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nikfury69/r/askMRP18/02/24 05:41 PM
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nikfury69/r/askMRP20/07/19 04:42 PM
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BTW, PCOS kills libido, doesn't cause random train pulls. Ask Co-Pilot.
/r/askMRP01/12/24 01:05 AM
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"She had to fill a hole she had..." Apparently. Suggest a DNA and STI test, just for good luck. Better to know now then later.
/r/askMRP30/11/24 01:41 AM
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Observation. I was asked a similar question.
/r/askMRP18/02/24 06:21 PM
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C). "I gotta work this weekend, you're watching the kids. Plan accordingly." Reply 'okay', snuggle up and press it against her butt.
/r/askMRP18/02/24 05:52 PM
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Yep
/r/askMRP18/02/24 12:29 PM
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Perhaps a bit of cheese with the whine? The best advice given was Shut The Fuck Up. She's tired of the crybaby. Your diatribe made me want to bitch slap you. "She's literally..." who the fuck cares. As in, I fucking don't care to hear the "her" part ad nauseium. And yeah. She'll think you're butthurt if you really do STFU, cause you are. So fuck it. Do it any way. Find something else to do, somewhere else. Oh wait, that requires a mission. Till you figure that out, work on something around the h…
/r/askMRP05/02/24 12:54 PM
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'Boo hoo. I'm making bank and have a sugar momma.' Keep the old girl satisfied or be ready to be evicted. Sounds like you're lost. What's your mission? Figure this out and you'll be okay. Meanwhile, better stash the cash 'cause this won't last.
/r/askMRP05/02/24 12:34 PM
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"What should I do?" Go to askMRP FOR Q&A. Follow the rules. And where's the banning moderator?!? Get to work bub!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/24 12:51 AM
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Living together or legally married wife? Does she work? Sounds like she's beta grooming or shopping around. Giver her the ole 'agree n amplify'... don't forget the pinky! "One million dollars!" Then later... "I think we can get groceries, later in the week... maybe." Or... "Not sure, I'll check with accounting in the morning." Or grow balls and tell her - NO.
/r/askMRP12/01/24 02:25 AM
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You missed the point of "monkey branching". The monkey doesn't let go until the grasping hand is secure. She was doing the other guy longer than you think. Way longer. Days, weeks? Nah... Try months, years. But to answer your questions. "they found someone better than you" - yep. "you werent as high value as you shouldve been" - yep. "sometimes women seek new thrills and emotions" - yep, which also you couldn't provide. "doesnt necessarily mean shit" - nope, it does not. Cause she left you for a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/23 08:18 PM
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Debating? Do you mean masturbating? As in jerking off, while she eventually fucks Chad. This is called CUCĶOLDRY. This is not good for you or your family. No matter how good Feminism says it is. A debate is an oral contest and you lost this one. Now its her turn to deliver the oral. The question is what are you going to do? Watch some more? Don't be unattractive. The answers are everywhere in this Reddit. Nobody Cares STFU Work Harder
/r/askMRP20/12/23 12:59 PM
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'Woman: (to her girlfriend or lover) “He is a good husband but I can’t help but laugh at him for his niceness. He does all that I demand.” ' She has no respect for him and is more than willing to disrespect him, in his role of Her Husband. To her associates and the guy she wants to fuck, not her husband, the perfect Beta, the perfect Cuck. Don't be this guy. Otherwise, you're life is a lie until its revealed.
/r/askMRP19/12/23 04:51 PM
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Liking this reply...
/r/askMRP15/12/23 06:45 PM
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Two things here. Don't wanna share location. Then don't. Little to no sex. Then don't be unattractive. You shouldn't make this any harder than it is. The first is easy. Youtube can show you how to reconfigure you phone. She won't beat you up, will she? Besides withholding sex, what's she gonna do. Oh wait. You're there already, so no loss. The second is harder and is all on you. Others already said it; OYS, read the sidebar, go lift. This shows commitment, to youself and others, that may be will…
/r/askMRP15/12/23 06:42 PM
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Careful on this arena. HR hates men and the RP. If found, they'll do their best to help you become unemployed. The bigger the company, the bigger the issue. Don't poop where you eat. This goes for chicks at work. Not worth losing your job, career or customer. But you do you and let us know how it worked out.
/r/askMRP14/12/23 01:15 AM
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LoL!
/r/askMRP12/12/23 06:30 AM
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It's a nasty bandage, it's gonna hurt and it's gonna be a mess. Grow some balls and pull it off. Real quick. Or be a lil'bitch and wait another month. Maybe yer mommy can tell you what to do.
/r/askMRP12/12/23 01:06 AM
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One source for perceived SMV is the ego 'fluff' she's getting at work. Be patient, eventually some psuedo Chad will hit the right chord and take the problem off your hands. Might wanna start work on your plan for 'when she leaves'. Find something else to do.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 08:19 PM
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Well Jarhead, as former member of the Misguided Children, I lean on the culture. Adapt. Improvise. Overcome. (Not the original order, but makes more sense procedurally.) But you (should) know the details. This plus BAMCIS give you a start. The answer is Discipline. The former Jarhead should have remembered this. HE would have target, a mission. Unfuck youself and figure it out. Get some.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 08:06 PM
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MRP pushed me to take the budget. NP. Did the DR route, and got all but the house paid off. She recently had a knee surgery and took off 3 1/2 months, no issues. Has benefits.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/23 02:45 AM
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Someone already said it: 'There are no guarantees." She can be the right one at the right time. Get married, and now shes bored, seeking out strange dick. Or she's rock steady the whole marriage, hits menopause and becomes some other person, one you don't really like. Life sucks and then you die. Make it a suck you like and die happy. So DO what you want, when you can. No regrets.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 01:58 AM
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You forgot the first rule: Nobody Cares. But the beer offer stands.
/r/askMRP05/12/23 02:49 AM
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Nah. Probably read similar books or something. Its funny how like minded people are. If you're near Florida in the next couple weeks, I'll buy you a beer.
/r/askMRP05/12/23 12:17 AM
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This, this, This! The Stay Plan is the Go Plan! Whether she continues to be in your life, your life continues. Your kids exist. Your business exists. If she wants something else, let her go. Pretend she died and continue to build your life, for yourself and your kids. Is the business mobile? Move out of state, move to another country. Give yourself and your children the successful life you deserve. She died. Remember. Nobody Cares. Definitely not her. Only one person has YOUR interest as the num…
/r/askMRP02/12/23 09:39 PM
