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Ha! Its always “out of the blue” Its infuriating when men deny that problems exist. I dated someone who never had anything to say about anything. So when an issue came up, it became only my issue- meaning he was absolved from tending to it. Still have to shake it off when I remember how overwhelmingly angry this used to make me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:02 AM
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He’s 28 years old 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:22 PM
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“I’m aware of my issues and I still choose not to improve! Here’s a meme to further exemplify my emotional immaturity.” -my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:38 PM
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Exactly. One time I was trying to tell him that he needs to be more aware of when I need attention and affection. He literally said “I know when you need attention, it’s whenever your eyes are open.” Apparent some undivided attention is hard to come by in his idea of what a relationship is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:31 PM
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Right? I thought he was completely oblivious to the issue, but apparently he’s self aware. It’s just that he CHOOSES not to communicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 08:04 PM
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You have no idea. He thinks he’s a meme connoisseur
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:31 PM
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I’ve been no contact with my ex for about a month now. This picture does nothing but highlight his inability to express emotion. He lacked empathy towards me and others, he was completely unable to initiate conversation to fix any problem he caused, and never once just plainly told me how he felt about me. It was all this cryptic game where I was supposed to assume he loved me by the way he sat on the couch for hours playing words with friends as our “quality time.” I have no doubts there is som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:30 PM
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Oof. Sorry about that. Just shows it was all about the chase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:50 AM
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Wow, spot on. I’d was silently furious about how much he would perk up around his friends. Suddenly he was talkative and interesting, while I got his monotone and boring self back at home. Men like to think they don’t have to try anymore the second you take on that girlfriend role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:11 AM
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Jesus Christ, I feel that. I hadn’t seen him in 2 weeks and one night we went out for a few drinks. We got home and he immediately sat on his phone for hours. I asked him to spend some time with me, watch a movie with me, something. But “we just spend the whole night together”. I didn’t drop it so he fucking drove me home. Let’s learn from these catastrophes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:36 PM
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This completely validated everything I felt with my recent ex. He always praised me for giving him his “space” but in reality he spent 70% of his time during our week in quarantine together on his phone, completely glazed over. I’d come home from work and he’d immediately go outside to smoke/talk on the phone. I’d have to ask questions twice because he was so dissociated from reality and unable to be present in the moment. Fuck all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:21 PM
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Oh my god. I dated a similar guy, except he had flat out told me beforehand that he wouldn’t be as attracted to me if I cut my hair. So of course I put it off. I joined this sub almost solely because of him after that ended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:27 AM
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I’m so glad you made this post because this is what I struggle with in regards to finding an HVM that I actually have a connection with. I don’t make connections easily, so when I actually click with someone, I go all in before I’m even able to find out what kind of man they are. And then sometimes I meet someone wonderful, and but it feels blah and boring. Attempting to implement this mindset is a tough process, and I’m definitely not there yet. It takes a lot of belief that there is a perfect …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:04 AM
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What he said about water next to the bed made tears roll from my eyes. Such a sweet and simple gesture to show that he not only supports her in major ways, but also little ones that just make life more convenient for her. My heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:23 AM
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This goes beyond whether he’s HVM or not. Connection is important. If you have to force it, it ain’t for you. I’ve been in the same situation and it’s tough to leave when you feel like they have a lot to offer, but the spark is gone. Leave him behind and find someone who is a HVM from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:45 PM
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The backtracking is hilariously pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:14 AM
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I’m so sorry. And I really didn’t even date him for long. I feel brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 05:35 AM
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It’s difficult to give myself credit when I fully expected and wanted to hear from him after that day. I didn’t message him for the purpose of giving him space after a night of drunken hysteria, but neither of us have contacted the other since. I can’t help but think that if I didn’t drink that night then things would be fine, but deep down I know that couldn’t be further from the truth. The spiral of manipulation and breaking down of my identity would’ve continued. He was 8 years older than me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 05:33 AM
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But you don’t need to click on it to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 02:46 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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