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ninja_possum/r/seduction27/05/17 04:18 AM
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Best reply here
/r/seduction27/01/21 06:03 AM
1

Excellent post, 100%
/r/seduction21/12/20 01:27 PM
2

I read that as Ron Jeremy and was like uhhhhhh
/r/seduction14/12/20 05:31 AM
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If anyone is ever in this sort of situation, the trick is to go down like she's holding a gun to your head.
/r/seduction01/11/20 12:34 PM
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Fantastic and highly relevant stuff. Couldn’t have put it better. It absolutely needs to be hammered into young guys (so the habit doesn’t develop) that entitlement with women is poison for the soul.
/r/seduction26/09/20 10:37 PM
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Eh maybe but let’s not diminish that this sort of behaviour is a conscious choice some men make because they are literally that fucking entitled in life. Great work OP, important post.
/r/seduction07/08/20 01:48 PM
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Underrated post
/r/seduction19/05/20 03:31 PM
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Well I mean, at least you know she's not seeing someone else. Hope it all works out.
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:44 PM
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Modern day feminism and metoo movement have scared new generation of men from approaching women. That's horse shit. The difference now is its easier for incels to form communities because of the reach of the internet. Back in the day if you were a loser you could either be a loser on your own or you could do something about it. Too many guys find this nice comfortable 'fuck all women the game was rigged against me' toxic identity that gives them their get out of jail free card for being a loser.…
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:40 PM
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Came here to say this. Someone going “oh I don’t have any social media” I’d assume they were hiding partner/family photos on there.
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:01 PM
1

Go watch the old Dustin Hofman movie The Graduate. You’ll get a kick out of it. And remember....plastics
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:40 PM
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Doublemint Dave
/r/seduction23/02/20 08:00 AM
8

not taking health and fitness seriously until much later not being willing to experiment more or enjoy the 'one for now' rather than trying to laser focus on 'the one' not just diving in more and having a go
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:13 PM
3

This is unironically the best ever post on this sub
/r/seduction05/02/20 02:04 PM
3

Good pun and matching username. Shame you’re being downvoted
/r/seduction04/02/20 03:30 PM
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Now no ones wants to be associated with pua. Older ones got older and had kids. Real good ones don’t stick around to chat. Fucking accurate. Hitting clubs to pick up in your 20’s is fine, 30’s ok, 40’s getting sad. The ultimate trick is knowing when you’ve found someone truly awesome and evolving that relationship into something else. Trying to bang an endless stream of women should be a part of life, not end state
/r/seduction25/01/20 02:05 AM
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Fucking casual
/r/seduction03/01/20 09:55 AM
1

You’d be surprised at how bad most millennial men are at conversation and face-to-face interaction Lol
/r/seduction29/07/19 01:35 PM
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“attraction for men is like a light switch. for women like a volume knob” I’ve never heard that before, can you elaborate a bit on that?
/r/seduction11/07/19 02:32 PM
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I think online dating in app form is dying off. I’ve been hearing that using the net to find activity/meet up groups is on the rise though
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:53 PM
1

Fortunately TRP acts like a containment sub at the moment. I noticed more coming here after the incel sub shut down.
/r/seduction05/06/19 02:10 PM
3

