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We've got a regular John Locke over here.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 07:33 PM
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I see your point. This should actually be no different than those scenarios, provided a man has a proper frame.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 05:32 PM
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That must be a fucking bitch. Divorce has been on my mind lately as a definite possibility, and I can only imagine the difficulty in needing to keep a lid on my shit during the process. Not easy for me, but part of being in frame. Something I need to work on. The anger flows, now.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 04:44 PM
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My father was and is a huge beta, so I had that going for me. My mother was most involved in my upbringing. My father never played sports with me, took me fishing, taught me to shave, or said a single word about dealing with women, because he has no fucking idea how to deal with women other than being friends to them. And he has a ton of fucking female friends too. Beta to the max. I think it was only through a desire to rebel in my teens that I didn't become a huge beta as well. Nope, that didn…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 04:07 PM
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Just look at any SOD app at a single mom over 35. 80% look like her.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 02:58 PM
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From a 40 year old, tired looking, overweight mom, seen on a SOD app. Typical: http://imgur.com/gWRgLUc
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 12:31 PM
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I'm an adrenaline junky, but I'm old enough properly fear jail, paraplegia, and excessive medical bills. I get my rocks off but I'm not fucking 20 any more.
/r/askMRP17/08/18 11:48 AM
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An unfuckable drone, or worse: lazy, complacent. Boring. No feel for her.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 02:22 AM
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Reading the post, I was just glad that I don't have this problem making things more difficult. It's hard enough dealing with this anger. That would fucking blow if some shitheel voices were telling me to fuck off all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/18 01:21 AM
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That's the fucking truth, brother. Glad I found the truth before I died. Or lived on with a dead bedroom for any more years. Now that wife has a better idea of my sexual needs, she is responding. Hell, she is sick right now (her first period post-birth control looms) but she's still complying with handjobs and a quick blowjob.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 11:53 PM
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I get it. I should have used different language. I'm not trying to change her, but show her what I need her to be if this is going to work. She seems to be picking up that these changes I've made aren't going away, and that I consequently have more options than I used to. She has sworn off her crushes, uninstalled messaging apps, and my snooping lately has turned up nothing. She's acting better with the kids and doing the tasks I give her. She is being subservient in bed when I initiate (though …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 03:38 PM
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Fuck, you're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/18 11:55 AM
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Oh it's clear from her ventures that she can go have sex. The thing is, she found that she couldn't find any interested men that reached her high bar. She's looking to best me, and although I did let myself go a little to shit over the last couple years, it was mostly my attitude that needed changing. Now that I actually tell her what to do when she needs it (and she well knows she needs it), she's given up on it. Not mention my own increased smv and some dread. But yeah, if she lowered her stan…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 09:04 AM
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You're being a giver tonight.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 02:28 AM
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I feel fortunate to have grown up without the distraction of cell phones. I tripped on shrooms and acid a few times back then, too. I do struggle with being present now at times, but I fear it would be all that much worse if I had had a smartphone at 14.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 02:15 AM
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Haha fuck. My wife at 38 was convinced she had enough smv to do better than me. Only because I had turned into a beta fuck. I'm turning that around and already she is changing her tune pretty quick.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 10:59 PM
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My wife is 38 and looks 33 top to bottom. But what the fuck do I know.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 07:43 PM
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An issue I'm having now: I'm on bumble and chatting with three women right now. It's nice to practice a little game, and I don't have any particular goals in mind right now. The problem is, I don't want to grenade my marriage right now, and I think that if - at this point - my wife finds out, she will ask for equivalence in being able to seek out other men. I will say no, but then what? I imagine it would be best at that point just to DNGAF. If I stop chatting with them, I've given up power. If …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 12:38 PM
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OYS #4 Background 39, wife 38, married 6 years, been together 8. Two young daughters. 5'9" 190#, body fat around 22% (navy method) Redpilled about two months ago. Read NMMNG, Reading Rational Male, Models, MMSLP, MAP. I read redpill/mrp subs every day. Married in 2012. In 2015, after moving and leaving my job for her career, I turned BP big time. I was staying home with the kids most of the time, which is fine, but without access to my passion (surfing) and without the rigor of a regular, fast p…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 12:10 PM
