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What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:24 AM
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Filing the papers does not mean they initiate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:59 PM
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That's not at all what I said, I was comparing 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:32 PM
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Yeah if he tried to pick me up when I was 13 and he was 20 absolutely not but some people try to argue its the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:24 PM
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My husband is 7 years older, we were 27 and 34. A lot of people going for age gaps ignore the difference between 18 and 25 and full grown adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:07 PM
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No, I knew the guy was 23, I didn't know my husband and I met before we met if that makes sense. I think 31 and 24 is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:55 PM
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Personally I would have been fine with it but wouldn't recommend it. It depends on the person. We actually met when I was 16 dating a 23 year old but I didn't know that until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:58 PM
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I literally replied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:28 AM
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I feel like you're kind of proving everyone's point, women are saying they do care but you keep insisting they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:51 PM
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Right, my husband is 7 years older than me. It would be very different if we met when I was 13 instead of 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:49 PM
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Dude whatever that's literally what I'm saying. A potential partner is someone who makes the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:13 AM
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It's not the peanut gallery, I'm talking about potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:11 AM
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If you want someone else in your vagina it kind if matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:22 AM
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Have you ever seen secret eaters? Some of them actually don't know which is baffling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:52 PM
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It's having options besides marrying whoever you happen to go on a date with when you're 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:48 PM
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They don't want the options and don't cry at night because they aren't getting some dick. A lot of women are completely cool being single, more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:43 PM
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Why do you think they think they're above them? Women just have more options and can decide to not be in a relationship, that doesn't mean they're lonely or seeking a man. So sorry but women don't need a marriage to have a bank account anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:24 PM
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And that's indicative of women being crazy? I mean you could say the same thing basing men off Andrew Tate fans or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:54 PM
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Are you seriously basing your argument off a trashy reality TV show? Hate to break it to you but that shit isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:11 PM
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You have to have neon blue eye shadow for some guys to recognize make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:13 PM
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The guys are also having sex early on. I don't think my husband and I lasted like half an hour before having sex and he put a ring on it. Honestly every long term relationship I've had was first date or before. It's not the sex that's the problem. She could wait and they still wouldn't stay. Why do some guys think she shouldn't have a sex drive until they decide it's acceptable then act all shocked that they have a dead bedroom? ETA: it's her personality, not the sex that is driving guys away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:50 PM
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No absolutely not at all, I'm saying people like to have sex and the pull out method is only 70% successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:15 PM
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So sometimes a man will put a penis in a vagina because it feels good and people enjoy it. When this happens stuff will come out of his penis. This contains sperm and when it meets an egg inside the woman a baby is made. When people don't have access to birth control or money for condoms this is more likely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:09 PM
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At least I know what a vagina feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:58 PM
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You don't realize there was a reason your teacher was concerned in elementary school or you took a scam online test.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:06 AM
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I'm not just talking about foreign countries at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:03 AM
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I've never met an intelligent person who brags about their IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:48 AM
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I wasn't talking about finding a partner, I was talking about brothels. There's a difference between finding a love connection and paying to rape a trafficked 13 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:47 AM
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Idiots need to say that because they can't get their dick wet. Every fucking guy who says that thinks Rick and Morty is super sophisticated and completely doesn't understand satire in Fight Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:44 AM
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You aren't, it's a specific type of guy that has nothing to do with liking to travel. It's having a passport specifically for sex or just rape in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:06 PM
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I clearly was not talking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:03 PM
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It's not just non western countries, it's racist for you to think they obviously can't be white. I know where to find disadvantaged white women in Illinois because I work with them in anthropology and legal aid. When I mentioned Amsterdam I was specifically referring to white women. The Super Bowl is the highest sex trafficked event (edit: in the fucking world). Epstein?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:07 PM
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I agree but that is not why passport bros are traveling. I think the subreddit was banned or quarantined I don't know it there's a new one but they were absolutely looking for disadvantaged women. Flat out saying it and making trip reports about where to find the youngest and most disadvantaged women. Getting laid on a vacation is not being a passport bro. I'm pretty sure there was a post about where to find the most homeless girls under 13. ETA: I think one of the top comments was a dude asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:54 PM
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No A LOT of passport bros constantly talk about how they're super hot and desirable and are actually that delusional and think it's western women's fault for not wanting to be an abused bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:57 PM
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If you consider dumpster diving and being homeless a thriving lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:53 PM
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Rampant? No it's not. The only guys who are convinced that it's a rampant problem don't have to worry because they have no gold to dig unless you include your good boy tendies your mom microwaved for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:38 PM
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I have no problem with sex workers but are you seriously saying it's helping the problem by accepting a blow job? I actually had to read a lot of transcripts about interviews from an anthropologist about people who did it in Brazil. They really don't want to and talk mad shit about all of the passport brows. Multiple men and women, like more than half literally had to run to throw up. But sure, they super want your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:46 PM
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They don't want to fuck you, it's economic desperation. If you want to be completely delusional that's on you. I was going to type up the whole lyrics to What Would You Do by City High but am not invested enough. Do you really think some cute 20 year old in poverty is just really into you when you can't get a tinder match at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:33 PM
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I don't think anyone has a problem with CONSENTING ADULTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:25 PM
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What's your point? Yes I picked big sex tourism cities for examples of sex tourism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:24 PM
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It is and they don't even try to hide it. Add in the prostitution sex tourists and they're literally just rapists. Even in western Europe something like 85% of the prostitutes in the red light district are trafficked against their will and its extremely obvious. ETA: in Amsterdam I don't understand how you can even get a boner unless you're a sociopath who hates women. Don't even get me started on Mexico City.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:57 PM
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If they're really insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:54 AM
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Yeah, I really don't get how suggesting therapy to someone struggling mentally is cold. What exactly does OP expect? To trauma dump on women? To date him or jump on his dick because he's sad? That's just such a weird example of women not caring and it's his first one. For me at least it's not even specific to men, if a good friend, man or woman, needs to talk I will be all ears but an acquaintance or random person online, once again, man or women, I'm not your free therapist or emotional labor. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:50 AM
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I think a lot of people don't understand bang maid isn't sticking to traditional gender roles, it specifically means you only like them and acknowledge their existence for sex and chores. Bang maid is an insulting term to mean that's all they are. Joking about it is one thing but actually wanting a bang maid, by what the term actually means, is insulting. If something is popularized by Frank Reynolds that should be a sign it's not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:41 PM
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It depends on the difference and how many hours worked and what they actually can contribute vs if it's just what they want to. If there's a teacher and someone in a well paying 9 to 5 with no extra work the teacher shouldn't do more during the school year just because they have a lower salary. If a woman can pay more but doesn't she should do more work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:54 AM
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If the woman wants a provider and isn't working no. If they have an agreement on traditional gender roles that's fine but if they're both working yes, he is to expect the woman to do it. Thinking all women have to do all housework is sexist, having an agreement in your relationship isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:17 AM
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Social security isn't going to exist so less people paying into it isn't a huge problem and immigration can cover Healthcare workers which are the main problems with not keeping the population growing. If anything a lower population would be better for unemployment and housing (edit: and tuition) crises. Even then it's not women's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:17 PM
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So not wanting to bang you is the same as having a very strong hate towards you? Do you know what despise means? That honestly says a lot more about you and how you view relationships than women if you think anyone who doesn't jump on your dick hates you. No wonder you're having trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:12 PM
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If anything it's been going on longer than men. Cat lady vs bachelor. Lonely seamstress vs bachelor. Creepy old witch vs bachelor. ETA: that's literally where the witch stereotype came from since the middle ages. Women who can't get or don't want a man can't be trusted and are evil. A single old man is a fun uncle figure but a single old woman needs to be burned at the stake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:35 AM
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It's like asking for std tests every time they go out with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:05 AM
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Only sociopaths don't have feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:00 AM
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I actually think the opposite is true. There have been countless studies that women in non western cultures expect to be supported. It's just a fact. You're talking about early dating, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:42 PM
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I think you're confusing respect with being buttered up. It's also just not true, my husband was unemployed when we met and cooking is my main hobby. If there's some reason women in the US don't spend money on you it's not the women who are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:21 PM
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They absolutely were not more severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:55 PM
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One guy? Thousands of women but one guy? And women are just supposed to deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:15 PM
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It's what you say and how you treat them, not what you're thinking. If you saw a hot chick in a bikini at the beach would your pick up line be "I want to be balls deep in your ass"? Hopefully not, even if you're thinking that. Same applies to thirsty comments online unless it's like on pornhub. We all know you're having lustfull thoughts, it's how you treat them. Edit: treat them as another human and not a sex object.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:06 PM
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You can enjoy something without making a weird comment. What were the comments? Edit: what I mean is there's a difference between "you look hot" and "I want you to choke on my dick" where it crosses the line is when you treat them like a sex object and not a sexy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 12:19 AM
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You don't have to be rich for someone to think you can spoil them. It depends on what the other person makes. Some people are impressed if they can order 2 drinks at applebees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:10 PM
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AIDS is more common with anal sex, not just gay sex. There are a ton of straight dudes who will casually have unprotected anal with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:08 PM
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Not the majority or tons at all, I think you need to spend time in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:58 PM
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That means doing the fucking dishes, not getting spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:46 PM
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There was a male pill being tested but guys complained about the side effects too much which were the same as the female pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:36 PM
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Not really, my husband's super old school mafia affiliated grandfather was cool with his boyfriend. Also I think I'm old for reddit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:54 AM
