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| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeHow old are you and are you fit | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 11:42 AM |
| 2 | How do I ask for fwb the right way?But they’ll ask you what you’re looking for. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 01:32 PM |
| -3 | Never, ever miss out on the opportunity to talk to women, no matter how random the circumstance isIm saying, if someone approached me and made a comment about the weather (a non starter), then I would think cool story bro. | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 09:02 PM |
| -12 | Never, ever miss out on the opportunity to talk to women, no matter how random the circumstance isCool story bro | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…🤣 | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:00 PM |
| 48 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…Bullshit. Have had this happen plenty and it’s cuz she wasn’t ready. Just pursue it. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 02:41 PM |
| 2 | The dating cultural differences between Miami and TorontoThis post is so full of "Thank you captain obvious" it's ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Sex is the most important aspect of a relationship.Your desire to fuck each other depends on a whole host of factors, primarily emotional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Women need to experience a strenuous job at least once in their livesAnd yet there’s a shortage of both. Funny how that works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles?What’s a ‘social circle’? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.Well duh. But plenty of people want intimacy in the form of sex plus relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blameI stopped reading after you casually compared getting a degree to being masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Why would I click that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Why waste your time with that clown? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Find joy in your daily routine. Chicks will find you | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.I want to hear from women who would absolutely disagree with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Aproaching guys during collegeOne move I remember working extremely well is asking if the person has a laptop you can charge your phone with. I was in the library at the time but it works. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 11:54 AM |
| 11 | What's your go to opener for approaching a girl on the street?Let’s fuck | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:43 AM |
| -11 | Women really dislike autistic menRight. Women desire pricks over nice guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youBut my nunchuck skills are pretty slick | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Went to the beach alone. I’m tired of doing things alone.Let your interests drive you. Get excited about your own life. Then start sharing that excitement with others. It’s really that easy. I’d forget whatever seduction “tactics” you learn and start with the foundation. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Try asking your married friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 12:23 PM |
| 1 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.You’re a server. Your job is to be socially outgoing. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 8 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?How are people this dumb? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youUh… no shit | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:33 AM |
| 2 | New study on dates shows that men paid for the majority of male-initiated dates (68%), but women or both paid only 33% of the female-initiated dates.Pretty sure my wallet says otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?This conversation is unbearable. You've provided zero advice for men who make excellent candidates and probably bring more to the table than yourself. It's pathetic and your entitlement and self-centered attitude is what's vile here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?So a well behaved man does what? Shuts his mouth and waits for you to "pick" him? You realize this is unsustainable, right? This is the core reason why most men are frustrated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?Never once has someone come to me. Can you keep a straight story? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?Well you already admitted no one comes up to you so why are you making a fuss about it? This isn't about you. This is about advice for men in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?"OLD? Thanks I'll try it out" - no one ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?Right, but this forum should be about helping the other side out, not saying "Goodluck and fuck off" which basically is what your comments amount to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?Think about it from a man's perspective. You're telling them, if you want to meet me, you need to try and get in the VIP line and don't be surprised if the bouncer doesn't let you in (+ you better have game or you'll have shame). The entitlement of that viewpoint while dismissing the fact that you do in fact have the power in the male/female dynamic is pretty astounding. Just imagine for a second that if you wanted to seek a romantic partner you'd actually have to go through what men go through … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?So women hold all the power. What about my quote is incorrect again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 11:31 AM |
| 0 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?It’s a woman’s world and we just live in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.That makes zero sense. Focus on one made up woman as opposed to a random one in porn? That is fucking dumb and would probably lead to just you comparing every woman to that one in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.As opposed to training it to do what exactly to accomplish the healthy normal act of masturbation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Why do women feel entitled of you as men taking them out to dinner on a first date?Truth is, women know within seconds - no more than a few minutes - if she's into you. This says it all. You can't be out of shape, or too deep in the weeds with work, or in the middle of trying to figure out how to solve your wealth issues (which grow every day because of x,y,z unless you're already "resolved" financially). It is 100% what you bring to the table on a first impression and first encounter. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Keeping Conversations upAll women are the same. Got it. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:39 PM |
