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Anywhere men express themselves is going to be vilified, whether justified or not. We are the current societal scapegoats. In reality this sub isn't misogynistic at all. It's just still a threat because men are expressing themselves and talking about their issues...and not from a female led perspective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/21 04:22 PM
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No I don't. Used to but don't anymore. The left says it's about equality. If it is, why should I feel guilty? Anyone that shames you for caring about men's issues isn't really about equality. The rest is just brainwashing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/21 05:35 PM
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What's next? Is "sex work" going to start referring to sex within romantic relationships? This is EXACTLY what is going to happen next. Having sex with the partner you CHOSE to be with will be considered labor. Yet turn that argument around and men are SUPPOSED to have sex with their partners. It's part of the deal and you're a deadbeat abuser if you don't do that for your partner. This will happen. It's only a matter of time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/21 07:29 PM
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People don't want men to discuss their emotions because they don't care what their emotions are. The whole "express your emotions" toxic masculinity stuff has been created to keep men as the boogiemen of society. It's to keep men the scapegoat. Actions speak louder than words, and many women's ACTIONS say they don't actually want men to be open. They also know they might not like what they hear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/21 07:23 PM
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Sorry about what happened to you. Personally not an SA survivor but it's clearly something that is swept under the rug by society at large. I think the statistics are that 43% of men experience some sort of harassment or SA in their lives. And 1 in 4 men are victims of completed or attempted rape, 25%. And that's only the ones that say something. The number is probably far larger. I guess my point is that even a place like "mens lib" sweeping this under the rug and acting like it doesn't happen …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/21 07:36 PM
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AITA is UBER toxic feminist and the double standards have been WELL documented. They hate men and love women. The love women for doing the things they hate men for. I stay away. Far away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/21 11:02 PM
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It's not serious about combatting "toxic masculinity." It's serious about combatting MEN...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 05:04 PM
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"...because "financial abortion" is an absolute dereliction of the responsibility a man takes on when he consents to sex." Completely fair from a certain perspective, but if we count it as fair then so is "because abortion is an absolute dereliction of the responsibility a woman takes on when she consents to sex." No double standards please. Let keep the logic consistent regardless of the gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/21 05:32 PM
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I've been groped by women I didn't really know before. The idea that women are immune to this behavior is the biggest double standard I've ever heard. I know many dudes that have experienced this too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/21 04:50 PM
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What guy, married or in a relationship, hasn't experienced his SO saying they don't like their friends, don't spend enough time with the SO, or don't want them to hang out with their friends for some reason? Women can't try and restrict men's friendships but then complain that they don't have any friends. Pick a lane.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/21 04:45 PM
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Read this last night. Honestly, what does society think is going to happen when boys and men are demonized for being male. Combine that with the cost of college and boys being expected to learn and intake information just like girls, you have a recipe for disaster. The article says this has been getting worse over the last 40 years, about the time modern feminism took it's holds on society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/21 07:01 PM
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Second this, as a male. Not obsessive. There is a BASIC standard of cleanliness that if isn't kept will affect the home, bugs, smell etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:48 PM
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ecause of this, well-meaning boys are growing up thinking that they harm the world by existing in it and that the best thing to do is reduce themselves as much as possible Or that they should become more like women, or become how women want them to be
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/21 09:30 PM
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Yea US is processed food and overeating and overdrinking. Basically the worst of everything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:15 PM
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If all men disappeared for a day the world would grind to a halt. All the manual labor type jobs would stop and everyone would not know what to do. It would be a s$(^ show. Be careful what you wish for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/21 05:04 PM
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It's not out of the realm of possibility but I don't see the vitriol in this sub that those do so maybe we're safe. Either way, we have to stick together gents. For each other and for our male children's futures.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/21 05:02 PM
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It's very clear when you watch the myriad of videos on the internet. There are numerous videos showing men simply yelling at women and bystanders stepping in IMMEDIATELY (not even knowing what is going on). But if men are literally being physically assaulted, everyone just walks by and says nothing. It's really disturbing, but what's more disturbing is the complete lack of any sense of shame or shock to this by society at large. People either laugh it off or say men deserve it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 05:10 PM
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I think the most ironic thing here is that modern feminism is trying to argue that women are fully capable and autonomous humans who should be treated as such, but then in the same breath the are basically saying that they actually aren't based on responses like "everything is a man's fault." That just says that women have NO autonomy and aren't fully capable of determining their own lives and futures. So which is it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/21 05:43 PM
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The best thing you can do is what I did. Realize that everyone is the same. Their beliefs may be different but how those beliefs drive their actions, and generally, what the basics of their actions consist of are exactly the same. The left and the right are the same, which is why I don't subscribe to either side. Both are just as bad as the other. I think once you realize this it's pretty freeing. And it will help you be ok with yourself. Which is honestly the most important thing. You need to b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/21 08:01 PM
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I was encouraged. Then I read "But the fact that women remain victims in many ways does not negate the reality that many men are struggling and are victims of economic and cultural changes — ONES THAT ALSO OFTEN HURT WOMEN, children and society." And there it is. Still framed from and for a female perspective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/21 07:04 PM
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Been saying this for years. Just not as eloquent. Well said!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/21 04:59 PM
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I think it goes a bit deeper than this too. I think it goes back to base human emotions. It's partially about revenge. Anger and revenge are powerful emotions, and tools. So some of it is that. It's also about people naturally wanting someone to blame. It's easier than solving issues, for some people, and it's also useful when solving problems. A boogeyman is always useful. If looked at as objectively as possible, women were treated as second class citizens, until the last century, in many respe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/21 07:56 PM
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Society, and men, frankly, have allowed women to get away with this. You avoid this by having your eyes wide open at the beginning of the relationship, setting boundaries from the BEGINNING of the relationship, and not getting into a marriage with someone that does this. My ex was a lot like your wife. I had enough after a while and now she's my ex. Current partner is a complete 180. We both are open and willing to admit when we are wrong, and we both genuinely want to have eachother's backs. An…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/21 05:28 PM
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I don't think it's theoretically anti feminist but ends up looking like it is. That is because modern feminism is an attack on men. MRA's biggest hurdle to getting men's issues heard is the constant attacks on men. So right now they are at odds, but theoretically solving men's and women's issues can co exist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/21 07:45 PM
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Sooooooo you came here just to write a post to bash the sub? Isn't that a waste of your own time? In all seriousness though, you say we're white as hell yet there is no possible way you could know the racial make up of the people who frequent here. Also, you complain that we don't bash right wingers, why would we? This isn't a sub about bashing or critiquing the right wing. It's a sub dedicated for people who don't subscribe to the modern version of feminism, who also are not right wing extremis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 06:36 PM
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It absolutely happens all the time. Went on 2 dates with a woman several years ago. After date 2 she wanted to be friends. I wasn't sure how to react in the moment so I said sure. I would respond when she would text me here and there. I was fine with that level of contact. Then she texts me that I never text her and I said I would be friends etc etc. I told her I'm just not a big texter even with my family and she called me on that saying I was texting her more when I was dating her briefly. In …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/21 06:48 PM
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Feminism is a cesspool of toxicity now. It makes perfect sense that anyone that calls themselves one that is under 40, even men, is now toxic as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/21 07:41 PM
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Corporations have convinced us, as a society, that work is the way to happiness and prosperity. However, it flies in the face of so many studies that show that people's biggest regret on their deathbed is that they worked so much. I really do feel like corporations, in their ever evolving quest for profit, have decided to create a slave class of workers. You can see it in the disappearing middle class. More and more workers are making less and less money while the cost of everything keeps rising…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 06:48 PM
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I think the most ironic thing about women that paint all men as abusive is that THEY are the ones perpetuating their own cycle. THEY CHOOSE who they want to be with and who they accept to be with, partners aren't forced on them. So basically they continuously choose the abusers. All men of course are not abusers. It's like the men that say all women are bat s*%& crazy. No they aren't. You just continuously choose the bat s*%^ crazy ones. I have empathy for these women in the sense that they lite…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/21 07:54 PM
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Emotional labor also contradicts another tenant: that men are toxic and never express themselves. Like which one is it? Are we being too emotional for people? Or are we not being emotional enough? Both can't be true at the same time. So true. What's worse is that WOMEN want us to be more open with our emotions. Then when we do they drop the emotional labor bomb. So it comes to a point of asking what women really want. Nevermind it's not our job to give them what they want but really...what do th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/21 05:17 PM
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I've never felt this way but far be it for me or anyone else to tell someone ELSE what is comfortable for them or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/21 05:10 PM
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I've wondered this for a while myself. Honestly, most men know that violence, whether against men or women, is not right. Generally, friends don't talk about raping or assaulting with eachother because they know if they do they'll be outcast by merit of being a horrible person, regardless of the victim's gender. So even on the off chance that a friend is one of those people, most guys will probably never know it. So to your point, what exactly are we supposed to do? Interrogate all of our friend…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/21 04:46 PM
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I felt the same when I discovered this sub as well. The mens right's sub has some good points and good people but it's got a lot of toxic people as well. So much so that I don't frequent it very much anymore. It's not really constructive and can sometimes be VERY unfair to women. This sub is great.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/21 11:02 PM
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That's why I don't call myself a feminist, even though I genuinely want women to have as much equality as possible (men and women will never be truly equal in certain respects). Feminism isn't about equality for men and women anymore. It's about power and revenge and putting men down now. Plain and simple. How they treated your non threating comment is proof of that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/21 06:35 PM
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When did I say it wasn't reasonable? I didn't say anything of the sort. Of course caution is prudent BUT if they aren't unconscious, they are lucid, responding, making free decisions, aren't falling all over themselves, and are agreeing to consensual activities, there is really not much more you can do. At that point how are you realistically supposed to know other then LITERALLY testing them, which is overboard considering all the other points. That's the point. That is not saying caution isn't…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/21 05:23 PM
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I've been black out drunk before and apparently remembered stuff said 15 to 20 minutes prior, while I was lucid. Then not remember a damn thing the next day. 5 minutes isn't enough. And are you supposed to test her? I mean you could, but if she's lucid and aware and consenting at the time. What more can you reasonably do?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/21 07:46 PM
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The alternative is force fathers to be financially and emotionally invested when they don't want it (which mother's don't have to do if they don't want) or forced abortions. I'd say fatherlessness is the best option out of the 3 for the parents, if the woman decides she wants it and the man does not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/21 08:38 PM
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The double standards placed upon us by feminism are a start. They are everywhere. Try and rate women based on breast size and you'll be eviscerated. However, there are numerous published articles out there about rating men by their bulge size. No one says a word. That's just one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/21 06:15 PM
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The other problem is that the "patriarchy" as modern and radical feminists describe it is a fallacy. Only the powerful 1% had control. Most men were also subject to abuses and slavery etc. They just took a different form based on gender roles, biology, and evolution. So MEN as a whole were not subjugating women. The powerful were subjugating men and women. It's just many leaders happened to be men. But that doesn't prove that MEN as a whole were responsible for the subjugation of women. Also, ta…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/21 06:12 PM
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Honestly, the first thing to do, is not shout down men when they talk about their issues. Listen. You sound like you do. So for you I would say the next thing is to get your friends and family and fellow women to do the same. If men weren't auto assumed to be privileged abusers and society actually listened to what we have to say TOO, it wouldn't be as much of an issue. But we've been completely and utterly villainized with a broad brush. The first thing to do is to reverse that auto villainizat…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 05:41 PM
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You don't HAVE to be friends with anyone. Period. End of story. And no one should be trying to force you. She sounds pretty controlling tbh
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/21 05:39 PM
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The truth is it is and it isn't. Statistically they are less likely to be attacked. However, if we're being honest, the average woman is far more likely to be completely overpowered if they are attacked. So I can understand the fear from that perspective. So it is and it isn't warranted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/21 11:27 PM
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Why waste your time with someone who is using those arguments?
/r/MensRights26/01/21 11:47 PM
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Next time anyone uses that argument for "Kill all men" just respond with "I think we should euthanize all dogs." When they are inevitably horrified just say "Oh no I obviously don't mean all dogs. Just the ones that bite people." If they say that's not what you said just point out how stupid it sounds when you say you don't mean the words you use.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/21 07:35 PM
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The whole narrative behind emotional labor is so dumb, from an equality standpoint. Us expressing our feelings, to them, is emotional labor. And that's only if we do, which we usually don't by their expressed frustrations as women. But some of us do. So let's take that as they complain about it. We express our feelings. They say it's emotional labor. Wouldn't it be the same the other way around then? Women expressing feelings to male partners should be emotional labor right? Ask anyone that ques…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/21 08:32 PM
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Women don't let us have friends. If we do we just end up enforcing rape culture etc., According to feminism, and we just get up to no good. This is why there are no boys/men only spaces anymore. They aren't acceptable to women. Also, wives generally don't let their husbands spend time with friends in many relationships. And sadly, many men value sex higher than friendships so they go along to get along. Friendships slide once men get married, for many men.
/r/MensRights11/01/21 06:13 PM
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And then they call boys "less than" for falling behind and blame it on "toxic masculinity" smh May instead of blaming masculinity for boys falling behind, you blame your treatment and handling of boys..
/r/MensRights07/01/21 06:50 PM
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" Now sure, if "far right" here means white nationalism and similar things then maybe you can make an argument that it's okay if people with those views feel disenfranchised. However, I get the feeling r/MensLib defines "far right" much more broadly. " Far right, from this group, means any opinion that is not derived from mainstream feminism ie women=good men=bad. If you don't subscribe to that underlying tenant then you are "far right", even if you agree with the basic premise that women also h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/20 06:55 PM
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Because...you know...it's not possible for men to have complete filling relationships with their female life partners AND also have deep friendships with their male friends at the same time. Basically as men we aren't capable of that according to them. We have to devote all time and energy to women. How f*$^@ narcissistic is that...but of course, as men, we have known this for our entire lives. Almost no women have ever been completely ok with men having close male friendships. It's generally a …
/r/MensRights23/12/20 06:25 PM
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I just want to get this straight. She's admitted to being an abuser, admitted to insigating, admitted to being horrible, he's got eyewitnesses and video proving this...but HE gets removed. Feminism at it's finest gents. Watch yourselves.
/r/MensRights22/12/20 09:00 PM
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Dating was a big part of it for me too. Also, when I broke up with my ex I realized how toxic the relationship was. In big part that was due to what women now expect and I just had my eyes closed to all of it and thought I was legitimately at fault for everything. My therapist, who was also our relationship counselor at the end of the relationship, who was also a woman, helped me see otherwise. She helped me see that I wasn't at fault for almost any of what happened and from there my eyes starte…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/20 11:25 PM
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Exactly. This is one of my main issues. If we want to examine masculine concepts and how they play into poor behavior in men, that's fine. It's also fair. But we should be able to do the same with women. But it's not allowed. Only men are allowed to be ripped to shreds. I really think that if we could call out women for their behavioral issues society at large would realize many of the so called problems within masculinity aren't actual problems with men or masculinity, they are general societal…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/20 07:28 PM
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You literally described me and where I am to a T. I might be slightly more in the camp that feminism is a bit more insidious, at least it is now, but other than that this is me. Respect.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/20 08:28 PM
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Sadly, don't hold your breath
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/20 08:26 PM
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I'm not left wing, I'm centrist/left leaning. I used to be HARD CORE conservative years ago. At a certain point I wanted to open myself up to other points of view with regards to where I got my news sources etc. I wanted to know what the left was saying on certain issues so I starting reading other publications I felt were left leaning. It really opened me up to things I had not considered and that was where the dominos started to fall from the right leaning aspects of many of my positions. I st…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/20 06:59 PM
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I honestly don't hold this against most of your garden variety feminists. They've been brainwashed by society and never been challenged on their views. When they are, their knee jerk reaction is to assume that the men standing up are part of the "patriarchy" We just need to keep speaking out and doing so in a calm manner. Eventually it will break through once people start realize what a ridiculous fever pitch feminism is reaching now. It will take time and patience but we have to have that if we…
/r/MensRights11/12/20 05:28 PM
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and that the vast majority of women are law-abiding decent people I've noticed that when you aren't talking about gender relations, with women, and simply bring up how horrible women are in many respects, backstabbing, gossipy, etc etc they generally agree. So many women hate hanging out with other women because of how toxic they are. They don't deny it until...you bring men in any way into the equation. Then women are the angels of the earth.
/r/MensRights03/12/20 07:32 PM
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Good. Enjoy not using plumbing ever again...wonder where she'll stash her excrement...
/r/MensRights30/11/20 11:06 PM
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Your experience in LTRs describes me to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:14 PM
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I was raised in a very Christian household. Was not allowed to watch PG-13 movies as a kid even. Any sex scene my eyes were covered, if I was even allowed to watch a movie that might have one. I definitely can tell you it did affect my relationships. I'm not as generally affectionate and initiating sex is still quite difficult for me. Also, even talking to or hitting on women when I'm single is VERY difficult. Part of that may also be my more introverted personality but the religious environment…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 08:56 PM
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"I only date women who fundamentally understand that women are trash. I only date women smart enough to understand that statement isn't an individual indictment on them but on toxic feminism and sexism as a whole. I don't date stupid women." Yea that would go over well lol. Guys, avoid women like this like the plague. Educate your buddies to do so as well. If there weren't so many absolute doormats for men that are willing to literally bow down to these women they wouldn't be propagating these t…
/r/MensRights18/11/20 04:50 PM
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Happy US day gents!
/r/MensRights18/11/20 04:47 PM
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Because society is mostly against men's right. It's a representation of society's attitude.
/r/MensRights13/11/20 05:13 PM
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Good for you. I happen to be lucky enough to have found a woman that wants true fairness and is open and willing to see what modern feminism is doing to society and men. True needle in a haystack. But if I had not found her I'd be single by choice for sure. And with regards to men bowing down, It's sad but true. I have several friends in their 30s that have given in and drank the man hating koolaid. It's sad, especially when they vehemently attack you for simply pointing out that men don't have …
/r/MensRights12/11/20 07:25 PM
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The silent ignore is completely right. Don't say it's what you're doing. Just do it. Keeps you safe from all avenues.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 07:01 PM
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I actually have told a woman who was constantly interrupting me to stop talking and it did actually feel wonderful. I work in semi customer service, was talking to a client on the phone about an issue, and I listened to her her without interrupting for about 5 minutes. The SECOND I start explaining the situation and what I can do...BOOM first interruption. I stop, listen to her, then start to speak again. BOOM second interruption almost immediately. This same exact back and forth went on for abo…
/r/MensRights29/10/20 03:41 PM
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It COULD be a hobby but based on how deep she says it went, and the fact that he'd never been like this with anything else, seems to indicate there could be a very strong change of some sort of problem. I get obsessive about things, but I've always been like that. It's my personality and nature. If her words are accurate, it isn't his. Saying there may be a problem based on the info provided isn't going against men in any way. I think people need to chill on this post.
/r/MensRights28/10/20 04:43 PM
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I fail to see how any of these are bad things. Not being physically strong, being sentimental, and not being assertive aren't necessarily bad things either. It just appears that feminism wants to turn men into subordinates. They want men to not be able to control their own lives and to be subordinate to others. That's what this says. Terrible. Let people be who they want to be to a point. If they want to be assertive, so what? If they want to be strong, so what? If they want to be unsentimental,…
/r/MensRights28/10/20 04:40 PM
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"women only bring up women's issues to undermine men, you don't actually care about women" Women would lose their SHIZ
/r/MensRights27/10/20 06:31 PM
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" But when asked men seem to think that women who are upfront are only doing so for lack of better options & not because they are genuinely interested in them in particular. " Who says this? I've literally NEVER heard any guy say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:14 PM
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Yep. They would chastise the husband bare minimum because when you are married you are "supposed" to take on and help your spouses finances. Yet when the genders are reversed it's emotional labor and women should be paid for it...It's getting laughably stupid at this point.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 04:52 PM
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Welcome to what modern feminism has done to society. It's not just women. It's many men too. I can't tell you how many ex friends literally tried to tear me a new a#$hole when I started noticing this stuff and voicing it. They've been brainwashed right along with women.
/r/MensRights14/10/20 04:28 PM
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Should women who do this be punished HARSHLY? Of course. But prison for life? Is this post a joke? That's ridiculous. Having your name tarnished and being in PRISON UNTIL YOU DIE are two completely different things and are not even close to being equal and fair. The punishment should be equal. This isn't.
/r/MensRights14/10/20 04:26 PM
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It's a combination of things. First, it's an evolutionary holdover, like many things. Also, see modern feminism.
/r/MensRights13/10/20 06:20 PM
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Anything that goes with gender roles is now toxic masculinity. It's stupid. Boys can't like boy stuff anymore. Girls can like everything. Men are being villainized.
/r/MensRights13/10/20 06:18 PM
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It's a mixed bag. Yes of course it exists, I've heard it myself (I'm a man). However, the SJW feminist crowd has begun labelling any time a man says anything, or explains anything (even if it's not demonstrative or demeaning) as mansplaining. It's crossed a line to the point that I tend to just roll my eyes and discount the phrase all together when it's used, which sucks because men do do it. This is my reaction now though because the vast majority of the time it's just being used now to shut me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 07:50 PM
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Wow, this is amazing. Very succinctly put.
/r/MensRights09/10/20 07:04 PM
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This is a much needed discussion. I couldn't upvote this more. I was borderline incel in college, before it became a dirty insult. Most incels have social or mental issues, and if they don't, they are slow starters. Why they have become the object of ridicule is beyond my understanding. As you say, if women have these types of issues and society bagged on them people would be getting figuratively beheaded by society. But it's totally ok to kick men when they are down. This isn't equality in the …
/r/MensRights09/10/20 07:03 PM
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Newsflash, this is the case for BOTH sexes whether you want to see it or not. Men can't change that either. Most men aren't attracted to overweight women. Yet it doesn't stop the whole "fat girls need love too" comments. Or "you should look past the weight to the person underneath" comments. Doubt you have an issue with those comments based on some things in your post. The situations ARE symmetrical. Neither sex can wholesale change what they are attracted to. Both sexes are allowed to be attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:17 PM
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Ummmm I hope you don't mean forcefully?
/r/MensRights08/10/20 05:07 PM
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Yea if I was single, and well off, I would get a vasectomy and bank my sperm. That way I have control of my financial and family destiny. Not some rando.
/r/MensRights07/10/20 10:35 PM
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This is most women tbh. Most will NEVER admit that it is unfair that men have no say. They have complete power when it comes to children and they know it...and they don't want to give it up either. It's not a matter of equality for them. It's a matter of control and power.
/r/MensRights07/10/20 06:52 PM
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Like douchebags? I'm down, totally fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:09 PM
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As bad as I think the lie is, I disagree. Jail time equal to what males get for the crime, yes. Sex offender? I think that's overboard since they didn't actually do anything sexual and that shit stays on records and affects one's whole life. If we don't want men who shouldn't be on that list on it, then we should do the same for women. You should only be on that list if you did something sexual and egregious, that goes for everyone.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 06:28 PM
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Men cheating = abuse Men exposing women cheating = abuse Men = Historically abusive slave masters I'm seeing a pattern with modern feminism. Men are bad, women are innocent and good. I don't even talk to feminists about gender relations anymore. I just change the subject. It's not worth the headache with most of them.
/r/MensRights30/09/20 09:51 PM
3