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In order for the 'sex demand' to work properly, you need a proper stance. Feet shoulder width apart, arms folded tightly across the chest. Verbally make the demand, and punctuate with a stamping of feet. Be sure to keep a stern look on you face, or is it a pout? Its been awhile since I was five, so its hard to remember. Lookup 'butt hurt'.
/r/askMRP21/11/23 04:48 PM
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To give you a better perspective, any good Linux admin will assist a newb to a certain point. And then, after that? RTFM. We are there.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/23 04:19 PM
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Have you ever seen a Marine in dress blues? Do you know how long it takes to put the mirror finish to the brass, the shine on the shoes? After you take it all in, go tell him how 'feminine and gay' all his efforts look to you. At certain point in your life, you personally adopt some habits that are referred to as 'professionism'. Setting yourself apart from the herd, can make a career opportunity. It can also get you laid. Neither of which sound very gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/23 04:34 AM
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The 'antler' link is the way.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/23 09:47 PM
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Invictus - "It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate I am the captain of my soul." Its all you bud. Nobody cares. STFU. Work harder.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 12:55 PM
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Balding since 15... I use #1 on top, 1.5 on goatee, once a week. Smaller trimmer for the random old guys hairs. Keep the brush down with a 2.5. Easy stuff here. The rest is the norm. Daily showers, x2 when working out. A matched skin lotion, body spray. Sad we discuss this...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/23 12:23 PM
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<hangs head> Sugar is my bane. That and pork, bacon and sausage. Chloresteral is good... I do follow the 1gr per pound protein guide. Biggest issue is finding low carb protein bars that don't cost an arm n a leg. Or too much sugar. Lottsa chicken, duck eggs, 2% milk. Haven't followed a bulk/cutting routine. Will try this winter.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/23 06:33 PM
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Ok. Lots of good stuff in that video! I'm going to switch to cable weights for flys, curls and extensions for the full range of motion effect for a couple months to gage it. Also re-evaluate the exhaustion point, to better set the 80/85% exhaustion rep count for each exercise. Now going through the rest of the material to address form issues. Thanks, really good stuff!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/23 10:26 PM
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Roger that. Will do and adjust for effect. Thnx.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/23 02:04 PM
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67 yo, post third hernia. Low weights, hi reps. HIIT runs. 3x each per week. Docs say no big weights, dumbbells only. Kept trudging on the last 5+ years. Wt range, 195 - 210lbs. 5'10.5", 34" wst, 15-17% bf, Navy cawith, My company has 3 hrs weekly paid PT benefits and a full gymn at each of the corporate facilities. I take advantage of them. Besides 2-3 daily cups of strong coffee, I also do TRT, thyroid, vitamins (D, B complex, zinc), l'arginine, creatine, protein bars, lotsa water and sugar fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/23 04:09 AM
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Roger, go.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 11:39 PM
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Good follow thru with OYS. Two big gold nuggets in the responses... - Make your time scarce. - Just do stuff. And don't forget, just STFU. Easy, but hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/23 04:54 AM
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Kudos - Points given for blunt honesty and no DEER bullshit. Don't see this often.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/23 03:18 AM
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Tomorrow morning, Friday. Set the boundary. Exactly. "I don't accept this behavior." Indicate the consequences. "If our marriage is important to you, its important to me." Then. SHUT THE FUCK UP. Leave for work. With an over night bag. Come back Monday night. Go silent.
/r/askMRP13/10/23 02:07 AM
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So she's not intimate. Still chatting up Chad. Telling you, because bullshit excuse #43 through #219. Did you verbally set a boundary? TLDR. Yes or No. Did she honor the boundary? If YES and NO, its done. Nothing else matters. Its Fuck You. She's keeping it fresh for Chad. Then "The Stay Plan Is The Go Plan". Plan accordingly. Don't take her back when Chad ditches her, in about 2-6 months. Meanwhile... Nobody Cares, STFU, Work Harder.
/r/askMRP12/10/23 05:07 PM
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Option 2 is calling Pimping, which is illegal in most of the United States. Its essentially allowing her to be a prostitute. And if its acceptable in your culture, more power to you. Here in the States, she'll figure out she doesn't need you, which is probably the case any way. A middle road would be let her do "Only Fans". Either way you become a cuckold.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 10:58 PM
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I'm soon to be in a similar circumstance. In order to be promoted I had to take a position I negotiated into remote. Less travel, but an opportunity for both a promotion and a chance to further specialize. And yes, IT/GRC related. My goal is to maintain the position for 4+ years, gleening new education and certifications for my last three years of career. After which transition to a contractor status/SMB/SME. Having goals and a hard plan will keep you busy, provides for a mission. All the other …
/r/askMRP26/09/23 01:32 PM
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LoL! Crack me up. Dejavu on this... Once a fucking slut, forever a fucking slut. TO DO LIST: Get checked for STDs. DNA all kids. Lawyer time. STFU about everything! Don't mention anything! Let everything be a surprise! = OR = Ignore everything, cream the pie, enjoy the cucking! The strange taste you'll be enjoying is some other's man juice!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/23 04:27 PM
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"get a dog" - YES! This!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 12:58 AM
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HOA got this right. Its all about her feelz... She may have fucked the entire neighborhood and half your coworkers, but the last feelings she'll have? Nope, not guilt for nuking a family and a marriage. Oh how good she is and what a nice meal she made for that dickhead before he finally got out of her life. Finally. My ex did a similar "look at me" stunt at my father's funeral. Calmly asked who she's fucking lately, and does her current husband know. Yes, i laughed. Had to tell my cousin it was …
/r/askMRP11/09/23 11:22 PM
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Sounds like a surprise cuck party... don't let her tie you to a chair. LoL. According the Psychology Today, coercing your partner to participate is a violation of the rules. So, she doesn't care, its all about her. You should probably go and consider it your punishment for being weak. This could also be a "kill the puppy" tactic. "I tried to forgive him, but he wouldn't go with me or he did X." Either way, when it's done, its back to the grind. Nobody Cares. STFU. Work Harder.
/r/askMRP27/08/23 10:08 PM
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Her family. Her money. Her rules. Her frame. Her, her, her... She's in charge and she knows it. What's left to figure out?
/r/askMRP24/08/23 03:27 PM