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This is really the advice I need right now. I love this place. I definitely feel that better things lie ahead. Incidentally, I bought Kay's books last week and am really into them. Great advice for me. The first part of yesterday was difficult, but as soon as I started engaging people, I felt back in my element. I was very terse with the wife, and she sent two very long emails, apologizing. This lessened the anger, and I feel like I can go back there and not be so Rambo with her. The great thing…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 12:45 PM
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I feel like this is pretty much where I;m at right now, except I don;t think she has cheated yet... but what the fuck do I know. She really, really needs my resources right now, so there's no way I can trust her sincerity at all. I still need to try to shift into my own frame. Tonight is a good start.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 12:47 AM
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WTF I'm new here and this OP really seemed the fuck off to me. 4 years ago? I swallowed the pill 2 months ago and yeah I still don't have my own frame and am generally fucked, but I can still see right through this bullshit.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 12:36 AM
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I've really been struggling with anger lately. I thought maybe I wouldn't get as angry as some I see on MRP during their journey. Because I wasn't really blue pill most of my life. I was a fucking shiftless, sometimes confident, sometimes weird fuck, but I never had really subscribed to the fairy tale. Until I did. But yeah, I'm fucking pissed now. I ate that bp shit up as soon as it was served to me. Plus I shut down so much of myself that made me interesting. Couldn't see it at the time. I'm w…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 12:01 AM
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I'm worried about the 'more money' part, myself. Since I left my decent job to move for her career, I've let my finances go to shit. With two small kids, either way it's going to suck. I'll just have to get my old job back.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:15 PM
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Yeah, I was pretty fucked up. Things I told her did not turn her on at all, that's for sure. While I'm still having frame issues, I have much more agency now. Now I'm angry. At myself, at her, at the social lies propagated everywhere. But when I'm not angry, I feel fucking good. I'm chatting on Bumble and flirting with women out in the world. I'm starting to get my financial and work shit together. I'm exercising and eating much better. Feels better than I've felt in over 5 years.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:48 PM
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She is off the pedestal, now. In fact, she's pissed at me because I don't want to interact with her and I STFU. I'm getting my shit done today and taking the fucking jet ski out, then I'm probably going to spend the night out. I've had enough of her dragging me into her frame.
/r/askMRP13/08/18 02:42 PM
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I'm really just happy that I found the pill at all. I've enough of my own frame now to know where my boundaries really are, and that I can execute if needed.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:01 AM
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Yeah, I definitely see this now. I've made it clear that if she wants to remain married, that there's no way I'm sharing her. She has agreed, and told me that if, in the future, she changes her mind, it will be with the full understanding that it will be over. And it will be, because here's no way in hell I'm putting myself in that position. Looking back on her hamstring and half assed equivocations, I'm in fucking awe. AWALT. I thought she was different once, boy was I wrong. But, I do believe …
/r/askMRP12/08/18 11:58 PM
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Another lie I spent 30 plus years basing my actions on. I seriously wany to take some of these young bucks under my wing and show them the fucking matrix they're in.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:42 PM
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I can see that being the case often, but my wife, I could have sworn she is sincere. But also I spent two years being a piece of ignorant shit. The proof is in the fucking pudding.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:41 PM
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My wife often tells me to express all my feelings to her. In the past I did that all too much. Pretty quickly I've found that keeping all that shit in causes her to be more deliberate in pleasing me. Clearly she doesn't know wtf she actually wants.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 01:35 PM
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Doesn't need religion to soothe his soul. His soul is soothed by being superior and accepting life for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 12:50 PM
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That post of yours was helpful. I've definitely had trouble deciding when to speak vs STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/18 12:59 AM
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I didn't even consider that as being part of my ego's defense. It's certainly possible. I'm already getting the equivalent of "I don't like how you've changed", I don't know if I need to (or want to) back off at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/18 09:19 PM
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I knew back then, intrinsically, naturally, that it was going to be a problem. Perhaps I should have said no. That would have been the end of it, but maybe for the better, overall.