This is what modern feminism has done to society. It's not about equality, it's about revenge.
/r/MensRights30/09/20 06:02 PM
1

Men love dates bc they can see women and pressure them into sex. I'm seeing a pattern. And that pattern is that you are your own problem. There are lots of guys out there that don't do this at all. Painting all men as some borderline rapists is wrong. If those are the guys that you end up dating then YOU are the problem. You suck at choosing men. Your taste in men is your problem, not men themselves. Maybe you staying single is for the best. You clearly have a problem with men and you are helpin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:17 PM
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What would I get out of going out w men for free? So you're a prostitute then? You realize what you are saying right? What does coming to an orgasm have to do with splitting a date bill? So because you might not orgasm from sex, he has to pay? Seriously? Your time and attention is a favor? You've got to be a dude just saying the most ludicrous things just trying to make women look bad, because if you aren't it's no wonder you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:32 PM
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If it's SPLIT, which means evenly, how is ANYONE getting more out of it? This makes no sense. On another note, I'm SHOCKED to see that a woman is down for a free meal ticket, and that's the main determiner to considering going out with a dude /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 08:51 PM
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It's harder for women to meet men after 30 because of the way the sexes place "value." A lot of men place value on young women. Many don't have interest in dating women over 30 because of potential baggage. Also, I could be wrong on this, but many women who are single over probably dated around a lot. A lot of guys aren't accepting of that. Right or wrong it seems they aren't. Women place value on guys that are a bit older. They are more settled, more mature, etc. Young women and a guys a few ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:18 PM
2

Men who are independent and confident wouldn't care about the possibility of being cheated on. They'd just handle it if/when it happened and move on. This is PARTIALLY true. No one, even the most confident men, wants to invest themselves in a person who is going to end up cheating and going outside the accepted norms of a typical relationship. It becomes a waste of your time potentially. Not entirely but that element is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:13 PM
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No, it should be split unless both parties agree that one is paying like adults. Why is this so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:05 PM
1

Lawyer up. That's a big lawsuit. They hired you knowing you would and could do that job. Why the sudden change? They didn't say you did anything wrong and the lady that trained you brought up gender twice. LAWSUIT.
/r/MensRights24/09/20 06:32 PM
3

My main takeaway is you should NOT be talking about this with anyone at work. ESPECIALLY a woman. You are giving them complete power over you and your future. I wouldn't even tell dudes. If for some reason they don't like you or want to beat you out for a promotion, and they're an (insert profanity here), you're screwed there too. You got lucky that management had your back. You may not be so lucky in the future. Keep a lid on this info. Not worth the potential ramifications.
/r/MensRights21/09/20 04:42 PM
6