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So, how's the Purple Pill (master) Debater forum treating your questions? And whose are they supporting? Did they lube at least?
/r/askMRP19/08/23 09:37 PM
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She starts it, you finish it. Right then. Kitchen, living room, where ever. Or she's getting revved up for Chad. Whatever... she's pushing for something that isn't boring. So give it to her. Start with a blindfold...
/r/askMRP18/08/23 01:12 AM
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Got a hobby or a non-work thing that you do? Others prolly do it too. Got other family? Cousins can be friends as well. Been thru a life trial? Survivors of an ordeal bond. Bootcamp anyone? Work Harder at it.
/r/askMRP17/08/23 11:15 AM
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If I'm cooking, you better be at the table. No call, no dinner for you. And if she's biking, I'm pitching her crap on the front lawn. A courtesy call gives me a head start.
/r/askMRP17/08/23 10:59 AM
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"And he who loveth him visits him early with correction." So... Either your "discipline" doesn't work (obviously) or you didn't start early enough. As the leader of my home, I am the disciplinarian. I am held to answer for the path of my children. If one means does not work, escalation is required. In a nutshell, my children respect my word and my authority in the home. Ever hear the phrase, the wife is the oldest teenager in the house? This is a lesson learned. But, by age 8? The path is set. G…
/r/askMRP17/08/23 10:54 AM
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"We don't spank." "We go to church 2xper week." Proverbs 13:24 Don't be a "pick and choose Christian". Its all or none. Not a Muslim, but I admire their commitment to their faith. Nothing half ass about it. What would Jesus do? Ask a moneychanger!
/r/askMRP16/08/23 11:31 PM
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Reasons to know where she is... Dinner plans, who's cooking and when? Activities. Will she be late? Should you cancel? You're in jail and need bailing out. Your/her car is a POS and you're doing a safety check. She's the neighborhood bicycle and let's everybody ride for free. You have neighborhood bicycle at your place and are getting a free ride. No interruptions please. Otherwise... Nobody Cares. STFU. Work Harder. Quit sucking her hamster's dick.
/r/askMRP16/08/23 11:24 PM
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So whatever. Got kids? Otherwise any break will be easy. Is this an attempt to justify dumping her? Because you were too pussy blind to see her as she is? And it will be better next time, why? What about you has really changed? You do you. Learn the lesson you didn't learn. Meanwhile your behavior will tip your hand and she'll figure out you're eventually bailing on the marriage. Good luck.
/r/askMRP13/08/23 01:35 AM
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AFC is Average Fucking Chump. In this case the AFC is keeping the girl entertained while dhe goes out with AFs she's going to fuck. AFC pays for everything and gets nothing. AF gets the girl, in ways AFC only dreams of and pays for Scittles and Netflix. AFC is not BetaBux (BB). He never gets the girl (sex). BB often marries the girl, has kids, yada, yada. But she's still creaming over the AF she had before. Hence Alpha Widow. Seven year itch thing happens. She gets bored and gets another AF or A…
/r/askMRP12/08/23 04:04 PM
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At the end of the day, its your fault. Your successes, your failures. All you. Assume the responsibility. Learn the lessons. Correct the mistakes. Your lessons. Your mistakes. You only Control You. And you Can do it.
/r/askMRP09/08/23 01:38 AM
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Might wanna check, but this an "amoral" site. Introspectively, accepting divorce and family abandonment, while dissing adultery is a double standard. Sounds like the current fembot pick-n-choose Christianity shoved down the throats of men lately. You're just afraid you'll get caught and shamed. A man decides something and he does it. He judges himself. But on your statement, most, if not all women, would overwhelming agree with you. Search for UltimateCAD.
/r/askMRP08/08/23 11:50 AM
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Assuming military thing is a national requirement thing, a legal obligation. In which case, it is what it is. Been there, done that. Served four years and moved on. If its a temp thing. Learn the lessons and move on. If its a career thing, discipline youself and be the best soldier you can be. Its not for everyone, so be sure. But, its cutting into you social life? Wah. Its better than prison. Advice? Nobody cares. STFU. Work harder. Eventually you'll get to where you need to be.
/r/askMRP08/08/23 11:28 AM
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"Easy going" and willing to have sex with you... Lotta new guys here would settle for this. So there's something else. Resentment is mentioned. Or maybe you're doing better for youself and feel you settled in choosing her. Or pick a thing. Doesn't matter. YOU need to figure it out and make the big boy decision, fix it and/or bail. Fail to figure this out and you will repeat this, over and over. Plus this is a marriage and you both have kids. Ask what "feels" means. Most here will attribute it to…
/r/askMRP31/07/23 03:18 PM
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It can happen... Do you like her?
/r/askMRP31/07/23 11:15 AM
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The things you need to do are applicable to your life whether or not the marriage survives. Hence the term, The Stay Plan is the Go Plan. You building you. Physically, mentally, financially. Its necessary now, with her. Its necessary later, if its another her. So it's advised you STFU. Shes not listening to whining and, to quote: "your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for feeling them." And especially for talking about them. Mentally let go of all the things you can't control. Move metal…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/23 09:25 PM
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So the house arrest is over now? Whats happening?
/r/askMRP29/07/23 03:02 AM
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11 days later... You wet or dry?
/r/askMRP29/07/23 02:46 AM
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Blah, blah, $500 ticket... So who ARE you taking? Looks like an opportunity to me.
/r/askMRP29/07/23 02:41 AM
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yawn *
/r/askMRP29/07/23 02:38 AM
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Yes - "3 way".
/r/askMRP27/07/23 11:20 AM
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This... "A simple explanation".
/r/askMRP27/07/23 11:11 AM
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Been there, plus drugs. Totally screwed the pooch. Lost a career. Lost a wife. Lost my kid. And totally turned it around. Get help. You're too weak to handle this alone. And not your wife. You already lost her respect. And yes. If she hasn't already, she'll be fucking someone she does respect, if YOU DONT UNFUCK YOURSELF. Ask me why you need help. Weakness. Because you're here WHINING about your problem and not DOING something about it. Its hard. And it never goes away. You gotta be harder. You …
/r/askMRP18/07/23 04:03 PM
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It allows us insight to you mental point of reference. Culture affects things; decisions, circumstances. It provides the basis for a better solution. Give a background or live with your circumstances. Keep in mind, YOU are here asking for help. Cooperate or don't. It will affect the quality and usefulness of the advice profered.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 01:48 PM
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No. Never LET anyone win. Tell them to practice, get better or quit.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 04:16 AM
