TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

no-304s Archive

View 3 posts and 612 comments by no-304s on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

This is to note that you have not addressed any of the points and arguments made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:05 AM
0

Slut shaming is men stating their preferences out loud and women using this knowledge to their benefit. Another form of competitor derogation that is instrumental in making rivals appear less desirable is slut-shaming. In slut-shaming, females criticize and derogate same-sex rivals for engaging in sexual behaviors that are deemed "unacceptable" by society's standards, as it violates social expectations and norms with regards to their gender role. For example, an act of sexual promiscuity demonst…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:04 AM
2

Low value men grovel and simp for any tiny speck of female validation. It's pathetic and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:58 PM
4

Yet here you are.. you have not responded to any point or argument I will note.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:50 PM
1

Don't worry about avoiding men. Men fear being in a relationship with a slut and they will not take the relationship seriously or find someone else if they have the capacity to attract other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:41 PM
3

You cannot deal with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:39 PM
4

Slut shaming is a good thing. It helps women have better relationships with men. Put your feelings aside and think rationally for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:36 PM
8

Being a slut has been frowned upon in Western society since time immemorial. Plus, women slut shame at least as much as men do. Women call others sluts to make other women look low status. New research into the science of slut-shaming has found that promiscuous women can’t get a break—even from other promiscuous women. For a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, researchers from Cornell University asked college women to read a vignette describing a hypothetical fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:23 PM
2

Here is an idea. You don't have to ask a girl for her body count. You get to know her and ghost her when you suspect that she used be a slut. You could also date her but know that you are never going to take the relationship anywhere serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:11 PM
1

Not threatened. They will definitely fuck a slut. It's fun to fuck sluts. Embarrassing to date or wife a slut though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:07 PM
1

He is probably not attractive or charismatic enough to get other women so he is content to be stuck with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:39 PM
-5

Women don't want any guy. They want the top guys. The top guys don't want to date whores or women over 25. If those women are content with average or below average men then good for them. There will be no problem. You know women are not this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:36 PM
2

Men care. The low value ones who can't get anyone else will stay with you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:34 PM
0

You're so virtuous. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:30 PM
-1

Men might roast each other in a friendly way but the fights that women get into are more cruel and petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:03 AM
3

Christian straight cis white males alive today do not benefit from the past and never experienced any privilege in their lives. Leftists want a punching bag and scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:03 AM
1

It is a preference. Women can't stand being accountable for their actions like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:31 AM
8

Creepy is a meaningless word and a shit test used to separate overthinking beta males from the masculine and assertive men that women end up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:29 AM
1

It's not creepy if she isn't. Men want to fuck and date women. It's normal. The only women who complain about it being creepy are the kind of maladjusted mentally ill nutcases who populate TwoX and woke Twitter. Consider it a blessing that you won't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:28 AM
1

No they don't. Did you think this was a smart comment? Men are aware of their league. Women have no idea and confuse men wanting sex with them with being relationship worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:26 AM
1

Even trashy and gross women think they are entitled to attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:46 PM
2

Your victim identity, where despite being a grown woman, men baited you into what wasn't right for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:02 AM
2

What are you on about. Everytime a thread gets posted surrounding this it is the younger women that are much more vocal in their disgust. The whole "you're jealous!" is a ridiculous strawman that the creepy men really REALLY want to believe. You expect others to buy this? It's clear that women who can't compete with hotter women resort to shaming and lashing out to deal with their loneliness and low RMV. Relationships with very young people often don't pan out since the brain is yet to full deve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:38 AM
1

Old, bitter women don't like men dating college girls because there's less guys in the pool for them now. There's nothing abnormal with wanting 18 year old girls. It's a biological preference, in every society, since time immemorial. There are still men who will hit on women in their 30s. These are usually losers and bottom of the barrel guys. The top guys are chasing college girls and girls just out of college. It's the same for not wanting a slut. Some women get really bitter because they made…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:20 AM
1

It happens all the time. If you're a woman and can't hack dating on easy mode, which is why you are here, you are probably not much of a catch. The wall is right around the corner which makes matters worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:14 AM
1

It's only creepy to women that have hit the wall. Maybe you should have played your cards right when you had the power. Oh well..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:10 AM
6

Why are you getting butthurt? Men can have preferences. We don't want to be in relationships with sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:52 AM
4

Men that have a lot of sex = high value, attractive, rich, or charismatic Women that have a lot of sex = cum dumpster with a pulse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:51 AM
3

It's not insecurity. It's self-respect and not wanting to date a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:49 AM
6

Nothing you have written makes any sense. Is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:48 AM
3

You haven't answered the question. There's nothing insecure about it. Stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:48 AM
10

Women care about status and how men will affect their status among other women. Women will date physically unattractive men sometimes if they believe that man is high status. That is what the OP says.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:11 AM
1

My dick knows the difference. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:59 AM
2

No woman wants to be a single mother. Good luck raising a sociopathic serial killer. Becoming a lesbian is funnier. Women don't feel satisfied with casual sex. Their emotional needs are not met by casual sex what a preposterous thing to say. The solution for men is to realize that women from other countries aren't infected with the man-hating feminism disease that harms women's own chances of love and long-term fulfillment. The other thing is that more women turn 18 every day and younger women l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:14 AM
1

No. I will continue to date college-aged women and enjoy doing it. Furthermore, college-aged women see your insecurity or more accurately don't care because they're getting to date a high-value guy that shows them a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:10 AM
-3

The claim that women want to have a family and get married is misogyny. Look at how insane you sound. Get over yourself. You talk about deluding yourself but I wasn't born yesterday. No woman is happy to grow old alone and it's clearly sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:08 AM
7

It's not about bottling it up. It's about not letting an emotion consume you or having to make a big deal out of something that's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:05 AM
1

You're older than me. You say so in your comment history. How pathetic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:04 AM
1

Gender studies is for people too stupid to study a real academic discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:29 AM
1

Read your own comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:20 AM
1

You literally operate on feelz
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:04 AM
20

What do you mean by screaming and punching a wall? Are you getting this from movies? Men like to solve their problems. They don't want to cry to someone about it and get validation from it like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:03 AM
3

No. She doesn't want him to be an emotional pussy. Watch what women do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:02 AM
1

You are in your 40s pretending to be a college girl in this thread lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:48 AM
1

You don't know what you're talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:26 AM
-2

Depending on your taste, you will not only find women that are more attractive than the West but also women with the right morals who haven't been brain poisoned by feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:17 AM
1

It will come a lot sooner than you think. Women don't enjoy riding the cock carousel but are told to by feminism. When they see the lie of feminism having kept a bunch of women in their 30s and 40s now alone, who will never have a family and be miserable for the rest of their lives compared to the women who do have those things, younger girls will start taking guys more seriously and have realistic standards because they don't want to end up like the bitter women they see. You can go abroad. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:05 AM
-2

Women: 25-28. Men: 35-40
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:28 AM
1

Haahhahaahahah that you spent the time writing this out hahahahahaahha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:26 AM
1

I don't have an issue with anything you have said. Let me rephrase my earlier comment. Having a high body count does not mean they are a bad person. It does mean that they are not a good partner for a long term relationship and lose value as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:09 AM
3

we call it whatever we want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:04 AM
-1

Why am I insecure for having standards? Why do you have a problem with others having standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:51 AM
1

Let me sacrifice my own happiness so an unhappy woman on Reddit won't have to feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:50 AM
1

No they don't. Men generally admire you. Other hot girls are intrigued. The only people who find it problematic are women who hit the wall and I don't want to date them so it all works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:48 AM
1

Yes, I prefer blondes. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:47 AM
1

When did I claim to speak for every single person on the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:45 AM
1

I'm not really commenting to convince you of anything. I'm commenting because people read these later and they should understand common tactics used by Karens who have grown old to police others dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:46 PM
1

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:43 PM
0

Hahahaha. I am comfortable with my age and love dating girls from 18 to 22. It is a million times better and more fulfilling than dating an older woman with an axe to grind and mental complexes and insecurities. I have been there done that. What is wrong with recapturing youth anyway? If someone wants that, it is as reasonable as anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:39 PM
2

That sucks and I am sorry to read that. They sound like bitches so note what characteristics they had and avoid approaching similar women in the future. Still, temporary discomfort and embarassment feels bad but you have to be comfortable with the possibility of it happening if it moves you toward your goals. If you want to become a professional footballer, you have to become comfortable with the risk that you may never make it in the sport. But if you want it then you do accept it because what …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:36 PM
2

It doesn't matter if they don't want to talk to you. If they don't want to talk to you, they are not chained there and can leave. Go through the routine and don't worry about whether they are enjoying it. Get comfortable with the routine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:28 PM
6

Do you have anxiety bro? I'm not saying the guys I am speaking of are saints or rocket scientists. They sometimes knock up psycho bitches and have no goals in life. Sometimes they do stupid things for the thrill and get in trouble. They don't think that much in general and they don't worry about getting arrested for hitting on girls lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:25 PM
8

I still see ugly guys with decent girlfriends. The difference is that those guys don't spend so much time on the internet and don't think about these things strategically. They follow their dick and let things happen without much thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:20 PM
3

Say hi and then talk to them. After a few minutes ask them for their contact to keep the conversation going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:18 PM
1

Do not approach coworkers under any circumstances. Do not approach women with blue hair, too many piercings or weird lifestyles. These type of women are most likely to call a regular guy creepy because of their mental issues. Approach women at the super market, gym, wherever you see them. As long as it is not late at night and you are the only two people on the street unless you are very handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:15 PM
6

This is more fear mongering from someone who doesn't go outside. Obviously don't hit on coworkers and don't grab a girl's breasts if she doesn't want you to. What are you afraid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:06 PM
1

The relationship would be filled with lots of problems and it would be hard to ignore my discomfort about her past. It is better to not get serious and then break up later then to up front not date them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:02 PM
4

The reason that incels are upset is because you're lying to their face. You insist that women aren't shallow and that it's not about looks. You say that it's about their personality. That someone who can't get girls has a bad personality. You don't even know this person but you are sure they are a bad person or have a flawed personality. You don't want to believe that it's not their fault they were born a certain way. Then you lie to them about how simping for women and kissing women's ass will …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:59 PM
6

Be a man and approach. Why are you thinking that you have to do a PUA routine? Go say hi. How do you think your father or grandfather did it? You want to take the safest path which is online dating or wanting women to approach you. Online dating doesn't work because of the flood of supply. Women will never approach you except indirectly. Chances are that if they do approach you you will not have the confidence to do anything with it if you can't walk up to and talk to women. Stop caring about be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:52 PM
1

I don't agree. Reading something like your comment says a lot more about your insecurities than anything else. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:49 PM
19

Men don't talk about it out loud because there is no benefit and it might trigger women. But everyone knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:47 PM
5

He didn't mention it but I will. Women do lose value when they have a high body count. They might be a fine person and I might even have sex with them but there is no way I will get into a serious relationship with them because I'm not an idiot. Use whatever word you want to use about me to make yourself feel better. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:46 PM
1

It makes you feel bad so therefore it's wrong? You can disregard it but if you complain later about men not wanting to be with you after learning about your past then come back to this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:45 PM
20