Thank you. You're welcome like any constructive member of this sub, male or female.
/r/seduction05/06/19 02:09 PM
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Thank you for your input. I keep having women friends tell me to join a Pilates class and it has always felt like a waste of time
/r/seduction23/05/19 11:49 PM
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This. You meet people with the same values, whatever they may be
/r/seduction23/05/19 11:47 PM
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Needed this, thank you
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:26 AM
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This. Fucking this Everyone has a nice story about a fat guy who pulled a hot chick, reality is that is so few and far between. Playing on hard mode is an understatement. If you’re not keeping yourself in solid physical condition then the rest of the advice here is pointless.
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:20 PM
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Solid advice
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:03 AM
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Are you happy for your friend?
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:01 AM
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Good work dude. We’re all gonna make it
/r/seduction23/01/19 03:23 PM
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It’s a shame you’re getting downvoted
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:05 PM
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I’m assuming your post is about finding a relationship rather than just banging some chicks. Like yourself I’m one of the very (very) few guys on Seddit over 30. I don’t know about you, but I remember when in my late teens/early 20’s most of my chick friends wouldn’t look at over 30 at all. Some did but they almost always had father issues which is why I’m guessing the whole older guy thing was appealing. For a relationship I wouldn’t look below 25 in all honesty. I never met a well adjusted wom…
/r/seduction20/01/19 01:14 AM
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Underrated comment
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:40 AM
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Good post. Aloof doesn’t work in my city. Such a fucked up single men/women ratio that if a guy is aloof they’ll quickly be forgotten about
/r/seduction12/01/19 10:19 PM
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Funnily enough I’ve seen the opposite effect. I use to have a short flatmate (about 5’5) and that man has slept with hotter women than I have because he put a serious amount of work into himself. Gym, 6 pack, very well dressed, the works
/r/seduction05/01/19 03:02 PM
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It’s a meme perpetuated by short men. “If only I was tall then I’d be drowning in pussy” Lol no One thing I will say is that I tend to match with 6 foot plus women, which I don’t think I’d do if I was short.
/r/seduction05/01/19 05:46 AM
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Don’t talk to ask her out. Make light conversation (what’s with the music they play in here? Etc) and look to see if she’s interested in talking to you (smiling, laughing at your jokes), if she is escalate, if not cest la vie and move on
/r/seduction22/12/18 06:00 AM
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Good first paragraph OP. We do have some unique, over abundance challenges no one has had to face before. Each generation has its challenges. My grandad’s challenge as a teenager was to not get shot by the Nazi’s. His grandad’s was to not die in an industrial accident before 20. I’m ok with the ones we have to face
/r/seduction22/12/18 05:57 AM
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Agreed, good reply. OP was nearly (but not quite) in incel territory. Don’t think it’s any easier for women OP. Entire industries are built around maximising their insecurity and lowering their body image for profit.
/r/seduction22/12/18 05:52 AM
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Your move is you listen to her and wait. Sounds like she dodged a bullet
/r/seduction03/12/18 12:15 PM
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This sub is mostly 13-22 year olds etc, but there's a few of us in our 30's. I set my age range similar to yours but the opposite, one year older and 10 younger. I think a lot of men are the same. Out of interest do you have kids listed on the profile and do you filter out guys who have kids/are divorced?
/r/seduction30/11/18 03:55 PM
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Consent isn’t ‘SJW nonsense’
/r/seduction25/11/18 12:43 PM
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Escort
/r/seduction08/11/18 04:06 PM
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I forget how young this subreddit is sometimes
/r/seduction06/11/18 01:42 PM
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Lol fucking bravo. Literally lold loud enough the neighbours would have heard
/r/seduction28/10/18 05:26 AM
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Tall guy here. Short blokes think being tall is a magic power and every tall guy is drowning in fanny, it’s simply not true. I don’t think it hurts to be tall but wit, good looks, confidence, being physically fit (ie not fat) are infinitely more important
/r/seduction22/10/18 01:13 PM
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I know that feel bro hugs
/r/seduction01/10/18 10:19 AM
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“This delay also gives me time to take a viagra which extends my "window" for sex” Lol wut
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:11 PM
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I'm always a source of positivity and goodness for women, someplace in life they can go for a reward, rather than a punishment. The things I say are to make people smile, because that makes me smile, too. That really resonated as something I need to work on. Thank you
/r/seduction12/09/18 03:30 PM
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Agreed. Interesting video but very self indulgent to think that his videos are making one of the largest app companies change their programming.
/r/seduction03/08/18 11:06 AM
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Don’t. It would be too threatening for her. Public transport by day is bad enough.
/r/seduction19/07/18 01:05 PM
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"American girls like exciting guys, European girls like cool guys". Great line
/r/seduction19/07/18 01:01 PM
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Just. No,
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:47 PM
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A mature response.
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:29 PM
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Wrong sub m8
/r/seduction09/07/18 01:20 PM
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Exactly this, If it’s not your scene (no pun) don’t bother. It’s a big world full of women. If you’re dedicated though, get a huge amount of visible tats including job stoppers (neck tats), piercings/ear gauges, wear nothing but black band shirts and I guarantee you will get laid like a rockstar. Unfortunately after the age of 25 you’ve kinda fucked your future if you want to be something other than a bartender or tattoo artist
/r/seduction08/07/18 03:08 PM
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School?
/r/seduction05/07/18 02:07 PM
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" However, the fact that there are rules which she’s forced to listen to 15 other guys after you’ve spilled your chat does not work in the favour of an extrovert with good game. My 0 matches proves that. " Lol fun to read write up and I really like the advice of showing up early and approaching, I'm going to use that. But if you're getting zero matches, are you qualified to be giving advice on how to act during the event itself?
/r/seduction02/07/18 02:52 PM
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You are a good person.
/r/seduction25/06/18 02:01 PM
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PROTIP: for those who’s safe space feels threatened by the term toxic masculinity, read it as the phrase ‘macho bullshit’ instead.
/r/seduction24/06/18 11:42 AM
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I’m in a similar boat. I think there’s a right and wrong way to do it. Act you’re age, don’t pretend you’re a frat guy or something, comes off stunted. Also never talk about it with women close to your own age (friends etc) you will be massively judged and they will look down on you. As far as attracting them, let me know when you find out
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:20 PM
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Lol dtf, phone autocorrect
/r/seduction18/05/18 11:11 PM
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Treat her as if she’s DTW within the bounds of enthusiastic consent. Sounds like she’s having fun teasing you.
/r/seduction18/05/18 02:35 PM
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Warhammer player here. I know this feel.
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:14 PM
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I hate to say it, but women are on tinder getting laid and meeting people. The hard reality is, is that if you’re not meeting some people than you’re just not being competitive with other men. Women have choice and they’re going to choose the top guys that approach them. Some guys become bitter losers at this reality (incels and red pillers), but let’s be honest. If you had a hot 9/10 girl asking to meet up sat night and a 6/10 girl doing the same, we would all pick the first. The great news is …
/r/seduction16/04/18 01:40 PM
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Listen to this guy
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:50 PM
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Has someone got a tl;dr or summary on the books topics/main argument?
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:08 AM
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I sincerely wish you the best of luck and success. Picking up women can be hard enough without having a challenge like Aspergers. It looks like you’re trying to develop yourself so I’m sure you’ll be fine. All the best dude