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I don't even know what to say to that besides I'm sorry you met an asshole? It has nothing to do with being bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:05 AM
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He definitely has a preference for women but no? Just being bi doesn't make you a cheater. Was the guy gay and using bi as a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:51 AM
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We don't have threesomes and having sex with another person would be cheating, it has nothing to do with gender. I don't remember how I found out, I think he might have mentioned an ex boyfriend before we even met in person or he told me? We met on tinder and were video chatting for hours everyday for 2 weeks before we met in person. I know I knew by then but honestly don't remember how it came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:43 AM
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There's also a lot more men experimenting than you think. Grindr crashed from traffic during the republican national convention and the super bowl. It's not just a thing women do. I really don't think there are enough out gay or bi men going to the republican national convention to make it crash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:39 PM
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Switch I think it's called. Both. He's mentioned having a dick in his ass but I don't know the percentage of times. ETA: because I honestly don't care, I never asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:30 AM
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I really don't think it's most. Maybe it's just where I live and my social circles but I've never actually met a woman who cares, I've only heard about it online. Also the lesbian porn thing is because most other porn is totally focused on male pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:14 AM
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I mean, I would, my super manly husband is bi and has had serious boyfriends, not just "experiences" and I'm straight. It's a lot more socially acceptable for women to experiment and men encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:57 AM
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Do you actually go to gyms or are you basing this off female influencers and assuming how men dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:46 PM
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A lot of people over estimate how good their personality is so blame it on something physical. Maybe your personality is a 3 but the hot guy's personality is a 6 but people assume it's just the hotness. People are also attracted to different personalities, just like physical features.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:00 AM
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That porn is directed at men, not women. The person watching it likes being humiated, it isn't for the person humiliating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:57 AM
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It's because a lot of men also do that in their 20s and people with similar interests, values, and experiences get in relationships. Those aren't the same men complaining loudly online because they're out experiencing life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:49 AM
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Those are labor, it's just that when you compare hours of labor for stuff like assembling furniture and repairs to daily running of the house it's not close. If you're assembling furniture as much as you clean your bathroom you either have a furniture addiction or a gross bathroom. The other stuff I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:05 AM
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The "high earning busy career woman from manhattan goes to a country town and learns about love from the guy at the gas station while he's spitting chew" trope too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:31 AM
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Do you really not know the difference between up front and pushy? That's a gigantic problem you should work on. Those people who try to get you to sign a petition on the street are upfront. Continuing to ask and not dropping it when you say no is pushy. Imagine going on a date or messaging one of those street petition or mall kiosk people and they wouldn't drop it with the petition or face cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:56 AM
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I'm the same as you, I have no desire or even think about picking someone up for casual sex but have a very high drive when I like someone, not even in love or anything just some connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:50 AM
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That doesn't contradict what I said at all. You're agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:07 AM
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They also timed how long participants spent on profiles and women in general spent more time. Men were swiping based on a quick glance and women were reading profiles which will make less people desirable. Men see a hot chick and like, women see a hot guy and look to see his profile is incompatible and don't. A guy could like a hot chick based on pictures then find out she's a white nationalist nazi meth head that was clear in the profile he didn't read. I hear advice from guys, especially here,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:17 PM
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Who are women dating then? It's not all 20 year olds dating 37 year olds. Women are single and not looking for relationships too. How is there a large divide when it takes 2 to be in a relationship? Lesbian relationships aren't a large enough percentage to cause a huge divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:51 AM
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They kill themselves more and are less likely to seek medical help in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:14 PM
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Are people using the term differently? I would take a hook up to mean one night stand, not a relationship. In that case, yes, I need to like my husband for more than one night. With exs, I wouldn't with some but that's because of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:18 AM
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Not to mention straight up murdering people and starting a trend of purposely chasing women to scare them and trying to sue their parents for neglect because their mom won't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:09 PM
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He was 5'8, blamed his mom for being Asian and equated that with being feminine. He's not my type but he's not ugly. I really don't think he looked feminine, just not like Thor. Edit: I can't post pictures but if you google image search he was absolutely not small and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:01 AM
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No one's forcing you to spend your free time reading it. Maybe you'd be less of a "bitter pill man" if you took a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:15 AM
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I'm not, this whole subreddit is about relationships. You can say whatever you want but people can call you stupid for complaining about people using the subreddit as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:23 AM
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Are you lost? This isn't a cooking subreddit or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:43 AM
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He was the banner picture of the incel subreddit for years before it was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:08 PM
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Their hero was an attractive trust fund kid who's dad was a Hollywood producer who produced Hunger Games, mom was a model and actress and had a BMW and vacation homes at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:56 PM
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Unwed and mothers has nothing to do with teen pregnancy. Also, conservative states allow marriage younger and encourage pregnant 15 year olds to get married. Look at age of the kids and age they got married. A conservative 16 year old is much more likely to be forced into marriage, excluding them from the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:03 AM
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I never said stay at home, the whole post is about doing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:02 AM
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The implication is that she's doing everything, like in the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:39 PM
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That's just not true, it's correlated to conservative areas much more than economic status. There's a reason Utah doesn't require the fathers consent for adoption and it's not feminism, it's rich Mormon men running the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:34 PM
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Mechanic guys do, a lot of guys get weirdly pissy if women can do "man things" better than them. I know female mechanics and a weird amount of guys who couldn't change a tire get offended that a woman fixed their car.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:29 PM
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Even in places where it's legal there's a lot of trafficking. Something like 93% of the women in the red-light district in Amsterdam were trafficked. Sex tourists don't stop to think why there are very few western European women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:54 PM
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What if her husband dies or is abusive and she leaves? Whore if she isn't celibate the rest of her life? I mean, she's had a previous partner and would walk down the aisle not a virgin. Would you fail if your son wasn't a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:33 AM
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You immediately jumped from no sexual experience/ virgin to whore. If your daughter was with a guy for years and had sex that would make her a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:28 AM
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Do you think there aren't incels in western Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:42 AM
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My skin actually got a lot better when I stopped a skincare routine. If it's a hobby they're probably using a lot of products and trying new things to fix issues from the previous thing which is creating a new problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:55 AM
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What were the more recent historical studies relying on if not genetics? Is it documents? Obviously that's going to be very skewed because women know if they gave birth. A man could have 20 kids and not know or be listed anywhere as reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:10 AM
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That's fine, I was just picturing you reading off a list like a job interview
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:11 AM
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Can you memorize them? Even in a lull whipping out your phone isn't great. It makes it feel like a job interview and not a connection if you have to read off of a list of questions/ topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:59 AM
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Are you staring at your phone to check your list of conversation topics? Don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:19 AM
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Has your experience with "dropping the mask" coincided with opening up about red pill views? Because you're the only common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:07 AM
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I said nothing about height and the comment I replied to said nothing about that. Interesting you automatically went to that and bad boy = tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:55 AM
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No, there's no way to be attractive and not a bad boy (joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:43 AM
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What? Are you saying having a stay at home parent is worse than surrogacy? Who's going to be taking care of the kid full time? A full time live in nanny (wet nurse), cleaner, house manager, and secretary (and someone making your penis happy) would cost a lot more than a couple years of alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:18 AM
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It's also incredibly common for someone to run the house, including paying through the other person's medical school or something with the assumption that it will benefit both of them then the other person leaves when they finish. The supporters deserve money from the career they made possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:17 PM
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Alimony is rare. Basically everywhere you have to be married 20 years for full alimony which ends when you move in with someone. There's also temporary where you have to support them to get a certificate or associates if they had a huge career gap raising your kids. Custody always starts at 50/50 and probably 70-80% of my clients request every other weekend fun time dad when the mom wants 50/50 and no child support. I think one or two have wanted full custody when it wasn't an abuse / neglect si…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:02 PM
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How is men tending to make more money and not take care of chores / kids antimale? Men actually get more custody if they file, the average is off because they don't. The only exception is breast feeding but duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:54 PM
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Would you want a chick who didn't like you and was hitting up everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:32 AM
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No, I was just pointing out in some places no one has a say in an abortion. The comment I replied to was about it being a woman's decision but some women don't have a decision. I really don't understand why this is so hard for you to comprehend. If no one has a choice they both don't have a choice. Saying men are the ones without a choice and it's the woman's fault even if she doesn't have a choice either is dumb in a medically concerning way. You know how babies are made, right? You know a baby…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:46 PM
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Ok but men do too. The comment said having kids wasn't a choice for men. If you're going to use the "keep it in your pants" argument it applies to men too. The context, if you read, was about abortion not sex. If women can't get abortions then you can't say women have a choice but men don't when they had consensual sex. Eta: you can't call yourself an egalitarian if you think women make the choice to have children by having consensual sex but men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:53 PM
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At least in the US you can't say it's not forced for every woman anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:22 PM
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Well women go to therapy and take meds more but men kill themselves more so who's approach is working?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:08 PM
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There's also a huge difference between asking someone out you've spent social time with and a coworker you've only had professional interactions with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:24 AM
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Where do you live? That's just not true overall. Maybe if you're an alcoholic chain smoking meth cook who hasn't seen their feet in 30 years. I'm sorry if people die or get serious health issues in their 60s in your experience but that isn't common.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:15 PM
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I've definitely seen A LOT of people, not just incels, compare it to food and water. I'm not saying it's not a need just not the same as food.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:10 PM
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You're never entitled to sex with that person, you're entitled to end the relationship but not forcing or guilt tripping that person to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:44 PM
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It's not the same as needing food or water which a lot of people compare it to. Being super horny isn't a life or death situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:41 PM
8