| -2 | Why do women feel entitled of you as men taking them out to dinner on a first date?All this tells me is “if you aren’t ripped and wealthy don’t bother” Ripped = physical value Wealth = not only financial value but confidence of being able to spend it | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Beaches are great for Same Day Lays!Ya if ur on vacation and want to tell everyone you like to party. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Beaches are great for Same Day Lays!What does “starting to talk to them” look like? “Hey you two, wanna do a shot of tequila?” God that is cringe to me | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 10:27 AM |
| -2 | It drives me how wild how society raises men to be soft, but craves men with edge.You sound like trash. That’s like pointing out how American imperialism has had detrimental effects on the world and your only comment is judging how they are anti-American. Educate yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 12:33 PM |
| 4 | Women dont want to BE your life, they want to be IN your lifeHey the world still needs software devs. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | The chase is over, what now?What’s this from? | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 4 | So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you?Imagine women needing to act a certain way for us to be attracted to them. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 11:15 AM |
| 0 | Advice for cold approach? im struggling, especially really pretty womenIs it ok to have a bit of a gut? I’ve heard different responses from women. Some say they actually like it. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Are Most Women Autistic on Online Dating Apps?Wow this comment. I’m gonna reply later. But wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 03:04 AM |
| – | Most guys on here view women as obstacles to their own 🐱they're trying to get their feelings appeased without admitting anything Am i the only one who thinks this is a problem? EDIT: At first i thought the vid was pretty funny, but I would never talk to women that way. Like Ever. I don't relate to that video because they are already a couple. In my case, I can't even make it that far because women are just all too cautious these days and unless the stars are aligned then they aren't going to meet me in the middle. And that's really all a single guy w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 02:28 PM |
| – | Most guys on here view women as obstacles to their own 🐱This is just a stupid premise. Plenty of women view men as an obstacle to starting a family and having a sense of security. Who fucking cares? Everyone is just frustrated at the other side but my biggest gripe is the power trip women play while completely botching the communication piece. Women are suppose to be good communicators but in my experience they SUCK at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 02:41 AM |
| – | Most guys on here view women as obstacles to their own 🐱Fucking thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It's scary how dumb people are. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't hate women. I'm just empathizing with OP because I've faced this scenario countless times and it really comes down to an inability for women to communicate to a man like a mature adult. Instead, they grapple with their feelings and then drop the guy like that. There's no explanation and there never will be. And from personal experience most of these women aren't even remarkable or anything. It's not like I'm batting out of my league. But the reality that we're in is that everyone is shoo… | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:10 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]It's like the typical, go-to response from women. Instead of attacking the argument, they attack the person. It's really pathetic. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]None of what you're saying is at all enlightening or interesting. Try harder. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:56 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]I feel bad for anyone who characterizes a person based off their Reddit comments. To each their own. Women are by definition illogical. They go by their emotions. Nothing i'm saying is false. If you want to have an actual conversation about the topic i'm all ears. Otherwise, I do just fine with women, thanks. I just notice that a lot of them are way off the deep end. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'm not here to make friends. I'm here to vent about the ridiculousness of dating these days. It is so broken and it's a shame. Btw, do you have anything to contribute other than an attack on my character? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:34 AM |
| -7 | [deleted by user]You’re the one whining. I’m the one spitting truth. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:19 AM |
| -5 | [deleted by user]Cool tip | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 10:36 PM |
| -8 | [deleted by user]I’m a human with complex emotions but at least I can figure out whether a person and I are compatible and can communicate that clearly to the other person. I don’t need to rely on the alignment of the moons to figure whether I’m interested in someone… zero sense women have | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]Perfect example of how women make zero sense. You can do everything right, have a great time, and then the acceptable appropriate course of action is for the guy to go fuck someone else. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Women are just men with vaginasOk, be defensive I guess… This isn’t an attack on women or anything. It’s a reminder to frustrated men like myself who simply can’t understand the rationality of women sometimes. I was just in this boat, where a woman told me she doesn’t think any man can satisfy her. This post hints at two possible reasons why. It’s honestly just sad. I can’t imagine living and thinking no one else could satisfy me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women are just men with vaginasThis should be upvoted more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are just men with vaginasBecause there’s no such thing as a “human”. OP is telling men that women are just like them. I think you’re overanalyzing. Yes you’re just like us with far more concentrated concerns in sexual and physical health. Other than that, basically the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:48 PM |
