| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 636 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFs | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:51 PM | |
| 137 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments) | MALE DEPRAVITY | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:25 AM |
| 69 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry. | ROAST-A-SCROTE | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 45 | Immediately thought of you | STRATEGY | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:40 PM |
| 41 | "yes: i also Like younger women" | RED FLAG 🚨 | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 08:16 PM |
| 28 | And somehow she doesn't see the issue | PICKME CULTURE | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:39 AM |
| 14 | Made me think of you ! | REMINDER 👑 | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 7 | 3 months later. Yeah, it's a no from me. | no_therworldly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄That's why I send messages about fds instead of comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 12 | I cancelled a ‘date’ last minute. It was the right thing to doI had a hook up with an acquaintance a while ago (wouldn't wanna date him, just scratching an itch and it was stupid anyways) and I left a necklace there He was supposed to come over a few weeks ago and bring it with him. I said "8-9pm" and he settled for 9pm. When he wasn't there at 9pm and he hadn't even messaged, I had to ask him for when he would arrive. Turns out he is "always late" and wouldn't be there until 10pm so I told him to turn around and go home. I ordered a new necklace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:30 PM |
| 3 | I adore this show (Angel)fun fact about the usual "virgin blood" thing - it does not refer to the blood of a virgin but blood that had not been used in ritual before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 19 | “All men are misogynistic”One dude I hooked up with years ago just reached over to my nightstand mid-sex and put my glasses back on my face like dude what you could have asked at least | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:39 AM |
| 9 | Ah yes, only interested & want to be affectionate to your gf when you want to get your dick wet. The dudes in the comments defending this as “Post Nut Clarity”It sucks how this is such a common issue. Now it's an immediate red flag if they are not affectionate at all outside of the bedroom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:19 AM |
| 26 | Ah yes, only interested & want to be affectionate to your gf when you want to get your dick wet. The dudes in the comments defending this as “Post Nut Clarity”yeah one of the reasons i fell out of love with an ex - he was only ever cuddly and affectionate when he was horny made me not wanna sleep with him anymore lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:49 PM |
| 9 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.I feel this so so so much. For years I felt sad that I didn't have a partner and when I went on dates I mostly wasn't into them cause they didn't fit what I wanted my partner to be like politically wise. Then I met someone that fit that but that's also when I realized I don't even want a relationship at this point in my life. I just started working on myself, being with myself and doing this I have wanted for a long time (eg started archery) and I don't want anything to mess with that. Maybe eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:00 AM |
| 10 | Don't ever move for a mani left her a comment, i live in berlin and staying on my couch for 2 weeks would def. be better than staying with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Made me think of you !She means Sex I think, if you watch her other videos, she uses it as a euphemism since tiktok might delete the video otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:43 AM |
| 68 | ✨Y’all heard?✨This! I love tiktok but the original creators don't get enough credit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 20 | Girl this is not it.Fucking stop blaming a girl for acting on how society raised her 2. There are enough comments here explaining what might have made her record it, fo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 8 | Girl this is not it.Shouldn't have looked at the comments TF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 12 | This Buzzfeed article shows older celebrities now and when they were 30 years old. This makes me happy as I was so afraid for my twenties to end and for the mythical "Wall" to hit - I see these cherub cheeks on lovely women at 30 and feel good about my future.Listen. I agree these women are beautiful but can we also agree that these women have access to skin care and plastic surgery that we don't and that holding us to a standard that is out of the norm is not healthy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | This amazing woman is creating a series of comics based on shit men said to women on dates.Your reasoning reminds me of people defending white cops killing black people because of bLaCk On BlACk CrImE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:42 AM |
| 32 | This amazing woman is creating a series of comics based on shit men said to women on dates.I like her stuff as much as the next girl but a few years ago she made prints/patterns and sold clothes with those prints. When she did a dress with "Sugar Skulls" and she was called out (by me mostly lol) she went on a rant and claimed she can't be racist cause she is a WoC. Unsubscribed since then. Unfortunately I don't have the screenshots anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:11 AM |
| 4 | World without women: a dystopia. But what about the other way around?ooooh didnt know its a trilogy, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | LVM needs a “walk date” because an actual real date makes him feel trapped. Boofinghoo grow up!"Calm down" LMAO fuck right off dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Sharing a drink and wanting her to buy him bubblegumLiebe dass noch andere deutsche hier sind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry.See I was super confused If he meant literal mother's or someone that doesn't feel the need to mother him? His grasp of English isn't exact enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry.I woman shared it in a kind of support group for my city on facebook so I was lucky enough not to match this creep myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:22 AM |
