| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Facebook openers.You. I like you. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 01:07 PM |
| 1 | First date. I thought it went well, apparently not?why are you looking for a girlfriend? Thats like wanting to be a cop, if you want to be a cop you probably shouldn't be one, because you "want" it for the wrong reasons. You just moved try and just party and meet people before getting tied down. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Bad Case of Oneitis, can't shake it after 2 yearsPlease wear a head sweat band. I double dare you OP | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 11:10 AM |
| 1 | First date. I thought it went well, apparently not?"We talk online for like...3 hours a day now... I guess you could say it's serious" Just had to get that out of the way. Talking to her online will not generate attraction, she talks to you online for social validation (i.e you seeking out to talk to her makes her feel good). Please read the side bar for more information, but the best thing you can do is say "Nah, I've got loads of friends, you seem cool and I wanted to take you out to get to know you better. But at the moment I don't have time … | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 11:08 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, basically. Not gonna lie, it hurts to get rejected. How do you deal with it?I got over out right rejection with a little game I called "Lets purposely get rudely rejected" (Naming things not my forte). Here's how you play: 1. Walk up to a girl (extra points if they are really hot/in a big group0 2. Open with; "Hey guys, I was wondering if you could do me a favor...Tell me to fuck off 3. Win the game (actually really hard to do people don't like being rude as a rule and this open often leads to some interesting chat) | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 10:14 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong? Help me seddit gods.Keep moral judgement and useless comments to yourself. If you wouldn't do it, that's your call. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 10:08 AM |
| 1 | What are some good ways to start a text conversation?I'm in a relationship to. I miss this shit. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 08:51 AM |
| 1 | What are some good ways to start a text conversation?Text game should only be used to organize dates. Think about why you are testing her; if the answer is "Just to talk to her", son you fucking up. She has loads of guys doing it and she hates it. But I use to initiate with; "Are you at X?" "No" "Don't lie! i just saw some chick wearing the goofiest jumper and a fitted cap and i swear it was you. You have no shame" "HAHAHA omg..."blah blah blah | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 06:57 AM |
| 1 | My problem with SedditI lurk more then post. But these beginners posts are getting me down. Read the side bar, crack some actual books if you need more info (Double your dating-perfect for you). No one cares about your excuse, come with problems in the feild, not asking directions how to get there. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 01:09 PM |
| 4 | My problem with SedditMy first approach i mumbled, nearly kicked a baby and seathed about it for days thinking about how much I "Fucked it up". The girl was chubby and not cute enough to make up for it. First approaches are something you just have to get out of the way, it will suck but you only get better. Also i downvoted you for being self defeating. Cut that shit right out. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 01:05 PM |
| -8 | I'm a girl and I'm on to you!Oh you like seduction to? That's so weird... We probably can't hang out anymore... | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 09:51 AM |
| 0 | Peacocking: am I doin' it right?You look like such a poser. But i love it :D | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 06:15 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Next question...In the paraphrased words of Tyler Durden: "If you say something I tell you to do wont work. Fuck you. How dare you say it wont work without trying it first" | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 10:39 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with "I would but I have other plans"?"Ditch your plans, I'm more fun" | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 10:13 PM |
| 11 | how i make exchanging numbers fun for girlsTry it before shooting it down | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Not sure where to start...Girls/Guys I need some help here...I'm curious. out on 6 dates only to discover she "valued our friendship" too much all of a sudden How did she not get the message after six dates? Did you not kiss her? | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Turning a K-Close into an F-Close"I have an early start tomorrow, but i guess i could come in for a bit" - Rather then overtly asking. I have tested this the other way (trying to get a girl into my house), would be worth a test. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:31 AM |
| -1 | Simple Pickup Gets BashedReally? How? Or am I inept at detecting sarcasm? | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 06:40 AM |
| 2 | How can I hit up a girl that I haven't talked to in a while?It's not exactly the same. But one of my favorites is; "I just saw a parking inspector walk into a pole." "If you laughed at that you're a bad person" | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Wtf, people keep trying to Alpha me..The old "are you single? I Just got out of prison, so whats your name?" Classic :P | /r/seduction | 10/02/12 06:33 AM |
| 6 | Rejection issues - Inability to be desensitizedWhat do I do? Re-Frame :D You are taking it personally because you are thinking about it personally. I have (had?) a similar problem and I overcame it by using re-framing. Rather than: "She doesn't like me" what really happened, and what you should say to yourself is: "She didn't like what I said/did". This process is liberating because each rejection is a platform for learning and problem solving. You can then think "Maybe i should try this/ say that / Not go all in on apocalypse openers every … | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 11:26 AM |
| 5 | What could a disabled person do to use their disability to seduce you?go on... | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what to make of this, your thoughts would be appreciated.I'm curious as to why you felt the need to say it in the first place? do you not feel you are handing over your power to her? i feel like she could reject you heartlessly (or in any other way be a total uncool dude) and it would be cool because "you still like her enough to be friends"? | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 10:29 AM |
| 6 | To everyone going out tonight alone (for the first time)...Nice self for filling prophecy you have there. | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 09:27 AM |
| 3 | FR Crazy conversation with girl--double friend zone reverseIf it was me i would have said; "I can't fight this anymore, I'm madly, deeply, in love with you, will you marry me" and laugh it off. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 10:18 PM |
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