This is not just a simple "oh we just disagree on this minor issue" It's a dig on men. He's a man. He doesn't like it. He expressed it. She CLEARLY doesn't care or even try and see it from his side. That is FAR worse than just a disagreement. It's a red flag. A giant one.
/r/MensRights18/09/20 10:29 PM
5

Wait. Does this roommate still live with you? If she does it deserves a convo and ask for it to be taken down. It's someone else's and if it was there prior to you that's common courtesy. Express your dislike of it first. BUT...if the roommate doesn't live there anymore than this is how your gf feels as well. And the fact that she made no effort to see it from your side is a RED FLAG. A red flag SCREAMING for you to leave the relationship. At that point she doesn't even respect you. Respect your…
/r/MensRights18/09/20 10:28 PM
5

You could probably look up any terrorists attack. They generally say something to the effect of "31 people killed, including 9 women" I'm sure you can find hundreds of them.
/r/MensRights17/09/20 10:23 PM
2

LMAO
/r/MensRights10/09/20 07:35 PM
1

Go full crazy feminist. Take every one of her opinions to the next completely and utterly ridiculous level. And do it like you mean it and believe it. It has to be ridiculous but you have to also be dead serious. Make them actually think about what they believe.
/r/MensRights08/09/20 06:37 PM
2

Sorry for your loss man
/r/MensRights08/09/20 06:35 PM
5

Nothing that comes out of that sub surprises me. Their whole philosophy does not revolve around actual equality. They even say it. I just scroll on by if I see any posts from them. Most women don't even agree with their toxic arguments if you ask them and get an honest answer.
/r/MensRights03/09/20 03:35 PM
2

"A broke man is like a broke hand, can't do nothin with it." I laughed and cried inside at the same time :/
/r/MensRights02/09/20 04:34 PM
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Everything is the fault of men. It's modern feminism. Get used to it :/
/r/MensRights02/09/20 04:32 PM
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So men falsely accusing women of rape is a problem and should be avoided. Women falsely accusing men of rape shouldn't be an issue for men because it's such a "small number?" WTF...
/r/MensRights02/09/20 04:28 PM
1

" why do you guys support "men's rights?" what rights dont you think men have?" Why do we support men's rights? Really? Are you seriously asking that question? Why do you support women's rights? Because there are legitimate issues that affect women, right? So why wouldn't men support their own rights? Honestly, I can't fathom how you could even ask that question except for your tone, which seems to suggest you think men's issues are not important. Also, what rights don't we have? How about the r…
/r/MensRights24/08/20 11:30 PM
1

So are they saying the issues on the man's side are not legitimate? False rape accusations shouldn't be worried about? Cheating shouldn't be worried about if the cheater is a woman? Really? If those things were happening to women it would be on their list...
/r/MensRights24/08/20 11:05 PM
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Because this sub is a threat to women gaining power OVER men. That is Feminism's aim now, whether the majority of feminists want to admit it or not.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 11:28 PM
1

She said ALL men. They shouldn't be offended but they also shouldn't be around someone who HATES ALL OF THEM just because of their gender. If a man said he hated ALL women...they'd be offended.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 05:15 PM
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Unless they are chubby chasers, which is a small minority, most men do not find overweight or fat women attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:13 PM
1

You should have asked "How is supporting the rights of one group equal to being AGAINST the rights of another? They aren't mutually exclusive."
/r/MensRights14/08/20 11:32 PM
2

Oh I guess they forgot about the boy scouts...
/r/MensRights14/08/20 11:30 PM
2

Honestly that sub is a toxic hive of radical feminists. How could anyone aside from a toxic radical feminist say that someone helping poor kids, regardless of gender, is an asshole.
/r/MensRights18/03/20 04:35 PM
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How can anyone not think men are being openly discriminated against at this point?
/r/MensRights17/03/20 05:57 PM
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*shrugs because it's true* upvote If more men started not accepting the behavior, it would stop happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 05:40 PM
4

My gf says I'm a unicorn because I was looking to get into a relationship instead of casual sex. She says that was mostly her experience for a while. All my guy friends want a relationship. So who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 05:36 PM
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Trans women are only women when it doesn't work against them. If it does...they are men. Hence women's track and field participants are trying to ban transgender women because...they say they are actually men and it's not fair. But God forbid you ever say that. You'll get lynched because if they identify as a woman they are.
/r/MensRights16/03/20 08:12 PM
1

Nothing is black and white. Actually you are wrong, there are plenty of things in this world that are black and white. You'd have to be blind not to recognize that. Of course plenty of things are grey. But there are absolutely black and white issues in the world. Yes, there are differences between men and women. However, psychologically, women vary greatly from each other, just as men vary greatly from each other. I never said there weren't variations between men and women. Can you quote me sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:28 PM
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It's not incoherent at all. Read the sentences. Basically I'm saying that maybe that's what the OP is saying but they are wrong. Women do NOT look past it and some reasons I think that they don't. It's all there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:09 PM
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But I just really don't see that the anti-marriage hysteria is justified. I wouldn't call it hysteria but it is justified. What's in marriage for men anymore? Many men end up in dead bedrooms. And as a man, you lose all of your power over yourself and your own financial freedom once you marry. I mean that in the sense of if you have kids, she owns you. If you get divorced she is taking a great deal of what you make in alimony and child support. You have a better chance of that not happening if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:27 PM
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Ok but that's bullshit. How many women leave their men, or create an extremely negative household if their men get laid off. That's BS but maybe that is what the OP was saying. ALL women care about being financially secure/successful. It may not be the number one thing on every woman's list but they all care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:19 PM
1

Ummmm except men a higher percentage of violent crimes victims committed by strangers....
/r/MensRights12/03/20 11:48 PM
1

Well this question is a bias bomb if I've ever seen one lol. There are plenty of men who look inward. Maybe you surround yourself with shitty men? I've also known plenty of women in my life that NEVER take responsibility for their actions either. Both sexes have people that are selfish and ignorant. Not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:23 PM
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Men have far more to risk. Men lose power over themselves and their lives every time they entrench themselves further into a relationship with a woman. I'm not saying this as necessarily a bad thing, if men are ok with the tradeoff. But men have far more to risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:19 PM
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with MGTOW as a philosophy. The issue is some MGTOW men are extremely jaded, so much so that they do make comments like this that cause women and white knights to associate anyone that is red pilled with that mentality and way of speaking.
/r/MensRights10/03/20 11:15 PM
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Yep, legal advice and file a formal complaint against the company. HR is supposed to listen to that to make a proper determination. It's discrimination if they don't and automatically believe her.
/r/MensRights10/03/20 09:12 PM
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I think what is the most baffling to me is they act as if they don't have the right to an abortion. They do. It's legal. The Supreme Court has upheld it. So when they say it would totally be legal of men could get pregnant, maybe, but so what? It's legal now. It's a stupid argument. Or when women say men are stopping them from having an abortion. No. No we're not. You can get one. Legally. Stop it. Edit: Also, we don't have any reproductive rights. We don't have the right to opt out of raising a…
/r/MensRights09/03/20 10:13 PM
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Do it and post the results. I'm legitimately curious what would happen. You'd probably go viral, and not because people loved it.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 09:04 PM
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Yea it's becoming more acceptable in male circles to discuss this stuff. It wasn't before because you didn't want some dope going home and telling his SO/wife and then BAM you're all sexists. I shudder to think what will happen once more and more men speak openly about it to women.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 09:03 PM
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I think the red pillers are upset at the double standard. The double standard that it is perfectly fine for women to filter men by height and everyone excuses it as a preferences. No one criticizes women for it generally. However, as a man, if you say you don't want an overweight partner, you are generally chastised for it as being judgmental and not loving someone for who they are. Also, I think people in general don't like being filtered for something they can't control, like height. But men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:50 PM
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This, this post is a prime example of why I and so many men are so careful about the types of women we interact with now. Tell me especially if you're a woman reading this post can you actually blame us? If they look at it honestly, the can't. It's the very same reason they are afraid of us on the streets. The problem is that they want to force us to interact with them on the level that many of us do not want to now because it's "unfair." Well stop making false accusations and we won't have any …
/r/MensRights06/03/20 10:28 PM
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I got downvoted to oblivion for making a comment on gender roles. People can't handle the truth lol
/r/MensRights06/03/20 10:18 PM
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Welcome to what men have dealt with since forever...
/r/MensRights06/03/20 07:50 PM
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Yep. And it's not just that. It's a horrific double standard. They are doing "unpaid labor" when listening to their SO's. We're doing what we're supposed to in a relationship when we listen to their issues. How they work out the logic behind that is beyond me.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 07:24 PM
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I had a mild experience like this last night. Got on the elevator to leave work and a lone woman walks in after I was already there. She looks at me quickly. I didn't look back. And she then proceeds to stand as far in the corner as possible, purposely facing her shoulder to me. It was ridiculous. It looked ridiculous. She was clearly standing so far in the corner to stay away from me, but had angled herself in such a way that she could see me from her peripheral. I don't know if she's had bad e…
/r/MensRights06/03/20 05:28 PM
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This is how most relationships are, in my experience. They want us to be able to express our emotions and not be "toxic" and bottle them up. The problem is, it's only the emotions that benefit them that they want us to show. Anything else, and BAM they're out.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 05:20 PM
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But also, men, remember that if she has insecurities and things she needs to take care of, you are absolutely responsible for validating her and listening, because that's what a relationship is. She should be free of unpaid labor. You should have to shoulder that same unpaid labor without complaint. /s
/r/MensRights06/03/20 05:18 PM
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This on so many levels. I was just going to type all this out but now I don't have to lol. I would add a few things though OP. I obviously don't know the situation but spending time with friends is normal and healthy. We all have a tendency to shut out friends at the beginning of a relationship. Almost, with a few exceptions (friends who strictly enforce boundaries from the start of a relationship), every guy and girl I know does this. As you get confident in the strength of your relationship yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:12 PM
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and the reason they do is because men ruthlessly selected for beautiful women, for millennia on end, and pressured women to get prettier and prettier for our benefit (at first beauty corresponded to fertility, but eventually it became kind of its own thing). Yes and no. Did men play a role? Yes absolutely. I think it ALL comes back to signs of fertility. The more beautiful the woman, the better the genes. That reaction is innate in us. Just as women tend to go for taller, fitter guys who also ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:04 PM
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What's sick is that she immediately went to rape when she had no arguments. The idea that rapists are male is so prevalent that it's getting to be a real problem. Someone posted a study on sexual perpetrators being women. https://webshare.law.ucla.edu/Faculty/bibs/stemple/Stemple-SexualVictimizationPerpetratedFinal.pdf The article comes to the conclusion that women perpetrators are far more likely than previously thought. However, even then, part of the final conclusion is disturbing. " We call …
/r/MensRights06/03/20 12:14 AM
1

They want to make their own money, and keep it for themselves...and have you take care of them still. Find the 39% who want to split gentlemen.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 09:39 PM
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Regardless of what ANYONE says here. You need to be a provider. END OF STORY. No matter what any woman says she accepts, they are outliers. They want a provider whether they realize it or not. No matter how independent they are, and no matter what they make. Research bears that fact out. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201909/is-there-shortage-men-worth-marrying https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/dating/marriage-rates-decline-reason-economically-attractive-men-j…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:01 PM
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Yes I have and I always appreciate the gesture. OP I'm curious though, how you would feel if your date accepted your offer to split? You say you always know they will turn down your offer, but what if they didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:50 PM
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One is not worse than the other. They are both pieces of shit. Equal shit. Never ok to cheat. And I would NEVER take a cheater back. I know several cheaters and it changes you once you cheat. It gets easier and easier for them to do and justify/excuse. The old adage once a cheater always a cheater is true in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:49 PM
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Anyone and everyone can be indoctrinated into something. I never hold that against someone. I was indoctrinated into conservative politics. I got out of that years ago but won't let myself get indoctrinated into liberalism either. The point is is that you recognized it. Good for you! Most people don't ever make the realization and go on thinking the things they feel are based in fact, but it's actually based in FEELING. Welcome to the other side of the fence. Glad to have you here!
/r/MensRights03/03/20 06:17 PM
6

I don't know if you heard me counting but I did over 1000
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 12:33 AM
1

White males have become the scapegoat of society.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 11:36 PM
0

Bake em with xlax next time.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 11:44 PM
6