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Never buy a house with a woman you're not married to, unless you have a contract. Treat it like an investment and document it as such.
/r/askMRP04/07/23 03:42 PM
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So how do you intend eat this elephant? Hint. One bite at a time... the most important parts first.
/r/askMRP04/07/23 12:46 AM
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Locus of control is assuming responsibility for results. You lift, you bulk. You slack, you blubber out. Blaming the girl or the MIL for your problems is not the way. Doing so tells others your weakness. You blame others for results of your failure. Hence the term, own your shit. Do you give others credit for any of your successes? Did you do the work or not? Its a mark of maturity and a basis of frame. Sepean is right. You lack it. Rian Stone is the full name.
/r/askMRP03/07/23 10:07 PM
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True. But Chad's, tho alpha, are typically lacking this element, and lack successes in other areas of their lives. But with any amount of self control, he can exceed his current "level of success". With those we point to sidebar & weights, the lack of self control gains him nothing. Discipline and perseverance demand it. However. Locus of control is assuming the responsibility for events based on our interaction, instead of blaming everyone for them. Which you were correct, his failures are due …
/r/askMRP03/07/23 09:56 PM
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I thought the same, but it shows a lack of discipline, no self control. Without it - no alpha, nothing. Shows no "locus of control". Rian had a tube on this. He needs to take control by accepting responsibility for his actions and their results.
/r/askMRP03/07/23 12:25 PM
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You're a 2 time felon, on house arrest for an accident that killed someone, though innocent, and headed for a second divorce. A clinical doctorate? Not a practicing medical professional? There's a thread here that ties this, and the last divorce, all together. If its substance abuse, you know where ya gotta start. Otherwise that's the path your 12 year old will follow, and very soon. The onus is still your's. This invisible white elephant in the room, you have to address it. Otherwise your issue…
/r/askMRP03/07/23 12:17 PM
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Dude, you seeing patterns here? Maybe the third time around... right? Do you work? Got an education or trade skill? Seriously, why should she want to stay? Another DUI? Or is this a second/third offense? House arrest, right? Explain what makes you a prize? Meanwhile, what's you plan to actually become "The Prize", for some future event? The Stay Plan is the Go Plan. Only you can make you better. Don't worry about divorce, she's got this for you. It's done, you're just now finding out. Get ready.…
/r/askMRP02/07/23 08:14 PM
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I think you got lost in the subs... MRP is Married Red Pill, not Pervy Dudes, not Daddy Advisors, not Clergy Guys. ... or its a fembot troll. Go do what you intend to do. Or ask Baby Girl's daddy. Or your mom. Not my circus, not my monkey.
/r/askMRP23/06/23 02:08 PM
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My favorite, "phone got muted somehow and I slept through my alarm... Must have missed the call too." You know a battle plan is good until the first shot fired. So adapt, improvise, and overcome. If she is, she is. If she's not, she's not. The Stay Plan is the Go Plan. Work on things that improve you, regardless of her state.
/r/askMRP21/06/23 03:30 PM
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Not married. + No kids. + Shes gone. Personal win. Pack her crap, send it home. Another win. Clean house. Making lottsa money. Another win. Save a bunch for a rainy day. Not seeing the current state as bad. Don't make the same mistakes again. Move metal, get tired, rinse repeat. Goto work, make money, rinse repeat. Get a hobby, that you like, pursue. Don't go for crazy women. How to eat an entire elephant? One bite at a time. Winner, winner. Elephant dinner!
/r/askMRP08/06/23 03:55 AM
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Tao shows there is a balance to nature. A yin for every yang. Not, feminist fucking say so.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/23 02:04 AM
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"Stone cold proof"... uh,... no you don't. If you catch her fucking or pulling a train, you may be on a quick trip to prison. Unless you're a cuck, the urge to rage-kill is often overwhelming. Hire a PI, but realize it's not necessary. Her reaction to you is all the proof you need. Take the no fault. Save youself the grief.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/23 04:00 AM
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The "no intent to file from the opposing party" is part of a branch swing tactic. If it falls thru, "the opposing party" trys to play it off as a "mistake" and ask for forgiveness. Nothing changes, they are still looking. Like an urban op. Clear the room before proceeding.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 12:09 PM
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Tldr, wasn't 4 u.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 11:44 AM
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Aggregate intel. Starts with a single data point.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/23 03:38 PM
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OPSEC.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/23 02:39 AM
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"Its all strategy now", roger that. Leverage as best you can. BUT, don't forget, stupid does not recognize age or rank. G'luck on the legal.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/23 01:57 PM
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Go to your base legal office and see if the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act applies in your case, i.e. state residency requirements for divorce. Also if deploying, remember the SCRA can give you some relief from legal action and fines while out of country. Also go see the first shirt. He'll have helped others down this path. It sucks. Been there, done that. Keep cool and don't be doing stupid art.15 shit. No worse than a sucking chest wound. You'll survive. Embrace the suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 01:01 PM
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Oh, how was the movie? Nvrmnd, don't care.
/r/askMRP22/04/23 11:02 PM
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At the end of the day, you are the only person on the planet you can control. You are also the only person that unselfishly cares how life works out for you. Except, maybe your mom. Sorta. "The Stay Plan is the Go Plan." This means You work on You. Whether you stay or go shouldn't change what you do. Similar to the "Your Wife Is Dead" plan. Do what you would do if she died. Nobody Cares. STFU. Work Harder.
/r/askMRP22/04/23 11:01 PM
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You need to make changes in your life. Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow ain't here yet. You only have today. What will you do today to make yourself better? It starts now with a personal conviction to be better. In the meanwhile you get the standard advice... Nobody Cares. STFU. Work Harder. Are you there yet? Nope? See previous line. Rinse. Repeat. Forever...
/r/askMRP22/04/23 09:42 PM
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16 days later... (in a Sponge Bob Frenchy voice). Give an update please. Keep in mind, more than a few of us have been/are in a similar state. So the advice is real. Meanwhile, what can you do to benefit yourself? Regardless of the outcome, how can you better yourself for either the "she's gone or stayed" scenario? Eat better. Get more sleep. Exercise (move metal). Be prepared (lawyer, save cash). Remember - your kids need their dad. This is called "the stay plan is the same as the go plan".
/r/askMRP02/04/23 01:15 PM
2

