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| 15 | Blindsided by LTR, what's going on?This. Based on my experience, this is very accurate. And this behavior is very common, probably by both genders. One person in a relationship starts feeling that the attraction is fading, but they fight the feeling. They feel the guilt, they prepare their exit strategy without notifying the partner. Sometimes they cheat to have a safety net. And finally they break up. The person being dumped is blindsided, they suffer the most but the person who ends the relationship has already gone through mon… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Going to a party where my ex will be present, how do I approach?Trust me, I'm not trying to win her back, I'm holding a grudge and I want maximum damage. I wish to do the things mentioned above but it's a small party in a small apartment and a dozen of people will be sitting and talking around a table so it'd be hard to completely avoid her. Also, I checked the invite list, and I don't see anyone I'm attracted to. I'm starting to think I shouldn't go. The only problem with that is that I'm giving my ex a signal that she can just march in on my social circle … | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on creatine?Hahah, cool story bro! | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on creatine?Can you suggest a creatine product? There are so many brands and I don't understand how they're different or what makes it better. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as lifting too much?I feel that too. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as lifting too much?I should be eating 3000 everyday to gain weight (trying to get 500 excessive per day) but I'm usually between 2500-3300. I eat 4 eggs in the breakfast, one banana per day and 1 cup oats as my second breakfast. My meals are usually pasta or rice and beans. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as lifting too much?I'm better at rows and shoulder presses and other isolated exercises. But I do know how squats and bench press are the benchmark of size. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I bulk up? Diet and lifestyle suggestions?I tried that for 2-3 weeks in December. I did 1/3 gallon a day though. But I started getting terrible skin in just a few days. And of course I was shitting most of it out. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I bulk up? Diet and lifestyle suggestions?The workout is isolated routines with major compound exercises in the beginning. 4 days a week, and progressive weights for a month and then start over the next month with higher reps. Marijuana DOES make me hungry and every time I get high, I wonder how much more I can eat if I got high regularly! But I don't want to become dependent on other substances. That's another thing. I have grown up eating unprocessed homemdae food for almost 20+ years and even now, I rarely eat outside, or even buy pr… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I bulk up? Diet and lifestyle suggestions?I figure it's the lack of carbs as well. What do you eat throughout the day? Especially for carbs? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I bulk up? Diet and lifestyle suggestions?Well, yeah, by muscular, I meant lean. I have good definition but no bulk. Biking is not only my way of commuting, it's also one sport I can play without having to find another person. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I bulk up? Diet and lifestyle suggestions?I don't take creatine. Only whey at this point. Probably won't go for creatine. I'm 25. I feel like I lack in carbs in my diet. I pour raw olive/peanut oil in my smoothies so I'm pretty certain I'm getting more than enough fat. (Although I have absolutely no lumps anywhere in my body, I wonder where it all goes!) How do you reach 4000 calories a day? What do you eat? The days when I reach 3500, I find myself at home the entire day: cooking, eating, doing the dishes and repeating. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a GF or my ex?!Not OP but going through the same phase. It's been 10 months since my breakup and I did what you suggested. I've been tindering for some time now, went out with many girls, had casual relationship with a girl for 3 months but other than that, just fooled around. I have a fuckbuddy currently but I'm getting tired of this casual shit. I have always been a relationship guy in the past, and that's all I wish to have right now. I guess, at some point, it's about finding stability than variety. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a GF or my ex?!MeToo. Almost to the word! | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I have no friends. Its getting lonley and depressing. What can I do?I'm a recent graduate and fearing this myself. Plus, I still haven't been over my breakup 10 months ago so I'm expecting myself to be even more pathetic. BUT...I may have some tricks up my sleeve. Join intramural sports, you'll play with other people, you'll meet them regularly so that's something. If you live in a big/touristy city, try couchsurfing.com hangouts. You'll meet travelers and locals as well. Like someone suggested in the comments, plan a hike/trip somewhere over the weekend and inv… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | IOI by a girl I met today, and I'm going biking with her tomorrow. Am I being presumptuous?You're right, I'm conflicted. I'd so much prefer a biking buddy I can have sex with. But I'm afraid that in the pursuit of sex, I'd lose someone cool enough to bike with. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 01:34 AM |
