nikolala Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating. OMG. Not literally comprating Somalia to USA for god sake. How old are you? 15?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 06:02 AM
2	Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating. I never mention western countries, I pointed finger directly at America as USA. And dating i America is ruined cause they are super materialistic society. They will sold their the most loving ones for bag of money. Most of them. And now when they are in crisis and situation is not bright as before it starts to turning on relationships. Can you notice that no matter which side talk about dating in America, no matter if is a red, blue, black, purple, yellow, orange, green, rainbow... or whatever p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 04:01 AM
2	Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating. America is today one huge shithole. And Americans are the most dumbest people who live on this planet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 03:39 AM
1	Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health struggles Well depends. That is when you enter in healthy relationship. But since young generations are bunch of stupid dumbass people and doesn't know how to live healthy those times are long gone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 02:59 PM
1	Q4A: How is the Gen Z social and dating experience? Excelent, especially in America. This age is also called golden age of dating and long lasting marriages too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/24 11:06 PM
1	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? Source: Forbes 2024. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/common-states-for-divorce/ What number is this? https://prnt.sc/zpbsPeaLFQHw Anyway you wanna prove me that in US men-women relationships aren't that bad. No matter what you say, no matter what study you will bring you can't prove me something that I'm already aware. But personally it's fine for me, you can think whatever you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 08:22 PM
1	Men and women are just sex objects to one another That is how social media want to present reality. There are tons of both women and men who value themselves and still have some dignity and self respect. But of course in environment where OF girls and promiscuous alcoholic addicted college people are presented as some norm of society it's looking like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 01:17 PM
5	Rejection is far better than manipulation Hookups and one night stands are just wasting of time. If you got rejected you shouldn't accept friendzone as well. There is nothing wrong being rejected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 09:26 AM
–	Saying "No" in 2024 = Misogyny/Misandry? I think that there are some problems in society nowdays for sure, but that is not in that measure like social medias want to present. The reason why is this so present in social medias is obvious. People like to see drama, especially this new generations. But also I do think there are tons of normal, down to earth and resonable people. And normal people should focus on people from their environment rather then social medias. Of course all of those who make various of videos on social medias with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 09:20 AM
-2	CMV: women are more emotionally perceptive than males Women are indeed more emotionally attached, it's not secret. But I am not sure how Tik Tok/IG or even Youtube clips should take as serious representation of some reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 09:10 AM
–	Women who are thirty plus have a good amount of fertility left and if no man wants to start a family with them, they should have kids by themselves There are dozens of takes I don't agree with red pill, this is one of them. Women in their 30s can be super hot and desirable. The problem here could be if those women look at those who wants them as desirable men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 02:30 AM
2	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? No, it's not a result of a study. The result of a study however is that divorce rate in US is 50%. What a bright present and future for such happy countrie. Can't wait to see what content they have to offer us in the near future. I can bet it's gonna be exciting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 02:20 AM
1	Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women Sorry I deleted my previous comment xD You shouldn't show your empathy to anyone. It's not good and not worthy. PS: if you are not American then nothing of this doesn't count for you. xD I believe this sub is mostly visited by Americans, cause these topics mostly are connected with their state of relationships, dating, marriages so I automatically assume people who writes here are Americans. But I am aware that could be wrong. Just for me personally it is more fun to act like that lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 02:12 AM
1	Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women Wow well that is interesting. Any stats for cat food? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 01:59 AM
1	Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women Then go for it girl, live your free and without the stress life! lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 01:58 AM
–	Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women Cat food is too, just sayin'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 01:47 AM
2	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? Well in America they usually say it's 80%, I just been generous. It's about both money and attraction. Attraction when you are younger, money when you want to start family. Nevermind both are superficial traits for happines.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 01:46 AM
3	Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women I think that women should be more worried about future price increases for various antidepressants, wine and cat food then for men wall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 11:19 PM
