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| 1 | What drives people who are willing to be paid for, or pay for, sex?I don’t think there’s such a strong correlation between perception and personal behaviour. I say this as a woman who has absolutely no moral problem with anyone selling... perhaps I should say “ renting” their bodies. Or anyone buying sex. Many pro-sex work ppl I know, would absolutely never engage in sex work themselves. So the perception isn’t a determining factor. Which leads to me wonder, like OP, if there is a genetic predisposition or some other factor at play. Edit- spelling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 12:50 PM |
| 4 | If you're not willing to trade places, you shouldn't complain about your sex/gender/demographicYes of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:33 PM |
| 4 | If you're not willing to trade places, you shouldn't complain about your sex/gender/demographicI’m sorry but this is a very undeveloped conception of race and belonging. Black People born in Jim Crow era, or even before 1994 in South Africa, (by the way the idea that right after laws change- then everything is rosy is dumb but that’s not point today) absolutely had every reason to want not be Black but that doesn’t mean that they would change themselves if such a thing could happen. It may be 100% easier to be White than Black but that doesn’t mean that all Black people would want to be W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Why 50/50 is NOT FAIRTo answer your question- I should say we don’t do much household labour at all. We have outsourced all domestic work (house cleaning/yard work/ meals). My husband enjoys cooking so the kitchen is his domain. I realize not everyone has this privilege. But that’s what I worked toward and I was clear with him from the jump that I wasn’t domestically inclined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger?American? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger?Also a I shudder at the thought that Amber Heard is more attractive than FUCKING VANESSA PARADISSSS. My gosh that woman is so elegant and stunning. Amber heard is so vanilla. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 07:31 PM |
| 18 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.This title is very misleading and even (perhaps unintentionally) undermining the role race plays in misogyny. I don’t know where you get your news- but from what I’ve seen- the media is absolutely highlighting the gendered aspect of this massacre and they are absolutely justified in specifically highlighting how the women’s race play into growing anti-Asian violence, and puts them in particular risk. I hate when women say “this isn’t about race -no one’s talking about gender” It’s about BOTH. An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 13 | Instagram Gem 😘😅😂Send this to PIERS MORGAN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Guy asks people with expensive car what they do for a living. Her response is 💯. I wish this for all the HV sisters here!u/menareoverrated reposted! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Guy asks people with expensive cars what they do for a living. Her response is 💯! Wishing this on all the HV sisters here.Gonna delete and repost! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 15 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Girl- breathe. It’s not this serious. Many of us went to see neowise. You are not the only person that completed a 1st year physics course, or who has read an article on population and environment. Don’t panic. We out here making jokes about uptight virgos such as yourself and we’re chilling. So just relax. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Urgh. I almost accidentally downvoted your vote that’s so revolting . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Immediately after reading this I knew it belonged hereYou got this... keep pushing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Immediately after reading this I knew it belonged hereYesss!!!!! I’m 36 now and I’ve been learning this lesson over and over again for the last 10years. Finally, finally, I think I’m getting it. What I have found is that the more I respect and love myself and honour that love with boundaries and expectations- the more life and love is flowing to me. On the flip side I also find that I have greater admiration and respect for women that know themselves and are unafraid of advocating for themselves. I love “difficult women” I stan us so hard. When I’m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 24 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...I’m Virgo and I love Capri and Taurus. But Virgo men... oooffff I cannot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 65 | How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossibleThis is an excellent question, on the heals of some crucial pieces of wisdom from OP. I would just like to add, if this is a repeated issue in your workplace then you may want to have some real conversations with potential allies. 1. Male allies- the next time this interrupting happens in a meeting, IMMEDIATELY, after the meeting go to men you know and trust that saw the bad behaviour and talk to them about it. Then tell them that you’re going to need them to interrupt when this happens. A simpl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Don’t do it sis.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Don’t do it sis.Thanks . 7.5 % of our take home income goes to short term savings. I think we should be doing more. I think it should be closer to 12.5% in short term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Don’t do it sis.Lol. I feel like you walked into a ted talk you didn’t sign up for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Don’t do it sis.Okay I love money stuff, so please indulge me, I’m going to go into serious details. How we share money: We both contribute a percentage of our earnings to a joint a account. That percentage increases as you make more money. Basic democratic socialist principles. For example: If you make 10,000/month you pay 70% of your income to the shared account. If you make 5,000/month you pay 50% of your income. Living Expenses: All our living expenses come out of the joint account. Most expenses go onto a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 8 | Don’t do it sis.It’s actually so sad. At first I was trying to respond to all these girls, with