Translation: physical appearance standards that are beyond control, obedience to her perceived Master-like superiority complex, gold digger, toxic and controlling
/r/MensRights28/02/20 07:45 PM
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It wasn't presumptive though. She literally stated the reason she goes dutch. There's no presuming involved if she actually states it. And so it shows bias. So what? Bias does not equal excitement. Nor does it mean I think the two are mutually exclusive. It just means I have a bias. As do you. As does everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:00 PM
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You don't know me. Don't put thoughts in my head. Of course I think they are important. But in my industry it's a fine line that could get you out of a job real quick if you speak up on these sorts of things. I'd rather support myself with what I love for the time being. Enjoy your high horse though.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:36 PM
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Excited? lol how exactly did I seem excited? You definitely seem excited to put me down for your incorrect perception of me being "excited." Of course they aren't mutually exclusive. I never said they were. Can you quote me where I said that? I'll wait. In fact, I only said that she was a perfect example of the OP's point. The only reason she gave for going dutch was EXACTLY what the quote said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:33 PM
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I'm so sorry for your experience. NO ONE should have to go through that. I think the main reason I came to men's rights was because you aren't allowed to address the double standard society has with women. Men have some privileges but they are slowly disappearing. I'm glad there are women like yourself out there who see through it and understand what men go through. It's not all privilege and roses on this side of the fence. And you did the right thing with your friends. They aren't worth your t…
/r/MensRights28/02/20 12:44 AM
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Have you ever tried to actually lobby for men's rights? The hatred received is downright criminal. Shoot even stating that men's rights need to be addressed will get you verbally lynched by many people. Why go through it. I rarely say anything outside of a small friends groups about men's rights. I would assume that most guys, probably don't find it worth it in relation to the backlash they will inevitably get. Plus, society holds women on a pedestal. Not men. Society only cares about men with r…
/r/MensRights28/02/20 12:39 AM
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I'm a man and not a feminist. Fair enough. There are plenty of bright women in the men's rights movement: Karen Straughan, Janice Fiamengo, et al. I've heard of them. Never said there weren't women involved. I just think the idea that men are what is holding themselves back is not entirely accurate. Maybe proportionally even more women than there are men in the militant feminist movement. The lack of the success of the MRM seems to depend on a lack of support from the male population. Why do you…
/r/MensRights27/02/20 11:21 PM
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Fair enough. Would we be in agreement if we said they are exceedingly rare? I guess? I don't know how many men have had my experience so I would say at this point I have no reason to believe it's a regular occurrence. That sounds horrible, sorry man. I hope you have stronger boundaries now and know your worth that you deserve back what you put in to a relationship. Oh yea my boundaries took a GIANT swing in the opposite direction. Found a great woman who respects them too, and reciprocates what …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:05 PM
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Then like that person said, you have no current basis for this post if you can't even produce other comments that you say exist on this sub. Like why would you think the majority of men think this way if you can't produce any actual evidence that ANY men think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:03 PM
1

a large number of men who are the most active here Link for examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:57 PM
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Where are these mythical women who just lay around and expect palm leaf fan downs while men drool over them? Every woman I've ever dated puts a shit ton of effort into looking good (for me, the date ), being her best self (to interest me, the date ), being good company (to impress me, the date ), being interesting, etc. They work hard to be attractive to guys they actually like. My ex is one. Literally did NONE of the things on your list for our entire relationship, which lasted YEARS. Years too…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:52 PM
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Congrats, you just verified that women pay so they don't OWE the man something like sex. It's not to be fair, it's only to protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:49 PM
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Who says ONLY women should be thin? Or ONLY expect women to be thing? Literally have never heard that from a guy. If they do it's a stupid double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:45 PM
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Would not feel offended at all. Actually would be refreshed someone cared enough to ask. When I was single I had a recent check ready to go just in case someone did ask. didn't have the paperwork with me but had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:44 PM
1

You'd think that women would notice a man changing the kids diapers, not a woman, and appreciate it considering they always complain that men don't help take care of the kids. But no, all they can think about is themselves.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 06:08 PM
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And that’s why we have descriptions. Not my problem if people dont read beyond the title. Yes, but I also explained why your description was not clear either. Are you even trying to comprehend what I'm saying at this point? Or are you just purposely being obtuse? You came here to ask men a question and are being extremely difficult and condescending when someone simply asked for clarification on what you meant because it wasn't clear in your post title or your description. At this point you real…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:58 PM
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Are you really asking if MEN are the ones not capable of empathy towards other men? Are you a feminist? Legitimately asking. It really sounds like your question is coming from the perspective of someone brainwashed by mainstream feminism. Most men do support their own gender...under the table. We rarely say anything outwardly though because you are lynched if you do. Society has told us that we aren't allowed to talk about our issues. We are privileged. We don't have problems. We have all the po…
/r/MensRights25/02/20 06:17 PM
1

No, no it's not. Believing it just because YOU know what you meant does not mean it's clear for EVERYONE else what you meant by "why can't boyfriends enjoy my company without demanding sex." That in itself is far too general for anyone to know what you are specifically asking. Men, contrary to women's apparent believe, do not read minds. YOU HAD NO CLARIFICATION. You could be saying anything regarding what you do or don't want regarding sex is the point I'm trying to make. We don't know what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:04 PM
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So you absolutely don't have to date anyone that isn't willing to wait to have sex until you are ready. And you can also tell them you want to wait, and enforce that. They may not want to and move on though. You also clearly understand that guys want sex so I don't need to go down that rabbit whole of questions. So I'll respond to your second reply. " I did. Of course they want sex. Never said that was the problem. Thing is: Their relationships weren’t/aren’t dependent on sex." This isn't clarif…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:37 PM
1

So many stupid rules governing what is and isn't "manly." As a guy, I've literally never had anyone say to me what is or isn't manly. Never said it to anyone. And never heard it said to anyone either. I don't know where this shit comes from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:08 PM
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Guys are wired differently. And honestly, as a guy, I will agree that a lot of guys are truly pathetic and do let their dicks rule their actions. That being said, I'm curious what exactly you mean by "wanting a boyfriend who's not thinking with his boner 24/7"? Like you want to wait to have sex? You want to be able to not have sex with them at all? You'll need to clarify what exactly you mean by that statement for anyone to truly answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:22 AM
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That's interesting and I had never heard that before now. For sure they will still say it to anyone of age though. I hear it all the time with adults to adults. I wonder why they would not do that for kids but continue to enforce the mindset between adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 12:28 AM
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Good. There aren't many feminists I've met out there that hold to that stance for both sides.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 10:13 PM
2

Also, I would say abortion. If a woman decides she can't have the baby, legally she can terminate the pregnancy, up to a point, and not have the financial or otherwise responsibilities of being a parent. Guys are afforded no such rights. If he can't afford a kid, or doesn't want one, and she decides she does...he gets NO say and is forced to bare minimum pay a significant portion of his wages for 18 years. He can't opt out.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 09:52 PM
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If anyone tells a dude to man up they won't get ostracized. In fact many women enforce the "man up" culture as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:40 PM
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The only thing feminism has done for men is to largely make them villains, simply because they have a dick. It hasn't "freed" men from anything. The only men that are adapting well to feminism are the ones that accept and fall in line with modern feminism's view on men...that there is something wrong with us BECAUSE we are male, and that we all need fixing to whatever women's standards are or should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:52 PM
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Women are making more money than men under 30 and going to college at a greater rate. This means it's hard for women to find a high value man around their age. I'm curious as to what you consider a hvm? Someone who makes more money than their female SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:47 PM
1

Was coming here to point that out as well! The word CAN is insulting
/r/MensRights11/02/20 05:34 PM
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That means society is telling me I'm a fucking dumbass in comparison to the man who should have known, when in reality we both knew and should either both be held responsible or both be given leniency. Or society is telling you that you aren't responsible for your actions, but men are. Either way it's not good. I appreciated your post. Thank you for your objectivity.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 07:29 PM
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Easy answer...never. That would be admitting they were wrong about a woman.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 07:19 PM
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All of society minimized it? All of society dismissed it? Really? Get out of here with that bs. That's a gross overexaggeration and you know it. Furthermore, it was a he said she said where one party stated one thing, and another party said the opposite. The case was taken seriously, as it should have been, by officers, the DA, the judge etc. And it was thrown out for multiple reasons. Sorry but those are the FACTS. It was all over the news at the time too so not sure what dismissal you are talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:45 PM
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You're probably right to a degree on most of this for many guys but video games aren't a "real" hobby? WTF kind of statement is that. Yes they are. Hobby definition is: an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure. Sounds like video games to me. Just because you don't like them doesn't mean they aren't a hobby. And you realize that most men under 40 now literally grew up playing video games right? Get over it. Men play them. That being said, again, many guys just do video games …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:59 PM
3

and don't normalize their behavior, that's all. Who normalizes abusers and rapists? How exactly do they do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:31 PM
1

Of course you can. It's just most people aren't capable of it because they have an innate sense that advocating for one also means that you have to slander the other in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:30 PM
2

We have a say in Mexico. "Each one talks about the party the way it went for them". My experience with MGTOW was pretty negative, and the second I tried to point a problem with an argument there I was downvoted and ridiculed. It's actually the only subreddit in which I have overall negative karma. Well that sucks. Sorry to hear that. I think in general, many forums online tend to become echo chambers after a while. If you point out something rational that goes against the group think you get sla…
/r/MensRights01/02/20 12:22 AM
3

I'm ambivalent towards MensLib. In one hand it attempts to be a positive space and is good at keeping hate at bay, but on the other hand it has a built-in refusal to acknowledge that sometimes men get the short end of the stick without fault of their own. Fair. I don't think they are entirely without merit. I do like some of what they say. I just don't like the main driver of their perspective. And feminism as a driver of their perspective does lead them to some silly conclusions about gender an…
/r/MensRights01/02/20 12:04 AM
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I'd honestly prefer neither. I like this sub the way it is. MensLib is a feminist neutered version of Men's Rights. While I agree with some of their arguments, the core of their movement is rooted in feminism. I just can't support modern feminism.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 11:45 PM
1

Why aren't there any subs of men being amazing and likable? So because you don't see these types of subs obviously likable and amazing men don't exist? Is that what you are saying? How about r/AskMen or r/HumansBeingBros. Those are just a few. In fact there are stories all over social media about good men doing good things. They just aren't shared widely because the prevailing opinion that society is beginning to adopt with regards to men is now the one you yourself seem to espouse. That they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:50 PM
2

Men are dangerous. That's incredibly sexist. As a whole they are not. SOME men are. SOME women are. SOME people are. As a whole, no single gender or race etc is dangerous. Go take your man bashing elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:35 PM
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No one is obligated to do anything they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:32 PM
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So you DID get the point? Then it wasn't a poor example. I was only using that because the previous poster mentioned the boy scouts. I don't know why you are so on about it when it's just an example, which you admittedly understood the point of.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:58 PM
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I'm not saying you would ACTUALLY want to. I'm just illustrating the double standard of men not being allowed to enter women only spaces and what you are met with if you even suggest it.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:35 PM
1

Without seeing what you wrote I really can't advise you but I can say not to let it get you down. Don't let it lose confidence in yourself. The anonymity of the internet, and reddit, lets people say the most vile and ridiculous things with impunity. You have to look at it in the sense that those women have problems. Problems that are manifesting themselves in harassing you for simple question. What I will say is if you think there is something there with this girl, ask her for her number. If she…
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:33 PM
4

Looks like it was banned.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:06 PM
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Yep. But just try and MENTION getting boys into girl scouts and you will be lynched.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:05 PM
2

Of course they are. Society is biased towards blue-pilled ideas in general. Try to talk about men's rights, and I'm not talking about misogyny, just about how men do not have it as good as women say we do and that we aren't actually equal or privileged in many respects, with anyone outside of people you already know that lean towards these views and see what happens. You generally receive a verbal castration. If you're lucky you might get an eye roll. Reddit, in general, seems to be an extreme m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:43 PM
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Modern feminism is. You can see it in how men are treated on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:35 PM
1

I'm not the above poster but I'm fine with FDS from the perspective that they have a right to do those things and say what they want as long as it isn't advocating violence. Do I agree with FDS, hell no, am I fine with that page existing and them being able to voice their opinions etc. Sure. That's why MGTOW getting removed is a double standard and it's further proof that men are slowly having their equality removed due to modern feminism and society's view that women are beyond reproach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:32 PM
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I understand there's another mgtow sub that is better moderated though so they should be able to go there. There's another one?
/r/MensRights31/01/20 06:38 PM
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I still think that feminism is going the way of stripping men of any dignity or space for themselves. MGTOW may have had some bad apples but I think if men don't stand up for themselves that at some point all of our spaces will be gone.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 06:20 PM
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I didn't realize they were doing that in that large of numbers. I agree there was some toxicity there, as there is in every group, but I had no clue it was large enough of a number to get quarantined.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 06:18 PM
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Men Going Their Own Way. It's basically men removing themselves from the dating pool and choosing to not be in relationships. They quarantined the sub reddit and that generally leads to being removed.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 05:42 PM
1

The reasoning behind why people do or do not make choices doesn't negate the fact that it is a choice. You have the choice to lose the weight or not. In the end it's as simple as that. You can overcome whatever adversity you have and CHOOSE to lose the weight, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:56 PM
1

They aren't uncomfortable enough to change the habits they like, meaning they aren't uncomfortable enough with the way the look to stop eating so damn much. Or they don't have the mental fortitude to do what they know they need to do, which is to stop eating so damn much. And those are the ONLY reasons. It's not actually hard to lose weight unless you have a health condition preventing you from doing so, which most people don't have. The hardest part is the mental part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:50 PM
1

So she: Had her first kid in her teens = poor decision making Had a second kid, presumably with the same guy, while not married then the relationship end = poor decision making having 2 kids with a person that wasn't for you Had a third kid by a second dude all before 28 = poor decision making Second kid potentially may be by a third guy I truly feel sorry for the poor guy that goes for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 07:10 PM
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dOwN wItH tHe PaTrIaRcHy dur dur dur
/r/MensRights30/01/20 07:00 PM
1