/r/askMRP11/08/18 10:33 AM
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He read my post history. Or he is incredibly insightful. Yesterday I spent most of the day about 2 hours from home, in my hometown. I STFU and ignored most of her texts, answering only exactly what she needed to know. I'm feeling lately that it is just over. I'm pissed about some of the things she did over the last couple years and it's driving me away. I think she can feel it. I got home, helped put the kids to bed and immediately went for a run then did my exercises. She rented a movie and the…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/18 10:31 AM
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9 days and not much has changed. I'm doing better with STFU and now she won't stop messaging me today. But today I'm feeling pretty independent. I don't think she knows how close I am to being done with this bullshit. I'm not going to model a weak ass man to my children like my father did. Fuck no.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/18 06:31 PM
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Our marriage dynamic has swapped twice. When we met, I was the leader, no question. After we moved and I left my job and my passion (surfing) behind, I started to slide towards beta, big time. So now I'm on my way back. Yesterday I set some very clear boundaries with my wife. Specifics, which she needed. And she responded very well. Compliance with no questions. So yeah, it's clear she wants and needs a captain. As of now, the consequences aren't stated explicitly, other than if this doesn't wor…
/r/askMRP09/08/18 11:58 AM
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Update. I set some clear boundaries, and she is responding. I spelled out exactly what she is allowed to do regarding talking to and meeting other people. She may be disappointed, but this time she didn't say it. I believe she is contented to have this framework, so the guessing is out of the equation. No questions and no push back, just compliance. Her first communication with me afterwards was a naked photo. Good girl
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 11:27 AM
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I definitely was. She wanted an open relationship. And to join couples, or add a man or woman for a threesome. Some of it was exciting, but I decided against it. I'm personally much better now. That shit fucked me up, but I've come to accept RP philosophy as the general truth. This place may have saved my marriage or even my life. I'm willing to see if this works from here. If it doesn't, I'll be going my own way and sharing custody. Check my post history. I post a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 10:13 PM
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She definitely has that difficulty. I've learned many, but not all of, her cues.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 10:11 PM
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Wow. Thanks for the illuminating post. One of my first lessons from falling off the precipice that brought me here was the need to do things fully and commit. That's what I did before getting married, and for the first couple years of marriage. That whole time, my wife was chasing me. I was the surfer talking to the surfer chicks. The boss of a dozen young men and women in a busy, critical job. The one with various hobbies and activities I pursued. Then we moved, for her career. I left my job, I…
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:40 PM
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OYS #3 39 YO, wife 38 | Married 6 years, children 3 and 6 yo Read NMMNG, working on MMSLP and Models. Also reading Rational Male. Background I had a severe lack of strong male role models growing up. My grandfather was the best I had to go on, but he was French. And really old. And drunk a lot of the time. My father was/is around, and although he is a great man in many ways, he may be the most beta man I know. Thankfully, I aligned myself with many alpha personalities in school and learned that …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 07:11 PM
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Needed that. You're off a bit on some points, how could you not be without all the info. She knows I'm willing to walk, and she knows that she needs me around. I talk about missing living by the beach and surfing, etc. Yes, she has the only pussy in this relationship, but I'm also attractive enough and outgoing enough to find someone else her equal. If I couldn't, this wouldn't be working at all, she's too shallow. STFU is clearly something I need to work on. She's really good at getting shit ou…
/r/askMRP07/08/18 05:27 PM
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I haven't started tracking it myself, but I knew it had been recently. I asked her two days ago and she says she had ovulated a couple days prior. Good call though.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 05:19 PM
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Shit tests and comfort tests abound. I messed up a couple times by removing myself too abruptly (or for too long), but I'm getting better. The comfort tests I'm becoming more unsure about as I try to blunt my beta tendencies.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 05:17 PM
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... that you may not be removed from consideration at any point. There, did it my fucking self.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 05:07 PM
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That definite possibility hasnt left my mind. She made it clear that she needs me to fulfill her needs. I made it clear she also needs to meet mine. We are both aware that this may not work out in the end. We are adults that communicate well, and I trust her to be up front with me, because in my experience, she would rather put her cards on the table and move on, than play games. She told me on our second date that she would be open in telling me how she feels, because she kept too much to herse…
/r/askMRP07/08/18 04:11 PM
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Maybe. But as of tonight, things are pretty fucking awesome. We'll see.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:54 AM
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I'm learning as I go. I never expected these changes, and they happened so quickly. What I can say is I feel better now than I have in two years, and I fucked my wife for 3 hours tonight (and the 7th time this week), and afterwards we were laughing, talking, and being intimate like we used to before the kids.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:53 AM
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Yeah. It's not happening. I made it clear today that if she wants that lifestyle, it's not going to be with me in tow. That's not me, try as she had to convince me it could be. So now we see if she really wants a manipulated man or not. I suspect not but how would I ever know?