2	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? Cool, so you and me have the same view on what gold digger is, I am glad. That is in theory but practice doesn't show that. FIrst of all it's not easy to make money what the most women require from men. Less then 20% of men in US got $100k/year. That is super low percentege for what at least 70% of women thinks that less then that would be "settling" for something they feel they don't desrve. And that part about settling for someone is also very interesting in American culture. When you say that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 11:15 PM
2	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? How many women do you think choose their partner solely basing their decision on money? In America? A lot. But as I said it's not only the money of course. But the money is deciding factor. Maybe you and I have different look at what gold digger is? For me gold digger doesn't necessarily have to be girl who will require celebrity life style with mansion, 5 cars, jewelry, expensive designers and travel every month. Every women who decide to go for someone and prioritize finance over some more imp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 09:09 PM
1	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? They could be, yes. You know why? It's because you prioritize money over everything. To have a successful relationship or marriage your partner needs to be kind, caring (but not just financial), he need to listen to his woman, to help her with children, to be supportive in every way, to make her better person, to inspire her etc. And tons of women ignore that because of money. The problem is you can't live forever with that kind of men. You can tolerate bad behaviour for some period, yes, but wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:47 PM
-4	Men and women CANT be just friends (rare) Depends in which circumstances they met, but mostly they can't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:33 PM
2	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? I would say they are for hookup or cheating. "The grass is greener" menatality. This also could be taken for richer guys too, but attractive as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:32 PM
0	CMV women care about a man's money a lot and more than vice versa I am not thinking about that. Everyone in the world knows that Americans or western Europeans from some countries have money more then the rest.. so those women probably look at them as ATM's. I am thinking about local experience. Also I am not talking that money isn't important at all. Of course it is important. But levels of unrealistic standards from women are not at such high like in America. No one in the world would date a broke, that is common sense. But being realistic and down to earth …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:26 PM
2	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? lol ok if you say so	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:19 PM
-1	CMV women care about a man's money a lot and more than vice versa If anything America and Canada would be among the least countries that it matters Hahahahahaha you need to be crazy to believe in such nonsense. I don't need some stupid datas and studies, I have my own eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:14 PM
0	CMV women care about a man's money a lot and more than vice versa Not women. American women and maybe Canadian or Australian. Canadian probably, I am not sure if in Australia is in that measure like in America? Also American society is the most selfish and superficial so that could be the reason for such take on relationships and marriages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:06 PM
1	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? American? A lot. What your thoughts on that? Why is that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 07:31 PM
2	Q4W: Would you be willing to receive no male attention at all, if it meant eliminating unwanted attention? Well many here are Americans so that might be answer on your question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 07:20 PM
–	The global average height for women is 159cm. For a vast majority of men, they are not short enough, and women are not tall enough, for height to be a serious issue in dating (unless they are dealing some Americans with 6 6 6 brainwashing). Only 159cm? Daaaamn! In my countrie girls are definitelly average about 170cm. Men around 180, maybe a bi higher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:14 PM
1	Bear vs Drake alone in the woods? Hmm are you sure xD? You don't think that women take a bit false equivalence for this topic particularly? ps: I didn't downvote you, just to be clear :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 10:08 PM
1	Bear vs Drake alone in the woods? I’ve run into bears in the woods before. Just leave them alone, and you should be fine. I once ride a grizzly bear in the wild. He is nothing more then one very calm and domesstic specie. I don't know why people are afraid of bears anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 03:13 AM
4	I think some people don’t realize they don’t love their partner until they end the relationship and experience somebody they truly desire It is funny how media brainwashed many people that settling is necessarily a bad thing. The grass is greener mentality is all over us. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 01:29 PM
6	I think some people don’t realize they don’t love their partner until they end the relationship and experience somebody they truly desire I think that I lot of new generation men and women doesn't know what love is and materialism suck the soul out of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 01:19 PM
4	The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards. But this is not just on men. A lot of women choose partners by his finance cause he will be able to be a better provider finacially. I think balance should be the key for every successful relationships/mariagge. And I am afraid that in a lot of chioces there is no balance at all. Finance is far above everything else. In the long run that can't work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 01:17 PM
10	The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards. I would agree with this but usually just for casual sex. I think a lot of men do have a standards when it comes to serious dating and potential healthy and long term relationships. For hookups though yes that is obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 12:43 PM