Is this so confusing? The men who want to wait until marriage are not the same ones that expect sex on the first date. Women have the most sex with a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:43 PM
0

Who cares if it repulses you? Most older guys who are successful and attractive don't want to date an introverted Reddit girl. They want a pretty and fun girl to hang out with. Go ahead and date an attractive and intelligent man your age. It will be the same regardless of age. Attractive intelligent and successful men aren't stupid. They know they can get many women without any effort and will not commit to you in any way. Your friends made their own decisions and no one should feel bad for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:41 PM
1

I mean that men who are scared to be labeled "creepy" which is a completely meaningless term don't take social risks to fuck and date hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:38 PM
0

Well then they are the equivalent of women past their prime who try to discourage men from dating top women (the younger ones)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:37 PM
1

My experience differs. I'm also not chasing girls who use Reddit and have problems with dating. I like to go after fun, blonde and bubbly girls and they do want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:36 PM
2

Creepy doesn't matter. Guys who are afraid to be creepy never get laid and become incels stuck in their rooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:15 PM
1

You don't get it. Men who are attractive and have options will choose the better choice. The 18 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:08 PM
3

insecure, mentally ill, damaged, can't pair bond, can't experience true love, low self esteem, baggage and trauma, used up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:46 PM
3

It's a sign that she's not worth dating. The kind of girl that has a high body count probably has a lot of issues that men don't want to waste their time uncovering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:37 PM
3

Everyone likes sex. It's still possible to have morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:20 PM
3

Good for you. The problem for other women is that attractive men have options and women feel entitled to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:20 PM
0

You think that Leonardo DiCaprio and every famous celebrity doesn't date 30 year old women because 30 year old women won't put up with them? hahahahahahahhahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:17 PM
0

Women find it attractive. That's what changes. Women are attracted to older men. It happens even if you don't self-improve but if you do self improve the effect is magnified. The defeatism is incel sounding. Go read TRP or go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:16 PM
2

Men who are not losers and don't have to stick with the one woman who reciprocates their interest because they will be alone otherwise will not choose them over a more pure and virtuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:12 PM
5

It's gross to us. We will fuck her but never date her or wife her if we have any option.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:11 PM
0

So the older men who look like Brad Pitt and Orlando Bloom did not bother approaching you because they approached more beautiful women. That's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:09 PM
-1

Look at what women do in person. It is so common that I wonder if the others here are on a different planet. If you look decent, you can get all of the 18-22 girls you want and it will be easier than when you were 18-22 yourself. Most of these women have not been approached by an attractive guy in their 30s. It is partially because they are not that hot or socially skilled, otherwise why would a woman be here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:07 PM
0

No, it's the natural preference of men generally. You feel that way because you're not 18 anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:05 PM
1

It is common. You can tell how threatened women over 25 are about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:04 PM
-1

Wrong. They're in a better position or else they would be stuck with women their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:02 PM
6

Women who can't get a cool guy to spend time with them without being used as a cum dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:01 PM
2

You're trying to make yourself feel better. Not listening to what anyone is replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:59 PM
9

No. Men don't have to justify why women with high body counts make us disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:58 PM
4

It's similar to learning that a man has seen dozens or hundreds of prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:57 PM
0

Marrying adults is not grooming. Grooming is is what lesbians do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:51 AM
0

You're a literal groomer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:48 AM
1

haha sure jan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:28 AM
0

Men can be scared to hit on attractive women. They believe their chances are better with more attainable, homely women and don't even bother with attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:27 AM
-3

They probably hit on you because you aren't that good looking and they think you are more attainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:18 AM
-1

By communicating with her, understanding her culture or customs, meeting her family and communicating with her and understanding the daily realities of life in her countries. Any other questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:13 AM
2

The best part about that sub is that the users of r/justneckbeardthings are more pathetic than the people they make fun of. I enjoy laughing at the spectacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:56 AM
2

What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:53 AM
-1

He's not preying on anyone. He's finding girls to date from other countries. In your words, he's not tolerating "western women" and their bullshit. If you're wondering why people don't like feminism it's becuase you think you're morally superior and lecture others even though you're "poly" which is some degenerate and mentally ill shit. But you still lecture others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:44 AM
3

lol if you dont believe it look at the anger and derangement on this from recently: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/x5er01/people\_are\_congratulating\_a\_guy\_for\_getting\_a/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:40 AM
2

I don't need one but I would get one if I did. Men need to stop wasting time on women that are not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:37 AM
2

It's not about can't compete. It's more about why should you compete for a shitty prize? What if you don't want a blown out woman with a high body count, persecution complex thanks to feminism and saggy tits? Why self improve for that when you can get a better wife or gf in another country?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:33 AM
2

Making the best of a situation and getting a hot international wife to have a family with sounds like a winner to me. Then they can leave PPD and Reddit and let the involuntarily single women complain amongst themselves about men, patriarchy, incels, and whatever other obsessions you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:24 AM
2

ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:18 AM
1

1) men have provided for women for all of time 2) terrible at picking mates by whose standard? if they get agreeable and fuckable they have succeeded
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:12 AM
2

I was lied to about how to treat women, how to behave and how to interact with women. I don't care about your lecture because I learned from the experience and now get women with ease. I want other men to not make the same mistakes I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:10 AM
2

Not most women in the west. It is common in women who are involuntarily single. They cant date within their league so they start hating and blaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:09 AM
1

The couples are picked to produce drama. The drama and fights are the entertainment. Why would you think a reality show accurately represents something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:05 AM
-1

men would be happy to pay for women's stuff if those women weren't bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:02 AM
1

they don't want to pay for dates with annoying and entitled western women. don't generalize that to all women please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:57 AM
7

"The won't contribute financially, have nothing in common, no personality is woman's hamstering and demoralizing men" won't contribute financially = doesn't matter because most men work hard for family so they live comfortably nothing in common = that gives you an open world to learn everything about them. Should people never date someone from different race, background, religion or language? its boring to date someone that you have everything in common with no personality = her personality will…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:56 AM
1

Tiger moms prevent their daughters from getting fat and not getting married before hitting the wall. Asian girls that I have met even in the West are submissive, sweet and loving. Raising your kids with a tiger mom who had a tiger mom herself would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:53 AM
2

I don't need to do it. I have a girlfriend that I'm proposing to soon. I got her from getting in really good shape, dumping my mentally ill exes in their 30s and following red pill advice. She's in college right now but I'm planning the exact way to propose and our trip in the meanwhile. If I had no chance with her or with other hot girls in their early 20s, i owuld have already found a girl abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:52 AM
3

That's why you vet their character before getting married to them. It's a little bit different than being set up on a reality show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:49 AM
1

Yeah, you still need common sense like everything in life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:48 AM
2

It's cute that you believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:45 AM
3

Who cares what it means? A man who takes productive action to get a hot international wife and has a happy family has more important thigns to worry about than what irrelevant people think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:44 AM
2

Thanks. But for each one of you, there is a woman trying to decrease the chances of men solving their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:44 AM
2

Don't worry, your husband will never cheat on you with a younger, hotter woman who has a pleasant personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:39 AM
0

Not Africa. lol. I'm Eastern European by descent and you don't know what you are talking about. They are not lionesses but behave like women. They like rougher types but they also like the status of the Western world and dream of living there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:37 AM
1

MEN: imagine trying to date the kind of damaged women that congregate in PPD. These women are out there lurking in the world and they are your "best case scenario" unless you 1) date younger women or 2) go abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:34 AM
3

Oh no, some bitter single4ever woman on Reddit thinks they're low quality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:33 AM
2

You simply said low quality. Two words. This isn't the gotcha that you think. My point stands that you don't know anything about these men. In two years, they could be happy family men with a hot wife and lovely kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:31 AM
4

Betabuxxing for women that deserve it is fine. I will beta bux if I marry my girlfriend who is 20 years old, a triple major, a high level woman's track and field athlete. It would be a lot harder for me to beta bux for a girl that was not so pure, beautiful and worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:28 AM
2

Women don't want certain men in the West because these women can't date people that are their match. These women have access to top men, even if as a human fleshlight, during their prime years and now think they deserve top men only and will not settle for anything else. They want what they can't get and don't want what they can get. Stop acting like "don't wonder why no woman want you" lol nobody believes that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:26 AM
4

Men look for solutions. If men can find a wife or girlfriend from a poor country because the women in their own country are trash, then that's a good thing. That's something a winner does. We are all one one half of a whole and meant to be in love and with a spouse. Some bitter women have too big of an ego to settle for a guy who is the same value as them and as a result will stay alone forever. All the while calling themselves "high value" lol. That's something a loser does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:21 AM
2

Don't worry. Men are moving on to healthy and fertile women. You will not have to deal with a deadbeat baby daddy or a baby daddy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:13 AM
2

I'm speaking to other men. I'm mad about how I was lied to and misled for years. Getting past those lies is why I am successful. Other men don't need to waste years of their life believing the lies I fell for. Men need to stop dignifying blown out women who are man-hating feminists and start doing what works. TRP shows you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:10 AM
2

It's not about naive. They simply don't hate men like women indoctrinated by feminism do. They are women worth marrying. Who is to call it a failure? It can be the best thing to ever happen to a man to go abroad, find a submissive and feminine wife and dodge the bullet of dating a blown out woman in her 30s with all sort of complexes and baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:09 AM
8

They're not low quality men because they can't attract delusional used up women. Women aren't the best judges of character as we can see from all of the women who date guys that kick there ass and abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:07 AM
2

I don't need to because I've improved myself enough to date girls in their early 20s. If I was stuck with women over 30, I would look into it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:07 AM
1

The women they attract are miles ahead of the women that are available here so it's a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:03 AM
7

Men are not deficient in some way because they can't get damaged, solipsistic women in the West. Marrying for a family and a better life worked well for marriage for centuries. Not everyone wants to grow old alone and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:02 AM
1

Women abroad don't have unrealistic standards and never spend life alone because they think they're better than every man that wants to date them. Women abroad also are not feminists, are submissive, beautiful and the kind of women to start a family with. Of course, women like yourself don't like it. Men can easily replace you in this way and not have to put up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:00 AM
1

I won't dispute that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:52 PM
1

Male feminists more often than not end up being creepy and predatory, like Harvey Weinstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:53 PM
1

you have to be doing something very wrong to end up on PPD as a 23F so your opinion is not representative
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:48 PM
4

If I got to enjoy her in her peak years and come to like her, then no I would not leave at 30. I don't want someone who I have no access to her peak years and who comes to me on decline expecting something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:31 AM
7

Maybe, maybe not. But really, I don't really care about 30 year old women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:48 AM
58

Find a quality partner when your power is at its peak. This is the time that you can have high standards and not have it hurt you. Don't disregard school and work but prioritize your relationships with your friends and family. This is where happiness lies. Pick something that you like and get really good at it. It doesn't matter what or how profitable it is. It matters whether you like it and whether you can consistently work at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:50 PM
-4

It's a rite of passage for younger women to date men in their 30s. Once again, what women say and what women do are completely different. So many times women will sleep with you on the first date after saying that they never do that. So many times women will date the toxic guy instead of the good, upstanding man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:50 PM
-1

I always hear this from women insecure about their age. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:31 PM
1