There is a very good possibility you are correct and that she will start to either resent you for not being able to take care of her (make more money) or she will lose respect for you. In either situation the relationship very likely won't last. She may be above that but a lot of women end up this way if they make more than their SOs. It's biological. You can't reverse gender norms over night.
/r/MGTOW30/01/20 06:59 PM
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"It has been that way since the days of the akkadians and sumerians." Careful what you wish for with that logic. Because women took care of the kids and worked in the kitchen since then too. Should we tell you to get back in the kitchen where you belong then? I doubt she'd accept that as good logic. Also, she's asking him to grow some balls and be a man. Isn't that what women consider toxic masculinity?
/r/MGTOW30/01/20 06:56 PM
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Dumb or a gold digger. Not a good sign either way.
/r/MGTOW30/01/20 06:51 PM
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Perhaps I am reading too much into this, but I think in context with other positions UN women holds, I think this is reasonable. You're not. I had the SAME exact thought the second I read it. They are indeed making the connection that men are toxic. ALL men. They want to redefine masculinity and what it means to be a man in general. It's a generalized statement. The follow up, the why, is that masculinity is toxic. Because it's following a general statement, they are stating that masculinity, an…
/r/MensRights30/01/20 05:39 PM
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How is an all women team EQUAL representation of men and women exactly? And maybe...just MAYBE men weren't colluding to keep women out, maybe it was mostly men going into that field. Why does everything have to be collusion against women?
/r/MensRights30/01/20 05:30 PM
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Much of this list is based on perspective or is 100% subjective lol
/r/MensRights28/01/20 10:54 PM
8

Yea I don't blame women. Of course they pick that option. It's a win win for them. I blame society for allowing the behavior to flourish, and men for buying into it.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 11:56 PM
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Turns out when you are clear upfront about never marrying and never having more kids than most women aren't interested. Translation: Turns out when you are clear upfront about never wanting to lose the power you have over your own life, most women aren't interested.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 11:42 PM
3

One of the ONLY things I like about living in CA
/r/MensRights27/01/20 11:41 PM
1

I think they key takeaway here is that if you meat a chick that wants to hook up and you know ahead of time that she is in a relationship...don't do it. Walk away. It's to easy now, and getting more prevalent, for the post cheating regretful rape accusation once they get caught cheating. No point putting yourself in the position of having to defend against that.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 06:52 PM
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You're a man and they can't control you. That's all that is needed now, sadly.
/r/MensRights24/01/20 07:11 PM
0

This is why kids are so fucked up nowadays. How are they not supposed to be when their parents view them as labor? Something to get paid to do? Instead of someone they wanted to raise. People just shouldn't be parents if they are thinking of their kids as unpaid labor? Why have them? Is anyone even capable of being responsible for their own actions anymore? This article was truly depressing.
/r/MensRights24/01/20 07:07 PM
0

Don't jump into a relationship at this age. You are young. Enjoy it. If it happens great. Otherwise just enjoy being single. It won't last forever and you WILL miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:53 PM
0

Well then it's ok to assume that every woman is a gold digger. They don't have signs after all and all it takes is one...
/r/MensRights23/01/20 07:00 PM
2

Oh God, she's going to suck the former prince into Scientology. Poor dude.
/r/MGTOW22/01/20 06:11 PM
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I just want to get this straight. A woman in a relationship doesn't want to have sex, the dude should understand it, accept it, and respect her wishes and wait until she wants to. If he cheats because she is repeatedly turning him down, HE'S the jackoff and should be more understanding. If a man in a relationship doesn't want sex, the woman shouldn't accept this? She should just jump on the app and fuck someone else? And that's OK??? The hypocrisy is real. I sincerely hope that FDS doesn't repre…
/r/MGTOW22/01/20 12:29 AM
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I would say it's really up to the woman to decide if you're attractive enough as she won't give you the time of day if she thinks you aren't. But yea mostly it depends on how attractive you are. And definitely #metoo has terrified a lot of men. The idea of getting slapped with a sexual harassment charge for hitting on someone makes it almost not worth it for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:12 PM
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Exactly. I've heard more women cringe at the idea of meeting people IRL. They recoil and think it's creepy for a guy to approach them, and that it's safer to meet people on line. This is very strange to me as I remember dating before OLD. The idea of meeting someone online at that time was creepy because you didn't actually know who you were speaking to. The turnaround has been quite strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:10 PM
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I think when men, average men, talk about struggling in this arena it's almost entirely in reference to OLD. In person is completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:08 PM
1

I legitimately die a little inside for these guys that are okay with, and watching their wives fuck other dudes. It makes me sick. Why get married?
/r/MGTOW16/01/20 08:50 PM
2

Because you can't shake off evolutionary gender roles that quickly. Most women I talk to, even though they are fully capable of taking care of themselves, still want to FEEL taken care of by their partner. Money and physical protection are really the only way men can do this, aside from emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:52 PM
3

Then we'll keep our dicks to ourselves, thank you very much.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 07:40 PM
1

But if he doesn't, and I regret having sex with him later, he's going to jail for rape...
/r/MensRights15/01/20 12:20 AM
2

Pretty much. Do women NOT rate men though? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:08 PM
1

Hot body, average face. Hot body is more likely a person to NOT let themselves go as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:22 PM
1

You know men can and do help raise the children too, right? Would you also say it's acceptable for a woman to say good luck finding men who work, raise kids, and also want to eat you out? No. You'd say if you are in a relationship with a women you should prioritize her sexual needs with the rest of your life, otherwise why are you in a damn relationship? So why not say the same for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:21 PM
1

You are a SAINT. Wish all women thought as you did. Kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:17 PM
2

Cancer? Never said anything about that. I think you were trying to reply to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:00 PM
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ALL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:53 AM
2

Slightly, it has to do with society thinking that men are not capable of being abused by female SOs, which you can easily argue is due to gender roles and them being always thought of as protectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:53 AM
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What this sub needs is balance. Activism AND to be a place to vent. People need to vent and this type of space should be here for that. We obviously can't vent to the rest of society.
/r/MensRights09/01/20 06:32 PM
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Clearly she likes and wants to bone one of the friends. She can strip for him personally any time she wants...in private...
/r/MGTOW08/01/20 07:28 PM
0

My cousin went through almost the exact same thing. Chick's story fell apart under questions and she then admitted there was no sexual harassment whatsoever. They dropped that charge but at that point the damage is done. She had no consequences to making up the sexual harassment charges.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 06:44 PM
2

Because it's the easiest way of deflecting arguments that they realize they can't win...
/r/MensRights08/01/20 06:31 PM
2

She literally described what every woman says is the perfect man...and that wasn't enough. Of course he broke up with her immediately, as he should have. She can't and/or doesn't want to stay truly committed. Why waste any more time?
/r/MGTOW07/01/20 05:44 PM
1

While reading this I was hearing Flight of the Conchords' It's Business Time and waiting for that Chorus lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:10 PM
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The woman you replied to explained what she meant by knowing what her partner is feeling-- it means telling her that he loves her. This on so many levels. Women only want you to show the emotions that benefit them. If it doesn't...man up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:05 PM
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Ah commit a crime and harm him if he doesn't spend money on you. Good ol' feminism influences
/r/MGTOW23/12/19 05:40 PM
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I don't care if women wear leggings to work...as long as their employer allows it in their dress code. If they don't, too bad so sad you have to play by the rules like everyone else. Get another job that allows it if you want to wear them so dang bad.
/r/MensRights23/12/19 05:27 PM
2

I haven't noticed TRP preaching pump and dump that much. Some guys probably do but I don't see that being something that movement itself enforces or preaches. Also I think you are reading into what TRP says about single mothers wrong. They don't hate single mothers, they just don't want to date them and take on the responsibility of someone else's kid. That is a totally fair preference and I don't think any TRPs would be made if women didn't want to date single dads. It's understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:03 PM
1

Yes you are, but not because you tipped for good service. You're a simp because you aren't sure if you are a simp or not.
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 10:00 PM
2

Right?? I've said the same and it's absolutely stupid that they simply couldn't just change the format of girl scouts to match what the boys do. They totally could. They don't want to do the work and they also want to stick it to men for having their own space. And yea if boys wanted to sell cookies in the girl scouts it would be "too bad you sexist little pig, the girls scouts are for GIRLS ONLY REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE"
/r/MensRights18/12/19 09:11 PM
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Why can't women respect the spirit of the boy scouts? Why do they have to invade a historically all male space? Women have to have everything. Same argument. Women should have an all women space...and so should men.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 06:58 PM
2

There is no valid reason for cheating. None. Plain and simple. If someone doesn't like their SO enough to go outside the bounds of their relationship, they should just leave first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:26 PM
2

So afraid of false allegations they don't go out? No, those are a pretty small number of cases statistically from appearances so I don't think your average guy takes that into account. Afraid of divorce? Maybe afraid of divorce rape but I doubt that constitutes a significant number of men not getting married out of that fear. I guess I just don't think a large number of men don't do any of these points for those reasons, however, I do think more men are waking up to some of these things and at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:24 PM
1

Or men in dead marriages. I have a buddy who is currently married to a woman who has cut off sex for years. He is pretty against the idea of marriage but stays because it's to much of a hassle to divorce and they fit together in other ways. Not just MGTOWs anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:20 PM
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Women expect men to protect them even with their lives Yep, had a complete stranger (a woman) literally chastise me for walking on the inner side of the sidewalk when walking with my gf one time. Public sidewalk. What do you want to be she was also a feminist...
/r/MensRights13/12/19 10:42 PM
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Ok....so do they not want us to protect them? I guess if they are equal they should be able to handle themselves.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 10:40 PM
1

Loyal, honest, trustworthy, offers to pay for half, does not need me for validation (has confidence in herself), good communicator, willing to own her shit and admit when she's wrong (I do the same so I expect it in return), has hobbies, cares about keeping herself in shape and works as hard as she needs to at it, willing to listen to other points of view, doesn't enforce double standards. That's what I can think of right off the bat. Generally a good, open person who is confident and cares abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:22 PM
1

Wow you really hate men don't you? Like seriously: " Why would women WANT to have sex with most men, when most men can't even make them cum?" " Unlike most men, women can actually satisfy women." " So tell me, what are the benefits of having sex with men..." You're assuming that most men don't use other means to get partners off, which they usually do from the men I talk to (oral sex, toys etc). So where is the man-hate coming from, and where are you getting your statistics from that most men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:13 PM
3

The problem is there are extremists in every movement and they tend to be the most vocal. Not much you can do to stop that. But I do agree that some of the comments I see here sometimes do reinforce the narrative of MRAs to feminists and the like. It can be cringy at times.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 06:46 PM
4

She'll also take half when she divorces him...
/r/MGTOW12/12/19 05:48 PM
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I don't have a problem with her speaking out. Kids should be more vocal about climate change. It's going to affect their generation heavily. I'm just wondering why she is time person of the year. What about all the other activists? What about all the scientists that have been working on this for years? Really? A little girl instead? It's just stupid. So many others have done SO much more work and time on this. She doesn't deserve it, and that's not even a knock on her.
/r/MensRights12/12/19 05:43 PM
8

Now I know why there are puddles of piss under every urinal ever...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:22 AM
3

This makes me weep for humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:20 AM
3

Men are too thirsty to carry this through You win the internet for the day. This is TOO TRUE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:12 AM
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I think a lot of these things aren't necessarily hygiene related, and seem to be more personal grooming related. However, as a dude, and this grosses me the f%$& out, I see so many dudes walking out of public restrooms without washing their hands. I don't get it. I really don't. I never touch the door handle of the restroom when leaving anymore. Always use a paper towel to open the door. It's seriously nasty. I always wash my hands after shaking hands with guys now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:05 AM
4

I think the truth of the matter is that many guys simply won't approach a woman as attractive as you describe yourself to be due to intimidation or a number of other reasons. Maybe they figure you already have a boyfriend. Maybe you don't appear open to being approached. Hard to say, but I have a feeling many guys are just intimidated to approach you and try to start showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:59 PM
2

I'm so confused. So did they just troll the boy scouts by forcing themselves into a historically male only organization? Or couldn't they simply create a more rigorous structure and activities within the girl scouts if they want all girl troops but to do the same things that boy scouts do? I really don't know what to say to this...
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 10:16 PM
1

Most guys have been conditioned by society to accept whatever women do, even the bad behavior, as ok because women are beyond reproach. Some guys take that to the extreme for some reason.
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 07:44 PM
2

I was literally coming to this page with the intent of saying exactly this. Society, mainly feminism, has now pushed the narrative that if you decide you didn't want sex at ANY TIME...in these instances even afterward, then it's rape. So now women have been raised with the notion that if they decide later on it was a mistake that means they were raped. Makes sense that a lot of women now think they have been raped because in their mind they have based on what they've been conditioned to think. I…
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 11:20 PM
1

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Deep breath AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 11:14 PM
3