/r/seduction31/03/18 04:21 AM
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Lold hard
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:38 PM
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Do you think a guy could get you into bed if he said the right things and was good looking enough?
/r/seduction11/03/18 02:52 PM
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Assuming you’re straight, have you ever been seduced by another man?
/r/seduction11/03/18 10:52 AM
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Over 6 foot. I don’t relate to this struggle
/r/seduction06/02/18 03:43 PM
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There’s more sub communities these days. In the past far more varied sorts were lumped in together. Now if you want to get better with women in a positive way there’s seddit. If you fucking hate women think the world owes you sex and you’re pathologically jealous of how ‘easy’ women can get laid, you go to /r/redpill It’s good we’re not all lumped together like in the past
/r/seduction27/01/18 09:33 AM
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Weinstein 'got girls' the same way a thief 'makes money' Someone who commits mass sexual assault is a poor example. I get your point though, Hugh Hefner is a good example.
/r/seduction28/12/17 02:45 PM
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Just answer honestly? Why bullshit?
/r/seduction11/12/17 03:37 PM
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It’s very unfortunate wording. I think this sub is full of mostly harmless dudes that respect a woman’s boundaries, but with that a lot are naive at just how many ‘grab em by the pussy’ predators there are out there, so don’t understand why stuff like this is rightly pulled up. It would do the community well to show we understand consent and respect but choosing our language carefully.
/r/seduction10/12/17 01:31 AM
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It’s depressing that this simple and true comment is being downvoted. Who’s honestly threatened by this? Another piece of the rape culture mosaic
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:31 PM
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No mate
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:18 PM
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Just out of interest, why post this on seddit and not a sex/relationship sub?
/r/seduction30/11/17 07:41 AM
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Or you're like me and terrified of commitment.
/r/seduction29/11/17 02:36 PM
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In my 30's, still trying to peak.
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:55 AM
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I'm guessing Australia. They were outdoors
/r/seduction30/07/17 11:12 AM
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So basically TRP and the alt-right come about, born of the frustrations of not being able to get laid. I agree with this.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:40 AM
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I got a real buzz out of this story.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:36 PM
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Tl;dr
/r/seduction18/07/17 10:01 PM
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Can guys change their biologic programming? Or is that something that only women cannot do? If we cant change, why be on /r/seddit at all?
/r/seduction18/07/17 03:44 PM
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Lol found the American guys
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:07 PM
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That blonde girl is the reason I subscribe to this sub.
/r/seduction08/07/17 02:07 PM
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How old are you? No joke reading this you sound 13. Nothing wrong with that if true, it will help people here tailor the advice
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:02 PM
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Won prizes?
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:10 PM
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Just remember. The grass is always greener because its fertilized with bullshit.
/r/seduction14/06/17 01:52 PM
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Pretty much the perfect answer. Good question too OP
/r/seduction13/06/17 01:37 PM
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Seek help
/r/seduction11/06/17 06:37 AM
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Why just out of interest? Am I missing something?
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:18 AM
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No. I hope that eventually changes though
/r/seduction04/05/17 10:05 AM
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Good on you for not feeling bitter or entitled. Seriously, good on you.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:14 PM
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I'm weary of the fundamental idea of 'advanced concepts' when it comes to being attractive and attracting women. Pick up is simple. It's not easy (its REALLY not easy), but it is simple.
/r/seduction15/04/17 04:30 AM
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Models by Mark Manson Models by Mark Manson Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction15/04/17 04:28 AM
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THANK YOU Frustrates me to know end that people don't realise this. The Game is not a manual on how to pick up women, its the account of a Rolling Stone journalist following around a group of pickup artists and eventually becoming one himself. He did write a separate 'how to' manual'
/r/seduction15/04/17 04:21 AM
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Sums it up completely. Men and women I think in many ways have a very different dating experience until an exclusive relationship forms. The vast majority of both genders only have a basic understanding of this. Many women look at men and think they have it easy because the body hangups are not there and they don't have to deal with societies 'slut/mother' bullshit. Many men look at women and think 'they can get laid whenever they want' without thinking deeper. One of my friends said it best whe…
/r/seduction28/03/17 03:47 PM
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Great post and attitude, thank you.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:34 PM
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Just a bit too red pill for me
/r/seduction19/03/17 02:41 PM
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Brilliant link, thank you.
/r/seduction08/03/17 03:46 PM
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Good pickup on the slut shaming. That's exactly what some of these comments are.
/r/seduction20/02/17 02:23 PM
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I've been subbed for ages and gave you an upvote
/r/seduction20/02/17 01:23 PM
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I disagree. The top guys I know end up with the sorts of wives/gf's men long for
/r/seduction20/02/17 12:50 PM
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Oddly enough 18-25 were the best years of my life (in my 30's) and I didn't get laid till my mid 20's. go figure.
/r/seduction27/01/17 06:17 AM
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of course you can. See min wage bartenders as an example.
/r/seduction27/01/17 06:16 AM
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Same position. Online dating makes this somewhat easier. Best tip I have, is be open to platonic friendships with the women you meet on Tinder/online if you get along but there's no attraction. It's healthy to have people to swap dating stories/frustrations with and you can broaden your social network.
/r/seduction27/01/17 01:26 AM
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In the same boat mate, there's a few of us out there! The key thing in your early 30's seems to be to get in and stay in shape, many guys our age have really let themselves go (I'm one of them!!)
/r/seduction27/01/17 01:25 AM
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If you posted this to relationships they would have just told you to break up with them
/r/seduction26/01/17 09:32 AM
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eh, I hook up with Australian women all the time. I do live in Australia though
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:13 PM
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There are other ways to get laid without involving pimped-out social media accounts, college, or fraternities. Absolutely. The author of the post even points out that some his friends were doing it differently.
/r/seduction22/01/17 02:30 PM
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Excellent, high quality post. This is great advice and I wish I followed this more when I was younger. Thank you for sharing.
/r/seduction22/01/17 02:28 PM
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Kino is a type of Japanese tea
/r/seduction18/01/17 09:15 AM
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'Yesterday evening while I was playing a computer game and she was reading a book I made a random comment on how I wished we had some potato chips. She ignored my comment and a few minutes later she got up and left the room. Half an hour later she is back with a big grin on her face, cheeks red from the cold, hair full of half melted snow and in her hand a big bag of potato chips.' Wife her you dickhead
/r/seduction17/01/17 02:55 PM
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You sounds like a guy who's out playing some game (e.g. basketball or football) and doing a decent job at it, but you dominate some smaller weaker guy. That smaller, weaker guy gets frustrated and angry and rage-quits. Meanwhile, you're standing there being like, "I don't know why he gets all butthurt about it. If he'd practice some more..." (meanwhile, practicing means playing against other people better than him, which is frustrating). I say this as someone who, as a kid, was sometimes a sore-…
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:38 AM
1