| 5 | Women are just men with vaginasWant to clarify? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Stop Focusing on Your LooksI agree with this. I still will never know how to pick up girls in public tho. I’m 35 and never figured it out. Furthermore, I can’t help but face a devastating paradox. The girls I find most physically attractive tend to have the most boring, stuck up, self centered personalities I’ve ever met. It’s horrible. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 10 | Surely it's men who need to lower their standards?if you're not getting what you want from the people you want, lower your standards I don't agree with that at all. Lower your standards? Fucking step up to mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Women have nothing to lose making a guy wait for sexOk whatever about this debate. All I have to say is that if a woman is going to make me wait super long, and then it finally happens but the sex is just “meh”, I’m not going to wait to end it right there. Sorry for wasting both each other’s time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women have nothing to lose making a guy wait for sexTime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 0 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitNah you’re missing the forest from the trees. 99% of communication or whatever is not spoken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitPeer recognition. Psychotherapy. General human interaction as to what is deemed as interesting. I actually do fine with most people I meet. I am the one rejecting many of the women who I go out with. The problem isn't so much a failure on my part. It's a failure on women to dig deeper into men's personalities and instead rely on social outgoingness. I don't even blame women for this - it's just how society has molded them and I would hate to be a human under such constraints. It's basically why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 06:51 PM |
| -2 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitYa you know that thing you interact with all the time and brainwashes you? That | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitThe only one whining is you. You aren't addressing anything he's saying. Pointing out observations about how women act in our lives isn't whining. We talk to each other and the men who can actually hold a 2 way conversation without issue. No you don't. You pick the Chad's who are predominately extroverted without giving others a chance and then live shallow lives on Instagram posting about how nice your Saturday brunch is. And because you feed off the attention that gives you, of course you don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitSocializing is easy. Making genuine connections that lead to relationships is hard. Valuing "proper socializing" is the equivalent to valuing how someone dresses. It's shallow and stupid and can be taught. But since 99% of women will take guys at face value, they equate poor socialization skills with poor personality. It's retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 03:26 AM |
| -1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitTypical woman response ^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitDo you think doing web dev makes you smart? Yes you idiot. the rest of your statement is one of the most boring things i've ever read. no offense. Edit*: perhaps compared to certain blue collar workers (mostly managers and specialized personel which are many) intelligence is easily transferrable. Blue collar jobs could take on IT tech jobs and succeed theoretically. By what percentage? I don't know. It could be called the great exchange - where single nerd men take on construction jobs for a mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitNice choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitI said i bet you’re boring to talk to. Anyways, happy holidays and don’t take anything i say to heart. Hope you have a wonderful evening! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitYes i do know web developers. Just because they aren’t the best in the social realm doesn’t mean they aren’t smart. But way to belittle me for my interests. I would never do that to anyone and just shows how deeply flawed you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitYou threw the first stone, ma’am. Oh but you’re a woman which means you don’t recognize that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitYou’re a bad scientist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitI’m not sure it’s that I’m often misunderstood. It’s more that I have no solid dating profile pictures that say “hey look at me, I’m a cool badass dude”. I’m a cool dude with a great understanding of creativity, business, programming and human psychology. I can also hold a conversation. But what I find is that so many of the women who agree to allow me to buy them dinner are just so full of themselves and think they’re reality is the perfect reality and anyone who comes into contact with them mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitYou operate emotionally with zero recognition of reality. You placate to masses because that’s what you’re trained to do. Go work in marketing or something. It’s boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitI’m a web developer who appreciates music, art and philosophy. What are you? A chick who likes puppies and to travel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitBased on this answer alone I bet you’re boring to talk to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitDisagree. The statistics are pretty clear. Men who focus on intelligence instead of looks do poorer than men who focus on the other. Is it human psychology? Perhaps. But it also indicates that most women simply don’t give a shit about intelligence and I for one agree. (I’m intelligent and am so often misunderstood and see