| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /somg, genius!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:11 AM |
| 9 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sshe probably trusted him with that information too. she most likely believed he wouldn’t coerce her into doing the things she listed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:10 AM |
| 20 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /si really hope this loser won’t do anything to hurt her :/ men who resent their partners end up hurting them in the end | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:54 AM |
| 43 | Reminder: this is the bare minimum.it’s so sad that the ‘prioritizes your orgasm’ is what a lot of women find high value. it shouldn’t be like this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:40 AM |
| 27 | Reminder: this is the bare minimum.i’ve noticed that pattern with the ‘green flag’ posts. of course you should be happy you’ve found a guy that appreciates you, but praising the bare minimum like him cleaning after himself is strange. we should not be holding grown men to the same standards we have for children. my younger brother (10) is capable of doing a lot of chores on his own and maintains good hygiene. grown men are not children. they should not be praised for doing basic life skills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:39 AM |
| 9 | Women are conditioned to think that their unhappiness in relationships is normal“he know where home is,” is what she says after he cheats on her and makes a horribly done apology to get her back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡oh definitely! they need to be held accountable as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:28 AM |
| 17 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡as an ex muslim, i agree with what you’re saying. most of them can’t help it. they were raised in communities where being muslim and wearing the hijab was normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 09:52 AM |
| 8 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹sis!! you said it!! men do that disgusting shit in norway all the time. they travel to cambodia or thailand and take advantage of a poor women there by suggesting a better life in the west. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:52 AM |
| 5 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹men be like: but she’s getting pAid1!11!11! how is it rape then???? it’s rape because she didn’t consent to it. YOU wanted to have sex, NOT her! and most of these women are trafficked and don’t see a penny of the money. it goes to their pimp or the person that owns the brothel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:46 AM |
| 13 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!“you see men as walking atms” girl. some dinners be under 200-100. please stop expecting less and love yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 10 | 👋 HE'S 👋TOO👋CHEAP👋pick-mes started commenting on her appearance too. like girl. pls mind your business | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 67 | WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴as a person who doesn’t use makeup, i’ll never stoop this low for men to validate me because of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 30 | My Opinion on Modern Dating as a Woman in Her Early 20sfrl. guys my age are a bunch of porn-sick fuckheads, and older men are no better, lmao. i’m glad i’m attracted to women however. it’s the only thing that hasn’t stopped my vision of finding love some day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 07:10 PM |
| 49 | My Opinion on Modern Dating as a Woman in Her Early 20sas a 16 year old, i feel you. dating’s such a turn off when you’re aware of all the red flags and bullshit that comes with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 07:05 PM |
| 19 | If the romance is not going your way, please do not make "stories" around it to make it bearable. So many romantic stories are toxic in reality.i just noticed!! snow white was a teenager, and her ‘prince’ was in his adult years…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 06:46 PM |
| 106 | This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things.i remember the case of shafilea ahmed. a pakistani-british girl that was killed by her parents because she rejected their old fashioned views + arranged marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 48 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”the same mfers that punch brick walls when they’re mad 💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing”he was a grown ass man when she was crawling around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Why ?i’m glad her mom is calling it out, but i’m sure she won’t listen to her. expecting a man to pay for your parents meal isn’t old fashioned. it’s basic human decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:25 PM |
| -3 | FDS to the rescue!she’s in her forties posting this embarrassing stuff (no offense to the older ladies on fds, i love and value y’all) online. how about you stop doing wifey shit for men that don’t appreciate you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:19 PM |
| 25 | Cry me a river.a grown ass man… a grown ass man crying about shit that happened when he was a child. and he probably only brought it up whenever you guys were fighting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:13 PM |
| 50 | God help the woman married to this mani’m praying for the days twitter users stop laughing at this shit. ‘hehe’ like bitch!! think about his wife, dammit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:11 PM |
