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Most people will downplay the your experience. Personally, I'm 24 Y.O and I haven't had a date nor sex nor anything. People often say that "improve yourself" or "be the best version of yourself" or whatever that means only to find those who told you that doing the complete opposite and it ends up being a bummer and ask yourself "Why should I bother anyways?". And then they'll say "you should not do it to get someone or a partner but yourself." It eventually leads to a cycle of questions and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:46 PM
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I read somewhere from a local person that hypergamy is inborn, one(read women) can't really do away with it. It is what it is. When something better arrives or shows up, she will leave you. However, the writer says that you can't practice it all your life, you'll need to have checks for yourself. I may be wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:56 PM
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Then one goes to YouTube for example and sees video descriptions "How to talk to a girl and get her attention" or "how to make your crush like you" or "how to text a girl to like you." but one rarely or rather barely sees the vice versa of what women should do to get a man or something along that.
/r/MGTOW225/07/21 02:01 PM
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In other words "my self esteem and/or ego is very low, why isn't anyone trying to massage them for me to make me feel good about myself?" :-|
/r/MGTOW225/07/21 01:38 PM
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That is irritating. Give her two chances two stop her behavior, the third time she does it you'll probably know what to do.
/r/MGTOW202/07/21 06:18 AM
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One things for sure is, love can't be built on isolation now that you said that people should love themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:14 PM
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This personality thing, is a scam to say the least. Anyways it still doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:12 PM
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A simple answer, life is easier for attractive people, men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:14 AM
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Good thing I won't spend the rest of my life trying to look at someone's eyes and to see if they like me or not, because no one ever looks at me like that nor no one will ever will.
/r/seduction25/12/20 09:11 AM
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And some, if not most, individuals always have women falling for them regardless of "bEiNg YoUrSeLf or bEiNg you" or whatever it is.
/r/seduction23/12/20 07:29 PM
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"You're not gonna get laid if your circle is small..." right, nothing will change the fact that people still won't want you regardless. Noticed you had 120 unopened texts, right. If getting all those people to "checking in" or even for those people to pretend to do so is gonna happen to the best of us. And maybe the person is a genuine nice guy without any ill intentions? And whatever works for you might not work for others nor will it ever work to others still.
/r/seduction22/12/20 08:21 PM
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If women like good men/guys whatever (if that means all of them good guys), then chances are they won't be single and desired or friendzoned :whatever that means. Also, can you do on nice girls or is it women, and good women?
/r/seduction17/12/20 01:43 PM
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That final part of "being yourself", is not (much) different from your first statement.
/r/seduction17/12/20 01:39 PM
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Most of us aren't mind readers.
/r/seduction06/12/20 02:35 PM
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"Being willing to reject them..." , yeah, if they want you and make their intentions known of which doesn't happen to the best of us
/r/seduction04/12/20 04:29 PM
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This vulnerable thing is not often appreciated. And it is like a trap too, many(if not all) people say they don't like men who have insecurities. Yes, they may encourage men to show those insecurities to their partners but it's only that those partners could get something from those guys not appreciate it. And many times they're told to fake it till you make it. Anyways, it doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:05 AM
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Why not decide for yourself instead of going all that way, after spending time and energy, for them to decide. Also, the same energy one puts out might be the same they get from outside. I mean, if people don't find anything attractive about you why should that person try to be attractive in the first place?
/r/seduction12/11/20 06:37 PM
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Yeah It is all on you...and them too.
/r/seduction22/10/20 10:00 AM
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Well, no one seems to make themselves available for me to trying to attract me. It is all in every day life. Too bad it doesn't happen to everybody.
/r/seduction11/10/20 08:53 PM
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Don't ever think yeah, but it will always happen. Especially if previous experiences prove it.
/r/seduction29/09/20 06:37 PM
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Well, that can be said of the one who posted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 06:04 PM
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Approach another girls to see if you interest each other. This is tiresome. Maybe all of those many girls don't see you, rather me, attractive at all.
/r/seduction29/09/20 06:40 AM
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And when she is done with that guy "bad boy or boys", she'll remember the existence of the "nice guy". She likes the bad guys more than the nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:40 PM
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She had options in her youth, better than me obviously, and still has when she hits the 'wall'. That's why she does not know me, nor want to know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:35 AM
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And free food to add onto that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 02:10 PM
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It is like attractive people saying looks don't matter or wealthy people who say money doesn't matter. Even telling someone the work on themselves fairy tale is cliché and at the most useless too. If a person always experiences negatives especially in dating or whatever else, especially those beyond their control, they'll always have such thoughts in their mind. It is not bad to be desired to or want to be desired by someone or several people. If a person always experiences the positives, they w…
/r/seduction24/09/20 02:13 PM
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It will be tiresome and time consuming. Why not stop it altogether? Besides, even the too many women out there might or won't ever be interested in you, rather me.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:10 AM
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I thought people said one should have humor to attract someone. People are scared to mess up and that's alright. Therefore stays in the shell. Probably because something happened to him at one or several his lifetime. Perhaps he was never encouraged and appreciated for his personality or making any moves, whatever and however that statement goes.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:37 AM
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Indeed. Then those who've heard the words most of their life if not all come to say such. It is not a bad thing to want someone desire you or tell you words of affection.
/r/seduction18/09/20 10:28 AM
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It gives unwarranted pressure on a man to fulfill the "man up" and approach thing, or things. To many it is the correct way, and to the remaining few, it seems to be correct way to do. And yeah, I hope so too that we find each other. However, my expectations of it are too low or non-existent, I gave up.
/r/seduction13/09/20 08:18 PM
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Good because everyone of them whenever we lock eyes, they don't smile. I'd like to lock eyes with them and smile and wait for them to approach me which won't ever happen. It will be done to other guys anyways.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:00 PM
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It doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/seduction09/09/20 10:47 AM
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The 'people' subconsciously need or wants others to feel good about themselves but the guy who wants others to feel good himself is a failure. Wow... Never knew that.
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:19 AM
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In a world that tells many, if not all, women from a young age, or whatever other time in life, that they are the prizes, know their worth or value and that men should work for it blah blah blah and among other statements. This, of men to have standards, will trouble many people. They might expect men to have, yes which is not bad to have, but should not be high as what women's standards are or be beyond them, or so they believe.
/r/seduction29/08/20 10:47 AM
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Then they go for the good guys as a consolation prize. But behind their backs in most cases if not all, they'll be fucking or will cheat with the guys they actually like but know they are not good for the long run.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/20 11:32 AM
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Everyone who is afraid of rejection is a pussy, including women. Rejection sucks and downplaying it or anyone who won't risk it even for you stranger, is going too low.
/r/seduction14/08/20 05:49 PM
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My remaining self esteem and dignity being destroyed and I'm finished. Anyways, she should do it too. It is either a yes or no.
/r/seduction13/08/20 06:43 PM
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That is how you see it. Plus I have everything to lose, should I try. And asking someone out, unless the feelings are mutual, it is not guaranteed. Besides, I'll always be at the bottom of the list and be considered as a consolation prize.
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:09 PM
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People don't give a shit about a guy failing to pick up a chick but people will ask you if you're single or even know what sex is. Heck she might even have options, which she has, and probably they're better than me, of which it actually is. Why should I try if I know I will lose anyways? Sometimes pardon most of the time if not all of the time, for me that is, it's better to let it all go. Anyways it depends on an individual.
/r/seduction11/08/20 03:48 PM
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I tRiEd. It depends on the individual, you see it better. I don't.
/r/seduction08/08/20 12:10 PM
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Yes indeed. If a person who wants such courage or wants to approach someone, that person will "build himself..."and what is going to stop him and anyone else if that is what it takes to do so? I guess no one. Then telling people those cliché words of building yourself and focusing on yourself and among others while also saying that you are getting ripped so as to approach someone is foolish, becomes null and void.
