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I really like the sharp look. I suspect i should glam up a bit more in my photos to match.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 02:51 PM
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I kind of agree with you, when men asked to point out the natural look they just point to women wearing more subtle make up. They are pretty clueless. But when those women take off thier "subtle" make up, aren't the men disappointed? This is what worries me. I don't want a want a man to wake up next to me disappointed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 11:59 PM
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Oh I won't be dating him. That was way too offensive a way to start a conversation. It just got me thinking about what men want to see, especially in profiles.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 07:39 PM
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I think there are just not a whole lot of the men I want to begin with: educated but not liberal, handsome, assertive, not badly off financially, adventurous, worldly, intelligent etc. There are even fewer in my area, a small city surrounded by lots of rural area. The men I vibe with tend to be "sapio-sexuals." They love the way my mind works. So I bring that to the table. In addition to charismatic and passionate personality, and many physical attributes men find attractive. I can improve on so…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 09:05 PM
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I don't know how to respond that won't get me downvoted into hell. But the crux of the story is that I have always had lots of options when it came to men, and it hasn't really changed much as I got older (i look very youthful). I know that i am difficult and demanding. However there are lots of men lining up to meet those demands. They are not always exactly the men I want though. I also tend to be the sort to see all the flaws -- a very unfortunate trait, I know, I know. As to what I bring to …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 08:14 PM
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Yeah, it's very tricky. I have a lot of trauma over sexual exploitation from when I was very young and a lot of shame about the stuff I like as well. Also, I attach insanely fast when I have sex so it's a pretty dangerous thing for me. With that said, I also have a lot of sexual desire and would have a very active sex life with the right man. It's hard to signal that I am sex positive without also signaling that sex is a casual thing for me, so I just shut it down completely. I honestly would no…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 04:43 PM
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I wonder how common experiences like yours are regarding early sex talk and relationships. Men decide that they want a relationship after they have sex with you (generally speaking). I don't think any of them can truly know that until post nut clarity sets in. I can definitely say that no man has ever left me due to post-nut clarity, but I tend to only have sex with men I know pretty well. Also, there is the opposite experience for most women and some men as well. Sex releases bonding chemicals …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 03:38 PM
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This case may have been minor, I am not sure. Usually men saying something sexual during the texting phase is not minor. They known what they are doing at my age (30s). They are willing to make me uncomfortable because they are either ok pushing sexual boundaries, are only interested in sex, or expect sex upfront -- all of which are deal-breakers for me. Whenever I have let a sexual comment go, it has always led to more disrespectful behavior, and I ended up blocking anyway. Men who really like …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 01:21 PM
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I think it's hard to say because I wasn't there and people who advocate for change of any sort always lie and exaggerate to make things look a lot worse/better than they were.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 04:43 PM
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I would say the former. Man is head of household and some BDSM in the bedroom.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 02:37 PM
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This is just the case of many people, including many people today, who stay married that long.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 02:09 PM
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I always do this with men who mention sex before we meet. I think it's the correct thing to do 99% of the time. This is the only time I am unsure about. Typically if you let stuff like that go, you get worse misbehavior soon after and those types of men only want sex from you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 02:04 PM
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Thanks for the insight. I would love to hear your further thoughts.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 02:00 PM
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It's not just about sexual dynamics but relationships dynamics as a whole.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/25 01:45 AM
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Most red pill men are REALLY out there. I prefer to avoid them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 10:17 PM
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Yup I look for all that and try to be feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 10:03 PM
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I mean, sometimes I encounter the right kind of men but usually I don't. I am just wondering it there is a better way to go about it. I wonder how others have done it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 10:00 PM
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A few years.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:55 PM
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I just feel like it will attract misguided red pill men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:54 PM
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Male led without being toxic alone would be great at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:48 PM
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I am not open to non-Western cultures. I would really lile to stick to my own. I let the man take the lead in all communication and have them plan all the dates. I take zero initiative in the beginning. I also have them pay for everything in the beginning.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:25 PM
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I am still not really following, what is the assumption?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:20 PM
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I mean I want it to be male-led but I can't say that without attracting the wrong people. Good sex is just what happens when it's male led.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:09 PM
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Sigh I wish it was not the case, because so many of them are really great but I have a very active mind and I need a man to match that and I need him to be at least as knowledgeable as me about the things that I care about.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:07 PM
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Yeah it's a bit tricky because I am not compatible with working class men. I am drawn to to educated, white collar men. They tend to be liberal of course but filter those out. I try to stay in my feminine energy...
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:57 PM
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I an not following, sorry
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:50 PM
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That is bound to attract the perverts
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:47 PM
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I know! But how to go about doing that without talking about it in my profile or early texting? Doing so really attracts the wring people :-(
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:45 PM
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I definitely do not discount them but we never end up getting past the texting stage.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:41 PM
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So tell me how you dated religious men when you were not religious? Did they not mind? Were they trying to convert you? Did you go to church?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:29 PM
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Ugh that's what I am afraid of. Our conversation otherwise has substance. But this was the second time he brought up something sexual. I told him that I was going into the shower the day before and then texted him rigjt after and he said "that was quick" and I was like no it wasn't, how long are your showers? And he said "it depends what I am doing in there, and how long the clean up is." It gave me pause but I just said lol, because it was a natural part of the conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 08:19 PM
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Can i just ask, did you guys explicitly discuss this dynamic on like the first or second date or did you grow into it naturally. I am very wary of mentioning any of my BDSM desires because I don't want to attact perverts or people who just want casual stuff. I would much prefer to slowly grow into it but I am not sure how realistic that is.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 05:49 PM
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Most women really don't want to fuck strangers. Your "limiting" beliefs are more or less correct because women aren't wired for casual sex.
/r/seduction09/07/25 01:38 AM
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No if a a guy approaches you, or consistently messages you on the apps you already know that he likes you enough to take a risk and make an effort. If he continues to make an effort and you don't jump in bed with him right away but observe if he is really interested in you as a person, you can easily filter out the men who only want sex.
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:39 PM
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Men have no idea how dating works for women. First of all, she will never find a relationship-worthy man at a bar. She can find one in activity groups or on the apps. Second of all, the men in those contexts who make an effort show her that they like her. Most men will fuck anything and if a woman approaches them, they will gladly sleep with her, and many will lie and lead her on just to dump her. By not approaching men, she filters a lot of these men out. I have never once had a good experience…
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:17 PM
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I think OP would know if she were so beautiful that men are afraid to approach her. She is probably average. No need for her be taking hits like that to her self-esteem when she can just use the apps.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:32 PM
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Just do the apps then.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:11 PM
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Don't approach men. If they like you and are available, they will approach you.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:07 PM
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Hsbs
/r/seduction14/06/25 11:07 PM
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I think a lot of women are afraid of sexual exploitation and want to build up emotional intimacy first. Many women want to make sure that the guy likes them for them and not just for thier bodies. This fear is most prominent when using dating apps since men are the most likely to misbehave. So it's not so much about making her feel special every time but making her feel special at all vs. random hoe he cares nothing about.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 11:14 PM
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That seems to be as long as most men are willing to wait in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 10:43 PM
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It would have been impossible to ghost your sisters friend. In that situation a man is under pressure to behave well else everyone will find out and there will be no end to shit he gets for it. I think that this is a much safer scenario than online dating.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 09:49 PM
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I didn't understand what it meant in that context
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 09:47 PM
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I think it usually guarantees that he likes you as person and isn't just there for the sex.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 07:52 PM
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What is a Trojan horse?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 07:48 PM
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That's a great point. It's very hard to filter out the fuck bois without waiting somewhat when you meet men online. Did you and your guy at least discuss your relationship intentions? Like did you tell him that you want a relationship or did you just say nothing and went with the flow?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 07:48 PM
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There is no delusional of grandeur. I am just explaining why waiting for sex allows women to vet men. People are very easy to read if you spend enough time with them.
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:13 PM
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This is where women's ability to vet men comes in. Wome n tend to to be very intuitive. I personally find it very easy to pick up on a guy's real feelings for me. Definitely people in long term love/hate relationships tend to be what you describe but that's toxic and I bet the woman is venting the same way to her friends. I don't stay in those and it has been obvious to me in the past when I was in one of those. There are many signs. Most people are horrible actors and show their true feelings i…
/r/seduction12/06/25 06:03 PM
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I am always very clear on my intentions and have that talk on the first date if I like a guy. I also have it under relationship goals on my dating profile. However it is super common for men to lie about this.
/r/seduction12/06/25 05:53 PM
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From my experience as a woman, it weeds men out who are only after sex. So it absolutely makes it more likely that a man will commit to you. Generally, men who are willing to wait, like you a lot as a person. It also gives you a chance to see red flags and see if you actually connect on an emotional level before sex floods your brain with bonding chemicals and blinds you to incompatibility and red flags. I bet u/Connorrr5 would not have waited for his situationship and it really protects women w…
/r/seduction12/06/25 05:16 PM
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