| 14 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.he’s 27 years older than her… this man was doing adult things when she was crawling around. and to think people defend this is fucking mind boggling 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:11 AM |
| 35 | Once that honeymoon phase wonders off, she will (hopefully) see things differently.girls like this are type to be like “it’s okay, my parents have a 15 year age too lol” or “my mom was 17 and my dad was 35 when they met” and it’s like. babe, you AND your mother are victims of perverted old men. no man of high value settles for a girl 20 years younger than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:56 AM |
| 11 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.frl!! the double standards are insane. happy cake day btw <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:46 AM |
| 4 | I'm ✨embarrassed ✨wait why do you have ‘pickmeisha tm’ on your username? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:11 PM |
| 97 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.frl. like!! my family would never allow a guest or anyone go hungry for the matter. i know their all adults and all that jazz — but noticing a person is skipping meals and not offering them some food? my mom would have a field day with this scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 97 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.oooh, sis. you spoke the truth right there <33 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 09:04 AM |
| 30 | I Love You, But I Love Me More - Marinamarina’s been that girl for years! her lyrics are so inspiring to me <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 17 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.because they think ‘providing money’ is all they can offer in a relationship. idk why scrotes act like providing money is all too difficult for women these days especially with how many women are getting high paying jobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 3 | When they lie about their ages on dating apps and think we won't notice 😂is that the twin towers?? and he thought people wouldn’t notice 😭🙏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:53 PM |
| 8 | That feel when your cousin is the first non-LVM you've met in a long timemy brother’s what i would call high value. he doesn’t do 50/50 (he pays for everything his fiancé wants), cooks, cleans, and does his own laundry along with ironing his own clothes. he doesn’t believe in raising his voice to get his point come across, and he detests lazy males that disrespect women. he’s bought a house, a car, for his fiancé and they’re more than happy with their engagement. they’re getting married next year <3 my brother and mom are close but not in the emotional incest type wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | “Build with him”watch empire on fox. luscious lyon (the main character) dumps his wife in prison after she helped him build a company with 400 000 dollars. his ex wife is the og ‘build a man’ and i hate how many women are similar to her in the black community. we need to step up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 05:48 PM |
| 10 | Don't even pretend you're having a good time.you’re my new role model. thanks for the inspo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Scrote.surviving r kelly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:55 AM |
| 17 | Much love to FDS, always ❤️anime porn with little girls on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 7 | dating strategies are different for men vs womeni agree, and happy cake day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:35 AM |
| 4 | Guys take exception when the girls fawn over pop/Kpop Idols and consider the same as detrimental to a relationship. Imagine how bad porn and only fans are - they know the stars by name and spend money on them.my sister’s ex used to be jealous of my sister’s biases in kpop groups back in 2009. she dumped him because he wouldn’t stop being an insecure little bitch about it. granted that my sisters have never taken man’s bullshit and taught me not to do the same. insecure men are gonna stay insecure — even if you express how much you ‘love’ them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 05:58 PM |
| 22 | Sadly trueor they’ll be like “my friend offered to pay for her DiNnEr. sOmE gOlD dIgGeR sHe iS" they wanna date their friends so badddd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 05:34 AM |
| 120 | God forbid women mock men the same way they mock women…ugly men have always been allowed to have a preference in women — but the moment a woman says she doesn’t want to date a short dick man — she’s the problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:02 PM |
| 52 | What every woman wants to hearso their mom was a roberta the builder that ‘builds’ her man up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:11 AM |
| 7 | Knock it tf off, pickmeisha 🤡too bad she won’t find a guy like that. men are only supportive when you do something that fits their narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:10 AM |