Not having motivation is fine, but this is far past that. Online incel communities are extremely toxic and spread harmful views (especially about rape). Its like a really fat person who eats McDonalds/KFC every other day saying they've got no chance of being thin because of their genetics and they were not born good at sport. So they abuse the shit out of anyone skinny and say that a skinny person (who might spend hours of hard work at the gym each week) has it really easy and they were just bor…
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:34 AM
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That's what I don't get. How can some people, who suck at something, and desperately want to be good at it, do everything in their power to not get good at it? Here's the thing, they don't want to be good at it. They've forged an identity as having the deck rigged against them and woe is me.
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:29 AM
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exactly this.
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:24 AM
1

underrated post. I think many incels/redpillers/foreveralones etc find a strong identity in seeing themselves as a victim (in this case against female 'injustice') and get off on the feeling of it. Its far more comfortable to go "yeah well all women are bitches, the system is rigged against me because i'm not tall/jock/rich/white/whatever" than it is to take responsibility and accept that you are personally responsible to a big extent, of your success and failure with women. I find these men utt…
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:23 AM
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I second this strongly.
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:14 AM
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Herpes only isn't a big deal to those who already have it and are trying to justify to themselves and others about having unprotected sex or not being honest with their partner and letting them decide. Herpes is a very, very big deal to those who don't have it. Ignorance might be bliss to you, but not your partners. Don't be a fuckhead, do the right thing with STD's
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:52 AM
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I reckon it was far harder.
/r/seduction06/01/17 03:15 PM
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ASD: Autism Spectrum Disorder
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:34 PM
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Read Models. You'll see why that statement is wrong
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:32 PM
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3000
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:30 PM
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yawn A man put that brick there to impress a woman. If guys didn't give a shit about women we'd still be (happily) living in caves. The whole human race plays its part
/r/seduction03/01/17 04:56 PM
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Good post, but let's all be decent, non-fuckwit guys and have the skill to differentiate between a 'not right now' and a hard no. Sometimes, quite often, a no is a literal no. Guys who can't tell the difference give game a bad, rapey name.
/r/seduction01/01/17 02:48 AM
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Upvoted. Dr Nerdlove is great.
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:57 AM
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When life hands you lemons, make orange juice. Always keep them guessing.
/r/seduction17/12/16 11:59 AM
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cool story bro
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:31 AM
2