2	Women's standards aren't high the average man has nothing of value to offer. You think a? Two facts are the biggest problems here. 1st. There are extreme increase of gold diggers in America. Especially from educated and working women. If women can provide for herself doesn't mean she can't be a gold digger. 2nd. American girls/women excessively overestimates their rating numbers. In their head a lot of women thinking they are 9s and 10s and for that reason they are going for high rating men, where they don't take into consideration average and slightly above average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 04:59 AM
–	Why Do People Come Back After Rejecting You? Sorry but is this some troll post? lol I mean I get what you are trying to say. You have changed on worse, personallity wise, and with better finance and now girl want to pursue you. And since girls like so called bad boys it is normal that girl attention turned toward you. Here is the thing. Some girls like bad boys, some don't. You should go for whatever you feel in the moment. If you want STR probably bad ones, LTR nicer ones. Some girls tend togo in younger ages for bad unhealthy, emotionall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 10:33 PM
1	Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement Bro, broke up happened in my life 6 months ago. I only watching sad romantic movies now.. damn :-(	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 10:11 PM
1	The "would you rather be alone with a bear or a man?" thing is just toxic and not much of a statement. But also here is the a bit of double standards in women takes here. When they take a men as example they go straight to killers, attackers, crazy, drugged, drunk whatever type of person. But for a bear depends on what bear? If it's black bear it's not that dangerous. Well you can't go that route ladies lol If you pick a highly dangerous men then you should compare with polar or grizzly. Not black. I mean c'mon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 09:42 PM
1	The "would you rather be alone with a bear or a man?" thing is just toxic and not much of a statement. We as a men should be flattered when some woman choose bear over us, cause that means we are stronger and more dangerous then bear. lol But jokes aside just one advice if you ever somehow get into bear situation please don't pretend you are dead. That is the most stupid take you can hear for this subject. I don't know what advice to give you for men though, but for bear just yell or run somehow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 09:26 PM
2	There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationship Most likely there isn't, but personally I don't care for 50/50 rule as long as both in our relationship contribute. If partner sees one side doing less or nothing then there should be a conversation for it. But strictly 50/50 I don't think so. Relationship or marriage at the end should be enjoyable, pleasant, respectful, humble, kind, experience. Of course with ups and downs but conversation must be the factor for successful relationship or marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 09:17 PM
–	Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own age She was in way better state. oftentimes they were an emotional mess like I was. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 04:33 PM
–	Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own age So what? I mean the point is? Not first not the last who bragging on this an emotional mess like I was. Your choose. If you like it go for it. If you still enjoy it continue with it. If you have some regrets it doesn't matter cause no body should care. There are various kind of people. Someone in young age are stable and more mature then others and look for calm, peaceful, loving relationship. Others are trainwrecks, or more sluty, or have some traumas. Someone just want to try different things …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 04:21 PM
1	Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement Ah I see so when you said to “take accountability”, you didn’t even know what you meant by that. Yes, ok, whatever you say. xD It is interesting how everything you listed does not apply to me though! I don’t have any mental illnesses or trauma, I have a big happy family with my parents still together in a loving marriage, I’m happily married and have never had any issue finding a relationship. Great for you, sincerely. What can I say, exceptions do exist always. You know that everything what I l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 11:24 AM
1	Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women in the U.S (ages 25-44) will be single and childless by 2030—up from 41% in 2018. By 2030. only 45%? I am sure that is a very optimistic assessment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 11:58 PM
1	Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement I can talk with you about this not a problem at all, even english isn't my native language as probably people can see, but I don't care, we can definitelly understaind eachother. I will answer. First of all it is funny how a lot of OF girls avoiding to say at first that they are doing OF whenever someone ask them what is their occupation. Usually it's modeling, it's content creators, it's streamers, and god knows what else... But soon after someone who leading interview or podcast or whatever as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 11:49 PM
1	There is no benefit for a man to let his wife be a SAHM I agree with this. The problem why men and women are afraid to let loose their partners a bit is the trust. In the West cheating is like handshake. Personally I love when my women is educated, when she is working, when I don't need to tell her what she can dress, when I can let her go out with her friends and have fun without me. But in the west I have a feeling that if one partner let other do that the probablity for cheating is large. And why is that I have no clue. But I would rather stay sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 12:08 PM
0	Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement You are digital prostutute right? I mean if you get triggered by my comment then you probably are. Nevermind. You can cry in your Ferrari.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 12:02 PM
1	Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement No. If you asking me if I ever watched or if I know what it is? Yes, I saw porn. But If I watch porn like some tv show, or in educational purpose or even just for fun.. no I don't watch. I don't need a porn in my life. Do you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/24 11:55 AM
