| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Im realizing my behavior and emotions changed.... Maybe I developed PTSD or symptoms? | ninjafudo12 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 04:09 PM | |
| 6 | Can only seem to get my paperwork done if I drink. Who else has this problem? | ninjafudo12 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/21 12:11 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How did you guys bring it up to your (now) Ex wife? What was the conversation?She told me she wanted a divorce so i cant say. I would never divorce a woman i loved if there was another way to fix the situation and the situation didnt involve cheating or addiction. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/21 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Rent or buy?Get out of any area where housing is that expensive. Ive got a nice 1000sq ft house on .17 acres for 830 a month in my area. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Please take care men…I guess guy fucked around and found out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | WARNING ⚠️:/ :( | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Just seems to belong hereKinda. More like... why tell big government i like someone a lot? Our world is a clown world. "Gov: hey we know you two like each other a lot so we'll let you file taxes together and we'll tell the dr offices they have to let spouces make decisions if you're knocked out." That is pretty much all it does. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Just seems to belong hereLmao! Almost had this feeling yesterday but the gf actually did the chores i wanted her to. I like this one enough to stay together but i think im done with marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Remember: YOU'RE the prize.She came to make sure her hubby isnt on this sub. She is afraid of the work it would take to lose weight and look good enough to seduce another poor SOB. Plus she is afraid to lose all the benefits kf marriage. She knows if she had to pay for services, she might as.well just bend.over and take it in the butt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 8 | I am in tears reading this because it’s funny asl 😂😂 is this what marriage like for real for men ?This is what happens when guys fall for the bs line "happy wife happy life" and "yes dear" as good ideas. I always look at those guys and shakemy head and tell them they are nuts. A wife that doesnt respect the man as the head of a household is wearing the pants and you're no longer a man in such situations. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/21 11:48 PM |
| 7 | fuck the lawyers, I'm going pro se - a primerDid pro se. I wouldnt have done it if the ex wife was not also doing it. We agreed on everything. The only potential snag was the house equity we built up for 2 to 3 years. If i had kids i would have gotten a lawyer. Or if the ex wife and i didnt agree on anything. I was so lucky. The whole time the ex and i were seperated i just treated her with civility and respect (in some ways difficult to do) and prayed we wouldnt fight and then waste money on lawyers. It worked for me but for aggressive ca… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Im realizing my behavior and emotions changed.... Maybe I developed PTSD or symptoms?Yeah im divorced from her now. Thats a positive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Im realizing my behavior and emotions changed.... Maybe I developed PTSD or symptoms?Mental health is contagious???? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Im realizing my behavior and emotions changed.... Maybe I developed PTSD or symptoms?She has a legitimately good heart. For the sake of making it known. Ex wife and ex gf are different. Ex gf makes an effort and just sucks at being functional. Which i get because every logical person who doesnt understand anxiety would kick her to the curb... Which gives her anxiety and makes her feel like EVERYONE is an asshole. Im not an asshole. Ive set up boundries with her. Room mate situation is different and doing okay/well. I dont think sexual relations with her will help her or I. We bo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Im realizing my behavior and emotions changed.... Maybe I developed PTSD or symptoms?The only feeling that gives me any solace is becoming a hermit and single forever and just doing all the things i love . but i still feel incredibly lonely at times while i do my own thing. Also.. sorry for all the typos. Im on a phone in the shower (my 'safe place' lol... If i believed in that) with a plastic bag on it . | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Sell me (re)marriageI cant even find the courage to date. Women are possesed by emotion eating heartless demons these days. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 3 | "Happy Wife Happy Life"And there isno reason to settle (and no reason to get married if you have benefits through your job). Get married religiously (only) if you want but when it comes down too it, marriage from a legal standpoint is nothing but risk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | If Hell exists, it has absolutely nothing on the horrific nightmare of being married to and subsequently divorcing someone with NPD. This is the 1st time I've ever truly witnessed..., EVIL.I didnt read. But hell.doesnt exist until AFTER judgement day... Which happens after basiclly hell on earth for christians and a time of high hopes and appearances of peace and good things for nonchristians... while actually things are terrible for anyone with principals. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Thought you might get a kick out of this.What does stbx mean? This whole time i have been reading this reddit i thought it meant shitbox | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 5 | How did you touch the hot stove again.....shake the hornets nest. Youth? Ignorance? Desperation?Spot on^ I recently finalized my divorce. It was probably one of the easiest and least impactful divorces in history (we agreed on the split of everything no kids, a house but not a lot of equity) but it gave me so much anxiety for a year or so because I realized how screwed I would have been (or could be) if she pressed for more stuff.... Being at the whim of government and being in fear of alimony or some false rape charges (women have done anything historicly)...(id have jumped off mount ever… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | "How long have you been married?"" it is what it is" is exactly what I said. During 2020 at my job place we had 3 including me get divorced. One guy is getting taken to the cleaners. One guy i dont know. Im getting the best deal of the three. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/21 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Legal costs of divorceDamnnnnnnn bruh. I didnt get a lawyer. I hope it doesnt bite me in the ass. Mysoon to ve ex wife and I agree on everything and went pro se and not using a lawyer. Thr self help in mt state is pretty helpful. Shout out to Julie if she reads this stuff! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I sent this email to her hoping to save things.I have tried to connnect all the dots and I have been unable. But alas, a silver lining! Since you have connections to good lawyers, you should probably call one because you're gonna want to sue to get your balls back. If you have to convince your wife (?) to marry or stay married, then you already lost your mancard and her respect. Dont negotiate with terrorists. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Bad Bill of GoodsWhere is cruelty or control mentioned anywhwre except in your assumptions ? Seems like you are projecting something. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Bad Bill of GoodsI see you are complaining, but where is your solution? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 0 | Bad Bill of GoodsUmm... What? At first i thought OP was trying to talk about some billing record he had with his spouse but from some other country. Then i realized that the OP is trying to make a statement about all marriage. I get your point OP. Many men do. We men are part of the problem though, we keep marrying these kinds of entitled women. Idk how accurate the news is i have heard, but women from other countries might have a better upbringing and idea of loyalty and responsibilitiy and a clearer grip on tr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Regrets?Lol. I guess we're both better off? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/21 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Regrets?She took over household duties??? Damn. Thats pretty sweet. Homely women are the best. I gotta bribe my new gf with a video game on a computer (only i know the password for) and tell her its how she pays rent (the cleaning list).. In order for her to do cleaning. She likes to cook though at least. And my currrent situation is pretty clutch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/21 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Regrets?Im aware bruh. I put friends in the quotes lol. First thing she did after the split was move in with him. Lol now she tells me "we're just room mates"... Yeah.. Sure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 9 | Regrets?Yeah sounds like you messed up. I was always disapointed in my ex wife but id accept her just the same and always forgive her after i got initially upset. She left me because she felt like she wasnt good enough... And she also confided our marriage problems with a male work "friend" for over a year behind my back on text and in person amd "not dates" dates... . So i guess i dodged a disloyal bullet by her leaving? I still get memories of rhe good times though and that makes me feel like i was lu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Need Advice -First time postingLeave her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Can only seem to get my paperwork done if I drink. Who else has this problem?I agree but i cant do my paperwork while i excercise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/21 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Can only seem to get my paperwork done if I drink. Who else has this problem?The most annoying part is how much information they want about piddly shit. Why does the government neeed to be involved at all. I got married for spiritual reasons. Why would anyone want government involved in their marriage? Its the dumbest thingnow that im getting a divorce and had time to think of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/21 12:13 PM |
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