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:49 AM
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Thanks man, seriously. That thread you linked is a great read. I'm not sure really how fat I am. I definitely need to lose some fat though. I'll get my bf% tomorrow. And you're right. I do want to get bigger.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:44 AM
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That really distills the issue down. That's what has been bugging me so much, even if I couldn't quite see the issue that clearly. I told her that if she wants to stay married to me, I expect all the benefits including regular sex, and monogamy. She's on board. Or she's lying. I guess I would have to snoop to try to know for sure.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:43 AM
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She told me tonight that she was disappointed. Straight shooter. And she insisted I meet her needs in regards to being gamed and dominated. I told her that's what the fuck my plan is, but my needs will also be met. I did dominate her after the kids went to bed. I have a ways to go as far as style, but I'm still new to this. Still, we fucked for 3 hours and she was happy as a fucking clam after. This is all reinforcing that RP works. Or I'm an unwitting cuck - who fucking knows.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:38 AM
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Yeah, AWALT, but my wife doesn't want a manipulated man. As far as I can tell. These kids sure do look like me at least.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 07:30 AM
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That question is over. If she wants to fuck another man, then she can't stay married to me. We are working on it from there. She has expressed interest in other women, so a threesome may actually be in the cards. The problem is, she will then press the question: "what's the difference with adding a guy instead?". Despite the express boundary and the otherwise obvious answers to that question, her tenacious nature could likely mean the end of the relationship.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 03:05 AM
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No. I was at no point comfortable with the thought of my wife being fucked by another guy. I considered it for a while, read a book about jealousy, read poly blogs. I gave myself long enough to consider it and my mind never really wavered. Today, my wife told me that if I want to be her only one, I have to step it up in the game department: dates, planned domination play, etc. We've been doing this, but I do need to learn more about myself in that regard. After a few years of marriage and two ki…
/r/askMRP07/08/18 03:01 AM
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Definitely agreed in the STFU. That was one of the first things that really clicked with me, as I do talk too much, too often. We are great communicators, but that doesn't mean everything needs to be spoken or communicated at all. As of now, we aren't getting into the kink community any more. Maybe minds will change in the future, but as of now I've decided it's beyond my boundary and wife is willing to accept that. We will see where it goes from here.
/r/askMRP07/08/18 02:52 AM
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Jesus christ, finish the fucking story.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 10:39 PM
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Makes all the sense in the world. So, she asked me again last night where I stand on me joining another guy fucking her. One of her fantasies is to be double teamed. She asks as we are lying naked in bed and I'm touching her. Of course. So I told her that if she wants to stay married to me, this is my boundary. She asked "so this is still your ultimatum?" I said "yes, I guess it Is an ultimatum" No more words, we both fell asleep.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:12 AM
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Is this not the most concise distallation of RP theory I've read?
