nixxiepixie Archive

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0	One key flaw - Being a white male If "white male" somehow reinforces the disparity between races, how could "white male" ever be a pejorative? If the problem is economic class and not racism, how come a black kid whose parents are in the top 5% of earners, who lives in a great neighborhood will earn about as much money and has roughly the same likelihood of ending up in poverty as a poor white kid living in a poor neighborhood? Also, white people cannot face racism: the system of oppression that directly disadvantages people wit…	/r/MensRights	01/01/20 07:08 PM
0	One key flaw - Being a white male But the word nigger is a racial slur that reinforces the disparity in equality between black people and others. It’s a contemptuous term. It’s meant to value black people as ‘less than’. So yes, it is systemic because it reinforces an already existing system. That’s why ‘nigha’ is a reclamation. And back to your point, exactly what systemic disadvantages do white people face because they are white? (If you cannot answer this, dont bother answering me). And I am not racist. Especially because rac…	/r/MensRights	31/12/19 01:06 PM
1	One key flaw - Being a white male Who gon knock out MY teeth? A West Indian woman with more dick and balls than you and any American I’ve ever encountered? You think I’m elitist, I’m not. I’m confident and I can back everything I say up. And that threatens the shit out of you, you’re on defensive. Reread your own words. And I’ve yet to dole out an insult. Sorry if you were insulted, but maybe ask yourself why you feel insulted when I shine light to difficult topics. Does it threaten your privilege? Threaten what you’ve been thou…	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 08:45 PM
1	One key flaw - Being a white male Whew great question. Like let’s say a black woman wearing her hair naturally as it grew out her head was so widely considered ugly and ghetto (even though white women can wear their hair as it naturally grows out their heads no matter how embarrassing and thin that shyte looks) that an actual law had to be passed so institutions can stop discriminating against black women. The hate for black hair stems from white supremacy-which is a social thing. There’s no official or practical discrimination …	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 08:08 PM
1	One key flaw - Being a white male It’s quite classist, ableist, and racist to base ones intellectual capacity around their English proficiency. Academia, as a rule, is inaccessible especially to those who are of lower classes, disabled, or of non-European origin. Anyway, there doesn’t have to be unanimous consensus within sociology that every form of racism is systemic. Not every scientist is in agreement against conversion therapy. But you should trust the definition coined by those who are well familiar with racism, systemic i…	/r/MensRights	28/12/19 07:56 PM
-1	One key flaw - Being a white male Yeah okay Imma totally NOT listen to the guy that said fvck education and higher education at that. But look at the evidence; every form of racism is systemic until racism is applied as an umbrella term to encompass white people. Then and only then is racism simplified to egoism or hurt feelings. Every other instance is systemic. Have a thought process for a sec bby luv	/r/MensRights	24/12/19 10:29 PM
-45	One key flaw - Being a white male It’s never okay to be prejudiced or discriminatory towards anyone but I think the point most people try to make is white people can’t face racism, because simply put racism is the systemic oppression of people with the least proximity to whiteness. And the only time racism is ever not systemic, is when it is used as an umbrella term to include white people. Then it boils down to hurt feelings.	/r/MensRights	24/12/19 03:41 PM
1	Racism vs Feminism I’m sorry would you have preferred me to use any other words synonymous to those, or perhaps is it the message that you don’t want to receive? Do you hear yourself? You sound programmed. Every single MRA says this whenever words such as ‘oppression’ are dropped. What else would you like for us to call it, if not oppression? Wet doesn’t stop being wet just because you call it hydrous. Word policing is a failed argumentative tactic. Step your pussy game up, bro	/r/MensRights	30/11/19 12:06 PM
1	Racism vs Feminism This would be extremely relevant, if there were not power imbalances between black people and white people, and women and men. Dominant groups (ie white people in this example-or races who are not black as black people tend to be the least advantaged poc) use criticism to marginalize. Marginalized groups (ie women in this example) use criticism to identify oppression. When men are 96% of the perpetrators of violent crime, criticism is necessary. This was very badly thought out and if you think t…	/r/MensRights	08/11/19 03:53 PM
