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| 2 | When a woman quietly ghosts you never press harder. Recognize it and follow suit.Yes, I understand in principle why it’s better not to engage. But my question is about a face-to-face interaction. Should I call out the behavior? Dismiss the question? Apologize and take the blame, then distance myself afterward? How would you handle a statement like that in an in-person situation? | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:56 AM |
| 3 | When a woman quietly ghosts you never press harder. Recognize it and follow suit.What If you meet again and she tries to play it on you in orden to save face? Like “hey i dont know why YOU stopped texting” | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 05:04 AM |
| 3 | The wave of pain finally hit meI feel ya mate. It is incredibly heavy, and there’s no sugarcoating it, Its going to be hard for a while. But you are doing the work, even when you feel like a 'shell. Regarding the boyfriend talking about 'fighting for them' in the future: That is just noise. It’s easy for a guy 1400 miles away to talk big to make his girlfriend feel better about her choices. But courts don’t just uproot four children from a stable home with a devoted father who has sole custody to hand them over to someone who… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 01:55 PM |
| 6 | The wave of pain finally hit meI went through a messy divorce as a kid too, so I hear you. But from that experience, I can tell you: your kids are lucky to have you. The fact that you’re even questioning this shows you care more than most. Even if she is a poor partner, she will always be their mother. It’s tough, but try to keep the conflict away from them. Don't look at them just as children; look at them as the adults they will become in 20 or 30 years. They will remember how you handled this. Being the stable parent is a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl I asked out canceled a minute before the date but offered me her friend..Are you from Panama? La gyal looks fine any way you can FaceTime her? | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:45 AM |
| 5 | The Girlfriend Experience is for sale - The Boyfriend Experience is not.But what about simps and orbiters? Don’t they offer the boyfriend experience? Emotional tampons, connection, free food etc? I think they get some of it too no? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What are some good books/resources to develop a strong personality or leadership qualitiesI know! thats why Im excited about the job though, i either learn this skill in real life situations or I lose the job. Still the books can be a helpful way to avoid common squatting mistakes before trying to squat in real life, not like I'll avoid them altogether but I'll be better prepared for when I have to | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Boyhood to Manhood, why you need to 'live as if your father were dead' | Embracing your own masculinityI instantly knew it was my calling to become a man. I had been sleepwalking through my entire life. A "yes man" who always performed and pleased. Did what other people told me to do. Would you mind ellaborating on this part? At this point in my life I feel just like that, that word you used, "sleepwalking" for some reason it resonates with me because that is exactly how I've been feeling lately but I couldn't describe it How did you manage to overcome this? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you introduce ur self to someone?I'm new here but I've found myself in this situations several times, and like you I used to have severe anxiety over having to introduce myself. When you are at a social gathering, and there's this girl who you see and she sees you and you're both kinda interacting and you guys haven't been properly introduced and you feel that anxiety kick in, what I usually do is first let the awkwardness be evident BUT putting it on my friend or the host and then introduce myself. For example: "Hi, my friend … | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being indtimidated by menJust stronglifts | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | I need some help, I can't communicate wellThis is something I considered, meditation. I don't know what kind of results to expect but I hope at least it can keep me grounded Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I need some help, I can't communicate wellActually, no. I've had some guy friends but I've never been part of a group of males (sports team, drinking buddies, surf buddies, etc) I'll try to join a club or something. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] There's a reason we keep saying itSolid field report mate like you I'm also in my mid 20s and a graduate, I often spend days thinking, maybe I should've done this, said that, I lost x and x chance but after reading "It's alright though, those days needed to happen" it really hit home. They needed to happen otherwise I wouldn't be here it's up to me to change my life for the better. Right now I'm lifting and while I'm still having noob gains the goal seems too far, seems almost impossible but after reading your field report I fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 07:28 AM |
| 1 | A Sensible Beginner Guide to Getting in Shape for SummerSolid post mate but i have a question I dont know if this belongs in asktrp but i'll ask anyway Im 6'1 24 years old and i went from 228 to 219 the pics are taken 6 months apart I started stronglifts 2 months ago before that I never lifted a weight before in my life and most of the progress u see there is from lifting not from the cardio i used to do My diet is on point i track my macros using my fitness pal but I dont know if i should eat at a deficit or surplus using stronglifts, i mean im not … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 06:37 AM |