/r/askMRP06/08/18 02:12 AM
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My wife became fairly kinky, very quickly. Once she decided she was body confident and started exploring, all fucking bets were off. Maybe if you get your wife started, with subtle hints, she will begin to explore on her own. And then, maybe not, depends on the woman. If she's just not into it, you'll have to decide how important those aspects of sex are to you. I suspect, not very much, as long as you are happy otherwise, and with a HV partner.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 02:07 AM
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That's what has been bugging me. We stepped into this scene, which is drawing us both in more, but seems utterly incompatible with RP. I can tell you right now I'm not spitting up the red pill, so there is my answer.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 10:26 PM
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You're right on point one. I need to own that shit. I need a gym and we will pay for it. Or buy a set. Regarding boundaries, she has been made aware of the ones I do have, but I do clearly need to define and announce more of them. I did start by dancing, but not any more. My eyes have been opened. I have a way yet to go, but I feel a definitive change to DNGAF about this - I miss my old, self-centered life.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 10:06 PM
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That's a really great summary. I have been thinking long and hard about it, and one great thing about our relationship is that we are very open communicators. We established that before marriage. In all honesty, while some strange is appealing to me, in our context it would probably be a deal breaker for me to take that liberty and deny hers. She's made that fairly clear. However, in the past she had told me that i could have something on the side, this was long before she expressed interest in …
/r/askMRP05/08/18 08:16 PM
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That's good to know, I've only just started poking around there after devouring a lot of MRP/AskMRP.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 08:05 PM
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Thanks for the link. I still have much to learn. I'm going to dive deep into this.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 07:57 PM
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How the fuck can you enjoy yourself and fuck your wife into submission with a limp blue dick? If the finesteride doesn't work for you, stop taking it.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 12:46 PM
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We are on a kink site, basically Facebook with fuck pics.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 01:04 AM
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Definitely some of both. I used to surf, had my own place, was a a manager in charge of a crew of 15 and a large part of a multimillion dollar business, was more in shape, etc. Then all of that pretty much stopped. Yeah I was way more boring then. I even stopped most hobbies. After just a few weeks of hard work changing my perspective, I'm way better. Much closer to being in my own frame, fully. Enjoying hobbies, feeling great working out, learning, and improving. Falling back in love with surfi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/18 09:23 PM
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Unsure what you mean in this context. She generally respects my boundaries. She is also a bratty bitch on occasion, and she is well aware. Sometimes it's a desire to be treated rough in the moment (or later, in the bedroom), sometimes she is just a bratty bitch, but it's rarely serious. Plus, sometimes I'm a selfish asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/18 05:07 PM
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Damn. That was great to read, just now. I'm struggling with this a bit, my wife is pretty HV, plus I allow her to share (and I join in on) photos and video, and she has a number of 'fans' that she chats with. A couple of which we have met in person. Generally, I', not too jealous, but it does happen.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 10:41 PM
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I am leaving a bit out of my own situation. It's not salient or appropriate to explain every detail. But it sounds like you and I are on similar paths. When you responded to this, I was surprised to see the post was only 5 days old. Things continue to move fast, but on the good path. There's give and take. She has been pulling her weight lately, in regards to the kids (which she often is sub-par in), but does so begrudgingly. For example, I usually get up early with the kids so she can get much …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 10:25 PM
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We are both exhibitionists and kinky in general. We are in the scene and talk to others, mostly couples. She likes to collect compliments and chat with other men and women. I get jealous sometimes when she spends too much time messaging. When it happens frequently enough, or at inappropriate times, or at times that I've already set boundaries for, my response should be a clinical removal of my time and attention, allowing me to pursue work, hobbies, or work out - which I do. I shouldn't be jealo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/18 04:52 PM
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It may not be your fault she's acting like this, but it's sure your fault you're still married to her.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:27 PM
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Holy shit I'm glad I didn't marry any of the crazy bitches I dated in my 20s that acted like this. My wife is a handful, but she brings a lot of value and isnt crazy. Next this one, DON'T. MAKE. KIDS.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 01:25 PM
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Bumps, hell. For me it was a precipice which I fell off of this past father's day. Back on a plateau now, after a bit of work and a lot of contention and back and forth. Much smoother here, and a nice view. But it won't last without work and constant attention. And then, maybe not at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 06:28 PM
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I grew very complacent over the last few years. I should have known better, but it was insidious. Never again.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 11:44 PM
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So much in this post speaks to me. Married 6 years. Was pretty alpha when we met. 5 years, two kids, and a job later, and I'm in betaville. Turning things around now, but I never imagined being in this position. I had so many misconceptions about LTRs +children and marriage. Now I need to decide if I'm going to stay in this marriage or go back to the beach and surf again.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 08:12 PM