It means you're supporting somebody else's woman. Mighty nice of you. Now whatcha gonna do?
/r/askMRP21/03/23 08:52 PM
1

I quit saying I'm sorry. Strictly this: "I apologize", or "My apologies". It works.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 11:19 PM
2

OMFG! You have received the gift so many beg for! You don't have to PRETEND she's dead. She's gone! After she leaves... have the D papers sent to her temp home... and then... Get a job somewhere else, another state, ANOTHER COUNTRY! FUCKING MOVE! CHANGE YOUR NAME! Let her come "home" to a owner! START OVER! God has blessed you my son! The go plan is... RIGHT THE FUCK NOW!
/r/askMRP21/02/23 08:06 AM
3

This > "If you want it clean, do it." The ole, "what would you do if she was dead" approach. STFU. Work harder.
/r/askMRP25/01/23 05:07 PM
1

Yes to Excel! Nothing wets a woman like a pie chart or bar graph! Be sure to use magenta and fuchsia! Guaranteed color to drench those panties! Disclaimer: this is sarcasm. OP is dense. You can't change her. You can only change you. Say this 20 times every day.. Everything else is a waste of time. You gotta do the work. If fixing YOU doesn't work for her, you'll be ready for other women. Nobody cares. STFU. Work harder.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 12:40 PM
5

Nobody cares. STFU. Work harder. You'll get there.
/r/askMRP16/01/23 09:25 PM
2

Nothing to thank me for. You knew all this. Already. You were/are hoping for the Magick cheat code. Ain't none. YOU can't change her. YOU CAN change you. Waiting to see your OYS#1. Its a commitment to the new you.
/r/askMRP01/01/23 03:36 PM
2

So this "kid", child, will grow in this scenario. If it's your son, he'll learn to accept what his father accepts. A daughter will learn to do as mom does. Think beyond the "now" for the child's sake, or it just continues. As for the dad condoning drinking, find out, be concerned. This may be a continuation of her family environment. Either way, with a child on site, this needs to be unfucked now. If her mom is alive, get her to help. Or your parents. Worse case, document events and be prepared …
/r/askMRP21/12/22 05:32 PM
2

Arranged marriage... India? Pakistan? No matter... The French and Italians had similar scenarios. Where there is a void of love, there's a void to fill. Get you a girlfriend.Just be respectful and discrete and... Be aware of tit-for-tat, so be proactive. Get her a boy toy. Hire a pool boy or yard man. At least she won't be as wenchy, just fulfilled. Is she employed? Who cares. Hire a housekeeper to do the childcare and meals. If she complains... who cares. You need to be working on your job and …
/r/askMRP21/12/22 05:18 PM
2

Married? Live in? Common law state? Kids? More info. Relevant to level of commitment. Did her dad condone her drinking? Cause he's the current crutch to get drunk. Maybe run a guilt trip... Can you pick her up? Cart her drunk ass to bed. Watch her head going thru doorways. Strip'er down, tuck her in, and in the morning tell her thanks for last night. Watch the confusion in her face. Caution on this. This is a job for AA. But, at least she's drunk at home, she's not drunk at Chad's. (He can carry…
/r/askMRP21/12/22 04:55 PM
1

Yeah, I read it before you deleted it. And your other posts. Deadbedrooms, yada yada. So what do you really want? Be carefull, you'll get some things that are less than pretty. Its an ugly world and this is an ugly place. Truth is ugly. And the lessons here are harsh. But... you'll find somethings that may make life a bit more livable.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/22 02:57 PM
3

My advice to my son: "Life sucks and then you die. But they never tell you how bad it sucks. Or how long it takes to die." Nobody Cares. Stfu. Work Harder. Do it for you. Do it for the kids. Fuck her (literally, caveman). Get a lawyer. Get a STD test. Get a blood test on the kids. Yes, you're gonna fuck this up. Hurry up and get it over with. Take notes (journal). Don't do this again. Good luck, God speed.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 02:21 PM
10

Bad news first - You can't control anyone except yourself. Especially not her. And definitely not sex with her. Counseling is a jerkoff. Write this down. Good news - You CAN control yourself. Write this down. (You gotta journal right? But do you write in it?) By logic, no one can control you either. ONLY YOU. Starfish sex? Caveman it. Get yours, say thanx, go shower. Counseling? Costs money that could towards a motorcycle or a boat. Pick a thing. (Got guy hobbies?) Shes dead to you sexually, soc…
/r/askMRP15/12/22 01:40 PM
2

Crap, the first fridge is old n ugly...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/22 01:24 AM
3

Hmmm... what if I slip next door and get food from the other guys fridges in neighborhood. Before they get home... Hmmm... food... yum.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/22 01:13 AM
3

"The Stay Plan is the Go Plan." This is a real thing. What can you do, right now, that will have a positive outcome, FOR YOU, regardless as to the outcome of this woman issue? Be prepared for all outcomes, but mostly for the worst case scenario. And good luck. It won't be fun.
/r/askMRP03/12/22 04:46 PM
2

"an emotional affair starts when Chad is about three thrusts in" OMG! Hilarious! And too accurate! By the time you finally notice the "emotional affair", oh yeah! Chad's thrusting...
/r/askMRP03/12/22 04:36 PM
1

Just to make it easier for you to understand... https://youtu.be/6OHTvBhwHdo Code... she's looking to get boned with your permission. WHILE ON A BREAK! Now its on you. Set a boundary or wait for her boyfriend to dump her and you take her back till the next boyfriend... Either way, she's getting boned somewhere else. The Stay Plan is the Go Plan. Its all you now.
/r/askMRP25/11/22 04:48 AM
2

Please feel free to grow one fembot douche troll.
/r/askMRP06/11/22 08:22 PM
3

Moralizing... isn't there a rule here about this?
/r/askMRP05/11/22 10:45 PM
8

Been there, didn't do that... On a personal, post event diagnosis of my "then condition", my prescription would have been a boot in the ass. But way pre-red pill to say the least. It wasn't her first during our marriage and I knew. And even worse. Confession. I was a blue balled beta bitch dumbass. Lost a job, and kids. Yay fun. I had to give away a gun to reduce the risk. To me. And them. I cut grass that summer in Arkansas. Sweat my ass off. Physical fatigue is your friend. Now, moving metal i…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 04:59 AM
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Mine was at just over 7 years. She gave the ole "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" speech and filed for divorce. Left before the ink was a day old. Advice? Get ready for hell on wheels! She's been gone longer than you think. She's been planning longer than you think. She's been fucking longer than you think. Get the best divorce lawyer you can afford. BUT! If she suddenly "changes" and wants to make it all better, FUCKING BEWARE! Her boy dumped her! The branch swing failed. Take her back…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 05:21 AM
3