-1	Because you claimed it's about equality ...female circumcision is a thing too. Y’all Americans are so sheltered and ignorant. Also feminists aren’t the reason why circumcision of baby boys is normalized and accepted in the west. Feminists aren’t responsible for the draft, either. Those things aren’t an effect caused by feminism. ...half of rape victims aren’t men. Women are disproportionately at a higher rate of victims of sexual assault. However feminism is the reason men can even find legal justice for being raped so fuck that Koss …	/r/MensRights	11/10/19 09:53 AM
0	Because you claimed it's about equality I wasn’t gonna reply but the last part of your comment has me...curious. Did you just wonder why the king is heavily punished for treating his subject (mind you, women are of the same species, genus, phylum, kingdom, etc as men, just an fyi.) ill, but the subject (do you understand that you’re inherently putting a woman in a position of subservience to a man, and this is how you probably think irl and lemme just say it’s prolly why you’re a virgin/responsible for your lack of female companionshi…	/r/MensRights	11/10/19 09:33 AM
-1	Because you claimed it's about equality Is it that feminism is painting the picture that men are directly oppressing women to serve their self interest, or is it that that’s how many people who don’t have the intellectual capacity and openness to grasp what feminism is about interprets? Because a big thing in feminism is that oppression isn’t autonomous; meaning that Ajay himself can’t produce my oppression, merely reinforce and contribute to what’s already existing. I feel like so many people misinterpret what feminism is about becau…	/r/MensRights	11/10/19 09:22 AM
0	Because you claimed it's about equality No one, especially not feminists, are gatekeeping the body positivity movement. The space is there for men. The space is there. Feminism isn’t about exclusivity. Also beauty standards affect both men and women but disproportionately affect women as women are expected to look a lot less casual than men. Messy hair, body hair, fat rolls, etc is all accepted in men far more than women. This is why women are more likely to have eating disorders/disorders surrounding obsessive/compulsive tendencies s…	/r/MensRights	11/10/19 09:11 AM
0	Because you claimed it's about equality ...you think ‘real men like curves’ is oppressive towards men? That’s y’all oppression. Guch g.	/r/MensRights	11/10/19 01:43 AM
-1	Because you claimed it's about equality Guys are socialized not to be able to hit women, when women are socialized to be able to hit men. And guess what? All the problems you listed there are a result of this oppressive system feminists are fighting against called the patriarchy. Also there’s nothing wrong with a woman sleeping around? Literally it’s just sex, grow up. Also the only thing feminists shame men for is assaulting women so...idk what you want bro, but assaulting people ain’t the wave. There are literal studies showing ho…	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 04:57 PM
1	Because you claimed it's about equality But you are incorrect, feminism IS fighting against those disparities, actively and inherently because the root cause is the same-the patriarchy. And people need to stop thinking that patriarchy is synonymous with manhood, because it is not. The patriarchy disadvantages men too. Especially men of color, men who are lgbtq, and disabled men.	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 02:25 PM
-7	Because you claimed it's about equality “Sure women didn’t have the right to vote for most of history but men too :(“ is a crappy argument. Men didn’t need a 19th amendment. Black men didn’t need till 1965. Neither did native men. Or other men of color. But please do go on about how it wasn’t about gender discrimination. Women were in the war. So next, please. Also single women weren’t owned by their husbands, correct. But they had fathers. Own up to history, my g? No shame in admitting women are systemically oppressed. It simply...is…	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 02:05 PM
-15	Because you claimed it's about equality Idk if you know but this is literally what you opened with: “oh stfu about how women were property of men! Sure, women WERE property of the men but they were forced to treat the women like PEOPLE and not objects”. Nigha.... And since you wanna be counting shiiid I’ll count too. That was one, 2. You’re upset that women were allowed to buy things with what money they had little agency over, seriously? Do you not see how fucked up what you’re saying is? Has it occurred to you yet that men had to ta…	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 12:32 PM