| 13 | What is life like for true RP men in their 40s?The final part reminds me of the first 40 seconds of this video You seem to be living the dream! I hope one day I can live that too | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | FR - First 6 months of applied TRPSolid FR mate! This helped me tremendously, Im starting to learn discipline and your post motivated me a lot to keep trying If you dont mind sharing, i have two questions How exactly did you drop people in your life?did you let them know why? Or did you just cut contact and let them think whatever they want? After changing, what kind of reactions did you get from people who knew your beta self? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Has this happened to any of you? How did you handle it?I really needed this thanks! | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Has this happened to any of you? How did you handle it?Thanks for the reply I do have a question though...what exactly do you mean by refrain from judgement? Is it like the law of power that says think as u like but behave like the others? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 03:08 AM |
| 1 | For those who did Stronglifts 5x5Right now I think I'm bulking considering I did cardio for the past 4 years I now have a thin body with weak looking arms and shoulders I have little belly fat and low fat % in my arms and chest so I think any kind of mass will be noticeable | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 08:21 AM |
| 1 | For those who did Stronglifts 5x5That was really encouraging you're right I've never seen the power of surging testosterone. Im 23 The box idea is really helpful I'm gonna practice at home squatting a broomstick with a box so in case I fall I'll just sit in the box Thanks for the advice | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 08:18 AM |
| 1 | For those who did Stronglifts 5x5I think you got a point on the form come to think of it even with no bar I can't really squat without "breaking parallel" meaning I can only go as far as keeping my legs parallel to the floor if I go lower I feel like I'll fall....but to properly squat I need to go lower I'm gonna practice my form with some sticks or something and read on mobility Thanks for the advice | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 08:15 AM |
| 21 | Male Shit Tests: The Fight For Frame and StatusThanks for this post I found it really useful in fact I think I applied some of it tonight You see there's one guy in our group of "friends" that has been single for a while and by a while I mean 6+ years and from the looks of it he might be in for more time, ever since I've started TRP he's one who gives me the most shit tests, niw that I'm a little bit better with women. Just tonight we were at this party and some wonder where I've been since I've stopped hangin out with them, I just replied "… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 07:26 AM |
| 1 | [ADVICE] Solo Daygame | Introvert’s Guide to First Direct ApproachI told my friends I wanted to meet this girl at school but no one really knew her social circle. My "bros" didn't help me they just told me go ahead dude, I was expecting some sort of wingman stuff where a friend helps me out, I even talked to a female friend and she had a look at the girl and told me "you have no chance bro sorry, she doesn't seem like she wants to date anyone". I must admit at that point of my life I had never approached a girl for anything other than academic reasons I was...… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 03:14 AM |
| -2 | Help me TRP you are my only hope (UPDATE)Thanks for your advice I'm curious though, the first law is never outshine the master, what do you mean I should''ve used it correctly? I don't recall outshining anyone | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Help me TRP you are my only hope (UPDATE)What do you mean by leverage? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 02:36 AM |
| 4 | I'm going to make it!! Starting tomorrowIt's awesome you've decided to go on your journey mate but...keep your goals to yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Year in Review, 9 months of TRPHey I'm a newbie here, great post! It definetly served me as inspiration. I also did a list of TRP changes I've had ever since I started last year and while they are not as impressive as yours I'm still really proud about myself. I hope you don't mind me asking but You mentioned "start focusing heavily on good posture, learn some techniques from TRP to do so" I think posture is critical so, how much different is your posture now than when you first started? How effective was the lumbar support? … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Help me TRP you are my only hopeI can't just quit If I do I'd have to wait another year in order to start one (school policies and such) The professor is not gonna cooperate the school is looking to increase the number of people doing thesis by almost forcing you to be a 2 man that way instead of 50 students they can say they have 100 doing papers. Besides the whole "she won't move a finger thing" is all speculation from me I have no evidence she's actually planning this How did I get this far? It's an interesting question, bu… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 03:17 AM |
| 30 | Extreme Results Require Extreme Dedication (+ Kobe Bryant "All Day" Process)"If you want fantastic results, you are FUCKING DELUDED if you think that will come from reading TRP and going on 2x a months with your friends. You are deluded if you think that will come from just social game or chatting up Sally using your newfound TRP knowledge" This is what I needed to read today because that's what I've been doing lately and thinking it was enough. Thanks for this post | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 12:31 PM |
| 2 | What experience happened to you that made you unplug. [Can be stickied? Anecdotal - The origins of TRPers here today]Funny thing is after unpluggin I realized that my dad is one of the most Alpha example I've ever seen. He was always the life of the party, he's good with his finances, he used to be quite fit in his day but now that he's put on weight he keeps his confidence. Can handle his drink but I've never seen him drunk, he always kept studying improving himself, always reading, knows everyone, everyone respects him. In fact he always gave me red pill advice without knowing. Always motivated me to stay fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 05:30 AM |