Realistic confidence.
/r/askMRP26/09/22 01:14 AM
2

The stay plan is the go plan. This means, things you can do for yourself, can be done whether you stay or leave. You first have to realize you can only do for you. Not her. Not the relationship. Only you. And thats the "trick". Its all about you. You're the only thing you can change. Others suggestions are good, but wrong order. STFU. It doesn't matter what you say to her anyway. Blah, blah, blah. LIFT. Do, don't say. READ. Do it somewhere else. "Where are you going?" You say, "out". And go read…
/r/askMRP24/09/22 01:36 AM
1

Here's a quote: "Life sucks, and then you die". But they never tell you how bad it will suck, or how long it will take to die. And yes, its not fair. The fair typically comes in September. Get a second opinion, and live your life to the best of your ability.
/r/askMRP18/09/22 10:43 AM
5

MRP = MARRIED Red Pill... M. A. R. R. I. E. D. If you ain't, then don't. Course complete.
/r/askMRP05/09/22 03:51 AM
1

Its simple - own it, say you're sorry, then shut up. Unless you're not, then don't. Just don't make a habit of being sorry. Then do the thing: shutup, lift and start reading. And YES, you will fuckup again. Just shut up, get back on and ride it out. The only thing YOU control is YOU. So do it.
/r/askMRP28/08/22 04:18 PM
1

Option 3 REALLY is a good idea. T levels affect everything and when too low even contribute to depression.
/r/askMRP28/08/22 03:33 PM
5

Statisticaly speaking, 3 months of the experiment would have given you a better trend line, as to the success of your experiment. Then you opened your mouth and had a tantrum. How Manly! Answer #1. Just shut up, pretend it never happened and find something else to do, somewhere else. Answer #2. Just shut up, pretend it never happened and find something else to do, somewhere else. Do the things you would do if she died. You things. Things with kids. Don't ask, DO. Keep in mind, one month of "psue…
/r/askMRP27/08/22 08:30 PM
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Is this the husband or the wife? Pronoun switching - ON! She's into big cocks and plump balls. Takes meds to get thru sexy times. When out n about, she sees all the cocks on the carousel She's missing out on. And her husband is totally clueless as to whats happening or coming down the road. Hmmm... what would a woman do?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/22 03:50 PM
11

This... literally, why the fuck? "Why the fuck would you stick around in a dead or dying bedroom if the door is wide open for you? There are guys here with kids, houses, decades of intermingled finances, potential alimony.... they have reasons to try to figure shit out. You can just leave if you're not getting laid how you want."
/r/askMRP27/08/22 01:21 PM
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Somewhere in the MRP sphere is a statement... "No matter what you do, after being denied sex, she will know you're butthurt." You lay there and jerk it. Her - he's butthurt. You get up and go lift. Her - he's butthurt. You lay there quietly, not moving. Her - he's butthurt. So do what You want, however You want. Own it. Don't make excuses (DEER) to us. Next time, get on top of her, moan alot, get animated and put it on her. When she complains, tell her, "yeah, yeah baby, just a second, Oh Yeah!"…
/r/askMRP27/08/22 01:16 PM
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Complex sentence... Saw "goes limp", then "she just lays there". Seriously though, did you tell her what to do? "I'm going to rub your butthole (to borrow a phrase) and you better squirm like you want it more..." This is Your thing, Run It!
/r/askMRP26/08/22 04:28 PM
1

Hell ya !!! Hmmm... searching tantra classes locally...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 01:24 PM
1

Either she is or she ain't. Now what? You can't control her BUT You can control You. You do You. Got crap going thru your head? You're either not tired enough or have too much spare time. Get busy. Take the kids for a hike. Get out of the house. Give her all the rope she needs. Do something. MAP much? What would you do if she was dead? Do that, starting now.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 01:22 PM
3

Women at work. Just say no. You need your job. Booze. Can't get drunk if you stay out of bars and liquor stores. The two combined will kill your marriage and your career. Be careful.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 01:07 PM
3

Confess sin only to God, because He alone will forgive you and make you pure. 1 John 1:19. She won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 12:47 PM
1

"The Stay Plan is the Go Plan." There are things you do, whether you Stay or Go. All the basics apply, either way. The nice thing about this, no decisions are required. You do the things you need for you. STFU. Lift. Read. Rinse. Repeat.
/r/askMRP25/08/22 12:28 PM
1

One word. WORK. You are a slacker. You lack discipline, motivation or desire. Unless you get past this, the rest of the MRP is too much WORK for you. You gotta want it for you. And YOU are the only thing you can control. Is the sun still up? Go cut another yard, Monday thru Saturday. Done teaching a class? Get another one. Done with a client? Teach two or more in a group. Meanwhile, you need a plan. Expand what you're doing now or do something else. Alpha fucks, Beta bucks. Right now, you're nei…
/r/askMRP25/08/22 03:44 AM
2

Divorce sucks, been there. Glad you got a better deal. Don't forget to keep working on you. Otherwise you may get a repeat performance and the suck starts again. Good luck.
/r/askMRP19/08/22 10:41 PM
2

Any followup? Its been a month...
/r/askMRP19/08/22 02:36 PM
2

I travel. Best approach is visual first, dress nice. Quality. Starting with shoes and accessories. Then hygeine. As mentioned, not too flashy or you'll get rolled. Not too arrogantly. "Stupid foreigners f'ing our women!" Again rolled, maybe worse. Basically all the DoD stuff. Just don't be an asshat.
/r/askMRP19/08/22 02:33 PM
3

Can "IT" be saved? Meh. Dunno. But you can save yourself. Nobody cares. STFU. Work harder. There's even a T-Shirt! Google it.
/r/askMRP18/08/22 01:43 AM
1

Still retarded here, but do you have kids by chance? https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/whzq4i/financially_preparing_to_separatedivorce/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/askMRP07/08/22 12:38 AM
3