Play real football, join a team.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:38 PM
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Thank you for a honest, succinct reply. A lot of guys will probably get pissed at this, but if they had the ability to just casually bang hot blondes with big boobs, they wouldn't be picking average women. There's nothing wrong with knowing your limits.
/r/seduction08/11/16 07:27 AM
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a mature response, was thinking the same thing.
/r/seduction13/10/16 11:41 AM
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Me either. Fuck him
/r/seduction11/09/16 05:28 AM
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Screen for poor logistics early, and don't waste your time on girls who are never going to go home with you. Probably quite solid advice. In the age of Uber though, I dont know. Still, seems desperate offering to shout her friend a cab.
/r/seduction30/08/16 08:26 AM
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best post here. Listen to this guy
/r/seduction25/08/16 02:47 PM
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why are you here on /r/seduction?
/r/seduction25/08/16 02:44 PM
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I wish I had friends like that to learn from. (Love my friends but they're either taken or are terrible with women)
/r/seduction09/08/16 10:26 PM
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I second this. Quit 'game' for a while. A long while.
/r/seduction05/08/16 09:24 AM
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I agree but I think a bit of crossover is ok? It's valid advice. If you get the basics right, you'll be better at picking up women.
/r/seduction01/08/16 11:44 AM
2

you think he hallucinated his own experience of nofap?
/r/seduction01/08/16 11:40 AM
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' "DO NOT swipe right, you will regret it (picture of me pointing right with a "don't do it" look on my face)' Seriously?
/r/seduction23/07/16 12:35 PM
2

Dude you need to get on tinder plus; it's $5 a month seriously? In Australia its just over $30 a month.....
/r/seduction19/07/16 01:34 PM
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This guy gets it better. That said, that will generally never happen. If she sees you as being as sexual as a toaster, she's not going to refer you to a friend. Female friendship can be a good thing, hit on her friends but don't tell her you're doing it.
/r/seduction09/07/16 04:19 AM
-8

tl;dr kidding, i'll go back and read it!
/r/seduction04/07/16 10:48 AM
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Its a type of traditional Japanese robe.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:24 PM
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My brother.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:24 PM
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Completely agree. I think there's just merit in just practicing the approach until your confidence is up. That way you have a 'win' every time you do it.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:20 PM
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I agree, will set you apart from the desperate. Good luck OP, its damn hard to open, not everyone finds the courage to do so.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:11 PM
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Keen to hear people's experiences of Happn
/r/seduction28/06/16 12:20 PM
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A girl who is giving her number to a guy she finds interesting and attractive is breaking the norm which is a feminist act. She isn't being hypocritical. Shouldn't we be encouraging this behaviour rather than calling her lame? How great would it be if all girls felt ok to do this? How much easier would that be than for them to follow the group-think that digits have to be won? Thank you. This is the correct post. Feminists believe in equal rights, not that men and women are identical. Its quite …
/r/seduction08/05/16 04:10 PM
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100% Contiki. That is what you're after, go research that.
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:58 PM
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Very high quality post. I like that nearly all of what you posted was about self improvement. Genuine self improvement too, not some sort of token shit thought to just pull women.
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:22 AM
1

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:14 AM
1

My life will probably always be pathetic in some way or other, anyway (let's just be realistic) Mate, one of the privileges of being a guy is you can date down in years. Even at 40 its very socially acceptable to be approaching 30 year old women etc. We dont have a bio clock. That said, the line I quoted is a direct symptom of having a low self esteem. That really sucks, I hope it works out, but I'd really suggest researching how you can improve your self esteem as a starting point. Some good wa…
/r/seduction21/04/16 07:47 AM
1

I never got the point of hitting on women who clearly have boyfriends (especially if they're out with them). Is it some weird thing where you're trying to one up the guy? The world is full of single women.
/r/seduction20/04/16 02:47 PM
2

What about semi-autistic losers in their 30s? And he still hasn't approached any women yet? What do you suggest to this? Certainly the answer cannot be "get your life together" because some guys can't, due to innate deficiencies. I guess you won't understand that. But it's pretty much true. Then women are by far the least of your worries. Forget about them. Unsubscribe to /r/seddit If you're not functioning right due to 'innate deficiencies' (and there's nothing at all wrong with that, we all fi…
/r/seduction20/04/16 02:43 PM
3