| 8 | What experience happened to you that made you unplug. [Can be stickied? Anecdotal - The origins of TRPers here today]We've all heard it, the biggest lie in America and I'm not talking about "Power can be innocent" I'm talking about: "Just be yourself, one day you'll find someone that loves you for who you are, it's what's inside that counts" To my friends I was always the nice guy,that dude you could always count on, that would just not let you down, the guy who would be there for you all the way To the women I was a sweetheart, so polite, so nice, a great guy. A part of me liked that, I thought I was doing th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 09:06 AM |
| 5 | What Every BODY Is Saying - a textbook about body languageBody Language corresponds to 93% of communication, only 7% of it is verbal,you can learn so much about people by studying their non verbal cues, I've started to research into this subject and have been able to address better situations in my life thanks to that knowledge. It's like having a superpower, like OP said you won't become a human lie detector but you can easily spot at a party when a girl is interested, when someone is uncomfortable in a situation, when someone wants to leave etc. In a… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 12:37 AM |
| 6 | The Rational Male – StorytellingSPOILERS I remember seeing the original trilogy after episode 7 and I thought "Wow Solo is pretty alpha" he doesn't care that leia is an entitled princess, or that she leads the rebellion and doesnt treat her any special for this. He instead keeps doing his own thing unphased by her constant whining In episode V she gives him some sort of shit test she says something along the lines of "oh you're a dishonest smugler" and he just says "you know you want a dishonest smugler" and then kisses her an… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 07:49 AM |
| 1 | How should I have handled this situation?I thought pulling her away by the hand would look even more beta? Or am I wrong | /r/askTRP | 21/12/15 04:50 AM |
| 125 | Attention all young and new Red Pillers -- the world doesn't give a fuck about youThank you, I really needed this today I found it hard in the beggining to accept reality, to accept that even your closest "friends" don't really care about your personal dramas, sure they can listen for a while but no one really cares. For the longest time I wanted to find that person, someone who would listen, someone who would make me feel special, someone who cared when I was I was miserable, when I was alone, who appreciated my efforts and praised my small victories, someone who believed in… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 08:40 AM |
| 1 | I need guidance in a RP fashionIt's not like I can't get laid, I know that I can If I decide to, but right now I feel I have more important things to focus on. My doubt is if it's wrong to pass on all these opportunities for focusing on myself | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 04:35 PM |
| 1 | My personal transition from being a Beta and taking The Red Pill.I really enjoyed reading this post. One of the things I started after taking TRP was living life in my own terms, even if it was a little bit different than society's standard. I started being more outgoing, being bolder in my statements, more open to people instead of keeping to myself so much. Not worrying much about what others think. I feel great | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Anyone got any resorces on kino? (Guides, Videos, etc)The tao of badass by josh pelllicier That's pretty helpful thanks! | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The Picture of Dorian Gray and TRPThey are all from the same book, the picture of Dorian Gray But most of them are from the same character:Lord Henry, who was the main influence for Dorian | /r/askTRP | 15/11/15 06:12 AM |
| 7 | The Picture of Dorian Gray and TRP“A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.” “I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.” “When a woman marries again, it is because she detested her first husband. When a man marries again, it is because he adored his first wife. Women try their luck; men risk theirs.” “Women defend themselves by attacking, just as they attack by sudden and strange surrenders.” And finally “There is no such thing as a good inf… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/15 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Field Report: Going Monk for a Semester of CollegeSolid FR mate Could you share some info on that Sleeping App? Seems interesting | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 02:37 PM |
| 2 | The Infinite Mindset; A Guide to Mindfulness and Problem SolvingI've always wanted to get into meditating, thanks for this post I'll definetly start doing it | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Turn Off Your TV!Back in high school I could watch 13-15 hours of TV a day (man what a lot of wasted time that was) I thought that was just part of me, a habit that I had adopted and could never get rid of, I used to "study" (if the kind of effort you do in high school can be called study) with the TV turned on as background noise, and I thought it helped me concentrate. Then 5 years into engineering school and at some point I dropped TV altogether, I rarely watch more than 10 mins a day and that's in the mornin… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 12:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - She is not who you think she is (again)I'm a lurker but I have to say this Excelent field report! I think the writing was superb and I could easily relate to some of your experiences. I'm definetly taking some lessons from this. I hope you'll do a follow up FR a few months from now to see how your life is going. Best of luck to you mate | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 04:50 AM |
| 1 | TRP Manga: Skill of Lure!This particular page really got to me http://www.mangatown.com/manga/skill_of_lure/c004.5/18.html I just recently discovered the sub so I'm trying my best to diggest all the info provided here but thanks to this image I kind of got a better idea of the whole "you are the prize" mentality Thanks OP | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 12:36 AM |
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