absence of no is not a yes" (which I agree with to an extent) is such a problem, why do we not see more women pursuing men? Why are women not the ones pushing for sexual contact? The au… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 05:48 PM |
| 7 | Affirmative action for women in math contestsIt is your job as a parent to teach your daughter to pursue what she wants despite what society tells her. I won't point out the fields that boys are discouraged on pain of being relentlessly teased and scorned for fear of sounding like "But wut about teh menz?!" but this entire idea of "boys'" fields or "girls'" fields is bullshit, and if you truly believe it is for her she will believe her parent more than anyone else. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Question for the Reddit MRA comunity, for real.You say you find this difficult to believe, is this because of the extremes you see here? To that I say: Any group has its extremists and if you focus solely on those everything will look bad. Is it because people here go against the societal norm that men should "man up" and deal with their issues rather than discuss them? Well if that's the case I hope you will try to change your view. It isn't a parody, these are real issues and this is a place to discuss them. There are people on here (and a… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 05:50 AM |
| 7 | R/MensRights, You're Hurting Your Own CauseNot going to call you concern troll or anything, I like to think I'm better than that. But what you are saying is going to be true of any group that is passionate about its cause. I'm not defending it, or saying it excuses the fact it exists; the only real thing you can do is make sure you hold yourself to better standards and try to encourage others to do the same. Bringing it up will usually only fan the flames. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/12 12:38 AM |
| 5 | When (Female) Professors Have Obvious Feminist AgendasTo be fair, I don't think Celda was being a weasel about anything. Simply not wanting to scour the internet for proof shouldn't start anything malicious, it just means that you don't believe the claim, and they can't push it any further without backing it up (Which Celda hasn't seemed to do). | /r/MensRights | 02/02/12 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Is it concerning to anyone else that, sometimes, when trying to back up your argument with facts people ridicule you?I will look it up, I haven't read any of Farrel's works. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/12 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Is it concerning to anyone else that, sometimes, when trying to back up your argument with facts people ridicule you?It wasn't that I hadn't met individuals who had done this before. It was the fact that nearly the entire group of people who consider, and pride themselves on being "enlightened" thinkers all can do this so brashly | /r/MensRights | 01/02/12 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Examples in real life, where violence against women is unacceptable, yet the same violence against men was.Girlwriteswhat has an excellent video on this, so I will direct you there ( http://www.youtube.com/user/girlwriteswhat?feature=watch#p/a/u/2/gekyg7yy4Dc ) But if you don't want to watch (which I highly recommend you do) there was the recent instance "The Egyptian Woman in the Blue Bra" where there was much violence against men who were protesting and it was situation normal. Then, when a woman was caught on camera suffering the same as the men, to the point that her wardrobe "malfunctioned", the… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/12 12:30 AM |
| 3 | "By standing up for young men who are sexually assaulted, we help women, too." As if we should help avoid child rape only to help avoid rape of women. I find the idea abhorrent.That kind of attitude is just treating the symptoms and not the cause. You are scooping water out of a sinking boat at half the rate it enters. The only kind of advice I can give with dealing with people, not only feminists, that will only help others if it benefits them in some way is to be extremely patient and try to point out the hypocrisy of their ideas. There is a very good chance you will not convince the person you are arguing with, but hopefully someone who is listening will realize tha… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/12 04:25 PM |
| 3 | While female circumcision is not tolerated by feminists in SRSDiscussion under any circumstances, they have many male genital mutilation apologistsI agree, while I usually end up with a massive eye-roll 5 minutes into going anywhere SRS related. Reading the linked thread was actually not bad, as I saw only a few misuses of moderation power but not much else. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/12 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Should it be legal in America for women/girls to go topless in places where men/boys are allowed to go topless?I just want to clarify, I don't think that people who would want to go topless should be forced not to. The point I am trying to make is that if this were commonplace, I think it would be abused more than it would empower anyone. And generally in locker rooms, the idea is that they are all there and people will be naked some times, big deal. Most people really hate the guy that walks around showing himself off; this is not anger at a lack of shame, it is anger at a lack of humility. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/12 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Should it be legal in America for women/girls to go topless in places where men/boys are allowed to go topless?Well what I think would happen is the "pretty" people would laud around with their new freedom, and the "non-pretties" would feel worse than they already do. This will lead to problems for both males/females. Of course, all this is based on my world-view that most people are shallow and superficial. Call me cynical, but it's just the way I see it; not saying everyone else is wrong. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/12 01:25 AM |
| 19 | A word about "safe spaces" for feminists and MRA'sCan we all agree to try and respond more like white_cloud to controversial issues from on now? I am glad to see someone constructively adding criticism instead of demanding downvote brigades. Behaving this well will not only make MR look like a better place, but (just maybe) help some people from the opposite side realize that creating turmoil won't bring them the satisfaction they wanted. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/12 01:15 AM |
| -1 | Should it be legal in America for women/girls to go topless in places where men/boys are allowed to go topless?I don't think our society is grown up enough to handle this kind of behavior in public yet, speaking from America here. Women/girls (there are equivalent male pressures, but you will see why I say females exclusively in a moment) are under enough pressure to look like the pretty and unrealistically barbie-esque models already; do you think this would decrease if these already beautiful models went around topless? I think this would cause more problems for women/girls than it would solve. On the … | /r/MensRights | 29/01/12 01:12 AM |
| 0 | A rape campaign targeting men incorrectlyYes, some isolated cases are used to discredit more than they should. But are you saying those isolated cases aren't absolutely infuriating, at best, to those who are vulnerable to them? It's not hard to understand why people are so passionate about these isolated cases. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/12 10:02 PM |
| 3 | "Check your privilege," to me, is one of the most offensively prejudiced token phrases against non-minorities.I think it would be a better case if the politician had said something along the lines "Pick yourselves up by your bootstraps. It isn't hard, I did it myself." when the politician clearly hadn't. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/12 04:56 AM |
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