I feel this way about women in their 30s which is why I date younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:19 PM
3

No man (except for the small population of desperate cuckolds) wants to date a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:01 PM
1

Reread your response and see if it makes sense. I probably triggered you and you can't think coherently now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:59 PM
6

I sleep fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:26 PM
4

Men are not jealous of women's ability to sleep with men because men do not want to sleep with men. Promiscuity is a sign of bad morals in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:20 AM
7

Men that she wants to date see her as good for pumping and dumping and nothing else because that's how every other man has used her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:17 AM
0

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:11 PM
-1

Not even worth replying to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:53 PM
2

The market. A lot of these girls complain about how toxic guys are when they voluntarily get pumped and dumped by guys out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:52 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with being an anti-feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:56 PM
5

No, you're not financially exploiting your husband nor will your husband cheat. I'm saying that women like guys who make more money than them and/or are better than them in one way or another. It is a gender norm and gender norms exist for a reason. They are not the be-all end-all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:32 PM
3

Because a lot of women call guys in their league "creeps"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:31 PM
5

They want the attention. It's a flex on other women to say "omggg all these guys were staring at me when I was going for a run ugh :("
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:28 PM
1

OK but the question is what role it plays from the perspective of attraction and relationship quality https://www.kiplinger.com/personal-finance/603298/women-who-make-more-than-their-husbands-should-watch-out ​ When women out-earn their husbands, marriages struggle. Marriages of female breadwinners are 50% more likely to end in divorce, according to a University of Chicago study. Studies also show that when a wife out-earns her husband, he is more likely to cheat. In fact, about 15% of the men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:26 PM
-1

It's probably woman shaming you more than men. I have no problem with women wearing a sports bra and itty bitty shorts and I doubt most men do. The exception is if I'm dating a girl and she dresses like too much of a thot for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:23 PM
9

Women used to have to marry for money. With limited ways to make their own living and, at times, no legal ability to hold and inherit property, partnering up with a wealthy man could be the only way to find financial security. (Just listen to Amy’s speech in the new “Little Women” film adaptation.)That was supposed to change as women entered the workforce in ever-greater numbers and became more educated than their male peers, in theory meaning women wouldn’t need to seek out higher-paid mates.Ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:16 PM
8

You must be an exception then. Most women want a guy that makes more than them. https://nypost.com/2019/09/06/broke-men-are-hurting-american-womens-marriage-prospects/ ​ These synthetic husbands have an average income that is about 58% higher than the actual unmarried men that are currently available to unmarried women. They also are 30% more likely to be employed (90% vs. 70%) and 19% more likely to have a college degree (30% vs. 25%). Racial and ethnic minorities, especially Black women, face …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:09 PM
2

In what ways are you happier?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:07 PM
5

Wow, funny sarcasm heehe The nonconformity isn't "breaking" fashion trends. It's not caring about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:01 PM
13

I don't know many of those couples. I work with many high earning women who complain about all the good men being taken and who are single and unhappy about it in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:56 PM
12

Men are not as much of a hivemind as women. Men are more individualistic and more likely to buck the trend. Women care a lot more about social validation and conformity https://opentextbc.ca/socialpsychology/chapter/person-gender-and-cultural-differences-in-conformity/ Related -- women will lust over a guy that other women want and throw themselves at guys in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:54 PM
2

The person who finds a guy they like will not miss out on love and romance. Aiming for the perfect partner is impossible and a lot of high earning women would be happier if they settled for "good enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:52 PM
14

She wants a guy that makes more than her and has higher status. The problem is that if she is in the top percentiles of income, there are few men who are not married or who cannot do better than her (dating younger, more fertile women) so these women stay unmarried because they can't deal with "settling" and grow bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:51 PM
23

Women are a hive mind and follow what is popular on Tik Tok and IG. Ignore all that gender studies garbage about male gaze. Women dress that way because they want to attract the "desirable man" they fantasize about or get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:36 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:34 PM
17

Every woman is either "financially opportunistic" or in denial about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:30 PM
20

Women want to be approached. Women want a man to take charge. They don't want a guy who had to "learn" to take charge and be a man. If you use Red Pill which is basically what guys who get women deep down know and learned from their fathers, uncles, brothers, friends or culture, you can do a good enough job to where women will not be able to tell that you are not a natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:14 PM
2

What do you mean settle? Is it not settling to be alone and act like you want to be alone all along? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:46 PM
23

The first step is to stop taking advice from women. They lie to you and tell you what they think makes them sound virtuous. Instead, read the Red Pill to learn what actually works. The second step is to work on your fitness and looks as much as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:43 PM
-1

Once again, not true. I've become good friends with several of these girls over the course of years. They have genuinely helped me in times of need. They have introduced me to their attractive friends who I banged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:39 PM
2

Not really. Bubbly fit girls get along with everyone. The idea that you need to have the same or similar interests as a woman is comical. Not having the same world view and experiences in common means you get to learn about a different world from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:38 PM
1

Men are not so cognizant of their looks. I think that when it comes to women who are average or below average, bitter behavior is very common when they start to age past 27 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:41 PM
10

It's common to hear women say to go for average women because they have better personalities and are more receptive. The truth is that they don't and aren't. They have a chip on their shoulder and insecurities and often times have bad personalities. Attractive women are much nicer in my experience and don't have that much negativity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:35 PM
1

Women say that all the time. Their actions dont reflect it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:31 AM
1

In a woman, it is not a deal breaker. It might be endearing actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:03 AM
1

Yes. Men want to protect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:46 AM
0

I hope she sees this bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:07 PM
3

You have an agenda because you are child free. You think other women should reject their biological purpose on the planet too. Instead of responding to what I have raised you keep making these snide attacks that you think are subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:38 PM
3

Hot women don't care about money necessarily. They care about what money signals - status. Exclusive restaurants, exotic vacations, basically anything they can show off on Instagram is what they are interested in money for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:35 PM
2

In nearly every culture, men are the providers and the dominant ones in the relationship. This has been consistent in different societies in history. There may be cucks and manchildren in the modern West but they are still a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:30 PM
6

Did you get triggered or something? You are not adding to the discussion in any way so this is my last response.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:24 PM
3

I'm talking about women that I interact with based on my experience just like you are talking about your experience. Did I claim to read minds? I go off of women's actions and recommend that women go off of men's actions. Not the socially acceptable things that they say to obscure the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:23 PM
3

You can call them whatever you want, but they are still men and still count as men. Women do not approach. It's not women's job. A man acting like a woman and waiting to be approached is not going to get anything. A woman who approaches will be seen as desperate and low value. Women do want dominant men. Women do not want men that get into fights. Men that get into fights have issues. Dominance has nothing to do with drunkenly punching Kyle at the bar because he didn't like you MAGA hat. Dominan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:19 PM
2

You can have something in common with a person and be friends with them. But a woman deep down does not truly respect a man who is a coward or who cries or is emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:13 PM
3

I used to be but I started to figure it out about two years ago and since making deliberate changes my luck has changed completely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:12 PM
3

No shit. Everyone is different. But men aren't attracted to masculine traits in women. They are attracted to feminine traits in women. Traits that are distinctly feminine. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_psychology#Psychological_traits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:10 PM
5

I don't understand how her survey relates to the fact that men do not desire the same thing as women in relationships and dating. Men and women are wired differently and think differently and are on a deep level attracted to certain characteristics that indicate sexual dimorphism. What does it matter if men's social circles shrink? This is about innate differences between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:07 PM
3

Thanks for sharing. I never thought about it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:06 PM
1

You shared an irrelevant survey about men's friendship circles. I'm telling you that men are wired differently and have testosterone running through their veins. That drives a lot of male behavior. The conversation that we're having here is about how men and women are interested in different things romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:04 PM
4

Men have testosterone constantly running through their veins. If you have never felt this, you have no idea what it is like to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:28 PM
6

The men who want women to approach and take charge are beta males and they will be alone. Women don't like aggressive men who get into fights. Lol. Women want dominant men. Women get wet for dominant men. On the other hand, if you share your emotions with a woman, she will run far away lol Men don't care about a woman's career, her boss bitch status and assertive women. They get that from men. They crave a woman's femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:17 PM
0

But men and women have a lot in common with their gender and behave in ways that are more predictable than you think. It is how we are wired. Yes there is variation too of course but if you look at the ACTIONS and not the virtue signaling or the words then you see patterns in what women and men find attractive and what motivates them romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:51 PM
4

First of all, have you followed the recent debate on what a woman is? There is a blurring of lines and a lot of confusion about it. This is something that society is pushing. You are not reading for nuance. Women wonder why men are turned off by certain things. Those things are considered attractive when men do them. So the women ask whether it is hypocritical or double standards for men not to be attracted to it. Men complain about the double standard about approaching. They ask why men have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:49 PM
1

Yeah. Most guys in their 30s that I know are overweight and don't even try. Some of them because they have more important things in their life like a family so who cares but also some guys who don't understand how much looks matter to women. This makes it much easier however for the guys that do put in some effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:43 PM
3

Men and women are not the same. A man who has a lot of options and interest on the dating market will rarely marry a 50 year old. Men value fertility and purity. Women are a lot more interested in mature men who are "stronger" in the world and have a high status. We cannot talk about men and women as if they are one and the same. Look at their behaviors and you will see that they are completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:38 PM
3

That's not flattering. If you tell a guy that they are your second guess either consciously or unconsciously don't be surprised if he has sex with you and then leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:22 PM
2

As a guy who was too shy and did not understand women at all, a guy who is older will definitely be more attractive to a prime age female. Not the average guy who gets fat and doesn't try but a guy who consistently works out and keeps pushing himself to succeed will have his pick of younger women. The girls that I have dated in the past two years I could never have had a chance with when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:21 PM
0

My goal is and always has been marriage. 95% of modern women I do not want to marry or for them to have my kids. I learned from TRP and PPD how to identify damaged/used goods/unstable/mentally ill women. I learned to identify promiscuous women and exclude them. I learned what women find attractive and not what they say they find attractive and changed my behavior. I worked out and become a masculine man and that helped me to have my pick of women. I'm soon getting engaged to my 19 year old girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:17 PM
1

After a woman hits the wall at around age 27, her options decrease dramatically. This is regarding prospects for a relationship. She will still get plenty of offers for casual sex. The guys she wants are all married or going for younger and more beautiful women. Even if she drops her standards, a lot of guys that she thinks are beneath her can do better now if they have their life together. The advice benefits women just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:02 PM
1

Good then do it. When your "social circle" gets married and has kids and move on to more important things, don't reconsider. Stand by your principles!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:57 PM
0

Enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:52 AM
-1

Only for a limited window when they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:50 AM
2

Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:46 AM
1

Women in their 20s are not average 5'4 and 170. If you have a source for this, I want to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:28 AM
0

Being a handsome guy, you know that you can find women anywhere. You know that you're a hot commodity. There's no reason to commit to a girl with any flaws because you can easily find another beautiful one. It's abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:18 AM
2

There's nothing bad about what attractive men do. It's logical. An attractive man has his pick of hot women too because the attractive man is more scarce than the attractive woman. Why would you expect an attractive man to commit to an average woman when he has so many options?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:14 AM
0