| 4 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry.I also was like "you want KIDS but have NO AMBITION?? who is supposed to pay for that??" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 5 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry.I laughed SO HARD AT THAT PART omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Link this dude sends his matches. Click and decide if you wanna laugh or cry.Thank you, didn't even think of that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:57 AM |
| 2 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."the audacityyyyyyyyyyyyyyy omg and love "experiment 535" hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:16 AM |
| 20 | Talking to a guy that was iffy on hinge. Immediately realized why I was supposed to STAY OFF dating apps in the first place.Internal Sunshine is such a manic pixie dream girl movie. As soon as that's a dudes favourite, it's a block and delete! Edit: didn't mean this to be a reply but a comment on the post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Sending me home with an extra mealfor those that missed that post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 4 | Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts?DITCH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | “Let me insult you, then take it back and change the subject”. Unmatched him, but not before taking a SS of him calling my nose “extreme”. Quitting OLD.maybe he thinks having multiple nose piercings are extreme lol idk would have unmatched him too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡Aaah okay that makes more sense, thanks haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡Do I understand correctly that you went on 3 days within 5 months? Don't wanna sound like a dick, I just may not have understood the sentence structure correctly, ain't my first language :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:30 PM |
| 6 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.I went into his account history and he is so fucking disgusting. He commented on a bigboobproblems " Such a slut. Come to daddy. " fuck he deserves a baseball bat to the balls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:29 AM |
| 53 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡I still don't understand what this talking shit is supposed to be lol For me you're either - one / two dates - dating - relationship And dating shouldn't take longer than like two months max | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFs🖤🖤🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsI just used a website that I use to print our my uni stuff but it's German :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 19 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsThank you 😭🖤 it's just some white polish, I tried to cover my regrowth (?) haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 10 | The hell with this idea that I need to freeze my eggs-there’s always adoption!I know that adopting can be hard but I personally never wanted to be a mom and I don't think that will change but if it ever does, that is the route I would take. There are way too many kids with no home.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:30 AM |
| 47 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!I fucking hate when they do this. I was supposed to meet a dude a few months ago and he let me know 15 minutes after we were supposed to meet that he just now was walking to his station. I told him to stay home, I'd go meet my friends. A bit later he messaged me that he was there now. Like dude that's so manipulative, trying to shame me to come back wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Are there any 30+ women in this sub who don't intend to marry? Care to share your thoughts/experiences?Yeah that's me. For one I don't agree with the patriarchal idea of marriage but in my eyes it's also too expensive and divorces are too. My best friend an I are thinking about having a wedding style party one day if we feel like it and wear great dresses but I don't need a man for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:45 PM |
| 6 | Is this behavior common in the vetting process? I am at a loss here.DROP HIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:17 AM |
| 14 | Do HVM expect ladies to initiate convos just as much as they do?Exactly this. He was 27 and she was 20, this is a major red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 08:04 AM |
| 1 | And somehow she doesn't see the issueOh fuck that she is literally dating an oversized baby the fuckkkk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:30 AM |
| -1 | Interesting...still researching the validity but this is why we protect ourselves!Maybe now they'll finally use condoms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)Yes omg you're right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 53 | We're not a rehab centerFyi that dude's stealing and taking credit for other people's post, check the post I made today :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 12 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)You're really trying to compare the two? One is some random dude wanting to be an influencer, taking credit for things that other people have been saying for ages The other is someone that worked with abusers for decades and studied what he is talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)Hey, I didn't mean this as a critique towards you or any single person posting it, I was just tired of having to see his face three days in a row haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:18 PM |
| 14 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)they’d know not to trust a man who talks about women’s issues. 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:42 PM |
| 14 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)Well good for you then! :) There are more than enough people that are not active on other social media sites though and he gets posted regularly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:34 PM |
| 19 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:39 AM |
| 135 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)Michael James Schneider routinely steals posts off memes and reddit and is celebrated for his performative actvism. You can read more about him here: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/people/michael-james-schneider https://www.barstoolsports.com/blog/2311303/this-guy In the end, he is just a white man in his 40s trying to seem woke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:17 AM |