| 131 | Don't give a single fuck about men attempting to fuck up your mind so they can fuck you. Konmari the cheap Scrotties. Make them pay up and work hard for the priviledge of being with you 💅men: these bitches don’t have standards, and that’s why they set themselves up failure. women: very well then. we’re going to develop some self respect, and have standards for the guys we date. women: i don’t want to do walk dates. men: WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU DONT WANNA GO ON WALKING DATES1!!1!1!1!1!1!1!1!2!1!1!! SOME HIGH MAINTENANCE BITCH YOU ARE!!! 😡😡😡‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 67 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.i’m happy there’s still women with fds mentality. or else the future generation of girls would be screwed. millennial women were raised in the era of pornography— so i can’t really blame lib-fems for gaslighting themselves. that it was ‘normaaaaal’ to watch porn in a relationship— or single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 187 | Truer words have never been spoken. Don't believe those fairy tales ladies.porn is the worst thing that’s happened to women in generation z. millennial lib-fems and misogynists normalized porn by making buzzfeed articles that promoted it as ‘healthy’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 11 | Men lack selfawarenessthe average woman is better looking than the average man. why? because the average woman bothers to take care of herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 09:39 AM |
| 23 | Absolutely brain dead, outrageous, and pathetic conversation between pickmes and scrotesone scrote was complaining about how ‘uncomfortable’ the hospital chair was when his wife was giving birth. they really make everything about themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:03 AM |
| 17 | He called me a princessi remember a scrote getting mad at my sister because she wanted to cancel a date hours away. you did nothing wrong <3 men hate it when women have standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 57 | He called me a princessyou did nothing wrong, babe <3 scrotes are gonna keep scroting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | That's how seduction works, right?unlike boobs, dicks aren’t pleasing to look at 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:08 PM |
| 25 | you’re doing what now?omg this enrages me sm. and the fact that my generation (gen z) is used to seeing this on social media — and it being normalized — is terrifying 🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:31 AM |
| 11 | Love this. Louder for the scrotes in the back.old men in norway fly out thai women (they use them for their bodies) — but have the audacity to call these women ‘whores’ and ‘gold diggers’ when they’re done exploiting them. kudos to all the thai women that told me about this trick. once they get their passports, education and jobs, they leave these disgusting men and build a nice life for their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Dating in ScandinaviaNorwegian men are such low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:22 PM |
| 22 | Ask a man which gender child he wants and dig WHY, not for the gold ya lurking scrotes 😅You'll find why he wants a girl if that is so, and if the reason is similar run in the other direction ladies🏃 That's dad duties reassigned🤡💩& a cheap💍 will buy him 2 slaves🤮👿my little cousin cooks and cleans around the house and she’s only nine. she takes care of her father and older brother (because her brother need time to mAtUre) my family’s a damn mess. half of my female relatives are pick-mes, and the rest are rad-fems. the pick-mes praise my little cousin for cooking and cleaning for her father — and the rad-fems are currently in the process of scolding her dad about it. no child should be left alone doing chores her adult dad should be capable of doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:23 AM |
| 20 | This is THE energy 👸they’re also competing with my amazing girlfriends and high value male friends. scrotes really think we’re miserable ‘bitches’ without them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:19 AM |
| 14 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.why is she doing all of this for him? like it’d be understandable if it was a nice gesture once in awhile or for his birthday — but doing this shit every day?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Spot Onhow about men deal with their mental health with…. a therapist….or other men?!! you know, like how most women find comfort in each other, or female therapists?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:35 PM |
| 12 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersi would’ve knocked anyone out if they made fun of my sister. she can recognize his behavior as wrong, but doesn’t even bother to stop it until he’s comfortable enough doing it during a family dinner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Women don’t exist for your objectifying male gaze.it doesn’t matter if you cover up or not — men will still treat you like a sub genre of a person. i know plenty of muslim women who’re covered from head to toe — and men still sexualize them. especially western men who’re excited about ‘wanting to be the one to see what’s under there’. men are awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:32 PM |
| 16 | It.Never.Ends.male oriented sports are so boring. and the stadiums are even worse. bunch of grown scrotes shouting at the top of their lungs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:32 PM |
| 1 | The audacity!he can’t even use commas. some ‘business man’ he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | I have no wordscan all the beautiful boy-moms at fds promise to teach their baby boys better so they don’t end up like this disrespectful scrote? like for the future generation of women out there’s sake. thank you and have a nice day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:19 PM |