my dumb friends get way more attention and matches on online dating). Conclusion? The majority of women are simply shallow. And no it doesn’t go both ways because WOMEN ARE THE… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitDisagree. The statistics are pretty clear. Men who focus on intelligence instead of looks do poorer than men who focus on the other. Is it human psychology? Perhaps. But it also indicates that most women simply don’t give a shit about intelligence and I for one agree. (I’m intelligent and am so often misunderstood and see my dumb friends get way more attention and matches on online dating). Conclusion? The majority of women are simply shallow. And no it doesn’t go both ways because WOMEN ARE THE… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitThat’s a cop out. So what if smart dudes aren’t great at conversation. Why do women have to expect a default behavior of “being good at conversation”. That’s a fucking shallow quality if you ask me. They can be caring and interesting and not be socially outgoing Brads. Help the dude out and discover who they are instead of only responding to shallow qualities. God women are unbearable with this tunnel vision crap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 08:53 PM |
| -1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitDoesn’t detract from anything I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitAm I fucking crazy or are people here actually encouraging men not to be college educated and instead be blue collar workers for the rest of their lives? Like what gives? You’re actually promoting men to have less intellectual jobs? It’s fucking backwards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitLearn to write. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitIt’s not important to THE MEN - which was not OP’s point That was not OP's point. OP was saying intelligence is not important to WOMEN. OP is specifically saying he wishes women would value his intelligence, regardless of physical attraction. these women are not being sought after because they don’t appeal sexually to men outright the way IG women do. Who gives a shit what women are being sought after. Women are the deciders, not men. Men swipe right way more than women - and yet most women st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:56 PM |
| -4 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitThere’s more to talk about with guys from different lifestyles and career paths No there's not. A guy working construction and (stereotypically speaking) wants to go to the gym all the time, go out clubbing or whatever, or watch football or whatever other mainstream bullshit you can think of is exponentially more boring of a conversation than someone who instead uses their brain to engage with the world. There's not more to "talk" about. There's more to "related to" if you're into the same mains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitThey're not pushed to the wayside. They simply don't participate or are not actively engaged in finding a man. They settle for their own comforts of family/pets/friends and put basically zero effort in seeking a man that would match intellectual wit because it isn't important - hence OP's point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:41 PM |
| -5 | Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive traitThere's a lot of assumptions here. The point OP is making is that men seek out the "equally intelligent person" because that's kind of an important trait to look for, whereas women simply don't care and seem to focus on solely either physical appearance or some other self-centered reward such as attention, lifestyle, [what they can offer me], etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Being shredded and muscular isn’t hot and it’s very shallow. Wouldn’t want someone who thinks otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | People need to learn to give only what they're willing to give without receiving anything in return.> don't pay for anything until you've slept with her impossible isn't simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Watching Spring Break Videos: Maybe a few things have changed...That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Watching Spring Break Videos: Maybe a few things have changed...People were more in shape in the 90s cuz we weren’t addicted to gaming and computers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Why do women make some guys wait for sex and not others?You imply that a guy will hold out if he wants something serious which isn’t true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | What are some things men can do to show romantic/sexual interest in a girl?It's not about that though. It's about actually forming genuine interest about other people. If you have a preconceived notion of what people are about (which I admittedly do), then there's really no point. I struggle with the notion that I need to "fix" myself in order to fit in with society and be able to strike up conversations with strangers. Perhaps I can find something that inspires me but at least I can identify the problem. I also struggle with myself because it's a constant battle of be… | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some things men can do to show romantic/sexual interest in a girl?I don’t know how to talk to anyone for 2 minutes let alone a woman | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 02:46 PM |
| 11 | CMV: "Introversion" isn't what's unattractive to women. It's the traits commonly associated with those who are introverted.In other words, women don’t give a fuck about the person as long as they get the attention (and false sense of safety) they constantly crave. It’s pretty pathetic if you think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:58 PM |