| 11 | Stop celebrating this asshole (details in comments)weird, i tried commenting again, would you please check? thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️u/RadarFemef u/Parking-Act posted him https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hsrdxn/stop_celebrating_this_asshole_details_in_comments/ u/elementalvirago thanks! u/e | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:27 AM |
| 7 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️Totally! I don't know his name so I can't look for where I read about it but fuck him we shouldn't celebrate the bare Minimum especially if it's performative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:24 PM |
| 62 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️I hate seeing how he gets posted so many times. That dude routinely steals his slogans from other people, some bipoc women, and then puts the.on display like this, takes credit and usually more attention Entitled white dude. Fuck him. I think he even works for fuck Jerry who's whole business is stealing creative work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Am I too much of a prude? I am just not used to OLD culture.Piggybacking off this to ask: I turned 30 in March and my age range on OLD is set to 27-39.. what age range would you feel appropriate? I do have a thing for younger men but most are mature enough / in a place in their life for what I'm looking for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴Just checker her other videos and she's grade A delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:26 AM |
| 6 | And somehow she doesn't see the issueExactly this! Society expects more from teenage girls than from grown men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:23 PM |
| 13 | And somehow she doesn't see the issueIt's a video where a girl is making a shopping list for her boyfriend. She shows her own list which is generic words like broccoli then she shows the computer where she shows a list for her BF with word, brad, notes like what to look out for and for some even pictures of the product lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 15 | We love a man that calls out this bullshit 👏👏👏And the first dude keeps hitting on the women that comment his video to tell him off lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:30 PM |
| 23 | “but muhhh dick”In germany a "feminist" tampon/cup company (thefemalecompany) decided it would be a great idea to release a spot showing how to insert a cup. unfortunately: - they used an agency that stole the idea from someone that applied for a position and wasn't hired - released the video on pornhub and nope they are not responding to the pornhub critisism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 11:32 AM |
| 9 | A mid 30s man with no job who lives with his parents.I just love the "Maybe: Andy" part haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?Hah, besides not confirming, when they text AFTER the meeting time to let you know they'll be late - block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Congratulations, you played yourself.I think the Snapchat statueses are German "geöffnet" / "gesendet" -> "opened" / "sent" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:49 PM |
| 20 | The scrodacityI deleted tinder and OKC recently cause it's just a neverending shitshow like this and I realized it won't give me what I want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:38 AM |
| 41 | "I'm looking for monogamous and serious minded but for a girl who's cool to start casual [so I can put in next to zero effort and then easily leave when I find someone I like better]"From my experience it means dating with sex with no commitment so men feel they can blow you off any day without talking about it. Ghosting instead of making clear it doesnt go anywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:37 AM |
| 45 | "I'm looking for monogamous and serious minded but for a girl who's cool to start casual [so I can put in next to zero effort and then easily leave when I find someone I like better]"Isn't this the texbook definition of literal future faking lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:36 AM |
| 9 | is this a bad ultimatum?I don't think this will lead anywhere. He is already showing you who he is and what he wants, he will not magically change. Dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Is this normal?I hope you ditched him, that is unacceptable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Level Up- your favorite clothing sources?Do you have Monki over there? It's my personal favourite ETA: for shoes, maybe dr. martens? not the boots, they have more styles than that, even comfortable heels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:56 AM |
| 5 | "yes: i also Like younger women"Also: IN WHAT WORLD ARE HAND AND MOUTH NOT CONSIDERED A PART OF SEX oh yeah, straight men lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:13 AM |
| 5 | "yes: i also Like younger women"I dont think there is any word in any language strong enough haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:13 AM |
| 6 | "yes: i also Like younger women"This whole insistence to call grown women girls is giving me the fucking creeps It keeps reminding me of the whole "pedophile culture" I read about. We even do it in german but I really try not to do that myself anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:12 AM |
| 15 | "yes: i also Like younger women"Cause I haven't done my research about laws regarding privacy rights or whatever in Germany and I'm better save than sorry in that regard. He is located in Berlin though fyi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 23 | When a poly guy is trying to get you REALLY HARD to continue a conversationmy head hurts after reading this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:15 AM |
| 11 | My Dad Thinks Men are Giving Me Preferential Treatment When They’re Not and Is Weird About ItAfter you said that he doesn't comment when it is really obvious, I got the thought that maybe he wants to boost your confidence? If that is it then it's obviously in the dumbest way possible. Maybe he is the kind of person that thinks that you will base your sense of self worth on how many men wanna get with you and thus tries to convince you that more men hit on you than is obvious to you? I speak from experience: dads are idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Reconnect to old friendHas he mentioned how he is dealing with his anxiety? Is he actively seeking treatment and reflect on how it may affect how he treats people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 18 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.I hope she dumps him and you become friends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 08:06 PM |
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