like older sister tough love. But now I know- THEY DONT WANT TO HEAR IT. it’s so damn sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 13 | Don’t do it sis.Imagine, they really don’t. So many bloody excuses!!! “But I don’t want marriage... He’s HV!” It’s really sad. I’m telling you, the stories I have between my friends, family and loved ones I could fill a book. Don’t do it girl. But they don’t want to hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 20 | Don’t do it sis.My cousin did this with his girlfriend and they got pregnant. And even at their engagement party she was like- I still want to make sure we do a full on wedding! Never happened poor thing. He’s a dirt bad too. Three kids later, he’s out drinking all the time, doesn’t respect her because he makes so much money, heat thinks a wedding would be a waste of money. My uncle and aunt tried to intervene on her behalf once, and they said he was being abusive toward her in front of them- which is ultimate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:46 PM |
| 9 | Don’t do it sis.I didn’t move in with anyone until I was 29! And shortly after that person became my husband. I had the best twenties. Not a single regret. I lived on 3 different continents. Went to college and grad school where I wanted to go. I now speak 4 languages. I have friends all over the world I’ve travelled so much and feel I understand the world from a very different perspective. And because I worked hard and challenged myself my career is doing great. Even though my husband earns more I still can af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 13 | Don’t do it sis.Yes.. You have the rest of your life to play house and take care of someone else (joking- don’t do that when you’re older either!) but really you are 19!! You’re only getting to know yourself, there’s no rush for that stage of life. It will come. You should be thinking about building yourself up. Investing in yourself. School, hobbies, developing your skills, learning languages, trying new skills. Save up to travel, meet new people. Try new things. All the time. Really get to know yourself and c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Don’t do it sis.What flair do you think should have been used? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 42 | Don’t do it sis.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this is the best dissertation defense I have ever been to. Thank you. Clear pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 62 | Don’t do it sis.You know I’ve been thinking about your post the last couple of hours. Thanks for bringing this to the table- many HV women can relate to not wanting a marriage. I guess what I’d say to you, is try to define for yourself, in your own terms exactly what it is you want. Be honest with yourself- be bold, you deserve the relationship of your dreams. And whatever that is just make sure you’re not stepping into “playing house” BEFORE you get the version of the relationship you seek. Make sure you don’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:39 AM |
| 164 | Don’t do it sis.👏🏾 under 👏🏾 no 👏🏾 circumstances | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Please Use Our New Flair "SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY" to discuss issues specific to your racial, ethnic, political, professional, or religious group.The way modern liberals do a lot of things does not allow for differences of opinion. For me, that does not mean I’m going to give up on these principles and frameworks and abandon them to halfwits. If you want to, that’s fine. That’s your prerogative. 100% But for me, I want to fight back and reclaim some useful liberal ideas and black feminist thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Please Use Our New Flair "SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY" to discuss issues specific to your racial, ethnic, political, professional, or religious group.Also, I am not sure I know exactly what you mean when you say “intersectionality has become dogmatic” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Please Use Our New Flair "SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY" to discuss issues specific to your racial, ethnic, political, professional, or religious group.I also do not think they were saying that intersectionality is pointless. I said: “The idea that intersectionality immediately triggers negative responses...” That negative trigger is what saddens me. Because for me, contemplating and studying feminist thought through an intersectional lens has been illuminating and affirming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 27 | Please Use Our New Flair "SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY" to discuss issues specific to your racial, ethnic, political, professional, or religious group.It’s comments like this that make me so sad and I just hope that this starts a conversation on race and class that I think is really missing on FDS. I have found this space to be particularly tone deaf and dismissive to issues of race when I have brought them up- reminding me of my experiences as a young women being talked down to by older white feminists. The idea that intersectionality immediately triggers negative responses goes to show how little FDS women think about how race and class and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 2 | About this whole “Karen” thing Can we spread “Paul Paraphilia” please?« That bs of it being racists » wow, do you realise you just completely dismissed the experiences of WOC ? This is exactly the reason why women of colour feel so unsafe and unheard in so many « feminist » spaces like this. White women never want to have honest conversations about how they weaponise their proximity to white power and white patriarchy. So disappointing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsAny ideas about why FDS suddenly blew up.? I only joined a few days ago- after my husband recommended the subreddit. And now I’m obsessed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:19 AM |
| 47 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???Yes! Do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars. RUN. Don’t explain. He’ll turn this thing around on you, and by the sounds of it, you’re not, (and I say this in solidarity not with not scorn) you’re not very discerning. RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:30 AM |
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