But being better looking does making them less likely to commit. Not committing does not mean they are assholes by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:12 AM
3

No. Average men are having a lot less sex. But a small percent of the population of men is having more sex and more options for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:10 AM
2

There are men who would treat you well but you never give them a chance. You date guys who treat you badly. Guys who treat you badly can do that and keep you because they're attractive. You then blame all men, including men who would treat you well but who never had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:04 AM
5

Average and lower attractiveness men don't statistically get to date frequently because of online dating. OP is 20 so online dating is the norm. Online dating allows naive women to get pumped and dumped by attractive men who run through women like a sports car. OP in her own words "gets clingy" or "asks for too much" with men who want to smash and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:00 AM
2

Yes, as long as we are clear on average's definition. Can we acknowledge that aging hurts a woman's SMV? Being overweight? Having a promiscuous past? I know fat phobia, the wall and slut shaming mean women don't like to be judged this way but it's similar to judging a 5'3 bald man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:58 AM
7

Most men don't do what you describe. The men you date do. The reason you date them might be related to their looks. There are average looking men who would love you but you don't see them so you condemn them all as evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:56 AM
14

Men want sex more than women. Women want relationships more than men. Neither are satisfied because the person men want to have sex with and the person women want a relationship with are out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:42 AM
-3

Most women that I have met regret casual sex. Feminism told them to try casual sex and they regret it. Most women want a man who will be their boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:41 AM
1

Women don't care about casual meaningless sex. They crave sex with their man where sex deepens the bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:22 AM
1

I got it now. When fuck buddies or nothing serious, most men will put off any discussion of anything more than casual for as long as possible. They will tell you that they're "not ready to talk about it right now" or "we can talk about it sometime but not right now"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:20 AM
7

But she will never find this fulfilling. That never replaces a man's role in a woman's life. If she considers dating "ugly" guys wasting time, that's her loss. When she does it for long enough, many of her friends will get married and have their own families, children, grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:15 AM
7

They didn't have unrealistic standards. They had happy marriages, families and a community. People say this about jobs and I don't get it. People search for the perfect job but historically people took the jobs they could get and made the best of them. Many of these people ended up enjoying their work over time. The "I can't get what I think I deserve so I give up entirely" is a new strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:11 AM
3

Women don't say it because it's embarrassing. They gave their body to a man and hoped he would understand the gesture and he used it and moved on. It hurts a woman to feel like she put herself out there and got treated that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:09 AM
3

A tip for you, a guy who tells you he wants a relationship when you are having casual sex is lying 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:05 AM
6

Average men dated and married average women for all of history. In places where online dating isn't the main avenue, it still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:04 AM
3

The women that I have met aren't hedonists. They want something meaningful. They try to win over men they have no chance at dating by using sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:51 AM
-1

Men don't discuss the type of relationship they are going to have with a girl before they have sex. lol!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:50 AM
9

When women have access to hot guys, they stop caring about average guys. That's the problem. They equate a man willing to have sex with them with a man who will get into a relationship with them. Men will fuck anything if they're horny. Average men will get into a relationship with average women but hot guys will not. So you have single average men and single average women who both feel undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:49 AM
2

It's not so empowering if the man only calls you when he wants to have sex with you. That feels bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:47 AM
6

You are the exception. Most women find casual sex without emotional intimacy unfulfilling. Most women think that men who pump and dump them use them for their body and treat them in a degrading way. Good for you if you like it but most women want to get a guy out of their league who is a catch to be their boyfriend or SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:45 AM
2

Tell the women here who say it's empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:42 AM
6

It happens anyway. Women chase guys out of their league for relationships. Guys out of their league want a fuck at 4am and to leave 20 minutes later. Women think they can win guys out of their league over. They never do because guys out of their league have better prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:41 AM
5

It's bad too because it subconsciously tells a woman that she's only good for a fuck and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:37 AM
6

You look down on them because they have morals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:33 AM
–

You think you know better than them? How misogynistic of you to talk down to 40% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:19 PM
0

Everyone with a conscience has a horse in the race. Some people don't think it's right to kill babies when you act irresponsibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:45 PM
3

It's saying that the threats are stupid and don't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:40 PM
5

The sex strike is women threatening to not have sex with Blue Pill men lol. Blue Pill men are not getting laid any way by white knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:38 PM
19

Reddit hated TRP a few years ago and called it crazy and unrealistic. Yet TRP has been right about a lot of things in modern dating. - Hypergamy - 80/20 - The wall - SMV - Acting masculine - Approaching instead of being passive - Stoicism - Women's attraction for muscular, tall, big framed men - Women's disgust for emotional and crying men TRP took things that men who did well with women knew naturally and told it to normal guys. Everyone hated that because the world prized only natural alphas a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:36 PM
7

"Why don't average men put themselves in the friend-zone????"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:34 PM
1

Then why are so many of you screeching? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:30 PM
2

Look, a woman who equates human value with sexual intercourse and wonders why men think women only have one thing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:29 PM
32

Never take advice from women about dating. This advice will guarantee you are alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:17 PM
1

Are you consenting to child support every time you have sex? Even if the condom breaks? Even if the birth control fails? Yes. It's called taking responsibility for your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:15 PM
1

We should make laws to make men take care of the child then. Not kill the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:14 PM
2

A brain dead patient with a zero percent chance of living and a baby with a 100% chance of living a full life are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:13 PM
0

The Supreme Court that made abortion legal had political leanings. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:12 PM
1

If you personally create the child, its your job to care for it. If you don't want to, then don't create the child. What do you mean without permission? It's a baby that came from a decision to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:11 PM
2

The majority elected Trump. Trump picked judges. The judges got rid of Roe. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:09 PM
2

Your right to infanticide is not unlimited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:08 PM
0

You said the decision is because Trump won. The decision was because Roe made no logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:06 PM
1

Seeing comments like this where you celebrate murder for selfish reasons makes me feel like the decision was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:06 PM
0

If you can't understand that your sweet baby is growing inside of you after 4 or 5 months and loves you because you're there mommy, that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:05 PM
2

Women never choose to sleep with abusers, criminals and drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:04 PM
1

I’d everything goes well, I’m bringing a human child into the world but, until it is sentient, it’s not a baby. You don’t feel bad about killing and eating a carrot or an oyster because they are not sentient. A fetus is not either so there is no harm in removing it from life support. It's an innocent baby. Why do women say this? It makes them feel better for selfishly murdering a baby. Either way, it is illegal for a person to stay in my home if I don’t want them there and I have the legal right…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:03 PM
0

Ruth Bader Ginsburg thought Roe was stupid too ​ https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2022/05/06/ruth-bader-ginsburg-roe-wade/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:01 PM
4

Plenty of women kill the baby because they did not act responsibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:18 PM
5

That's not accurate. https://www.vox.com/a/abortion-decision-statistics-opinions/abortion-polling-mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:15 PM
2

Men who say women should just stop having sex if they don’t want an abortion are suggesting that women not be able to take care of their own needs nor make decisions about their own bodies. But you are bringing a child into this world using your body so it's not only your body but another life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:13 PM
10

Is it misogyny to point out that women need to take responsibility for getting pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:10 PM
7

They are asking on how to get commitment from high value men instead of being P&D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:09 PM
12

Men shouldn't feel bad about not giving you what you want after reading that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:12 PM
12

Men frame it in an exploitative way The misandry They aren’t learning to become better men Asking for dating skills help is not learning to be a better man? a way to trick women into sex You think women aren't smart enough to decide who to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:08 PM
0

By that time, we will be replaced by robots. There already are plastic surgeries and cosmetic procedures. However, they make a person look uncanny. You can see women in their 30s lack a certain freshness in their face and tell their age even if they have done skin care routines, botox and surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:02 AM
2

Eugenics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:25 PM
–

The percent of women who are pro life is the same as the percentage of men who are pro life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:11 PM
0

Well my agenda won yesterday. And there's more wins ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:03 PM
1

Your blind spot is showing. They see you as misandrists, baby killers, degenerates, hedonists. You are the exact same in views toward each other. They do vote. They vote when they feel that their concerns are being talked about. Why do you think random people who never voted supported Trump? When you shame people they keep quiet but they silently show their response when they vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:55 PM
1

It makes no difference. I am not trying to spread an agenda. Men will feel how they feel and it will be reflected in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:52 PM
1

Why are you making it personal? I get laid fine but I can see the perspective of others who are not like me. The view that you shouldn't care about people you disagree with is the problem that is leading to the division. There is no incentive for men who have no interaction with women and who feel no relationship with women to care about many issues in political society. What does religion have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:51 PM
1

I do not see what the point is. This is a heckler's veto. There is no discussion of men who hate women. There is discussion of how men who do not interact with women will not care about women issues and how PPD discussion will become a major news story. There are people offering critiques and discussions and in good faith. I do not see why there are low quality posts allowed and actual discussions dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:50 PM
1

This arrogance is what happened in 2016. Look at what happened with the economy and gas prices. No matter whose fault it is, people will blame the guy in charge right now. Young men used to be liberal but that is changing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:47 PM
1

There are 30 to 40 percent of men under 30 who are not able to have relationships or sexual experience. Why are they misogynists or have to be from a group? They don't interact with women and are not loved by women so why would they care what women issues are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:46 PM
1

Ok. But when the election happens, you will see what I mean. This is the start of something you will wonder why nobody ever told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:44 PM
1

Incel is someone who hates women. The discussion is of sexless men who are not necessarily incel. They are apathetic toward women issues not hating woman issues. This situation of sexless men is covered in surveys and science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:42 PM
1

Men not getting into relationships or having sex is discussed on this sub everyday. By the sidebar, Incel content is 1) woe is me whining 2) lookism/blackpill 3) incel jargon There is no whining because there is no personal story. There is no black pill beside saying that women care about looks now and looks are out of a persons control. There is no incel jargon. So why should it be suppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:40 PM
1

Sexual selection drives the way that society looks. From the start of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:39 PM
2

How is that incel content? I summarized the rule below and you have not responded. You have not made any response of substance here at all and keep saying it should be removed just because. You are welcome to address my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:39 PM
1

Abortion is the same viewpoint by percentages between men and women. Half of the women in America do not share the views of PPD women but PPD does not want to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:37 PM
2

Say what you want, but they have the same right to vote like you do and society has to deal with what large numbers of people want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:36 PM
1

It probably makes her feel bad so she wants to ban it. Why not present an intelligent counter argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:35 PM
1

Men not getting into relationships or having sex is discussed on this sub everyday. By the sidebar, Incel content is 1) woe is me whining 2) lookism/blackpill 3) incel jargon There is no whining because there is no personal story. There is no black pill beside saying that women care about looks now and looks are out of a persons control. There is no incel jargon. So why should it be suppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:34 PM
1

Why don't you present an argument instead of trying to suppress discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:31 PM
1

You got me! Let me date blown out hags!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:46 AM
1

Nice strawman. I guess men shouldn't date women who are beautiful and have good personalities. If you think I care about the judgment of single women on Reddit, think again. You're not going to shame men into dating blown out hags
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:21 AM
1

Why do you think adult women can't make their own decisions?? Getting married at your peak gives you the most power and selectivity in picking a partner. This is something older women learn the hard way. Leave me for someone her age? Lmao you just don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:25 AM
1