I actually didn't think it was possible to hook up with a girl with tattoos unless you had them yourself.
/r/seduction06/02/16 04:06 PM
1

Out of interest, do you have tattoos yourself?
/r/seduction06/02/16 12:48 PM
3

Best advice here
/r/seduction20/01/16 11:45 PM
-4

Why does what happens in a relationship between two women have anything to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights31/12/15 04:58 PM
1

Could just join the existing club for that TRP
/r/MensRights31/12/15 02:45 AM
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I'm very very new to this subreddit, I feel strongly about mens rights. All I've seen on the front page is 'rape is not real' posts, that's it. I think the article has a point.
/r/MensRights30/12/15 04:28 PM
2

1: Understand what a 'neg' is. A stupid amount of people, even on this subreddit, think a neg is an insult. It is not an insult. I'll repeat myself, a neg is not an insult. 2: An effective 'neg' is a backhanded compliment. You are complimenting them while making fun of them at the same time. This is classic flirting. So a neg is not 'lol your face looks retarded' So negs are fine but understand what they are first. It's not so much about lowering a woman's self esteem but to differentiate yourse…
/r/seduction20/09/15 02:47 PM
2

out of interest, why bother? Seems like a jackass thing to do to try and get someone to break their standards and push boundaries because reasons. Plenty of women out there who are more openly up for it, I'd personally focus on them.
/r/seduction20/09/15 02:29 PM
54

'bitch shield' or 'I'm fucking sick of guys I'm not interested in coming up to me all the time shield' exists everywhere. I'm not from America but American women have been really friendly to me, part of it is the accent. The other part and would apply to you, just being a traveler makes you that bit more interesting and worldly then someone just staying at home
/r/seduction20/09/15 02:08 PM
4

This. And when you point that out on the tinder sub that maybe having a bit of game has something to do with it, you get downvoted into oblivion by those shouting THE RULES THE RULES
/r/seduction11/09/15 12:12 PM
1

Good post. Cracks me up how many people think The Game (both people for it and against it) think its a manual to pick up women. Its not, its a story about a guy who writes about pickup artists and becomes one himself. Its more of a memoir than a how to manual.
/r/seduction08/09/15 02:05 PM
6

' He laughed and called me a bad girl, wooing strange men in bars' nice neg
/r/seduction07/09/15 01:32 PM
0

not the fucking red pill thats for sure
/r/seduction26/08/15 04:16 PM
26

Women are always welcome here to share their own insights and experience. Thank you
/r/seduction20/08/15 04:24 PM
1

move
/r/seduction16/08/15 03:15 PM
1

you went to MtG to pick up?
/r/seduction16/08/15 02:55 PM
2

interesting read, thank you.
/r/seduction16/08/15 02:46 PM
2

ok that reply was brilliant
/r/seduction16/08/15 02:01 PM
4

this is the answer, no further replies needed.
/r/seduction16/08/15 12:33 PM
3

She's fantastic that woman. I hope she inspires more women not to be afraid to wear that shit on their arm.
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:18 PM
1

Few bits of advice, I'm average at the old 'approach women' game but this is one area I'm quite good at: take the following points *general tidiness and cleanliness. Neat/tidy is important, clean even moreso. Whatever bathroom she's using must be as close to spotless as you can get and provide easy to see amenities such as hand soap (a nice custom pump is great) and wipes. Keep the shower clean. *bedding and sheets. Invest in some nice sheets and bedding. This includes pillows, an underlay (get …
/r/seduction10/08/15 04:37 PM
3

Horrible advice in general. 'Keep your interests visible but not the center of attention. Remember that it's your BEDroom. That's the main attraction.' thats about where the good advice ends. ALWAYS make your bed, kids & teenagers don't make the bed, adults with their shit together (you) do. Books are good but something obviously pretentious like an 18th century art book will make you look like you're trying too much, that is unless you've got a very genuine interest in that topic. I'll post my …
/r/seduction10/08/15 04:22 PM
1

The only good comment here, thank you.
/r/seduction20/07/15 02:29 PM
13

She sounds like someone who couldn't give a fuck talking to a random in the morning. Sounds like me. Remember, No one is entitled to another persons time.
/r/seduction20/07/15 02:28 PM
0

back right off. wait 3 weeks, text at 11pm on Friday night for sex.
/r/seduction16/07/15 01:02 PM
3

excellent post
/r/seduction16/07/15 11:47 AM
3

I've been there, it fucking sucks. WHO'S FUCKING IDEA WAS IT TO MAKE CONDOMS WITH NUMBING CREAM?!?! I actually feel a lot better reading that this has happened to someone else. Laugh it off and move on.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:24 AM
26