| 43 | Stop fucking lyingggmhm. especially if the stories are patterned. why would 'such a great’ man attract all that negative energy. nah, bro! you the crazy one. all my hvm friends never talk shit about their exes. even if the girl did them wrong. they never stoop so low and call them ‘crazy’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 157 | My gf needs space after i convinced her to let me pretend to rape her bc we're sooo kinky but she didnt say "banana" so I didnt stop, why is she upset???🤢🤡i hate the whole 'safe word’ concept. you can scream "get off me” or "please stop” and men will be like, "well she didn’t say the safe word, so i didn’t stop". and when women talk about their stories, sex posi people will be like "well technically you didn’t say the safe word, so you can’t blame him there” 😐😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:22 AM |
| 51 | Gym Creepstay safe, queen. this fucker may do something to harm you. men don’t handle rejection well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 6 | Jeno Lee is a sculpturei wish all men could take care of their skin. like the improvement 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:18 PM |
| 3 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.my male friend was raised by his mothers and older sister, and he’s high value. he doesn’t have any male friends (doesn’t like associating himself with sexist pricks at his uni) and my girlfriends and i appreciate him sm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:39 AM |
| 17 | Need to start doing thisi’m a short woman, but i hate it when society tries to push tall women to date short dudes. “a short dude will love you more than a tall guy” fuck outta here and let tall women have their standards. never lower your standards for society, queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:46 AM |
| 4 | Yup. Especially how creepy most of the men giving out compliments arecompliments from women hit different and are pretty diverse. for example: "your skin is so clear!” "you have wonderful collarbones!” “this dress would totally go with your eye color!" women are just amazing like that 🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:29 AM |
| 7 | Can we talk about daddy issues in men?most men i know have daddy issues and they like projecting that on women. men will later internalize this behavior, and become just like their god-awful fathers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:25 AM |
| 98 | Eye Opening.i’m so glad i was raised by rad-fems who told me male attention was a waste of time. it doesn’t matter how 'cool’ you are. men will only see you as a sub genre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:24 PM |
| 62 | And they aren’t treated well either!martin and gina. martin’s annoying ass was always disrespectful to pam (gina’s friend). shit wasn’t funny at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 11 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".i’ve seen men diss women in the work field and women who are stay at home moms. they’ll disrespect you no matter what you do. they’re so jealous of us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:26 AM |
| 9 | Loved this ❤️love you too, queen!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:25 AM |
| 8 | Let's keep going against the system Queens!i’m so glad my siblings and i don’t praise my dad for cooking and cleaning. cooks, cleans and smells good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:14 AM |
| 36 | HVM are always HVM, even if they’re your Exmhm. the lovebombing xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Applying FDS Values in Nordic Dating Culturei live in norway, and norwegian guys are just as awful as the rest. maybe even worse as most guys don’t marry their baby mamas/ girlfriends over here. they’re also really stingy and 50/50 when it comes to dates. most of them also smell and look a mess. norway portrays itself as a 'progressive’ and ‘feminist’ country, but the men here are loud about their blatant sexism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Just in case the men do not believe the previous picture of them separately is taken at the same time, here they are taking a selfie together. The cast of Friends. There is no Wall for women.it do be like that XD men hit the wall before women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:08 PM |
| 42 | Just in case the men do not believe the previous picture of them separately is taken at the same time, here they are taking a selfie together. The cast of Friends. There is no Wall for women.mhm. black men hit the wall before black women. my father looks twice my mother’s age, and he’s only two years older than her. my father’s balding, whilst my mother still looks great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 10:51 AM |
| 10 | For those in the back 📣i get that, but i’m glad more older men are realizing this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:02 PM |
| 19 | For those in the back 📣but that doesn’t erase the fact that women in the middle east and south asia don’t have the same rights we do in the west. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 37 | For those in the back 📣that man is either south asian or arab. they’ve been raised to think women are inferior. it’s a big step for south asian/arab men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:06 PM |
| 84 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎i’ll rather be stuck with my amazing girlfriends and the queens at this sub! die mad, scrotess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:27 AM |