You can't live your life in fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:10 AM
1

I don't know what that means. I don't play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:07 AM
1

Doesn't matter either way to me but YES
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:59 AM
1

It only matters if you want to date a girl from a rich family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:56 AM
1

I'm dating a 19 year old right now and probably going to propose in a few months. How mad are you???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:54 AM
1

Why is it better to date a 30+ year old women with many failed relationships and who has mental complexes from those failed relationships? Why it is my responsibiltiy to be her therapist? Why can't I date an 18 year old who is lighthearted, feminine and fun to be around?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:52 AM
3

The power gap is literally the reason they are attracted lmao Women do not want to date their equal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:50 AM
1

Lol the hottest girl in my high school and the hottest girls in my college all dated older guys. It happens more now because women make money and have status they want a guy with HIGHER status than them because of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:48 AM
1

The reason they went for 18 year olds is because they're more attractive and less fucked up mentally than women they're age. It's not "easy" to get 18 year olds lmao its a lot harder because they are hotter. If you can get women in their prime its trivially easy to get women 27+ because they're so desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:46 AM
1

What do I have in common with some women that hit the wall? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:44 AM
4

No you can tell based on her behavior. Women can sniff desparation. Men can sniff out sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:15 AM
-1

I read your story. It sounds like this is what happened with your parents and you think everything will be like that. I will pray for you and your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:07 AM
3

She could change her mind and that would be fine. There's nothing wrong with that if that is what she truly wanted. I would state my position but that doesn't mean that is what we have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:58 AM
-1

She doesn't use Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:51 AM
-6

Why would she grow sick and tired of me in ten years? I am with her because I care about my children. I want them to have a mother who was not blown out by a number of different men. A mother with dignity and a mother who will give them the lowest chance of being born retarded. I would never divorce her or leave her. I would never cheat on her either. I want my children to have the best life ever. That's why I work so hard at my career and select my wife carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:30 AM
5

Because men don't know how to be men anymore. Feminists act like anything masculine is evil. Women still crave it in partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:50 AM
2

They can settle for loneliness. They don't want the orbiters. They want a man that they are attracted to that will hold them and cuddle with them and protect them. Women don't enjoy casual sex as much as men do. It's pointless hedonism for women. Women at that age see their friends getting married and having children and having happy families. These same women could have the same thing as their friends but their egos wouldn't let them. Now they have to pretend that they don't want to hold their …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:28 AM
1

Why would he be jealous of women for sleeping around? He does not want to sleep with men Should men be jealous of gay men? Gay men have more sex than everyone else. The answer is no because men don't want to have sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:04 AM
0

Women know this deep down. They put themselves out there to guys who are not in their league and think that if they are good at sex, the guy will commit to them. Every time they fail to get a commitment, they feel used and insulted. Then they are reminded of every body in their body count as a failure to be good enough for the guy they wanted. That is why they are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:57 AM
8

Let me explain this for you all. I am in my mid-30s and my girlfriend is 19. I am probably going to propose to her soon so she will be my fiance. Women in their 20s have a limited pool of guys to date. I am not saying to have sex with. I am saying to date. The quality guys who will commit to the women and be the best hubby ever are already married. There are a small number of Chads who have sex with a lot of women but do not commit to any of them. There is a supply problem of men who are dateabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:46 AM
3

Yes, but if he's horny enough he will fuck a hole in the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:22 PM
5

That is by definition a new phenomenon. I am sure this will play out for longer than ten years. I think it is only starting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:26 PM
4

The number of men aged 18-30 who have been single or didn't have sex in the last year tripled from 2008 to 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:16 PM
2

Yes, if you want women then you have to make yourself into what women objectify. What's so complicated or hard about that? Your value comes from the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:04 PM
13

Lol this is facts. I do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:02 PM
1

Men want different things from women than women want from men. This is because men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:00 PM
4

Conservative Kevin married a beautiful woman with morals years ago and couldn't care less about a random slut. He has a happy family now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:57 PM
1

This is what I'm talking about https://static.onecms.io/wp-content/uploads/sites/20/2022/03/03/Sydney-Sweeney-001.jpg You seem to be missing my point about the statistics. And it's comical to think that women with cellulite and wrinkles are the most fertile and thinking early 20s women are the hottest is propaganda for power dynamics lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:17 PM
2

Men want to fuck hoes and marry women who are marriage material. This is common sense. Marriage is the word that is problematic? Replace it with having a family with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:03 PM
1

Are we really doing this? You are going to claim that dating apps didn't become big in the last few years? The unrestrained hypergamy and women who are ugly or mid having options to have sex but no relationship with Chad from dating apps is a recent thing. My point is that men who are in their 30s get women in their 20s and women thinking the men their age are trash or not good enough makes them go for older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:59 PM
2

https://www.inc.com/minda-zetlin/marriage-mismatch-husbands-wives-earnings-education-jobs.html
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:57 PM
2

I'm familiar with online dating. Tinder was not ubiquitous by 2014
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:56 PM
1

Data from before online dating became popular is not evidence that a recent phenomenon where it has increased dramatically does not exist. A 2020 study shows that long-covid does not commonly exist, why might that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:49 PM
2

The statistics are based on a 2014 survey. Was online dating around then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:47 PM
1

Women say what they say. What they are attracted to is differnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:43 PM
1

‘When we ask men and women what aged partner they would prefer, men tend to say that they would like a female partner who is a few years younger and women tend to say that they would like a male partner who is a few years older. This preference exists cross-culturally which suggests that it is nearly universal’. In evolutionary terms, Professor Fugere says that for men it is, simply, about ‘ensuring that a prospective partner is fertile’ while women consider the resources an older man might have…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:39 PM
1

Yes. It is a dumb thing to rely on what women say. Look at what they do. Women also say they want a nice guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:37 PM
5

The new dating norms will destroy the West. It has created male incels in growing numbers. It is becoming an epidemic. It has also created female "incels" who are growing old and cannot get a relationship with a guy they desire. The trends are more pronounced among the more educated classes and less pronounced among the lower classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:36 PM
1

Women say "dad bods" are attractive. What do they do in reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:32 PM
2

There aren't women of their age that have their shit together. You will have to ask women why they don't settle with men of their age and like older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:31 PM
1

Dad or Shag: The Scientific Reason You’re Attracted To Older Men: https://graziadaily.co.uk/relationships/dating/younger-women-older-men/ ​ Professor Madeleine Fugere is the author of The Social Psychology of Attraction and Romantic Relationships. She says that there is scientific evidence which suggests that ‘dad or shag’ is both a psychological and evolutionary phenomenon and not just a cultural cliché. ‘The research in this area shows that not only are younger women attracted to older men, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:23 PM
3

The complaints are also from women who ride the cc and complain about slut shaming or men not wanting them for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:21 PM
2

I think the difference is that you are thinking of the average 35 or 40 year old man. I am talking about the one who takes care of himself. The exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:20 PM
1

You keep saying power dynamics. This phrase is useless. Power dynamics are the reason for attraction. Men want beautiful and fertile women. Our biology makes us most attracted to women around age 21. https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:17 PM
7

If you're not that attractive and he's more attractive than you, he only wants sex. There are no telltale behaviors that are worth mentioning because women delude themselves into thinking that they are equal to men out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:16 PM
5

Even if men become better, because of the male sex drive, women will raise their standards even more. Even ugly and mid women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:44 PM
2

The statistics are not capturing recent trends. Women in their 20s want men that are better than them. Men in their 20s are not at that point. If they are, then they are already married or in LTR. Who does that leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:43 PM
2

Men in their 30s and 40s don't need Cialis if the girl is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:41 PM
3

Introduce the variable of uncontrolled hypergamy and women wanting someone better than them and saying most men are trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:39 PM
3

I don't know the facts about this so I will accept what you say. Men see younger women as more fertile naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:38 PM
2

Because women like a man with resources and power. Men also find some physical signs of aging in men to be attractive for a reason that I cannot explain. Possible it is daddy issues but I don't know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:36 PM
13

You are also a young woman who is posting on PPD so you are not the young woman we are talking about. Most normal young women have no trouble dating. They don't read dating or feminist strategies on Reddit. Your anecdote therefore is not that relevant because men who have options and high value are looking to date attractive and desirable young women, who never heard of Reddit and use IG/Tik Tok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:33 PM
3

Once again, you're not talking about the trends that have emerged since online dating has become common. Men don't want women that are ran through. Because of online dating and feminism, more women are ran through and entitled. If a desirable man has a choice, he will not pick a ran through and entitled woman. The desirable man will date a younger woman who is more beautiful and loving. The revenge fantasy remark is missing the point. Men don't want the women that rejected them in their 20s. Tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:21 PM
1

That's all true. At the same time, men built the world you live in and the toilet you shit into. That's testosterone. Men don't want intimate relationships with other men. Does that help? Men want women. Men look for different things because they're looking for women. When men look for women, they don't want sluts as a girlfriend or wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:19 PM
11

That "mentality" is self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:15 PM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:05 PM
2

Why can't women accept that men don't want sluts and find sluts disgusting? Why can't men have standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:04 PM
1

Did I strike a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:00 PM
6

Why do women get triggered by this? Men don't want sluts for a girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:44 PM
7

Chad wants to fuck on the first date. Chad is 10% of men. What about the other 90%? They don't want Chad's leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:43 PM
14

Women lie with their pictures. Not to mention makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:41 PM
8

The trends I'm talking about are more recent. Female hypergamy wasn't uncontrolled and women didn't act like sluts as much before online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:38 PM
6

That might be true for past generations. But age gap relationships are very common since online dating has become normalized. 30s are still not ideal if you want to have lots of children. Yes, you are right about geriatric pregnancies that is after 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:33 PM
9

The men who worked toward an impressive career and are in their 30s want women in their 20s. That's why women in their 30s look for men in their 40s. The concerns you have about men being too old to have children is the same concern that men have about women over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:26 PM
1

It's a manner of speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:55 PM
2

That's right. Women have standards. Men aren't allowed to have standards. I'm suggesting that men have standards anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:25 PM
1

You're free to do what you like. I'm talking more generally of the women that I know who are single and would love to get married and have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:08 PM
1

You keep using that word but you don't know what it means. I have a lot of women in my life and I treat them all amazingly. I don't pity women who screwed up their chances because they didn't get married when they were supposed to. I don't apologize for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:06 PM
1

The reasoning is often creepy. It’s usually men who fail at dating women in their age group because they are experienced enough to see right through them. Wrong. Men who date younger women are dating hotter women. Hotter women have a higher SMV. Women their age hit the wall and are desperate. Why would they want a desperate woman that hit the wall? Experience in a woman is unattractive. Men and women don't want the same things. Women with experience are bitchy, and have inferiority complexes and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:34 PM
4

The most common form of mate guarding is women at or near the wall trying to preserve the population of single, "dateable" and worthy men in their 30's. These men tend to like younger women and not beat up cars. But if these men date younger women, there's even less "worthy" men!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:40 PM
1