In all seriousness, walk away from it then. Stop trying to be a 'PUA' (its largely a mythical archetype anyway), stop approaching women, get off online dating. Give up on women, for now. Work out how to connect with guys, get friends, hang out with them, take up hobbies, have a good time, be happy. Then work it out from there. It sounds like your forcing it. I hate to sound blunt but you probably reek of desperation. Just walk away from it for now, women are fun but there's more to life.
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:22 AM
8

Achievement unlocked!
/r/seduction16/07/15 09:19 AM
48

Fuck, just say you are? Don't be a pussy and hide. You're 21 not 41 If she reacts somewhat negatively just look her in the eyes and ask what she's going to do about it then?
/r/seduction13/07/15 01:24 PM
2

Good advice, but only if you enjoy wine, no point in forcing something. If you do enjoy it, read up on it so you know what the fuck you're doing when you're looking at a menu and you dont fuck up by ordering a Riesling with a steak or something.
/r/seduction08/07/15 04:38 PM
3

for just straight up drinking maybe? Red is fantastic with the right sort of food.
/r/seduction08/07/15 04:37 PM
2

.gr.tn? .wtf
/r/seduction22/06/15 02:44 PM
12

You're 16, stay away from that RSD shit. It will give you a warped view of women. Women pick up on that shit and you become the 'creepy' guy. Be a better man and women will come to you, no tricks needed. If you're somewhat indoors bound, I'd use the time to explore knowledge and learn. Soak up documentaries, books and movies. Make a list of classic movies and go watch them! Read some classic books. At 16 I'd highly recommend Catcher In The Rye (you need to read this as a teenager, its not as goo…
/r/seduction21/06/15 03:35 PM
0

I know exactly what RP is about. It's about being a complete softcock and blaming women and society instead of yourself when the world throws a curve ball at you (divorce, parenthood, the pretty girl you like wont touch your wiener HOW DARE SHE FEMALE PRIVILEGE). I absolutely love being a guy and I know that puts me at the top of the food chain so to speak. The RP sorts that honestly think that they have a penalty in live for having balls instead of a vagina, need their heads checked. They remin…
/r/seduction21/06/15 03:27 PM
-2

They adore returnofkings. Keep in mind this is the same website that thought Mad Max was a feminazi plot against men. Hate groups deserve ridicule wherever they are
/r/seduction21/06/15 02:34 PM
-4

Red Pill philosophy is trash.
/r/seduction21/06/15 02:27 PM
4

really encouraging to see members of Seddit distance themselves from MRA/Red Pill hate shit. If I hated women I wouldn't be trying to seduce them!!!
/r/seduction21/06/15 01:14 PM
8

'I had a mini digital scale' 'I have a hidden cam in my living room' I guess you wont be calling the police hey?
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:02 PM
2

can often mean a low self esteem
/r/seduction29/04/15 03:40 PM
1

You stupid fucking cunt. You just cost me $6,000, what are you going to do about it? What are you going to do about it....asshole You piece of shit! You asshole! where did you learn your trade you stupid fucking cunt, you child. You company man.
/r/seduction25/04/15 04:49 PM
2

+1 to cringe. But fucking awesome movie. An entire movie of A listers.
/r/seduction25/04/15 04:47 PM
19

not with that attitude!
/r/seduction28/03/15 03:51 PM
1

an obvious joke answer is different from a lie (which is what the OP is really asking how to do). You're right in that she has no entitlement to know. That does not give you an entitlement to lie. You can just say 'I don't feel like answering that'
/r/seduction28/03/15 03:50 PM
2

she's still interested if that message is anything to go off. Play it like baseball, three strikes and they're out
/r/seduction28/03/15 02:28 PM
4

just use 'I'M BATMAN' in a gravely voice as your pickup line!
/r/seduction28/03/15 02:27 PM
77

lol made me remember a funny memory. I've pointed at some steps and said 'can you stand on that step?' and just went from there.
/r/seduction28/03/15 02:24 PM
-1

you shouldnt be lying to someone you're wanting to have sex with. Answer honestly. A high number doesn't hurt guys really.
/r/seduction28/03/15 02:23 PM
2

I see someone has downvoted this. Lambskin is a very bad idea but you raise a great point about latex allergies. To be honest, my default is: http://www.amazon.com/Lifestyles-Lubricated-Non-Latex-Condom-36-Pack/dp/B00B5UWD4K/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1427289263&sr=8-6&keywords=skyn They're a little bit exxy (but hey its worth spending to get this stuff right!!) but they smell so much nicer then latex condoms, have a better fit and are non latex!
/r/seduction25/03/15 01:15 PM
2

understanding words meaning i'm sorry you don't can't
/r/seduction25/03/15 01:13 PM
6

The trick is to have them right near your bed, discretely so you can basically reach over and grab one easily. Have lube there too. A drawer on a bedside table is good, if not then in a nice box or something.
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:30 AM
3

glad this is downvoted so hard.
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:29 AM
1

good advice re: wallet storage
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:28 AM
5