Yes, I confess, very retarded. I "believed" you wanted insight. You got this!
/r/askMRP06/08/22 11:44 PM
1

3 months later... 5 total extractions, new bridge and a partial. Not all OEM issue; but eating is easier, public speaking is not embarrassing, and breath is no longer foul. Declaring success on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/22 04:19 PM
3

Mmm... not so much. Chad fucks and more often than not, is unemployed or an addict of some kind. Did I mention Chad fucks?
/r/askMRP06/08/22 03:04 PM
2

And whatever you got, apparently is not enough for her. Per your statement. So fix it. MAP is your friend, ally. You figure it now or deal with it in the next relationship.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 03:02 PM
5

Not a favor. A chore. Like swabbing shit out a toilet, its gotta be done. Not enjoyed.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 02:58 PM
2

7. Get tested for STDs. 8. Get a paternity test. The stay plan is the go plan. Don't just glance at this shit and nod your head. You're not about to get fucked, you are fucked. Get with the plan.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 02:42 PM
1

Whats the first rule of Fight Club?
/r/askMRP03/08/22 05:17 PM
2

My apologies, the questions were meant to be rhetorical, for you to consider, for yourself. This was already known to you... it was a statement of reinforcement. I said "shut the fuck up", which you didnt. Something about Frank. Maybe the guy with the semen jar, sharing with your wife. Cool. And I said "find something to do". So what did you do? If you live in Oklahoma, I have some shit work in the heat. Pm me. Otherwise, nobody cares, we all have shit, work harder. Your go plan is the same as y…
/r/askMRP02/08/22 08:27 PM
1

I read both postings. Sad. Apparently she's helping him fill his post vasectomy sample jar. Nice. But does saliva jack up the sample? The Go Plan is the Stay Plan. The ONLY thing you control is you. So stfu and go do something.
/r/askMRP02/08/22 03:40 PM
1

Yep, troll. Either a blue haired fembot or a douchey white knighter. Meh. Have fun with it.
/r/askMRP02/08/22 01:31 PM
3

Omg! "Retirement home for old pussy". Hilarious! Does she cook and clean well? Does she care for the kid? Just doesn't have sex. With you. So let her take care of the house and the kid. Stfu and find something else to do.
/r/askMRP02/08/22 01:29 PM
3

John Boyd, the OODA Loop guy: “Do you want to be someone, or do you want to do something?” Always pick DO.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/22 08:30 PM
3

Name the boat after the girl that gave you the best blow job ever... When asked who it is, slowly look to sky, smirky smile, think about that blow job, and shake your head. Then STFU and go do something.
/r/askMRP31/07/22 05:13 PM
1

Qualifier: 7 daughters. 1 - Late 30s, raised by my ex. Cheated w/a married guy, that she then married, then cucked and kept the kid. 2 - Early 30s, raised by me, in church, semi rural. Married a lib weak manlet. 3 - Early 30s, raised same as 2. Married a redneck boy, good worker, not my choice, but he's good. 4 - 18, headed to college this fall. Has a mini chad boyfriend. Butts heads with her dad a lot lately. 5,6 - middle/high school. Under my influence. No slides, simple guidance for my kids. …
/r/askMRP31/07/22 05:07 PM
2

Question. How related is the timeline of "had been overweight", only recently been open to "toys and clothes" in sex and the NSFW thing? This will give you an idea of how far back to look... Ignore what she says, watch what she does.
/r/askMRP13/07/22 04:28 AM
10

THIS ---> "She has to care..." Anugget of gold. Thanks Bobby!
/r/askMRP13/07/22 02:02 AM
1

I'm not ignoring. Its a semi long story. I'll post a field report this weekend. And thanks for asking.
/r/askMRP30/06/22 07:02 AM
1

Yes. Lack of energy towards the end of the day. Worse after meals.
/r/askMRP26/06/22 08:11 PM
2

Aw... my Batman origin story. I might post this later sometime. I'm 66 now. Started it around 60. I was suffering from old guy syndrome. No energy. Wants to nap. Results - nagging wife. She makes the appointment and life changed. Not entirely to her liking. Meh. I'm loving it. So... just do it and find something else to fixate on.
/r/askMRP26/06/22 02:44 PM
1

My job requires travel. I always make sure the hotel has weights. Old guy here, I do a dumbells routine. Hernia thing. Low weight, high reps. Otherwise, most places I go to have a full gym, though often crowded and not open 24/7. Hotel makes it easier to stay on track.
/r/askMRP26/06/22 02:36 PM
2

Hypothyroidism, I have it. Get a blood screen. The doctor will/should prescribe synthroid, a tablet taken first thing in the morning, 30 minutes before eating. Easy peasy, nice and easy. End result, better energy levels.
/r/askMRP26/06/22 02:25 PM
4

Shop for a "Man sympathetic" doctor. Mine lifts. Looks like a bulked Mr. Clean. He understands how the medical community has watered down the current T level "normals". And don't fall for the creams/foams. Topical application won't work correctly. Take the jab and work it. Still taking T at 66 and have never regretted it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/22 04:05 PM
3

Apologies, I can only like once... This --> "The stay is also the go plan."
/r/askMRP08/06/22 01:06 AM
1

Concur. It is what you make of it. Travel has advantages. The food and drink choices are awesome, as well cultural aspects. My smattering of languages is ok. I confess i should practice more. As to the niceties of phone and car, some times not available. Its a weird job and has its downsides. It is what it is. I'm in it because I enjoy the work. And, yes, has its share of bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/22 03:47 AM
2

My worst category. Job takes me outa town, randomly, for days up to months. Hard to keep on scheduled event track. Add age factor, I don't want to hang with a bunch of fatass geriatrics. No peers. Is what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/22 03:40 PM
6

Would your brother's name be Chad, by chance?
/r/askMRP27/05/22 07:34 PM
2

LoL. So similar here. My wife is out of town with oldest daughter, doing nursing study event for PA prep, three days this week. I have 4 teens and I schedule the day. Time blocks for meals, chores and activities. I use lists. One is a running grocery list for a store run on Saturday. I swap out the kids as kitchen helpers, so they can learn to cook. There is cleaning. They can sign up for tasks, on the list. What ever is left gets assigned. And if not done correctly, try again. It sets standards…
/r/askMRP27/05/22 07:29 PM
1