You can wait. But know that your selection pool narrows. Women already have a limited pool of guys worth settling down with. Men value beauty and youth. The fear and shame are healthy. Stop with this female rationalization nonsense. Women do it all of the time to justify their stupid decisions. Fat shaming, slut shaming, the list goes on. Most married women are not statistically unhealthier nor are they unhappier. They live lives as happy as single women. That's at a minimum. The difference is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:38 PM
2

This is ridiculous. Men are not women and women are not men. We are attracted to different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:23 AM
1

I'll rephrase it. There's no point in deluding yourself that you're happy with a failed dating life simply because you failed. It is better to find a way to fix it. Making a decision when you are at the peak of your life with dating options to not pursue relationships will last forever. It is a lonely and painful life. It is preferable to see in what way you are sabotaging your chances of finding love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:26 PM
1

What I'm saying is being a single mom or a wine aunt is not the optimal lifestyle. It should not be promoted as if it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:59 PM
1

Women that age can find sexual partners but they can't find long term partners who want to commit to them. Women with families spend their time with their kids. They spend time with their family friends. Women with families don't spend time online expressing frustration about dating. The idea of women being happy without men doesn't trigger me. I know single older women and they are lonely and sad. Your study about happiness is my point - being lazy and selfish is no virtue. Women with families …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:53 AM
1

Women peak in attractiveness at 22. Single woman are not the happiest demographics. The mental gymnastics that you do to convince yourself of this is hard to believe. You think nobody else makes friends with others close to them? You think it replaces the motherly instinct in 30 and 40 year old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:21 AM
3

Nothing creepy about morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:10 PM
4

https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/hpv-transmission-during-oral-sex-a-growing-cause-of-mouth-and-throat-cancer-201306046346
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:11 PM
47

Girls will have sex with you in the back seat of the car or in the bathroom of a public place if they are keen. Do not buy that hygiene is a major concern. Girls will complain to their girl friends that a guy is unhygienic and keep going back to them. I am not making this up. There is a story among my friends group where a girl got an STD from a guy and could not stop going back to sleep with him because she was so infatuated with him. Yes I know the people involved. When they broke up she kept …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:06 PM
4

The problem with average or ugly women is that they try to make you feel guilty that you should commit to them or that you should be in a relationship with them just because they had sex with you. Sex does not entitle you to a relationship and its emotional manipulation to claim that you deserve someones time and attention just because you had sex with them. If you don't feel that good looking at them beyond that night then how are you going to look at them long enough to be in a relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:57 PM
16

They don't have to. If they do, they do. But I don't feel obligated to go down on them lol it's their choice Same thing with using a condom. Some women are the ones that don't want to use one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:35 PM
4

The person who bothers to write a question about it but can't be bothered to upload a photo to their profile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:22 PM
7

A lot of men can't afford throat cancer either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:20 PM
23

I never go down on girls when having casual sex anymore because there's a sizeable number of woman who can't be bothered to maintain hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:20 PM
9

Men shouldn't feel guilty about not committing to mediocre women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:19 PM
8

NYT: It turns out that the happiest of all wives in America are religious conservatives, followed by their progressive counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:12 PM
7

Help, I Can't Stop Hooking Up With Trump Supporters https://www.glamour.com/story/hooking-up-with-trump-voters-essay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:15 PM
11

Because all of their friends have it and they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:13 PM
7

That's the problem. Too many 22 year old guys play video games and try to impress women by acting like pussies. 22 year old women want masculine men. Trying to appease men by acting like a liberal soy male who thinks feminism is logical and women are queens is sad. It also gets you no pussy. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:12 PM
2

That's cool. I don't see anything wrong with it. It's not my approach but if I'm ever unable to get hot women in their peak, I might consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:10 PM
1

How are women creeped out when they let me have sex with them? Have you seen a picture of Idris Elba or Cristiano Renaldo when younger? George Clooney? Yes, they're less insecure. They have firm skin and they aren't actively declining. They know they're hot and they haven't been destroyed psychologically by men and ten thousand dicks. It feels good to date the hottest girl on the block. There's a reason why old women try to look like them and spend countless hours and dollars trying to look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:09 PM
9

Wait until there is a surplus of single unhappy women who hit 40 years old and will die single and alone. They will not be silent. They already are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:30 PM
1

It's not about using money. I'm not spending money on her. It's the qualities and confidence that you develop from becoming successful that she is attracted to. These things take time. It's not like a woman where she is prized for things that she doesn't have to work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:28 PM
0

Dating on apps is not worth it. Approach women in real life. Young men these days are pussies. They have social anxiety. They don't do it. This makes it easy to get hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:18 PM
2

I believe the OK Cupid data!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:01 PM
2

See my reply. It is not on its own an attractive quality. However, time gives men more time. Only that. More time to increase their SMV. If a man wastes that time, then it does not benefit him. The contrast must be made with the woman, for whom time is the enemy. For the man, it is more neutral. https://external-preview.redd.it/7MnkZVVdHOkptVKgZho\_ihv4qtiJLWtMRMMdD1WCN2E.jpg?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=b63e9f59ef2ce594fb8c8c3bbd14844476372b20
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:47 PM
3

I see. Let me rephrase. By younger women, let me say most attractive women who tend to be younger. These women have highest SMV because they are most attractive. They are attracted to the men with the highest SMV. SMV in men is more complex. It is related to looks but also to status, maturity, aggressiveness and masculinity. Many of these factors come to men through age. Many of these factors are thus lacking in young men. Especially in today's generation where young men have low testosterone an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:46 PM
8

What do you hope to gain from spreading this lie? Most men would do much better to date younger women. They're more beautiful, less bitchy, less bitter, and more positive. They are more receptive to dating older men too. There is shaming from men their age, older women, women about to hit the wall, feminists, and white knights. But younger women don't listen to any of them lol. Desperate guys think their chances are higher with older women and below average women but they could not be more wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:36 PM
3

Because women are attractive based on inherent factors like beauty and fertility. Men become attractive. Through achievement, maturity, and wisdom. Women also don't think men look bad as they age. It is what it is. Is it fair? No. It's how it is. I prefer dating women in their prime because I'm in my prime. Women who are 19 are hotter, easier to talk to and be around, happier, more carefree, and less insecure. Why do you insist on a study? The phenomenon like much of online dating is the past te…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:25 PM
2

The ultimate status symbol? Why wealthy families are opting for more kids https://www.smh.com.au/money/planning-and-budgeting/the-ultimate-status-symbol-why-wealthy-families-are-opting-for-more-kids-20170922-gyn4a7.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:20 PM
8

That proves that it's more common than you claim. Men talk about it all the time. Yet, it's dismissed on PPD as mythology. That's not true. Women find older men attractive. It's like how men find younger women attractive. It doesn't have to do with money. The results speak for themselves. I don't know what you mean by daddy issues. Maybe a lot of women have daddy issues. That's better than dating older women with attachment and bonding issues from failed relationships and taking too many dicks. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:16 PM
9

Hot girls don't do this at all. It's average and ugly women that do this. Hot girls don't feel the need to shit on other people's looks and are more positive and happy go lucky. It's an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:03 PM
6

My data is my experience. Also, the experience of my friends. There is no ignoring on social media or roasting. If you have high status and look good, the hottest young woman will proudly hook up with you at a bar. That's in front of everyone. It might not be you. That's because men go after the hottest young women. It's not like we see a young woman and go after her because she's young. We go after her because she's hot and more often than not she's young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:58 PM
1

I love the women in my life. I protect them and take care of them. I don't love hoes. I don't care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:51 PM
1

Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:48 PM
1

Denial doesn't change what has been true for millenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:47 PM
4

The kid will become a mass shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:45 PM
2

Not an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:44 PM
3

Hold on, will not have a chance to read until later tonight. Thanks for attaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:02 PM
3

Children make parents happy, after all https://www.economist.com/international/2019/07/10/children-make-parents-happy-after-all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:55 PM
5

That's for married couples. It's also not based on the past 10 years of internet dating. The age gap has increased because now women can interact with men from different areas and different groups. It's a lot easier to DM the hottest young thing now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:52 PM
2

Happiness is a nuanced concept that’s made up of life satisfaction, which is how happy you are with the way your life is going, and well-being, which is how you feel on a moment-to-moment basis.While having kids does boost your life satisfaction, it comes with a tremendous amount of responsibility and daily stress. This results in a rollercoaster of very high highs and lows over the course of their experience of parenthood. A study from Princeton University and Stony Brook University found that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:49 PM
0

We both know that's a bunch of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:41 PM
4

The vast majority of women in their 20s have dated one or more older men. Do you think young women listen to their fathers about who they should date? lol!!!!! The majority that is grossed out? It is usually old women who are bitter and past their peak and women who see the wall right ahead of them You also are talking about different guys. The guy in his 30s or early 40s who is fit and takes care of himself is attractive compared to the fat and weird guy in his 40s. Chris Pratt is HOT. some fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:37 PM
8

a child without a father or a mother is going to be very deprived. and it would be very cruel to not provide that for your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:33 PM
17

lol!!!! then why are there so many old women trying to discourage men from dating younger women when the younger women are more attractive and have better personalities and easier standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:30 PM
28

there is no connection between misogyny and being unattractive to women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:24 PM
25

this is how desirable men feel too. that's why women get pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:22 PM
2

Yet, they still have their fundamental needs of connection and family met.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:04 PM
3

18 year olds are adults. It is a relationship between two adults. That's why this argument is a bad one. It is a bad faith misrepresentation of the indisputable fact that it is a consensual adult relationship. Even more illogical because these women are enthusiastic about entering into a relationship with older men. If you don't like it, ban anyone under 25 from driving, signing a contract, getting married or getting an abortion without parental approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:04 PM
5

Talk to old people and the biggest happiness in their life is spending time with their family and what they wish they spent the most time doing. Nobody wishes they spent more time working or doing selfish things. Growing old completely alone is so depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:02 PM
1

Graduate high school at 17 or 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:59 PM
0

Suuuure you do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:50 PM
2

There are not only two choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:44 PM
0

Because it is said by people who failed at dating. They then say I didn't want kids anyway! They do still want kids. They always did. The world is fine. Birthrates are at an all time high around the world. If you live in the west, the state of the world is no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:43 PM
1

Women regularly date guys more than a decade older. The denial of this is from old females.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:39 PM
8

There is no such thing as a happy single mother life lol!!!!!! how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:38 PM
2

They don't have to. They want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:37 PM
5

Africa, Asia, South America. Where birth rates are high and the nuclear family exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:15 PM
1

The average man or loser is not a toxic father. Single mother is the worst situation ever. Your child is guaranteed to become a failure in life and have mental issues. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:15 PM
-1

Anyone who has met young women knows that young women like older men. Even the PPD women got pump and dumped by older men. Now they have learned their lesson and want to warn other girls!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:14 PM
15

People in third world countries have children and happy families. This is a bad excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:12 PM
6

The child will not have a father and will grow up in a single parent household. At least with the loser, the child will not grow up to be a murderer or rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:09 PM
9

Those innocent women will never have children or a family. Who wins then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:06 PM
1

You're having a conversation with a mentally ill person. Look at her post history. She is the female version of an inncel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:04 PM
2

That's how I treat low n-count women. I get laid whenever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:12 AM
5

