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Inner Game nikolastefan/r/seduction16/03/24 07:04 AM
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Inner Game nikolastefan/r/seduction23/04/24 08:32 PM
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Outer Game nikolastefan/r/seduction18/07/24 07:43 AM
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Nah, Bro, women have to seriously learn not to do the same
/r/seduction20/07/26 03:23 AM
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Telling him to suck it up instead of showing him how to achieve an „I don‘t care about rejection“-state of mind ain‘t very helpful. Things need time and character development after all. Development which most don‘t get over night
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:31 PM
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I leave them on seen
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:10 PM
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Lowkey. The success rate after loosing enough weight is insane
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:35 PM
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I won‘t be eating at that table very soon, so might as well
/r/seduction20/07/24 11:31 AM
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Thank you for your advice
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:09 AM
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Thanks for the help
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:09 AM
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Yep, and I was happy.
/r/seduction27/05/24 04:31 PM
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Tbh, when I stopped working fulltime and went for part-time obligations while chilling on my 3/4 free weekdays I got happy very quickly ngl
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:57 PM
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Damn, I‘m gonna dig into that, thanks for that perspective
/r/seduction25/05/24 06:26 PM
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Talking in a lower tone and a little bit slower does a big part of it, the rest is like ppl say body language, flow of conversation, etc.
/r/seduction25/05/24 06:22 PM
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First 5 min?
/r/seduction23/05/24 01:08 AM
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Be a baller in terms of aura, confidence, social skills (including humor) and money (this one is more important from your 20s onward) and you should be bagging one or two here and there
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:03 PM
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You‘re not alone, brother 🤝 Same experience here. You will find out that relationships of any sort with a BPD-girl are way more intense than usual ones, shit‘s like an addiction. But the hotter the flame, the shorter the burn. You can either look for that flame in another person (don‘t recommend, very hard) or get used to normal passes (we‘re both cooked either way)
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:07 PM
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Some of y‘all just don‘t get what I mean 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction24/04/24 01:03 AM
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I dunno how to put it, maybe my choice of words wasn‘t the most precise one, but it‘s kinda like when I‘m in THAT „masculine mode“ everything goes smoothly and all, but if I fail to enter that mode it feels like a shaky date, if that makes sense. You might be right abt the fact that I should go for girls I vibe with instantly and consistently, but sometimes ppl come into your life like a fresh wind.
/r/seduction23/04/24 09:40 PM
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Money maybe ain‘t even such a big deal, just be able to take her out for a lil meal or some drink
/r/seduction11/04/24 09:27 PM
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Nice save lol, but fr, happens often enough
/r/seduction08/04/24 07:49 PM
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Sometimes one realises those things too late. Had two times I straight-up told them that we‘ll need distance for a few weeks. The first one was a hard fumble, the second one is yet to be proven a failure. Push and pull do be an art of itself
/r/seduction05/04/24 02:14 PM
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Don‘t do the drugs and keep alc on a low. Blending into different groups without necessarily matching with them might be hard in the beginning, but you will get into it. Always be sure of yourself and be aight with the fact that you don‘t look or act like them, but do actually have a few things in common with them, everything else is a matter of confidence and not worrying too much abt it. Just always be non-judgemental and try understanding their ways. People create barriers in their head, but …
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:20 PM
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Not being too skinny nor too chunky is def what you should strive for, bigger muscles enhance your attractiveness by a few points less than act having a good bodyfat%
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:27 PM
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It might take some time, maybe even weeks to get over her, but you will be so incredibly relieved when you feel the last emotional thread binding you to her snap
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:22 PM
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I see, just enough for it to be enjoyable but not enough for it to become too serious, got it
/r/seduction18/03/24 08:03 PM
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Good tips, thanks a lot
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:59 PM
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Here‘s the catch in this issue: I either rarely feel any connection toward the „good/right“ ones or they‘re taken. But tbh, at this point I just wanna keep things casual.
/r/seduction16/03/24 05:10 PM
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I will check this out, thanks!
/r/seduction16/03/24 03:19 PM
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Pretty much a bullseye there, that‘s right.
/r/seduction16/03/24 03:19 PM
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I don‘t think it is neediness. Most women I have dealth with in my life were pretty disappointing some ways, that‘s why I would generally prefer it to be something of a few weeks at best, nothing that ties me emotionally.
/r/seduction16/03/24 09:38 AM
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50%-50%, now that you put it in words
/r/seduction16/03/24 09:19 AM
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It can be a beautiful thing, but most of the time the other person doesn‘t really develop attachment as well, leaving me sorta behind. Instead of feeling that way I would like to have the effect dimmer.
/r/seduction16/03/24 08:44 AM
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I see, thank you very much for the advice. I pretty much gave up on the idea of relationships, but maybe a part of me yearns for some type of bond anyways, that could be one factor.
/r/seduction16/03/24 07:21 AM
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I recently came to the realization that it is not only jealousy that may make you feel bad about it but also pride/ego. Seeing people succeed faster with less effort and which are generally seemingly above ones status does not only make you jealous but it also may hurt your pride, the key is to lay it down.
/r/seduction10/03/24 09:50 AM
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Or just „🤷🏻‍♂️“
/r/seduction01/03/24 11:54 AM
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She‘s valid af
/r/seduction23/02/24 10:32 AM
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Sometimes you gotta fend off other men, even if they are your friends. You better do that soon too
/r/seduction18/02/24 02:41 PM
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Receptionist is valid too, not as effective but valid for sure
/r/seduction17/02/24 04:34 AM
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Facts
/r/seduction27/12/23 12:38 PM
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