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| 1 | How to have a direct approach when the girl is accompanied with friends?I like to do kindof a combo opener. Hi lady's aren't you two looking stunning today. Do you by chance have the time? My names John by the way. They pull out a phone. They Give the time.. (look at the girl your interested in) don't say anything just smile then say "who am I kidding I just had to come over and meet you and was wondering if you'd like to get coffee sometime" Bang. It dis arms. You introduce to both. Pin point the one your interested in. And coffee is pretty harmless so I'd their in… | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 04:50 AM |
| 31 | How to approach girls in my classes?The trick is talk to everybody. Be social. If you see a girl you like walk up to the guy beside her and ask something about the assignment, then just involve her in the conversation. (Ex. "What do u think about the assignment so and so") the key is be comfortable bull shitting with everyone. And talking to a guy first helps me eliminate approach anxiety cause your not approaching the girl your approaching the guy next to her. Give it a try | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How crazy is it to just kiss her?Do the whole "hey u got something on it cheek". Then smile and kiss her. It works | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How to go for the kissWait for a conversation pause, lock eyes, smile, put your hand gently on her leg or hand and leanin. Kiss her even if she doesnt lean back. Some girls freeze up but if they dont pull away its usually mutual. Just DON'T HESITATE. Do it or don't do it. Your mind needs to be made up before u go for the kiss. If u hesitate it's awkward as fuck. Can still be saved but that was my biggest amateur mistake. Good luck :) | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 01:45 AM |
| 8 | How do I be less oblivious?Focus on being a friend but don't forget to escalate when the opportunity arises. Works every time for me | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 02:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you do if all your guy friends are taller and better looking than you?I wouldn't necessarily say my guy friends are better looking than me but they are all taller and more built. Because of this I did seem to have the same problem.. at first. BUT now however I'm the only guy who is actually landing multiple phone numbers a night. The biggest thing I can tell you is be as different from them as you can. Wear brighter colors, be memorable, and use your shoulders to make your presence as big (if not bigger) than theirs. Also they all talk to girls the same, so I tend… | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Going solo - how do you deal with "where are your friends"?Personally I would just laugh and say " yea they couldn't hold their liquor and took a cab home, but I'm not ready for the party to stop quite yet." Then go on and say something like "I hope your not a light weight too!" And offer to buy them a drink | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 10:27 PM |
| 1 | I have no problem attracting women, and yet I feel ugly and unlovable. Any advice on dealing with this?The only problem here is you need to learn how to love yourself and be happy with who you are. You may also find your not happy with yourself, if that is the case I hope it encourages personal growth. (Which is somthing everyone should be working on) | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 06:58 PM |
| -1 | I'm 18, how do I become/act more like a man and less of a boy?Confidence, Poise, and patience. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Depressed and confused...I honestly have no idea how people hook up, find girlfriends, get married etc.I was very anti social growing up mostly due to having a stutter. I had a nearly impossible time doing even the simplest things like ordering a pizza over the phone. Now I am early 20"s and have no problem going to the bar and coming home with average 3 phone numbers. The absolute best advice I can give is simply practice interacting with people around you. Over time you will become more comfortable and find you are making leaps and bounds. Just start off asking "how's your day going today" to s… | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 04:23 PM |
| 0 | How can I improve my basic interpersonal interactions?I used to be very introverted, biggest tip is ASK QUESTIONS, end your sentences in A QUESTION. This promotes dialogue and often encourages either side to tell stories and discuss different topics of interest | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 02:45 PM |
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