You really aren't even reading anything I'm saying at this point. And you are very clearly trying to get me angry, which I'm not going to bite. That was not a rant. It was a response to your evasive nature. I'm calling you out for it considering you said you were "willing to listen and discuss." But you clearly aren't. Anyway, I never denied anything. I'm not saying that your friends weren't assaulted. Did I say that? Please copy and paste where I did. I'll wait... What I AM saying, since you se…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 05:42 PM
2

Question: If you are a queen shouldn't you have enough resources to take care of yourself and your child? Why do you need a king to do it?
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 12:38 AM
10

Lying in a field of land mines
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 12:37 AM
3

And I see plenty of women in bars and clubs do the same exact thing to men. I've had it happen to me personally. What's your point? That doesn't prove that large chunks of men abuse women. I would never make a statement that large portions of women abuse men based on what I've seen. And I'm not sure how that statement helps your case at all either. You couldn't possible have seen enough unwanted touching that would create a large enough sub sample to make that statement true at all. And again, y…
/r/MensRights04/12/19 06:18 PM
3

So a handful of women that you've been around being assaulted leads you to believe that large portions of men abuse women? That's laughable. That's not even close to a large enough subsample to even make any kind of assumption as to how many men abuse women. Isn't it also possible that a small portion of men abuse a large number of women? It's clear you don't have any statistics, and you just believe whatever you hear from people in immediate contact with you (which is never a large number for M…
/r/MensRights04/12/19 12:51 AM
3

it’s just a large chunk of men do abuse women You got stats on that? It is utterly laughable to assert that large portions of men abuse women but if you have stats I'll listen. And what kind of abuse are you referring to? Some sort of clarification is necessary as well.
/r/MensRights04/12/19 12:20 AM
3

I just had a thought. I don't think feminism wants to have equality anymore. At least the most radical and vocal feminists. Think about it. If they really do achieve true equality they won't be able to label men as the oppressor anymore. They won't be able to constantly claim victim status. What will they do with themselves?
/r/MensRights27/11/19 06:05 PM
2

It's simple really. Feminism has wrapped the world up in the notion that the patriarchy, and male privilege are the cause for all the world's ill's. Anything that goes against that, ESPECIALLY female privilege (which we all know is true), is not acknowledged.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 08:54 PM
9

Taking care of your own kids...that YOU CHOSE to have...is unpaid labor????? Feminism has gone over the cliff. The problem is, so has the rest of society that follows it. Unfortunately that is a sizable portion of society now...
/r/MensRights26/11/19 08:17 PM
1

The guy is also an idiot for spending that much money on someone he either doesn't know, or barely knows. In a relationship? Sure I've spent that much on an anniversary. Otherwise it's a hard nope.
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 05:39 PM
1

I think I'm already pretty redpilled at this point lol
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 11:08 PM
11

