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Crazy wild idea.... find a woman that you like for her personality and skills that is actually grounded and doesn't have 35 red flags lmao This is like asking should I marry a blonde or brunette? Doesn't fucking matter either can have the same personality traits, red flags, and thought process. There's SAHMs that are shitty and career women that are shitty. Also at any point a blonde can become a brunette and vice versa. A career woman can suddenly change one day and want to be a SAHM and a SAHM…
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 06:05 PM
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It makes me disheartened that men are dismissed and invalidated to this extent. "Just ignore it and keep chugging" He is legitimately being stalked and harassed and you're just waving it away as nothing. Stalking is illegal. Doesn't matter if they are stalking him in Public or not its still stalking by the basic definition and he could file a restraining order on them. I get what you are saying but part of what you are saying isn't accurate or factual.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 09:05 AM
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Why do men always fall for this? Don't move out. Stay there with your fucking kids and make HER leave. Uncomfortable? Suck it up for your kids. Its divorce it's going to be uncomfortable. Shes PURPOSEFULLY trying to get you to leave and make you uncomfortable. Then you leave your kids there and she brings random men around them and says you abandoned the family. Like just STAY. STAY and make HER uncomfortable. Stay and don't get fucked over. The number one advice on here by men is to STAY. and n…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 01:42 AM
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How have they not Done anything wrong if they are stalking him lol Shows up at his first gym, then months later they happen to show up at th3 second gym he started going to? That's weird.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/23 07:57 AM
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Ignore them lmao a restraining order won't "protect you" its not for that. Its so the next time they show up and BREAK the restraining order they get a penalty or fine and shows they can't follow the court order which can help further in a custody case. This person isn't making any sense in their comments, clearly isn't listening to what you're even saying, and doesn't know what they are talking about. I'm sorry yours got dismissed but atleast your sons upheld so that's good.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 02:16 PM
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Tell her to join support groups. I had to see a therapist because of my husbands ex. She started falsely accusing me of shit, she served me 3 times with restraining orders again I was trying to kill her, their kid, and all this random crap that never made sense. Every time I had yo go to court I was having anxiety attacks and crying. The judges were perplexed and saw through her shot so fast. His ex was pregnant with another man's baby and still calling my (now huband) "her husband". I met him a…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 12:56 AM
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My husband has the same kind of schedule as you it seems. Exchange is every Friday, the parent getting time for their week picks up from school when it let's out, if no school then pick up from the other parents house or daycare if applicable. Summer vacation is split months first half and second half of the month alternating odd and even Years who gets the first half. His ex wife is insane and screams, attacks, causes a scene at exchanges so the fewer exchanges the better and we made sure that …
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 09:47 PM
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No he got 50% custody about a year ago, and some things were resolved and some things just accepted. We lost $6000+ just on attorneys fees which based off other guy's posts that's not even alot. Yeah its shitty but I honestly tell people not to get involved with a man with a child and a high conflict ex unless they are prepared for a lot of uphill battles. We've worked through alot and had to really focus on being a team. The stress emotionally and financially to be a woman and deal with another…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 04:48 PM
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Of course! Thank you. I've given advice too. My husband was accused of south bullshit I could write a book. He went from almost full custody of his kid, to his ex wife kidnapping and hiding his kid out of state, to phone calls, to weekends and finally to 50% custody. That took 3 almost 4 years though. I saw him depressed, lost, angry. When I met him, again him and his ex were separated, she was and had already been with a few men, and he mainly had their kid. One night before I was with him he w…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 01:09 AM
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As a woman both the custody and divorce subs are trash. I've gotten called an Incel for calling women out and told to take my dick somewhere else. I point out I'm a woman not a dude and they freak out even more. Then say I'm worse because I don't support women. What. My now husband's ex wife is a fucking cheating lunatic that has a record for false police reporting and a million other insane things. When i started dating him, they were long since separated, and she was pregnant with another dude…
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 07:56 AM
