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| 9 | Expecting sex from injured/ill women 🤬My first sexual experience was right after I had a major surgery. Like 17 hours long and had to relearn how to walk major. I was also 15 at the time. Anyway, my boyfriend came over to see me. We were cuddling and watching a movie, when he just stuck his hand down my pants. I was super uncomfortable and scared, but I didn't say no. Keep in mind that at this point I was on opioids and literally couldn't roll over by myself. Also he was a bit older than me. After he went home my mom came into my ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 7 | A dude commenting about how women that shave their head are disgusting, later said he’d live his gf if she gets cancer...When I was a teenager I buzzed my hair. The day before a guy from my class complimented me on my curls. The look on his face when I came in bald the next day was priceless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | The BIGGEST fucking RED FLAG!!!I was just feeling nostalgic for my ex LVM. Fortunately past me had plenty of screenshots cause I knew this would happen. The first one I found was of him calling me a crazy bitch. Nipped that nostalgia straight in the bud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:28 AM |
| 17 | This is how a narc ex will email you after you block them, and try to pull you back in. Obviously I’m not going to reply. In the past I would have. Thanks to fds it’s getting deleted and I’ll finish nuking this email. Notice the “poor me, woe is me” 🤮They always say it's the last time they're ever going to contact you lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 9 | One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree moreIt makes me so sad that I grew up in the era of online porn. Girls my age and younger will never get to experience sex that's untainted by the pure misogyny that is pornography. I want to experience good sex. I don't think I ever will with a man though. No matter how much you vet, you can never truly know someone, and I just could not be vulnerable with a man knowing how many of them are rapists and pedophiles, both behaviors encouraged by porn. I also want to add that for me porn has also ruine… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:42 AM |
| 6 | oh honey noWoah that escalated quickly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 54 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Because of the strength and knowledge I've gained from this sub I was able to defend myself last night. A man approached me while I was coming home from the store and tried to get me into his car. I was able to make a scene and get help from other people. You ladies are my heros and all your stories and advice plus the book The Gift of Fear, may have just saved me from getting raped or murdered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 9 | This poor girl, her column each week is like "why are men awful when I allow obviously awful men to consistently and repeatedly disrespect me?" hope she discovers FDS soonThere is no way in hell she's having good sex with a postman named TOMMY. And that's the least horrible thing about this article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:59 AM |
| 11 | Dipped into the DOT sub...Been a while, it is still hilarious. Guy friend rightly concerned that his female friend is talking to a taken dude since his FB showed 'in a relationahip with'...but nah, OP is a stalker and WHaT iF He Is PolY or FOrgOT to UpDaTE hIS staTUs!Was that on the post where the girl KNEW her bf had been accused of rape and dated him anyway?? Then was somehow shocked when more victims came forward accusing him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 133 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"I don't argue with men anymore This. After dating a narc I am done debating my feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:18 AM |
| 19 | Need some support and encouragement. Just left an emotionally abusive and psychologically traumatizing relationship.You are so brave and a true queen 👑. Leaving an abusive man is like being reborn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:06 AM |
| 7 | Is this guy a waste of time?Just wanted to say you really can't tell if he's a HVM that quickly. It honestly takes months of vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 17 | Please, let me know your thoughts on this...Girl you know what to do, just trust your gut feelings and do not contact him again. He's a major creep and you know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 4 | I got the job!!YES QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:42 AM |
| 2 | High standards are a form of self-careMy mom taught me this when I was a teenager. It makes me so proud of her that she understood this and talked about it with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:07 AM |
| 2 | He no longer calls me nice thingsGirl, it's early days. Get out now. Sounds like he was love bombing you and now that he's got you hooked he isn't bothering to put in the work. Also please do not go to Spain for this man who's still a virtual stranger. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with SO being overly negative?Love, do you really want to spend the rest of your life with this man? It seems like you're searching for the ways you can help him, which is so so admirable. That nurturing spirit is such a beautiful part of our feminine nature. However, you can't change people. Read it again. You can't change people. If he's negative now he's always going to be negative. People rarely change, and if they do it's of their own volition, not due to you. It's quite worrisome to me that he isn't wanting to wear a m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/20 08:24 PM |
| -2 | How do you help yourself not feel insecure when you are around women who are visibly better looking than you are?Our society tells us that as women the most valuable thing about us is our looks. Uh hello that's bullshit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/20 08:14 PM |
| 81 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Fuck that guy! Also that surgery should be illegal wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:30 AM |
| 8 | SAHM’s husband takes 15k out of their shared account that was meant to correct her torn muscles. He claims he thought she no longer wanted the surgery and wanted to reward himself for being a great father with a computer.This makes me fucking sick. I hope this guy falls into a volcano. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | This is what you're missing out on, ladies!Yikes this looks exactly like my dad's place. Stained futon on the floor with no sheets, holes in the walls, he literally let's his dog shit wherever she wants IN THE HOUSE and doesn't clean it, then wonders why they have a massive fly problem??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Should I drop him for making this comment on a first date?Yup drop his ass asap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with pride and competition with menI feel like this too sometimes, usually when a guy is over explaining something or being condescending. When I'm around men it feels like I can't fuck up or it will confirm to them that I'm less capable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | My fiancé thinks he is taking my opinion while he is notGirl just leave and go get yourself a cute ass place to live. He's not your partner if he's not taking your opinion into consideration. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 4 | How to avoid emasculating your man?You're not responsible for his masculinity at all sis | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid emasculating your man?By not pandering to his fragile ego. With a man who's secure in a masculinity you won't have to walk on eggshells for fear of upsetting them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 20 | I think I’m afraid of men, though I don’t want to be. Please help.You sound like a lovely person honestly, and what will help is for you to fully realize that. There is clearly a self esteem issue here that you should conquer before entertaining the notion of finding a man. Also trust me, men are not thinking that shit about you, and if they are they're garbage and not worth your time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you be offended if someone changed their opinion of you because of your n-count?No because that person is clearly an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | NVM doesn‘t even try...It's on sight if I hear an eagle calling out in American pride | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:40 AM |
| 6 | Red flags to look out for while dealing with a narc/emotionally unavailable, toxic person.Something I wish I had done earlier on with my narc ex is challenge him. Not drop things, not gloss over red flags but choose a topic and really really push him on it. Or just talk about women's issues. It's amazing how so many men can't just empathize with our struggles they have to jump to being defensive and doing mental gymnastics to prove women are just as likely to hurt them (although you ladies already know this). It would've shown me clearly just how batshit crazy he is before I got too … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 03:59 PM |
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