-1	Men and Women's opinions on porn/engagement I don't care honestly, but digital prostututes (OF, prn) get's on my nerve when they don't take accountability for what they are doing. No sex work will never be accepted into society like something normal, and people who are doing that will almost always considered like outcasts. That is the truth which every digital pstar should know and deal with it. They are annoying as f*k, especially OF thots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 09:20 PM
4	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Also there is always misunderstanding when topics like this are opened. Cause the person who will open topic like this isn't the one who most of the women are talking to when they complaining on men. Women complaining the most on bad boys cause they don't change for them. And men complaining why those women who are attratcted by bad boys won't give a chance to nice guys cause they think for themsleves they are those kind. And everybody just runs circles. Instead those nice guys should look for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:47 PM
1	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Feminism has destroyed dating and relationships, and we are heading towards the collapse of civilization. While I don't support modern feminism I still think this is wrong. The main reason why dating is as it is now, or even any social activities is materialism. Dating is not bad in the whole world. South America, the bigger part of Europe, maybe some part of Asia too still have a fun dating and social activities. The part of the world who have these things at bad state is the West, where materi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 08:51 PM
6	Contradiction in Man vs Bear debate? Here we go again... lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 08:33 PM
–	Are women really wary of men? I realy can't comprehend why is for men so much hard to swallow this? I mean yes, you should be wary of anyone who seems suspicious or wierd cause this is crazy world nowdays and who the hell knows what can happen to you. I mean really, just think about it. I don't think that any women will have a problem with if you act nice and polite to her. But not every man is capable for that. And yes there is some women who will accept everything from anyone if that man have good looks.. but that is her p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 04:55 PM
1	Are women really wary of men? I realy can't comprehend why is for men so much hard to swallow this? I mean yes, you should be wary of anyone who seems suspicious or wierd cause this is crazy world nowdays and who the hell knows what can happen to you. I mean really, just think about it. I don't think that any women will have a problem if you act nice and polite to her. But not every men is capable for that. And yes there is some women who will accept everything from anyone if that man have good looks.. but that is her proble…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 04:50 PM
–	The black pill is becoming more popular than the red pill because of two reasons I never heard for that tbh, but if it's worse then red pill then we got a entertainment for sure lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 04:17 PM
1	Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are. I honestly I think there are many more then you think, but maybe less then what I think lol Anyways no matter how many there are, the point is they are not in healthy relationships. They just wander from mistake to mistake or as in this case they got tired and just give up. xD	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 06:08 AM
0	Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are. For me personally it is more important how you get those numbers then what actual number is. If most of those were from normal healthy relationships then it's better. The thing is that you should create some connection with your partner before you have sex. It is healthier to be intimate with somene who do you really know, care about, have true respect and trust. And all those stories from tons of different girls/women like "hey I spend fantastic night with someone who I don't know name" Sex was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 12:52 AM
-3	Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are. It isn't bad, it's late. Some of them could get a chance. But their bodies and hormones are already doomed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 12:05 AM
1	Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are. LOL hahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 11:56 PM
1	Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are. Not really, i’ve slept with one guy & feel that way. If anything im glad i was a late bloomer and realized that valuing singleness is good because it kept me from sleeping/dating lots of men who i might have had a negative impact on my mental and emotional health. Sure, there are always some exceptions. The promiscuous women i know are always in relationships & never stop dealing with men. Of course they are, they are easy and a lot of men enjoys in sex objects. Their choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 11:54 PM
4	Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are. How much of those 7 are pretending to be good to get "something" ? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 11:32 PM
-3	Women who say Good Men are rare enough to justify voluntary celibacy are greatly exaggerating how rare Good Men are. Honestly these women are all broken with probably crazy high bodycount numbers and have traumas from bad life and decisions. It is the best thing in the dating world that they are moving away. They should date themselve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:43 PM
1	What is everyone’s thoughts on the Whatever Podcast? I think that either they choose extremly stupid feminists to represent their stands or all feminists are like that (which I hope they're not) . I mean the amount of stupidity on that podcast is huge. Honestly all talk seems like a big parody. I am from Europe, thank god I am not from USA so here there is a lot less present all of that American stupid shit like cancel culture, woke culture, feminism all of that similiar shit. I am for democracy though forever, but you guys oversees are just lost …	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 12:35 AM