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OYS #2 Stats 39 - 5'10" - 195# Weight has been steady for a week, after losing a quick 7# two weeks or so ago. Waist is about 35, down from 38. My whole body is much tighter, and I'm seeing some really nice definition in my upper body. Feels awesome. I've been a surfer for about 10 years and have always been pretty active otherwise, but my diet was pretty shit. Still need to get a gym membership and buy some weights for home. Been doing daily exercises: push ups, planks, tricep dips, lunges prim…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 07:21 PM
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I don't think that they really believe it will work. It's more like a hail mary - may as well give it a shot and see if the guy is BP enough to crawl back.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 06:34 PM
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Sounds like you're on a good track, man. Keep her guessing, keep pushing her boundaries and yours. Keep setting a good example.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 02:29 PM
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Keep doing your things and I bet she will follow suit in regards to diet and exercise. If she really wants to first mate your ship, she will fall in line (you may have to make your expectations clear in this regard). Do you flirt with other women in front of her? My wife loves it when I make her jealous. How is the quality of the sex? Are you pushing her boundaries? She should feel like you are being dirty with her. Drop dirty talk bombs on her randomly. Whisper in her ear that you're going to f…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 11:58 AM
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It's up to you to create excitement in the bedroom and it's up to your wife to be accepting and to be a good fuck. You're boring. If you just aren't attracted to her anymore spin some plates or get a lawyer.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 11:30 AM
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Legal, financial, and child custody issues all typically favor women.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 06:33 PM
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Holy shit, that's a fine idea. I bet that will get her fucking wet on the spot. I occasionally quote the guy in texts, but doing it to her face is gonna fucking break her. Thanks, my man.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 04:08 PM
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14 years, 3 kids and no marriage? I wish I had your fucking newsletter before I got married 6 years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 03:02 PM
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That's a good follow up. My wife likes to be a fucking brat (to earn her spanking), and constantly feigns shit tests attached to requests. She is also a theater geek and loves to act that shit out. If the task is important, she will always get it done. If it's a personal request, she will give flak and then almost always comply. I give tasks all the time to guage her. Very useful for someone that is capable of hiding herself in plain sight.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/18 03:01 PM
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Thankfully, I don't really have those problems. If she has been good, and she's naked, she's getting fucked well. We fuck 5-7 days a week, often for hours. It's my side hustle that suffers, and I'll just have to make the time to get that shit done. Like now, instead of browsing RP shit. Sex over sleep any day. Also I've found that simply staying hydrated works wonders for my stamina. I'm 39 and in the best shape I've been in since I was 25. She loves it too, compliments all over the place after …
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:38 PM
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Man, wtf are you even doing here? I hope it's reading the sidebar and making some actual changes, and not offering 'advice' to betas from beta.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:24 PM
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I was just talking about that yesterday with wife. My biggest fear is being a quadraplegic. I could lose maybe one leg, possibly two and survive. But losing an arm and a leg or both arms would fucking devastate me. Surfing is my gig. I want a motorcycle, but I don't think I'll ever execute. Too much risk.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:54 PM
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Stick to Christian dating forums and gtfo of here if you cant even begin following the basic tenets of RP. I'm fucking new here and this shit already pisses me off. Now man up and find a woman that actually will conform to your weird sectarian desires, because you sure aren't going to change.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:01 PM
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Thanks, there is definitely a lot of optimizing I can do in regards to time management.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 04:36 AM
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You have a particular way of putting things in perspective.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 04:32 AM
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My dad is one of the most beta men I know. It's a fucking miracle there's any hope for me at all.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 02:39 AM
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Good problems indeed. Plan is to keep fucking my wife, and life, up the asshole.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 01:46 AM
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I'm fucking loving it here. Didn't get enough tough love growing up.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 01:44 AM
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Even I know that. And it's something I might have actually said 2 months ago.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:52 AM
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I have had to tell me wife several times to stop fucking buying me chocolate.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:28 AM
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My wife thanked me the other day for 'coming back' to her. It does help me to imagine what the fucker she married would do, that's the person she fell the fuck in love with.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 12:24 AM