| 10 | Do men make terrible friends? Why is there a dependency on women fixing their loneliness?This is being a guy in a nutshell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 6 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?This is the right answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Take a little break from your thoughtloopI did not think that the men before him should conform to be what was meant to be with. What? Ohhhh, yeah I agree. Women will fall in love with me for me, not for my peak physical condition, not for my salary, not for how much i work on my "people skills" at wooing over and impressing. She will want me for my core. That doesn't mean I don't constantly work on myself, but I do so within the boundary of how I personally want to improve, not to impress others. And, yeah, ultimately, I am happy on m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Take a little break from your thoughtloopI honestly think it’s the other way around. I don’t find enough women that I would choose because so many women I meet will settle for something less than my aspirations and goals. I’m probably looking in the wrong place but meanwhile I hear about women being content without men so it’s like my efforts don’t even matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Take a little break from your thoughtloopI’m gonna double down on what I said before. This new wave of women not needing men and thinking they can live a fulfilling life without them is ultimately bad for society, bad for mental health, and delusional. If it takes a town to raise a child, then I think it starts with two to tango. I’m not letting anything negatively affect me, but I will hold myself to my values by understanding that societal norms are not improving. Every person I meet, every woman I date reaffirms this. There’s gross … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tYou’re the equivalent of a guy who gives up on finding true love in favor of playing video games. It’s a boring dystopia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?So you're suggesting women will date women strictly for money and there's no chance that there's an actual connection? Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 06:33 PM |
| 9 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tWait til you’re 35 and all your friends are married and then tell me you’re still in love with your job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 12:39 AM |
| 8 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tobtaining fulfillment from a tech startup as a replaceable commodity to the point of dismissing a personal love life is a pretty good example of stockholm syndrome if you ask me. your coworkers are there for a reason. they aren't going to be there "through the tough times". And if they are, and the company culture promotes that activity, then that is a toxic workplace. I've worked at many tech companies. I've formed excellent relationships with the people i've worked with. But by no means would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 7 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tEnough to say "I don't need anyone in my life to feel fulfilled?" Jfc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 09:42 PM |
| 14 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tA boring dystopia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?There's some important distinctions to be made here. Is 5 years a significant age gap? How about 6? Also, are we talking about lifelong partner or are we talking about short term relationship? I don't know many guys pushing that relationships with women 10 years younger are "cool". Unless you're a sugar dad in which case I'm not friends with you. I'd be surprised if this entire thread is about just pointing our fingers at those arrangements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?I read this as “women want to be immature for longer” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?Maybe because they’ve had success with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 8 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?What happened to the “women are more mature than men at the same age so they’ll date older to match that level of maturity”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 0 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?What about dad bods 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:13 PM |
| -2 | Just a small piece of advice for the dayI’m avoiding the gym due to COVID | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:57 AM |
| 2 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.Most lower middle, middle, and upper middle class men have parents who support them Any evidence of that? Men can draw welfare and unemployment just like women So then why draw the comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 3 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.Most adults work 9-5 and have a first date in the evening. Just saying it’s common. But if a woman knows it’s not gonna work then pick up the tab. Isn’t hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 4 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.Most dates are at night so drinks are the go-to. Are you suggesting drinks should be off limits for a first date all because women can’t just have the decency to split the tab? Just sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 6 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.lol wow. you sound like a douche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:44 PM |
| 7 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.It's funny that you think me being rejected is because i'm doing something wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:42 PM |
| 11 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.This is a good question. But my generalized answer is to maybe just start being curious about it, read about it, and talk to more people. I truly think the cards are in women's hands in society right now. So many guys are afraid of talking to women (including myself) because we are riddled with insecurities, which are only partly perpetuated by MeToo stuff, but more along the lines of fear of rejection because women are the one's who reject by and large. Confidence is contagious. So if women ini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 4 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.I don't see what any of that has to do with dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 12:47 PM |
| 2 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.Ya nothing against you, I just get asked this a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 12:07 PM |
| 14 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.It just continually drives me crazy at how naive women are about the male perspective It’s like a rich person asking a poor person how many properties they own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 11:56 AM |
| 15 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.… ya guys … maybe we should stop murdering all the time… (what?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 11:14 AM |