I'm personally not MGTOW but I don't have a problem with it either. In fact I understand it and appreciate it for what it is. I think the funniest thing to me though is that a man deciding to not date is almost universally met with vitriol. A woman deciding not to date is almost universally met with "you go girl" type responses. Men are only allowed to be what society needs them to be. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/MGTOW25/11/19 07:13 PM
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I have had the same response from my current AND ex gf. If I cried or showed sadness it was accepted. If I showed any anger or annoyance it was met with anger and annoyance from them, as if I'm not supposed to express those emotions. THIS is why men bottle up anger until it explodes. Because we can't show that emotion to the women in our lives. It's simply not acceptable. Women are the ones re-enforcing the toxic masculinity they so despise.
/r/MensRights25/11/19 07:09 PM
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Shout out to the men who treat women like children and enable them to be spoiled, lazy little princes syndrome narcissists? *facepalm* Where do these dudes come from. Get a back bone man
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 05:19 PM
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And they complain that dudes get mad over rejection. Yeesh
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 05:17 PM
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Celebrated HOW is my question? You mean memorials for DEAD soldiers? Yea that's quite a celebration they got to be a part of... And men were forcing other men into positions of power?? Or was it that women raised the children and men provided, and thus were by proxy put into positions of power and also danger, due to evolutionary gender roles. Also, there were rulers who were women throughout history. Guess what dude, they did the same things that men did and do. Power corrupts, not men. The idi…
/r/MGTOW21/11/19 11:26 PM
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It's not at ALL a smear piece. It's actually pretty fair and objective. That opening line is obviously meant to draw people in to the article. Say what you will about that BUT if you keep reading it's pretty fair. " However, men are just as much in need of celebration and support as other more ‘obvious’ groups." " At one end of the spectrum, men are still trapped by stereotype threat. Conforming to society’s idea of what a man should be, some people refer to this as toxic masculinity. This can b…
/r/MensRights20/11/19 05:21 PM
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I love /s the way it's phrased. Says everything you need to know. These men, who are doing good things, being good people, are not thanked for being good men. They are thanked for not be scum. So the baseline for men is now scum. If you do good things you're are simply NOT SCUM. You aren't good, you aren't great, you are simply someone who deserves recognition for not being scum. Fantastic... Also, notice what they are thanking men for. All of the negative subtext to these points COULD be explai…
/r/MensRights19/11/19 06:06 PM
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Men literally cannot have anything anymore. Everything must belong to women now. Men cannot be left alone, they cannot have their own spaces where women don't have a say, they cannot make decisions for their own lives. Everything must be run through women now. This is going to drastically affect future generations.
/r/MensRights19/11/19 06:00 PM
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"If you are a woman and you get offended when people say "AWALT" then you're the woman we're talking about." Fixed it.
/r/MensRights14/11/19 11:51 PM
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This is all fine EXCEPT the part about not arguing. Pure BS. ALSO, this better be reciprocated as this is stuff that both sexes should do for each other in a relationship. Ain't a one way street.
/r/MGTOW14/11/19 09:14 PM
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The problem is that this type of thing is purely subjective. I enjoy watching both equally. However, that does not mean someone that thinks that it's not as good is sexist. Women's NBA is not as good IMO as Men's. Not sexist.
/r/MensRights14/11/19 07:53 PM
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It made sense when women stayed in the home to take care of the kids. If they split, the woman had nothing to take care of the child with. Now with women in the workforce it makes no sense.
/r/MensRights13/11/19 12:05 AM
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She's gonna bang the dude so he should just move on.
/r/MGTOW12/11/19 09:54 PM
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Animorphs was an awesome series though...
/r/MGTOW12/11/19 09:45 PM
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The law is downright silly. However, to even suggest that unsolicited dick pics are the same as breastfeeding in public are the same thing is also just as silly.
/r/MensRights12/11/19 09:39 PM
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Here's the thing, being honest about where you are is not "playing with someone's emotions." They are just upset they can't control said guy into a relationship. They want to have the guy they want and if he's honest, and they can't have him, they hate him.
/r/MensRights12/11/19 09:37 PM
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They care so much that they have reinforced the notion that all men are potential predators and are being villainized by society at large...
/r/MensRights12/11/19 09:35 PM
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Not sure if anyone else has noticed this...but my last 3 jobs over the last 10-15 years...ALL of the HR reps have been women.
/r/MGTOW11/11/19 09:36 PM
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Why in the WORLD would you WANT to be a feminist if you have to consider yourself a potential rapist first. WTF...
/r/MensRights07/11/19 10:47 PM
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bUt ThIs Is DuE tO tHe PaTrIaRcHy!!! FeMiNiSm WiLl FiX tHiS!!! /s
/r/MensRights07/11/19 12:27 AM
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Add - Girls only in Girl scouts is fine. But now Boy Scouts CANNOT be boys only and must be inclusive. Boys have no space that is only for them anymore. " Honestly, from my experience of interacting with them, they are misinformed, intellectually lethargic, and just want someone to validate their feelings/beliefs. " Women in general just want validation. Even for stuff they KNOW is wrong. They want people to basically treat them like they are right on EVERYTHING. It's childish.
/r/MensRights07/11/19 12:26 AM
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Is this a unisex bathroom or a mens bathroom? One is LESS messed up than the other. Still messed up. We're just straight up animals to them now.
/r/MensRights06/11/19 09:55 PM
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Can't watch porn, can't go to strip clubs, can't have sex dolls, can't have sex workers, and once you get married can't expect sex from your SO (many married men get little to none after a few years). So basically men are not allowed to have sex. To top it off, don't be a creep you INCEL!!! Great deal /s
/r/MGTOW06/11/19 08:01 PM
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Ask why
/r/MGTOW05/11/19 07:44 PM
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This shit is exactly why I don't believe anything immediately. Man or woman making the observation. Stop, observe for yourself, take in the full story, and call the police. Things will sort themselves out most likely during the process. No need to get violent on an accusation. And seriously...did the puncher believe some dude would really try and rape someone in broad daylight in front of/in a store???
/r/MensRights01/11/19 07:27 PM
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Was just thinking this. Everyone says "Women aren't actually like how the MRAs and MGTOWs describe." Yet that sub is literally saying that they are so...
/r/MGTOW30/10/19 11:05 PM
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Because they can't control those men...
/r/MensRights30/10/19 10:26 PM
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Lol most clubs let women in for free now so....
/r/MensRights30/10/19 10:25 PM
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You need to NOT be the godfather anymore. Toxic family right there. Move along, move along. Also..." If he gets hurt then he should question his masculinity". Isn't that the kind of "toxic masculinity" they think is bad in the first place?
/r/MensRights30/10/19 10:24 PM
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100% correct on it being OUR responsibility. If you asked said woman if she is asking for consent that often she'd laugh in your face and say why don't you just tell me if it becomes not ok...the hypocrisy is real.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 08:50 PM
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" I’m expected to do everything in my power to make sure she is the happiest, her life is exciting, and go above and beyond for anything she asks. " Yet if you expect the same you are wrong, according to society. Women shouldn't have to do the same for us. The hypocrisy is mind boggling. " I hate that I’m held accountable for making plans and being told to be the initiator in every situation. I’m suppose to support a woman as she sits and claims she’s independent. " We're also held completely re…
/r/MensRights28/10/19 08:28 PM
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btw I dig the username. I'm still doing Skyrim playthroughs lol
/r/MensRights25/10/19 09:43 PM
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You really need to. If a male teacher called a female student a sexist name he would be fired and lynched, no questions asked. Don't let her get away with that crap
/r/MensRights25/10/19 09:40 PM
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Nope
/r/MensRights25/10/19 04:54 PM
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She'll accuse him of rape because he's not interested anymore, so not really
/r/MGTOW24/10/19 05:14 PM
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MeToo has ruined working relationships between men and women. I'll be the first to admit that the s*%&bags that actually harass women deserve it, HOWEVER, it has also allowed women to basically be fully believed under ANY circumstance. Even with no evidence. I know someone who is a high enlisted rank in the military that basically was accused of sexual harassment for giving a woman subordinate advice. Basically told her to not marry the first guy she meets in her first unit on her first deployme…
/r/MensRights24/10/19 05:07 PM
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Can we get this stickied to the top of the thread? This is fantastic info
/r/MensRights23/10/19 11:27 PM
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The paradigm shift over the last 10-20 years has been very strange. When the internet first hit stride and people started meeting people in chat rooms etc. parents and everyone would say "be careful, you don't know who you are talking to" etc etc. Now this has done a complete 180. People don't trust someone they meet in person and seem overly trusting of those they meet online.
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 10:00 PM
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All this confirms for me is that many of the "male feminists" are just pathetically attempting to get laid.
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 09:49 PM
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Victim blaming. Nice. Can you imagine the reaction if men said the opposite "If you as a woman were raped, and it ruined your life, then you probably deserve it." My goodness it would be a lynching. But they are ok to essentially say the same...
/r/MensRights23/10/19 09:45 PM
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When their gf/wives cheat, just say I told you so and that you don't want to hear complaints.
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 05:20 PM
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Nobody means harm Maybe a good amount of them don't consciously mean it, HOWEVER, the idea that men are toxic predators as a gender IS being pushed by many women and that is intentional in my book.
/r/MensRights23/10/19 05:10 PM
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I can't thank them enough for their badassery if that's a word If it isn't, it should be
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 09:59 PM
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Same. Women over 40, I hold the door open. Under 40...you're a strong independent woman who doesn't need a man, even if he's just doing something nice for the sake of being nice...open your own door.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 08:46 PM
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Worked in retail for years. You are definitely not wrong. This doesn't have anything to with retail but it does speak to women's attitudes. Was swimming at a public pool last night and when I was leaving there was a swim team letting out. Some woman was waiting in her car for someone, parked at a red curb. Can't park on red curbs. As I walked by one of the workers told the woman through the fence that she can't park at the red curb and that she has to go park in a parking spot. There were plenty…
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 08:43 PM
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kIlL aLl FaThErS!! /s for good measure
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 08:39 PM
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Sorry but this is entirely on the women. One, for choosing men who don't want a relationship, or two, for being someone who the other person does not want to be in a relationship with.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 08:38 PM
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Send her a pic of your paystub, thank her for leaving you, then ghost her. Only way to handle this one with a win.
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 09:32 PM
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I feel you man. A few weeks ago my gf and I were leaving a movie, walking back to my car, and I was walking on the inside of the sidewalk. Just happened that way. We passed some woman and her boyfriend on a bench and while we're mid conversation the woman yells "You should walk on the outside." We were mid convo so I didn't pick up on it...until she yelled it a second time. Then I realized she was talking to me. So I turned and asked her if she was talking to me. She smiled and nodded. I straigh…
/r/MensRights16/10/19 10:39 PM
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Why did you even post it there? Here would be the answers if it wasn't instablocked: No No...the patriarchy duh None My body my choice Man up
/r/MensRights15/10/19 10:19 PM
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But doesn't every woman that gets the job done say they did it for themselves...
/r/MensRights15/10/19 10:11 PM
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She's trying to get background. Understandable to a degree. What I would be worried about is the WHY? Linkedin is professional so it leads me to believe she wants to know what you do and what your financial situation might be.
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 06:31 PM
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Not a single mom thing, but one of the women I was talking to when I first start OLD was so shocked when I turned her down (changed my mind) before we were supposed to go out for a drink and meet. So I ask her to get a drink after talking for a bit on one of the apps. She says yes but that she wants to talk on the phone first. Understandable so I agree. This was her mistake though, and my gain. We talked for about an hour. She talked only about herself and asked no questions about me. One of the…
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 05:25 PM
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Remove all emotion is the best part of this. The other side ALWAYS operates on almost pure emotion. If you are logical and fact driven eventually they will think about your points or devolve into attacks, and at that point you've won.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 05:16 PM
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The part about pulling condoms from the trash got me. Never really heard that before. Toss your condoms in the dumpsters fellas.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 05:13 PM
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" She goes "you're really going to deny a sweet girl (referring to herself maybe?) a relationship because you want to be the next Hugh Hefner?" First issue is she assumes that you're doing it to be a "player." Which, if you are, who cares? If women should be able to play the field, so should men, and vice versa. Second issues, and the more glaring one, is that she says YOU are denying a sweet girl a chance at happiness. It's all about them. Doesn't matter what you want or don't want. Just what t…
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 11:46 PM
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Or maybe not treating men like there is inherently something wrong with them because they are MEN...
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 11:17 PM
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I'm so glad that someone posted this because I've been saying this all along. The fact that the term "incel" is being thrown around as in insult is disheartening (and I'm not, nor have ever been an incel). The typical" incel" has issues, whether it be with women, society, parents, etc etc. that are generally giving off a vibe that women pick up on and don't like. Many also have some sort of underlying mental issue as well that causes them to circle and spiral into worse states of being. My first…
/r/MensRights10/10/19 11:16 PM
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She said that not choosing you is one of the biggest regrets of her life...yet she is only now trying to make amends? Don't go down that rabbit hole man. Steer clear of her and move on with your life. You are better off without someone like that. She was never right for you in the first place if she didn't see your worth until now.
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 05:40 PM
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I've said this before and I'll say it again. There is absolutely nothing wrong with men crying and expressing their feelings, there is also nothing wrong with stoicism if that is how they handle things best. The problem is that men are not allowed to do either. If you cry and express yourself, you are weak and need to spare people your male tears. I you are stoic, you are toxic and are the problem. What is a man to do?
/r/MensRights09/10/19 05:12 PM
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Aside from the article basically re-enforcing traditional male gender roles, while relinquishing female gender roles (allowing women freedom from traditional gender roles), I noticed something incredibly insidious in the article. " women, obviously more refined and sophisticated, are more choosy " The blatant hatred, disrespect, and demonizing of men is getting worse and worse by the day. Couple that with the fact that we can't openly call this out, I only see men being further placed in a box o…
/r/MensRights09/10/19 05:03 PM
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If genders were reversed comments would be "He should get healthy for you" "You shouldn't stay with someone you aren't attracted to" "You don't owe him anything" etc etc. The double standards is real gentlemen.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 11:05 PM
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All the women just standing there smh
/r/MGTOW03/10/19 10:24 PM
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Here we go with the calls to kill men...
/r/MensRights03/10/19 09:24 PM
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But you are equating all women to rattlesnakes. Not really a fair comparison. Also, you can choose to sleep with a gecko if you want lol. You don't have to JUST sleep with snakes.
/r/MensRights03/10/19 04:42 PM
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So ALL women will do this? I will agree that many women do this but not ALL. This is just as bad as women saying all men are trash, or rapists, or whatever. There are good women out there. We just have to sift through the loads of crap to find them. You also have to constantly set and reinforce boundaries with the good ones. Although, I do partially agree on not getting married or having kids. Men lose their power over their own lives in these situations enough to make a smart person think twice…
/r/MensRights02/10/19 05:26 PM
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You'll know pretty quick if they are reasonable or not in other conversations. Once you find that out you can lightly broach the subject through various recent events. They are always happening. When you get their opinion, play devils advocate. See how they respond. That will tell you pretty quick too, but I've found I can generally tell how reasonable they are when they talk about other issues. Red flags are red flags and should be looked at as such.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 11:41 PM
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This
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/19 11:22 PM
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Not ALL women are like this to that degree. I'm early 30s and found someone who very much leans feminist as a knee jerk reaction, BUT is also willing to listen and examine opposing views honestly. Much of this is due to her culture and upbringing, which I think that we have to understand as well. As much as men have reasons for thinking what we do, so do some women. She is also willing to admit when she is wrong. Most women nowadays are indoctrinated to some degree by feminism. The key now is fi…
/r/MensRights01/10/19 09:50 PM
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This would level the playing field to epic proportions
/r/MensRights30/09/19 10:01 PM
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Not only are we expected to take action, we're also 100% responsible for those standards dropping.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 09:59 PM
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Ok I'm going to partially agree with what she is saying. I've seen so many parents nowadays let their kids practically get away with murder. This is not necessarily far off from some truths I've seen. I don't think men should be trained for marriage. That is ridiculous. We should be showing our boys how to be men though. That includes what you should and should not do in a relationship, and what you should and should not let women get away with. HOWEVER, it goes both ways. I have seen so many pa…
/r/MensRights30/09/19 09:44 PM
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I personally have been assaulted and harassed by numerous women in my life. I'd wager a lot of guys have too. We can't fight back either, if we did we'd go to jail. So there goes one of her points. And second class citizen? Yea women have, but so have men. We technically can't vote unless we volunteer to die for our country, we're always put last in natural disasters etc etc. Sounds like second class.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 09:41 PM
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" So, if "Feminism" is focused on equality, why are 100 percent of the posts on Feminism's biggest community female based? It's really ridiculous. " I understand your point. I don't have a problem with feminism focusing solely on women. That's what it was designed for, as all groups that advocate are usually advocating for one group. I think the problem with feminism is that they say they also work for men, which is completely untrue. The second issue here is that while it is ok for women to hav…
/r/MensRights25/09/19 09:14 PM
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Absolutely you can! Contrary to popular belief, we don't hate women. And welcome!
/r/MensRights25/09/19 06:59 PM
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I just wonder how much of this is due to younger guys CHOOSING to not have sex, or if this is a byproduct of online dating and women getting inflated egos because every dude out there is liking and messaging them. There was a study done by ok cupid that said women on the app rated the vast majority of men as unattractive.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 11:48 PM
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Why would anyone want to be an ally to someone who actively denigrates them? I don't understand how they process that...
/r/MensRights24/09/19 11:40 PM
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That would be my kneejerk reaction too. However, after thinking about it, they're false accusation would be swept under the rug and ignore just like every single recent incidence in the last 10 years. Duke lacrosse anyone? Does anyone hear about Johnny Dep's situation outside of these forums? It's not exactly the same situation, but Jussie Smollet anyone? Is anyone talking about how he fabricated the whole thing anymore? The backlash when everyone thought it was real went on and on and on. Secon…
/r/MensRights17/09/19 06:23 PM
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I say soldiers stop protecting women on the battlefield. But then women would complain they aren't being protected. Much like the current mentoring climate in business in reaction to the metoo movement. Women will never be happy and will always be their own worst enemy.
/r/MensRights17/09/19 06:21 PM
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This. Actually I would say they BOTH owe eachother sex. It's a friggin marriage for f's sake. No one goes into a marriage, committing themselves to one person, ok with the prospect of living the life of a tavern monk with no sex. NO married person, male or female, should have to put up with that. That's a horrible marriage for anyone to endure and it's simply not right. Unfortunately, this is what many marriages turn into from what I hear from married friends. It's a shame really. And women wond…
/r/MensRights12/09/19 07:34 PM
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This is getting downright stupid. So they want equality in pay, which is fair, and equality in access to jobs, which is also fair, but they also want men to still be the breadwinners and make more? What sense does that make? It's a contradiction. Straight up. They have come in to a workforce and have been given jobs that used to be done by men, but yet they still want more economically viable men. How does that work if you took jobs that were theirs years ago? They demand equal pay, but then sti…
/r/MensRights06/09/19 05:16 PM
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Because men are privileged and have no problems /s In all seriousness, as much as feminist, and society, like to think that women and men are equal in every way...we aren't. The want to fight alongside men at war, they want to be next to men as firefighters, police officers etc with the notion that they are equal physically. That is until the fight starts, like this one. Then equality goes out the window and men are physically stronger...double standards at work.
/r/MensRights05/09/19 06:30 PM
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The article was written by someone who was apparently his biggest fan several years ago but is now offended by everything...shocking.
/r/MGTOW04/09/19 05:23 PM
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I'm sure it does. And I'm sure women take credit for men's work too. It's human nature, not just relegated to one gender.
/r/MensRights28/08/19 05:08 PM
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If the patriarchy rules society...why wouldn't we as men have domestic violence shelters? Too much for feminists to process.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 05:27 PM
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Our voting rights in the US are indirectly tied to us signing up to die for our country. Meaning, if we don't sign up for the draft (mandatory possible death during times of war) we are in violation of the law and subject to prison time. If that happens we can never vote again. We are also given monuments if we die in service of our country. That should tell you everything about what it is like to be a man. We are society's disposable people.
/r/MensRights27/08/19 05:18 PM
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Met a chick on Bumble and she had no pics with kids or said she had kids. We literally sent two messages to each other. She asks what I'm doing for the weekend. I say going to my parent's for dinner and some other stuff, hiking etc. I say that I have dinner with my family once a week. INSTANTLY gives me her number and says she's spending the weekend without her kid. Deadbeat dad has the kid. Blocked her instantly. Nope Nope and Nope
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 11:59 PM
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The irony is that feminism says they want men to be able to express themselves and their emotions which is toxic masculinity in their eyes. When you do you're told to shut up. The only thing they want you to express is what agrees with their worldview. If it don't...shut the hell up you piece of trash.
/r/MensRights26/08/19 11:33 PM
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Yea this is annoying. Is this in California? If it is, it's the law here now. If you have a multi stall restroom is needs to be gender labelled. If the bathroom is single occupancy it has to be gender neutral labelled.
/r/MensRights26/08/19 07:40 PM
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These are often the worst case scenarios. Bottom line is you should be wary, pay attention, but don't live in fear. Live your life and do you. But do be aware of signs and what to look for. If your gut tells you something is wrong...listen.
/r/MensRights26/08/19 07:39 PM
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Offensive, no. Distracting, yes sometimes depending on how loud it is. HOWEVER, it's a gym and people are lifting heavy ass weights. It's distracting but whatever. It's a gym. I ultimately don't care. If I need to grunt to get up a heavy weight, it's happening.
/r/MensRights26/08/19 07:29 PM
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It's not just that no one is listening. People actively do not want to hear it. Mention any men's issue that isn't "toxic masculinity" and you are pretty much shouted into oblivion. Practically stoned to death if you aren't careful. Also...men don't have issues. We're privileged /s
/r/MensRights26/08/19 07:28 PM
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Sex is DEFINITELY being used as a weapon. Just not openly, although it's so blatant now it might as well be. The emotional, sexual, and legal responsibility is being placed COMPLETELY in our laps. We as men, are responsible for EVERYTHING. Women are now responsible for nothing, including their own actions and emotions during a sexual exchange. If she is uncomfortable but says nothing, we are responsible for reading body language, which may be possible, but we all know won't be the case all the t…
/r/MensRights22/08/19 10:52 PM
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That man would definitely be dodging a bullet...
/r/MGTOW16/08/19 04:53 PM
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#thedoublestandardsarereal
/r/MensRights15/08/19 06:32 PM
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So it's a competition?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 06:31 PM
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Does that mean we can say "not my problem" when they state their issues? Me thinks not lol
/r/MensRights15/08/19 06:29 PM
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They can't control you. It's all about power and control.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 05:13 PM
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The interesting thing is that only 3 of these would even remotely have anything to do with women at all. So women are completely rejecting the notion that men have any issues whatsoever that need to be addressed. Even if it has nothing to do with them. Even it doesn't threaten women's equality in any way. Men are just trash and oppressors.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 05:12 PM
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They did lol. With Justice Cavannaugh, the President (don't like either of these men personally, but just shows their hypocrisy), the list goes on and on. But that's ok because they don't like those people.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 08:34 PM
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Depends on what you view as "winning." I don't prefer to use the term WIN though. I prefer to phrase it as how do we gain TRUE EQUALITY? Because in the end, that is what we really want.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 08:23 PM
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I had a comment removed from r/MensLib for gender essentialism...when I never made a gender essentialism claim. When I messaged the mods they said it was borderline. It wasn't even borderline. But that sub is a pro feminist sub so it makes sense why they would ban a comment that didn't fit with their pro feminist narrative. They didn't have to make up some BS excuse though lol
/r/MensRights09/08/19 10:29 PM
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Society has told them that they are, from day one. They need to be protected at all costs are and more important than men. Men are oppressive and bad, women are innocent and good. Women before men in disasters. The list goes on. And now with third wave feminism furthering the societal push to change men into women, it's no wonder they think they are all Goddesses needing a pedestal.
/r/MGTOW08/08/19 06:41 PM
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The irony is lost on women. They hate men for their typically strong qualities, but they also yearn for those same qualities when they say "where have all the men gone." So they want it when it suits them, and despise it when it doesn't. What do women want? I don't think they have the slightest clue tbh
/r/MensRights07/08/19 04:23 PM
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Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand I found the troll lol. Just in case you are just a horrible person and not actually a troll, you're making a lot of assumptions that you couldn't possibly know to make that kind of a statement. How would you ever be able to prove or know that they selected who to save based on gender? Especially when these things happen split second. It's most likely that they just tried to help the closest person to them. And let's just say that they did CHOSE women or children. It's their c…
/r/MensRights05/08/19 08:49 PM
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Should men automatically be sacrificed because they are men? No. But men voluntarily shielding people from killers SHOULD be praised. They are saving people. Regardless of gender or age. Your comment is heartless and is the kind of comment that makes people think we are all a bunch of women hating savages. You should re-evaluate how far you take the arguments.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 08:09 PM
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As scary as this is...at least they are being up front about it.
/r/MGTOW01/08/19 11:45 PM
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I've been arguing this for a while when I see the incel insult thrown around. A lot of these people have issues. How is putting them down for ONE of their issues making the situation and them any better? I don't know why people insult them instead of try and help them. Especially if they are possibly prone to committing acts of violence as some tend to think. It's just human cruelty towards others, and people's ability to kick others when they're down, at it's finest. It's also proof that any gu…
/r/MensRights01/08/19 04:44 PM
1