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That's the kick in the ass I need. Eventually I hope to not need the kicks anymore. Youre partially right on the time sinks, but I sure as hell don't play video games myself anymore. Such a waste of time I can't enjoy them. I do play with the wife on rare occasions when she asks me to, once a month. I do sink time browsing reddit, though. The truth is, if I do spend two hours hustling, on a typical night after all is said and done, I'll be getting closer to 4 hours of sleep. But if that's what i…
/r/askMRP28/07/18 11:29 PM
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Yes. I am a little concerned about the speed at which things changed, but it was as much her doing as mine. You can check my post history for a little background if you care about that. She has had a sexual awakening in the wake of new found confidence in her appearance. That's essentially what spurred me to MRP. I will say that she would not be sharing her body with me in this way if I was still the pathetic, wallowing person I was mere months ago. She would just use her vibrator at best - at w…
/r/askMRP28/07/18 10:53 PM
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I'll also add that for me, OYS has been a huge part of it. I have a lot of responsibilities around the household in addition to work, side hustles, personal improvement, leisure activities, etc. I forget things. It's a problem I've had for a long time. For me, OYS is keeping lists and flowing them. Owning up to my mistakes verbally, eye to eye with my wife. That's all it takes. It has made me back into a man of action, and that is sexy as hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:26 PM
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While she didn't point out MRP in particular, the things she was advocating for align very closely with RP values: Doing things for one's self above others. Becoming better in every way. Being strong physically and emotionally, and paying tribute to those emotions but not letting them rule you. Making decisions and sticking to them. Always having a plan and a backup plan. These are some of the points I've garnered in my short time in MRP. She could see that I was becoming a man that she didn't r…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 03:07 PM
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I identify with you on a few levels. We haven't known each other as long, but I also turned towards beta and put on weight after a few years of marriage. I've had tremendous success very quickly by following the same plan. So fast I'm a little concerned. But she is also a quality woman, and I'm hoping that it's the relief at finally following the path she had pointed out to me. Like I said, quality. Great work, my man. Keep it up. No going back, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 12:47 PM
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Me too, my man. She pushed me to pursue my activities like I used to. Pushed me to develop my side hustles. Pushed me to OYS. She's a captain in her job, and doesn't want to be one at home too, not all the time.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 12:37 PM
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One of the first changes I instituted in my daily plan was to make the bed. She notices. She mentioned it the other day. Start routines. Don't bring them up, just do them.
/r/askMRP28/07/18 12:34 PM
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My wife was practically begging me to lead. A few years after marriage and the first kid, I fell out of my frame and headed towards beta, big time. She told me flat out she was tired of making decisions at home after doing so at work all day. I had gone from making many decisions at work (left that job to move for her career) to none, and that helped me fall out of my frame altogether. It took some time, but reading here a little and putting myself first has helped me recover. Yesterday she than…
/r/askMRP28/07/18 12:30 PM
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This is how I'm fucking my wife now. It's a long story that I probably won't dilvuge here in its entirety. The crux of the issue is that the status quo changed. I began down the path of becoming myself again. Found this place, the emulsion of male vitriol and good advice. Now we both fuck like it may be the last time, every time. It's fucking amazing. I'll never settle for bad sex again, and if it dies between us, she knows I'll find it elsewhere, divorce or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 01:20 AM
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There's a lot missing from this, yes. She recently discovered/decided that she has an abundance of confidence in her body and likes to show it off. She likes to talk to men that fawn over her. It bothered me a bit at first, but she's a good girl and respects my boundaries. I do have jealous fits here and there, but that's something I'm working on. I feel she should be free to do this, if it works for her. And it really fucking works. We have had much more sex, better sex, and she's actually inte…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 12:57 AM
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I'll check out the Navy Calculator. I really need to know my BF to keep oin the right path, I think. I did lose a fair amount quickly, and have been hovering at that range for a while. I'm adding muscle and losing fat now, but I need to have a better idea how much.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 12:42 AM
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Yeah, she spent a lot of time playing catch with her brother growing up. I was much more into baseball and soccer when I was in school. I can throw further, but she has the accuracy. She's better overall. Am I supposed to feel emasculated? Fuck that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/18 12:30 AM
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OYS #1 Background 39yo, wife is 38. Two young girls, 3 and 6. Married 6 years. Found the RP community about a month ago. I find there's a lot here that I need to let lie, but a lot of value here, too, and it has definitely helped my transition back to the person I was before getting married. Physical 5'9" 194# Not sure on BF. My goal is 180#, but with the muscle I've been adding, that goal may not be appropriate. Down from 202# a month ago. Need to make a move on getting a gym membership. Haven'…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 11:49 AM
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Thank for the essay. It's interesting. My wife, through a series of self-deprecating, male-serving relationships throughout her twenties and start of her thirties, committed to transactional sex early in her life. Now, after 6 years of marriage, she's seeking out validational sex under the guise of a sudden interest in polyamory. As a side effect of condoned activities to help her with this - sharing intimate pictures and videos, chatting with women and men in sexual ways - our sex life has gone…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 11:28 AM
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