no_bullshit_thx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Gaming a coworker Be bold, go for it :)	/r/seduction	29/11/12 10:51 PM
2	#-closed with a girl on saturday, she now says she has a bf, but still wants to go to coffee "if that doesnt change anything" Listen to this guy - saved me the bother of writing too much - if you think that is her saying she isn't down for sex you are totally wrong. She isn't down for a relationship though - most likely - so don't hold back or have any fear of escalation. I'd read that as a big "Come get me" sign - its like when a chick says she'll come back to mine but "nothing is going to happen".... hahaha	/r/seduction	27/11/12 03:24 PM
1	Gaming a coworker I'd play it cool and if you see her and start chatting ask what she is doing at the weekend (or rather, "are you going out this weekend?" the implication is then what is she doing in the evenings, who cares if she's going to get her hair done...) - since its going to be Thursday that is a very natural question. Don't volunteer what you are doing yet, wait to see what she says: "I'm going to X with Y and Z" - If its somewhere you go, tell her your going there and you should meet up. Naturally lea…	/r/seduction	27/11/12 03:17 PM
2	Are a strong reality and a strong sense of identity the same thing? And how does one develop these traits? Find and overcome challenges, particularly anything that makes you especially anxious. Approach anxiety is an obvious one - face it head on and destroy it. Basically, become more aware of your internal state. When you sense a fear or anxiety, tackle it. Don't suppress it, don't rationalise it, figure out what is causing it, grab that thing by the scruff of the neck and wrestle it in to submission. Conquer these fears head on, and then the outside world will not seem as intimidating. You will rea…	/r/seduction	26/11/12 04:45 PM
2	Gaming a coworker Gaming co-workers is not a good idea, only proceed if: - You work in different departments (i.e. you can avoid her) - You don't mind leaving your job (if shit goes down, mostly the guy gets the shit) If you are cool with this then I'll tell you how I go about things: Firstly - you can't be overtly sexual / direct in a place of work, it is not worth the risk (abundance anyone?) but if there is a hottie you want to have a crack at then you need to firstly play it cool in the office / work place. B…	/r/seduction	26/11/12 04:38 PM
1	I can engage and manage a long conversation but am clueless and get nervous about making a move. 'Making a move' is probably not the right way to go - it sounds like going from a place of 0 sexuality to lots of sexuality like going from 0 to 60mph. You just need to develop a naturally physical flirtatiousness... when I talk to a chick I like I generally naturally give her more / stronger eye contact and when I ask a question I will touch her on the arm, on the shoulder, on the back, so that she knows the question is for her. Think of it as a natural, physical, question mark. Become comforta…	/r/seduction	26/11/12 04:22 PM
0	What adjustments can be made to direct game at parties where you plan to see the girls again frequently for a long time? I very much doubt you are surrounded by 100 other alphas - you are surrounded by 100 other testosterone driven teenagers with no emotional maturity whatsoever. Being alpha is being yourself (actually YOURSELF and not what everyone around you is projecting on you to be), doing what you want and accepting the consequences - not the dick-waving contest supposedly 'macho' men divulge in when trying to one-up each other in pathetic displays of masculinity. While that is going on, the actual alphas on…	/r/seduction	23/11/12 09:28 PM
2	Cold Approaches Sounds good to me but I think tonality is key to make it feel 'right'. "Hi <pause, eye contact, smile> my name is X, pleased to meet you" etc. You can improve it by saying "Hey <pause> I noticed how cute you are and couldn't help myself but come and say hello." Or some variation - basically however you talk is the way you should deliver it, i.e. whatever language you use, more slang if you are less formal normally - just don't go in all cool and "good even ladies" and next sentence revert to "su…	/r/seduction	23/11/12 09:18 PM