They are rationalizing because half the time they tell me they don't want to get married but at the slightest sign of interest from a man they will drop everything and start calling their love interest their husband and making preparations for their wedding in their mind and get obsessed with it. Same woman who said she doesn't want a man. Or children. It's just sour grapes. When the opportunity arises, it is a complete flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:30 AM
3

It also doesn't mean that it's not a common and real phenomenon. Having a family is the most important thing in life. It has been for millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:57 PM
1

You're in luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:23 PM
4

Sounds like I hit a wound.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:12 PM
5

It's always been a big deal. Men don't want hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:10 PM
2

I'm not insecure because others get triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:10 PM
5

The ones I know are very unhappy. They rationalize it but you can't fight biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:09 PM
1

I know friends who are in their late 30s now and very depressed about not having a husband and kids. They are becoming more unstable and their mental health is concerning. Growing old without children is one of the worst things that can happen to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:13 PM
9

The same woman who makes a beta wait for months will let the same guy fuck her in the bathroom of a nightclub within 20 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:11 PM
2

Even women who aren't religious think sluts are low status. That's why women call women they hate sluts and whores
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:08 PM
1

Men don't want dominant, judgmental, masculine women. Who would have guessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:02 PM
4

It's not active hate. Men just don't want hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:01 PM
8

Humans can experience all of the above-mentioned varieties of pair bonds. These bonds can be temporary or last a lifetime. Pair bonding is a behavioral and physiological bond between two mated individuals, and is rare among non-human primates.[3] Humans also engage in social pair bonding, where two individuals will form a close relationship that does not involve sex.[4] In humans and other vertebrates, pair bonds are created by a combination of social interaction and biological factors including…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:43 PM
9

Not everything is a slur. Sometimes people simply want to be offended by anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:39 PM
8

Normal how? Normal since app dating was created ten years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:24 PM
4

It's not a wrong thing to dump someone because they decided to have sex with many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:23 PM
2

It's a double standard. There are double standards in dating. If you date, you encounter double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:23 PM
1

There is no control. Women can sleep with whomever they want. Men are free to not want to have a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:18 PM
4

It is not normal behavior because you say so. It has never been normal behavior except for the last ten years since online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:17 PM
1

Ideas of feminism come from man-hating lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:16 PM
0

When men admit it, they get attacked as "pathetic religious people and bitter men" Why admit it? Why make life difficult? Why not fuck sluts and then ignore them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:15 PM
1

What controlling behavior? Women can do what they want. They should not complain about nobody wanting them later.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:13 PM
5

Women expect a man to be tall. A woman might be 5'2 but want a guy that is 6'1. The standard is not applied bilaterally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:12 PM
4

They fuck the girls with a high body count. They get into relationships with girls with low body counts. The girls accept them because the girls accept them. The girls don't have to accept them. But they do. Guys don't. Guys care about it more probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:08 PM
4

Men care about sex more than women. Women don't understand. Other men putting their dick in a man's woman is gross. Men hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:06 PM
6

Every man is disgusted by it. Even if they aren't religious. I'm not religious. It's still disgusting to me. None of my friends are religious. They still think it's nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:05 PM
3

You don't have to get over it. That's your choice. Like you said. If a guy watches porn for hours a day (has a high body count), then you don't have to date him. You shouldn't date him. If it's a rare thing (low body count), then maybe it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:04 PM
12

He doesn't need therapy because he has morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:01 PM
6

Among the blue haired fat-acceptance crowd, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:00 PM
3

If you're a woman trying to attract a man, then you shouldn't do what an attractive man does. Men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:58 PM
4

Today, these girls get fucked then ignored. They're not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:56 PM
7

Sorry but this discussion only matters when it displays the perspective of heterosexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:54 PM
2

This sounds like desperate self-delusion. By all means, sluts should announce themselves to the world in pride! So that all of the men who want to marry or LTR them can know and ask for their hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:50 PM
7

Hopefully this is not a common way of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:49 PM
9

I agree. I think you're right to do so. My problem is when people try to tell me and you that we should not have the standards we do. We want partners that share our values. With porn too, I can understand why that would be repulsive to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:49 PM
3

Almost
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:47 PM
4

Absolutely not. This is like arguing the sky is yellow. You have the burden of proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:46 PM
11

This is not only Christian society. This is every single society ever. Women call each other sluts when they don't like each other to decrease each other's value on the social and dating market. There's something human about finding sluts repulsive. On the contrary, you think that third wave feminism represents the truth about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:44 PM
10

There you go. So now you understand what it's like for men when they have a girl with a high N count
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:42 PM
6

What's the point in saying it out loud? Why not have sex with sluts and then ghost them? That's better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:42 PM
7

I can't believe analogies are still not understood by a certain percentage of the population. The disgust that would be felt in that situation is the disgust that men feel when they find out their girlfriend was a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:40 PM
15

It's not creepy. It is a standard. If you find out that a guy you're in love with rapes deer in the woods, your attraction for him would drop instantly. If someone then told you that it's your fault for shaming the guy, that YOU need therapy because YOU are wrong for shaming him, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:37 PM
9

Men don't talk about it because they don't want to hurt their reputation socially. It's the same way that men don't talk about not wanting fat girls. The men that are cool with slutty women are men who have cuckoldry fetishes or have no choice but to shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:35 PM
17

It's not pain. It's disgust. Repulsion. Slut has been a shameful thing in every society for the last several thousand years. That's not a mistake. Only sluts get mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:33 PM
7

Men will not say it out loud. Every man cares. The only exceptions are men who have no choice. These are not the men anyone desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:32 PM
5

It's disgust. Men do not want a woman that has been ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:31 PM
8

Most men don't want a women who has been run through. Pair bonding is absolutely real (are you really denying this?) and sluts can't pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:31 PM
6

Young people ask about body count all the time. It's a big thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:30 PM
10

This is a lie. Everyone knows it's a lie. Stop normalizing sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:29 PM
5

You say that you were insecure. That doesn't mean everyone else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:28 PM
6

No. It means that they cannot pair bond. A woman with a high N is not worth committing to because she has low standards. A woman with a high N count got a high N count by opening her legs for anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:27 PM
16

It's not jealousy. You don't need therapy. It's natural. Women are naturally repulsed by sluts. It's always been this way. Sluts say stuff like this to make themselves feel better about being sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:26 PM
1

It's not about sex game. It's about character. Women with a high body count have poor character.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:23 PM
6

You believe that men are jealous of sluts? Men do not want to date sluts. Men are not jealous of sluts. Men don't want to have penises inside of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:10 AM
7

That's not true. You know it's not true. All of society thinks it's a bad thing. Even women. Slut shaming goes back thousands of years. It exists in every human culture. It indicates a low value woman. Real men do not say this outwardly. Why bring drama and confrontation into life? Men will politely fuck a slutty woman and then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:56 AM
3

I don't talk about any of this in real life. If a girl has a sexual past, I ghost her. If I'm already having sex with her, I stop replying to her texts slowly. I don't want drama. I friend zone women in real life. I meet girls through them. They have female friends who hang with them at bars and clubs. It's guaranteed sex. I get along well with women in real life. I have a problem with feminists. I avoid them or ignore them if I can. For dating, they have mental problems. They're not worth the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:48 AM
2

It's not about her "meeting the right one." It's about the guys she's fucking thinking she's worth committing to. If she has a high body count and no guy thinks she's worth committing to, what does that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:43 AM
7

Opening your legs for anyone is not an accomplishment. It means that despite fucking, a woman can't get commitment from an attractive man. The jealousy part is wrong too. Heterosexual men aren't jealous that a woman has sex with men. Heterosexual men don't want to be fucked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:38 AM
4

High body count is linked with mental illness, impulse control problems, likelihood of cheating and divorce and baggage. I will add to their body count and have sex with them. But I will not return their text messages or calls after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:57 AM
0

Women want you to be dominant and decisive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:53 AM
5

It's not commenting for you. It's commenting so that people reading this exchange can see who the moron is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:46 AM
8

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:52 PM
11

That's the goal for men who have an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:48 PM
3

If the alternative worked, you wouldn't see so many unhappy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:45 PM
7

To get a relationship with a quality woman aged 18-25 without mental illnesses or red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:41 PM
3

My results speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:37 PM
7

It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:36 PM
1

You don't have a right to infanticide because you can't close your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:22 PM
5

Women aren't attracted to simps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:21 PM
16

"Red Pill" is wisdom dating back generations. Don't wife a hoe. Have standards. Act like a man. Not like a pussy. Women don't respect betas. Women like strong men. Toxic masculinity is a meme. Feminism is lesbian sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:17 PM
14

Harris is a pseudo-intellectual swindler who bought his PhD. His profound meditation "insights" are lifted from Zen Buddhism and sold to Joe Rogan listeners. I don't get what the weird tangent has to do with anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:10 PM
19

Treat high N count women like every other man has treated them - good for sex only
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:46 AM
1

There are some men who do not mind it. There are some man who get turned on from watching their wife having sex with another man. It is a fetish for them. I know one or two people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:02 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:30 PM
1

Not as bad as you think. This is how heterosexual men generally think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:24 PM
5

Where did you read about pornography use and divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:08 PM
16

It's not probing. I screen now because I'm in my 30s. But even if I felt excited about a girl, if I discovered that she had a high body count, it was like an off switch. All of the attraction evaporated and she seemed to lose that specialness. That's my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:06 PM
5

It doesn't mean talking about exes or hookups. I'll give you an example. One way a men can tell a woman is a hoe is she has tattoos or strongly supports abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:49 PM
3

But why are they entitled to that? I don't want to deal with the awkwardness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:47 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:42 PM
4

Sometimes it takes time. I don't know who she is at first. If I already fucked and then realized she is not worth it, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:39 PM
5

You want to encourage young people lurking this subreddit to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:33 PM
5

Have you had many female friends in life? I have seen female friends slut shame female friends more than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:31 PM
8

Women slut shame more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:30 PM
2

Women have sex before relationships. So if you already had sex and find out you don't want to date them then it's too late then, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:26 PM
6

That's your perspective. Promiscuous women don't deserve relationships. Men still have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:19 PM
1

Men can figure this out. Can you figure out how a person's income without asking? It's not fragile. It's primal disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:18 PM
12

Speaking personally, I will have sex with these women but I won't respond to their texts afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:12 PM
10

What are the consequences? If I find out a girl has a past, I ghost her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:07 PM
12

People should not take responsibility for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:39 PM
19

You can figure out N count without asking if you have social tact. It's the same way you can figure out someone's income without asking them their income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:36 PM
15

Sluts can have all the sex they want. But don't whine about nobody wanting a relationship later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:33 PM
6

He definitely triggered a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:30 PM
114

This is common sense. Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:27 PM
1

What you mean is that attractive guys don't approach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:54 PM
1

Why don't you look at who you're replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:49 PM
4

Women don't understand how hard it is for men. Ugly women can get plenty of dates. That's why women suck at giving advice to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:46 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:44 PM
6

Lol yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:05 PM
1

Nobody should expect judgment for the consequences of their actions! If you drink too much, maybe people will call you an alcoholic. Either don't drink or stop caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:02 PM
1

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:58 PM
1

I don't think a high body count is good for anyone. Sluts deserve love too. But not from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:50 PM
1

