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In love with someone after a handful of dates? C'mon, give me some credit :)
/r/seduction26/03/12 11:31 PM
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Yes and no. I know you're not saying it applies to everyone who suffers oneitis but I can relate to OP here in a sense. I'm still dealing with a case of it myself although I'm far more in control of the situation and just today I regained the upper hand. Where it will lead I can't say. 2 weeks ago a bunch of my housemate's friends were over so we had drinks and whatnot. I found one of them attractive and decided to test out my pickup skills - F close. The next morning I woke up next to her, she …
/r/seduction26/03/12 01:40 PM
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lol thats a good point actually. Thanks :) To be honest I don't really even know what I want. I guess its more of a case of not really caring what comes of it. All I know for sure is that I am not in a position where I'm comfortable being in a relationship with anyone. My indecision is likely part of the problem. I do like her as a person and, she was fun and interesting and something else playing on my mind is the fact that she seems to feel she isn't good enough for me. If I just walk away and…
/r/seduction28/10/10 11:10 PM
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It's not like you're committed to this girl in any official way. This is true, the only reason I haven't just cut contact completely is empathy. I don't feel the need to have everyone like me but at the same time I can't bring myself to be so cold as to just ignore her. Maybe I'm not cut out for this stuff lol. I have one mate in particular who does it very often is similar in that way to Charlie (Two and a Half Men). He gets sex, can't get out of there quick enough and has a phone full of women…
/r/seduction28/10/10 11:01 PM
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"I know you want a boyfriend type relationship, but I'm really not ready to be in that type of relationship right now." I'm pretty sure you just nailed it. Its so simple yet something I strangely couldn't articulate. I knew what I wanted but couldn't come up with a way to simplify it. Thanks champ.
/r/seduction28/10/10 07:35 AM
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Not to sound arrogant or over-confident here but I am not boring or bland and I made sure she knew this within seconds of meeting and have maintained that ever since. If I suddenly become some boring, uninteresting guy it'll be instantly obvious whats going on. In which case I'd be better off just telling her what I'm thinking/feeling and showing her the respect she deserves as a person.
/r/seduction28/10/10 07:01 AM
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Well this is always my first response to a problem, I always prefer to just be open and honest about things and deal with the consequences short term rather than dragging it out into a massive deal. The thing that makes this different though is that her feelings are involved. It is looking like this is still the best option though.
/r/seduction28/10/10 06:59 AM
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Its not that I don't want to see her again. Shes pretty awesome and I had a great time... obviously ;) My issue is that I don't want a relationship. With anyone. Even though I'm over my ex finally, I'm still not even vaguely interested in a relationship even if I came across a solid 10. She wanted to meet up this week but I've already delayed that (I honestly was busy), my fear is stringing her along; having her believe that I'm interested in a relationship and things blowing out of proportion. …
/r/seduction28/10/10 06:57 AM
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I'd rather avoid having her hate me if its possible. I'm used to dealing with things upfront and in person so if I wanted her to hate me I could just tell her straight out that I've come from a LTR and I'm not ready to be with someone right now. Perhaps this is the only way to go, I have 2 mates who do this type of thing almost weekly with a different person, I have no idea how they do it. I feel terrible after just one night with one person :(
/r/seduction28/10/10 06:31 AM
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Certainly does. I'm at a party this Saturday night where I only know the host and a HB8 friend so it'll be a chance to test my game there. Looking forward to it :)
/r/seduction26/10/10 10:04 PM
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Thanks man. The only reason I spoke to the HB9 in the first place was to keep the HB7 interested. It forced her to qualify herself and even start putting her friend down and I guess it helped to make things clear who was in charge there too; breaking down the mega-bitch that had already destroyed one of my mates, actually getting a bit of warmth from her then dropping her and going back to the HB7. The last thing I wanted to do was let the 9 come over and take control. If I had time to think it …
/r/seduction25/10/10 11:07 PM
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This is the type of "harden the fuck up" type comment I needed months ago :) I finally came upon this harsh realization for myself last week so the weekend just gone I did exactly that. I grew a pair and seized an opportunity. I think it turned out pretty well [FR]
/r/seduction25/10/10 08:27 AM
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Thanks a lot. I actually thought it was quite poorly written since I had limited time at work. I guess not :) I'm slowly coming to realise that unless you can literally walk up to any woman in an situation - even a table full of guys - and open, you're always going to need some element of luck to get you started. The best I can hope for right now is to make the most of what I'm given and, this time at least, I think I managed that.