Now that's just crazy talk (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:23 PM
7

"Many studies" ETA: Literally the first line of the first post that comes up on Google is his blog saying the opposite. Not only is it not an academic study but its disagreeing with you. Try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:54 AM
16

I don't think this will ever get through to them because they don't think of the 20 year old as a person but a prize. They don't care about life stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:05 AM
12

They're dumb, it's terrible advice. I've never heard it but who the fuck would think "trade sex for a place to live with a guy who would be ok with that to escape abuse" would ever be good advice? "Get out of an abusive situation by putting yourself in a situation where you're very likely to be abused again or at the very least a sex doll!" I would be very uncomfortable with any guy who honestly said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:49 PM
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I never found it funny either but it was extremely common because people were unhappy marrying whoever they happened to be dating when they were 18. If I married the person I was dating at 18 and couldn't get divorced I'd probably find that shit funny too. My grandparents seemed like they had a fine relationship but they were together for 70 years just because of no sex ed or birth control or condoms and got pregnant at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:50 PM
1

You're 3 decades off for women having bank accounts and buying a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:12 PM
16

No, the top 20% is bs. You don't need to be the top 20 you just need something going for you since women can have bank accounts and own property now. Existing isn't enough. Have you wondered why the "I hate my spouse" boomer humor has basically disappeared?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:08 PM
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I think a lot of this is guys who want the whole manic pixie dream girl trope. People are people and their day to day life is overall fairly boring. You might have an interesting job but at the end of the day people don't go on wacky adventures regularly on a Wednesday evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:28 AM
7

I think you're the one who doesn't understand. You WERE calling her a roster in your analogy, she was continuing the analogy which is how conversations work. You're the one who to her extension of the analogy literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:16 AM
-1

Are you talking about a hook up or a relationship? If all you care about is getting laid, crushing and hook ups. If you want a relationship, husbands. The bar for hook ups is a lot lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:29 AM
4

Millenia, not centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:38 AM
3

If that's been your experience that says a lot more about you and your personality than women. Most guys don't need to buy girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 07:22 AM
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How old are you? Did you just discover music today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:10 AM
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Yeah, parties still exist but the people complaining were never going to parties in the first place. Even invited they still didn't come because of a WoW raid or something. I had very stereotypical nerdy friends and party "cool" friends and the nerdy friends just didn't come to parties even though they were happily invited.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:34 AM
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Something like 80% of prostitutes in the red light district were trafficked even with regulation. Basically they get told they're going to be a nanny or something then owe the traffickers a lot of money and have no way to leave. There's a reason they're mainly eastern European and not Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:20 AM
3

Yeah she started after he was sneaking around and had a second secret phone but he was just cooking meth and murdering people not cheating so fuck her, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:31 AM
5

I feel like every really popular show or movie that many men like is not reflecting reality but people think women's shows do. With breaking bad people absolutely hated the wife for cheating but loved him for cutting up bodies in a bathtub. I'm not defending cheating but objectively which is worse? And it happened in the same episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:34 PM
3

Correlates with substance abuse lol. No one drinks or takes pills like finance bros, lawyers, or your average country club brunch. It's just considered classy and not a problem if it's 10 bloody marys instead of one 40. There is a correlation with arrests but not drug abuse. Wealthy people take prescribed meds instead of picking up heroin (edit: or meth) on the corner. Eta: the correlation is with convictions, not arrests. So if you can get a good lawyer you aren't included in those statistics e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:59 PM
3

I'm curious about the logistics of this in your head. Penises aren't turkey basters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:30 PM
7

Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:54 AM
24

This is the opposite but my husband is shooting blanks and I'd never do sperm donation. If I go through pregnancy I'd want it to be ours. I'd much rather adopt than having a rando's sperm or egg inside me. But I've also never felt the need to be pregnant, I'd just put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:00 AM
15

Who's buddies are responding to your calls or capable of taking you into custody? "They hit me and I'm scared" Their drinking buddies show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:06 AM
2

Just because you can get something doesn't mean it's what you want or doesn't make you miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:10 PM
5

I mean, that's like saying it's easier to "earn" a job stocking shelves at Walmart than going to school and getting a job in your field.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:55 PM
6

No one is denying that they get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:55 PM
2

I've always shown them, I've never said or heard someone say "2.5 inches". The only timeis if you're donating hair and need at least a foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:48 AM
2

Having the option to quit is absolutely not the same thing as only thinking about quitting. There's a reason the ball and chain boomer sitcom humor is not a thing anymore and that when divorce became socially acceptable and the divorce rate shot up the majority of people had been married over 10 years. People thought about leaving and hated their spouse a lot more when you married whoever you happened to be dating for 6 months when you were 20 and then stayed for 70 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:46 AM
1

I believe that but the contract holding up and it being a legitimate site isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:33 PM
3

Making a baby the old fashioned way does not have the protections sperm donation does. A legit donation site would never do that. Someone is lying. There arent even legitimate actual meet up sperm donation websites. Maybe "breeding" kink sites but no legitimate sperm donation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:10 PM
4

That's cool but doesn't change the fact that it's not enforceable. I think either you or him or both are very gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:47 AM
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I don't know anywhere where their contract would hold up. Maybe he said that and is lying or is being taken advantage of but that is not enforceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:42 AM
1

How would you make Anne, Lucy, Sarah, etc creative? You can but you can with your examples too. It's harder with some names but it's not harder for one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:59 AM
1

Jayson and Brayden are a lot more normal than like Mcashleighlynne.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:36 PM
1

Have you noticed that in a lot of families who give their kids "unique names" the sons almost always have more normal names like Hunter and the daughters are all very creative spelling? Names aren't nature, that's social conditioning that boys are expected to enter the work force and they expect girls to be trad wives. Stupidly spelled names are more common with naming girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:04 PM
4

I'm a lawyer married to a mechanic who was unemployed when we met. I guess I don't exist to some people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:25 AM
3

Unattractive men may or may not be abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:23 AM
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So it's women's fault if men lie? I thought "not all men", should women assume every man is a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:44 AM
12

He thinks porn is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:39 AM
1

But do they actually believe the validation or are they just saying it? If it was a guy he knew who caused the negative experiences would he validate her experiences? It's easy to say "yeah that guy was an asshole" with out actually understanding if you're trying to get your dick wet. If we're talking about reddit men defend other men a lot even if it's an anonymous woman saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:37 PM
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Oh no men have to be responsible for the humans they create?! How dare the modern world do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:05 PM
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Even the ones that aren't AI purposely use extremely bad lighting and angles. There was some influencer show moved the lighting around and sat in different positions and it makes an extreme difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:08 AM
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I looked at your other comments, none of your sources back up your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:45 PM
5

Ok buddy that's just not true. Life isn't like building a video game character where if you fill up the nice bar you don't have enough for the attractive bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:05 PM
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Autistic people are not more likely to be physically unattractive. Maybe not the best at grooming or dressing, that's fixable believe me, but physically there's nothing different. (I say this as an autistic person).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:03 PM
5

Actually the most abusive men I've been with and everyone I know who has been were "good guys". They're really good at masking and knowing how to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:05 AM
5

You said you're uncomfortable when women do it and I said it's a thing men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:28 PM
1

I've never personally heard a woman use small dick insults but basically every guy I know has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:22 PM
2

It was the "get her to let me", not drinking in general. Seriously how are you not getting that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:26 PM
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No, we purposely make a point to sit down at a coffee shop and spend time talking. In the summer we take it to the beach to sit and drink it. We do grab coffee other times but that's not what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:24 PM
5

It's the get her drunk enough part that's rapey, implies she wouldn't consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:16 PM
5

My husband and I still go on coffee dates, they aren't pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:08 PM
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And completely ignoring that women couldn't have a bank account or own property on their own or have high paying jobs for the most part in the "good ol days". It was easier for men because women didn't really have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:03 AM
1

I don't agree that power is the right word. I understand what you're saying and agree about competence, dedication, hard work for a lot of stuff but not power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:00 AM
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I guess if being a really good yoyoer brings you power. My husband is really good at moon walking and I can do a back flip does one of us have more power?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:57 PM
3

He put a knife in the tongs of a fork and moved it until the weight was balanced then acted like he's a wizard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:35 PM
1

Your comment said weak people are kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:32 PM
2

No that was not impressive at all, kids did that all the time in preschool. It's extremely easy to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:29 PM
0

By your comment Bob Ross is weak
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:20 PM
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I'm weirdly attracted to guys with weird skills. Totally unattracted but then you whip out the yoyo skills. (This has actually happened)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:07 PM
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Yeah, everyone hates Bob Ross and Mr Rogers (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:04 PM
1

I didn't say they had the right or that it's legal, I said it's possible. Are you claiming no run aways exist? I'm also not encouraging it. The same way it's completely possible for me to set up a meth lab this morning. I'm not encouraging it or saying it's legal or I have the right to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:42 AM
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Did you seriously just compare getting an education to slavery? Don't go to school, don't get supported by other people, just be a homeless street youth so you aren't a slave, that is 100% possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:20 AM
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State law, not federal law. There were 5 (IIRC) states that never made a state law so it was legal until a federal law in those states and one of those was new york, it wasn't all like Alabama. Even then 76 is late for the first state to say rape isn't ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:25 PM
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"Facts, lol... it's laughable" you. I have a screenshot. You said facts about rape are laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:03 PM
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Sorry facts and rape are laughable to you? Don't know what to say to someone who refuses reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:02 PM
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I have literally never mentioned it on reddit before. Also federally it is true and not bs. WhY dO yOu PuSh FaCtS?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:33 AM
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Your reply is statistically not true and just made up woe is me regurgitated talking points so it didn't deserve substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:11 AM
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I mean spouse rape wasn't federally illegal in the US until 94 so objectively his claim just isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:07 AM
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Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:37 AM
4

I'm not defending cheating but it is not abuse. It's shitty, yes but being shitty isn't automatically abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:11 PM
3

But him nutting is out of his hands? Yes, what she does with her body is out of his hands but what he does with his body is in his hands. I can't believe grown ass people can't comprehend that sperm + vagina = baby. If he really didn't want a kid why did he nut in her even if she did take plan b? His actions don't match his words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:49 PM
2

I know, reading can be hard for some people, it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:09 AM
5

I didn't see all or every anywhere in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:53 AM
5

When did she ever say aLl MeN?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:23 AM
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In basically all bad women stories its a justification of why women need to be subservient. Basically "it's Lilith and eves fault you need to do anything your husband says, eve wasn't supervised and look what happened"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:03 AM
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Yeah, that's why there were a few long Supreme Court cases and drawn-out senate meetings, because no one cares. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:18 AM
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Being seen as more than your uterus is privileged. It's like when they wanted to outlaw hormonal bc because eggs have the right to be fertilized and a senator or something brought up outlawing jacking off and the men who wrote the bill completely did not understand the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:30 PM
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Yeah where is all this privilege dying of sepsis in a hospital parking lot from being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:50 AM
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Doctors can't just take your DNA to put it in a database
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:05 PM
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Ok,go bang every woman on my 600 pound life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:37 PM
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Not taking rape or violence into consideration is the privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:31 PM
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And they don't account for the person filing is not the person ending the marriage and men are much more likely to leave a sick partner. If your spouse was constantly cheating but you filed the divorce papers who broke up the marriage? Statistically the person who was constantly cheated on did. Realistically? No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:55 PM
7

Reread this to yourself slowly, there's your answer to why you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:57 PM
1

Wouldn't losing years to the pandemic make you on the same level as her developmentally? If you feel old because you lost out on your early 20s then aren't you mentally on her level? I would argue behind based on your post and comments but I'm being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:08 AM
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Honestly him thinking he's older says a lot more about how he views himself and the dynamic he wants than it does about her. It honestly made me think of the fancy man episode of New Girl. "Women my age think I'm a lover but to these 20 year olds I'm their fancy man".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:01 AM
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I definitely have less baggage in my early 30s than I did in my 20s because I dealt with my shit and have more relationship and life experience. I was definitely less trusting in my 20s if we're talking about relationships, not first dates, because of my own insecurities and issues. I don't think having experience is baggage if you deal with it. Having bad experiences can either make you jaded or grow, it's your choice but a lot of people get jaded because it's easier than self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:26 PM
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No states prevent a husband from a paternity test. Some make them get a court order but they aren't on the birth certificate once they request it. If he doesn't and then brings it up later it's more paperwork after the birth certificate is signed and filed but no where will prevent a paternity test just because they're married. Even if it's a state that's presumed the husband can say paternity test, if they don't and sign it it's more court documents but sides with the paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:58 AM
1

That's not true. There's an assumption but you can request a paternity test within 2 years or refuse to sign the birth certificate without one. You're just wrong, they are relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:54 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:01 AM
6

That's funny when you just said someone needs to loudly yell for you to tell if she's enjoying it or not. Haven't had much experience of your partner enjoying it, have you? You just told on yourself for being selfish and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:46 PM
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They are admissible to start proceedings but they need to retest because the courts can't know it's the right DNA. It's admissible but not definitive. It's like OTC drug tests, you can't buy one at walgreens then take the results to your PO or social worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:33 AM
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Exactly, the Saw movies were extremely popular to the point that there were 11. Do people who like those want that to happen to them? It's also like saying people who like violent video games are violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:59 AM
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I'm saying I wouldn't call them an incel, not that they aren't technically. I was talking about calling people incels. I wouldn't call someone an incel because they happen to be a virgin, if they call me a femoid I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:34 PM
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I don't think recognizing societal factors is the same as hating women. I agree dating is hard but from the way you're explaining it I would never call you an incel. Being an incel requires hate so I agree that people have different definitions but most people would agree it involves hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:39 PM
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I wouldn't consider you an incel because it seems like you aren't blaming the world / women. It's a mindset more than just not having sex. A virgin isn't automatically an incel, the guy who made it take off attacked his mom because she wouldn't have sex with him and said it was neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:21 PM
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The incels aren't even going to dnd groups, all of their socializing is online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:52 PM
2

Your genitals need to align, not exactly but not a huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:26 AM
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My husband is 5'9, balding, and chunky and he was when we met. I'm 8 years younger and 5'4 and 120 and objectively hot before you ask. He was unemployed when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:35 AM
0

Have you really never heard about the forearm thing? You're not actually paying attention, just focusing on height. You're the one obsessed with other dudes height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:48 AM
2

I'm assuming you've never had standing up sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:43 AM
1

Except in Utah which is because of Mormons wanting to pretend their daughter is on vacation and hide her pregnancy. I always see people blame feminists but it's not at all their doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:49 AM
6

Ted Bundy pretended to be a helpless, harmless guy with car trouble. IIRC he even faked a limp or a paralyzed arm. A lot of serial killers played the helpless coward card.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:22 PM
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Did you know the most common times for abuse to start are moving in together, marriage, and pregnancy? People aren't punching their dates on the first date so how did the victim choose the abusive person?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:19 PM
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How would you feel if another guy who is much larger than you grabbed you by the hips to rub his penis on you when you were minding your own business enjoying a drink with friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:03 PM
0

They can say whatever they want but it's all talk. In my experience it's definitely right leaning men who are more likely to be "dead beats".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:40 AM
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Yeah I've only ever heard enthusiastic consent applying to hook ups. I'm not saying marital rape doesn't exist or anything like that but it's just different if you just met someone at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:01 PM
2

I'm not, I'm speaking generally "not all women"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:19 PM
3

It was an exaggeration to demonstrate emotions don't mean head over heals in love and ready to get married, just liking someone. I've met someone I was really excited about after one conversation at a party but didn't sleep with him that night, I gave him my phone number and we sexted after a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:46 PM
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I wouldn't either, that wasn't my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:39 PM
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I feel like you're putting too much emphasis on emotion or you don't understand what they mean. Some sort of connection? Absolutely. Emotionally connected / love? No. They mean they wouldn't want to pick a random guy out of a line up. They want to like the guy even if it's one conversation at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:21 PM
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Men get custody or joint custody most of the time WHEN THEY FILE FOR IT. The statistics aren't based on filing but outcomes, men just don't want custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:54 PM
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From what I've read it used "code words" but fairly obvious. It didn't flat out say "I drugged my wife come rape her", at least for Facebook and tinder I'm not sure about the kink site.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:23 PM
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There were facebook market place posts and a tinder page too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:19 AM
3

Yeah I understand that but I feel like you could click report and ignore it after that. Not you personally, general you. It was posted on Facebook market place, not the dark web.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:51 AM
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There are 70 known men, husband was posting ads online to rape his wife. It's horrifying that no one reported it. Bystander effect? Even if people thought it was a joke... no one? Or if someone did no report was made, no record? Disturbing. I thought someone would at the very least hit the report post button even if they didn't call the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:11 AM
7

I've never seen a doomer who looks like they can run a mile. 100% larping fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:36 PM
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They filled out why they voted the way they did. Maybe the men read the profiles but didn't vote based on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:21 AM
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If you're talking about the okcupid study, women were a lot more likely to read profiles and men were much more likely to just look at the pictures. All it showed was that women are less shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:05 AM
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I'd much rather walk in a park or something than get coffee or dinner. I've actually never just been to a restraunt for a first date, I hate it. If the walk goes well you can get dinner or drinks after or end it if it didn't. I agree sitting across the table seems interview-y.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:50 AM
1

I wanted to invite them to an orgy on top of aborted fetuses before the goat sacrifice. These guys probably would have believed atheists do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:20 PM
4

Yeah I got the grossest messages from super religious guys. I think because my dating profiles said I was atheist they thought I jump in bed with anyone. Almost all of them had profiles about their religion and wanting a "good [insert religion] girl" then sent me really vulgar sexual messages wanting me to come over. The problem is not holding yourself to the same standards you want in a partner. If their good religious girl was sending the messages the guys were they'd be furious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:44 AM
0

Because they're still shitty losers even if they're married
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:53 AM
2

People excuse men going to prostitutes when they're married because their wife's don't want to have sex because they were basically forced into a marriage and it's somehow the wife's fault. Women couldn''t though, they should put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:34 AM
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You turn it around and make men being victims when their wives aren't sleeping with them because they were forced to marry men who never wanted to. Marital rape was made federally illegal in the US in 1993. Even before that most states that made it illegal said it was only rape if she seriously feared for her life. But says shes hysterical and you weren't really going to slit her throat got off. People had sex lives with their husbands if they wanted to, these guys were married and still couldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:54 AM
4

What industry do you work in where banging prostitutes is normal office small talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:46 AM
1

Can you read? "Decent looking guys but not my type"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:26 PM
0

And the study completely goes against the "step 1: be attractive" argument. They think it's true because that's how they think about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:59 AM
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If he's talking about the okcupid study women rated based on full profiles and men rated based just on pictures overall. All it proved is that men only care about looks and women care about the person but it's somehow been twisted on the internet to "women bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:27 AM
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I've never seen someone who is just nicely venting get that treatment. Everyone I've seen who gets treated like that is really bitter towards all women and sexist, even if they don't think they are. That attitude is coming off IRL if you can't even tell you're doing it online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:58 PM
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No, you need permission from the state and it's illegal if you don't. Anyone can drive, just like anyone can get a paternity test, they just need permission. Are you saying only judges can get paternity tests? Because that would be the equivalent of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:40 PM
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Kind of like driving without a license? By your logic driving is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:23 PM
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My husband was 34 and unemployed when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:25 PM
1

Are they going to romance themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:08 AM
9

You know google exists, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:01 AM
1

Do you know what castration is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:20 AM
13

Paternal age impacts fetus development just as much as maternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:02 AM
9

Being fair isn't the problem with trying to pick up 20 year olds when you're in your 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:42 AM
2

Paternal age contributes to birth defects just as much as maternal age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:09 PM
0

Red pill because of your inaccurate generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:20 PM
2

I think you need to change your flair dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:57 PM
5

Why did you refer to women as a hive mind check list but not men in the beginning of your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:14 PM
2

It's not even necessarily fomo, it's hard to be happy if you're living pay check to pay check or less. If your family can't afford to go on vacation or try some restaurants I wouldn't really consider that fomo. It's money stress, not fear of missing out. Fomo is more like staying home when a party is happening in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:10 PM
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I'm not saying jealousy never happens, just that there are multiple reasons it could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:39 PM
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It's also possible the friend just knows they always make decisions they regret while drinking, not just jealousy. Like "oh no, were all going to have to listen to her cry on the phone for 2 hours tomorrow".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:02 AM
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I think you have to reexamine how well you can gauge interest if it happens once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:17 PM
2

Principled and family man who doesn't care about his wife? Also, sexual attraction and emotional needs are directly related. Does he want to force her into sex with someone who doesn't care about how she feels? Is he treating her like a roommate/ maid/ nanny then acting shocked that she's not in the mood?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:14 AM
4

There are a lot of cultures that are fine with boobs, not genitals. What about women's hair and hijabs? I walk around with my hair hanging out for everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:04 PM
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Breasts aren't genitalia, they're secondary sex characteristics, like beards. It's not the norm everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:51 AM
14

I can't speak for all women but personally I never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:20 AM
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No one punches you in the face on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:56 AM
1

Guys who pay for arm candy don't have that many options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:29 AM
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No but she's looking for luxury and he's looking for arm candy. I really don't see a problem with that if everyone is being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:02 PM
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My husband got on meds to save his life which caused ed. I have a really high sex drive but would rather have him alive. The real world isn't as cruel as the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:18 AM
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I had a Tina costume for Halloween and got called unfun because I wasn't wearing lingerie with cat ears basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:09 AM
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I had a like 30 something coworker when I was 15 literally come up and kiss me on the mouth randomly. He knew I was in the only camera blind spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:11 AM
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Not necessarily. If you marry a guy at 18 you dated for 3 months... it's really easy to fake being nice and attractive for 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:30 AM
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I was living with my dad at 27 when I met my husband but I moved there when I broke up with my ex at 26. But I was in law school and my dad was at his house in a different state like 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:58 AM
1

Ok I do but a lot of people just want to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:45 PM
1

To have sex? Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:56 PM
1

It's mainly to have loud sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:54 PM
1

I've literally never been on a dinner first date as an attractive woman. If the only way you can get attention is to buy a meal that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:57 PM
5

Individually? No, unless you live in a very low cost area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:39 AM
11

VERY few wealthy guys are fixing their fence. And why is it always specifically fixing fences?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:21 AM
8

Have you looked up the cost of a full time nanny, maid and secretary and home organizer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:18 AM
1

Do you think showering and shaving is the only thing a lot of women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:23 PM
1

That's just not true, the only time I've responded positively he was not conventionally attractive and seemed really nervous but I could tell we had stuff in common by looking at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:11 PM
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Yeah, it's very possible they've just had the same relationship experience as OP and they're asking the same thing about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:36 AM
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Youre the only common denominator
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:25 PM
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Who are these straight women in relationships with? Poly isn't nearly as popular as reddit would make you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:53 AM
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Would you take an STD test whenever you're away from your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:59 PM
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If your spouse wanted you to take an STD test whenever you went on a business trip or a trip with friends would you be ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:57 PM
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If you have an open relationship isn't the kid possibly not being yours a risk you consent to? Even with condoms and/or BC, they can fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:51 AM
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That wouldn't change anything, I don't know anyone who is going around fucking "simps". If their vibrating piece of plastic has a better personality than you that is not women's fault. What you call simps is just not an entitled douche bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:28 AM
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No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:26 AM
1

My male friends and I would probably puke on each other if we tried, we're like siblings. I made out with one of them in junior high like 15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:46 PM
2

Just because you'd bang anything doesn't mean every guy would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:24 PM
1

Well it's not like someone punches you and emotionally abuses you on the first date. A lot of people are on their best behavior until you're invested, that goes for toxic men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:28 AM
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I am SHOCKED you're having trouble with women. Do you have a tree house with a no girls allowed sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:41 PM
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Go back to junior high health class please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:55 AM
1

Do you really think it's unlikely? Naive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:28 AM
1

Do you really think it's unlikely? Naive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:28 AM
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And how do you know THEY posted them? My nudes were posted on a porn site after my husband's phone was stolen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:58 AM
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Or they're going to graduate school and don't know where their career will have them move to and not loneliness and failure, just don't want to deal with serious relationships when you could end up thousands of miles apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:04 AM
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I had someone flash me when I was walking to a gas station for snacks when I was 12 in an extremely safe area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:09 PM
2

Rich stay at home moms actually have the highest pill abuse rate, single women of the same age and socio-economic class have the lowest. Also Mormons have one of the highest oxytocin (edit: oxycotoin) abuse rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:40 PM
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Am I old? Why would this inevitably be brought up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:51 AM
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Military, police, immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:59 AM
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Oh shut up. You don't like having sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:02 PM
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No I've seen some redpill posts where the guy was 100% gay. There was one awhile ago where he wrote like 7 paragraphs about how dreamy, sexy, perfect, hot his coworker was and the last sentence was something like "my wife is going to meet him, how do I make sure she doesn't get a crush on him". He had a paragraph dedicated to his abs and the shape of his butt. And I'm not expecting all night fuck fests but not being able to put up with it for more than 5 minutes? Edit to add: this dude kept talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:25 AM
6

You think he'd listen to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:46 PM
2

Well that's 100% not true FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:09 PM
3

But you talk about SOs with such certainty? Why am I not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:55 PM
5

So speed is more important than quality? No wonder you're having problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:45 PM
5

Are you really this dense? "All women I'm with hate sex with me, it must be half of humans who are wrong when I'm the only common factor".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:44 PM
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I'm sorry that has been your experience with SOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:43 PM
0

You didn't think it's you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:41 PM
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I honestly think a decent amount of these guys are closeted but from homophobic cultures so they blame women for their lack of sexual or romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:36 PM
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Gross. Yet of course he thinks women are the problem. Therapists will drop you for checks notes using therapy now? Not to mention all the other cringe worthy comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:11 PM
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Don't take people on expensive first dates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:31 PM
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Are you planning on protecting them with the fake katana you got from the 90% dead mall?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:12 AM
1

My husband was 34 and unemployed when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:27 AM
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My husband says he's the "how did he get that woman" guy but I think we're looks matched and he's just flirting. I honestly can't think of a single couple I know who isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:51 AM
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But what are you saying? Complimenting something they can control like a band shirt will have a lot more success than saying you're pretty or just offering a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:24 PM
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I think it was okcupid that did a survey of what you're most worried about on a first date. Men said she's fat and women said being murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:34 PM
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Average? Absolutely not. What do you mean as cold approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:32 PM
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I've never liked gym/ glamor muscles but a lot of the manosphere think it's the only way to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:33 PM
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That was really just Titian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:52 PM
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I was seeing this guy awhile ago who was really nervous to ask me out and I found it cute / endearing. If he wasn't so nervous I probably would have told him to fuck off. Being nervous made him seem... less threatening I guess. Edit to add: he split lanes (legal where I live) on his motorcycle to ask for my number. If he was aggressively cat calling me I probably would have blown the red light if safe. He did lie to me about his age by 7 years though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:54 AM
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If you read I didn't say no women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:40 PM
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I don't think it's "tend to" some woman do but men do too. I mean I don't shave everyday but before I live with someone I will before dates. I started running and doing yoga while I was with my husband for my mental health. Women's lives don't revolve around men's approval/ interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:19 PM
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Why would a cheater be the perfect guy? Are you fucking this guy? Your description of the guy is um, specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:22 AM
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I talked to them for a week or two, I don't want to go on a million first dates. My husband talked on the phone like all night for a week before the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:36 AM
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If they're serious, yes? I don't mean pickiness by conventional attractive standards, just people they think would be compatible instead of everyone. The last time I was online dating I met 2 people but had a lot of conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:49 AM
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You also have to realize this is self reporting. It really is never accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:05 AM
2

Who's parents met at the battle of the bulge? Name one person alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:18 PM
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Are there not a lot of people meeting in one location?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:08 PM
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Honestly yeah? I would consider parties and stuff like that meet ups, there's just an easier way to find them now if you don't have a social circle. Both of my parents met my step parents on dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:02 PM
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The only way you couldn't have a level down is if you were in a coma. You can always improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:11 PM
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Because they don't socialize in person with women. Join meet up groups or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:10 PM
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You don't need to be married to live together and split expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:42 PM
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I'm the same way, like I've never seen a random guy on the street and been sexually attracted to them. When I meet guys on dating aps I've always talked for at least a week, I'm not getting a drink after 3 messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:29 PM
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Wow have you ever had a mental intelligence test? I'm not being mean or joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:49 AM
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It's also common with older people in serious, non married relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:29 AM
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JFC no wonder you need pick up tips from the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:17 PM
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It's supposed to mean life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:00 PM
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That's weird, I don't see how committed isn't serious? It might be an age thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:16 PM
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I'm 31, boyfriend/ girlfriend seems very high school fling, partner is more permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:17 PM
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Most of the people I know say partner, men and women. How old are you? After a certain point boyfriend just seems immature. I don't know how you can get calling someone your partner would mean you have one foot out the door? I think boyfriend seems a lot less committed and serious. Partner is a commitment, boyfriend is dating. Partner is a team, boyfriend is someone you go to bars with on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:13 AM
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It depends on if they stood up for me. If they accept the behavior /treatment the apple didn't fall too far from the tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:55 AM
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I'm not judging, I'm an alcoholic but maybe that's a sign? It gets really old for your friends fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:49 PM
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Not really. If you came across an abandoned Halloween decoration, which would be creepier to find, a body part like a hand or a realistic doll? The human like one is more creepy even if you take sex out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:50 AM
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They're still not normal though. Just because they exist doesn't mean they're normal or common. I'd bet more guys have sex dolls than women have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:47 AM
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I think it depends on how you approach a woman in public. If you want to compliment them compliment on they control. So instead of saying "your eyes are gorgeous" say something like "I like your shirt, I love that band" ( assuming you do like them and obviously if they're wearing a band shirt). Or a tattoo, their shoes, etc. Something they picked out and not something they were born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:56 AM
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That really depends on your social group or geographic situation. I'm 31 and I have one friend who had an accident baby a few months ago. My fiance is 38 and his friends just started having kids within the past 2ish years. My extended family in a rural area have kids in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:04 AM
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I met my fiance on tinder when I was 27. I always find it hilarious that some people think it's everyone else's fault they can't get a relationship. I actually only know one woman who got married in her late 20s and it was to her high school boyfriend. Most people I know who had long-ish term relationships in their 20s broke up around 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:59 AM
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Being a hypocrite. Why would someone want to be with someone who doesn't share their values? If you want a virgin but have casual sex with people who you don't respect as "relationship material" why would you ever think you can settle down with someone who has different views of sex? You can't ride the pussy carousel and then settle down when you're washed up and had your fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:46 AM
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But they don't believe a lot of rapes are rapes. They think it's only some stranger jumping out of an alley. I would say that's a rape advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:54 AM
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The last time I did was for a wedding a year and a half ago. When I go out in nonformal situations I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:17 PM
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If you practice something a lot do you get worse at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:41 AM
1

But they don't mean 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:36 AM
1

But you're nutting in everyone you meet? Gross. You know discharge can get in your penis hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:47 AM
3

You can get chlamydia
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:17 PM
3

Youre having unprotected sex on the first date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:02 PM
3

Most guys aren't like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:59 PM
2

Maybe the only thing you have to offer is looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:58 PM
3

You can be both but most women want a partner, not a provider in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:48 PM
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I had sex with my fiance within 15 minutes of meeting him in person. If you're being put off for 3 months you're the common denominator in that situation, not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:19 PM
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Oh my god stop with the term starfish sex. If you're having sex with someone who is obviously not into it you just continue and she's the bad guy. If you're constantly having a problem with starfish sex that's a you problem, you might be a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:15 PM
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I really liked him, I don't know what else to say. Edit to add: I actually blew off a wealthy guy and other employed guys for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:04 AM
1

27 and 34.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:43 AM
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My husband and I were both unemployed when we began dating. You can go to a park or something instead of an expensive restaurant. Dating isn't all about expensive dates or salary or things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:09 AM
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I mean, would you prefer to just buy a woman for 3 goats? Do you want a partner or a slave? Women have choices now, if you aren't a choice they prefer that's a you problem. People have always been on their best behavior and "fake" in the "courting" stages. No one walks up to a first date and says "one time I sneezed really hard and shit my pants".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:25 PM
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Yes, my husband is a contractor and was Ina wheelchair for like 2 years and not working and I pushed him around and did everything, like literally helping him off the toilet. If you love someone not making a lot of money doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:24 PM
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Dude don't be so shallow, love and respect your wife and I'm sure you've gained weight too. I don't think this will end the way you're expecting it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:45 AM
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Anyone who wants to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:05 PM
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I'm always called extremely attractive and I've dated guys who were my height at 5'4. My husband is 5'8 with a "dad bod" and baldig. It's kind of ironic that this whole post is about not listening to "hit the gym" but you should hit the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:37 AM
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Why was an internet forum different than therapy? You can work on yourself and help yourself in therapy without resulting to the red pill. Echo chamber?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:01 AM
1

Nope, they're sex glands, not genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:09 AM
2

I think they can't have a say as long as it's actually getting done. If the house spouse is making frozen pizza most nights and doesn't think vacuuming is necessary the working partner has a say but I think that's a given. At that point you aren't a house spouse, you're a moocher.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:18 AM
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Sometimes dick costs a budweiser and sometimes it costs a lot of up keep. This isn't a gender thing, it's a people thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:47 AM
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The only time this could slightly make sense is if there's a huge difference in population of genders like during the one child policy in China. But yeah who the hell do they think the women are dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:40 AM
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Are you talking about spaying/ neutering? Testicle and uterurses aren't genitals, so no not literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:00 PM
1

I don't necessarily mean social life, my fiance and I don't really have one. I mean going out and doing stuff even if it's just going for a walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:22 PM
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By boring I mean like no hobbies or social life. Some people think an active, outgoing person should just fall out of the sky onto their couch while they're watching Netflix or something. Kind of like the manic pixie dream girl trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:17 PM
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If someone has no luck dating and then makes a lot of money and changes nothing about themselves but start attracting gold diggers they almost always complain that all women are gold diggers. They aren't but can't put together that literally the only thing that changed is money. If you couldn't attract anyone before and only money changed, who do you expect to attract? A boring, unhygienic loser with money is still a boring, unhygienic loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:18 PM
5

That includes all marriages, even people who have been married like 5 times. It's around 20% for first marriages. Edit to add: just because someone files divorce papers doesn't mean they were the one to end the relationship or cause it to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:40 PM
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Yeah he's the only common denominator in these situations. "Is it me who's wrong... no, no it must be 50% of the population".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:51 AM
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3, my ex, a guy I hooked up like 3 times, and my fiance. Edit to add: actually 2, I don't think I had sex with my ex in the past 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:03 AM
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I met my fiance at 27 and was with my ex for 5 years. We had a very civil, mutual break up. Sometimes people just drift apart. Do you have friends you didn't fall out with but you just drifted? Same thing, it doesn't make you a bad partner. My parents were together for 25 years and are completely fine with each other but once my brother and I became adults they realized they just weren't compatible but for birthdays and stuff them and their new partners come and are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:54 PM
4

... are you saying you want minors?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:35 AM
2

I had sex with my fiance basically immediately after meeting in person but we talked for hours for like 2 or 3 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:22 PM
1