-2	Because you claimed it's about equality What responsibilities are we being liberated from?	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 11:23 AM
0	Because you claimed it's about equality You’re told feminism is for men but what is being said is ‘feminism also works against the systems that disadvantage you too, by default’. Like feminist work against the patriarchy, which also dictates that men should feel shame surrounding negative non-violent emotions. How has activist feminism harmed men? Explain. Don’t run from this I want actual proof because you sound like a complete nut bro. Men’s right activism is a direct and opposing response to feminism, a movement about female libera…	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 10:50 AM
0	Because you claimed it's about equality Male suicide is made into a joke by whom specifically? Give me a personal example where you have encountered a feminist, and not a woman-because unfortunately those things aren’t mutually synonymous, like common sense and personhood-who has made male suicide into a joke. Because 100% of feminists are trying to dismantle the patriarchy- the oppressive system that allows the conditions for men to be shamed for displaying non-violent negative emotions that account for the high suicidal tendencies i…	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 10:32 AM
-25	Because you claimed it's about equality ...first let’s get this out of the way. The patriarchy theory isn’t a theory that pits men and women against each other. In fact, it’s common knowledge among feminists and others of higher mental process that the patriarchy systemically disadvantaged women while societally disadvantaging men-predominantly. This can be seen with the higher suicide rate in males due to toxic masculinity as a result of the patriarchy-the same patriarchy that tells men to ‘man-up’ and hide away their emotions lest t…	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 10:20 AM
0	Because you claimed it's about equality Idk how to tell you what an intellectual fuck up it is to equate bringing awareness to and then equally trying to hold oppressive systems accountable for their oppressive natures to victimizing oneself. We’re the native Americans not victims? The Jews? The blacks? The women? Step up your pussy game, bro. You’re smarter than this.	/r/MensRights	10/10/19 10:06 AM
-56	Because you claimed it's about equality Yeah...the liberation of women from systemic oppression on the basis of gender to be equal to men. But feminism is about female liberation, female equality. Feminism centers females. There’s so many movements for equality and equality exists across intersections of marginalization, why do y’all men NEED feminism. Is it because this is the one movement specifically for women and y’all...don’t like women?	/r/MensRights	05/10/19 04:22 PM
-1	College gap by sex and race. And because women are socialized to be more agreeable than men, less competitive than men, and have more marriage options than men (what does this even mean? Literally. Like lol lesbians aren’t doing better than you man. I mean maybe theyre giving their girls orgasms, but that’s the only difference between y’all besides the whole systemic homophobia), that explains why men dominate the workforce? That accounts for why there are more men named John in positions of power than there are women in po…	/r/MensRights	04/10/19 12:29 PM
-1	College gap by sex and race. The systematic oppression that causes women to succeed the academic field but then somehow fail to succeed in a male-dominated workforce. Women don’t suddenly decide to stop grinding once they’ve poured all their money and hard work into academics to only apply for lower level jobs, not ask for promotions, or not work at all. That’s systemic oppression.	/r/MensRights	04/10/19 12:08 PM
1	College gap by sex and race. The chart reflecting per 100 black men doesn’t negate the fact that men dominate the workforce after being among the least successful academically. Which gives great insight into how powerful male privilege is. Also preferential admissions of minorities isn’t an advantage if it’s something that is brought upon to correct a disadvantage. It’s not so much benefitting from structural oppression, so much as attempting to rectify it.	/r/MensRights	03/10/19 10:07 PM
-2	College gap by sex and race. I just started following men’s rights activism and I’m stunned honestly. Y’all seem to be way behind feminism. It’s such common knowledge among feminists that women succeed in education whereas men get the short end of that stick. And that’s basically what leads to the question: how is it that black women could succeed education wise over white men who are at the absolute bottom, but white men succeed in the work force where as black women...don’t. It’s a hint at the systemic workings of the pat…	/r/MensRights	02/10/19 02:24 PM