Does anyone even know how many women actually play this game? I feel like that should be the first thing anyone looks at. If the percentage is super low then it's a dumb question. If they are equally represented percentage wise then maybe we should look at skill? No of course it has to be sexism though...
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 11:45 PM
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She also admits that more men choose dangerous jobs, basically saying women generally don't want to do them. I think men should stop doing dangerous jobs and watch society grind to a complete halt. Then see how many women will step up.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 11:24 PM
2

You win the internet for today! This was brilliant
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 08:14 PM
6

Overall I agree. I've been saying for quite a while now that women want men to open up their feelings and emotions, however, when we do we are constantly shut down by the same women. ie male fragility, male tears, spare me your male tears etc. They are enforcing the very toxicity they claim to want to remove when it confronts their narrative. " Men need to take on responsibility for women during sexual encounters because women are uniquely unable to consent when they're drunk or merely intimidat…
/r/MensRights24/07/19 06:16 PM
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The idea that MGTOW are incels is downright wrong, straight down to the monikers. MGTOW is men going their own way, meaning men CHOOSING to not get into intimate relationships. INCELS are INVOLUNTARY celibate, meaning they aren't able. I laugh when people try and blur the lines now that INCEL has become an insult.
/r/MGTOW22/07/19 08:42 PM
3

As someone else said, your language and hostility is why you got banned. The actual argument you were making I agree with and most likely would not have gotten you banned. Tone it down and I'm sure it would have stayed up. Also, you don't have free speech on a private business platform. That's not how the constitution works. Reddit can take down whatever they want, just like if you had a website YOU could take down whatever you want.
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 05:05 PM
2

She's stupid enough to video her framing someone. Wonder why she didn't hit herself in the head...
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:49 PM
1

Women are always the victims of men. Don't you know this by now? /s
/r/MensRights16/07/19 09:10 PM
2

Of course buzzfeed also tried to marginalize the finding by linking those that think this with people who are racist and zenophobic. Typical.
/r/MensRights16/07/19 06:39 PM
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Does she not think he'll eventually find out she's NOT actually pregnant? That's gonna be a good look lol
/r/MensRights16/07/19 04:45 PM
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Fair point. Didn't look at it that way. I just have a problem with the dictionary specifying women in any way with regards to the definition. It appears as if they are saying that it's largely men being sexist.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 09:21 PM
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It also doesn't help that Merriam-Webster's Number one definition for sexism is as follows: : prejudice or discrimination based on sex especially : discrimination against women We will never get a fair shake because society accepts the definition that feminism has laid out.
/r/MensRights11/07/19 08:42 PM
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Worked at a call center years ago and had a similar situation. Was a supervisor so I heard all the women who were LEADS (supposed to be more mature and professional) talking nothing but trash on all the other women and eachother. They all hated eachother. Meanwhile the dudes who were leads and supervisors all got along and joked around. Not a single dude even disliked another. It was like night and day. Unfortunately, this has been my experience, to varying degrees, at every job.
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 05:26 PM
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I'm sure there are plenty of white knights out there willing to do the dirty work
/r/MensRights03/07/19 09:39 PM
5

...Ok...so then by that standard, if I get a woman pregnant and she decides to keep it why should I be on the hook to pay for it? I mean you could have gotten pregnant from any dude. Doesn't matter if it was me. I obviously didn't have equal involvement in making that child so I shouldn't be equally liable for raising it if I don't want. Be careful what you ask for women.
/r/MensRights03/07/19 05:00 PM
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Dude, break up with her if that really is what she wants. You are under no obligation to give her that lifestyle and if you don't want someone that wants you to...LEAVE.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 09:07 PM
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What I noticed right away is that they are all women but the headline says PEOPLE. You know if this were all men the headline would say MEN...
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 08:38 PM
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Aria is nice but you HAVE to try the Cosmo! It's so nice, the buffet is amazing, and the benefits program (Identity) has some great perks.
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 06:46 PM
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I will agree that the left is insanity. BUT...so is the right. Two sides of the same coin. And they spied on the campaign because it is VERY clear to anyone who is even remotely objective, and not a right wing shill, that Trumps campaign was up to no good. So many people around him have been indicted for crimes etc. That doesn't speak well of the man in charge. I didn't like O'Bama either but he was far better than what we have now.
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 05:32 PM
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Well I hate trump so I'm not super upset. And tbh this is not a government run site so reddit can technically sensor whatever they want. Probably not the best idea for them to start doing though, if they want to seem like they aren't super biased.
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 10:46 PM
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This is proof positive that feminists want POWER, not equality. They supposedly want men to express their emotions more, but when we do, we are told to shut up and suck it up...which is exactly what they are saying is so toxic in the first place. It's just an endless circle designed to get men no where while women take the power instead of SHARING it...which is also SUPPOSEDLY what they want.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 08:08 PM
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I know I'll get downvoted to oblivion for this but it needs to be said. Women are constantly enforcing sexist double standards and we want them not to. Yet we are actually, truly enforcing this double standard. Women should indeed be able to have as much sex as they want and not be ridiculed for it...if guys are allowed to. If we're going to start ridiculing guys for sleeping around then all bets are off. Basically, we shouldn't be enforcing double standards if we don't want them to. We need to …
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 05:28 PM
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It's controversial because men are "privileged" and don't have any problems /s
/r/MensRights24/06/19 05:06 PM
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Yea after 2 dates of drinks I switched to coffee. You can tell real quick who's in it for the free meal or drinks if they say no to coffee.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 08:20 PM
5

You win the internet for today *slow clap*
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 08:19 PM
2

Killer shot! What camera did you use?
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 11:53 PM
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Can't tell you how many women I've heard say "Happy wife, happy life." So if she isn't happy the marriage is going to be a disaster? Which, if you follow that logic, ultimately leads to what they really believe which is men are responsible for women's emotions, wellbeing, happiness, etc. Meaning they are responsible for nothing, but EXPECT all the benefits that come along with equality. Benefits with no responsibility or accountability. What have we let them get away with.
/r/MGTOW17/06/19 10:59 PM
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It depends on who you're talking to. Feel the waters out a bit. You can generally tell within a minute or two where someone stands. If you want to engage with someone who might be hostile just stay calm. Let them get out of hand because it usually will. They will usually insult you and then you can call them on it. They always back down after that. But remain calm is the key. Also, let's be honest, most of us don't want to oppress women, and we want women to have equal rights. So I always bring …
/r/MensRights11/06/19 04:26 PM
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What I find dumb about this is that they are making this girl out to be the savior of everything. Wasn't that John Connor? What happened to that storyline?
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 10:08 PM
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Yea I saw that afterward. Now I'm even more confused. It sounds like you didn't have lingering morning wood. Sounds like you got a stiffy while you were in the cafeteria? If that's the case then you just need to be better at controlling your emotions in public. No one wants to see your stiffy in public. Dudes are included in that statement. Just learn to think about other things it you feel it coming on.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 09:55 PM
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Sorry dude but I have to call you on this. You were awake 15 minutes and STILL had morning wood? Gotta be BS, or you literally cannot control your thoughts/emotions etc. Also, IF you did still have morning wood...why in the hell would you walk out in public with it? I mean come on man. I call BS but if it wasn't then you are a problem. Have some self respect and control. Don't go outside until that has gone away. Seriously, dudes don't want to see that either.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 09:08 PM
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So they want to kill a generation of the types of men they are naturally attracted to? #confused
/r/MensRights16/05/19 06:40 PM
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What I meant by that is that men who don't want to get married will have an easier time getting their rocks off, making them not dependent on marriage or a LTR for sex. Hard for ME to find one? No lol I don't have sex with prostitutes
/r/MensRights16/05/19 06:04 PM
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The day prostitution is legalized is the day men have true freedom, and subsequently, the day women lose their S$&#.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 09:07 PM
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So are you saying the man has to pay for all that? If they were still married wouldn't they be splitting the cost? Why should they not now? Kids don't even cost that much per month but making the man pay that much is BS. That's not a douche thing to say. It's reality.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 08:27 PM
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BuT tHeY aRe InDePeNdAnT wOmAn???
/r/MensRights14/05/19 09:48 PM
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Worked at a major bookstore years ago. Helped a lady find a book. Went about my business after that putting books away, as was my job. We had a 2 story location so I was going upstairs and downstairs depending on what I found that needed to go back on the shelf. I passed this lady 2-3 times while walking around. Didn't say anything, didn't even acknowledge her other than no more than a possible look and a nod MAYBE. But I don't think I even did that. 10 minutes later my manager pages me to the f…
/r/MGTOW09/05/19 09:08 PM
1

Male Gender roles, specifically pertaining to men needing to be the breadwinner, are still in place. Many men AND women still feel that way. So of course many guys wouldn't want to date a woman who is more successful than he is. It has less to due with intimidation and more to do with feelings of inadequacy due to ingrained gender roles enforced by society for hundreds of thousands of years. Those things just don't go away overnight. Also, women seem to prefer more successful guys anyway. Why wo…
/r/MensRights06/05/19 09:07 PM
1

Also have seen other articles assert that women are only violent towards men because those men have been abusing them. And the woman have adopted the same method of behavior BECAUSE of the man.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 06:38 PM
1

" We have to hold those two ideas in our head at the same time: Men are not inherently violent, but they are responsible for a disproportionate amount of violence against others. If we see these acts of violence happening, and we do—a mass casualty situation or domestic and intimate partner violence—[it] warrants serious attention. " ​ Actually domestic violence statistics are fairly close in respect to what gender initiates intimate partner violence. 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men are victims of p…
/r/MensRights03/05/19 06:23 PM
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Don't forget...we can't express anger either, even if that's what we are feeling. Anger is toxic masculinity.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 04:56 PM
2

Point well taken but is Arya not allowed to initiate sex? Are women not allowed to initiate sex? That's what it seems as though this post is saying, which is stupid. Also, First female Knight is a problem? She's more courageous, a better fighter, has a better moral compass, more loyal etc etc than many of the men on the show. Just saying. She DESERVED to be a knight based on just that, because that is what knights are supposed to be. It was actually a cool moment. That being said, feminism has c…
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 06:59 PM
2

Your point is valid and not wrong technically. However, the child is also technically partially the man's child as well biologically. He had an equal hand in making it. Shouldn't he at least have SOME say/input? So if he wants the child and she doesn't, too bad so sad? Kinda sucks for dudes all around. But I get the flip side.
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 06:11 PM
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Thank you. I was just going to post something similar but you saved me the time of writing out a lengthy reply. Sucks you got downvoted so badly for stating reality. Men AND women are oppressed. Just in different ways. Men being oppressed just doesn't fit with the feminist narrative, and similarly, women being oppressed doesn't fit with the more extreme and vocal MRA narrative, hence downvote oblivion. Ignoring reality doesn't make it not true though.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 10:27 PM
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