| 12 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.The equality one is huge. As a guy I’ve spent a ridiculous amount of money on first dates only to be instantly rejected via text right after. There’s so many times when I want to reply “Ok, here’s your receipt then” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 11:13 AM |
| 14 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.That is such a woman question and I’m sick of women asking it. They aren’t dating period because they can’t match with anyone or form meaningful connections because of their inability to match with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 11:10 AM |
| 9 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.Two questions: why are you generalizing men being coddled by their families? That has not been my experience. And two, in what ways are men coddled by the state? Can’t remember the last time the state protected me because I was male… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 7 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.Wait, what is their part of the deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 11:03 AM |
| 10 | Do you think equality has actually made women unhappy today?You’re not that hot. You’re just rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Afghanistan Discussion Mega-ThreadWatch this and rethink your life https://youtu.be/J74B2jzr8iA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Talking past each other: a specific example of how dating advice given to men from women can actively hurt a man's development.Why would a woman decide “to date” (whatever that means) within 10 minutes? Fuck maybe but you can turn that around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Talking past each other: a specific example of how dating advice given to men from women can actively hurt a man's development.It’s confidence over looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 12:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree entirely. Women don't care about finding a relationship. They care about social status, which can sometimes be fueled by said relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.I think trauma is attractive and it irks me that women do not | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 12:08 PM |
| 4 | Anxiety when talking to women that you talked to once successfully but now you feel some pressure to "perform" when you run into them again. (neighbors, waitresses, friends of a friend, etc.)Just. Fucking. Chill. Seriously. Put on some shades. And be yourself. And pretend they don’t matter. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Just be James Bond | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Blew it.Where does one obtain a social life during a pandemic? | /r/seduction | 03/03/21 11:31 AM |
| 4 | If a girl looks at you do look away too quickly just because you're shyYou look so good w that mask on | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Finally grew some balls and started approaching strangers, here's what happened.People are going on planes? | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels)Source? That sounds fascinating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | The most common mistakes guys make in the fieldLOL. | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | The most common mistakes guys make in the fieldThat's cuz she's insecure. | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | The most common mistakes guys make in the fieldAgree. In fact I won't date a woman who is lethargic enough to just wait for me to plan every single thing about what we do. It has ended relationships for me. It's exhausting and if you're a guy who thinks you need to do all of the work, well then I feel bad for you. | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Wingman on point.That was some good acting ha | /r/PussyPass | 26/11/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | The best defense against oneitis is to learn how to love women. Appropriately.You’re so right. Nevertheless, still a challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 02:07 AM |
| 2 | The best defense against oneitis is to learn how to love women. Appropriately.Here's my current dilemma. Strike up a conversation? About what? What if my interests are not small-talk based. What if what I'm interested in and what my passions are (currently) are that of art, introspection, societal reflection and not being a "part" of society. Pretty hard then, huh? If you're not a "part" of something, you're doomed. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeI prefer “fuck your feelings”. You’re equipped to protect and accomplish shit so try not to let other things get in the way | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 05:27 AM |
| 1 | New study: Men are forming friendships with each other, and this imperils women!Yeah. Rejection can be a tough thing, but that lifestyle doesn’t refer to all women | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 11:51 AM |
| 1 | New study: Men are forming friendships with each other, and this imperils women!I didn’t say I cared. I’m probably still confused about what this sub is all about, but I doubt it’s a war of the sexes | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 11:40 AM |
| 0 | New study: Men are forming friendships with each other, and this imperils women!I got more from the article than your comment so... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 11:31 AM |
| 2 | New study: Men are forming friendships with each other, and this imperils women!What bullshit are you specifically referring to? I just took away that bromance is acceptable and may make women feel less powerful | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Your Main Focus Should Not Be WomenWhoa buddy. I like his post. It's a good reminder and motivator to have goals outside of sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Stop trying to prove to women that you're a "good guy"Which ironically perpetuates the alpha zone | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Stop trying to prove to women that you're a "good guy""Did you really just invite me over to your place" is something I've heard from time to time, even after the completing those previous steps. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 10:13 PM |
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