Women are only "no hookups" if you don't meet their standards. If you're attractive, a girl will break every rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:38 PM
88

Women will never give you honest advice. They will tell you that you are fine as you are and you should love yourself and everyone should love you too. Not how the world works! Stop asking a fish how to be a better fisherman! If you're getting bad results with women, you need to change. Every guy with a great physique started lifting for women. After a while, they learned to love the activity. Still, they started lifting to get girls. There are too many Redditors who won't shut up about how the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:34 PM
-4

They fuck guys above their league. They don't get pleasure from it like men do though. They are grasping for a relationship and after a while, it settles in that they weren't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:30 PM
1

Women could use a vibrator if they only wanted pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:48 PM
2

Women try to use sex to get men into a relationship. Women want a guy that they can brag to their friends about. They get off on that. When they tried to have sex and the guy didn't get into the relationship, they feel rejected and vindictive. They feel like they put themselves out there and the guy did not want them after that night. Most women don't have CASUAL sex for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:45 PM
2

No. With men it is not sleeping around. It is the ability to sleep around. For a man to be able to sleep around, a large number of women have to think he is good looking or high status. For a woman to sleep around, she needs to spend 5 minutes on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:38 PM
0

This is a place to share an honest opinion. I think there is nothing impressive about a woman who is slutty. They made the decision to be slutty. If people judge them for their decision, that is nobody else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:21 PM
1

There's no point in being friends with a girl if there's no sex. Why wouldn't you be friends with a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:06 PM
2

Yes, it becomes easier. In my case it became a lot easier. You need to start working out and build a good body too. Work out every single day and track your diet meticulously. It takes a year or two to see the change that will take you from dating 4-5 to 8-9s. That's why most guys give up. They lack the patience and willpower. You will get approached by women 28+ who are 6-7 but have red flags. To get the 8 and 9s, you still have to approach them. They will make themselves easy to approach like …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:00 PM
3

It would be traumatizing as a kid to find out your mom was the town whore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:28 PM
1

Men don't want women who have been around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:24 PM
0

I don't see anyone insulting sluts or short men in real life. If somebody goes online and seeks a place where they can read insults about themselves, that's their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:23 PM
1

The attitude that you have is the attitude the guys that you want but won't give you commitment have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:22 PM
2

Some people value family
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:19 PM
0

The problem exists for men too. If you didn't get women in your younger years and now it is easy for you, you start to realize that there are very few women worth marrying. You can't take a risk. A single mom is not worth it. A woman with a past is not worth it. A woman with mental issues is not worth it. I can't believe society has made it so hard to find a quality wife. I can pick and choose now. It is frustrating because most women I see are not worth dating. This must be how women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:00 PM
2

OK
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:55 PM
1

Everyone is different. Youth and beauty have always been connected. Look at the anti aging industry. Look at the woman who say they look "young for 30" MEN don't value the same things that WOMEN do. I think the biggest fallacy is to act like men and woman are the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:54 PM
1

I agree. Never be friends with a girl that you are not fucking. It's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:52 PM
6

Sluts are great for fucking. Nobody wants to wife a promiscuous woman unless they're a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:49 PM
2

I did read it. Nobody does what you said. Everyone will side with the women in our society. The truth is that it's a woman's fault if a man doesn't treat her well AND she stays with him. There is no one else to blame. That is the same for a man who stays with a woman who does not treat him well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:48 PM
2

Have you seen the world we live in? Everyone blames the man. Look at Johnny Depp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:43 PM
3

This is what men feel like when women who made bad decisions in their past now expect commitment. It's not flattering. It's desperate and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:40 PM
-2

Men care about looks, youth and fertility. That is completely accurate. You don't understand it because you're not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:38 PM
3

They have better personalities. It's the girls who are 4-6 that have the worst personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:37 PM
5

You are acting like men being repulsed by sluts is abnormal. It is the most normal thing in the world. It always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:36 PM
0

Women like tall men. Men don't care about height. Men care about body count. Women don't care that much. Don't wife a hoe is one of the biggest and most common statements of advice and common sense. I don't know what to tell you. There is a reason why parents traditionally tried to get their daughter to marry when she had her highest SMV. There is a reason why women over 30 who are unmarried were stigmatized. It's not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:35 PM
18

Women care about height. Even if they are 5'2 they find height attractive. Make it make sense? Women care about money. Even if they make $50,000 they still want a partner who makes more than them. Make it make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:31 PM
8

It's called having standards. Men everywhere in the world have found sluts unworthy *for committed relationships* for the last five thousand years. Stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:25 PM
-1

When men have standards, what's the problem? Women know we don't like slutty women for relationships. Women know we prefer youth and beauty. Still, men get shamed for having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:23 PM
-1

You don't understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:22 PM
1

Why? There's girls that turn 18 every day right where we are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:21 PM
2

I know women in their 30s. They alternate between pretending they don't want kids and a family and desperately chasing any prospect of it from a guy that barely meets their standards. They look at their friends getting married and having beautiful marriages and families. They feel jealous and bad about themselves. They think that because they waited for so long they should get something better. But now their only choices are to go beneath themselves and swallow their pride. Do you know any women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:19 PM
1

It's not the success. It's the personality that comes with the success. Men don't want masculine qualities in their partner. They want feminine qualities. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:45 PM
-1

Attractive 23 year old submissive wife/gf is the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:42 PM
2

The women on this sub are bitter and jaded. Don't extrapolate to women that are desirable. Hot girls are on Tik Tok and IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:26 PM
1

No. The attractive women circle in front of you. They make it easy to approach. Only ugly women approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:24 PM
0

The woman that approach are ugly. They are not the women that you want. Attractive women never approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:09 PM
0

The child will become retarded more often with an older woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:08 PM
0

You take the risk. Nothing is 100%. Someone is killed. Stop trying to make it easier to deny you are killing another human. That makes up less than 1% of abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:04 PM
1

Most men care even if they don't say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:59 PM
1

She belongs to the streets. No problem fucking her, but she doesn't deserve marriage or commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:58 PM
1

We are not talking about getting laid. We don't want to marry sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:56 PM
-1

Unprotected sex isn't a necessity either. Just masturbate. Don't ask for an abortion to kill babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:53 PM
1

It does not matter. Young guys will hook up with old women because they don't have to commit and old women are more horny but women do not want a relationship with guys younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:19 PM
2

Every woman gets attention. Even if you looked like a dog you would get constant attention from men. That is different from getting a high value man to commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:18 PM
2

Maybe the average guy can't. But if you're above average then it's pretty easy. I never got girls when I was overweight. I lost weight and it's so easy. Im in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:45 AM
3

Yes. This is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:24 AM
-1

We are talking about above average men, the ones who can get girls in their 20s. You are talking about average men who cannot. What is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:59 AM
2

That is not the reason that most men are disgusted by it. It is a turn off physically. Men and women value different things but the example of having sex with many prostitutes is what it feels like. Men care more about youth and purity. Women care more about height and mental toughness. Is it right or wrong? Who is to say? ​ You are right that a guy with many partners is not ideal for a relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:51 AM
1

No. Men get damaged too by it. The difference is that to have sex with 50 girls you need to have status and looks. To have sex with 50 guys you need to spread your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:49 AM
1

Why is it not changing? Because you said so? Men who are finding success in their 30s are not wanting to be "settled for" by some girl that has ridden a bunch of dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:45 AM
1

If you live in a big city, this is not that high. But the same concept. Women get more romantic opportunities and experiences than men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:44 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:43 AM
1

Yeah but if I am a guy with bad "dick and sperm" then I don't want a woman that is going to give me retarded children The dick and sperm and hair thing might be the guys you date anyhow not all men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:43 AM
23

You must not know many doctors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:40 AM
2

Having sex? Of course not. ​ Having sex with many partners? Yes. ​ They lose their ability to pair bond
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:31 AM
3

Who cares? There's a reason why men find it disgusting. It's a biological sense of disgust. You can compare it to a guy that you are dating who went and saw 100 prostitutes before you met him. How would that make you feel? That is how men feel about promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:30 AM
2

Even when I was not in shape, the quality of girls I am able to get has increased every year. I don't know why. When I lost weight and got into shape, it went up a crazy amount. Most of the girls I'm dating now are average early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:28 AM
2

Yes but then they should work on themselves so they don't have to settle for damaged goods
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:27 AM
2

You don't care about aging because you're not a man. You are also talking about the average guy. Attractive men look attractive well into their 30s and 40s. Those are the guys we are talking about because they can date women in their best years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:26 AM
1

We are talking about the general rules and not the exceptions so I don't know what you're getting at with your anecdote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:25 AM
1

When is that data from? Is it from after the age of Tinder? Why would any man be jealous of a woman getting easy sex? That is a worthless accomplishment in a women because they just have to spread their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:24 AM
1

If you couldn't tell, the norms are changing and have been changing for years. It wasn't normal for men to have casual sex with dozens of men they found on an app. It wasn't normal for people to not get married. It wasn't normal for women in their 30s who aren't married to struggle finding a partner. Guess what? You're in the right subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:22 AM
2

Maybe the men you attract age poorly. Maybe the men who age well aren't attracted to you because they can get younger women at their peak too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:19 AM
0

The amount of sex for a man that approximates a woman with 50-100 bodies would have to be a high-status man. But you are missing the point. A lot of men don't have as much experience as women their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:17 AM
1

The young guy will sleep with her because he knows he can hit and quit. Women for a relationship want guys their age or older. Are you disputing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:16 AM
0

I don't think it has to do with age. There's a lot of people in their 30s that are annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:14 AM
4

A 30 year old woman is not attracted to guys younger than her for a relationship. Stop acting like she is choosing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:12 AM
1

1/3 of men between 18-30 has not had sex in the last one year. For a man to have a high body count compared to a woman: An athlete would be equivalent to the average woman on app dating. ​ Especially if a guy has limited experience in dating, why would he want someone elses used goods?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:11 AM
2

I don't want women with high N counts. If they feel insecure thats their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:05 AM
3

I don't think you understand what "standards" means I have standards that my girlfriend not open her legs for everyone who asks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:04 AM
2

This is wrong. I get 10 times the amount of attention now than I did in my early 20s. I have only started to get into amazing shape in the last one year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:02 AM
1

This is the kind of thing that women past their prime say to guys. They dont realize that guys peak later if they work on themselves and stay fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:01 AM
0

How is there a maturity difference? Should a man with 2 or 3 girlfriends by the age of 30 date a promiscuous woman who has had 50 dicks in her? The average man has as much dating experience at 30 as a woman has at 20
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:00 AM
-1

Women find signs of aging attractive in men. But only if you are also fit and take care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:59 PM
-3

Men peak in their 30s whereas women peak at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:59 PM
2

Not wanting them doesn't mean wanting them to be insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:57 PM
2

You don't like men having standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:56 PM
2

Girls with low-N count have less mental illnesses and baggage. Pair bonding is also a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:54 PM
-3

This is dumb. Talking to women is different than talking to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:11 PM
1

We don't hate them. We don't want to wife them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:14 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with him. He has standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:13 PM
2

OP said he is terrified of ending up with a high N count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:12 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter