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The strange myth that trp replays is that marriage is beneficial to a family having kids. Except it really doesn't do that much.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 05:43 PM
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The question I would ask, and I would tell my friends to ask, is, "how will this benefit me?" For me, marriage doesn't provide any benefits. The meager tax breaks are overshadowed by the cost of divorce, even when weighted as just a probability. Sure, if you both make the same amount of money, then there isn't a cost of upkeep in case of divorce. However, there still isn't really a driving reason for me to be getting married. Marriage just doesn't have very many benefits above an equal, monogamo…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 05:39 PM
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I generally thought the where's x, or what time is it lines were stupid. However after a night of drinking my friends would go up to people asking where the nearest taco bell is. These people clearly didn't want to talk to us, they were unfriendly, and looked unapproachable. But we ignored that. The good part is what you do after. We'd walk in the direction they pointed then come back and say we couldn't find it (at which point they looked even more mad and unapproachable). Good for losing anxie…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 07:14 PM
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Those are IOIs whether the intention is social or romantic. As long as it's not a coworker it's an invitation for you to ask them out. If it's a coworker then it's an invitation for you to get fired for sexual harassment. There's nothing to decipher at this point, you're overthinking. If a girl is touching you, she's giving an IOI. This is why I prefer to just approach anyone I'm interested in regardless of IOIs (but if I'm given IOIs, I will usually approach 100% of the time to see the reason a…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 12:12 AM
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"I'm tired" was my first line and works so well I didn't bother to change it
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:25 PM
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Trp is going to be majority against open relationships. The question is kind of why do you need to define her as a girlfriend in this case. Also whether you're getting an even deal (same amount of partners).
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:24 PM
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I have some communication issues here and there, but ultimately none of the traits in your post are real issues.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:16 PM
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As the other poster stated it's about looks. Trp is not pua but rather building a solid foundation so that silly text game isn't needed
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:13 PM
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Most will be a waste of time in my opinion. The main thing is to just get to planning the meet up in person. Any other texts are just decreasing your odds as she texts other people. Asking what they are looking for is pointless, complimenting is pointless, just get to the meet up.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:35 PM
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I don't think this was a bad example but if you are putting lessons learned you need to have some good and some bad. It's not about just patting yourself on the back. True we don't know what conversation she had with her friends, but after 9 asks I know you were not her priority. I would personally never put off an attractive girl who asked me out 9 times, there wouldn't be a point unless I was genuinely uninterested.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:01 PM
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This is a one time thing so it's not a plate yet, first of all. Asking someone on a date 9 times is extreme level cringe. If you don't see that then you can't be helped. I can easily imagine a girl talking to her friends: "He asked me out 9 times and still didn't get the message. I kind of pitied him so went out to get some free entertainment." Feeling good about that? If a girl is at all interested she would never have put you off that long and would have sincerely, not out of pity, given you a…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 08:52 PM
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There are some posts here which suggest the dark triad of personality disorders is attractive to a lot of women. One of the three is psychopathy, in which a person can decide not to feel empathy. I haven't seen the topic show up in a while. This is of course just one type that is seen as attractive. The general rule of not showing vulnerability is to avoid the newcomer pitfalls just like many other themes. Beta kids just coming in might confuse it with the ability to complain to your girlfriend …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 07:10 PM
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I agree but on a different level. You don't go somewhere to pursue women, you're always doing that. Everywhere. Should be natural
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 06:28 PM
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If I'm lifting I have very little time to be depressed. If people just spent their entire afternoon after work doing it, and go to bed, what room is there? My weekends would be mostly socializing and sleeping but hey, nothing wrong with doing what you like.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 03:43 PM
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Easiest way to not let them do something you don't like is to next them. Just my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 02:04 PM
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Once you meet a girl who is very much into you, you will definitely not waste effort on any more who aren't. Of course, use the opportunities presented to you to game girls, but don't waste to much effort on ones who aren't chasing you to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:55 PM
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I'd rather have my girl cheat on me with a friend in broad daylight than behind my back. The deception you see isn't what scares people, it's what you don't see.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:36 PM
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Good point but the guy was obviously retarded to get upset that the girl was doing exactly what she said she'd do. I mean, how often does that even happen? If it was a problem for him to wait a year he should have moved along.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:33 PM
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In my experience women do not at all like rejection and refusing sex is the highest form of rejection you can give. Doing so is going to weed out a lot of people and I'm not sure who will be left. Your other points are spot on though. I if you only give them a little to start with and gradually reward them with more then you will get a nice long honeymoon period, because you didn't dump all your cards on the table the first night. This still requires some patience on their part and you will weed…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 06:44 AM
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If a girl has been on 3 dates with you and has no interest in sex then it's time to question why she's sticking around at all.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 06:39 AM
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I know plenty of girls who are like this. I actually find it funny and a good lesson for the guys but my girlfriend is the one who actually thinks it's wrong to lead them on. Yea, they're being lead on. However they should learn their lesson at some point. Did they specify when asking the girl out, "this is a date"? Did they even attempt to escalate? Did they even try to see if the girl had any attraction to them? If they did any of these things and followed a few trp points they would weed out …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:53 PM
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Starting out, which this guy is obviously doing, dates are a good way to warm up to trp ideas. They should not cost more than $0 and your time though if you want to budget. If he can't get through dates correctly it's a question mark if he can be the guy who just invites them over.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:38 PM
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It depends on how things are done when buying the food, drink, whatever. For the newcomers to trp who don't read the sidebar and don't know basic social interaction, they are better off not buying the girl stuff on the date. Less likely to fuck up. Any feminist girl I went on a date with pretty much equated buying the girl stuff on dates to prostitution so that's one perspective. Other girls I've talked to (not dated!! Hint!!) say when the guy buys a drink it shows he really cares and is interes…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:36 PM
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If the breakup was mutual then her reason doesn't really matter. You wanted out too. While you can shower someone with low self esteem with compliments, self image for many people is based on their own perception of themselves. Look at eating disorders for example, where no matter how good people say they look, what the mirror shows them is ugly. Compliments are a reward in my opinion. They reinforce good behavior. Not a tool to fix someone's psychological issues (a counselor is better suited). …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 10:12 PM
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Yep cheaters have a long list of excuses so as to never feel guilt and get the moral high ground to turn their wrong into a right (unless they are already a psychopath). The reality is, there's people who don't cheat. They have a line in their mind they won't cross. Then there's people who cheat. That's a simple as it gets in my understanding. Trp says awalt. That is, always assume a girl will be the cheater. Nothing you do is going to stop a girl from cheating. Insecurities about this will sure…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 10:06 PM
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Trp would not call that a friend. That's a plate. I don't have sex with my friends personally... To me a friend is someone I would do a lot for without expecting anything in return. They have done a lot for me and were there for me when I needed them most. And I can reasonably expect that I'm their priority. The thing about female friends is if Chad enters her life, you should no longer be her priority. If you are, then he's probably not Chad.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 09:04 PM
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In my research the dexa scan is the best way to tell actual body fat percentage, as long as you use it both times for comparison with similar hydration.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 02:00 AM
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Most Chads I know actually have very weak frame. I found this strange at first.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 01:49 AM
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Just push for the date next time. Texting will usually be a waste of time in comparison to dates.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:07 AM
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To be clear this is an example of not holding frame and the girl saying I love you after fucking up is emotional manipulation 101. Hope op wakes up before he gets cucked further.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 09:28 PM
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I agree. The answer is somewhere in between what the replies here say. However, a girl who respects you will not be doing this shit with random strangers. There's absolutely no shame in just walking away rather than trying to dread or work your way out of this situation.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 09:26 PM
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When weight lifting every day, I need at least 8 to recover ok, but more is better.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:04 AM
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Yea maybe it's just the tone of voice but he's definitely coming off as in her frame. And the lack of initiative in planning the date for example, "when are you free" instead of "see you at 8." Op is giving too much credit. The guy did ok but there's room for improvement.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 10:55 PM
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Well I'm not saying friendships are easy to make. I'm also not saying you need friends to get a girl. Just that, close friends are a good sign you have decent social skills. In addition, close friends would be there for you when a girl would not. There's been times a girl left but I wasn't lonely as I had guy friends to talk to. These items are covered in sidebar reading of course.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:24 AM
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Ask for a phone number instead of Snapchat first of all. Snapchat is just a orbiter validation machine. If you have the phone number then they might be interested in meeting. As others said, and is always always repeated on here, don't give vague date plans. Always take initiative and be specific. Last, caring about whether stuff is on read is pointless, you should be talking to other girls to gauge interest before worrying about one who really didn't say much at all to show interest. Start usin…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:28 AM
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I think this works fine. Take note of how you act when drunk, and do the same. Alcohol is a crutch, generally.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:25 AM
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KSM66 Zinc Theanine Vitamin D Vitamin K Need to Add Magnesium for this trio. Finasteride Allergy Medicine Lots of Caffeine.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:23 AM
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I also had this fear, to a degree, and then among my circle of friends my reputation took a great hit. They would not say the things they were gossiping about to my face. However one of the girls in the circle didn't mind the gossip, and in fact wanted to date me in order to form her own opinion. As other posters say, if girls are talking about you, it's better than them not - you not existing on anyone's radar. There is such a thing as free advertisement, and bad publicity being useful. To be c…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:10 AM
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If someone asked me to get married, I would straight up ask them the pros and cons of doing so. Then you can decide for whatever "specific situation" you may have. There are no unicorns with no red flags. Most people getting married think their significant other wouldn't divorce them but for some reason they end up being very wrong. As long as you have pros, which would be beneficial to you, and you weigh against the cons, like divorce and what it would cost you, then it's your choice. If the pe…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:00 AM
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Validation is validating their feelings. They want to know if they did good, so they seek other people to affirm that fact. In a relationship with a girl, you want to give validation if they did something genuinely good for you (positive reinforcement).
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:57 AM
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I think asking for a date is reasonable. It puts it on the table they are interested, but want to know you better. (One of the most) common mistakes on this sub is lack of initiative in date planning. You must tell them a location, date, and time, and see what they respond. Whatever else you have been texting is not as straightforward. If they say yes, you're good - plan out the first, second, third activities you might like to do. If they say they are busy at that time - give them the option to…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:55 AM
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This got me as well.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:47 AM
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Have you considered you might be viewing your success with women as a validation tool? What your post doesn't address is whether you have a close group of friends. You need to be socially aware if you want relationships to work. You said you are lonely, but a close group of friends would not make that out to be the case.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:46 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with monogamy, even for the rest of your life. Some people are better wired for it. That said, you always go with the ideal that it's just your turn - relationships are not likely to last forever. You don't have any obligation to get married to pursue a monogamous relationship. A marriage might extend a relationship a few years if the girl would just break up if you don't get married - but in that case there's not really a point to getting married at all. Mar…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:42 AM
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A solid rejection to me is absolutely 10x better than a meh approval.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 10:43 PM
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Girls say this all the time. About any situation. Bar, club, work, school. However if it's a guy they like, conveniently they liked being asked out by him.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 10:41 PM
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I have taken it for one year. The first physician said I didn't really need it, and that there would be the potential for very harmful side effects. I did my research beforehand on these side effects, and I advise anyone considering this to do research as well. I said I was aware of the side effects and was ok with using it. The second physician I consulted for a refill said I didn't really need it, but since I don't experience harmful side effects, there's no problem continuing. Not needing the…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 04:25 PM
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A lot of generalizations like this are made in this sub, a lot of exaggerations, but at the end of the day for good reason. Not all women cheat, there are some people out there who have morals that they will refuse to throw out. They do exist, but you probably won't find them. People who get cheated on often thought they found a faithful partner. The point in awalt and "all" being used in this forum, in my opinion, is to stop people seeking out unicorns, and getting burned when they realize they…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 04:19 PM
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It is finasteride and it had the most research supporting it as effective treatment. Taking it myself my hair looks fine.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 08:00 PM
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Pointing out a few things regarding medicine. Finasteride is avoided in the op, because it affects dht levels and therefore risks side effects. However finasteride is scientifically proven to be more effective than any of the remedies in the op. It prevents balding, to different effectiveness in different people, but usually pretty well. DHT is not the same thing as testosterone, and finasteride doesn't generally affect testosterone (it may raise slightly as less is able to convert to DHT). Lowe…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 09:29 PM
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That was a popular hairstyle back then though. Looking back in 30 years we might look as silly.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 09:26 PM
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Hair transplants should be supplemented with finasteride to prevent spots. It's unavoidable for effective treatment.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 09:22 PM
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I agree with the k2 but why magnesium?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:23 AM
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When my ltr found out I follow this forum it was like 8/10 dread, the important thing though is I wasn't the one telling her. Pretty much any friend I discuss it with considers it over analyzing. They are right, for the average guy who just gets it, it's not needed. However a few friends have found a few things useful. Implying that they could use the analysis /improvements offered is seen as patronizing by the majority of my friends even if they get the ideas. No point.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 12:46 AM
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I tell my friends this type of stuff upfront, in private, but they don't do the same to me. I'm not sure if it's or if being nice and polite, or avoiding confrontation, or just trying to hold it over me. It is a problem which I'm finding annoying.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 05:43 AM
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True. But constant exercise which is the baseline for trp fixes most hormone issues, and I personally belive social skills and behavior can be learned (but generally faked or acted out in the learning phases).
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 05:40 AM
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Many people use introversion as an excuse to not socialize. I did this. It was not helpful but what I did realize is that it's very easy to make friends with introverts or people with that same attitude. However the actual technical definition of introvert probably varies from this. It is noted as a often misused word - people can be quiet, asocial, antisocial, in their head and not be introverts. I think it likely requires some level of a psychological evaluation to determine if a person is tru…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 02:58 AM
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Well if you're doing well for yourself then more power to you. Do as you like. I think the majority of people who come to the board are here because they are or were not doing well. Those are the people being spoken to when told to lift, find hobbies, stop smoking and drinking, and socialize. And inevitably those same people are posting to asktrp "what am i doing wrong" when it's obvious they don't have the baseline redpill tenets covered. So the audience of posts gets often gets assumed as peop…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 10:41 PM
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Stem cell therapy is still pretty new though. Up to you if it's not that expensive to not worry about needing another transplant (7k usd is pretty cheap anyway, I agree). I do Propecia for peace of mind since it's super cheap.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 06:18 PM
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Hey I recommend getting on Propecia if you want it to last long /save money.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:06 PM
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Most social people are nice. The issue is that if people compliment you as being nice it means you literally have nothing else going for you. Keep being nice, but don't be asexual.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:53 PM
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I went to one of these and could have made a killing but just ended up with one of the average ones. Its definitely worth your time.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:37 PM
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Yea in short the guy spends hours of his time doing this. That alone is a joke. What do these girls think of how busy he is, who he's taking to, when he can spend hours fucking around in his phone
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 04:33 PM
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Maybe the posters are referring to open career fairs. In my experience at college student only fairs they are looking to directly interview people on the spot and they are excellent for finding job offers.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 12:15 AM
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If she was that distant (disrespectful) then it was your job to abruptly exit the date without offering a ride. In addition it sounds like you were not leading this date. But that is not relevant to the point that you needed to leave.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 10:12 PM
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I agree on this point, and this is why I tell my friends going to the gym is a pre requisite to dating. In reality it's a prerequisite to life. If they've been going a couple weeks they won't have changed physically. But mentally, I think most people see a massive confidence and positive attitude increase. I did anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 10:08 PM
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Point of this post? If you were on date 4 how did the 3rd date go? Scheduling dates off tinder is not an accomplishment.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 01:28 AM
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If this bs is getting to you, you need to block all ability for them to contact you. It is ok to keep someone around if their stuff amuses you but it's obvious they are getting to you.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:10 PM
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This girl is not the right one? Reasons? She is a coworker. Besides the obvious fail of risking your job, you are openly stating: "I have no social life and no options outside of work." If you give a fuck about your career this is a hard NO. You have oneitis. If you did get into a relationship, it is blatantly obvious it would have been one sided, and you would have behaved in ways that would have ended it. If you have oneitis it is impossible not to act irrationally. You were friends. While the…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:03 PM
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Usually this is not a legitimate excuse. I have seen girls dgaf when their roommate is in the same room. You might find one or two who are self conscious but girls know what's up with each other, it's not something that gets hidden unless they live alone.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 05:48 AM
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I don't think any mistakes were made. If a girl invited you to a date Saturday at 8, you would have went. Why would you cancel? Not interested to begin with or found better plans. Nothing to do with stupid texting. And on that note if you were interested but couldn't make it, you sure as hell wouldn't no show with no explanation. Next disrespectful, uninterested people and you'll waste less time weeding out in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 01:23 AM
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Exactly. If you are the prize she will do everything in her power not to lose you. If you're seeing signs that you should control her the odds are you've already lost. I find it telling when people overstate the need to soft next. If you're doing this and that just to get her to play by the rules she probably doesn't care, and you probably don't feel like you can easily away at the drop of a hat.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 10:35 PM
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Yea the dinner was not necessary for the first meetup. Nice
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:39 AM
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Not wanting aids isn't beta
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 07:34 AM
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No need to change plans, you're over thinking. The introduction to another girl thing I think you failed on. You should have said let's go talk to her. It sounds like she is pretty sure about you but wants you to prove it by escalating. Be sure to sit next to her at dinner escalating there and then more at the dance.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:27 PM
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No, it's not being a terrible person. Here's an exercise. Think of her as a guy you just met. Do you need to invite them to every thing you do? Probably not, you just met this person and want to see how things go,if you share interests, maybe you could be friends. The first date is better if 1 on 1 anyway. It builds tension between you. This friend who said she had a boyfriend, was it a girl? Just telling you now if she accepted a date to go dancing she probably doesn't have a boyfriend (or well…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:28 PM
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Yea what beta cuck shit is this? Guy gets denied, and brags that his 6 month girlfriend is allowing him to play pool with her? Also if she's saying she never has sex there, it means she probably does just not with betas... Why else even say that?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 07:24 AM
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This is exactly a point I wanted to share with this sub. Way better to be knowledgeable than fearmongering something op is probably going to get from kissing anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 06:23 AM
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Hsv-2 is different because it is usually genital herpes. Hsv-2 is statistically rarer (1 in 5 females), but easier to spread (condoms only reducing transmission by around 30%). It's less common in men. But, this is the big part, hsv-2 carriers often do not know they have it by up to 75%. Its just harder to get hsv-1 genitally because many already have it on the face, preventing it elsewhere, or the virus just cares better on the mouth statistically. I think the fact that carrying hsv-1 antibodie…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 06:13 AM
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Shit test passed. I do find a lot of people with this issue. Next step up is brushing their teeth.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:56 PM
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Agreed but the age adjusted number is closer to 50%. I cringe when doctors throw out higher numbers without reading the statistics. Hsv-1 is harmless because it's common and has no stigma. That is, when is on the lips. That does not mean you want it on your d. You have it on your lips, you have protection against it anywhere else. You don't have it, you are at risk for genital hsv-1.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:44 PM
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No there is just no evidence scientifically proving it. There was no disproof. It removes plaque, that's good enough evidence.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:16 PM
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The premise of your post is correct, but I think you have a misunderstanding of cold sores (usually hsv-1). First of all, in the U.S., it would be safe to assume about 50% of people have it. Secondly, the person you are kissing probably won't disclose it. See where this is going? The odds are you are going to get it. Imo, better to get it on the lips. At that point you will have antibodies to it and will pretty much not be able to get it anywhere else, (autoinnoculation). Read the statistics on …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:04 PM
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