| 3 | IOI by a girl I met today, and I'm going biking with her tomorrow. Am I being presumptuous?Oh no, I think you got it wrong. This dude was trying to ask her out, and she said she had other plans so she can't. 'maybe next weekend'. And minutes later, she started telling me about how bad she wants to go biking tomorrow, and made plans with me. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | 8 months since the breakup and I still can't get over my LTR. What's wrong with me? What do you all suggest?Could you recommend a book by him? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | 8 months since the breakup and I still can't get over my LTR. What's wrong with me? What do you all suggest?Hahaha, what the fuck! | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | 8 months since the breakup and I still can't get over my LTR. What's wrong with me? What do you all suggest?Makes sense. Thank you. It's just that I shared many of my hobbies with her, so the very things that make me happy also keep me from forgetting the memories. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | 8 months since the breakup and I still can't get over my LTR. What's wrong with me? What do you all suggest?How do you go about self-love? I bike, ski, travel, workout etc. for my pleasure. While some of these things may remind me of my ex, these are things I enjoy doing. I don't know what else I can do to treat myself better. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Strategy for Tinder while travelling?Haha, for real? But on the date, that would clearly become obvious. Would girls still be interested in sex knowing that this is a definite fuck and duck situation? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | In one year I become attractiive, confident and successful guy, but I am still extremely bitter after all this years?Yup. Finished my masters in electrical and computer engineering this semester. I'm 25 and plan on working with robotics and AI. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Strategy for Tinder while travelling?Well, I haven't achieved mid-date kissing in majority of my dates. My escalation is limited up to running hand over her thighs/back etc. I definitely need to find better places where a kiss can happen without any hesitation. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | In one year I become attractiive, confident and successful guy, but I am still extremely bitter after all this years?I'm in a very similar situation. After my last breakup, my studies slowed down, I have been regular to the gym since then but there isn't a huge improvement. I just graduated, my tinder game has been great, I go to a lot of parties but there's still that bitterness. About how I lost her despite having had no issues between us. Also, the feeling of shame about how I wasted my time with her, and even more time after the breakup, losing my focus from my education and career. Even graduating didn't … | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Do I overwhelm the girls?I usually touch their thighs, shoulders. Haven't had a mid-date kiss yet. With the last one, I went for a kiss after a sweet verbal exchange and she declined saying she doesn't kiss in public. I got my kiss later when we left though. I also try to go for ice-skating or something active, and if not, at a bar, and I also have this outgoing personality and I actually do a lot of activities so usually I have so much to talk about and they all seem intrigued. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Do I overwhelm the girls?I'm not thinking LTR at all, but I'm wondering if there is something about me that screams LTR and scares the girls away. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 03:02 AM |
| 0 | Do I overwhelm the girls?Among the girls I'm having this issues with, two of the girls, I have kissed multiple times. I was at one of the girls' house recently and we cuddled and made out a bunch. So, escalation is not an issue, at least in the cases that I mentioned. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Mixed signals? How to determine if a girl deserves punishment for not responding texts timely?Well, I'll most likely run into her tomorrow at my game. She still hasn't replied and I haven't texted again. I was thinking of just acting as if nothing has happened and continue flirting with her and arranging the next date at my place. And as for the kiss, I'll be at our university pool which happens to be her workplace. Do you think it'd be a good idea to kiss her at her workplace with about 50 people next to us? Given that this girl might have qualms about seeing me again. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Mixed signals? How to determine if a girl deserves punishment for not responding texts timely?Dude, you sound so wise! Thank you. I do realize that I'm going in with a lot of expectations. And I try too hard to be a "player" instead of just letting the girl be herself. I'm pretty sure I'm going to run into her on Wednesday, I'll see what's up. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Mixed signals? How to determine if a girl deserves punishment for not responding texts timely?Thanks mate, I instantly regretted the lame kiss. I do blame myself. I wanted to do it properly the next time but we were in the busiest fucking street on the second date. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | How to behave if I run into my ex?I'm 178 cm, she's 181 cm. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How to behave if I run into my ex?It has always been friendly although I'm a little sour about it. Her parents won't approve of anyone who's not white (I'm brown) and months later, she caved. Recently, she told me it was also because she's taller than me. But to summarize, she has been asking to be friends since the breakup and I have been denying. But it was all amicable. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How to behave if I run into my ex?I am tindering around. But the girls I meet are alright and our interests don't match. Which makes it difficult to forget the glory of the past. Anyway, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Is there no chance to be an alpha if you're not a huge muscular dude?Thanks for the advice, first of all. With my current workout plan, I'm pushing it every week, and this month, it has been very challenging to push further but I'm somehow making it. I looked up sl 5x5 and some big 3 workouts but they seem very short and not so intense. The 'shortcut to size' program has compound lifts at first and then isolation. I feel like if I switch to sl 5x5 from this, I would be making it easy for myself. Thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there no chance to be an alpha if you're not a huge muscular dude?I'm getting a feeling from the comments here that 10 lbs in 6 months is not too shabby. But I see some guys who get huge in couple months, I saw a skinny guy like me get jacked in a year and he was already pretty big in 2 months after he started working out. Thanks for the motivation. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Is there no chance to be an alpha if you're not a huge muscular dude?It has changed a few times but here's the gist. -protein powder + milk + banana + oil (~800-1000 calories.) -2/3 cup oats and milk Then 2 more meals, any of these: -Brown rice with half a can of beans -pasta (lately with 100g ground beef in saunce) -brown rice with 70g yellow lentils -cheese and grapes (~1000 calories) -after workout protein bar (20-30g protein) -anoter protein shake before bed. I range from 2400-3300 calories usually. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Possible IOI by the lifeguard at my pool or me just daydreaming?Yup, I was pretty convinced she was interested. I guess I'll ask her name and hopefully number next week. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Is there no chance to be an alpha if you're not a huge muscular dude?Thanks. I definitely needed some nutrition tips because I go pretty hard in the gym. (I compare with my roommate who's a bigger dude.) It's the diet that isn't consistent. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Is there no chance to be an alpha if you're not a huge muscular dude?Yup, I've started adding raw oil in my smoothies. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Is there no chance to be an alpha if you're not a huge muscular dude?Thanks for the uplifting message! | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What are good movies or videos that show you how a good date should go?This seems to be my problem as well. Looking for someone to give good tips here. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 07:13 PM |
| 3 | I am a 25yo virgin probably going to have sex next week, advice please.Some specific tips for you. (1) When you touch her genitals, be very gentle and try not to touch the clit but just around it at first. Very slowly and gently. Girls find nothing more arousing than the anticipation. (2) After a minute or two of teasing like this, at the top of her vagina, you'll feel a button or a lot of wrinkled skin. Rub around the button. Kind of like a joystick but you're pressing from the sides, not the top. It's difficult to maintain the finger on it because she'll be shaki… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Alternative datesI don't understand how this works. So you have two dates planned, I'm guessing one after another? What if the first one is going well, what if there is potential for sex with the first one? Do you cancel the next one last minute? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | can a 5’9” dude date with a 5’7”Why is this a question? The taller the sexier anyway! | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Quickest way to get over heartbreak?I see some great advice in the comments. I have been going through the same thing for last 4 months. I do sleep well and eat alright now though. Here's my input. LOOK GOOD. Invest in yourself. Gym, haircut, clothing. Make radical changes if you'd like. Look like you're a model every single day. I bought new clothes, got haircut, started using a hairstyling cream for the first time in my life. I wasn't able to tinder for months and even when I did, it didn't feel right but it works for some peopl… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Reaching Heavy Squats (if you weigh under 75kg)I need more tips from you. I'm 5'10", started working out 6 months ago at 55kg, now 61kg. The progress has been very slow and lately, I've been losing motivation. My problem is that I'm very concerned about eating healthy so it wasn't until 4 months ago that I started getting whey supplement twice a day and eating meat. Also, I bike, skate and ski a lot, so my everyday activities burn a lot of calories. What does your diet and workout program look like? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Not understanding this girl or her intentionsTell her in strong words what you're looking for. DO NOT compromise. If she's interested, she'll have to make a move. Dump the responsibilities on her. I used to be like you with my LTR for a year and a half. We broke up this fall and I discovered TRP. Now I tell my tinder girls exactly what I want. I propose second dates but don't give a fuck if they play games. 'Maybe' is not an acceptable answer, let them know that. When I do that, I have seen them initiating texts, apologizing for not replyi… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | My confusing coffee date.Thanks. Since I already asked her last night, do you think I should initiate conversation today and ask her out again today or just be quiet for a day and text her tomorrow? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 11:16 AM |
| 3 | My confusing coffee date.I AM thirsty! That's why I'm here to fix my mistakes. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | My confusing coffee date.Yes, I was hoping she would come up with an alternate plan but she didn't which left me stumped. Since I already asked her tonight, I feel like not texting her for a couple days and see her response and maybe text her sometime Wednesday to see if she wants to hang out again. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 06:31 AM |
| 1 | My confusing coffee date.That makes sense. Thanks. As for the next date, if she was interested, she should give me an alternative option, don't you think? I'm trying not to seem too clingy and also treading extra carefully to show maturity. I feel like I'd seem pushy and immature if I keep asking for possible dates. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 06:29 AM |
| 0 | What to do nextShit, something very similar happened to me just today. Although I wasn't as clingy as you, at least I hope. Girls are flaky bro, good luck in the future. Sorry no advice, just letting you know that there other rookies like me, making similar mistakes. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 06:07 AM |
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