/r/seduction25/10/10 08:25 AM
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Thats exactly what I've been doing the last couple of months. I've collected enough info to know what I should (though I struggled to put it into action) so from there it became a case of learning from the mistakes of others. There were two moments where I knew I was either going to be successful and escalate that big step further or end up losing her. The kiss and the "you" comment. I was well aware at both points that if I'd misjudged her interest it'd virtually be over but I was ok with that.…
/r/seduction25/10/10 07:45 AM
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A sterling review :) I felt like I did quite well but expected there to be an extensive list of things that I could/should have done. I guess my next task is to make sure it wasn't a once off thing but now that I've proved to myself that I can do it, things should only get better. Sounds like you've got your game sorted too, hopefully I can reach that same stage soon. Congrats!
/r/seduction25/10/10 07:12 AM
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Well the "you" response was my first move toward direct game. The timing seemed right and it worked so I'm happy. I still can't help but cringe thinking about it now but I guess its all situational. It seemed perfect when it mattered. Given her punk/emo style and fairly strong personality she seemed to enjoy being dominated too and for some reason this made me more comfortable whereas before I think I would have crumbled. Your confidence, which you seem to have internalized without the large amo…
/r/seduction25/10/10 06:40 AM
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Yeah its very possible she did, she was very touchy feely and I had her full attention pretty much the whole time - trouble is I didn't want it lol. It may well have been an intentional cock block, either way it was a good learning experience which is exactly what I was out in search of so even though I went home alone that night I'm still pretty happy with it overall.
/r/seduction26/08/10 12:09 AM
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Thats a negative. Drunkie was all over us the whole time and since we spent most of our time on the dance floor my only opportunity would have been when we went outside - the same time her drunk friend got even worse and they ended up leaving. I know I could have at least grabbed her as she was leaving but hindsight is a bitch and it just proves my complete lack of experience :) Lesson learned, don't wait for a 'right time', make one.
/r/seduction25/08/10 10:55 PM
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She was clearly interested in you. If she wasn't she wouldn't have followed you to another club. Thats a very valid point that I never considered for some reason. If the girl is willing to spend upwards of 30 mins -2 hours with you, she's diggin you or someone you are with. Also true and since my friends did a good job of making themselves scarce she never even spoke to them or saw them for more than 30 seconds at a time so hopefully it was me, though I'll never know for sure. Stupid drunkie :p …
/r/seduction24/08/10 10:56 PM
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Thanks, I don't know what changed that night but the majority of my AA issues just didn't seem to appear. The thought of approaching even a guy whom I have no sexual interest in usually terrifies me lol. I guess only time will tell if it was a once-only thing or if my AA problems are almost fixed. I may head out tomorrow night, if I do there will be another FR following that. I'll be sure to allow more time to write it so people can actually understand my post too :)
/r/seduction24/08/10 10:49 PM
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Yeah thats my bad. I was at work when I sent it and was in kind of a rush but wanted to get it over with before the details got blurry.
/r/seduction24/08/10 10:46 PM
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Well this makes me feel better. At least I know it wasn't my fault. Well not entirely my fault anyway, there were ways around it but I was too inexperienced to come up with them on the spot :) Practice makes perfect I suppose.
/r/seduction24/08/10 10:45 PM
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She'll want to tell you how smooth you are. You know, I'm pretty sure you're right. I like that, the "do you always do this" type comment fits in with my usual humour too so correct delivery wouldn't be a stretch. I'll definitely keep this one in mind for future cock-block attempts - both intentional or otherwise.
/r/seduction24/08/10 06:31 AM
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Thanks! I was pleased with how it went considering it was a first attempt, its comforting to hear it from someone else too though :) Isolation and escalation are two things I know I now have to work on as well as improving the minor skills I discovered on Friday. I guess to a degree they go hand in hand. At least I know my mates disappear when they need to as well. They could easily have hung around and cock-blocked me very early on.
/r/seduction24/08/10 04:49 AM
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Hmm, thats something that never occurred to me. I'll keep that in mind for future, thanks!
/r/seduction24/08/10 04:46 AM
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Haha sorry, I never did find out the name of the drunk friend so its a bit hard to explain it all. I know the one I was talking to was Emma, so lets go ahead and call drunkie Sarah :) So... Once outside Sarah asks again if I want to kiss Emma and if I think Emma is hot and again Sarah gets shut down. I'll edit my post so it makes a little more sense.
/r/seduction24/08/10 04:22 AM
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