| 2 | "My ex is crazy" is still a red flag, even if he's telling the truthmy sister’s ex told her about how ‘mental’ his former ex was. turns out, this scrote lied on this poor woman. my sister and her are now friends, and bond over how trash and lv he is. no man is worth putting another woman down for! at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Angry scrote texts me from another phone number after I blocked and deleted him because we’re not a match...he’s trash! hope he dies mad lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:46 AM |
| 15 | Nobody actually *needs* men 😎 🤷🏻♀️my female friends already make me so happy. i don’t need somebody’s son for happiness when i have them 😩👆🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:40 AM |
| 48 | This is getting traction in a FOOD GROUP I’m in, and I cannot describe how unenthusiastic I am with cool-gamer-girl pickmeculturemhm. lvm scrote that did two of his female friends wrong. i’m glad korra and asami ended up together!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:09 AM |
| 115 | A Valuable Message from @kitarose_ on TikTokomgggg, i love her smm. she’s always speaking facts on my fyp. HER SKIN THOUGH. ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | “Peter Pan” LVM at work: some observationsmhm. female secretaries don’t get the credit they deserve. they deal with emotional ass bosses 24/7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 06:00 AM |
| 0 | Men weaponize comparisons of gender issues to racial issues when it benefits them and refuse to compare them when it doesn’t.ok? a white woman can still lie on a black man and get him in jail? idk what you’re trying to get at here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:35 PM |
| 10 | Men weaponize comparisons of gender issues to racial issues when it benefits them and refuse to compare them when it doesn’t.i’m sorry that happened to you, but the original comment’s talking about false allegations......... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:39 PM |
| 3 | This is the best analysis of the “pickme” that I’ve seen in the wildmost know they’re pick-mes and get off on the male validation they get. glad ur not one anymore though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:09 PM |
| 12 | This is the best analysis of the “pickme” that I’ve seen in the wildpick-mes know they’re pick-me’s. they just don’t care, and that’s why i don’t trust them. they’ll throw you under the bus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 12:06 PM |
| 46 | I said what I said.i had a friend with a strangling kink, and people thought it was normal apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:01 AM |
| 72 | Hard factssakura mf haruno. kishimoto will forever be a dickhead for wasting her character potential. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How are you teaching your daughters?omg, you seem like an amazing mama. i think it’s very important to teach children about consent early on. i really hope all turns out well for you guys 🖤🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:43 AM |
| 23 | We have every right to be scared of men and take our precautions. Period.exactly!! the only people who’ve protected me in public were other women. men are useless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:12 AM |
| 77 | Comic fanboys being depraved 🥲word. they want complex female characters, but they also want her to be the sexiest woman alive. like, i know damn well if harley quinn was unattractive and annoying, they’d have a problem with her character regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 103 | We have every right to be scared of men and take our precautions. Period.they start shitting their pants when they see bigger and taller men. are we really supposed to believe they would actually protect us from ‘dangerous men’ 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 5 | COOKIE LYON IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST PICK-ME CHARACTERS I'VE EVER SEEN. THERE, I SAID IT.exactly. i feel bad for her, but the way she keeps dropping hvm like angelo and malcolm for bad boys like luscious — makes me gag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | COOKIE LYON IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST PICK-ME CHARACTERS I'VE EVER SEEN. THERE, I SAID IT.Cookie Lyon did 17 years in prison for a man who relentlessly disrespected her, belittled her, and gave her zero credit for all the albums she helped him make. Idk why fellow black women look up to her. It’s really embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.gaslighting kids into thinking their dads ‘didn’t touch them’, and that all fathers are affectionate in different ways sleeping with men who they know are married, and go around bragging about it. (sza, the weekend) pestering their sisters into spending time with their scrotes. etc. etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | From the same post I shared earlier, in the comments... Pickmesha back at it again with the promoting painful and degrading sex acts for men's sake.word !!! "you’re not like the other ones” 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:19 AM |
| 15 | Found this on Facebook...i really hope shawty’s being sarcastic, cuz if not, she’s got a lot of psychological problems. guys i just checked, she’s being sarcastic. thank goodness 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:52 AM |
| 72 | Say this louder!mhm. men want to fuck a marilyn, but settle for a jackie. as if they deserve any of the two gorgeous women 😭💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:50 AM |