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:30 PM
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The constant point is, as I said, it doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/seduction07/08/20 05:54 PM
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"work on yourself...", "build yourself...", "focus on yourself..." and among others Then why do people say these things in the first place.
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:49 PM
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Too bad it doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/seduction05/08/20 09:39 PM
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The thing is, not everyone is a mind reader. Simple words like "kiss me" could do the trick. What's there to lose anyway?
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:14 PM
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And also why shouldn't girls do the same? They shouldn't blow the opportunities too.
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:45 AM
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She could've done something too though I mean she was into you.
/r/seduction28/07/20 07:33 PM
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And not everybody likes and wants to be rejected continuously, depending on the reason or impressions of her the ex or something else. The fear of rejection is valid. Also why does it happen to guys only?
/r/seduction28/07/20 07:30 PM
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So it is men only who have approach anxiety it seems. It is okay. But many of those who say such do the otherwise or are having great sexual experiences whatsoever. Anyways it doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/seduction26/07/20 09:29 PM
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But that doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/seduction23/07/20 09:47 AM
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Rejection = regrets.
/r/seduction21/07/20 08:35 PM
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Sadly it still doesn't work for the best of us.
/r/seduction21/07/20 02:38 PM
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Just stop. It will save you from disappointments.
/r/seduction10/07/20 03:28 PM
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Not everyone can take rejection or risk rejection.
/r/seduction07/07/20 10:45 AM
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It doesn't work for everybody. My existence is a bane to many.
/r/seduction03/07/20 09:47 AM
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Whether there are high value women or low value women, people being busy with work, having issues with exes people make time for those in the top quarter or third of their priority list. It takes a lot too for a man to invest into someone there not familiar with nor trying to know. It is either they're into me or not. No games. Men have a life to live too. Also, what works for you doesn't necessarily mean it works for everyone, including me.
/r/seduction30/06/20 07:13 PM
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It doesn't happen to the best of us, especially if ugly.
/r/seduction17/06/20 12:22 PM
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Yeah but not many people, me included, won't stop giving a fuck about rejection. Every time one tries, regardless of what one does, the results are the same. Therefore, we have to stop trying and stop being rejected over and over again. The comfort zone is sometimes, better than be rejected over and over and over and over again.
/r/seduction16/06/20 01:30 PM
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We ugly people still don't stand a chance.
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:59 PM
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It doesn't happen to the best of us.
/r/seduction27/05/20 02:16 PM
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Yeah, but why men only. It is always men to be rejected. Wow!! We continue to face the bad (and the good as you say we should) but it sucks. That's why many of us, or me that is, don't think of trying again as the results are always the same.
/r/seduction21/05/20 12:38 PM
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Should one also have idea of why they're approaching a person?
/r/seduction29/04/20 09:11 PM
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It depends, sometimes it could've been better if she could've said no. If it were my case, I could stop at that.
/r/seduction29/04/20 09:32 AM
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Financial pests.
/r/seduction22/04/20 11:13 AM
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You both have to meet each other halfway, rather somewhere along the way. Sometimes one has to look for them.
/r/seduction03/04/20 07:04 AM
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Nice guys always come last from personal experience, at least. If you intend to look for one, look among the most unlikely of people.
/r/seduction03/04/20 07:02 AM
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No is still an answer, even when you happen to tell it to a woman(as a result of how you feel now) It feels good to be in control of your life. Also, don't be a yes person too often, it sucks as I'm there and I'm trying to get out of it. Learn to balance when there should be a yes or no.
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:54 AM
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Sometimes, you've to say it directly. No need of using much time, energy and resources to do so. Be direct, there's no formula. Nothing is ever guaranteed.
/r/seduction21/03/20 08:04 AM
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I'm not handsome but otherwise, I used confidence once but didn't ask for contacts because results afterwards are always the same, hideous rejection.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:07 PM
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