I think that happened with a champion footballer, not your average joe. Plenty of guys happy not to use a dom if she just wants that from any old guy
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:27 AM
3

yep, far too rapey for my liking. Sick of shit like this giving PUA's a bad name.
/r/seduction14/01/15 10:01 AM
1

Some girls honestly just want to text etc, can be a way of them exploring things for themselves in what they deam to be a non threatening way. And that's completely fine, dont push too hard, dont 'game it', having a girl send pics like that is a fucking win in anyone's book. As far as progressing it, pull right back from the meeting up suggestions. keep texting her but cut it back a bit, seem a bit more disinterested, then just hit her up at 11pm on a Friday night. Sometimes for women like this,…
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:26 PM
3

I knew someone who use to watch Forrest Gump when they had a girl around. Apparently its so long and boring that it would usually lead to sex just to end the movie early.
/r/seduction08/12/14 09:03 AM
2

I think the language is a bit mysogonistic. Its implying that by being punished by being put in the 'friendzone' (read: time out) that the woman who put you there has done so unjustifiably (as in its not the mans 'fault' he's in there) and she's a bit of a bitch for doing so. All humans have a right to choose who they want relations with and who they dont. And for those saying 'oh you can get out of the friendzone', 90% of the time that means you need to be a dick. I've got female friends who i'…
/r/seduction11/11/14 06:13 PM
0

YES Strauss could clearly see it, it comes across in his writing that they were basically psychopaths more interested in breaking into womens minds/emotions then wanting warm, good, human sexual relationships. RSD are a fucking huge liability to the 'seduction' community concept.
/r/seduction11/11/14 06:07 PM
1

Good advice. To be fair though its really both at the same time. No one wants to ever become the creepy 'that guy' that seems completely oblivious to when a woman's not interested.
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:17 AM
2

Excellent post, thank you.
/r/seduction17/10/14 12:54 PM
4

good post. Women just are not worth turning into an asshole for. I'd rather like myself and sleep with a few less.
/r/seduction16/09/14 02:30 PM
1

OK Prince Harry, no problem.
/r/seduction11/09/14 11:22 AM
-10

forcing an f-close is rape.... 'dont force it' is probably good advice. swipe right for everything is great advice
/r/seduction09/09/14 03:04 PM
4

www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZjwCmJrnlY
/r/seduction03/09/14 03:34 PM
1

This is good advice. Shame dickheads are downvoting it. Anything over 1200TC is probably a gimmick and remember that thread count is a bit like a cars engine size, bigger isnt always better. (rather drive a 3l Porsche then a GM twice the size)
/r/seduction02/09/14 04:37 PM
1

good post OP
/r/seduction01/09/14 03:54 PM
3

Fucking this, a thousand times this. If i had money you'd get gold. read this again and meditate guys: 'Can we stop with the 'alpha male' stuff, you cannot fit every man in the world into two categories of alpha and beta.' 'Asking for nudes is a big no-no outside of a relationship (or possibly fwb), you're trying to sleep with this girl not jack off to her'
/r/seduction01/09/14 03:51 PM
-2

Try something critically undervalued and often avoided here, be 100% honest. Tell her you're a virgin that got over it, so rather than whine and feel sorry for yourself, you acted like a man and decided to change your situation. You hit the gym, take pride in yourself and you're trying to be a better man so you can get pretty ladies like her. Tell her exactly the fuck what you're doing. Alpha as fuck and she cant say you're being dishonest etc. She might not hook up with you but she'll damn well…
/r/seduction01/09/14 03:46 PM
4

Good post. There's a few things at play here I believe. Firstly, its not just PUA, its everything. People will generally be interested in a quick fix. If could be 'just eat/skip this one food and you'll lose weight!' 'Do this to get rich quick!' 'Shortcut way to build muscle!' etc. If the options are between hard work and a quick fix, many will investigate the quick fix. The other thing at play is that a lot of the hardcore AFC guys tend to be quite geeky/lack social skills. What really appeals …
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:19 PM
2

You want my advice? Fuck all these guys saying watch videos of Tyler etc. Dont fill your head with shit. What you need to do is travel. Might be hard with your job, but save up and go on a Contiki around Europe or backpack etc (assuming you're not from there, if you are, visit USA Australia etc). Dont worry so much about meeting women, meet dudes, become a bro and learn how to just meet other people in general and go out and have a great time. once you feel comfortable with introducing/making fr…
/r/seduction17/04/14 12:52 PM
2

guys who try and nab other dudes girlfriends are bottom feeder losers. get a life.
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:06 AM
1

Consent should always be crystal clear. Everyone should be very strict on this. Yes is yes, no is no. If a woman cant say 'yes' and has to pretend that she's not interested in sex or it needs to be against her will then move on. The best women are the ones that say they want sex with a smile.
/r/seduction11/04/14 08:02 AM
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