| 4 | I really hate LVM's in fictional entertainment, and them ending up getting the girl. See Ron Weasley for example.mhm. he even made her at the brink of tears, but she sucked it up. he got the girl without putting any kind of effort in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 8 | The entire comments section of this Tiktok🤡women his age take care of their appearance, and look gorgeous as hell! i’m so grateful for the older generation of women at fds - a 17 year old | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | The entire comments section of this Tiktok🤡look at his face, omg. it’s always the ugly ones. these are the type of men my nana used to make me stay away from. he looks homeless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:39 PM |
| 3 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexfrl. my dad’s hairline is nonexistent, whilst my grandpa still has a head full of hair. my grandpa’s been happily married for 60 years, whilst my dad’s been awful to my mom ever since they first got together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexbut if she enjoyed sex, men would also have a problem with that. we just can’t win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | I saw this on Popular lmao wtf?noticed how they refer to men as plus sized, but throw a fit when a woman calls herself that? they’ll literally call her a whale, lmaooo. plus sized men aren’t any better than 'fit’ or 'skinny’ men. it’s a myth, and i actually saw guys at my gym say: "women don’t want fit guys anymore. they want the guys with the dad-bods!1!1" hold on — WHOOOOO?! who tf actually wants a fat gamer (leave all the pick me shit beside) and answer the question! lmaoo, def not me. y’all stay safe, though (not my queen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 25 | Sis... you defending him or your ego? Just stop. Sick of reading these posts lolugh, i hate male liberals. they’re some of the most pro-sex work, misogynistic, entitled pieces of shits i’ve ever met. they get off on the fact that liberal women trust them. nOt LiKe oThEr GuYs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellword. i’m surprised none of the guys came in to hype her up in the comments. you know what’s worse than a pick me? a pick me who doesn’t get picked 💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 25 | Imagine being this mad about having to put in effort to start a relationship. And of course under a woman's comment saying "this can go both ways" they ask, "are you fat?"nobody’s forcing him to do anything. men make it harder for themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 22 | Stop mourning awful men dying.word. we’re tired of the black men and black women that die in the hands of police brutality, but that doesn’t excuse floyd’s actions. derek chauvin had no right to play God at the moment, and decided floyd’s fate. he had a daughter :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 75 | Stop mourning awful men dying."rip kobe” the world said, ignoring the fact that he raped a girl. may his daughter rest easy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 24 | Stop mourning awful men dying.mhm. him and king von. king von had a breeding kink (got two girls pregnant, and never wifed one of them), killed people, and cheated on his girlfriend (asian da brat) multiple times. but guess what he got when he died? saint status. men are impossible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Scrotes chastising women as fake geeks for cosplaying characters they have not even heard aboutw-w-woman not know what joker is! s-she’s a poser! 😡🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 15 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼"not all men” well not all women either, bud 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 31 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼pregnancies and abortions take a toll on women emotionally. men are so insensitive, it’s not even funny. "well i wanted a kid” istg, i wish men gave birth instead of women. they’d see how it can mess some women up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 3 | To all the scrotes who claim "WoMeN BoDy ShAmE MoRe ThAn MeN" - This famous tweet- written by a man about a young girl's body. So check yourself, sit down and shut up! Your lack of self-reflection is astounding. Women are PEOPLE, not objects.frl. they did the same with zendaya too. they were patiently waiting for her to stop doing disney roles........... she’s still so young, and hollywood’s always sexualized her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Scrote can't stand a woman isn't attached to him. Well, TRUTH BOMB: he isn't attracted to her either! Bonus truth bomb: she has her pick of partners. He... doesn't.my sister’s college professor told their class that women’s standards weren’t high at all, and that all they wanted was a guy who showered, took care of his physique, had a job and treated her and the people around him with respect. if my sister’s 50 year old male professor can understand it, why can’t they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:51 PM |
| 3 | I’m never having kids, men just can’t be trusted to stick around, pull their weight or treat you properly after you start family. Then they blame woman for picking badly.frl. men are congratulated and nicknamed 'good’ fathers for simply spending time with their kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:42 PM |
| 3 | I’m never having kids, men just can’t be trusted to stick around, pull their weight or treat you properly after you start family. Then they blame woman for picking badly.oof, the midwest is full of pickme’s (from my experience) and misogynistic males | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | I’m never having kids, men just can’t be trusted to stick around, pull their weight or treat you properly after you start family. Then they blame woman for picking badly.same, and i’m only 17. men like these have ruined my perception of marriage and children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 3 | I’m never having kids, men just can’t be trusted to stick around, pull their weight or treat you properly after you start family. Then they blame woman for picking badly.black men be like: "how can i ruin black women’s day, and blame them for everything bad that’s happened in the world?” but frl. black men allow people to make fun of us in their comment sections. they literally allow other races of men to disrespect black women, too. but if a a black woman leveled up and settled for hard working men that respects and loves her, black men shit on her as well. black women can’t win, sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Who are your HVW role models?susan b anthony... the racist susan anthony? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersi remember an ex sw from japan came out and said the industry was harmful, and there was nothing but insults from lib-fems and porn addicted sickos. these women aren’t our friends. at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:54 AM |
| 5 | This lady spitting TRUTHS. Remember to focus on YOU first and not settling up for less.pick-mes want us to lower our standards and settle for lv men. i can’t imagine lowering my standards, just to look 'good’ in a man’s eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.they really don’t. it’s a cultural thing for us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:31 AM |
| 7 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.she doesn’t have supervision, and insists she can do it all. she’s seriously been brainwashed. my uncle’s in his fifties :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 11 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.my mom thinks it’s okay because she herself used to cook and clean at that age :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:04 PM |
| 58 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.ikr, and my mom encourages it, sadly. my cousin lives in another city, and all i wanna do is give her a hug. she should be enjoying her childhood, but her lazy excuse of a father is making her play wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:54 AM |
| 128 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.my uncle makes his 9 year old daughter cook and clean for him because he was never taught how to... she’s 9 years old, ffs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Bhadbhabie apparently just started an onlyfans and she made over $1M in just 6 hours... what’s worse is that she just turned 18 last week? And she thinks it’s a flex bc it broke the onlyfans record... Lord this is just so disgusting in so many levelscreepy men have been in her and malu’s comment sections for years. asking them if they were ever going to start of etc. the men in her comment section should be arrested, point blank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 09:52 PM |
| 36 | "IM HIS FIRST LOVE. HE'LL ALWAYS COME BACK TO ME."i’m taking about women who brag about how much their ex ‘loves’ them on social media. my cousin used to be like that, and i really want these women to do better than that. men are not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Conservative Pick Me Magazine Evie thinks we’re all Femcels Y’all. I wonder which man dictated this idea for them to write down? Lmaooo, imagine being this desperate for male approval in 2021.oh so telling women to leave abusive and unhealthy relationships, is being bitter cat-ladies?? pick me’s and misogynists when women don’t want to settle for trash: b-b-but you have to !1!1!1!1 how dare you have standards 😡🔪☹️😟😕😑😑😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 06:55 AM |
| 13 | Mood for my fellow queens 💖i remember seeing those photos with my sisters as a child (they are huge rihanna fans) and cried. it made me scared of dudes like chris brown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 04:29 AM |
| 120 | Bite it off! 🤣frl. men haven’t changed at all. they will literally harass covered hijabis nowadays. they’ll do everything, but shower and work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 04:20 AM |
| 59 | if you have to call yourself “nice”, you probably aren’t!frl. i love how men like these warn us about self-proclaimed nice gusy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPyeah i’m already thinking about that because of my older sisters, lol! thanks for the advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 41 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPyeah, i appreciate fds. there’s not a lot of places on the internet that has servers like these (most of them have been colonized by misogynists) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:35 PM |
| 124 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPword. my cousin’s husband did that to her. he made her feel bad about her body, face, hair etc. it made her stop looking after herself, and that’s when the cheating began. he thought he was a hvm because he had a job, whilst she did all the cooking, cleaning, and looked after the kids i’m 17, and my cousin’s story makes me not wanna get married anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:51 AM |
| 55 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPword. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:42 AM |
| 3 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womeni’ve seen pick-mes on twitter & tiktok talk about how ‘desirable’ dad-bods are. it’s embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:22 AM |
| 3 | this is such perfect advice. a man who loves you will never play games with you or your feelings, because he wouldn’t want to risk losing you. if you’re starting to question your relationship, it’s time to go.period. no guy deserves to be trusted right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:05 AM |
| 3 | If he asks you to change... Sis, be careful of religious men trying to use you as a placeholder girlfriend before they find their final destinationsorry for responding late! i’m coping through newly made friendships i’ve made with another women in my situation! i’m proud of your friends, and i envy their courage <33 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 09:24 PM |
| 6 | anyone else think sza’s lowkey a pick-me chick?i noticed that, too. i feel like her label (if she has one) made her do that. when female artists aren’t blowing up the way they want them to, they either make them get surgery — or change their image into a sexy one, and i’m tired of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 11:48 AM |
| 6 | If he asks you to change... Sis, be careful of religious men trying to use you as a placeholder girlfriend before they find their final destinationthank uu!! i’m doing better, and i really hope i can get back to my faith, but at the same time is difficult finding a scholar who isn’t a sexist piece of shit lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 11:46 AM |
| 21 | Anyone else look young for their age / have a baby face? How has this affected how men view you?i’m 4’8, and they keep talking about how ‘adorable’ and 'petite’ i am. i’m 17, and i’ve been hit on by multiple adult men when i clearly look like a minor 😐😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:36 AM |
| 30 | If he asks you to change... Sis, be careful of religious men trying to use you as a placeholder girlfriend before they find their final destinationsis, this is coming from a muslim woman who’s had trouble with her faith: RELIGIOUS men are garbage. they’ll push their own sexist beliefs on you, and won’t show you off to their other religious friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:04 AM |
| 12 | For those of you looking for signs of him being "Just Not That Into You": this is it!these men are lying, and they’re really not that busy with their jobs. my dad was a workaholic, but he still put effort in spending time with my siblings and i. they’re making excuses up at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | JHENÉ AIKO AND HER PICK-ME TENDENCIESkehlani too, tbh. all these women under the spotlight need to heal from their pick-me phases | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 3 | JHENÉ AIKO AND HER PICK-ME TENDENCIESthere’s something about jhené that gives me "i’m different from all the other girls you’ve fucked” and it’s upsetting. she’s like any other r & b-hippie-spiritually-woke singer nowadays. she’s more likable when she’s high, tbh. sober-jhené talks too damn much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | JHENÉ AIKO AND HER PICK-ME TENDENCIESpussy fairy made me uncomfortable, and rumors are saying it’s about big sean. the man who cheated on her.... yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | JHENÉ AIKO AND HER PICK-ME TENDENCIESshe most definitely is, and i really hope she heals for her daughter’s sake. her daughter’s old enough to understand her music, and i really hope she doesn’t get influenced by her pick-me-isha mama and her aunts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 5 | JHENÉ AIKO AND HER PICK-ME TENDENCIESit was like watching two pick-me’s fight for male attention 💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:28 PM |
| 6 | JHENÉ AIKO AND HER PICK-ME TENDENCIEStalm "he’s my soul” and ended up getting cheated on. it doesn’t matter how dedicated, pretty, talented or spiritually 'woke’ you are, jhené, big sean is big sean, and he’ll cheat on you the moment you leave his ass alone. she’s a bob-the-builder type woman, and that’s sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:26 PM |
| 9 | JHENÉ AIKO AND HER PICK-ME TENDENCIESshe pretty much is a pick-me girl, and would most definitely stab a woman over a man. she’s a self proclaimed ride-and-die chick, and they’re all really willing to risk it all to build a man up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 19 | anyone else think sza’s lowkey a pick-me chick?i love her, but she does try the whole cool-deep-girl thing that’s trending in r & b now, and that’s what makes me dislike her sometimes. i really love her, but i can’t stand a pick-me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 10 | anyone else think sza’s lowkey a pick-me chick?thank you! i grew up with older sisters, so i never really had a pick-me phase because they were huge feminists. i love analyzing stuff, and i’m looking forward for sza’s growth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 9 | anyone else think sza’s lowkey a pick-me chick?well, that makes sense. i hope she heals, and her new music makes her look better-ish, but i still get that vibe from her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 55 | anyone else think sza’s lowkey a pick-me chick?"my love can fix you” "no other woman will love you the way i do” in every genre, and i’m tired of it. i’m 16, and i’ve been exposed to lyrics like this for years, and it’s tiring — especially if the artist isn’t doing anything to heal from past traumas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 42 | anyone else think sza’s lowkey a pick-me chick?bestie really goes out of her way to glorify the side-chick culture in her songs 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:11 PM |
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