Immediate response: Big hug, a kiss on the forehead, pat on the shoulder, "It'll be okay". Then walk...
/r/askMRP27/05/22 07:19 PM
1

Immediate response: Big hug, a kiss on the forehead, pat on the shoulder, "It'll be okay". Then walk...
/r/askMRP27/05/22 07:18 PM
2

LoL! Maybe ask Chad. He knows...
/r/askMRP27/05/22 04:29 PM
1

120k is a medium size in the bigger picture. Definitely not an industry standard for the thing I do. And its a salary cap thing. At 66yo I'm near the tech end and am expected to retire or go into management. F that. More important is the function of the job. Do you like what you do? Can you be better, maybe forecast some trends to be ahead of the curve. "I fail to see..." As in alluding to job satisfaction versus chasing salary bumps. Being competent in what you do versus stretching the resume f…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/22 04:20 PM
1

Apologies in advance (dngaf truly), but I don't have a "my dick is bigger" story... I make just north of $120k in salary. Steady work, relatively protected job. Normal advancement is possible (w/an appropriate level of ass kissing), but not worth the squeeze. I'm at a technical pinnacle for my sector. And I enjoy the job. Its not boring, lots of variety. End result, justifiable recognition, rewards, etc. How to? It applies to just about anything. Be reliable, be proficient, be aware of and/or an…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 02:49 AM
3

Last paragraph. "Cool", and walk. Places to go, things to do and people to see!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 02:00 AM
1

Just getting back home, so kinda behind. I've taken the Dave Ramsey approach of paying off debt. Nothing but a mortgage. It kills the credit score, but I can negotiate deals when I put cash up front. Can't beat no debt. Then inflation... now stagflation... soon recession. Other than the matching, lots of the retirement funds are taking major hits. Inputs? TIPS? REIT?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 01:56 AM
1

Started small a couple years back. Job requires travel, which means laundry. Pitched out all the white undies. Went with Brazilian trunks by Papi, black. Talk about conversation starter with the wife. Now working on the wardrobe exterior as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/22 04:25 AM
2

Yesterday - two extractions. Ouch. But I've started.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/22 12:50 PM
2

Dentist time for me. Appt this Thursday. Hate dentists, hate my smile more. Chips, etc. A couple of bad ones in the back. Geez. So my goal on this is a nice smile, and less issues. Hygiene otherwise? Showers, check. Shave and trim, check. Matching scents cologne and lotion, check, and swap every so often. Seeing dermatologist about skin, old guy thing. Gotta wear cap in the sun. Hands, always trimmed nails, and I wear gloves working out side nowadays. Less cuts and calluses. Feet, same. Wear sho…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/22 10:04 PM
2

This -> Set your life up for "the go plan"... just do it! Absolutely.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/22 12:20 AM
1

Blarg. Awesome stuff! Any comments on protein bars or mixes? I do the bars, but have to balance the carbs and fats. Or other vitamins or supplements? I stack Dim, DHEA, L-arginine, L-Theanine, and vitamins (D, magnesium. B-100, potassium, zinc. As for me, my kryptonite is sherbert. Especially in the summer. And hate running, but do a hiit type mile, varying walk, jog, sprint for set durations/steps. Rinse repeat. 2 x per week. 65yo, 200-210 lbs steady, hi rep-lo wt dumbell routine.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/22 12:07 AM
1

I'm late. Just got back from a job assignment. Headed back in 3-4 weeks. Best thing, employer gives paid workout time and has weights available. Still stuck with dumbells routine. Hernia x3 issue. Been at it for last five years, sans operations down time. 66yo in a month, 5' 10.5", 200-210lbs. Bald, beard, reading glasses, old. Still on TRT, thyroid, vitamin stack, protein, ADD meds, yada. Married, kids, yada. 1. The stay is the go plan. Its my mantra. 2. I am maintaining my weight, strength. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 12:14 PM
2

Your third to last paragraph is a start. "The Stay Plan is the Go Plan." Accept it. BUT - Don't "want to", DO!
/r/askMRP23/03/22 08:15 AM
4

Its respectful, and he should appreciate it. Concur with above, its for his blessing, not his permission. And he should appreciate the difference. Try a neutral location, something he like. say for coffee. And he's your guest, so your treat. Keep it brief. Good luck with the marriage.
/r/askMRP20/03/22 11:29 AM
2

Mentally I placed emphasis on the wrong word. As in, She just "loves" you. Which was confusing... Not, She "just" loves you. The gut punch was realizing, at the same instant, I'm in the same boat. And the bigger irony being it occurring at a time when I thought I was on track with my RP journey. And per your previous advise, should start the OYS process. Crazy when you discover more as you go along. Thanks btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/20 05:32 PM
1

Damn Johney. I didn't get it till like 3 hours later. It was gut punch. Your not the "only" one here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/20 12:22 PM
15

Check for the possibility of an annulment.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 04:21 AM
1

Thank you for this. 64 here too. And a late red piller as well. It's a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 02:58 PM
5

I'm typically an observer, but you've been granted an opportunity many men dream about. A "do-over". So consider this... Put everything in storage. Change the locks and lease out the house through a management company. Get a studio apartment in the bar/college/party district. Never give out the address. Forward all mail to a PO box. Do the thing. Disclaimor: Subject to local law, your mileage will vary, consult your lawyer, yada, etc. And don't forget to mention you understand "the need for spac…
/r/askMRP10/10/19 03:16 AM
2

Two weeks ago, there was a "Tactical Pause" declared in one of the armed forces. The intent was to bring suicide to the forefront of the service's mindset. It was a failure. Some units had a group event, a luncheon, some trivial social event. As my unit presenter, I chose a different path. I did the research. https://www.dspo.mil shows 98% of the Air Force suicides were men. 2% female. Not due to PTSD. Not in the field. Not with service weapons. At home stations. 70+% were due to "relationships"…
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:36 AM
1

Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 10:22 PM
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The diagnosis was diverticulitis. A small pouch on the small intestine that ruptured. At the time, I thought gas pain. Meanwhile intestine contents were spilling into the body, and if it had taken longer, death by sepsis. Being an emergency surgery, less on the neat and tidy. Same surgeon repaired the first incisional hernia. A different surgeon did the last repair with mesh. Approx 2 1/2 years overall. I lift hay bales and feed sacks all time, less than 125lbs, with no issue. Just use the knees…
/r/askMRP21/07/19 12:46 AM
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