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Well she sounds horrid and I'm sorry. I hope she's cursed to always step on a Lego and stub her toes. I've met people that are super crazy about this, never made sense to me. I hope one day you don't even have to think about it. I couldn't imagine the stress of not even being able to go to the bathroom without worrying about upsetting someone. She seriously sounds like a cunt.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 01:54 PM
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Look, I'm all for support on here. Never whine about how women aren't assholes. I'm here because I wanted insight on what my husband went through when he got a divorce/custody arrangement with his cheating ex wife. So don't attack me for being on the sub please....that being said this toilet seat thing had me dying laughing. My take on it... not that it matters...and is totally irrelevant to the sub in general.. but ... If he just puts the whole lid down then she has to open it and put in the sa…
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 07:13 PM
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They have documentaries on YouTube and a few adults with channels that talk about not being able to see their dads. And now not having a relationship with their moms for lying to them and taking away their relationship with their father in the early yesrs. I would look into it it's really eye opening on how all this affects children.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 09:28 PM
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Think his issue is more so that he gets 6 days a month with his kids and some other guy gets all the other days. Women like this have their kids calling the new man dad and daddy to and refer to their REAL dads by first name to alienate them. And yeah she should actually have not moved in a new partner with her children after their parents separated. That is the most stressful thing for the kids and not beneficial to them or consistent. 50/50 week on week off 7 days with each parents seems more …
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/22 09:43 AM
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In most states if you are married then the child is assumed to be your spouses even if the child is biologically someone elses. Your spouse would have to acknowledge that they are not the father in order to make sure the child is legally the bio parents. Usually if you're married you aren't supposed to be fucking and getting pregnant by other men. My current husband's ex wife had multiple affairs and during their divorce and custody trial she was pregnant with another man's baby. She had asked h…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 06:20 AM
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Why are you paying her child support if you have 50/50 custody? If you have them the same amount of time why do you have to pay for them when you have them and when she has them? Am I missing something?
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/21 04:43 PM
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I am pretty sure there are daycare for covid reasons you can look into, on top of calling like dshs for example and seeing if they have any sliding scale daycare or assisted programs you qualify for. Daycare provisions should also be a part of your child support order what are the rules on tha do you know? She should be obligated to pay part as well as you but you can try to work around that. What do you do for work? See if they have any programs (some jobs do or get discounts at places like the…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/20 06:59 PM
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Also, he wants advice on what to do for childcare for his kids for the next month or two. What more info do you need for that??
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/20 06:56 PM
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Idk what key pieces you are talking about lol state and income?? Let's pick Wa and say since he has two kids about $900 each I am guessing on top of his exwife being an incompetent lazy sack of shit and wanting his money. He probably has a really well paying job so they figured that was "reasonable" amounts for him to pay and substitute her income. They don't care that if you make $4,000 a month and your rent is $1,750 car is $300 and insurance is $200-$400 that yeah you are "well off" but that'…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/20 06:53 PM
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Why the fuck be married for 24 years just to say you want to start over, you're a piece of shit. Usually this sub is full of actual reasons because of abuse, lies, cheating. You're just a douche. Holy shit.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/20 05:51 AM
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^ This person commits fraud lmfao
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/20 06:14 AM
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YouTube is no place for children. You tube kids is a shit hole and no kids should be on it the content is awful and not monitored and half way through videos you'll see generic brand Mickey eating a paw patrol character. Your CHILD does not need to "grow up" and realize what he watches will give him night mates. Who ever commented that is an idiot. Your child doesnt comprehend the amount of fucked up shit in the world and cant decide on their own what they should and shouldn't watch. They should…
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/19 06:58 PM
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Im going to message you. No "keep your head up" just a hey life is worth fighting through
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/18 09:00 AM
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He's complaining about not having enough to buy a CARD those are like $1-$8. Why are you assuming he's splurging in every aspect of his life.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/18 09:06 AM
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