Honey I don't know if you're pretending to be a woman or not but I really hope you get self esteem. Message me whenever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:18 AM
1

"The problem is that women don't have real sexualities" Directly quoted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:52 AM
2

*their
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:45 AM
1

But blanketly stating that women don't have sexualities is taking personal accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:34 AM
0

I brought up the situation...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:55 AM
0

I'm sorry for your relationship experience, I hope it gets better. Edit: looking at your post history I really hope you get the help you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:38 AM
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That took a lot of words to say "I don't turn women on". Just because women don't have them in your experience doesn't mean they don't have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:33 AM
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I actually know someone who did porn and bought a small apartment building in an "up and coming" neighborhood and lives off the rent now. It used to be working class families 10 years ago when she bought it and now it's the main hipster neighborhood. When she sells it it's going to be at the very least 5x more than she paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:38 AM
3

Why do a ton of people wear them? Some people find them uncomfortable like some people find thongs uncomfortable but most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:04 PM
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There are a lot less thongs in stores than there used to be. Thongs kind of had their peak in the 90s / early 2000s. The only time I wear them is if panty lines will show and even then I don't always wear them. I don't know how old you are but just basing it off stores they are definitely going out of style, especially at stores targeted to younger women. They also aren't uncomfortable, it's not like having a wedgie. That's like saying flip flops are uncomfortable because it's uncomfortable if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:23 PM
13

The manic pixie dream girl normally comes in to save some boring guy's life from monotony. Some guys expect some quirky chick to fall into their lap and "fix" their life of sitting at home with no effort on their part. Someone who goes on "quirky adventures" isn't going to want someone who sits on their couch in their free time and expects the quirky person to plan everything and entertain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 08:51 PM
3

That doesn't mean most goths are or that they dress like that outside of the dungeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:27 AM
11

Emotional support, men are socially conditioned not to show emotion or cry on their friends' shoulders or seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 11:19 AM
4

Why does no one here look up the journal's credibility? https://retractionwatch.com/2015/08/19/17-retractions-from-sage-journals-bring-total-fake-peer-review-count-to-250/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 09:26 AM
1

That really isn't surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 10:40 PM
3

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/2014/7/15/5881947/myers-briggs-personality-test-meaningless https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.usatoday.com/amp/3635592002 https://www.livescience.com/65513-does-myers-briggs-personality-test-work.html https://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-echochambers-28315137 https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/the-myers-briggs-personality-test-is-pretty-much-meaningless-9359770/ You can believe what you want but you're wrong and experts disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 01:41 PM
2

I've noticed that, they're also really popular on dating apps. I don't know if that's what contributed to the resurgence in popularity but when I was dating it was an automatic "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 12:32 PM
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Oh god, the Myers Briggs personality types are widely debunked and mocked in psychology. They're basically horoscopes for people who think they're smart. I'm not surprised to see it come up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:37 AM
1

I'm aware that people sleep around in their 20s but how is the cock carousel different than spinning plates or the whole point of the red pill? Because boys rule and girls drool?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:04 PM
1

It's not a misleading name, it's just wrong. It makes me think a lot of these guys have never seen a carousel or even gone outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:56 PM
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It has nothing to do with the "carousel" though. If women get STDs they're clearly getting it from somewhere. If anything it just shows that people sleep around more in their 20s. Even if women have more STDs that's because it's easier to get STDs if you're the one being penetrated or it also means men are the ones sleeping around more. Plus, the carousel analogy makes no sense, you ride one thing the whole time on carousels, if anything it's an analogy for monogamous relationships. Call it cock…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:51 PM
2

Why would I regret not marrying someone I'm not attracted to and don't see being together long term? I'm extremely happy I didn't settle young.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:25 AM
10

More than 40 years, first wave feminism started in the late 1800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:20 PM
4

My fiance is balding with a dad bod and 5'7 and I've literally never been this sexually attracted to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 05:21 PM
2

Oh I thought you were 120 and were 15 pounds above what you wanted to be. My bad, that makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:22 PM
0

Just so you know, 105 at 5'7 would be considered underweight. At 120 you're at the very low end of normal weight. Don't stress about losing 15 pounds, you're fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:54 PM
2

That's for a man of the same height. A 5'4 woman needs to eat a lot less than a 5'10 man to stay skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:50 PM
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I've unfortunately seen this a lot. Guys have no luck with women then become successful and only attract gold diggers then run off crying AWALT. If literally the only thing that changed about you is your money, of course you'll only attract people who only care about money. That doesn't mean every woman only cares about money. If you were an unhygenic, boring loser before the money you're a rich, unhygenic boring loser after the money. You aren't all of a sudden a great catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 04:46 PM
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I completely agree that it's fine to turn someone down based on weight but she's clearly not skinny in the pictures. He's dumb for being surprised someone with arms that big has a stomach, she wasn't using old pictures with flattering angles. He's either an idiot or a dick, she wasn't misleading him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:17 PM
5

I don't think you can call getting cheated on a poor decision. It's not like people say "hey, I'm going to be getting so much strange" on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 05:18 PM
6

So if plating is the cock carousel do guys ride the vagina carousel?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:06 AM
2

Yes, absolutely. There's a difference between looking and staring. Ryan Reynolds could be staring and I'd find it more weird than flattering. And I'm not lying, just because you have preconceived beliefs doesn't make them true. Why are you even in a debate subreddit if you assume anyone who doesn't uphold your beliefs is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 12:02 PM
5

Staring is rude, didn't your mama teach you that? It's not ok for hot guys to stare either. It doesn't matter if you're staring at a an ass or a facial deformity, it's rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 11:31 PM
1

I know but more do it regularly than how many lesbians exist so lesbians aren't going to skew the data more than straight women. According to this 3.5% of the adult population in 2011 was gay, lesbian, or bi. Assuming it's evenly distributed between women and men that means 1.75% of the population is lebian or bi women. More than 1.75% of straight women regularly watch porn so even if every lesbian regularly watches porn, it isn't enough to skew the total results of porn watched.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:38 PM
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A lot of sraight women definitely watch porn, you're wrong. There are probably more straight women watching porn because of population size. Pornhub is also more marketed to men than other porn sites so their data is going to skew towards what men like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:29 PM
9

A lot of the reason straight women watch lesbian porn is because straight porn is completely catered to male attraction and what looks good to men but not what actually feels good or looks good for women. It's not because straight women don't like porn. A lot of lesbian porn is catered to men too but there's more that isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:20 PM
2

We're like the flat earthers but you believe whatever scientific sounding bullshit a website tells you to justify your beliefs without bothering to think critically for yourself? Ok buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 08:07 PM
8

First of all, an imgur graph without the information they're compiling it from is not a source, you can make data say whatever you want. Also, the depression rates are people diagnosed with depression and conservative people are much less likely to see psychiatrists to get diagnosed. The happiness is self reported and doesn't say what it's based off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 03:28 PM
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First of all, an imgur graph without the information they're compiling it from is not a source, you can make data say whatever you want (edit: or just make shit up without source data). Also, the depression rates are people diagnosed with depression and conservative people are much less likely to see psychiatrists to get diagnosed. The happiness is self reported and doesn't say what it's based off. (Edit: it's like the study recently that said people who didn't graduate high school are happier t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 03:28 PM
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That's because people who are against premarital sex are also likely to be against divorce. It has nothing to do with your psudeoscience pair bonding or how happy the relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:15 PM
3

Yeah, the whole financial abortion thing might work in countries with already strong social services and social safety nets but asking others to pay for your child because you couldn't be assed to wear a condom is never going to happen in the US, or at least not for a really long time. A lot of people are already mad at poor people having babies they can't support, can you imagine if someone said they can but just don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:47 PM
2

So are you saying that vaginas are some how the only muscles in existence that get weaker with repeated use?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 05:28 PM
23

He's just straight because he hasn't had a good dicking yet. Duh, penises (peni?) are magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 02:27 AM
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